WHY I QUIT EMIRATES

[@petraantalikova743]

I never comment on other people's videos but I had to now. THANK YOU for sharing! I feel you, girl. I resigned from Etihad last year and even though it was the best experience of my life and a dream come true, I had my darkest moments in Abu Dhabi. The pre-flight anxiety (especially before night flights) which started even a day before the actual flight, the lack of depth and real connections (except for a couple of good friends I made in my batch) and the surreal bubble that sucks you in and it's so damn hard to get out of. People get stuck in that lifestyle because of good money and endless content for Instagram and barely realize how fast time is actually passing by. I also left for love (who funnily enough happens to be my batchmate - broke the "never date crew" rule and it paid off, hahaha). It's hard for people to understand the reasons behind leaving such a fantastic job so thank you very much for speaking so openly about this! Best of luck in your new life! :)

[@SaraEmily]

Thanks for your comment Petra. You've absolutely hit the nail on the head with everything you said. A lot of people may see us as ungrateful etc but only crew know what we go through and what makes us sad. It's easy to get sucked in and it's an addictive job. I'm glad you found love and followed your heart! :) Besrt of luck with everything and thank you again for writing that! :) xxxx

[@Jessica-gt2ov]

So interesting to hear your experiences!!! I am still considering Emirates or Etihad. And I really get the „being stuck in a luxurious but kinda negative life in a bubble“ aspect. I am afraid of that and how hard it is to find a real job after!! What do you think about making a career in Emirates? Like becoming a manager, recruiter, HR, ground staff or college teacher etc. I thought that might be an idea. But I have absolutely no idea if thats even possible and if you would have the same lifestyle and advantages with these other jobs in the airline. Do you get what I mean?🙈 Would love to hear your opinion

[@varsha_raj]

I can totally relate with u ladies flown for six years ..how does it feel ..u explained very well sara ..love from x cabin crew

[@chinaduma5591]

I love cooking

[@Maryannesmiley]

How long you've been working there

[@deepshikhadhingra3853]

I am a cabin crew and i was experiencing the same feeling of emptiness despite of being in a 5 star hotel,I feel nothing and i cry almost every night I feel stuck...I am glad I came across your video I am resigning soon.❤

[@fabiorossi2533]

As a former Cabin Crew for Emirates, I can relate to every single reason you give in this video. It's a lovely experience for a while, but when fatigue, loneliness and the sense of emptiness become overwhelming, you know it is time to go. I sometimes miss the lifestyle, because, as you say, even though it's tough experience it's also fun, but my emotional and mental balance are thanking me every day for quitting. Thanks for sharing.

[@bvskp7536]

This is so meaningful, this doesn’t just apply for Emirates, I believe this applies for all different types of jobs. We just all need to be happy, and find happiness.

[@victoryasi4709]

True

[@victoryasi4709]

Happiness is the most important thing

[@humbertoortiz-flores8081]

Agree!

[@yvethedefinition]

agreed.

[@elenajasmin3130]

this girl kinda looks like Angelina Jolie 🤩

[@mimieflyingsquad7355]

Yaaa agreed

[@2Stumps]

This Girl Is Way Better! Those Eyes... Jolie is so 90's lol

[@unaninanine3743]

She's gorgeous

[@SaraEmily]

Guyyyyyyyys, I love you hahaha! 😅

[@im2cutesosueme121]

Ugh! Never put someone down like that! LoL

[@SamSam-ft3to]

Life in middle east especially Dubai. It's all plastic life there's no true happiness nor freedom. I've been worked for Hamad International Airport, and other Middle Eastern countries but haven't satisfied with plastic and mechanical life. I feel good working and living in my country with full freedom, mental happiness and peace of mind. I don't recommend anyone working in these countries. Do your research before going to these countries. Thank you Sarah for sharing your story. Appreciate you for you're good conscience and morality. Bless you. (Ps. 134:3)

[@SaraEmily]

Thanks for your comment Sam :)

[@ameerahvanheerden7601]

I completely get you. I was with Emirates for 8 years and if it wasn’t for marriage and eventually getting pregnant, I’d probably still be there. It was the most amazing time of my life but you talking about Niagara Falls really hit home! I have 2 girls today, 8 & 10 and traveling with them ... it is so worth it! Traveling as a crew doesn’t have even come close to traveling with my girls. We are now visiting everything again and just loving the REAL memories! Best of luck to you! ❤️

[@SaraEmily]

ah I'm glad you could relate ! it's a sensitive topic but yes, I can imagine that having your own happy family and to travel with them or simply BE with them, nothing can compare ! :) 💕

[@lotusssypringa]

As an immigrant to New York, I identify with how hard it is to make deep new connections when you're already an adult

[@diaafuntime5646]

You took the right decision. Your mental health is what actually matter .be happy

[@SaraEmily]

absolutely! 🥰

[@morpheuszzz662]

I am now 51 years old, but what you are referring to about seeing others start their families, etc., before YOU are really ready to do that, is a normal thing for someone your age. You are caught between feeling like you are missing out or are falling behind but you don't really want it yourself--YET. That is a normal way for everyone to think at your age. We all compare ourselves to others and what is expected of us. It's really stupid. Give yourself another few years and you'll realize that those who went "out of order" in life are actually much more interesting and better people in the long run. You have led such an interesting life, including what you learned from your upbringing and then from your travels. You are way ahead of most people in the world. Just live your life. You are an amazing person. Trust me. (I know this is an older video and you probably already know this, but I still felt the need to comment. I would be so proud of you if you were my daughter.)

