Sad Reality of Solo Van Life (My Biggest Fear Came True)

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[@TheADHDen]

Hey mate, one thing that really helped me was... Getting a dog. It gives you that structure you're looking for, routine walks and feeds. It motivates you to go out and explore more , man's best friend. Literally. Rescue a dog and you'll save each other , I swear mate. 🙏🏼 Best of luck , you're doing great things.

[@sheenavaughan2717]

Yes I was going to say the same. I really struggle with not having a purpose in life. Enjoying something for me isn’t enough. After raising a family and having a manic but fantastic career where I felt that purpose, it’s now hard being on my own. I rescued a street dog who was due to be put to sleep. Moved house to the coast as I felt he deserved to be able to run free and play ball and really enjoy life. I’m converting my ancient van atm but tbh would not contemplate going solo. I will show him the sites and the wonderful new walks and beaches and fill his life with new experiences. That is my purpose, but he was the one who saved me. Ps 5 mins in and subscribed. Already you have helped me. By talking so honestly and reading the comments, it would appear that you have identified a very real issue. That was your purpose today, and you nailed it. Thank you 🌸

[@wargamerpainter6508]

i second jordans idea, getting a dog is probably the best decision you could make forget women lol. im a disabled ex serviceman and my hapiest years have been just me and the dog, i dont have the luxuey of your good health which would only enhance your experience, a dog gives you a routine, someone to care for, someone to talk to and an endless supply of love and genuine loyalty and affection. Even with my health issues i am out daily for a walk as my boy needs his routine and walk, plus he acts as a bridge a common focus for other dog people and im now part of a community of dog walkers. Even when im ill they phone and check on me, dog lovers are a great group to join. when out and about you get kids always wanting to say hello to your puppy no matter how old they are and before you know it you have parents joining the hello. trust me you rescue a dog he or she will rescue you back tenfold and you will never again experience loneliness. i cant even take a tom tit without mine following and checking im ok. Me im a jack russell man and have had two after a lifetime of dogs of other breeds, they are a cracking dog and well worth every minute you devote to them plus the ladies love a cuddly dog and ive made more friends and met more ladies than i ever have without the dog lol

[@bernardharvey187]

Yes, a dog is a brilliant idea, a whippet is a good choice

[@AlwaysLisaLisa]

Yesyes dog even a cat is good company

[@dagonmorningstar5819]

my landlord dont allow dogs i live alone and want a dog to get me out

[@listonflanders7458]

Will, take it from someone a lot older than you. Stop overthinking and start being kinder to yourself, you don't know what's ahead of you yet. You're young and got years ahead of you to figure out what you want to do, enjoy these quiet moments for what they are.

[@tomjakobs328]

Very good advice Buddy 👍

[@thomaskemp7362]

Easier said than done though

[@rschortinghuis5452]

Exactly. Wills doing what I am only thinking about. Sitting all day in an office, staring at a computer isn’t heaven aswell...

[@chrisjames9688]

Yeah that’s true

[@richprice482]

Well said.

[@45DidDid]

PS: Your purpose is to take those who cannot go places on trips with you. Those stuck with their boring lives, not going anywhere or disabled, who cannot get out. Reconsider, why you do this. It's great watching your journey. Any little thing is interesting. They may seem mundane to you, but are adventures for us.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for the kind and supportive comment 🙏

[@clearcutz]

@@WillsWhereabouts I found real purpose when I started to believe in a God that loves me and wants the best for me. You’re doing okay bud 👍🙏

[@steveharrison3007]

@@clearcutz, are you suggesting that he invents a friend. A dog is better.

[@clearcutz]

@@steveharrison3007 no I just want the best for him and you. I love dogs too and probably the best alternative…

[@aussiewatchman8112]

So nicely said - respect and agreed

[@curzone]

After 8 years on the road, I’ve learnt that this lifestyle attracts people that are a bit damaged… Solo van life, boat life, etc. isn’t for most people - it’s isolating, and that’s the point… The majority of people who do this lifestyle alone want to be alone for a reason, usually to escape from some kind of trauma. Not all of us do this lifestyle by choice. Eventually you adapt and learn to live independently with yourself, by yourself. Although, it’s not necessarily something that’s easy to get used to. Van life doesn’t necessarily mean a cheap and easy life, especially in the U.K. Even a simple life can be complicated - you still need to deal with the normal stuff - work, illness, old age, money, etc… Also, maintaining and upgrading a vehicle costs money - it’s usually your biggest expense - especially when it all goes wrong (and it will go wrong). Sometimes you can be off the road for months waiting for repairs. Adapt to circumstances and use that time to relax at hotels, retreats, Airbnbs, etc. and plan ahead both mentally and financially for such eventualities - build an emergency fund. Sometimes circumstances demand that you escape the lifestyle for a short period - and you’ve just had a brief glimpse of that inevitability when your van glitched - roll with the punches, keep an emergency fund, use it to pamper yourself a little when things go pear-shaped. Oh, and keep a list of good auto-recovery drivers and mechanics in your contacts. 😉

