Sarah Jaffe - Wreaking Havoc

[@AshleyDancer321]

God, I love this side of KZbin.

[@roraio]

God knows how many times I listened to this song while I was unrequited in love with my best friend. He was in a long-term relationship, and I was all by myself. Being in love on your own is worse than not being in love at all. The lyrics of this song could not have described my situation better! Four years later and a thousand miles apart, the situation hasn't changed. He's getting married and I'm getting therapy...

[@yasyil]

I'm so sorry...

[@adrianschmadrian3550]

roraio: It's a year later, so I'm coming late to the show...but as I am the Unofficial King of Unrequited Love, your comment resonated. My life was forever changed when I fell for someone quite a while ago and an ocean apart now. I ended up leaving the company we worked at twice, then left the country due to my inability to 'sort myself out'. All this time later, the impact of it all is still felt in a low-hum sort of way. The blessing of this calamitous situation is that it provided the basis of a novel; I was able to tap into the pain and remember how my mute elation at seeing her used to battle with reality, leaving me a little more crumbled each time. One of my fondest memories, one of my most prized Life interludes, period, had she and I sitting at the same work station, reviewing a project together; even now, I can feel a man-swoon coming on. : ) My great consolation is my - admittedly whimsical -belief that, on another timeline, on another Earth, she and I ended up together. I can't help but be reminded of the comment made by The Merovingian in one of 'Matrix Revolutions "It is remarkable how similar the pattern of love is to the pattern of insanity." For me, that says it all. I hope you've found some peace. P.S. I love the lyric 'I'd rather be alone than be without you...'

[@rahariri4295]

So sorry 😔

[@stefan2005stefan]

roraio Its projection . Seriously > you can only love someone who loves you back and loves you not as he is not with you . This is you projecting the needs unfulfilled in you onto a situation you cant have in order to not address the real issues in you . ie - you feel safer in this overlay pain. See ,the "in love" thing only happens wen its reciprocal - you are trying to hav your childhood wrongs fixed by an inappropriate situation ...most likely from a lost father that cant be resolved so in a sub conscious yearning to resolve this youve attached this/projected this onto another unattainable love so as to replicate this childhood trauma . similar to falling in lov w a prisoner or a celebrity would be a similar but extreme version of this. so you must allow yourself to fully express your traumas which will be as painful as needed for less and less the more you do ,safely and calmly and aswell tell your love also hhow you feel and maybe he leaves marriage n you can be together or he will show you that he doesnt feel same way about you and you can realize its not real love its roughly as iv said. be real and this will work.

[@cosarimanediuncuorespezzat474]

I really liked your comment it made me feel your sadness and longing and conveyed your message in a very relatable way that even made me feel not so alone in a way. I fell hard for someone myself recently it was difficult because we were actually having a physically intimate relationship and seemingly had a deep bond with one another. We expressed our feelings for eachother we even expressed love for one another but every time things got too close the friend word would come out. I want nothing more than to be with this person I feel no one else or anything else for that matter could ever make me feel the way I do than when we are together. I wanted more out of the relationship and I think I pushed too much for that as we barely talk anymore and I'm still hopelessly and helplessly in love. Instead of happiness I feel everything is pointless and I feel empty and miserable. Everyone says oh you will find love again but it seems bleak considering I have never felt so deeply about anyone or anything else in my life.We only live a few blocks from one another but it feels like there are miles and miles between us now.

[@lilith1504]

I'm really glad in here. I'm just true 1000th liked this song when I'm truly self-havoc.

[@Lennoex]

God, I love this girl :)

[@MrMartinmarc]

how beautiful is this pain ?

[@JardaKelt]

Sarah Jaffe - № 1

[@MediaHoax]

Great song !

[@kuchiiii90]

heaven

[@jrregan]

I want my Sarah back! Well, actually I need my Sarah back. But we're not supposed to admit weaknesses.

[@GorgeousEntity]

This is soo fucking beautiful.

[@jdespierta]

We're wreaking havoc and we're both 2 blame,we both like pain..

[@TheOfficialElina]

It sounds like she's saying, "Let's give our problems a name" ...not YOUR problems. That goes better with the line afterwards too, "we both like pain".

[@licenciadaespecial]

wowwwwwwwwwwwww

[@nick2157]

I have Asperger it’s not me I’m not part of any label I’m nick and you describe every relationship Iv ever tried , being in love apart. My heart has broken I guess I just don’t feel it . Beautiful song I bet every one will comment now . I do hope they are kind in their words .

[@DolphinGrew]

Seek a doctor, not youtube-comments

[@shubbarox]

Like a bag of bones drag my EYES back home I know it doesn't make sense, but hey, I'm sensitive.

[@valerieflanagan593]

Lauren Todd ass *

[@genccapinyonunaclar6498]

see you ! :(

[@thetruth.1223]

I FUCKING LOVE YOU

[@isaross2710]

uni

[@agagpatatra]

*****