[@marjoreal]

Hey, that's okay. I quit too. I quit, during the pandemic. Some understood, but not everybody will and that's not even a requirement. I understand, you actually explained it well. It's just draining, exhausting, and depressing. Set yourself free, I did too. :) smile, Sara.

[@jenniferforbes6932]

I'm 20 years old and I'm moving abroad to become a flight attendant. you're my first role model. in the video you kept saying that you know your not expressing correctly but you were, i totally understood everything you were saying. i loved the way you got your point across and expressed yourself without offending anyone that something is try to do in my everyday life. i can tell we were raised by great parent and excellent morals . I wish you happiness

[@SaraEmily]

Hey Jennifer, thanks for your lovely comment, that made me really happy 🥰

[@sandilem5944]

Wow I never thought I'd ever sit through a 30min KZbin video. I thoroughly enjoyed this thank you for sharing your story

[@SaraEmily]

ah thank you for staying with me for that long haha! :)

[@moabase4842]

You are definitely right. I was born in emirates (AbuDhabi) lived there for 15 years until I moved to the UK. I would definitely say it’s a stop-off place coz my dad lived there for 40 years and when he retired he felt like he wasted his life there, but it was too late. I feel you and what you’re doing now is great just do whatever makes you happy. Live your life the way you want and play the field. ❤️😇

[@SaraEmily]

yup, I'm with you on that Mo :)

[@SaraEmily]

Guys Thanks so much for your support and lovely comments! Honestly I wake up in the morning to check your comments and reply to every one and it makes my heart so happy that people can relate to me and enjoyed the video :) xxxxxx 🥰💕

[@abuzeabuz8876]

What’s your name in instagram

[@SaraEmily]

_semilytravels :)

[@Hero.Lone-Wolf]

*The older you get .. the harder it gets to make a meaningful relationships with other people ...*

[@Kim-bs8yz]

Can totally relate as an Ex-Crew myself. Agree with everything 100%. I think something I don’t often hear in the “why I quit” videos is how extremely exhausting it can be to adjust to a whole new crew every single rotation. The same shallow small talk over and over and over and over again. It emotionally drained me so much. Yes, leaving isn’t easy but like you said- set a time frame and leave before it’s too late ❤️

[@SaraEmily]

ah actually yes, that's something that can be tiresome! I agree with everything you said ! :) xx

[@marynagrobler7769]

I feel you! That is exactly how I feel at the moment. I don't work for Emirates or Etihad, but I live in Abu Dhabi for almost 2 years now. And I find myself feeling empty and alone. And I've been feeling this way for a while now. And honestly I would say it's not the job, it's the country. Depends on who you surround yourself with, but I have found so many people living here say the same thing. This country is just so new and that means that it doesn't have much personality or culture. And because there are so many different nationalities, that makes you feel even more out of place. Thanks for making this video. And best of luck to you.💕

[@SaraEmily]

I agree with everything you said, best of luck that you find your peace angel 💕 thank you for watching xxxx

[@fs5775]

It's the most shallow, empty, soulless society ever. Go there, make your money & do your travels but then get the heck out before you lose your soul

[@imbrigita]

Could totally relate to that feeling of emptiness. I also flew for 3 years (a little bit more than a contract haha), but I think that everything was so rushed living in those 24 hours while on a layover and the tiredness on top of it kinda felt like living life while sleepwalking. It’s truly a wonderful job and like you, I recommend it to everyone but it’s not a career in my opinion, and that’s how most people see this job and think we’re just ungrateful millennials. I wish you best of luck in the future, and thanks for sharing your experience with the world. 😊🙏🏼

[@SaraEmily]

absolutely agree with everything you said !! thanks for watching and best of luck to you too! Welcome to us ..to the real world 😅💕

[@teenagerinsac]

Well, kids- You DO have an attitude for sure, and your not being willing to LISTEN to you OLDER fellow CITIZENS who HAVE BEEN SEEN AND DONE what you have NOT is reason ENOUGH to cease with the attitudes and to BEGIN to APPRECIATE the fact YOU have a WORLD to live in, DUE to the COLLECTIVE efforts of US who are much more knowledgeable than you all are. Too bad for your not liking this assessment, and don't blame US for what YOU have to endure NOWADAYS- YOU do NOT KNOW what STRESS and PRESSURE ARE!! Try babystiing H bombs as an 18 year old.... Oh That's right, They don't have to do this nowadays- WE took care of it already!!! :) USAF SAC 509 Bomb Wing 1977 SAC MSET Winners for Best Maintenance squadron- 8 AF SAC

[@asmajaoui2870]

This scared me, but made me more aware of things.. The worst nightmare that could ever happen to me, is to be surrounded by people lacking depth and who aren't looking for their purpose in life. I don't want to lose what I have now.. I don't want to miss it. But I also want to go out there for a while.. Finding balance is really challenging. I'm so happy that you could finally find peace, and reconnect with your inner self.. That's what life is all about.. and I wish people could be more aware of that.

[@SaraEmily]

Absolutely ! I really struggled on many flights to have decent conversations and that's of course a personal preference but it was a pain for me on times! Thank you for your comment Names ! :) xx

[@ammcroft]

Thank you so much for your honesty!!! I REALLY HATE when people say the popular, "But I don't regret anything." That is NOT wise.