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for all the very thoughtful advice 🙏

[@tinyrollinghome]

I was excited , after two years of research on how to do Van life ( research from the comfort of home is way different than living it) I left work and cheap rent to do it. At 60 it was time to stop trudging. The first mini van lasted two weeks, the second; a vintage van, lasted 4 months and cost a lot in repairs while I travelled in it. It was lonely, the van community on Vancouver Island was to me, one that was a bit hostile as very few even said hello, though I met two wonderful people, one from France and one American and enjoyed conversation and a night under the stars together. As a female, it sucked that there were weird men stalking me at parks where I went. Overall though, I explored this beautiful island that I love and first discovered 33 years ago. I'm now in a temporary place for the winter, very nice digs and planning for spring. Being with my dog has helped and having an emergency fund, vital. You have great advice to impart and I am not quitting van life. It came down in the last three weeks to car camping in a very small vehicle I bought, so my van life dream took a wild turn :)

[@chuckshartz2722]

@@WillsWhereabouts girls have such a huge advantage too. They can just pimp themselves on the internet doing cam shows... basically tricking single older men into believing that they're single, when In fact, their hippie burnout handlers are recording the entire time. It's pretty disgusting when you think about it. But it's those very same girls who would talk shit on a single male who's doing the van thing by themselves. And these girls who claim to be going solo... I don't believe one word of it. It's much too dangerous out there, and they would be the first to break from lack of social contact

[@Globetrotter-1]

@@WillsWhereabouts Face it mate, you're just a wimp. 😂 Stop fussing and simply enjoy life. Being solo certainly doesn't mean being lonely or without purpose. There's plenty of time to enjoy other people's company...but often the best company is your own. You need to understand yourself and then everything in life will run smoothly free of stress. 😉 Live life like each day is your last.

[@kathyannk]

@@Globetrotter-1 ​ Sorry, but I fail to see how living life like each day is your last is good advice. Nobody would be happy knowing it was their last day. And calling someone who’s down and out a wimp is unkind and unhelpful.

[@ari.voutilainen]

At this point of the story, the knight needs a quest. What would it be, Will? 30 days, 30 pub parkups and interview a regular in every one. Convoy with a fellow solo vanlifer. Learn and teach us a new van kitchen meal or cooking trick every week. Drive to the Finnish Arctic circle to meet Santa and take a photo of the Northern lights - in the winter. Camp in the south/east/north/west points of the British island. 🧙🏼🚐

[@dayo3938]

Great idea..

[@CoCre8ors]

🙌🙌🙌

[@markclayton626]

That sounds like good advice, destinations to be chosen by Will, he needs a plan Stan.

[@AHumanEndeavor]

Awesome ideas!! Slay your dragon Will

[@shaankhan9708]

Good idea!!!!

[@jaybwanders]

Hi Will I know exactly where you coming from. I'm 38 and last month my Mrs of 10 years decided she wanted to split up to work on herself (nothing I'd done wrong), that was on a Sunday 3 days later I was let go from my job, so I lost my job, Mrs and home in 3 days and at the grand age I am, I had to suck it up and move back in with my parents..... bit embarrassing. So I decided to convert my vehicle I have (Freelander 1) and hit the road for the first time on my own as Id always travelled with friends or the Mrs. It is tricky, I find the days arent so bad Its the night times that get you, you need to embrace the crazy in your head accept that its a part of you and work through it , little bit by little bit and eventually you'll find your inner peace. I feel this experience maybe a little bit more raw due to the fact you recently broke up with Wallace but now is the perfect time to work through all that and find yourself again. hoping you start feeling better soon bud and remember theres only one day a week you can do anything with and thats today, yesterday is gone and tomorrow isn't promised chin up bud

[@steviedieselblood334]

Great comment JayB. I guess many would be in the same boat as you and others. For me at 48 and split after 21 years of marriage and now living on my own. Work is work but its the evenings as you spoke about. Also having time off work for holidays etc can be something of a daunting experience. Ive found that having a daily routine or a a plan ahead works for me. I admire your spirit in the Freelander, what an amazing experience.

[@rubblestacker]

Yes mate few yes ago over course of 2 months lost parents , job and relationship broke down , man always needs van )

[@seaotter1975]

I don't live the van life, but I am a trucker driver here in the states. Life on the road solo can be depressing. I'm married so time away is hard for both of us, but it's also nice to have some of that alone time. After being on the road for 2 weeks, I'm ready for home and to have some husband time. I can only imagine not being married solo out there is for some pure torture, while some are happy being alone. Nice to see van life from someone who doesn't show only the good stuff. Stay safe and embrace this time you have now.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for this kind and thoughtful comment, appreciate it and I hope you and your husband have some quality time together when you are back from working on the road!

[@benstobbs82]

Will, I think you've hit the nail on the head for many people across the country. Loneliness is a hard thing to deal with. Why not use the channel to explore some of the charities and work people do and give out some positive messages.

