20 Signs that Narcissist Infected YOU (Zombie Narcissism)

[@oilselevated4808]

By the time my husband (33 years) was almost done, I was his personal assistant, cruise director, president of his fan club, governess, and most importantly, his medical expert(taxed with the pleasure of dosing out his final medications). He died a little over a year ago and I’m finally feeling better, everyday grateful that I’m not enslaved anymore or having to suffer humiliation, lies, chaos…it’s so sad when someone dies young, but not this time

[@trini_a_Lana]

Same here

[@oilselevated4808]

@@trini_a_Lana I had to take care of him in hospice for his last 4 months, he thought it was good to “come clean” about his whore in another city, 36 year old gold digger!!!! Every day now I wake up with gratitude that I’m left in peace

[@Theloversconjure]

@@oilselevated4808wow!! What a way to go. I’d have left him right then and there. You’re a good person for still staying by him. Better than me. 😊

[@gabrielleaumont3971]

Halleluya and praise be! All the best for this new chapter of your life!

[@777hathor]

That’s why some victims question where or not they are narcissistic. So this makes sense.

[@LifeIsGood1992]

developing odd behaviour that a victim never been guilty of, is a major sign

[@gorunsko31]

Sam, as your student, I am Happy to hear about you being recognized for the significant contribution to making the world a better place. ❤

[@frausirota214]

a charismatic narcissist can infect not only the inner circle of family and friends, but also entire groups of people within a company or community and turning them into a cult of self-praise

[@Selah1141]

Wow, and the victim of an NPD person gets accused in every situation for their emotional dysregulation, brain fog, lack of empathy, and more!

[@mskitt49]

@Dr. Sam Vaknin congratulations on your very deserving nomination! I have been a follower of yours for about four years. You have rescued me mentally! You have explained within your videos exactly what narcissistic abuse is. You have helped me to understand that it was not me, it was them. You have helped me to gain back my respect of self! I remember you spoke about respect in one of your videos, and you stated that it was going to be harsh, but we needed to hear it! I am certain I am not the only one that you have help to regain self and love of self! Again, congratulations on your nomination! You are well deserving of the honor!

[@fionahawkes1758]

Yes 👏 I absolutely agree 👍

[@gorunsko31]

Yes, he wants me to become an internal object. I am his “project” … never a wife.

[@CeruleanStarrr]

Awesome! Congratulations on the nomination! Believe it or not you inspired me to return to school to, as you so lovingly say, "READ A BOOK."

[@deannahafsasalam5784]

This is exactly why our 8 year old daughter behavior has changed so dramatically! It's because of him😢😢

[@beautyskin8696]

You are absolutely a winner already! Your contribution to humanity cannot be described. Congratulations 🎉

[@user-re4wk7gu1c]

In my opinion you've already won the award 🥇🏆 congratulations 🎉

[@amberleach5501]

Hi Prof Vaknin, I hope you get the award. You were instrumental in my making sense of the confusion and what has happened to me.

[@rubenmorales9363]

Congratulations Dr. Vaknin!

[@divamariaribeiroguimaraes4486]

Imagine how difficult is to take care of a mother with 92 yo!! She still with all her narcissistic personality. I am a Psychoanalyst and my brother has all this behavior and I am try to help him understand " how he is becoming soo infected by taking care of her for about 8 years !!! He used to be a good person ! I can not help him!! I am seeing precise with this behavior!! Only God help me with my prayers! Dr Vaknin many thanks to you!! Your videos are very important!!! Many thanks!! You deserv this nominations!!

[@svetlanawesley3423]

Congratulations on the nomination! Well deserved ❤

[@Nivi.K]

I had been married to a Narcissist for 14 years and all the signs i had except the suicidal one.I can only say that getting out of that relationship was the greatest blessing of my life . I had 3 young children at that time but the timely separation helped the children to grow up into responsible youths. I would like to add that God helped me to heal very much otherwise my family wouldn't have understood me and put me into a mental asylum. I got healed by hearing faith based programs on tv and youtube. I could become the best mother to my kids when I understood that my kids r not my own but they are God's property and its my role to just look after them by giving them good values and morals. I also stopped calling my kids names and cursing them. Instead i started to bless them always. All this helped me to find myself and be a good person. I always thank God for being so kind to me and protect me and kids from all harm.