[@cmitchell5593]

I worked for Emirates for 3.5yrs. Loved it. Best time ever. Fantastic company. You can always progress or teach. Some people dont cope with the sleep part but i only had jet lag once if it was even that. It can be lonely and shallow life but it depends what friends u have and what u make of it.

[@JoaoVictor-ut1ms]

Do you mind to say why did you leave?

[@kilenshi]

OH GOODNESS!...almost cracked a rib from laughter @ "getting dressed, face full of makeup, putting on red lipstick...". Sara you are super honest. No sugar coating the cons of the job You might be right about getting in, enjoy what you can and get out of the bubble fast. Could this be why they make it a 3yr contract to begin with? The Emirates probably conducted a survey and know cabin crew employees will burn out soon, within a certain timeframe. Wishing you all the best Sara.

[@syedamtl]

I can relate to this but I’m from a completely different profession. Nursing did that to me. The anxiety that you spoke about, I felt it before a night shift. I feel like more than the job itself, for me it was the unit and patient population. We all deserve to be satisfied in our professions 💕

[@allahthegreat5631]

My life in Qatar airways really can relate to you girl.i went through the same things & I thought I was the only person to feel & experience such things but now I know it's not only me. I resigned from Qatar airways months ago because I had this persistent feeling that I'm missing so much & I'm not like a normal person. It's true everything has it's pros and cons but in my case I think I was sort of depressed & stressed because the hour's we work & wakeup are the times usually a person would go to sleep .I think we all take Decisions blindly at some point in our life maybe that's the human nature . But just one message for any aspirant who wants to join Qatar airways . please please don't Just join just because you see how a glamorous flight stewardess look there are so so many things beyond that you should consider. Have you atleast thought why do Qatar airways hire cabin crew frequently ??????? That's because the cabin crew keeps resigning every month & trust me people the rules are very very strict & you won't even feel happy about being a cabin crew , Cabin crew is just a title is true there are few perks of being a cabin crew but believe me you won't believe how hard it is to work as one of them . waking up at 2am to be in the airport by 4am & the flight is at 6am & then you have a 15 hour flight . Just imagine how much the body is suffering .you just think you only have 15 hrs to work on that day but you have to atleast wake up 3 hours early to put on ur makeup ,get in to the crew transport go to the airport & crew briefing & random crew checkings etc.

[@chrismc3410]

Hi clara.. ex QR crew here.. yes! yes! I agree with you.. when did you join and resigned?

[@bekchand1239]

Hi... Do you had to Operate 15hrs every day? 😲

[@aretivog881]

This video is really helpful, especially for people that want to join Emirates ,like me, I think everyone expects it to be always fun to travel all the time, but it's not always like that. I really want to go because I love traveling and I have also been inspired by my mom (she used to be a flight attendant). I will take your advise and go for the experience and set a date to leave when I feel like going back home. Also love your vids♥️

[@SaraEmily]

Hey Areti ! It's good that you are already aware that it can have down falls (believe me a lot of people deny that) and of course your mum can be your best mentor ! Thank you for your support also :) xxx

[@ShwetaSingh-zv4hc]

We don't mind the details queen infact you're a great storyteller so please continue making such videos where we get to know you better. :)

[@SaraEmily]

thanks shweta 🥰

[@devmehta1000]

I understand, I was with Emirates for close to 10yrs and what I feel is that Dubai maybe a great place to be in but only for a short while. But it's all artificial, that's what you wanted to say. Yes, it's artificial lifestyle, it's very hard to do soul searching there. You have friends there but they leave you when need them the most. Then, you make new friends, start from scratch and they want to do the same thing you did when we came to Dubai.

[@lilianchege1769]

I totally relate...i was in dubai for 14 yrs and moved to the states 4 yrs ago...what i have done the 4 yrs is more than what i did the 14 yrs i was in dubai...

[@jennifergivesyouwings]

I feel like this is where the major US Carriers and some Middle Eastern Carriers differ so much. I can't imagine working 16 hr flights as a "usual" international flights. I throughly enjoy my job as an FA for a major US Airline and feel like there is no other job here that offers this much flexibility in terms of schedule, hours, preferencing, coworkers, and meeting amazing people who might become true life long friends. Some days are harder and longer than others but I don't think one of my hardest days is as hard as of one of your easiest days. I'm so happy that you're so much happier now. And to those who want to be FAs please do your research and make sure you are looking at companies that would be best for you and not what companies seem the most glamorous. much love and live and let's fly

[@SaraEmily]

Thanks for your comment Jenn and sharing your experience. I totally agree with what you said. I made some of the best memories and met the most incredible people but it's something that has to be thought about carefully xx

[@rhythmictunes7618]

@@SaraEmily why don't you join Delta or any other us airlines then you have experience also so yeah..... But it's better to rest 3 to 4 years and then take decision with calmess and patience......

[@clairdelun5521]

You mean US airlines don't have many 3am flights for crew? That is wow..