[@daveramm43]

Give it time. I’m a solo traveller ( after 28 years travelling with partner/ kids etc.) and I hit the loneliness wall often when I’m travelling. What I find helps me is to have a plan…. An itinerary if you like, write down a route and stick to it. There’ll be great days and there’ll be shit days… it’s life brother. When you hook up with like minded people you’ll feel more positive I’m sure. I’m happily a solo traveller now but I know I’ll wake up sometimes and feel down for no good reason. Just hang in there. Your content is awesome btw.

[@45DidDid]

I agree about the itinerary. Everywhere you go needs a vlog! - and hey you will eventually earn from it. Even commenters are friends!

[@ElectricityTaster]

Why don't you loners get together, form some sort of nomad communist commune, and travel the world as a tribe? How hard can it be?

[@artdogg50]

@@ElectricityTaster I think that would probably defeat the purpose. I think a lot of people that are especially extroverted aren't often prepared for the solitude that comes with being on the road all the time.

[@ElectricityTaster]

@@artdogg50 But I'm talking a commune, like a nomadic tribe. Basically burning man just much smaller and year round moving from place to place.

[@HonestWatchReviewsHWR]

You don't need to apologise Will. This is a big life style change you've made, so it's going to take time to adjust. I'm sure I speak for everyone, when I say that part of the reason we love your channel, is because you are always honest and authentic. You don't "fake it for the camera". I'm sure that once you start travelling proper and meeting people along the way that you will feel much better about things.

[@amytaylor1909]

This is probably one of the most honest can life videos I have ever seen. I truly hope you find happiness man. A lot of people feel that same feeling right now.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks for the support 👍🙏

[@draigygoch]

We all love your content, you may feel alone at time of recording, but we feel part of your life when we see these videos, please keep it up, we love it

[@WillsWhereabouts]

I appreciate that, thank you

[@tylerurian]

This is one of the rawest, and realest videos out there. Thank you for you honesty and vulnerability. This is a side of van life that many people, including myself, need to see -- especially when deciding whether to embark on a van life journey or not. Know that this video is meaningful and helpful in many ways, to many people, and your suffering was not in vain. I hope you discover your path and find the love & connection you are looking for. Thank you, and Peace.

[@keithsyers5833]

Very honest and true

[@coffeelink943]

Where his GF? I thought she moved in with him

[@danielnicholson9491]

Very sweet what you said here to this young man .

[@CARLIN4737]

cry cry. all of you, seriously. grow up.

[@brigittewalden9226]

Exactly, I'm getting ready for a 3-4 month trip and I've only camped for 10 days. I'm a bit nervous about being alone for that long. I will have me Emma, my dog, with me, so not entirely alone.

[@Scotter4536]

Being an American, I have no idea how the National Trust works, but perhaps they may have seasonal jobs or something that would allow you to go to interesting places for a short period of time, build some community, make some friends, and then travel for a few months until your next gig. Maybe even some part-time volunteer work would give you some kind of purpose and potentially content for your channel.

[@ewanwilliams1878]

Hi Will love ur videos brother, I feel exactly the same as you when it comes to being alone as I bought a van and started travelling but instantly felt like I wasn’t enjoying it as I had no one to experience it with, even in general becoming an adult and not having anyone to grow with in life is hard and I hope u find someone or find a way to become content with your own company as I hope I can, as a fellow male I love ur approach to talking so openly about this and we all should take a leaf out of your book and talk about things, stay strong brother we’re all here for each other 👊

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you Ewan for the kind and supportive comment, I hope you find your happiness too! 🙏✊

[@jameshollyoak8230]

You can be lonely in a crowd, being on your own makes you think more or overthink , learn to just go with the flow and what happens happens , love your videos BTW

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you 🙏

[@artdogg50]

I think a lot of people hitting the road full-time are finding out they aren't cut out for that sometimes part of it.

[@aaronyt2819]

When travelling or being alone, don’t get in your head too much. That’s the wrong thing to do. Try to enjoy what you’re doing and not think too much

[@Flash685.]

Also this alone time allows for the scariest part of us to come through and be processed, trauma and shadow self. It’s amazing that you’re doing this and you will process all those negative thoughts and worries and be a far happier human for it! Your future self will thank you! Not a lot of people can do this nor are they are open and raw about it! Please give yourself some compassion on this amazing but tough challenge you’ve set yourself! 💕

[@bigmoiya5722]

Look in the shadows of the mind and find yourself…

[@AHumanEndeavor]

Awesome ⚡️

[@juliandirse4253]

One of the realest videos I’ve ever seen, keep fighting the good fight man

[@liambenner845]

Today this video in particular has really resonated with me. I live on my own and feel alone most of the time with a real lack of purpose as to where I’m going and what I’m doing. I often think about converting a van and hitting the van life road too and to hear you speaking openly about the unspoken side of van life is refreshing! I guess the take away is, as you say, to embrace it. Embrace the time alone to experience what you can and if you ever fancy an adventure I’m sure there would be plenty of people wanting to join you! I for one wouldn’t hesitate!

