One Life, One Partner: Is It A Thing Of The Past? - Sadhguru

[@charliebrown6590]

I met my wife at 27, passed 10 years last month and 2 girls later....still going strong!! One life one partner works if you don’t let it fail.

[@dhanjitnath3677]

Is she still with you ?

[@atharvasawant4568]

Why are you asking such question 😆

[@sankit2386]

Still staying strong??:)

[@EkTwRLoveGarlic]

Were you her first partner as well?

[@fokkenmusic-nm4rr]

10 years is not long

[@skywatcher651]

Married or not, life can be happy. Nothing wrong with being single. It gives you time to really understand life and live differently

[@bharatitudu9784]

No body had told for mrg..but to settel...so that your creativity could be used otherwise productively

[@Suman_]

*Why "one life one partner" works?* -Because you won't have to put your energy in searching for partners for emotional and physical needs & you can use that energy in your work. 🤔Well said SADHGURU

[@makhnig3150]

I totally agree but everyone is not workaholic... Some are rich and beautiful/handsome..they hv tym to flirt

[@Acidorest]

@@makhnig3150 that is their problem trust me all you need is personality

[@vyaskrishna8421]

@@makhnig3150 bro you can do smooth flirting like kapil and Akshay but if ypu want multipal partners for you multiple needs than you will become a disaster because if any of them dump you you will automatically dump your all other person

[@capitalcityciphers]

One partner gives piece of mind is all I can say in life!

[@clebs1261]

Except when it all falls apart

[@visheshvatsal3051]

Hehe

[@novu5547]

if one partner gives their piece of mind .. than that parter should be missing of that part of mind.. lol.

[@AyazKhan-bu7fc]

Piece or peace😂🤣🤣

[@capitalcityciphers]

@@AyazKhan-bu7fc whichever floats your boat! 😂

[@LEVIAHAN]

I always had one life partner. and thats me!!

[@Nikobellic415]

Marriage like Single comment.

[@theotherside7504]

Wonderfully said -- "Before breaking any system, make sure it's better alternative is in place"!

[@mixedchickULike]

What does that mean? Have a new partner before you divorce the old?

[@jeanlundi2141]

@@mixedchickULike It means, if you try something different to marriage or monogamy, make sure the alternative will serve you.

[@ashwinchitta7372]

Sadhguru is by far the most intellectual person I know. And he is the best brand ambassador to Indian culture.

[@lostmyoldversion7538]

Well said

[@DariaLopaiko]

He isn't an ambassador to Indian Culture. He's an ambassador to Yoga.

[@drarundhupad9384]

Yes it's not gone... It's alive in me n my partner since 8 years.... 😍 And still moves on til the end of breath.....

[@darshansinghnarang1777]

good

[@charu11ful]

Also in Hinduism there are 4 ashrams in life.. 1) brahmacharya - student 2) grihastha- householder 3) vanaprastha- retired and 4) sanyasi- renunciate. To experience the joys of any one you have to fully live the other one . Most people these days are having affairs and live- in relationships( which I am not saying is bad) but they can not fully understand the value if you haven't felt the lack of it at any point of time .

[@rrsk88_farming]

🧡🙏

[@Iam-a-live]

Today is a lot different than when this idea came into light

[@Iam-a-live]

@Sentinel it could be useful if followed perfectly

[@Iam-a-live]

@Sentinel but not everyone have determination for that and thats why it failed in ancient times too.

[@ishpreetkaur2046]

Are these ashrams for women too? Mayb not no one talks abt women in these matters.they are always dependents

[@claub5438]

"When we're 3 we're for marriage, when we're 18 we're against marriage" Wow..

[@miliaurora1038]

Yeah, parents' marriage

[@thankyouinadvance.yourfutu5219]

Sadhguru has officially become my life coach.. 🙏✨🙏👊💪

[@Jbeaming1]

make life your life coach. Learn from everybody follow no one

[@anthonygato407]

aka; Guru...