[@Cassiedrd]

Hey Sara ! I couldn't agree more with all you said in your video. I am also working for Emirates, still in my first year so I am still at the stage where I really enjoy travelling and discovering. However, I used to live in Australia :p and really miss the people there, the nature etc... and completely got you on the fact that Dubai is superficial and good for short term. I am happy that you find happiness and hope that you will continue sharing about your life in Aus :)

[@SaraEmily]

Hey Cassie, thanks for your lovely comment! I know you can probably relate to some things I say but keep enjoying it and take everything you can from that job as it offers you A LOT! I love it here in Aus, normal people with normal lives and the simple pleasures ! :) xxx x

[@Emaie84]

Love this video! So honest. I was a domestic flight attendant who was always at home base at the end of the day. I loved it! I wanted a change and to see the world, so i transferred to INT flying, and I hated it!! I lasted 2 months before having a mental breakdown. The lack of sleep, longer hours and jetlag affected me so bad. I hated missing out on what was happening at home, and when i was home, i was so exhausted I slept for days and couldn't get out of bed. Luckily I was able to transfer back to domestic flying and stayed there for a few more years before resigning 10 years ago. Being a flight attendant was my dream since I was 10 years old, but nowadays it is not a long term career option, due to all the things you mentioned in this video. Thank you for sharing and being so real!!

[@SaraEmily]

Thank you for making the effort to comment !! :) i agree, coming home to your own bed is always priceless and I'm glad you could switch back!! xxx

[@jmudikun]

Your observation about the lack of depth about life in Dubai - especially if you're partying and inside a certain lifestyle - is spot on. Also, what you said about spending life with people that you care for is important. What you said about your experience at the Niagara Falls and feeling empty was a powerful thing

[@deboraporto7040]

Be in peace with yourself, all the struggles happens sometimes to make you brave to jump to the next step in your life, wish you all luck, he's a lucky guy bc you look like a really sweet girl :) happiness for you two 🤗

[@SaraEmily]

ahh thank you Debora!!! :) xxx

[@esthellakomerl8084]

I fully understand everything you've said.. I sooooo appreciate everything you're saying.. Because you're making us appreciate our lives...i think I would feel empty if I had to travel and see the world with people who aren't close friends or family. You're not doing a bad job of explaining it. 😊❤️

[@evasavichenko8234]

Hi Sara. You look such a beautiful person outside and inside. Best of luck with your new chapter. I have worked for another major Middle East airline for 7 years and can relate with everything what you said. Actually my (and most of my colleagues’) experience was even more radical (sorry, not sure if it’s a right word, not a native speaker haha), because we had countless, the most crazy rules which don’t make any sense and mostly I felt like I lived in a boarding school or golden cage. It’s a definitely a big shock to come back to “normal” life, but it’s absolutely worth it. I cannot imagine being a crew for decades. It drains you too much. Again, best of luck to you xx

[@SaraEmily]

Hey Eva, yes without saying it I know exactly who you work for.. we exchange a lot of stories as crew and I can only imagine how it is there. Now we are out and enjoying normal life girly 💕🥰 Best of luck to you too xxx

[@catsmadera5196]

The life experience you had there was priceless. You had a tough life and the rest of the life will be easy for you !

[@fingerdle]

I think I get what you are saying. many "why I quit emirates " videos talk about this... emptiness and I think it is because of the fast changing situation cabin crew are disposed to, and the fact that you have to be nice to people that is actually just passers-bys.. passengers, fellow cabin crews, etc. You are kind to them, but at the end of the day they were not your people. I can feel that, and thank you for keeping strong and resilient. I think you are actually a wonderful person.

[@SaraEmily]

thats such a lovely comment, thank you! It become too exhausting at the end for me. Physically and emotionally exhausting. I'm glad I left when I did haha, thanks for watching:)

[@AmelieetAmelia]

I recognized myself so much in your words. Worked years in fashion and stayed too long in a company which was in an isolated city. You said the word damaging and it was actually damaging to stay there too long for a very good salary. I had fun the first 3 years and then I stayed 5 more years. Imagine… I saved a lot of money yes, which I am about to run of because of Covid now… But anyway, you put words on a confused situation I lived because so many people told that I was crazy to quit this ''perfect'' well paid job''. But I remember when I left I felt SO relieved. I passed the front door of the company and tons just felt of my shoulders. Many thanks

[@ashlyncahill9990]

you speak from the heart and it shows. really well done on expressing your raw emotions on "emptiness". keep being amazing!

[@SaraEmily]

Thank you so much Ashlyn xx

[@yusa573]

totally relate to every single thing you point out on this video, emptiness, loneliness, anxiety, getting caught up on certain things, depression, left EK after 6.5 years. Thank You Sara for sharing your story, def would recommend your video to my friend who curious about EK cabin crew because you explained it so well and freaking reaL.

[@mrvaleron4673]

Everything what you said about Dubai - true! I'm living here now. Everything is true about people, lifestyle. Thank you for your story !

[@SaraEmily]

It's true isn't it! A lot of people agree with me behind closed doors ! Thanks for your comment Valerii :) xxx

[@yenlik5165]

@@SaraEmily I absolutely agree. Even though I've never been a party girl, I'm more of a nerdy sit at home type, but I don't feel any depth to living in Dubai. Perhaps, it's because I don't have a family here and the only thing which is keeping me from leaving is my salary. But sometimes this overwhelming feeling of emptiness and meaningless to my life makes me wonder if this is really worth it..

[@artaiesalniece1560]

Riight?! It is so! I lived in Dubai for 1,5 years, although I was thinking "Okay, not more than 6 months" and I left only because I felt I got too much "dubai-ian" style if I could name it so?. I started to notice I am becoming a person I would never imagine myself being, adapting these habits and so. BUT I have to mention, now being at home, I miss it soo much.

[@momos1888]

Hi Sara, I resonate so much with what you said even though I'm not a crew. I feel like what you said about having a soul and a real life, hobbies, books and all that is really universal and essential for all of us to be sane. Sending love to you, and thanks for your advice!