[@ianbess5042]

Exactly the same here!

[@spencerdavies5715]

Totally admire your honesty. I mainly travel solo and there are many times it is lonely. The worst points are when the scenery is spectacular as you want to share it with someone. However, the more solo travel you do, the less it is an issue. Love your videos, and hey even if you didn’t do vanlife anymore, would still watch your channel, because of you being you. Keep up the great work.

[@Flash685.]

You’re trying too hard! You need to just be, come out your head and settle in your heart. You’re a beautiful soul and absolutely not ungrateful just navigating a difficult time in your life! We all crave unity/community but right now things are wonky in this world! They will change for the better and you will find YOU again 💕

[@peaceeunoiaofficial1304]

What a beautiful 💭 and comment ❤🇳🇵

[@leedavis7663]

These videos are great ,easy watching ,you are easy to watch ,you just got to find a new partner in crime and that will come!

[@bigmoiya5722]

Great advice…

[@nfroening4316]

Yes it's nice to share those moments together but it's also nice to meet new people, new ideas, new experiences, new everything! You have done an amazing job on the van and you have such a positive mindset when it comes to broadening your horizons. There's loads out there to see, experience and enjoy - good on you for taking the plunge!

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for the kind words and support 🙏

[@Marc-xc9uo]

@@WillsWhereabouts you don’t sound ungrateful mate. I understand what you are saying. You want someone to share it with.

[@emmazingej]

You've come a long way since we met my man! You're a major inspiration for so many people, look how many comments and views and support you've received already! And some really fantastic advice out there too. Don't apologise, I think we all rather appreciate your honesty, you're not alone in feeling alone. It's a very natural thing to feel, and you won't feel like that forever, nothing is permanent, remember to try and not want and crave for anything, and try to be as present in the moment as you can be. Acknowledge how you feel, recognise it, feel it and you will notice that it passes. Keep going and do what you're doing, while you have this fantastic opportunity. Take care, love always x

[@Bodsynffc]

Will, I discovered your channel by chance when you was stealth camping in your car. I've binged watched all your van build series and its inspired me , you have inspired me, one thing I admire about you will is that you will give anything a go. You dont realise but you are a true honest bag of soul. Dont ever apologise for videos that you feel are not up to scratch. Us subscribers love watching what you get upto. I know its difficult but stick with it pal. You have no idea how much joy you bring to people like me. Maybe do a series on campsite reviews?? Keeps you motivated and keeps Mary on the road and we also get to hear your "amazing" singing!! 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@tataniajane2304]

I get how u can be in most amazin place but still dont feel content, Life feels lonely at times when goin solo but things always change- times never stays same so go with it and know things can change overnight

[@LaureninGermany]

Comments like this restore my faith in people. How nice of you to send him some support. It does make a difference, you know.

[@WormsEyeView]

I think it's good that you are being so honest about the other side of van life

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks for support 🙏

[@gregnewlands4544]

Everything you touched on is exactly what is holding me back from van life. especially the part of going somewhere really nice and feeling alone or missing sharing the experience. good luck brother.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks Greg 🙏

[@hayleyobeirne7754]

Your honesty is nice to hear. I also understand where you are coming from. You want to enjoy it with someone else. Share the experience. It’s understandable completely

[@laurelleburgham]

Hey Will, I have watched lots of your videos and love each and every one of them. Your personality shines through and so does your love for people and places. You inspire me greatly and wish I was doing what you were doing. You will find your way and your purpose in time - you have everything and more going for you. Thank you for being so real. Laurelle ♥️

[@jamieduffa]

Keep going bro, big up to Mav for his inspiration to people out there doing van life

[@newforestobservatory9322]

Thank you so much for producing this highly informative vlog. Must admit this is something I would never have considered and you have probably just prevented me from having a major disaster. Thank you again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@talonsoftheraven6693]

Very important vanlife video to watch . full of humility, honesty and keeping it real. Top notch content from a top notch bloke! Keep up the great work Will !

[@arnaudletort84]

Hi Will, First of all, thanks for your video as I always looking forward to seeing them. This is part of my Sunday evening routine. When we are in a bad state of mind, everything seems much darker than it really is. In those moments, it's not a bad idea to not believe everything that we think and that our brain tells us. I'm convinced that at some point when you will be in a better place mentally, you will see things differently. The key is to stay positive. Again, thanks for the content. Stay strong.

[@AIDSOOOO]

Hey Will, I totally get what you are going through. I love the odd day or two away on my own in the van. Then there are times I feel like I am on my own driving aimlessly and nothing has a purpose if I am away too long on my own.