[@annakapustynska3948]

Dear Sam, I came across your videos in my darkest hours few years ago. At that time, I was recovering from abuse,I still do but with much more awareness and much more supple vocabulary to name what I went through. Everything you say in this video resonates with me and I have been meaning to write a comment under your videos for a while but, I felt very split even about writing a short message. I have and I stil am afraid to he rediculeted for the things that I have allowed to happen in my last relationship. Hence why, the nothingness attitude appeals to me very much, though, it is a very difficult task to rebuild your life and make living if you renaming to be unseen. Though, I made it work in the last few years but at times I feel myself to be a victim of the past, though I dispise that term . I prefer to call myself an survivor but it has been one hell of a price to survive through madness. Everything of what I knew was shuttered, only the essense remained and even that I questioned through my recovery. I had to filter my voice and his voice, I still do so even after 3 years of it all ending. Infection it is , I felt it after our immediate separation that I use to say or think in the way that he did. Though, I was most at the time aware of it and I am still sifting through it.. I wish it was all different. So, my biggest thank to you is for helping us to understand the not so understandable mind of an injured and traumatised person, myself and my abuser included Also, I thank you for your honesty and objectivity, professionalism and your sense of humour.

[@trini_a_Lana]

Thank you Dr Vaknin

[@SpicyMcG]

Facts on facts! What a ride it can be! Thanks for explaining! Hope you win! 🏆

[@fionahawkes1758]

Congratulations Prof... You are well deserving of winning, hands down the best in what you do 👏 👏 👏

[@aahaider4453]

Another outstanding presentation of what really happens. Imagine your shared fantasy leading you to be with 2 more of these predators and how destructive the whole thing is. Congrats on your nomination it’s extremely well deserved.

[@patriciajoseph3035]

Congratulations. A reward for you genuinely hard work to humanity. That no one can steal. You are already a winner to many of us whose lives you have positively impacted.

[@heatherparker4791]

I'm so pleased to hear you are receiving the recognition and top honours you deserve, Sam. Ever since I first discovered you, nearly 3 years ago, with your lecture in Budapest 'Manipulate the Narcissist and Live to Tell About It?' you have opened up a door to a world of considerable and meaningful (never hateful) understanding concerning the narcissist in my life. Lucky for me I found you. Please continue to shine a guiding light where there is darkness and confusion. I shall raise a glass of red wine to you!

[@juliashoebridge4499]

Congratulations Sam. Your videos have informed me of everything I ever needed to know and have helped me through a very challenging period of my life. Without your videos I wouldn’t be as thriving after narcissistic abuse as I am. So thank you for all Your dedication and hard work and I hope you win.

[@bocekschmitt7838]

Glückwunsch, Professor Vaknin 🎉

[@nillarohr9872]

Congratulations ! You sure have helped me. 🤗⏳🐬

[@sherenibrahim2628]

Congratulations Prof.sam

[@NewEnglandInSeattle]

Coercive snaphotting is real. When it was finally over with my narc, there was a point where I reflected and thought, "Who am I? Who have I become? I'm not me." I had become someone so different from who I really am to please my ex-narc. I stopped listening to the music I loved, she convinced me to get rid of my body piercings and go get tattoo removal done. It was crazy. One of the best days of my life was when I walked into a piercing studio and got all my piercings redone as sort of a way to reclaim who I was.

[@IgivemylifetoChrist]

Thanks for sharing your accomplishments, nothing wrong with that, we are a community here

[@DanielOlmedo1]

Congratulations professor Sam!🎉

[@Chloe-licious]

Praying for healing ❤️‍🩹 I think I have been infected and am suicidal. I have been hurt so badly that I just want to end my life. I feel like I don’t know myself anymore and am always fearful and anxious. I feel like am always moody and so many things going on in my mind. I do not want to be angry anymore.

[@jenniemalloy7402]

Check out the harmful affects if E M Fs.

[@MichNative01]

Good going!! You deserve it! Wishing you good luck!

[@jacksingh5367]

A massive step to more recognition and helping millions around the world, a well deserved honour

[@alexander_b132]

Congratulations for the nomination! You deserve to win the prize!

[@jessicasage503]

Excellent choice in nominating You!

[@bradracette189]

Dr Vaknin, not sure if that was a Freudian slip but “Replicunt” is a very good description.

[@bradracette189]

No offence taken. 😂 I still think it’s very appropriate.