[@SaraEmily]

Thank you ! It's the simple things in life but really important which inpacts us daily! xxxx 🥰

[@momos1888]

@@SaraEmily I can't agree more:)

[@MomoMomo-nz2gm]

I’v been living in Dubai for 6 years and I completely relate to what you said about Dubai. It doesn’t feel like home and it’s hard to feel like you belong there, and I’m not even a flight attendant just a high school student trying to figure out what to do with her life and it’s kinda scary how I relate to how you felt: anxious,lonely and don’t know what to do with your life , trying to find friends who are genuine. It’s life draining

[@sallyelb]

I feel exactly the same way right now. Stuck in the lifestyle for 5 years, with no sense of purpose. It's hard when all of your friends, are still stuck in the lifestyle, and you want to get out of it. It's so hard to find people with depth, I 100 percent agree! Makes you feel really alone. It's an exhausting feeling. This video helps, so thank you.

[@SaraEmily]

I'm sorry you're facing that right now Sally. I remember exactly how it felt but I always tried to keep myself on track with dancing or other hobbies. It's absolutely draining and I understand what you say. Reach out girl if you want to chat !💕 xxx

[@Annie-eh6mq]

You look so much like Angelina Jolie that it's actually floored me. I'm currently going through the recruitment process for Emirates and this video has really helped me

[@SaraEmily]

haha really??? I sometimes get that with a full face of makeup but not like this 😂 so thanks girl you made my day! Im glad this helped lovely and I wish you all the luck, I'm sure you'll do great! 🥰💕 xx

[@Annie-eh6mq]

@@SaraEmily I'm sure you look just like her even without any makeup on!! You've got stunning features. I was wondering if you've had lip filler? It looks very natural on you if you have and has given your face some nice harmony, I've been considering getting a little bit for myself. If not, you have SUCH nice lips!

[@alineibrahim8675]

Annie hello Annie i hope you're doing well , just a small question did the emirates called you and told you that the contract has been canceled? Because i got accepted and my date of joining was on 26 march but it's just sad now !

[@natashaclavaux6320]

@@alineibrahim8675 hi Aline, I was accepted and was suppose to leave the 27th March and my contract was cancelled today because of Covid 19

[@williamkraft5574]

@@SaraEmily I think the makeup or lack of that you have on is perfect. You're a very beautiful lady.

[@giovanny1062]

Thank you for sharing, it is very useful even for people that want to apply for cabin crew, some of them only focus in positive tips, positive videos, etc. but they also need to know the reality ahead of them

[@SaraEmily]

My pleasure, thank you for watching! :)

[@MissLida]

Wow, it’s crazy how much I connected to everything you said even though I’ve never worked as a flight attendant.

[@SaraEmily]

I love that!

[@gill2373]

You totally made sense and summed up how the lifestyle and place affects you.I left Emirates 16 years ago and it hasn't changed in how you describe it!

[@masadebevc81]

Flying with EK for one year now and I can already 100% relate. Thank you so much for sharing! Especially living in a bubble, feeling like I’m missing on the world out there (ironically), feeling alone in the most amazing places, not liking how I started behaving in certain situations... I agree with you, it’s such an amazing experience but you REALLY have to have a goal and timeline in mind!! ❤️

[@SaraEmily]

Hey girl.. ah thank you! Thanks for watching! I'm really happy you can relate as i just tried to be as honest as I could. It's still a great experience as we said but I feel it all had to come out in the open and be shared. Stay positive and stay true to yourself girly xxxx 💕🥰

[@Jupe367]

Sometimes the simplest things in life can bring happiness. Thanks for taking the time to upload this clip. I'm glad you finally found peace and happiness.

[@mikey19lon]

Wow this is a really random feed to appear on my recommended list as it has been years since I stopped flying for BA. I can totally relate to everything you said (minus living in Dubai). Was the time of my life and the loneliest at the same time. Friends move on as you’re never around and when I flew (16yrs ago 😭) there were no smartphones or social media. Good luck on the new chapter in your life down under....be safe, happy and healthy.

[@carloshernandezsanchez2190]

U could have said it louder but not clearer, I felt every word ur video, most sincere & truth to reality -or at least my reality- “ why did I leave EK “ video ever. U have made my eyes water and realized I wasnt the only one feeling the deep emptiness. Thank u.

[@SaraEmily]

thank you !!

[@ameerah_saban1183]

Love how deeply you expressed your views in this video. It definitely gives me something to think about beforehand. 💕

[@SaraEmily]

Thanks for watching :) xx

[@K7681]

I was Emirates crew for 9 years, I completely understand what you said. 100% agreed.

[@lolcandygirl]

First off love all of your honesty & rawness while speaking about your personal experiences. Many people would share their personal experiences here on KZbin but in a detached point of view from their raw and real self & you HAVENT done that at all super appreciate that! Second thing is, I also applied to emirates and am going through the interviewing process and before I apply I watched many videos of different cabin crew and wondered that exact same thing you were speaking about in this video, how do they feel experiencing the world with a bunch of strangers (crew) everyday? Do they have enriching conversations right off the bat? Is it in any way fulfilling? How do people make friendships.. And so on, anyway great advice. I loved your video and story about meeting your boyfriend, wish you all the happiness and love together 🤗 can’t wait to see your new content 💗 Thank you!