[@larrybyrne4082]

I really enjoyed watching your videos it just shows that your very honest about what the way you feel at the time keep making more videos 👍

[@markrut2933]

Keep at it Will …. Your one of only a few van life channels I watch … always truthful and down to earth and as is … I admire you thru all your ups and downs ….. keep at it Bro

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you Mark, appreciate the support and kind words! ✊

[@BugnBuddysMom]

Just found you today. Subscribed because I love seeing the UK from someone's adventures. Having a whole entire other person in the van would get old and crowded...fast. I think you've gotten some great advice. Definitely plan things out ... loosely if need be, but having a plan gives you a nice little life map. But a dog or cat fills the void. Taking them on walks, (yes, cats can be harness/leash trained), will bring people to you! Be kind to yourself, you are doing what so many of us can't. You got this!

[@RH-xf4vf]

Thank you for being so honest Will. Loneliness is really tough and solo van life really brings it out. The person telling you not to overthink it just doesn't understand. I've been through this myself many many times in life and it's hard. We need social interaction and you're clearly a sociable person. Is there a balance you could find by having a base where you've got a social community and the van for getting out as well from time to time?

[@coffeelink943]

What happen to his GF? She was with him

[@jimfairbrother1687]

One of your best videos mate. Being real isn't something you need to apologize for. You do you man!

[@TheModernGamerShow]

Keep being honest with yourself and us. I really appreciate it. I loved that you watched a video that had MAV on it. He's a great bloke. All the best man

[@user-xg8bn5bb7s]

Just some ideas and suggestions to make it less lonely and more challenging (having something to focus). 1. Once a week or a fortnight make a public invite to your followers to meet at some point of your route 2. That point in the route you could choose it with a wee challenge in mind e.g. a wee trekking on the area or a wee activity to try. This will allow you to meet people regular, like when you were backpacking plus challenge you to do some research to find an activity on the area you are planning to explore. All the best as always

[@gravic48]

I was going to suggest meeting up with followers would give purpose and people to share experiences with.

[@philstravels]

Yes that is a great idea. It ticks both boxes - helps with the loneliness and gives utube content exploring the area etc. You never know, you might meet someone you really like!

[@shhhaua9426]

Cheer up! Could be worse … u could be alone stationary in an house all by yourself like me 🤙🏾 You inspire others to get out there and enjoy life via Vanlife !

[@MS-ow5is]

Stay positive mate everything falls into place . You rock and your content is brilliant keep it up and try not to worry about that which you can’t control

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks Mike for the supportive comment ✊👊

[@rahnipethick5592]

Hey friend. I'm two months into my solo van life, and feeling word for word like this. Thank you for this video

[@trudysimms1564]

Hello Will. I have someone very close to me who has suffered from mental health issues his entire life and now has dementia to contend with. Life is cruel. I am torn wanting to help him constantly but also giving him his own space. He isn't very sociable as a person, but at the same time suffers from dire loneliness too. The key is a good life balance. Having time travelling on your own could be what suits you one day but you feel lonely, depressed and low the next day. People telling someone with mental health problems to basically 'pull their socks up' is so unhelpful and absolute bulls@#t. I think you need someone to travel with you some of the time, not continually just occasionally. That way you have the best of both worlds and get your own space when you need it. All the best of luck 👍

[@ExtraordinaryLiving]

Yea, am sure there are such groups in Will's country (UK?) ... but there are many van-traveler communities and caravan groups in the USA, just look online. CheapRVLiving has a great and large community here in the USA.

[@Thedoctorlee999]

I started solo 15 year's ago and the first year I felt like I went mental I literally broke, broke my self in then it all made sense the good times never stopped. Hang in there pal it gets better and better 😃🤟

[@sarah8592-t1b]

I found your videos today and they've been so raw and helpful for someone like me who's about to embark on this same journey!

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Welcome aboard and thank you ✌🏼

[@JunglesTravels]

Keep your chin up bud, you'll find your feet in time. Genuine and honest vlog, enjoyed it 👍

[@davec8032]

Will... have you ever thought about getting a dog? I think it would bring you that companionship and routine your looking for.

[@SherryAnnOfTheWest]

Dogs are wonderful companions, but then he's "tied" and can't do much that the dog can't do ... that eliminates a lot of hiking trails and attractions, restaurants, etc. You really can't leave a dog alone in the van much of the time except for very short periods in perfect weather. Also, since he wants to explore Europe, it can be difficult to get a pet in and out of other countries due to quarantine or legal restrictions on animals.

[@melvsreacts]

@@SherryAnnOfTheWest there's alot of dog friendly places or dog day cares if you need it.

[@melvsreacts]

I just suggested this too, a dog could be a good addition to the channel especially a rescue 😁

[@alinver]

Rescue dog 👍

[@victoriagoodier8209]

Our dogs love our camper and they are wonderful company. You find that a lot of people stop to talk to you when you have a dog especially if they have one too.They also make you smile every day. I think this is a great suggestion.

