Sadhguru on How To Never Get Angry or Bothered By People

During a conversation with Angella Nazarian on what it means to be a visionary and a volunteer, Sadhguru looks at how the key to taking charge of your life is to become willing - to become an absolute YES to life!
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Listen to The Sadhguru Podcast - Of Mystics and Mistakes Sadhguru on How To Never Get Angry or Bothered By People Full episode link : podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/sadhguru/id347854569?i=1000600283351

[@timmiet47321]

"If somebody else can decide what can happen within you right now - isn't this the ultimate slavery?" Awesome words.

[@abrahamalvarez7099]

ImaSimp4U lame

[@abrahamalvarez7099]

💝

[@geetsharma7940]

🔥

[@QueenP901.]

Powerful

[@bhavnamehta238]

Good Lloyd’s morning loll lol you love it so I will led finish lo

[@wisdomofyogi1]

"Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die." -- Buddha

[@terobaukotauko9876]

YOUR 111 LIKE

[@geno.austin]

Exactly!

[@navyal7237]

Preach

[@bsimpson639]

😳 Thank you. That helped me.

[@lutz_utz-utz]

"Holding onto Anger is like holding a hot Stone in your hand. The only one that is burned is you." I think Dalai Lama said this (maybe in some other words ^^)

[@aakashailajan]

“There are no good or bad people. We are just oscillating between the two.” Amazing 🙏🏼

[@Noone-jf9sh]

How about the rapists, abusers, the wife/husband beaters? And how many billions of animals bred just to be tortured, mutilated, raped and murdered every second? All the children kidnapped, raped and sold for their organs? Why? I need an answer on how to cope with this world

[@suhailmowlana7761]

I think it’s how you define bad people. I have seen some very bad ones. Real tyrants. I judge them from their actions

[@tinabrenner3562]

There are intelligent and unintelligent people

[@seanwinterbourne4652]

This man can help many, but surely you do not have to believe everything he says. There is good and evil.

[@castorkat4868]

there are inherently bad people ..sorry

[@marilynnfrazier1960]

I use to tell my children, don't get caught up in someone else's tornado. Create your own air flow. This was wonderful!!

[@itsyourgirlzuzu]

This is amazing! Thank you 😌🙏💗

[@sourabhgoyal_001]

I really love the line " I do not give this priveilage to anyone to make me sad, happy, irritated"

[@myaccount3709]

But remember that You also not hurt anyone or judge anyone

[@letsjustroll4871]

Lord, please give me this strength!

[@cherryfaith4877]

A quote I really like is "holding a grudge against someone is like letting them live rent free in your head" ☺

[@sakshisantoshi7841]

So true ❤️

[@tempesnyder6243]

It is hard for me, I need to work at it.

[@THE-WAY_THE-TRUTH_THE-LIFE.]

"Do not let the behaviour of others destroy your inner peace."

[@TheJanakulkarni]

Easier said than done isn't it ?

[@mrlion9719]

How exactly?

[@littlecheetah47]

@@TheJanakulkarni it is a daily practice from the moment you look in the mirror. We recreate ourselves everyday and we want to feel good about ourselves at the end of the day when we are going to sleep. That is the beauty of life. If you are given the blessing of waking up, you are giving your self the chance of recreating yourself and you can choose in your life that can have around you to keep that vision of yourself balanced. At the end of the day it is only you that can judge yourself.

[@THE-WAY_THE-TRUTH_THE-LIFE.]

@KRISHNA CHANDRA Kurup Meditation and mindfulness are two awesome things I find that help me control any anger towards other people. The answer I find is not no response, but *How* will you respond? When you do respond at home make sure first to take a few small breathes in and out, then think about what you want to say. How do you want to say it? When you focus on what you feel and how you feel like expressing it, then you can slow down and look at the better options. Is there a nicer way to say this? If so, then why am I not doing that? The ways of others should not be the ways of my own. Create your own path. I also find that practicing nonviolent communication can also help you to become a more peaceful person. I hope that some of this has helped, and if you do want to talk about it more, then I am right here.

[@candicesouthall4213]

😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄

[@manjulasukumaran1630]

I have watched this many times, every time I'm hurt by someone's behaviour especially someone who has been close to me I watch this and afterwards the hurt just vanishes. Thank you Sadhguru for your wisdom. God bless you

[@elisasmith1609]

That is why I'm watching this clip and other clips of His too. His words literally heal over my hurt caused by rude people like a supernatural healing salve on an open wound.

[@rohanrathore5323]

And what about that person who was somewhere dear to me. Please answer

[@brendahornung1990]

Me too!!

[@itumelenglikhama285]

I needed to hear this today❤

[@yourstrulytk12]

​@@rohanrathore5323 Sadhana sadhana sadhana. Just do your sadhana. Doing your shambhavi daily?

[@misanthropik6070]

I like how he adds hello after things. He knows we have the attention span of squirrels.

[@annasaddiction5129]

😅

[@usernameisunavailable8270]

Ahahaha

[@sandpnyk]

😂😂

[@anollarodney4330]

😂😂😂

[@yourstrulytk12]

No, not everyone scrolls on short form content.

[@hannahprince3512]

I love the way he laughs, with his entire body.

[@guitaristxpicado]

Yes.with a jumping belly:)

[@patriotic2719]

Me too ..

[@ryanjones9498]

No good people no bad people. So Hitler is not bad and Gandhi is not good? Ok

[@annmarieday6371]

Me too. His laugh always makes me smile.

[@AboutCreativity1]

@@ryanjones9498 100%.

