How to stop thinking about her too much

[@plantlove5257]

It's so scary how accurate and agreeable you are. Insane. It's been so insightful, and I think the masses need to hear this type of real. It's like we all think we know how to be human and understand how we operate. Yet we struggle to be truly happy. Thanks so much ❤

[@yemiamoo1679]

True love begins with self love!

[@pugsondrugs0161]

I feel like everyone’s checked wayyy tf out of the dating world rn. Feels dry af and nobody wants to make a genuine effort anymore.

[@gokudecimomeridio]

Distance help to stop overthinking and see from far the reality if is an idealization or maybe has been manipulated,get in cold or freeze it even cut a future toxic relationship. Less attach,less dopamine,more peace,stay single and live without problems.

[@dariasmenos9690]

U R wonderful and pinned the donkey on this attachment style straight forward. Genius because sometimes ppl flash these signs and warnings and can be so misunderstood and break ups happened with no answers behind the" what just happened here" dilemma 😢 I am more secure but can get caught up with ppl that lose themselves when insecurities start to unravel negative thoughts. Best to all who can get a grip on themselves with love.

[@HappyRana-jz8ok]

one night i was scrolling through my phone, feeling like i’d never figure out why some people just seem so magnetic. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and something about it caught my attention. reading it was like turning on a light in a dark room. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about unlocking the energy you already have. trust me, this book is worth every page

[@zaziro]

Energy is not real answer to the problems the people have!

[@chemavzable]

Where can I find the book?

[@roshandominic]

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[@kmerz111]

Man I needed this tonight…thank you

[@polluxtroy2010]

I loved this Sadia!, effective communication of our needs and clear expectations

[@mekman4]

I know I’m moving forward because this video addresses other aspects of my life. I have this type relationship with more people in my life although not at a romantic capacity, but I’m glad it still applies. I am also happy to discover that in the moment I made sure to express me needs and as to why and to delay gratification, to ignore the id and the anxiety which would consistently relay the opposite of reality. People are not thinking about me. They are confident and going about their day. I’m embarrassed by the factors that drove me into fight or flight mode with the people I would interact with, but I’m glad about the way I ended up handling it. I don’t like the anxiety it caused though, and I do feel shame and guilt about it. Thank you, always!

[@skmk3900]

True love is loving yourself

[@darionexavier]

I’m so grateful for your insights . It’s so relevant at the moment. Thank you !

[@SpencerFoxMusic]

Thank you for sharing this….. there are often times where I feel that way and I avoid acting on it. It is attributed to my relationship with my parents. Thank you for bringing me a heightened awareness to this I believe it will actually help!

[@JU58GAS]

Sister sadia I appreciate the insight and relate to what you saying, you always have informative and self reflecting content.

[@craftshort-rr4gz]

i remember feeling like i was always the one fading into the background while others stood out effortlessly. it was frustrating and made me doubt myself a lot. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it showed me things i’d never even considered. it’s not just a self-help book; it’s like a guide to understanding your own energy and using it to connect with people. if you’ve ever felt like you’re not seen, this book might change everything.

[@pritish1177]

Actually loving with true heart matters at the end as time passes by people realise they lost Moon while counting stars

[@KushCraig-j9b]

This should be taught in high school!

[@jtrain3113]

This is absolutely brilliant truths

[@galina6707]

I'm with secure attachment style. Gorgeous lesson! Agree💯👏👏Thank you so much Sadia❤️

[@mikebowman9844]

You’re very fortunate to have a secure attachment style.

[@joseconejo5338]

I always wake up with you on my mind 😁

[@steveg2277]

Bro….just stop. Lame as hell.

[@ex-pirates7454]

Thank you Ma'am One thing I have noticed that you are getting beautiful day by day

[@sallahudinmehuddin8046]

I'm an anxious attached man, I've never had consistent love at any point in my life. I've been hurt over and over and over again.

[@jesenikm]

Thank you dear Sadia

[@Landen-df3sv]

This is what I needed ❤

[@WORKOUTSOLUTIONS]

CHRIST IS BORN! ⭐️ GLORIFY HIM ! ❤ Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all Orthodox Christians ☀🙏✝🕊🦾😘

[@Niwde8411]

Happy Saturnalia. Study Gnosticism & look up what Abrahamic religions are.

[@puddifoots41]

Thanks! Very nice to listen to your voice. Very interesting!

[@maphitagodswillebai4956]

Exactly me 💯 I appreciate this

[@galiciusgg2822]

Watching this videos make me think, thank god am alone.

[@FelixKubheka]

Thanks for insight Its 💯

[@theoisaac9948]

Enjoy your day.

