Sam M. Raises Red Flags During Bachelorette Group Date with Molly & Jason Mesnick

During this week’s episode of “The Bachelorette,” Sam M. makes a splash while Jenn and her men enjoy a group date at a Seattle iHeartRadio station. Bachelor Nation alumni Molly and Jason Mesnick notice the red flags too. See how it unfolds in the clip above.
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[@Masi.Capone]

Imagine this guy's wedding vows. "Our love is ferocious, and today is all about the main thing, and your selflessness is so hot. It makes me wanna be a father. I thought I might marry maria or daisy and you've never been my type but.....I love you."

[@popperpoppler4569]

😂😂😂 Spot on! Hes got 4-5 things he says and he just repeats them over and over, even in situations where they don’t fit. And if he needs to switch from one to the other he just sort of rambles until he gets there.

[@kathytang98]

Omg 😂

[@schmolik1]

Hey isn't Maria single? Why doesn't Sam find Maria?

[@Masi.Capone]

@@schmolik1 I would love to see them talk to each other, but she's so much better than that.

[@maartjegoede9330]

😂😂😂😂

[@michellechaychay]

Sam is soo f**king CREEPY, eww how he kissed Jenn was so gross after he just degraded her. I feel so bad for Jenn

[@janellecande]

I can't stand him 😭

[@terrybartick1754]

Could not have said this better. I feel aame

[@louisloother301]

Every guy on this season is creepy 😂😂😂

[@jenniferhansen3622]

It was creepy on night one when they were (overly) kissing before getting to know each other. I hope people don't behave that way in real life when they barely know each other.

[@bartkarnowski4458]

Gives big Luke P vibes

[@shannond.5916]

Bingo! About 7 minutes in, Sam thought Daisy or Maria were going to be the Lead. This group was selected for those ladies, not necessarily for Jenn. It's not fair for her. And Sam wants to be on Bachelor in Paradise. He is literally doing an Audible.

[@starrymarimusic]

Audible... or an edible.

[@michelleleichter4119]

@@starrymarimusic audition probably

[@lolak.9275]

Maria would’ve destroyed that man lmaooo

[@lovher]

That sucks! But Marcus seems like a great fit for Jen.

[@jenniferhansen3622]

​@@lovherMarcus doesn't seem ready. I think he needs therapy to work through his trauma. 😢❤

[@milenajimenez2]

HUGE red flags!! the accurancy of the guys analyzing him! they are so right! he always make all the questions about him and not about Jenn! And when he said "aggressive" for the fantasy suite! OMG bye!!! classic sign of a narcissist! Then to kiss her in a middle of anwering a serious question, in this context is a huge red flag cuz he just wanted to avoid answering the question!!!

[@Thechubbun]

Sadly, he reminds me of my ex 😢 this episode was triggering!

[@gideon7932]

Even if Sam thought that Daisy and Maria would be the bachelorette WHY WOULD HE EVEN SAY THAT?

[@bears445]

Right!!! He just says things without thinking, I get so much second hand embarrassment watching him 😂🤡

[@onesweetangel1017]

They actually asked Maria if she wanted to be the bachelorette but she declined it

[@jennxjisoowinterlvr3643]

Because he is that DUMB I tell ya

[@lengl1125]

Holy moly Sam is the definition of a red flag… that unwarranted kiss because he can’t answer any question with any depth is just gross. Glad he’s showing his true colours so Jenn can weed him out sooner rather than later. She deserves way way better.

[@milenajimenez2]

yes! and also when he said "agressive" for the fantasy suite! eww red flag💀

[@larrymarshall8900]

I'm glad she sent his butt what a weird dude for real.

[@nicoleprice9202]

Red flag? Nope! Red banner, red California King flat sheet! What more information could you provide that would say how wrong he is (for anyone)

[@funchik93]

Spencer is incredibly handsome and smart. Sam being so bad highlighted how good the other guys are.

[@Amy-zs8tx]

Ohhhh he’s my pick!! So good looking & genuine!! ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@Karma_243]

​@@Amy-zs8tx Spencer is tall n handsome he lookalike 1 to actor but dunno name n movie😂😂😂

[@selenaparsley1122]

Him mentioning Daisy & Maria is a triangulation tactic used by narcissist to pit women against each other so they will compete for the low life’s attention. Maria & Daisy would have sent him home after night one.