[@celebratingrelaxation2166]

"For every minute you remain angry, you give up sixty seconds of peace of mind."

[@dudeisful]

but theirs only peace or mind

[@caragare7637]

@@dudeisful you are right

[@caragare7637]

We keep being nasty and we don't even know why

[@borntobewilder9]

Or, 30 seconds if you live in New York.

[@faizalebrahim8202]

The 2 goals for me in life is To Achieve Peace of Mind And Peace of Heart!

[@brijor6ff7]

The moment we think we are good, we're entitled to destroy the bad. Wow, so simple yet so true.

[@edwardstaniforth3057]

Needs spray painting on the white house in 20 feet tall letters

[@samrudhidange9881]

But could you please explain it in detail

[@dampergoldenrod4156]

To me that sounds psychopathic for someone to think they're good and to feel they have the right to destroy someone they imagine is bad

[@chrome6570]

​@@dampergoldenrod4156 What about destroying the bad in yourself?

[@tahamohammad5300]

I literally made notes of 3 pages on this video as every single line sadhguru spoke was amazing . Sadhguru is really a great inspiration.

[@chaitanyajain3127]

Sach me

[@sg5720]

I love the PEACE he wants us all to have. It starts with yourself to make the positive changes. We as humans always waiting on other for goodness. We ourselves need to create the goodness. 😌

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Share with us the summary of your note. We could possibly learn from it.

[@SANKUJ]

true

[@abojanitv]

P

[@Casedilla73]

“You are doing something willingly, that’s your heaven. You are doing something unwillingly, that’s your hell.” -Sadhguru

[@nathaniel04]

He is so wise ☺️

[@SABosco-tq7kh]

...

[@SuperBabybella1]

PERIOD!!👏🏻✨

[@joojoochannel9257]

I can feel I'm in it

[@camisnyder3460]

Unwilling and bitter and turns to hatred. But I live w these people and see them everyday!!!!!!! How can I stop hating?

[@AryanSharma-ce6hw]

He doesn't laugh, he vibes. And that's what we all should admire.

[@helldronez]

smile create more smile, laugh create more laugh 😂😂😂😇

[@pakababy3710]

And aspire.

[@catherinewacker141]

Totally ✌🏼 I pray for the day we live in harmony, people and animals finally getting to enjoy Our Mother Earth, together and without fear The way we were made to enjoy. God put so many amazing creatures for mankind to enjoy and learn with, and from. Instead, man has destroyed Mother Earth, its animals and its people. It cuts me deep to my core.

[@dotdashdotdash]

Catherine Wacker no, life evolved, it wasn’t put here.

[@FreeTrial93]

My guess is hes just overthinking waay to much on things that are perfectly clear

[@caravaughn1554]

My life is not about them, it's about me💛

[@Akhenasten]

In the last days people tried to make me feel shame, unhappy, mad, sad, because I was so independent and calm in situations they weren't. It was really Hard to stay stable and át some point I was so sad. But I found my strenght again in this video. His words help a lot. I think I have to watch it again :) thank you so much

[@kayyc]

Hunny you’re not alone, TRUST. I’m going through this at the moment and came across this video. Ppl will try their HARDEST to get a reaction when you’re calm and unbothered. Just keep being unbothered and do you! That’s how you make them real mad😂 Keep your head up, you got this!😉

[@usernameisunavailable8270]

​@@kayycThanks stranger! This is something I need to practice. If there was a level of 1-100 for being calm and unbothered I am at level 1. I have A low frustration tolerance and I have A LOT to work on.😅

[@quantellawilliams1179]

I love how he laughs with his whole body 🥰

[@tanaydubey789]

Hehe yeah!😂❤️

[@justinamusyoka4986]

I've tried several times to shake that way as i laugh without success,i think its a skill.

[@chriss1672]

Ppl care more about the demagogue, then the messege

[@justinamusyoka4986]

@@chriss1672 But you are here.🤔

[@560747]

@TDE is

[@visionsofasia1649]

I need to watch this probably everyday. I want to get to the point where I am UNBOTHERED

[@lexdoit4921]

Best of luck

[@highrawvegan]

I thought the same. Watch this daily.

[@jj9533]

Same. Every day

[@jasmineashleh3663]

Same here

[@jj9533]

@@jasmineashleh3663 thanks for replying bc i needed a reminder.

[@wassup139]

Its hard to let go when you are treated unfairly, but I am going to slowly do that as being angry only destroys your inner peace and physiological functioning. 🙏

[@preetishivjeeprasad4064]

I have not given this right anybody to make me angry, happy and smile.. awesome words ...

[@JohnSmith-pn2vl]

yea as if that ever worked for anybody at any time, what a pile of bullshit

[@SerenaAlexandraMusic]

“there are joyful people and there are miserable people, but there are no good people and bad people” i’m taking this one with me

[@taxvisor261]

Thats very much true from our life experience so far. Rt?

[@chandan102]

R u from out of m india

[@lexdoit4921]

Yes

[@Sdm410]

That’s what got me too. Had me crying 😭

[@daugirdassvitrigaila5644]

So. Accordind to this terrorists and cereal killers are good people? I think this is poorly toughtout. Yes. People are mostly effected by tge environment but this dosent justify them. They still are in charge of theyr decitions and life.