[@TheGothicguitar]

No need to take his opinion as a conclusion and the absolute truth,he makes a lot of sense though but always think for yourself,love and intimacy are subjective topics.

[@kritimanglik9138]

You will understand this after 50 🙏

[@swanandpatil9675]

@@kritimanglik9138 if you have understood can u please explain in brief I have understood but still I think I am not on the exact same page.

[@adnaansaifi4966]

Only one question... Why this is not on TRENDING 😑

[@MysticsofIndia]

Namaskaram Sadhguru. Congrats on 2MN Subscribers!

[@sandhyagande4112]

One life one partner works .. when you have good salary, behaviour, love ,care and understanding. Otherwise it fails.

[@clebs1261]

That last sentence is one of the most important thing to realize, and most people criticizing the "system" don't get it.

[@victorarregnelle8976]

Hard to settle with anyone. It's like nobody knows what love is, and they stay in relationships based on intermittent reinforcement.

[@hirdeshsahni2243]

Crystal clear replies... To the point... On the dot... Always...

[@abhinavprakash6996]

brilliant

[@sanjaykh6502]

sadguru is like a wise granny who knows all and has beautiful befitting answers for every problem

[@wordsbykatarina]

Me and the love of my life met as children. So we were not formed as people yet. On top of that, we went through an immense amount of pain apart as individuals and together. It’s over 10 years later and we are still very much in love and grow everyday. I’ve seen him grow from a child, through difficulties and trauma, to becoming a loving, beautiful person and our love is still blossoming It’s rare, but it happens

[@bimlesh1366]

As always...with great wisdom...absolute clarity...Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏 Just eagerly waiting to touch 2M..and in 2019 we will be crossed 10M😊

[@sittingonarock]

Great Wisdom, really? Ask him if the Earth is FLAT !!

[@rekhasubramanian8391]

Break a social structure only I'd you have a better alternative system.!!👏👏

[@theresinoid175]

Wisdom will vapourize all the prejudices in the society..... Waiting for 10M subs in dec 2019............. Jai ho !

[@maishaasmagic6393]

Sadhguru is truly amazing, the depth of his knowledge and his understanding and perception of life are remarkable.

[@BAAL1010]

SADHGURU is my dad😉 I love you all🙏

[@hardeepdhery]

@@shreepradh 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kamakshajoshi1151]

Where do you live ? (Country )

[@gigiallen2625]

How bless we are to have Sadhguru's caring wisdom in this world today.

[@kanishkyadav9456]

he says that you should not live early. Wait you will live but on other hand he says people who marry early lasts long. Confused

[@anumm89]

Ohh my god this man stealing my heart everyday.

[@bhargavisanthanam5888]

I like the fact what he mentioned...btw 30 n 50...ppl become concrete blocks...,their persona...very true And also..,u can focus your energy and intelligence on other things if your emotions n bodies' needs r satisfied..,65% true again...

[@user-yk5xu8gr1e]

How to focus if emotional needs aren't satisfied by partner......wts the motivation for being creative n all.....

[@balajishanker686]

@@user-yk5xu8gr1e then u should find the right partner for urself, that's ur responsibility... Don't jump into relationships without knowing each other well and their needs...

[@GabriBrettas144]

the point for me is, as our frequency rises we'll expand our capacity to love and we'll became more transparent, regarding our emotions and feelings. Sinchronicity and attunement may/will bring alike people into our lives, and therefore, the probability of loving affectively others will increase.

[@gayathrimantha9701]

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[@THEUNDERCOVERMONK]

Congrats for 2 Million subscribers. Sadhguru will cross every other KZbinr by 2025 as it takes time to realise that depth in Life is missing. Also, Sadhguru has International following . . But even if you add regional/other language channel subscribers, he has already crossed 3 Million.

[@RassionellMaddman]

Are you able to understand what he says at 0:49-52? I hear "Maybe janu it's gone"?