[@southernbawselady7092]

CONGRATS!! 🎈🎉🎉 WELL DESERVED NOMINATION! 🏆🏆

[@soniasc8571]

Yay 😃..kudos for your nomination Sam 🤩 you deserve it 🤗!

[@hopealivealways]

Congratulations and I hope you win.

[@darleenmcbride8900]

CONGRATULATIONS Professor Sam!!!! You're already a WINNER 🏆

[@ncbee3119]

Congratulations! Very well deserved

[@tanya2700]

I owe you my life Sam. I see what I was in this video. But by following your advice I have come out of this spell and I can see the efforts you suggest do work. I'm becoming me again, thank you so much 💚

[@aladyinthemeads]

Professor Vaknin, as a philologist, I love your language, vocabulary and all the synonyms. Each and every video brings so many beautiful words. 😊

[@sharonfuszard8861]

I will need to listen to this lecture at least twice!

[@sharonfuszard8861]

@@ellamarh3016 Likewise.

[@Prashant131090]

Congratulations, Professor Dr. Sam Vaknin ❤

[@IrinaKucherenko]

Well done, Sam! 😅

[@kamaliahabubakar6125]

I am grateful for your videos. Life is so complicated and I am slow to react. But at least I now realize I must hold onto what's left of my own identity and reality. God bless Sam for sharing his invaluable insights...

[@jeffvaljean6030]

Sam u deserve a prize for breaking this news to the world its a big thing out there now

[@kerrywheatley295]

Congrats Sam, I think there is no one on this planet more deserving than you to have such an honour bestowed upon you.

[@daniel_fc-p9g]

Congratulations, professor! 👏👏

[@suzanneelmore5528]

Congrats on your nomination. You are the winner in my book!

[@PatriciaMartinez-nz8nv]

Felicidades por su nominación Doctor,muy merecido!

[@onedayatatime746]

Congratulations Dr Vaknin!!!

[@AlarioMre]

First of all, heartiest congratulations for your recognition. Secondly, thank you very much for your insightful videos. The information in them has helped me gain much clarity.

[@nz630]

Knowledge is power, i am so grateful for your videos. It is freeing to understand the dynamics of narcissism and these toxic relationships. To recover from all this is a long journey and Dr. Vaknin has helped me tremendously with his videos.

[@5EmBem]

Congratulations. I really hope you win 💖

[@lucerogarza4028]

Dr. Sam Vaknin congratulations on your nomination!! Greetings from Monterrey, México 🇲🇽 🙏💕

[@zohraelharrak2922]

Congratulations Dr Sam Vaknin. I am forever grateful for your work.

[@raulcanadir6407]

Congratulations…happy for you sir…you deserve it … god bless you…thank you so much for your kindness, and service.

[@jordanflo_j]

Thanks Dr Vaknin, someone near of me started to had exactly this same signs after being very closely of someone with NPD

[@helenh3274]

Prof, my warmest congratulations to you; your recent achievements (like your previous ones) sound amazing. All the best with it everything. Thank you for your invaluable work in this field, and for generously sharing your insights and expertise with us.

[@sarinadekoker332]

Congrats!!! You deserve it. 🎉🎉

[@Betterstartnow]

(Blowing raspberry) Get me out of this fantasy world that is not mine! Movie; Bedazzled 1967

[@cinnabun715]

Congratulations, Dr. V 🎉you deserve the accolades. You choose to use your insight for the greater good 👍 ❤

[@coriadams2195]

Congratulations 🎈 well deserved!!!

[@gabrielleaumont3971]

Super, this recognition! All the Best for your future!

[@madonnanix7635]

Hey Sam, Smiling from ear to ear for you sweetie! You are more benevolent than your family of origin. could see!!! Same thing happened to me! I love how you are leading people away from these terrible people! Truly saving lives! You are full of sagacity! I took latin and Greek derivatives class in high school! Very helpful tool in going toe to toe with the so called intellectuals that try to baffle the majority with their Baloney! We share the same birthday and you are my senior by one year. I taught myself to read by age four as you said you did in one of your videos! You came into my life via a computer present my oldest child gave me as a gift! Left narcissist . I tell everyone I know whom I suspect is a fellow highjacked victim to watch you on Utube and tell them that you invented all the terms that the " so called experts on Utube use." I tell them about your being discovered at eight or was it nine years old how high your I.Q. is. You are the only narcissist that I admire! Thank you for all you do! Congratulations exponentially!!! May you prosper and live long and well!