[@bears445]

So true! And yeah I doubt Daisy or Maria would find anything interesting about him. He’s a pig.

[@lolak.9275]

Maria would’ve told him to gtfo a long time ago 😂 he can’t handle that

[@jenniferhansen3622]

I would have loved to have seen how Maria would have handled him.

[@xiamariansupreme72]

@@jenniferhansen3622 She would've gracefully read TF outta Sam.

[@kevinfrey9063]

I feel so much dumber than I did 10 minutes ago before watching this video. He is such a tool.

[@MizzAlexaMarie]

😂😂😂 nailed it

[@Masi.Capone]

He reminds me how important it is to care for my mental health.

[@daverotes2115]

I actually think some of us strangers in the comments would be able to answer those questions better than Sam, the sad thing was he was the last guy called for the three words to describe Jenn, so HE KNEW THAT QUESTION WAS COMING and heard the other guys. If anything he had the advantage over everyone lol

[@adwoamk8918]

Usually this show blows things out of proportion but that was truly awful. This was a really good way to figure it out who is genuine, all the other guys were so authentic with their answers it really exposed Sam.

[@jasminegutierrez7251]

The other guys care about Jenn and their feelings for her are real. Sam isn't genuine about his feelings and emotions, it's phony.

[@isagabrielini3904]

If she was not his type …. Just be honest that you don’t see it and leave … don’t act :/ . So sad … I feel for her ….

[@cindylee1194]

I guess Sam doesn’t know as much about the “main thing” as he’s been claiming all season long 😂

[@Kkkkk22572]

I love how Devin knows Sam so well 😅😅😂 and best part he was right

[@wendymckim3336]

The main thing was her. So she's a thing to him??

[@ddew7223]

Wow he is atrocious. Forcing a kiss on her, can’t put together a sentence or any iota of genuine feelings or honesty.

[@nicoleprice9202]

That was beyond cringe!

[@freedom4063]

​@@nicoleprice9202very cringe lol😅

[@seaurchin4451]

My boyfriend and I watched this last night and kept having to pause to gasp and wide eye each other in shock at his responses 😂

[@honeyandteacakes]

LMAO my boyfriend & I did the same thing. It was so bad

[@blancaochoagarcia7286]

😂 I love this for you guys ❤❤❤❤

[@Amy-zs8tx]

Sam has NEVER been real imo - he comes off rude & a hot shot! 🙄🙄

[@Snippets-of-Mendi]

This is Bachelor at its finest. I LOVE how they let these other guys watch on a monitor so rather than spiraling that he's getting more undeserved time with Jen they get to actively see him dig himself a grave. Their reactions in the moment added so much to the back and forth. I've watched since season 1 and this episode is in my Top 10. Jen is a rockstar.

[@Tokidokiandmakeup]

he did not keep the main thing the main thing

[@andreadetata4801]

When he said- you are not my type. I was thinking it was going to be Maria or Daisy, I would have ended it right there. I really hope Jenn picks the right guy for her.

[@Dreamlillie_95]

You'd think their 1-on-1 would've been enough of a red flag. Sam thinks *HE's* the Bachelor

[@BitterSweetCoffee3]

The kiss was difficult to watch. Just no

[@sharleenmagetto5051]

She gave too much so fast

[@billking1751]

@@sharleenmagetto5051 Yep

[@kathytang98]

Answers are not straight to the point and described fantasy suite as "aggressive"?!?! Wow...😂 🚩

[@SaraBlu]

I don’t even understand what he’s saying.

[@AbigaillOwusu]

omg this was SO tough to watch

[@gugumvemve7439]

I need Molly to narrate her thoughts throughout this scene....I have a feeling there was more, way worse than what we are seeing

[@annette6731]

This guy is there only for the fame

[@Thechubbun]

Sadly most of us has dated a guy like him

[@Sadies-girl-Cin]

He has no depth & doesn't know how to answer cuz it's not about him,the word aggressive for fantasy suite is alarming like WTH

[@jenniferhansen3622]

They keep talking about wanting a ferocious love So that's probably what he meant.

[@shanaedennis7850]

This guy... The date was soo awkward. I couldn't watch. He didn't know Jen and that is so sad because I was rooting for him from the beginning

[@xiamariansupreme72]

Makes me wonder how much rejoicing people are doing who clocked Sam being a player/liar from day 1. I saw MANY comments about Sam being phony from episode 1 and those people are being proven right.