[@Hellspinder]

When someone in the audience plays his phone interrupting his thoughts, instead of getting angry, he says loudly to himself :"I like music" -> that's the attitude, turning anger to passion in an instant @1:50

[@helldronez]

i like that part 😂😂😂

[@S4rms]

I like getting pissed off by my younger sibling

[@psychictruth5037]

💯👏

[@psychictruth5037]

@@aliaosman655 😆

[@sugaciu5908]

the same passion that he killed his wife

[@dajahaji]

I came here feeling attached angry sad because of group people how gathered to make me crazy .but after this I will change my way of thinking 🥰

[@THEBREAKAWAYCIVILIZATION]

Hi r u a targeted individual or Aka black listed!??

[@kayyjayy.29]

I think the trick is self-awareness. The moment anger comes into play internally, it is not a choice, but the more self-aware a person becomes, the more of a choice they give themselves. The moment after conscious awareness of anger, a choice arises. I see myself angry, and I either choose to sit and feel the anger, or "change the channel". Tap into serenity. Gratitude, humility, acceptance, patience. These all can say "It's ok" without 'it' being 'ok'. Injustice is still injustice. But patience says "it can get better in time". Acceptance says "where we are in the process just is". Humility says "I have been unjust before, and I was allowed that moment". Gratitude says "better them than me, to be unjust. I am grateful for a different perspective".

[@logisticmoon8517]

I was wondering how exactly do we exercise control over emotions since for me it’s an instantaneous and usually inflammatory response. Thank you for breaking it down into more easily understandable chunks 🙏🏽

[@pawzplanet]

This is how my grandfather was, he never saw any bad in any person,always respected and appreciated everyone,he chose to never get angry he lived the happiest life,I miss him so much but I want to spread his wisdom ❤️

[@anisaburhan6251]

may he rest in power!! he seems like a gem, and i’d love to have a convo with someone like him.

[@daishawilliams1093]

The G.O.A.T...🙏🏾🙌🏾my personal goal

[@deepeep]

exactly my grandfather, but never got to know him sadly. ♥️

[@kimgow7671]

My Grandmother passed away at 100yrs old and she was a earth Angel!!

[@PriyaS-hq5fw]

Exactly the same thing in my great grandma 😑🧡.. She passed away on oct8th 2020😖..she never spoke bad about anyone.. Even if we complaint about ppl she just say excuse in ur mind and leave it 😖🧡✌🏻😟

[@megantaylor6862]

"If someone else can decide what is happening within you, isn't that the ultimate slavery?" BLEW. ME. AWAY. And didn't even realize it's exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.

[@ronniejohnson2298]

@Megan Taylor pretty lady

[@mnsmn1834]

@@ronniejohnson2298 simp

[@wilfredv1930]

yes megan taylor

[@ransommoney4915]

I know😨

[@funkymoondancer]

That is such a rich teaching... He needs to bubble wrap.

[@AnnexF]

So inspirational. I come back to this video every time I encounter life challenges or having to deal with difficult people.

[@liberty-matrix]

"There's no better pathway to self-realization and the ennoblement of being than to pause at the highest good that you can conceive of and commit yourself to it." ~Jordan Peterson

[@gordoramsey3908]

“There are no good people and bad people everybody is oscillating between the two” I’m gonna live by that for the rest of my life

[@fseesauras]

Good luck with that

[@gordoramsey3908]

@@fseesauras thx

[@user-gw7im9qu4h]

@@gordoramsey3908 u don't hav to thnk it u jus gotta save it

[@doubledragon2074]

No doubt some oscillate more towards bad in life hence why there are prisons.

[@udayasreehouse8638]

Good 🇮🇳

[@omaroba1490]

i need this. i get angry too fast, and destroy relationships.

[@robertimmanuel577]

Acting on impulse becomes a habit.

[@sentijamir2252]

Same me s well 😅

[@npatil85]

We all do.... its a problem

[@GCAT-zv9in]

My teen girl is struggling with getting control of her emotions. I will bring her here, I'm always showing her Sadhgurus ways. He is a tremendous teacher . Good luck with your efforts, I know you will be happier once you stop reacting. I guess the best advice is to remember it is a choice .

[@IWashMyOwnBrain]

Could it be you are just getting played? Anger is the easiest way to control others.

[@NIGHT-iz8hy]

to the person reading this, always remember that every positive thought is a silent prayer that will change you life. big hugs from Shanthi healing music

[@amande22]

thank you for this

[@kenray3205]

The way he puts things across and the way he makes people understand is on another level.

[@samanthamarie0426]

I really needed this. I’ve been angry at too many people. I can’t stand when people are nasty and mean... but I can’t control them. I can only control my own life.

[@angelinaalarcon132]

I feel exactly the same way, then I go to my mental hamster on a wheel torturing myself with the situation... rehashing . Gee I need to change but how? It is easier said than do but I am going to work hard.

[@angelinaalarcon132]

May be you suffer from anxiety. Obsession and you may not know it yet?

[@angelinaalarcon132]

@@simranbrar1606 may be you may suffer from anxiety, obsession and may not know it...

[@j.taires5889]

how you feel when you are angry tells you it is poison only to you, sending you love to pause, remove yourself to go outside, feel the sunlight, the air, your inner beauty wants to play really

[@angelinaalarcon132]

@@j.taires5889 it is so true... however, this is the way the mind works. I guess the nature of our psychology. I bet that some of these Gurus may have their share too when pushed around 😁

[@SatMatt7]

Such a wise man! This satsang reminds me of the Buddhist saying: "I bless my enemy, for he teaches me patience."

[@toddolson573]

Be close to your friends, though be closer to your enemies. No so close that they can ultimately do you in. Don't go on the far west side of Ogden, Utah, USA, least your in with that bunch, for they are neither good nor bad just mixed up. Must be too much government control, is why they'll shoot you for just being there.