[@pjfromnyc]

I try not stepping outside my mum house 4 a month to stop thinking 2 much about her. 1)watch documentaries 2)play 1 hour songs 3)spend time with family 4)listen to a audiobook 5)do a meditation 6)write down 3 things your grateful for each day 7)make a zoom meeting/social support groups/AA/ISLAMIC class 8)read a pdf book aloud on a Smartphone device while listening to a audiobook on KZbin TV while it's narrating/telling the stories of the book

[@bradslibertyGT]

Staying inside your home might not be the best thing you can do if you’re suffering from an anxious attachment

[@pjfromnyc]

@bradslibertyGT Umm that is an interesting perspective I never considered that before I'll look into the terminology

[@MrTonyis25]

Literally going through this right now my girlfriend just broke up with me because she said she wanted to do couples therapy and then while I schedule show it, she told me she never said that, and we got in an argument and broke up 😢 but everything you said literally describe me

[@林建塔-s3z]

Thanks for this

[@Mia1827]

I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended few month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex boyfriend, and I can't seem to get him out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win him back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss him deeply and can't stop thinking about him

[@Mia1827]

How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?

[@charlesmartin783]

I hope you find peace.

[@master-of-mind5881]

The first year after a breakup is always the hardest. The first twelve months are insufferable, unbearable even but trust me you will prevail. The trick is to not force it. Don’t look for solutions just let it run its course eventually things get easier because you recondition your mind to get used to not being around your ex. In my case it took me eleven months until I started feeling much better in my mood and feelings. The process is different for everyone but trust me in time you will overcome it. Sounds like you are halfway there.

[@Zen-sl7de]

Comparing to the exes? Oh heck no. Sadia, no way no way.

[@Vik-005]

Excellent.

[@ahmedkumayl6332]

Thank you Sadia

[@TheBlessingReport]

Great video

[@kevinkwiek730]

So wise.

[@kevinkwiek730]

Is there any way I can message you directly? If it takes time for you to see than that’s fine I just only want it to be you.

[@jpriest806]

I had a fling with my sons mother 7 years ago during college. She had just graduated and moved to a bigger city and wasn't sure if he was mine. 6 years later, she had told me about my son, I always cared for her, and we tried to have a relationship. It didn't work out and unfortunately, she took her own life. I feel like now, I can't have a relationship without an anxious style.

[@levijensen3000]

I hope time will heal your wounds.

[@TravisBerenyi]

(30 year old here) Uh oh, I get separation anxiety with just a friend... it was great in the beginning, but she's getting her life together now. I wish her the very best though. She seemed like a committed friend, but I'm not so sure anymore. I have other married female friends who still like to talk. Oh well, different upbringings.

[@StephenMaginn-x8r]

You can't hold me in a nerve center and think I'm nervous going to figure ot out

[@StephenMaginn-x8r]

Life will do that to you

[@Dlorddarius]

Oh yeah ❤

[@FoxMcCloudPro]

What if we both anxious attachments?

[@zobayerhossain8295]

How can I ask for Ms. Sadia's advice for something personal? I am from BD.

[@MohitJha5]

Order your Brain 🧠 to be HAPPY & Confident (with some increased amount of Indifference)

[@donrounds7791]

Oh no. That is me

[@shortcutDJ]

protest behaviour,brilliant

[@StephenMaginn-x8r]

No thy self

[@jidezinho23]

I discover my attachment style last year , bu watching this video you just described me and i have learned a whole lot of lessons psychologically. My partner has Avoidant attachment style , how can we both be secure? , my partner doesn't like to communicate when I always want to , kindky suggest the bedt solution

[@michaelramirez8106]

Ms. Khan what if im not the insecure one she is, what can I do or say besides tell her how much I like her?

[@MLFv2]

To work on her self worth. And deal with her childhood trauma. rough conversation to have. But we gotta heal from the past before we can build a future with someone

[@Niwde8411]

Keep improving your life. Not improving yourSelf but your life in terms of Creating your world. When she sees that her being insecure doesn't stop you from doing that, she's either gonna begin to work on herSelf to become part of that world or remain complacent due to fear of change. If she remains complacent then you have to let her go as that can cause your world to collapse.

[@roshandominic]

What if she does this?

[@Danny-qr5yq]

Can you reverse your anxious attachment style to being more secure?

[@roseee_97]

damn thats me

[@klabkebash]

Bedazzled: "I Can't handle this kind of rejection!! Why don't you want to stay here with me!!" =p

[@dm.25]

Can it happen between crushes😂😅

[@furhannlatif8837]

I LOVE how you LIE without hesitating 😂

[@sache3694]

Bruh I felt the same.

[@JosephArmbrister]

Interested information

[@aribailor3766]

Yes, it is cliche. Keep busy. Fill your schedule. Go to therapy.

[@LuxuriaLifestyle2]

So what when my ex " jumps to conclusions" (like women do all the time) , stops the relation in one day, jumps off our ship and never wants to see you again even you did nothing wrong..... I just need to move on.