[@shanaedennis7850]

@xiamariansupreme72 Exactly because it was only physicial.. He can't even have a meaningful conversation with her.

[@xiamariansupreme72]

@@shanaedennis7850 Exactly. He's only lusting after her & to be honest, he's not even lusting after her for being into her. He's only lusting after her just because he, himself, is somewhat hyper sexual & lacking substance, given how he admitted she's not even his type. His lust isn't even based on HER looks, its based on HIS sexual advances/desires overcompensating for his lack of personality & depth.

[@shanaedennis7850]

@@xiamariansupreme72 I totally agree.

[@shanaedennis7850]

@@xiamariansupreme72 Men tell all will reveal all.

[@salomenjeri1149]

This was so cringe to watch!!! Mentioning Daisy and the other one....duuude!!!!

[@schmolik1]

Yeah don't mention the "other one"'s name, I don't like her either.

[@jenniferhansen3622]

​@@schmolik1Maria

[@edenouellette3833]

Imagine being on a date and the guy just compares you to who he would rather have on a date, like Daisy and Maria! I'd be so mad.

[@larrymarshall8900]

Yes that would be so embarrassing that's like if he said that Maria is hotter than Jenn which she is but he will be wrong saying that in front of her. So I feel bad for the both of them actually.

[@Maureen-MO]

“ Sam talks for the life of him, nothing comes out of his mouth.” Devin

[@marydss-no9yq]

Cause not everyone have the same level of perception of reality.

[@kelseyfrasier]

I had to pause like 5 times soo painful to watch

[@Stardust.Creations]

Same!!

[@lakebiscuit8653]

Saaaaaame 😂

[@noellarash367]

He’s pathetic

[@bears445]

Same, Sam M is just too cringe 😭

[@princezgeekchic3690]

I actually fast-forwarded quite a bit and there was still more to come lol.

[@roter13]

Jason got so much crap for saying that he made a mistake by not picking Molly and now look, 15 years together.

[@chideraannugwu8570]

Sam doesn't even know Jenn. They had a chemistry in night one but it has to be more than just a chemistry at this point.

[@kristinawong]

I was screaming "RUN JENN RUN!" at the screen.

[@miny4558]

Nothing against Jen but she kinda has herself to blame she only kept Sam around because of a physical connection there’s so much more to a relationship than the physical.

[@sonyadrake7843]

🎯💯 saying she's not his type, 🤔 it was going to be Maria or Daisy 😳🤯

[@larrymarshall8900]

​@@sonyadrake7843That's an insult to her. That's like him saying to her that I thought you were gonna be hot and in shape. A mean way to put down a woman and hurt their feelings.

[@marydss-no9yq]

Totally right! She tried to use him but he was way too smart. When she heard the "love you" , it was too soon for her and the show... cause they wanted to hear it in a grande concept..Good for you Sam!!!

[@Booya2024]

Imagine going to work and turning on the radio and hearing… This😂

[@shhrruuu]

Whos the guy in the blue over shirt at 6:49 who says "🙄bruh" please that was gold 😂

[@aj2fireflash]

Spencer

[@aiyannarusifo6881]

the pet portrait entrepreneur

[@gabyhincapiemendoza8391]

Since his one and one he raises big reds flags 🙄

[@AB-mx1de]

Since night one!

[@marymclaughlin3558]

“DOES HE KNOW THE DEFINITION OF SELFLESS” “He does not” LOL DEVIN

[@JenMUA]

The way he’s gaslighting me to think I don’t know what selfless means lol.

[@rg7122]

Narcissistic word salad.

[@angieh612]

Exactly

[@edenouellette3833]

I could not believe it when Sam actually forced her into a kiss that was insane!

[@larrymarshall8900]

That was cringe worthy. I felt bad for Jenn,as for Sam the guy isn't right in the head at all

[@heytheredelilah16]

He thought his looks alone would keep him.

[@IsThisThePrizeIveWaitedFor]

Loved seeing Molly and Jason! Their season was a bit messy at the end (😅) but they’ve stood the test of time. They’re one of the very few successful Bachelor relationships.

[@TG-vk5uy]

Sam is talking a lot without saying much. That was so cringe.

[@user-yj7tb5sd3u]

This is my favorite thing you have ever had on the Bachelor!! The Hosts are incredible, they knew exactly what they were doing to choose Sam. The whole world got to see the true Sam, who talks in circles chasing his tail till we all got dizzy!! hahahhhaaah (Poor Jen!!)