[@ravig1740]

Don't be judgemental in some cases friends become foe so live conciously

[@Dances_With_Skies]

Patience is when we choose to understand.

[@ravig1740]

@@Dances_With_Skies very well teaches

[@ashemleibakngambamoirangch5416]

Nice 👍👍👍

[@deliciousjazz]

I am so grateful someone suggested Sadhguru on The Modern Empath video. Both are so helpful. I truly love Sadhguru. And hes got great sense of humor too💗🙏 I really needed to hear this cause I suffer with infertility never had a child and Im letting that grief prevent me from working and living my true life. And part of it was cause working with people especially parents. When you said "If you want to work with ideal people you must go to heaven_today" it made me think. And all Im doing is holding myself back. Namaste 🙏💗🌸

[@tsigishtekle6880]

It’s always the simple wisdom with Sadhguru, thank you this perspective has changed my life.

[@urfavethiopian]

are you havesha?

[@kittykat5733]

I’ve been so depressed, very upset with how people treat me cause I don’t have certain things. Becoming very bitter.... Just wow... I’m so thankful I came across this. 🖤✨

[@shyamayashithap6590]

Stop caring on how people will treat you

[@shyamayashithap6590]

You will be better

[@shyamayashithap6590]

All the best

[@shyamayashithap6590]

@@hmlmao5539 🙂 All the best for you too

[@cameronarmist5105]

Guess I'm in that same boat . It takes less energy to smile and just let it go , then to explode and wreck everything. But alas , we shall find that patience

[@silencethemind3572]

Never allow someone to determine your happiness. Don't depend on external things to make you happy, you have pure joy inside you just have to access your internal happiness.

[@serenityvocalized8303]

Yes! Radiate from the inside, out!

[@serenityvocalized8303]

Like 111!!🌹🙏💓🌌

[@cgametheory1423]

Two determine your happiness be determined to share rivers of happiness of multitudes of sustainable types to the subatomic with parental potential foresight wisdom and remind them all the way down to bless those like us to help us in being helpful for all to compatibly survive with greater and greater helpful eloquence whilst doing what is absolutely necessary realising at least the troubles of the environments on Earth but especially their own environments safely for all. And as below sew above and sew below from above.

[@imthegrk]

Ok, so how do you do that?

[@kaysalshaar4088]

@@imthegrk trust that you can! But first do the basic ideas: You HAVE TO: (if you want happiness) To eat and sleep and meditate well. Just to bring balance. Then happiness will be by choice if you're well balanced within yourself

[@shepherdstar14]

I don’t know why but for some reason this speaks to me so much louder than anything my parents, teachers, church people and friends have ever tried to. I’ve wondered if I am lost cause at this point because I do not put myself out there, I push people away, I stay silent, and I’ve been doing my whole life because I know I will have conflict with people especially if they are close to me, and I have to see and talk to them every day. I do exactly as he says, I see others who not like me as the “bad” sometimes and it’s childish but it’s just the way my mind works. I don’t think I’m perfect at all, far from it, but I like to think I don’t bother anybody and yet, I will always be alone of I continue down a path of seclusion from the world. When someone asks me what I want from life I’m clueless, because I can’t give a simple answer. I need people in my life, I have people in my life but, I need help, from myself sometimes.

[@shrii827]

Same with me.... I remain silent when i am angry or upset with someone then they said i stop the communication and creat more problems .. But once things pile up and i finally speak out they say i am an angry person who is starts fights.... People close or distant will not stop blaming me in any which way i behave.... They r happy as long as i do as they say...... Messed up people around us make our life miserable...

[@almadeliart]

Every time I listen to this gentleman my heart is full of joy!!! Peace to everyone!!! 🙏🏿

[@Elaphe472]

"Not forgiving the one who causes anger, causes more anger than the anger caused by the one we can't forgive". Buddha.

[@johnhealer8375]

That's absolutely correct! Unforgiveness hurts one who's the victim than who creates!

[@tonygombas491]

I forgive ❤️

[@maxd3783]

Sometime you can't forgive someone for horrible crimes they have done to you no matter what .Okay?

[@tonygombas491]

@@maxd3783 I hear you I have been struggling for years and I mean a lot of years and all it does is just grind inside me for myself I have to find a way to let go I hope you too will find peace ✌️

[@maxd3783]

@@tonygombas491 thankyou hope you find peace too .But I know I can't forgive not atleast in this life.

[@lisadevries1099]

I like how he laughs with his whole body. Makes me smile everytime.

[@rkmlvps]

Same here 😂❤️

[@lexdoit4921]

Yes

[@bradford_shaun_murray]

4:39 7:33

[@desiray4524]

Me too!

[@sapnakhakh4609]

I thought I was the only one ...lol

[@susanp1689]

He's profound through simplicity, probably so we'll GET IT. I love how his laughter moves his entire body!

[@ae-c8085]

The fact that this was recommended to me the day after I cried myself to sleep due to anger...