[@cristianadibartolomeo6493]

When is your birthday , dears ?

[@VelayuthamVedhachalam]

Congratulations, sir, and thanks for your contribution to this world 🌎

[@TheresaC-k1w]

You saved my life, I was in a 3 yr situation and I swear to God if I hadn't came across you and some others I would of ,idk I really do not kno.but I've since found the strength from within myself I can not stress that enuf because it really did come from inside the very deep places I was running from.thank u so much for ur honest look on this matter there is nothing pretty about a relationship like this and you put it out there as such thank you

[@frausirota214]

Your contribution to the psychology of narcissism is invaluable! Thank you for taking the time to share this important information with the KZbin audience.

[@flybyhorse]

Well done, Sam!!! Congratulations 🎉

[@patriciawaters86]

CONGRATULATIONS 🎊🎉 on your nomination! It’s about damn time. Thank you very much for continuing to provide us such valuable content every day despite being so busy with all your new projects. I appreciate and always look for your videos each week 😉No pressure. Congratulations again, truly well deserved 👏👏

[@pv8874]

Thank you for saying that it can occur withing hours. I have been beating myself up because I have been on only two dates with this guy 5 month ago. Saying to myself, how can someone who I have never dated affect me so badly. Am still not sure if he is narcissist or rather am convincing myself that I don't have enough proof. We are still talking and I have so many sign of this "Infection".

[@jayspeed999]

Been listening to Prof. Vaknin for a while and in this video, like all of his videos, I'm wondering how he is getting all of this information so accurately. It's such a deep knowledge and for us who have lived through it, every thing is completely accurate. He gives words to the feelings that we just can't explain. I believe at one point he said he was diagnosed with NPD, but it's really hard to see that, because I would have never thought someone with NPD could have this deep of an understanding of any topic.

[@sandragalloway3275]

Well done.... you deserve to win. You have helped do many people. If you don't win the online community will award you .

[@evacheruiyot5678]

Congratulations Sam!

[@finbailmann3470]

It could be pessimistic attitude. This creates any kind of anger or disapproval ,it may lead to punishment or revenge.

[@Skootfairy]

You were feeling yourself this lecture. Making at least twice as many cheeky jokes as usual :) Congrats, your work might help change how people think about many social problems.

[@boyardstreet8357]

Congratulations on your nomination! You deserve every little bit of it! ❤️

[@dhyanasitara1967]

Exquisite work!!!!! Exquisite!! Please share some ideas how can we break free? Do you think machines like brainwave synchronicity would work?

[@globalcliques]

Congratulations, hard work

[@evelynebinsack107]

Congratulations dear Sam. It‘s time to celebrate in any case! Thank you for your immense work! Evelyne

[@Shanti1777]

I would nominate you every day! I’m addicted to your lessons. I am experiencing some facts what you mentioned.

[@janinabanana9782]

Well deserved Nomination Prof. Sam. I also promoted your Channel to my Colleagues here in Germany. They loved it 😊

[@IgivemylifetoChrist]

Congratulations!❤

[@shellae1922]

Thank-you so much as you continue to put my understanding beyond language.

[@Rae-cr4gz]

Hard to listen to anyone else on the topic now that I’m a regular here. Many congratulations Sam 🙏

[@YAHREIGNS7]

Congrats 💯✨

[@amyschaeffer8013]

I cannot even describe how much your content has changed my life. Thank you so much!

[@bie4038]

Congrats on nomination. Thx for the video. I was aware of some but other signs are mind-blowing painful...

[@deirdre5940]

You have my vote. Love you Prof. Sam

[@bettinawilson9660]

Congratulations Sam 🎉

[@bil7024]

28. Articles.... that is amazing

[@coffeecat086]

Congratulations, sir! That’s friggin awesome!

[@snezanajuricevic1000]

Bravo dear Sam 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 we believe in you, 🤞💪👍❣

[@ArtbyIWL]

Thank you so much for explanations and help for understanding!🙏🙏Congratulations to nomination!

[@nania222222]

Congratulations. You deserve it.

[@dzanasaynes4782]

Congratulations Dr. Vaknin. You always have the best content on narcissism

[@semibig4822]

Congratulations for nomination Dr. Vaknin, you deserve to win 🎉❤

[@JavierMares]

Congratulations Professor Vaknin! (Self supply corner is hilarious. Wish you'd stream on twitch :D in my dreams hahaha)