[@Ibde-ib9gu]

Hi Sadia thank you for guidance. Please Help!!!! I get connected a woman on dating app and she claimed to be a military personnel in mission out of state and the connection was great and the communication was fine and we taught very compatible for long term relationship and both of us optimistic to meet in person soon and take the relationship to the next level. However, she is coming with frequent request of gift cards with seemingly convincing needs claming that she can’t use her cards outside the U.S and the payment she is getting goes to blocked account and she can’t access it now. I comprised twice and sent her gift cards to keep the momentum of the connections. However, she came back with third request after I made it clear that it gonna be my last during my last provison. She keeps on insisting raising the issue consistently to send her again for the last time but which makes me so uncomfortable, l even became suspicious as the connection is only 12 days old..😮 . I am confused and not sure how to move forward. Your insight will be greatly appreciated! 🙏

[@dreambeam4735]

That’s a scam dear, I encourage you do a lil research on how romance scams work. ❤

[@ZlogsUK]

Not really in a relationship but when i start seeing someone or even speaking to someone on phone mosy of the time i get kinda i keep on thinking about her all the time waiting fr her text keep looking at my watsapp

[@davidisaias9006]

Señorita Sadia esta muy bonita 😍 aparte de ser inteligente educada exitosa Brillante etc. Muchas gracias por su trabajo 👍 You say you're from Dubai and I heard that some societies on east (middle-east) are allow to have as many wifes as you can as long as you are economically capable to cover their needs. sorry I have no idea that's what i heard and I wonder if you had worked with this kind of men if yes what are the regular issues they have. i think this type of men (ones with harems) do not go to the psychologist but i'm just guessing. I would like to know your insights on this matter. maybe you already talked about this subject so if someone refers me to that video i'll see it. Thank you.

[@myyoutubechannel3161]

I need to not be like this please help !!

[@Ricardo-hy3zs]

🔥🔥🔥

[@marcin3136]

Specify: "too much" 😆 Half a day is too much? 😂😂😂🙃🤷 Habibi! 🌼🥰🤗🤗🤗

[@JamesJune-n1y]

Sounds like a Libra trait

[@林建塔-s3z]

The truth

[@Daddy2025HQ]

This one is the other way around when I’m at work late she tells me make sure video call her she wants to make sure if I’m really at work I’m like wtf?? for almost 12 years bruh I worked in an construction industry of course we finished late she doesn’t trust me because I got busted once in our relationship I almost cheated on her I was drunk!

[@lovepeace8918]

Sometimes Sadia says things that kinda make sense, or probably are true, but there are times when she is way out in left field and has gone overboard ! Yes I know of two instances she has said things on you tube, that are just OFF ! But she thinks she knows everything, and most people just accept everything she says are correct it's pretty funny to me !

[@pvillaluna1]

🙏🙏🙏

[@danijela777]

👏🏻👏🏻

[@mikejess395]

She’s so dreamy

[@EduardoPaez-uq8qx]

The conclusion I came to recently to not think about her too much is to get to know multiple women at once. Go out with them, that way you don't give all your attention to one. Then if you like one and want to date her, go from there. Get to know them first, then decide if you want to officially date one. It gives you an abundance mindset as well.

[@Niwde8411]

She's speaking from the perspective of being in a relationship but when you're single, this is the solution. This is what incels are afraid to do because they think they're not able to.

[@eisenhower9069]

Great but don't sleep with them

[@EduardoPaez-uq8qx]

@@eisenhower9069 I don't.

[@thecannyshow8354]

How can you claim to be an "Expert" on dating and relationships? ... When you're always online gossiping and making videos with your "opinion" on things.....!? Meaning = you dont actually date or spend much time with a 'relationship' you don't have the time.!!!!! ........ so what makes you think you're an "Expert"?

[@ranjitthaker9104]

The content has little relevance to topic title

[@RodoSumor]

Sadia babe,right now I don’t have time for your mind playing tricks on yourself,save that for the pre schoolers,let’s talk oil business,I see your revenue and Capital gain growth,has shot up 47 percent,almost half,the barrel of oil has drop to $76 dollars a barrel,why don’t you bye 1 million barrels,of the grade X,that’s always a hot seller.

[@johnpower7732]

I used to have a girlfriend till I found out she cheated on me yeah she was a slot

[@lovepeace8918]

10:00 A committed relationship what ? Seriously ? In the middle east you're allowed to marry more than one, even in the United States Mormons are allowed to have more than one, so where is the one on one commitment in that ? Abraham in Genesis had Sarah and Keturah and Hagar, and King Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines. So tell me where is the fun in just one woman ? that is like saying men can only have one vehicle ? Makes no sense, if one breaks down then what ? If one woman does not put out, then what ? Makes no sense at all !

[@boristagesson967]

Relationships are pointless.

[@506thparatrooper]

As a Pakistani, muslim British citizen & therapist why is Sadia silent about the muslim Pakistani communities' complicity and silence about the grooming and raping of hundreds of young girls for years? It is hard to imagine a more devastating trauma than being repeatedly raped and then denied justice by the very people children so be able to count on to do so. As a female therapist, Sadia should at least address this explosive story.

[@joshuatharian4673]

Thank you madam.🫶