[@aurelijagarbanovaite3462]

About 5 min ago, my younger brother shouted at me, telling me to close our bedrooms door. He said he wanted to be alone and that's why he told me to close the door. But he didn't mind me here at all, which is not what he normally does. So I asked him: "why should I close the door, you know you're not alone". To that he said he wanted personal space. In the other rooms there was no noise, people or anything else. So I told him that. He started shouting, swearing, telling me I'm like a little child. I was heartbroken inside but I knew that now I certainly can't close the door. I need to know why is he so angry. So I asked again, why? He started shouting and suddenly my dad came inside. He shouted at me too. It was difficult to keep a steady voice and not freak out, but I kept calm (which is big for me, so I'm proud of it personally). Dad closed the door after walking out. I'm trying not to cry right now, and it's a bit hard, but I feel unsafe in this same room and really not in the mood for conflict or tears. My dad and brother side against me a lot, so it wasn't very surprising, but I still didn't get to know why is my brother so angry? Why did he want the door closed? And why is my dad defending him at all costs and occasions? Did I do something wrong if the only thing I did was not obey my brother? What should I do? I want the best for them both, so I need to know whether I'm doing something wrong. I'm comforting myself with the idea, that when I grow up I won't need to deal with this, but I still got at least 3-5 years left until I can considering studying or moving out. This video helped me a lot. I'm still highly sensitive and emotional but I'm working on this. I know now that I'm gonna be fine and I trust God to lead me out of this situation. Btw this comment is just to make me feel better. I just get a sense of relief when explaining how I think and feel. Thank you for being a good community. Wish me strength in the presence of threats. Sorry for long comment, I just felt sad and miserable, trying to find a solution for three people with different minds. I wish you a merry Christmas, be safe ❤

[@ghc2009]

@@aurelijagarbanovaite3462 leave all this shitty things that happen , Sell cleverness and buy bewilderness , be humble , and be notorious, destroy the reputation and seek the one that never dies . Everything you see , only love is infinite and everlasting. After some times Everything you see will be destroyed or won't be there . Rumi

[@ChristianHoyle]

Thats the power of the universe right there...

[@luckshitam7977]

@@aurelijagarbanovaite3462 Hey, um I just want to let you know that you're enough! It's really sweet that you want to know the cause of your brother's anger, but sometimes you can't help it. All you can do is accept it and build yourself. Work on yourself, make yourself strong (although you are a very strong woman) and I'm proud of you! Lots of love❤️

[@jassn6957]

Your fbi phone agent must’ve heard you. So Sweet of them to recommend this video.

[@jmg2888]

"There are joyful people and miserable people, but there are no good people and bad people." -Sadhguru. WOW.

[@positivity20]

But in later part of the video he addresses there will be some horrible people..so not sure how to interpret that statement with the above statement

[@ritubbhatt]

@@positivity20 i was thinking the same but i think he meant horrible as in 'horrible'.

[@positivity20]

@@ritubbhatt may be he is using horrible as a synonym for miserable here.... but i see miserable, bad , horrible all as synonyms..so very fine lines separating them

[@realmrpoopybutthole7587]

Hitler was very sad.

[@dassolosyndikat5113]

Im joyful and miserable, good and bad, im versatile, im everything and nothing

[@differentperspective5876]

He's exactly the display of what extra peace, joy and harmony looks like & sounds like...🚨🚨🚨

[@adriannag7974]

Watching this was so eye opening. I feel like my life is so much sweeter now..

[@torqueshock7236]

It isn't my emotions that I can control; rather, it's my reactions to my emotions that I can control.

[@wendyvasion4828]

Torque Shock correct!

[@lightyagami6307]

🤔🤔🤔

[@Leitefsj]

Emotions are consequences of your thoughts. If you can control your thoughts (and you should), you can indeed control your emotions just as much

[@wadiyarabhijeet]

@Torque Shock Emotions are reactions if it comes compulsively or u can just be in stillness for those reactions to be conciously triggered . For this you need to be meditative and as Sadhguruji said meditation is not an act but a quality . So , you can very much be peacefull in every situation if this quality becomes apart of you ever moment in your life Namaskaram 🙏🏼❤️😍😌🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@djobokuwali4316]

You can’t control your reaction just the reaction to your reaction. It’d be nice if the first reaction was the better one haha

[@littlemac8673]

"Care about others approval and you become their prisoner." -Tao Te Ching

[@jjPassionHours2020]

To take care of others or to help others, we doesn't need their approval, we Only need willing Hearts to help and willing Hearts to receive😍😍

[@swarleystinson6733]

*"Size does matters!"* *-Ding Dong*

[@sylvestermerced3988]

Sometimes our closest friends and family see us better. Don’t dismiss their opinion or approval to readily.

[@olivegarden3201]

@@sylvestermerced3988 Logic still applies to that situation.

[@sylvestermerced3988]

@@olivegarden3201 re read the last sentence, especially the “to readily “

[@lyva]

I love how carefully different he chooses his words and analogies in front of a western audience.

[@kalyanaraman0307]

"Vision is all inclusive,desire is personal - Desire leads to incremental improvements,vision changes the whole situation." Beauty!

[@T.W.C.O]

Hello,person scrolling through comment.Yes, you. Remember you are beautiful, worth of love and full of potential. Always be nothing les than your best self . ❤

[@susansedor5675]

Thank u

[@svukic1041]

Hi there and thank you. But I feel sad that this is the closest I have felt to another human being in I don’t know how long.

[@vpanantha]

Haha yeah you caught me.

[@erikkasalns26ify]

❤

[@TOMEKAWMS]

Thank you

[@nehakhatri2826]

"There are no good ppl or bad ppl. There are just joyful ppl & miserable ppl" ☺️❤️❤️👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

[@safetydave720]

No way. You need to study more. Bad people are those who intentionally harm others in one way or another. They create disorder in Nature and throughout the Cosmos. They must be educated or punished to ensure they dont continue with their wickedness. Allowing them to continue harming others brings Karma down on you. Be careful with your thoughts and comments - mediate and become enlightened. You will never attain Dharma with the way you are thinking now.