[@xmochilove]

not them trying to decipher all the nonsense that come out of Sam's mouth 😂💀

[@larrymarshall8900]

He was basically talking in circles jibber jabbering in the conversation. Maybe he was nervous cause he was on a live radio station

[@Butterflywho]

Somewhere his ex is crying laughing

[@mc8135]

I guess we know why she cheated on him, good for her

[@ricahpc]

I lost a few brain cells, my head hurts 😭

[@1440900julie]

Omg he reminds me and sounds like Luke from Hannah Bachelorette season

[@artfquinn]

For some reason, I feet from the start that Sam M is not seeking Jenn's heart but becoming the next Bachelor. I am glad I am right. He is not the first and will not be the last. After watching so many episodes, I develop a radar to detect such thing.

[@axlethebody]

Makes alot of sense now why Sam was cheated on. Guys a robot. No emotional connection no wonder his ex cheated on him. When women cheat its usually because of that rather than lust

[@orchid405]

💯

[@marydss-no9yq]

wow justifying the cheating? Why not be upfront about it?

[@Liya_2404]

Omg I said the same thing

[@ericdeben]

Watching Sam implode in front of everybody was amazing

[@janly1613]

That was so terrible from Sam especially the kiss. Pack your bags & go home mate.

[@larrymarshall8900]

Especially when he said that she wasn't his type or him thinking that Maria or Daisy are the bachelorettes. So disrespectful of him to say those things to Jenn.

[@kristinamyrteza4729]

We knew it all along that he wasn’t the one he’s a walking red flag

[@janellecande]

Sam is a dusty

[@edenouellette3833]

Jenn in the confessionals: *talking about how awkward it was with Sam* Jenn IRL: "Calm down, cowboy." I love it ❤

[@ShriveledPickle]

Dang were the hosts in the same room reacting to that 😱😳

[@fonaalsh]

Sam is not ok! He needs to see psychiatrist or find a mentor. I feel sorry for him 😮

[@angelwings7930]

Yes. I hope he gets therapy. He’s depended on his looks and charisma too long, I mean his initial charisma. He ruins it as time goes on.

[@stellapatman2765]

Agree Sam needs helps psychological issues before someone get hurt.🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@angelwings7930]

@@stellapatman2765 Yes. That too because he starts getting twitchy at certain points and his choice of words is a big red flag.

[@stellapatman2765]

@@angelwings7930 that's serious

[@angelwings7930]

@@stellapatman2765 Yeah, if you rewatch the film of him, he starts getting a slow, weird burn going. He’s seething in some parts of the conversation.

[@KarlaElaine100]

I think Sam was hoping for Maria. Ouch!

[@scullysensei]

I’m sorry Sam is a mess.

[@HolisticPeacenik]

I really appreciate when there's a villain that eventually gets kicked off. It's usually clap worthy and Sam is no exception.

[@ronniepeterson6911]

During the date, Sam N. said he thought Daisy not seen on the video or Maria Georgas would be the bachelorette instead of Jenn. This made Jenn upset. He tried to kiss Jenn when he could think of what to say, but it was clear that she wasn't sure about him during the date...

[@luvopuppy]

Wow... After this... Sam ain't real

[@Nikzcyn]

He showed what kind of person he is on his one-on-one date with Jenn. And now after this, I don’t wanna see his face on TV ever again. 🤢

[@larrymarshall8900]

He definitely won't be on Bachelor In Paradise next season that's for sure.

[@mythoughts6229]

Why is she letting him kissed her out of the sudden and for no reason at all! She could have just push him and stop him, they literally kiss more than 10 second. What is that all about???

[@tolmjoe]

Exactly. That seemed really weird. He's a walking red flag but I guess most ladies these days will throw all the warning signs out the window if they feel a guy is hot lol. Better his lips than his brain

[@kayseecoward7571]

That kiss was assault

[@jasminegutierrez7251]

Sam doesn't make any sense, he says he's selfless but his actions and words don't add up. He didn't really answer the questions, doesn't know Jenn for who she is and said he thought Daisy or Maria would be the bachelorette because they would be his type. Jenn will see he's not the one for her

[@kumaruma643]

This was the perfect way to show who was really here for Jenn and who really wasn’t.