[@SaraEmily]

Aseel thank you for your amazing comment! I loved reading it especially when I saw a paragraph!! Thanks for taking the time to write it :) I just tried to be as open and real as I could about the topic and Im glad you could see that. Thanks so much and GOOD LUCK for the interview process etc :) xxx

[@nesiashraf6369]

Drinking a cup of tea or coffee in between a video is NOT disgusting. Talking all these times you will be thirsty 😊😇

[@dianasantos1156]

The problem is that majority think that dubai its perfect! Now I really want to become a cabin crew for emirates because I want that experience wich will alowed me to get in the airline of my country. Yes I want a career in aviation. Also I need to live by myself, I need to be alone and met new people. I want a life you know. And also delete a few persons in my mind. You should aply for cabin crew if you want to grow up, for real. But some people aply only just because " I want to travel". Sorry my english is not the best but I am actually studying and being able to aply for emirates.

[@malekdaly8522]

Samee 👏🏻

[@rupinderkaur3209]

Same me,I also focus on my English and work on myself to become cabin crew

[@dianasantos1156]

@@malekdaly8522 But all things she says in the video are true..

[@milagrosaguero3333]

Thanks for sharing and being so honest. Don’t be ashamed of your feelings or worry to bother anyone, is their problem. Every experience is valid.

[@lillabalatoni9899]

Thank you so much for your honesty!❤️I think this video gives a deep perspective to anyone who is/ was considering becoming a flight attendant at Emirates.

[@jackfrost0607]

I used to want to fly but decided to stay on the ground and worked ground staff. You're right about the depth of some people in this industry. Luckily I was able to be based at my local airport and have my family nearby. This is the first video of yours I've watched and you seem like a really nice girl with your head on right. Wish you luck with whatever you do in the future.

[@danieloconnor9202]

I know exactly how you feel. I'm a long haul truck driver in the United States. I love my job but I miss having a life.

[@henriquepcs1]

So you quit Emirates before all this crazy covid situation? Perfect timing! This is my first time on your channel and I could feel your honesty right away. You’re one of a kind - a huge loss for Emirates.

[@NYCPopi]

Very well said !! Stayed 4,5 years bei EK and I can totally relate ..for the exact reasons I took the decision to quit and never regretted. Of course I am grateful BuT ..as u very well said .. wanted to share these traveling moments with my loved ones ! Have a lovely new beginning in the new chapter of ur life,all the best ! Greetings made in FRA from a Greek ex-FG1

[@itisnthabim]

Same girl! I feel you on a lot here. Hope you're loving your new venture. I enjoyed flying and Dubai but could never so it forever. Hope you're loving life after flying. I know I do. ❤

[@ЕвгенияПорваткина-и5у]

Thanks for your video! I worked in hospitality in Abu-Dhabi as well. Your words "there is no warmth in this place" are sadly true (or kind of I felt something similar). All is big, modern and glowing but...Totally agree that it's good for some time, for couple of years but not longer.

[@SaraEmily]

I agree, it's a weird old place and I find it quite hard to describe it to people who have never lived there!

[@beasttitanofficial3768]

I'm crew as well (not Emirates) and I completely understand all your points. My airline rarely does layovers, we usually just do there & back, which I honestly prefer, but it feels so exhausting. Physically, mentally... Dealing with entitled people who act as if they own us. It is lonely, all your friends are working 9 to 5 or just normal shift work and after they're finished they go for a pint but you're so exhausted from being on a plane for 12 hours that you can't bring yourself to do anything. And it gets hard to connect with people who aren't crew because a lot of people seem to think we're just pretty girls serving drinks and don't realise how taxing it is for your body and soul.

[@beautifulsoul7446]

5:31 that is so true!! I felt that way on deployment with the military. Ppl say wow you’re visiting amazing places. They have no clue that it feels exciting but empty without the ppl you love the most.

[@scarlettwomersley9415]

I've just been made redundant from Emirates also, what your saying is so relatable. You have everything and travel everywhere but just feel so empty. I spent most my time in my hotel room upset. Very lonely!

[@SaraEmily]

totally get you girl! Better, authentic things are coming 🥰 xxx

[@juniorlinden7030]

Ohhh sorry to hear that - they laid off my friend there too. ;(

[@hakim6581]

Omg I was hoping for more tea with the italian man ❤️ hopefully in the next video? I think people like me need all those ‘unnecessary’ information. Love your video btw! I’ve watched several videos about Emirates cabin crew leaving the company. Emirates really don’t care about its crew’s mental health, and it’s normal because it’s a business but also sad at the same time because the crews are all human beings with mental health to look after. All the best in life! You got a new subscriber ❤️

[@SaraEmily]

hahaha thanks Hakim... a few people kept asking that and I love watching all kinds of videos like that but then I thought 'hmm not everyone spends as much time on YT as you Sara'. I showed him your comment as I am trying to encourage him to do more videos with me and his response was 'which kind of tea I'm confused' to which I started to tease him saying 'green tea, peppermint tea which ever kind of mood your in' 🤣 slang/language barrier!! xxx

[@hakim6581]

Sara Emily I just stalked you on Instagram (this sounds so creepy), not only he’s good looking but also FUNNY? His reaction I’m dead 😂 definitely a potential content for your channel but I understand if he’s not into KZbin, might also be good for your relationship. Hope both of you are doing well in isolation!!