[@nehakhatri2826]

@@safetydave720 When did I say they are doing right? Yes, some ppl do wrong, crime activity. We should take legal action against them. All I said was that even those ppl do such things because they think they are right. They need to be educated. Agreed. We should do all possible things to stop them from doing wrong but we shouldn't have any unpleasant feelings towards them on the inside. Cos then our inner peace will be gone. Their acts are sinful. They are not. Even they are part of cosmos.

[@gavinmiranda2898]

Well then what about Hitler how can he be no good or bad ???? or someone like him... What about them...???

[@gavinmiranda2898]

U said we shouldn't have any unpleasant feelings towards them on the inside... so my question to you is would u prefer or anybody for that matter to get married to a murderer (who has just murdered your loved ones) in case u get a marriage proposal from such people (who are of course part of the universe) or a rapist or people who are ill treating or cheating others?? Kindly explain what would you do???? Would anybody without having any negative feelings towards them from the inside want to settle their lives with such people..????

[@nicksenseitv4922]

You didnt understand Sadghuru. he means, people creating that "bad" image of Someone by telling bad people that they are Bad. but the truth is theres no Good Or Bad people. Bad people Has a Bad Past or Miserable Life thats why they became Villain, and theres a Psychological effect on them. mostly to the people with Miserable childhood. they're also a victim too. thats why in reality theres no Bad people. thats why most of them are broke the rules of laws, they are just a person who has Bad experienced, Broken hearted and psychologically damaged. you all people here need to learn psychology. and you will understand.

[@no1mumster]

I have found my inner peace now this man is Amazing!!!!❤

[@Purvisvarietyoflife]

By far one of my conversations from Sadhguru.. I'll def save and go back to this one regularly

[@victorsolomon5797]

"The moment we think we're good. We're ENTITLED to destroy the bad" needed to hear that one

[@jordanwilliams1507]

Same here

[@truthboom]

can also apply to when we think we're lawful. we're entitled to destroy the unlawful

[@newhope5729]

I just love the way he laughs 😄😄 He really laughs "WHOLEHEARTEDLY" Isn't it???? 😄😄

[@delucastudios3097]

with his whole being

[@kadiyalasangeetha7715]

Yesss

[@YAHdiEL]

He actually "VIBRATES" on a higher dimension

[@Calocarv]

I have come to same conclusion before seeing this, about not letting outsiders control your internal thoughts. It's the hardest thing do and I still haven't mastered it yet. I realized that The only time I get upset/disappointed is when some person/s does/fails to do/say something regarding me.

[@merrieromelie]

Same and it's really hard

[@Calocarv]

There are internal messages that play in our minds over and over again. These are affirmations that we must change to be positive and in time they will become so strong that they won't be affected by external influence.

[@merrieromelie]

@@Calocarv Thank you for this. I really appreciate it. Wish you all the best

[@aryan.vanced]

Thanku sadhguru for clarity

[@coachjacqui]

Giving another power over your emotions is the Ultimate Slavery!

[@neddyhenare7897]

Feels like most times nowadays

[@deadinthewater218]

Amen to that!

[@PerlaOC]

Isn’t that a battle itself?

[@rohinisubba1511]

@@PerlaOC nope u can do that with the snap of your fingers

[@JettBlast]

Powerful!

[@CherylMuir]

"Vision is all inclusive. Desire is personal." I felt that.

[@nicedude2370]

Many dalits also everyday feel untouchability.

[@ChristianHoyle]

Massive power statement..

[@Ninyaho]

@@nicedude2370 🖕🖕🖕 propegenda lie

[@dinapayne7743]

Can someone explain what this means? I don’t really get it. Thx you

[@Howlite__]

I love this. It's very true. You are your own person and sometimes we forget and get carried away In outside events that we forget ourselves. 🙏🏻

[@tianapegeder42]

“You will Find a way …… “. My heart is full and I have tears of joy to hear those words. Thank you 🙏❤️

[@EvaMariposa]

I love how he says "hello" to check people are listening 😂 He's amazing at how he makes every lesson enjoyable to learn.

[@kimgow7671]

I'm echoing him everytime

[@ramieoileus1544]

My mum does it ....and boy does it get our attention back To her 🤣 ....HELLO?

[@EvaMariposa]

@@ramieoileus1544 lol I admit, it's very effective.

[@hamedrauf9631]

Me too. Love his style.

[@doubledragon2074]

I thought he did that when he really believes in what he is saying in the moment.

[@web3036]

This guy makes me cry every time.....he has changed my life in so many ways...Thank you Sadhguru...

[@vikrambharadwaj760]

He changed mine too🙏🥰

[@meerarajput1363]

Exactly my words.... Can't agree more...

[@allisnotwhatitseems.]

Try Bruce Lipton next

[@aidasmatulaitis5175]

He almost made me cry while I was watching this.

[@psychicspy1234]

Really...? How?

[@the_natural_philosopher]

Mermerized by your wisdom!!

[@ishasaini1779]

It’s okay to get angry or bothered, it is part of the human experience. What matters is how you respond to the feelings and how you choose to act on them.

[@latadhanuka9849]

Yup when we get bothered by somebody...The best we can do is distract ourselves or ignore it

[@Jenvlogs404]

Spiritual and quality is great, but know basic survival!

[@blesildacalambro9459]

Yes it's ok to be angry but what is bad is staying angry all the time. When you already said your piece go back to your happy mode coz the reason of your anger happens in the past, maybe a minute ago, an hour ago, a month ago and still you let it affect you? Move on and find reasons to be thankful that will switch your angry mode to happy. Peace po.

[@lourdumary5915]

@Isha Saini What you expressed is very true.