[@THEUNDERCOVERMONK]

@@RassionellMaddman "May be in JNU it is gone" . JNU is the name of University where this talk is happening.

[@RassionellMaddman]

@@THEUNDERCOVERMONK oh! thanks.

[@mdr8213]

I have read many comments on how Sadhguru does not directly answer the question is because “maybe” (*im not sure) he doesnt want to feed us directly the answer for the human to learn things we should understand that we need to use our common sense in a way we will be enlightend ourselves because it is inner work. Sadhguru done his part by giving words of wisdom and it is our part if we have the desire to understand or to be enlightned by our ownselves. Just right now people tend to be lazy even by using the function of our brain and just want to be fed by others.

[@harshhsaxena9349]

I found my one life partner, and that's myself!

[@bettybeckmusiccalm1262]

Seems like reality!

[@ManishChopra]

We need an alternative system or things will go crazy. 🙏

[@Rohitash66]

Really so sensible

[@theliftexpert]

The alternative system,should include education for men and women on how to conduct themselves within an intimate partnership.

[@Julie-lh5jb]

@@theliftexpert Yess!!! 🙏

[@masalachigirl]

Clip 3:30-4:07... Yes!!! That’s exactly how I feel...deciding to marry is a conscious...intentional... intelligent choice. It sorts things in a way so one can deepen in relationship AND focus energy on developing one’s human potential. It is a decision of both head and heart at once. I love this talk. Such an intelligent forward-looking soul steeped in deep wisdom. I really respect Sadhguru.

[@cofffee4710]

masalachigirl w So true

[@sleyaraze8916]

More like One life no partner. Its just the best

[@Onepiece365]

It’s possible just have to wait and respect each other.

[@kyra7891]

I really would like to find a person that would spent the whole life with me

[@seeker-in-a-void]

If your emotion and body are settled, your ability to use your intelligence is much more improved. That's awesome 👌

[@tommyls4357]

0:40 "this whole monogamous relationship doesn't seem to be existing anymore"

[@sreesaipavan935]

If onces emotions and body are settled your ability to use your intelligences will be much better..so that you can use it in your work or research

[@TruthAndLight4995]

Kids always want their parents to stay together. Even grown adult kids.

[@theliftexpert]

There needs to be more education on how to conduct yourselves within an intimate partnership ,because currently what starts as deep love slowly fades away due to ignorance of the consequences of ones actions ,or lack there of .

[@sivabalan7614]

Just wanna share something, Even listening to Sadhguru's voice ,brings alot of clarity....wow Loveeeee youuuu sadhguru

[@47powerflower]

One life zero partner...works for me

[@anabreseneuman]

Yes, when mind and emotions are settled, there is no 'seeking' for a partner. It will happen if it's destiny. If one has found their connection within with God, all else will follow in alignment with that.

[@deanafromchicago6661]

I feel it’s more like people are choosing many wrong partners, instead of one that lasts forever.

[@iamphilande3844]

I’ve always wanted to be married since I was a little girl but I didn’t have a good example of what true love really was since my dad was not married to my mum but to another woman! And now I’m married and I honestly I think I should’ve waited! Moral of the story is experience is the best teacher. 💗

[@RakeshDas-dw4ds]

Whatever he has said 100% correct and logical

[@divyatripathi199]

Please sadguru ji give ur blessings to get rid off from these happenings

[@reshsreenu2381]

While watching this video I like ur verifiable words sadhguru 💐🙏

[@olgacherkasova3522]

Well... i believed the same way. 18 years of age, found a boyfriend with whom i wanted to grow and know that my emotional needs are satisfied. That was my credo just lik Sadhguru said. But he left me exactly bc we became one thing, dissolved in each other and oh wow... idk what to do

[@user-yk5xu8gr1e]

I found his approach too simplistic in this one....life is way complicated and layered and nuanced.....

[@Kiki-wi7px]

NO "2" People will Ever Think the SAME Way ALL of the Time. It Should Never BE Alway's "1" Person's Way ALL of the Time. You HAVE to Sometime's Compromise.