[@marymasdon1175]

I’ve been a widow a long time and take forever granted my backyard and surroundings like what you see on your travels! I love being alone by my fire, glass of red wine and good book. Love will find you do stay positive! Enjoyed you being real about Van Life! I have a whole new respect now!😃🌟❤️

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you Mary for the kind comment 💜

[@vetechgrl2000]

I so appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. The scenery is stunning. I'm a new subscriber and I'm looking forward to what you post in the future. I hope you find what you are looking for

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks and welcome 🤗

[@MisatoBestWoman]

This is the first video from your channel I've ever seen but I send you biggest hugs we're all going through this life its crazy but I believe you are going to make it through I believe in you!

[@trippersnipper9312]

you need a little dog to enjoy everything with you

[@minifanblade7869]

Or a rubber doll 😏 😜

[@Elkott]

I said this last week, dogs or cats are amazing companions

[@18paulFatboy75]

Keep your head up Will and never apologise for how you're feeling , reach out to other van lifers and try meet up with them. It can't be easy being on you're own all the time. Keep the videos coming & good luck with your journey 👍🏼 😎

[@MissyQ12345]

When you were parked around all those other people, you could have walked around and said hello! You never know what great people you might find.

[@everydaytherapist7315]

Such an honest account. I always wondered about this. I can imagine the anxiety, the fear, the hurt, when you're looking out at the water and feeling empty. Solo van life seems to exaggerate emotions.

[@leewest6185]

Hello from New Zealand we love your videos keep up the good work your awesome!

[@allanteegl4021]

Hey I've been doing van life for 14 years now at first I was like you but as time goes on and I started seeing more and more of how much fun and rewarding life is on the road now I'm glad if I don't see anyone for days keep going you will find great happiness

[@WillsWhereabouts]

This is good to know thanks for sharing

[@s1dew1nd3r4]

full on living in the van?

[@s1dew1nd3r4]

@@WillsWhereabouts do you live full time in the van mate?

[@allanteegl4021]

@@s1dew1nd3r4 hey yeah now just over 14 years and couldn't be happier

[@s1dew1nd3r4]

@@allanteegl4021 incredible that! Do you tend to stay local to a certain place or just move about

[@Hazmop]

I don't usually comment on videos, but after watching this I felt compelled. This has to be one of the most valuable videos I have watched so far. I see A LOT of myself in your experience. I'm still not sure exactly what that means for me and my desire to give this lifestyle a go, but you've really shared something real, and for me personally, something that really hits home. For that I am honestly grateful! I don't usually subscribe to many channels either, and I'm sure one person subscribing isn't going to change the world, but as a way to show my appreciation I'm hitting that big red button! Haha keep up the good work, mate!

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you Harrison for the lovely comment, really appreciate you taking the time to write it and to subscribe 🙏

[@Garage_88]

Will keep it up! KZbin needs more channels like yours. Raw and real. Great channel and always look forward to your videos!! Try and off grid trip for several days. Would love to see that!

[@gabriellethe.greatt]

Thank you for your honesty !

[@alananderson94]

being as real and honest as you are makes your content so relatable and interesting beyond just van life , thankyou

[@joemd5043]

Head up Will, I'm sure everything will work out in the not too distant future! I think sometimes being in situations and forcing yourself into things your not 100% comfortable or happy in can sometimes help you to realise what you actually want and help shift your focus on to something more positive. Also, what's the name of that campsite in Devon? Looked class!

[@Jeffrey.shorts64]

I'm not an avid follower of your channel and somehow stumbled on this video, I've watched some of your stealth camping in your car and some of your van build video's. Sometimes we forget to look back at how for we have travelled on this journey call life. We forget to look at how much we have learned and how much we have evolved as a person. We can be so busy that we forget to give ourselves enough credit, you have achieved so much in the last few years and you are an inspiration to so many people who watch your channel. Thank you for your honesty and authenticity in this and other video's, enjoy and share the love Brother.....🤗🤗🤗💚❤️💜🙏💫💫💫💫

[@AnomaLeOverT.I.M.E]

You are on the right path Will...confusion, self-doubt, rethinking, sometimes over-thinking, (re)gaining a sense of self, a little more doubt, then certainty, then ebbing and flowing, you're there, you're there, keep going 💚💚💚💚

[@lizzwhitehouse9120]

I will say to you, thank you for being so honest. Talking about how you actually feel. As a solo van person, I get what you mean. I don’t live in my van I just travel alone. I do have my dog and she is the best company ever. If I didn’t have her I’d say I’d feel the same as you. But I have those moment when I see couples and people together, and i feel alone. I Wonder why I’m doing this, why Iv chose to do this. But for me it’s a holiday. If I Waited around for some one I’d be stuck at home all the time. So a dvd on the telly in my van always makes me feel a little better. I think it takes time. But if it’s not for you it’s not for you. Try not to let it eat away at you. For now take one day at a time, enjoy what you have, in time you will just click. Either it’s defo not for you, or it is. Your van is lovely you have done a great job, just enjoy your hard work, relax and remember to just…. breath. ~X~

[@hallmanager4911]

You really hit the nail on the head. Humans have a need to feel part of a group, to live with purpose and to contribute and share with a community. When you are constantly on the move and alone, you are denying those elemental aspects of your human nature. Of course, there are some people who love to be on their own and constantly on the move, but I think they are the exception.