[@SaraEmily]

hahahaha its not creepy (we all stalk) 🤣he's actually so naturally funny which I want to share his personality with you guys! He's hilarious! Maybe I'll just get him drunk and drag him infront of the camera 😂

[@iamme2371]

Thank you for opening up! I want to join Emirates as long as the whole thing with the virus is over. I have always thought Dubai to be a glamorous place with bad choices lurking and that's why I will choose to stay away from all these and do the things I want to do and really enjoy.... I have been watching your videos a long time now and it's great you moved on with your life and took this decision! Wishing you a happy and peaceful life!

[@joozeek1057]

Vicky we're joining together

[@simonbal]

Thank you so much, that was so honest! Also happy to hear about your love story! :)

[@zerker121]

Ex ek here it is unbelieveably hard to explain the cons of the job to anyone really who never done it. I seriously don’t think there is a more tiring and lonely job out there. 13 minutes in and relating to everything. However I will forever recommend EK to everyone beacuse it is really a life changing experience and an amazing journey.

[@SaraEmily]

Thanks for your comment! I absolutely agree and yet I still recommend the job! It shaped me and taught me everything I needed (and of course we saw the world) :) xx

[@loubock3238]

I'm so happy for you, we only have one life, be content. Italian boyfriends, husbands are the best, speaking form experience!

[@SaraEmily]

yay! you're right xx

[@SuperDg7]

Sara i have to tell you that even guys can relate with your video... I really love my job in Emirates but I’m happy that I quit after 6 years... I remember that the last 2 years I fight with anxiety and depression all the time. Everything you said was true and can’t agree more. I think a lot of crew can relate with this video. I still love Emirates but I love myself a bit more 😃

[@jpdeicaza]

I want to thank you for sharing with such candidness, genuineness and honesty your story and your points of view and your story. It's different to all the similar content that's available out there and quite frankly, it's what makes it so special. I wish you all the best of luck in this new chapter life has on hold for you right now, and I encourage you to keep on being the beautiful human being you are. Lots of love from Panama!

[@SaraEmily]

Thank you for your beautiful comment! :) really lovely words that mean more to me than you think! .. 😌

[@alialvi2705]

Hello! This is my first time coming across your channel, I guess I just stumbled onto the video by accident and found myself sticking around to watch it Haha. I have to tell you that its quiet an insightful perspective on what life is like being a cabin crew particular one with an airline the likes of Emirates. I'm intrigued because my father has been a flight purser with Emirates for the past 23 years and I have grown up with it in dubai, flying Emirates a countless number of times. Seeing my dad grow up, I always observed his routine and could imagine that a job that involves going to the airport at 3am on a tuesday couldn't be a particularly easy one, and the repetitive nature of it probably didn't help the role seem as endearing as it did to him back in 97'. Its really eye opening and a reminder of what this life is like and gives you a refined appreciation for People working in the sector especially the ones closest to you. Thank you for the lovely video! I wish you the best in your future endeavors! I hope you read this. 👑🤘♥️

[@airavillamena4445]

Not a cabin crew though I can totally relate! The emptiness and anxiousness. I thought there was something wrong with me. Thank you for articulating what I can't put into words for some time now. Bless you. ❤️

[@ammelinecool]

I think you’ve definitely made the right decision for yourself. I wish I saw this video sooner to realise I should have auditioned bc I’m emotionally detached from the events you mentioned such as family gatherings and stuff. But at the same time this covid 19 is also screwing everyone even the cabin crew

[@SaraEmily]

I mean, at least my EK friends still have their job. Yes, they made some pay cuts for the time being but they kept their jobs which is great! A lot better than what other airlines are facing but I do believe I left at the right time for me ! :) xxx

[@chrismc3410]

I totally agree with everything you said 💯.. Middle East crew here too. Only us crew will understand. And the Dubai living, it applies to all rich gulf states, and i think what you mean is that life in the gulf is SUPERFICIAL and only TRANSIT, TEMPORARY place. All the best to us resigned gulf crew!❤️

[@SaraEmily]

I think only we would completely understand especially being in the middle east, it's a completely different ball game!! all the best angel!!! xxx

[@aliciac8878]

What a wonderful video... No words to explain how you went straight to my heart !

[@SaraEmily]

and that comment went straight back to my heart! ahhhh thank you 🥰💕

[@pjgil4892]

Hi Sara. Il be leaving Dubai in about a month from no and all what you have just said are completely true. I feel anxious and depressed like literally everyday of my Dubai life. The only weapon I had to carry is prayer and thats how i get through the day.

[@SaraEmily]

bless you, thank you for watching my video and commenting, I send you positive vibes and I hope you find your peace! 🥰

[@rojellelizaga49]

ALL I CAN SAY MADAM SARA IS THAT I AM REALLY HAPPY FOR U THAT U CHOOSE WHAT MAKES U HAPPY 🥺🤧✊ SENDING LOTS OF LOVE ALL THE WAY HERE FR PHILIPPINES!!❤️🌻💗💗💗

[@SaraEmily]

thank you so much!!! :)

[@juliap1925]

Found your channel in my KZbin recommendations; thank you so much for sharing your experiences and journey and opinions. Although I know close to nothing about being a flight attendant, as a consultant who occasionally travels (fly) to new cities for client sites, I could really relate to your experiences of loneliness and how traveling losing some of it's "shine". I would clarify to my friends outside of consulting how work travel and leisurely travel can be completely different experiences and everyone has a different tolerance living the "glamorous lifestyle" until burnout. At times it was hard to connect with people who don't do the same work or have the same work lifestyle, but other times the work is so fast paced and intense that it leaves little room for more deep, intimate, and genuine connections. Thanks again for this video!