[@daverotes2115]

I been watching this show for 15 years this season is the first season ever I had to actually pause while watching to cringe. It’s all Sam moments that make me cringe not just this date starting all the way from his 1-1. Credit to bachelor nation I really really cringed next level.

[@bartkarnowski4458]

I thought Luke P was worse but this was pretty awful

[@daverotes2115]

@@bartkarnowski4458 yeah as a dude I think Luke P was worse how he wouldn’t even leave when being sent home.

[@candiceoconnor7119]

Sam claimed to be a Southern gentleman…but his behavior is not gentlemanly at all! Glad he was sent home

[@bartkarnowski4458]

Fun fact, linking your own status as a "gentleman" based solely on your random geographical place of birth is a major red flag.

[@laursouth52]

The problem is she’s so attracted to him she lets all the red flags slide. If he gets engaged to her at the end of this…idk…not good.

[@laursouth52]

Also his behavior would embarrass me

[@abab9622]

He had a politician answer 🗣️🥗🥗🥗🥗

[@leemary4833]

Good thing there’s the radio show that helped expose his true character.

[@nikkikiris3062]

Um... Jason broke off his engagement with Melissa on TV and then immediately afterward asked Molly out 😂

[@IndependentMindWoman]

Sam looks like Juan Pablo

[@hennamontana222]

My question is, why would Jenn keep him around for this long? Yes, there’s a physical connection. But there’s nothing else. And if you are this serious about getting married, you can’t waste your time with guys like Sam M. It says a lot about her lack of emotional maturity. And the fact that she gave him another conversation after this…

[@whitneydanielle8882]

Somehow the environments before were conducive to the tomfoolery. He was put on the spot here and his true colors really showed.

[@bartkarnowski4458]

She's said a few things that definitely made her sound shallow and putting a lot of weight on attractiveness. She obviously doesn't deserve an abusive guy like Sam but physical attractiveness clearly played the biggest role in his overly long stay.

[@Jessica-yd3ld]

Sam is not on the same intelligence level with Jenn.

[@Booya2024]

Anyone here watching Devins answers after the finale?

[@AveryGriffin-ll7ky]

“Damn Sam” 🤣😭

[@otvirani]

Excellent edit!

[@JenMUA]

I’m wanting for him to make sense so badly! Like waiting for it to just click and holy crap.

[@RoseShareck]

Sam is such a walking red flag

[@kathrynorozco5416]

He’s “selfless”😂😂oh my freaking god

[@edenouellette3833]

Of course a "full of ___" person might come and see 25 guys! That's where the phrase "here for the right reasons" came from.

[@lolak.9275]

“This girl is not my type “ yeah he’s getting axed and I think he was purposely trying to get eliminated without being the bad guy

[@whitneydanielle8882]

Honestly I think he's just a poor communicator and viewed this as a competition. He probably wanted to be last man standing and see Devin go home.

[@kybunnii]

Fantasy suite? Aggressive! Eww......

[@Briball19]

The fact that Sam was talking about how he wasn’t into her and then mentions who he thought the Bachelorette would be should’ve made Jen have him leave. The fact that she gave him like 3 chances to redeem himself when he should’ve left solidified to me that she was probably planning on picking him in the end. Thank god he messed that up himself so she didn’t get stuck with him

[@maggieniew806]

Narcissist, reciting big words but doesn't understand the true meaning.

[@youtooonelee9177]

Sam looks lost.

[@larrymarshall8900]

A deer in the headlights for sure. He's getting Luke P vibes from Hannah Brown's season.

[@terrybartick1754]

❤so creepy

[@whitneydanielle8882]

Spencer would have been a great pick for Daisy.

[@allie816]

as soon as he pulled out the aave i knew

[@sonyadrake7843]

He seemed bored and didn't want to be there. 😳

[@larrymarshall8900]

I was bored and falling asleep through his segment. Sam's a good looking guy with a great career,but dude doesn't know how to talk to women at all.

[@Thechubbun]

He has NO self-awareness

[@noellarash367]

So embarrassing.. where did this guy (Sam) come from? Don’t they screen the contestants before the show?

[@whitneydanielle8882]

He was her night one first impression rose!

[@amaamzat9913]

Lmao every time she said Sam, I CRINGED so hard 😖

[@1anOnly]

The "Main Thang" for Sam was him not Jenn 😂

[@edenouellette3833]

Reckless is a horrible word to describe love!

[@vladislavasarioglo3598]

How is this real