[@theresawright3842]

It looks beautiful there. I hope you’re feeling better. I’m thinking of doing van life but I’m not sure of all the alone time Things are more enjoyable with a companion.. wish you the best. 😊

[@hopet2552]

I’m with someone else who said it… go easy on yourself. Along the road, you will not only meet crazy people but you’ll meet that community you are seeking. Give it time. Also, sometimes having no plan is the plan. If you need more of a routine,create one. Go to a spot for a while and work at those spots. For instance in the states they have programs for travelers… you can work at a park, camp sight, farm, etc. Look into it. Open yourself up to other travelers as well but use your instincts because some travelers aren’t good energy. Another thing, and I agree with someone else… get a pet. It will give you a companion and a schedule. Good luck and safe travels.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks for all the great tips and advice I rally appreciate it 🙏

[@andrewlangridge8619]

I think you know the answer m8, you're not cut out for it. Its just how it is, all of us have had an experience of finding out who we are in various ways and we are and aren't cut out for. You're on a journey m8. Good luck!

[@markclayton626]

I’d say he is cut out for it as he’s taken two big steps, purchased and built the van, and number two he has hit the road, he just needs a plan, where to go, tour an area to build up a vibe in the area, KZbinr etc, then spend some time with the lots of people who will want to host him etc, he chooses who and will make some fun viewing.

[@hippychicken82]

I think that's a bit harsh ! He's been doing it 3 days hardly time to say he's not cut out for it! He's trying to find his feet, he's just being completely honest about that which isn't what usually happens in van lifers content !

[@markclayton626]

@@hippychicken82 I agree, he’s gone a lot further than most just by what he has done to the van and the content he has put on here, I think he’s totally cut out for it, just needs to find the right path, as we all do, he will achieve it, I’m confident of that from following his vids for quite some time, he’s a cracking fella.

[@alangregg7450]

Big hugs fella. , we are here for you.

[@ajandtheshopkins1015]

Keep going, you'll find your Grove and love it. A dog is a great motivator and a lovely friend 😊

[@leeg3898]

completely understand Will, without a partner it all seems a bit pointless, making memories dont really work on your own, ive been finished with my children's mother for over 20 years and only a couple of18 month relationships in all that time (quite a few much shorter ones) and i really do understand your frustrations, keep your chin up mate, youre a good bloke, im sure youll find someone soon to share your adventures, all the best

[@SunJake]

Hope you're okay Will 🙏

[@chanaplotke6218]

I like your van life channel. I love your singing and music playlist. I'm sorry you are feeling down, I hope you find a way that makes you happy whether it is van life or something else.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you

[@callumbar]

I think you articulated some of the challenges of van life really well. It's nice to see someone admit and be vulnerable regarding them. I'm about to move into my van and am torn between the freedom it offers and the lack of community. It'll be interesting to see how you reconcile these!

[@ballisticdan9135]

I get what your going through. I've spent years travelling on my own and sometimes it can be lonely. Especially with language barriers. I used to stay in hotels on my own as I had a bit of money. Occasionally I would stay in hostels and it was a great way to meet people. Still great friends with people I met over 20 years ago. I thought I liked my own company.....turns out I like being around other people as well.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks Dan for sharing your experience with me, it’s amazing what we find out about ourselves when left to our own thoughts! ✌️

[@brucemoulding3114]

Will, the wife and I have been watching you and your adventures for years. We have a campervan so tend to live our dream through you. We feel your pain regarding the loneliness. We live in South East Devon and would love you to come visit us, we'll cheer you up. Get in touch pal. Bruce Moulding 👍

[@sharonbrown8872]

Take advantage of this if you’re in the area Will. What an amazing gesture

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Hi Bruce, thank you to both you and your wife for this lovely offer, I have only just seen this comment sorry and am now out of the area, but I really appreciate it 🙏

[@pjbradley1749]

What a lovely gesture Bruce

[@JackieFerrer08]

I like your honesty as often others do it to make videos for the money and exaggerate about it. And it is nice to see that actually.

[@ChilledOut]

What is meant for you will find you. Just know that you are not alone in this. Looking forward to your next video Will.

[@veestar9837]

Never apologise for being real. I watched this and resonated with it so much. I built my van with all the thoughts in my head that life was going to be fun and laughter on the road...It was only when I realised that there is only so much fun you can have alone that it hit me that van life solo may not be for me. I have lived for 28 years alone (a few small relationships along the way) so I am no stranger to being alone. But van life is different as you have expectations of seeing and experiencing beautiful places and there is no doubt about it, when I am sat at the top of a beautiful mountain, I ache to have someone enjoying it with me. Don't apologise for being human. We are not built to live life alone. I, for one, appreciate this video because it has made me realise I am not alone in feeling these feelings. I hope you manage to embrace this feeling of being alone and it gets easier for you. Please know that your video may be a downer, but its real and genuine and will help others like you and me to see we are human NOT ungrateful x

[@darkangellew]

Mate if I had a remote job, I’d come keep ya company as it’s my dream to do up a van & travel everywhere!