[@alejandroma7593]

This was such a necessary video. Thank you so much for telling us about your experience and your advice! I find it really useful

[@muhammadekhsan9284]

Sara, im not done watching your vid. I alr like you bc youre honest and tell things as how it is. Thank you for sharing! Happy that you did what you needed to do.❤

[@SaraEmily]

Thank you lovely 🥰

[@mmhong122]

It’s always experience in life that gives you richness in life. Whether it’s emptiness and others, appreciate you sharing it to the world

[@mmhong122]

Do you managed to know the reason of anxiety you feel before every flight?

[@mmhong122]

Been commenting when I’m watching along and really can feel relate to your emptiness and made me more grateful to our simple pleasure

[@SaraEmily]

I guess just because you're constantly exhausted and the fear of not 'sleeping enough' before a flight was horrendous

[@thrilakshisuriyaarachchi3829]

it really is your honest opinion. Even though I don't have such experience, I just feel it in the way you put things out...Thank you for sharing how you really felt♥

[@matthewb7978]

thank you so much for this video. i really appreciate this, you are not weird at all! its a shame society makes you feel that way because you seem like a remarkable real human!

[@juanitarichards1074]

Dubai has no ancient history which our hearts can attach to. It's a pretty bauble of a place for a holiday or short term business stay, but its too new and brash. A hodge podge of modernity and whizz bang........but it has no soul...........we can only be impressed by so many modern buildings and marinas and fountains etc.......but there is no depth. It can never be home....

[@patricemarie2960]

They always said? .... "Home is where the heart is!".... for a very good reason?.... It is!

[@왕싸커]

Thank you for sharing this video. These days. I have been preparing for applying for this job but i’m on self-reflection time in working in part-time job at a local restaurant due to this pandemic. It is really hard to overcome this time. Of course . I am aware that everyone have difficult time but including me i hope everyone who want to get this job deal with this time. Thank you for once again!

[@SaraEmily]

Best of luck!

[@radharamanlaal5024]

Wow!!!! I love ur honesty, really. I m so impressed. This is the first time I m watching u.

[@SaraEmily]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@AbzVlogz]

I really like your honesty. Thank you so much for sharing this. This gave me a whole new perspective of what is it like being a flight attendant and I like how you're not sugar coating things just to cover up something. I'm going to pursue being a flight attendant and if ever I'm successful, at least I now have an idea of the things that could possibly happen to me. This made me more open minded and that being a Flight attendant is not just about being able to travel around the world but there is definitely some sad experiences to encounter like missing your family and friends back home.

[@SaraEmily]

Thanks for watching angel I’m glad it opened up your mind to see both sides ! 🥰

[@Molly-tr5ep]

I’ve experienced exactly these feelings living in Hawai’i... I’ve been in Hawai’i for college since I first graduated high school and the feelings you describe I feel exactly. I really felt like the only person in the world for many months now Thankyou for this

[@haifaa22]

Hey thanks for the video. You’re absolutely right and I completely understand how you felt for many years. It’s the same for every travelling job. I got to the same point a couple of years ago and decided to just stop. I’m happy you finally got outta it. Wish you the best

[@WillownPassion_Eventing]

I flew Emirates for one year in 2010, couldn’t continue had to resign I felt all that pain, first Christmas far from home in Paris and I was totally miserable 😩, just wanted to be with my family back in Brazil, I felt like I was living in a bubble literally while I was there even though I lived there 9 years more after in other job, I got married had a baby and thank heavens now I’m with my daughter back home with my family in Brazil ❤️

[@donovan8747]

Many people feels the same way as you about the life there. You're definitely not alone.

[@andresolivieri7923]

Wow! I’ve watched a lot of these “why I quit Emirates” videos and by far this is the most genuine of them all! It’s amazing that you decided to share personal stories and strong opinions about your life in UAE, most people won’t be so bluntly honest as to not hurt other people in that situation or look bad but so glad you did which makes you so much more authentic and really able to tell your story, that really stood out! :)

[@SaraEmily]

Thank you Andres!! I tried to be as honest as I could without being rude! haha.. I'm glad you saw that and I'm glad you watched, thank you!! ☺️

[@azaniapulse3014]

This is so candid, and I can somehow relate, I used to be a hotel night Auditor for almost 3 years. I didn't have a life cause when friends were linking for dinner or drinks, I would be at work, if they link for lunch, I was sleeping. It becomes hard, but most of the time I had to suck it up cause of financial responsibilities, but it is hard, your head space stays dizzy, I swear I used to feel like I was high most of the time because of the awkward routine. I also relate with what you said about being in front of Niagara Falls and felt emotional cause you wished you were with a loved one, I used to travel with my recent job, there was a time I was at Victoria Falls and I wished I was with family or friends, then I was in Chobe with clients who only kept to themselves while I was hosting them, it felt cold yet I was in front of magnificent nature, I mean we just drove into lions killing a zebra but cause I wasn't connected to the people I was with cause they all knew each other and I was just like an additional person to them, I really loved my job, but I just zoned out in that moment.... So I feel you. 💖

[@ShaliniSingh-yn4nd]

This is the first video I watched and yes i will subscribe. Your story of your life was amazing and has a lesson. Goodluck to you both on your new journey. Hope you get all the love you deserve and stay safe and healthy. Way to go....Love you❤️👍