[@cb7762]

Sadhguru is bringing clarity to life!

[@sachsush1]

Stability depends on duo... sometimes one partner is understanding while other is just contrary to him or her then how vll relationship go on??

[@the7esla989]

Sadguru is very well educated. I hope the romanticization of him which is characteristic of Indian people to do, stays a minimum so that we stay capable of appreciating his views properly.

[@gatogalaxia8003]

What does he mean by an alternative system? In what matter?

[@DavidSengupta]

Sadhguru is the real Godfather

[@letsdothemath]

*Sadhguru 2M Family Soon.. Congratulations*

[@johnybrokeit]

That was so beautifully said. U the mannn, Mr. Sadhguru. Respect and Honor to you!

[@davidhaylett1810]

In any relationship, married or not, you are always walking on egg shells, knowing that the relationship can end at any moment as soon as you fail to meet the expectations of your partner. You will not have an unconditional relationship with anyone. If you don’t perform as they wish you will be cut loose. Although you may have some good times, you can never be fully happy and never be free from the adverse influence of a partner. You can only be free and happy if you live alone.

[@monikasharma464]

This is absolutely ☑️ I have experienced this so i stop expecting There is nothing like do good have good and be good But still we must have to do what is right according to situation and what is good for humanity

[@Livingbyfaith1114]

The system is to trust God for your partner. Stop looking.

[@kaylaholmes1018]

Kim Gram very true

[@annjalikumari8032]

First of all Pranam guruji. I have a big doubt Sadhguru, it's like when young people of this generation are so confident that whatever they are doing regarding having a physical relation or more than one partner in life is really good, then why do they need someone like you to justify their work and say yes you are right so that they can carry on with making more relations in search of greener pastures, if they think to be very correct, don't you think guruji, they are doubting their own confidence and work when asking you questions about the same?? हरे कृष्णा हर हर महादेव 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@obas1163]

He makes such a fine point.. Thank you sir.

[@mikerapp1428]

The problem is not having one partner but it's ok to have a few But the risk is that the 2 other partners having multiple affairs with others,

[@nongdrenrajkumar6408]

wow, Sadhguru the great🙏🙏🙏

[@Tomara710]

Those that can't find happiness and satisfaction with one spouse won't find it with 20+. For them there is no happiness... only the next chase.

[@rasgosmusic9654]

“Bottom line is, this “conversation” has happened because I am able to receive and reply” that’s it. I could say this is an one sided relationship because if it weren’t me, there would be no conversation at all and that has been going on for several years... you’ve had things you wanted to say and if you had sent them to who knows, John Smith, there would be no reply at all, and yet there hasn’t even been any level of acknowledgement or appreciation.. on the contrary I have been treated like odd ball, ordinary when I am the one making this dialogue possible...” he commented

[@sachinshishodia4563]

Still waiting for that one parter...I feel I am still unlucky....oh..God please

[@RISHABHMISHRA-ot3up]

sadguru you are great . you have solution of every problem.

[@devikamp]

Thanks so much Sadguru for this beautiful wisdom!

[@NishantKumar-yk7ql]

Now we are 2 million family on youtube❤

[@lightluzymcmb2872]

I understand what you teach. I also see the web of lights on the right

[@Rohitash66]

I wish that you tube following of Sadhguru crosses billion mark🙏

[@sachinshishodia4563]

You are rocking sadguru ji... your every video is eye opening.. thanks sadguru ji

[@williamcassell9524]

Love Sadhguru! Truth!

[@missc8870]

•♡• VERY WELL SAID SADHGURU. THANK YOU. •♡•

[@aislingying9971]

I dont agree because some people's marriage doesnt work out etc. Everyone at every age has a chance to find love and companion.