[@chochooshoe]

not really. I can say "I'm angry but I'm not gonna act on it and do anything bad to anyone else" that does not save myself from having a negative feeling and destroying my own wellbeing.

[@tiffany392002]

When the phone interrupted, he could feel the annoyance the crowd put out , he immediately transmuted that energy into love when he said “ I love music . ✅

[@jagadeeshgurana4490]

He was very conscious and alert.

[@kageshadowfairy]

I noticed this as well and was very inpressed with the way he did that to transmute the reaction of the other peoples frustration. He is an enlightened being for sure.

[@MrSridharMurthy]

Good observation!

[@prafulk7671]

other day..a standup comedian would do the same. so no big deal

[@bossfell]

@@thumpdragfilms but how do you know the enlightened one wasn’t actually annoyed on the inside

[@sumitradebi1298]

So nicely expressed Sadguru ji ! Just incredible ! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@dooglio]

Lots of "aha!" moments for me in this. My wife *loves* Sadhguru. Now I see why.

[@mafiawaffle1386]

Whenever I think I'm getting angry in a debate, I realize that I'm really angry with myself for not giving good enough evidence to support my own point of view.

[@DivineLightPaladin]

Or even that you need to convince anyone and create a specific outcome, that is, that you may have expectations that the right words will change someone else's mind 😌 it can be quite a challenge

[@truthisnotanopinion71]

Why bother. Points of view base on opinions wether your own or others rarely matter. Familiarise yourself with the facts instead, they speak for themselves and need no particular point of view to be seen since they can be seen from all points where there are no opinions.

[@missmeggie6461]

Omg AMEN. I’m the EXACT same way .

[@angelinaalarcon132]

Oh my dear ♥ welcome to the club 😁 it is what it is.

[@mellowblueu]

I wasn't necessary the best with arguing with my brother(who is 2 grade levels older me), even though I know right from wrong and what "kindness" is, I could never stop his malignant narcissistic beliefs, he's also a sociopath. He's lazy and immature. While there's me, low self esteem, low confidence, anxiety, 𝗼𝗰𝗱, and bipolar II. Not to mention I always felt like I had a responsibility and feel guilty for not working hard enough.

[@nerdshala2997]

Surrender to life: just go with the flow without judging anything or anyone.

[@loadapish]

Tried it. I got walked all over for years

[@Nick_88]

_"Only a dead fish goes with the flow"_

[@mayso6069]

dave oneil I guess go with the flow but be assertive and know your worth?

[@shotokhan1992]

@@loadapish you probably misinterpreted what it's really about. it's not about sitting around doing nothing and letting people do whatever they want to you. what you need to do will become clear with a non-judgmental mind. that doesn't mean it won't require hard work or stepping out of your comfort zone.

[@kourvhyndavesumarde2685]

Much better if it's "Grow with the flow".

[@pradnyavk9673]

Sadguruji, your thoughts brings peace and clarity to me. 🙏

[@lukeguy3907]

I love this, so calming and positive

[@siyabulelatshali1012]

You can tell that he's wise, coz he listens and doesn't interrupt. 🤔

[@delucastudios3097]

this is why we have 2 ears and one mouth. we should listen more than we speak.

[@ChristianHoyle]

My biggest weakness..

[@susandowling8172]

I have been consciously listening to others lately, I received back such a good feeling of their gratefulness

[@trondbolme5435]

deluca studios Some would argue we have two ears to get stereo sound

[@psychogenie6991]

@@trondbolme5435 I'm dead ! XD

[@Belief_Before_Glory]

“You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this and you will find great strength.” - Marcus Aurelius

[@Glasshousebc]

I took this onboard 4 years ago… it made a huge impact on my life… meditations is on the bedside cabinet and always provides insights whenever it’s picked up. Good quote, matey. Stay well.

[@Belief_Before_Glory]

@@Glasshousebc You're welcome, buddy! Good to hear - his words have been hugely impactful for me too. Thanks for your comment, I appreciate it! All the best!✨

[@sageway479]

That’s a quote I’d get tatted

[@simstar6557]

He thinks he can make water sweet with mind though.

[@Joker-hh7ni]

@@simstar6557 Well, with a mind u can think, with thinking properly u will know that you can put something sweet in the water then it will be sweeter

[@oqqaynewaddingxtwjy7072]

He has the kindest eyes.

[@fuzailahmad6674]

"Isn't it so? Hello?" I love that😂

[@theshonuff8956]

When this guy speaks its simple,yet mind blowing.

[@mixrable1212]

Because the beauty of it is that, it really is that simple

[@iAMJaws]

Just simple imo. I wish you the best.

[@payalchimnani647]

Absolutely

[@johnnyblaaaze]

Life is simple, it's hard to see . Big words are just there to distract.

[@daxapatel6213]

That's the reason he is SADGURU

[@vetiarvind]

I need to watch this one often. I'm too sensitive to what others do and😎 I find myself secluding myself to protect my state.

[@DivineLightPaladin]

Me too, friend

[@jennyvjuarez]

Same☹️

[@CDM158]

Same. Happy holidays.

[@learneroftruth8025]

I did that for a couple years. Lived in isolation on top of a mountain resort town. Loved it...it’s so much easier. But aren’t we avoiding life by doing this? I feel like I’m hiding..

[@courtneycampbell5281]

Same

[@mostakahmed6390]

Thank you for understanding me the concept of life

[@Rebelz173]

God bless this man!

[@joelmilburn6146]

Love how she said "If I'm quoting you correctly". Called respect! Missing in mainstream media.