[@WillsWhereabouts]

✊✊

[@vivalachocolat1]

So real, so relatable. Kudos

[@BaslowKiss]

Thanks for your honesty Will and explaining your thought processes. “Life is what happens when you're busy making other plans”

[@AyyRainer]

my guy, take a deep breathe, sit for a moment, close your eyes and JUST listen to your surroundings, you're jumping yourself in too soon with VERY VERY high hopes, your hopes are good and i can't wait to be apart of them, build your own community

[@AyyRainer]

(paused at 11 mins to type tha)

[@AyyRainer]

YOUR own community

[@Flash685.]

This 🙌🙏💕

[@traceye2388]

Ah Will your mum sounds awesome, Mum's always have the right answers, Just as a suggestion Will, have you thought about getting a dog to keep company, or these places that you stay ask them if they need odd jobs that need doing especially on a farm, you can still enjoy the van life and do KZbin as well , because then you wont have as much time to think about stuff to deeply , anyway hun I have faith in you, you just have to have faith in yourself, stay safe, be good to yourself x💖💖

[@Chrissygirl67]

Appreciate your honesty. You shouldn’t apologize for being honest and saying how you feel. Loved the video.

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you 😊

[@MackemThai]

Great videos mate love your realism

[@paulmorris3022]

Hi Will i get lonely sometimes and I have to have something to look forward too to keep me sain. I used to have a black Labrador and he went with me everywhere when i was your age, but perhaps a dog as a companion would be good for you in your vanlife. just a thought. i know it is not the same as human interaction but animals are wonderful creatures and we had a fantastic time together traveling and memories i will never forget even though he is no longer with us. I have a cat now. he doesn't come with me as i ride a motorbike now but at home he is my best buddy. what ever you decide things will come good. you will learn to adapt and i'm sure a good looking guy like you won't take long to find someone that would like to be with you and join you on your adventures. take care buddy

[@Jolizzii]

I’d happily swap lives with you Will!😂 I’m fed up with being in a routine and would love and I plan on giving van life a go. You will get used to it and find your purpose. Ultimately I’d love to travel and share van life with someone. Also watch Mav, love his adventures.

[@charlieangel9705]

💯

[@AdamGoldswain]

I can relate to this comment Jo 👍 especially about being in a routine and travel. Over the last 3-4 years I’ve slowly come to the realisation that nearly all of my time is dedicated to other people/work and I hardly ever take/make time for myself. I’ve never had/wanted to get away from it all as much as I do as of late.

[@Nelam18]

That change of extremes from happiness to emptiness is a part of some deep transformation and awakening. I know its hard. Ive been through it for years :). Make a plan and a goal and it will help x

[@WillsWhereabouts]

🙏

[@davidvongries]

brotha, I went through the exact same thing when I went on my first solo trip to Italy a few weeks ago. the feeling didn't go away the entire trip. I 100% feel your struggle.

[@steve810810]

Have you considered getting a dog or two? They certainly give reason to get out the van everyday and gives you a purpose it seems you crave. You’ll find your happy medium Will.

[@grahambeadle9067]

You were way happier just having nights out in the Galaxy stealth camping Will

[@beth4015]

Thanks for sharing with us😊

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks for watching!

[@jonclassical5710]

Awh Will....you are so real to us....relax....keep filming!!!

[@WillsWhereabouts]

🙏🙏

[@ranarentz1124]

Oh for crying out loud! Get a dog, they are great companions and love to be with you.

[@melaniekuula]

I love being alone. BUT I have a wonderful little dog

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Dogs are amazing 🤩

[@marklaird4102]

You mentioned embracing and looking at the positives -- in my opinion you have figured it out very quickly, looking forward to watching more - all the best 👍

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you Mark 👍🙏

[@mcfrickers5191]

I enjoy all camping videos you do, honestly you make me wanna go campin' too but you should still do what you think is best yknow

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thanks for the support 🙏🙏

[@RaiNeko7]

Hi Will, I hope this does not come across the wrong way, I’ve been watching you for a while and I’ve taken notice to your latest videos, and this is me being honest from someone seeing from the outside, you sound like you desperately want a relationship to enjoy these things, but take it from me, some stranger on the internet, you need to be happy with yourself and be complete by yourself if you want to attract someone, this “neediness” will push any potential partners away, been there done that. I know it’s easier said than done and I could be completely wrong. Again don’t take this the wrong way, this is an honest opinion from someone who is aware of what’s going on! Stay strong and live life to the fullest. My moto is that there is always someone in a worst position than us, and it’s true! You’ve got this 💪🏽

[@WillsWhereabouts]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and taking the time to write this very thoughtful response, it hasn’t been taken the wrong way, thank you for the advice 🙏