[@swanandpatil9675]

He doesn't mean that he means find a sustainable partner and a stable relation which can last long and will help u save your energy and using it on what you want to do in life marriage is not trial and error thing or use on throw thing you should be competent enough to make a wise dicession in selecting your partner firstly then take efforts to keep it fruitful and last long thats it the tinder type culture which is spreading rapidly is not at all sustainable it will never give long lasting happiness ..

[@oillift]

Thank you, I learned a lot from this talk. May I repost you when I get my podcast and blog up? Thanks for your wisdom. All the best Kevin

[@DeepVerma728]

Point being relationships are not needed for happiness or survival in this current technological environment. Environment dictates behavior. Some are adapting many are not.

[@belleswithlove9778]

Yea true that. I always feel like a fish out of water when I get into romantic relationships as I never wanted one in the first place and only went for it because of social pressures. Now, I'm single, happy and don't give a f*ck.

[@DeepVerma728]

@@belleswithlove9778 Oviously you do or else you wouldn't have replied.

[@lokinggoodbrowneyegirl9557]

That's why when you get married to a man have his last name it's one life one partner. Really mean Married couple not 3vrd wheel in it. So love the bleep Out RACHEL RIO HERNÁNDEZ

[@yourmom-pr8ht]

He is really logical, so weird and awesome😊

[@AnandSingh-mx2bx]

Congrats sadhguru for 2 millions 💕💕

[@sumanaghosal5072]

Oh absolutely fantastic... great answer

[@Healnlearn]

I agree with everything, any imaginable alternative system seems inferior to the traditional family unit. However, what happens, if and when one partner spiritually outgrows the other? Is this even possible in young age marriages, when people have become like one personality?

[@videvleo]

My friend spirituality is not a competition. One can only be at peace if his/her surrounding is also in the same state. A partner means you share your life with him/her but sadly nowadays people are dividing things between men and women even in case of marriages, before they marry they already decide what to share and divide in property if they ever split up. If this is the norm nowadays how can someone attain spirituality? This is why sadhguru said having one partner means you share everything with her.. your pain and joy, your economy your family also become hers/him and vice versa and so is the same case in spirituality if one is struggling then it is the partner duties to step up and help. Sadhguru also attributed the fact that since physical need of the human body need to be addressed then if he/she has one partner he/she will be able to attain spirituality faster as his/her basic needs are provided already he/she can concentrate on their work instead of looking for someone to mate. I hope this answers your question my friend.

[@Healnlearn]

@@videvleo thank you, yes, great answer!

[@videvleo]

@@Healnlearn You are welcome bro

[@shannonbest106]

Well, if you think about it … people live a lot longer now than they did just 200 years ago. Modern medicine.

[@nouc1996]

English subtitles please :)

[@PriyankaDas-qt2rv]

At the end one must believe in one's decision after all the consequences of it will be borne by the decision maker.

[@sharitad.9519]

Or you can stay alone and focus on your work etc.

[@DariaLopaiko]

Hardly possible for the majority.

[@vk45]

After a particular age ,you'll feel like "work for whom?" You need someone to support through highs and lows and someone to truly appreciate than the superficial world out there

[@indumathy9447]

You are unparalleled SADHGURU 🙏

[@ANKURGUPTAJEEVLOGS]

Very well explained sadhguru

[@debtanudutta4460]

Shyma charan Lahiri was house holder

[@rupeshpatel232297]

It's always thing of past present and future for suryavanshi in india

[@suvendu2831]

Well said guru ji it is still there but may be not in jnu

[@Lungiswa.]

What a great video. 🙌🙌🙌

[@shravyashataraju7868]

Thanks for the video. ❤️😌👌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@bernieespinal1905]

This is so true its exactly

[@loner8045]

Monogamy is a choice. But once the hormones die off then it turns to promiscuity. People that don't understand the meaning of love shouldnt get in a monogamous Relationship because it's destined to fail.

[@rktelangba]

Wonderful speech. 👍👍

[@srikanthchincholi481]

I got the answer for my question 👌👍👏👏