[@maxd3783]

@@stevescoffee8325 nope media never talks respectfully she was great

[@nanner3176]

"There are happy people and miserable people, there are no good people and bad people." That hits different when you struggle with depression. May we all find our joy again. Blessed be 🙏

[@trob9100]

I know what you mean about depression. Stay aware of the ups and downs and know that you are more than your chemical ups and downs. Find even the smallest little thing to be happy about or enjoy. As long as we keep waking up, there is a purpose for us here.💙

[@coolie4u]

God Bless you. I hope you will win the fight against the bad thoughts. I think most people have struggles with negative feelings because of others bad actions, so do I.

[@moonchild6157]

❤️

[@jkg2088]

Admist our strengths and what we feel stops us are there to test our emotional reactions . Failure is not a bad thing - without it we cannot ever experience true success. With many failures are many lessons to be learned . Life is a journey; sometimes smooth; sometimes bumpy.🦋❤️

[@Domkeizer]

You may want to watch his talk on mental depression, stress. In most his talks he touches on nental depression, etc

[@knowledgeseeker1991]

I needed to hear this..he is a blessing 🙏 I am grateful

[@savithaanjje2328]

Beautiful explanation....From the root of understanding the difference between desire and voluntary to the willingness of freedom...🙏🙏🙏

[@TimoKanal]

"The moment we think we are 'good' - we are entitled to destroy the 'bad'."

[@susandowling8172]

, yes I thought of this, and ofcourse there are not only 2 kinds of people. We are all different

[@fazbell]

This man is one of the most positive people I have ever listened to. He has something to teach all of us.

[@dondrysdale7297]

yes, but there are many people that are spiritually sick, and A.A., at least, taught to try to be understanding of the sick ones and see were we can maybe helpful, until it was closed down on us almost two years ago by closing churches down.

[@theedgeofcorrie]

This man & Joe Dispenza ate changing my view of my existence 🥰

[@hema-mystically5472]

Just a mention, few have unsettled Sadhguru. His reactions were very much as common persons response. However, when the child Abhigya astrologer did, Sadhguru handled it like an irritate non spiritualist!!! Just saying! He still seems bound by his Chinese birth animal, rooster🐓

[@nottherealraskitchen1521]

He is part of the NWO!!

[@fazbell]

@@nottherealraskitchen1521 Horseshit'

[@ivocaponio4797]

thanks Sadhguru, your wisdom and your example enriches the world so much!

[@auroravioletlight]

This very beautiful man. I thank all the universe that he is here now sharing wisdom. We have these different wonderful and lovely teachers who point the way right now. So grateful for every one of them. Blessings to them 🙏🏻🌹🌻🌸💮🌻🌼🌿🌷🕊️

[@livingbetternotbitterwithp4997]

I love to see him laugh, his whole body shakes lol. Such wisdom.

[@RAY-gw7fi]

The whole lot of energy reverbrates

[@yesviews]

@The Rod lol, checking my body to see if it vibrates enough

[@oritheartlight-bornstein6683]

My favourite thing about him too❣❣❣ So much joy in his wise presence❣

[@d.r.7516]

My classmates in middle school used to laugh at ma and imitate me because i laughed like that.. i tried so hard not to do that because they bullied me for every single thing I do. I don't even know why I'm writing this lol

[@NiinaSKlove]

Pure Awareness I think that’s a Guru thing. Just like evangelical pastors has a very significant way of speaking.

[@DarkleMusic]

He's not just full of wisdom, he is so charming with it. Love him.

[@berserker4539]

Wisest person i have ever come acrossed

[@DarkleMusic]

@@GeoClix hello

[@VAIR19]

Thank you so much.

[@fragrantbloom]

What great wisdom

[@Bill_Cipher1995]

I've struggled with this for years as a cashier. I've been so deeply affected by evey little thing customers do. It's hard to detach myself; I'm too sensitive and emotional....

[@bjond8403]

Simp

[@sajinksaji3202]

Don't take things personally

[@wes209]

@@bjond8403 Ellmao

[@supadarattagan5095]

Hugss 💕

[@Bill_Cipher1995]

@@supadarattagan5095 Thank you!

[@rajvinderkaur7213]

I used to get angry and bothered alot by my family members but now I keep less in touch with them I'm much calmer and dont let them bother me too much

[@suburbannoize5235]

same ... aint that a trip lol

[@BingQiLing.]

Why you should go to your family though

[@suburbannoize5235]

@@BingQiLing. yea real talk . its like u expect a mother to be a mother... but whose to say a mother is to be a mother lol

[@malithsamaradivakara6967]

​@@asad-kc8zf I agree with you. Keeping less in touch does not do any good, your just hiding the problems under a blanket and wishing they would get better. But there are exceptions...Like Sadhguru said, its your will to stay in control and not let others get to you. That's the ultimate power.

[@suburbannoize5235]

@@asad-kc8zf yo i got a question for u.... would u stay in touch with lets say ur mom if her word doesnt mean anything. she says one thing then does the exact opposite. never has ur back and its whenever u have somethign to address its as if its insignificant. so realistically this person is not on your team but related to you by blood only - so my question to you is would you still keep that person around even though they are unreliable and you literally dont know whats truth and what is a lie when you speak to them.... but yes you are related by bblood haha

[@vijayalakshmis1894]

Great sayings Sadhguru.,..i always feel grateful when I hear your speech....,

[@neelapatel15]

Thank you Sadguru🙏🏼 I needed this today.

[@DanielSquires]

*meditation is a powerful habit to help us respond to life instead of living in reaction*