Save a Broken Marriage When She Doesn't Believe In My Changes

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Geoffrey Setiawan

Geoffrey Setiawan

2 жыл бұрын

SAVE A BROKEN MARRIAGE WHEN SHE DOESN’T BELIEVE IN MY CHANGES
So you’re having a broken marriage, and you’re trying to fix it. You’re trying to change in whatever ways you can, but your partner does not seem to believe that your changes are real, genuine, or permanent.
This is the issue that I hear a lot of people facing - that their partner is SEEING their changes, but they are not FEELING it and are still struggling to forget the broken marriage and lean into your new you and your changes.
In this video, I am going to show you 5 of the most common reasons why this happens, and how you can change your approach to better showcase your changes to your partner.
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@GeoffreySetiawan
@GeoffreySetiawan 2 жыл бұрын
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@erickfigz2418
@erickfigz2418 2 жыл бұрын
Geoffrey- My spouse has asked for a separation. We are separated but living together. She wants to see if the “grass is greener on the other side” I am joining your masterclass to see if this program is right for me and my personal growth/future.
@gavinconlon869
@gavinconlon869 5 күн бұрын
I joined Luke finn..i know being better not whinney is.. yet 30 mile,s away,i wonder.
@davidkalyabulo1318
@davidkalyabulo1318 2 жыл бұрын
This man saved my struggling relationshipe and ur words changed my life for the better no matter she comes back or nt iam sure u hav made me abetter person
@GeoffreySetiawan
@GeoffreySetiawan 2 жыл бұрын
Wow David, such an honor to play a role in your relationship and in your life. Thank you for your words. This means a lot to me.
@jaredhaas4168
@jaredhaas4168 3 ай бұрын
If she's going to leave you, make her leave the best version of you.
@datyellaman447
@datyellaman447 Жыл бұрын
Hey fellas do yourself a favor and pay attention to Geoffrey, it's so hard when the separation starts, but over time if you stay true to the your positive process you will see results IN YOURSELF, stop worrying about getting her back, that's totally on her, we just have to try to become the best men we can , my wife hasn't come back but we are definitely in a more positive place than she would have been if I had been begging or guilting her to come back, I miss her like crazy but I am also enjoying the process of becoming the best me I have been in a long time
@dt3947
@dt3947 Жыл бұрын
My wife's love language is being physical and we're still under the same roof and had that fire for each other when I get in to physical intimacy, am I not sticking to my actions or am I demonstrating that I'm always here for her wants? I never want to show her that I'm giving up.
@Writer_insides
@Writer_insides 7 ай бұрын
Any update?
@jonathanj.francis6869
@jonathanj.francis6869 2 жыл бұрын
ive searched into many "professionals" and could never find someone very close to the feelings and situations im in except you, thank you im really going in depth to your channel to save my 5 yr relationship with my woman. i absolutely love her but she needs space and time to grow while it goes back to one of your old videos.. she doesnt trust and doesnt trust or believe in my changes. absolutely loving your advice its helping me clarify my areas of where i need to work on to help myself so she can help herself
@jasonmarcinkoski4222
@jasonmarcinkoski4222 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your videos. Watching them has been very helpful, and reassuring that I am doing the right thing.
@Jae_Garcia
@Jae_Garcia 2 жыл бұрын
As always great videos please don’t ever stop
@GeoffreySetiawan
@GeoffreySetiawan 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment and support.
@madlfcdc5890
@madlfcdc5890 2 жыл бұрын
Geoffrey. Love your videos. I obviously want my wife to be in love with me again but I'm struggling with separating myself from my neediness and insecurities. I don't want to convince her to be in love with me again through manipulation or the appearance that I have changed. I've done that before and all it did was paste over the cracks and as a result I'm back to square one again. All I want now is to be a strong and independent man who doesn't need my wife. She's lost her respect and attraction to me and I feel less of a man due to my emotional weakness. We are currently on cordial terms but there is no romantic physical contact. I feel like nothing more than a friend to her. I'm not making things worse in our relationship but I don't seem to be reigniting the flame in her either.
@michaelsmith1364
@michaelsmith1364 2 жыл бұрын
How’s it going now? Hope you didn’t give up bro…I’m in same position now myself and just tryin my best to focus on my self improvement. I want my wife back but I can’t and will not dare be with her the way I was.
@MadLFC
@MadLFC 2 жыл бұрын
@Michael Smith Hi. Things are OK now but it took a few months of me making changes, being patient and sticking with it. Being emotionally strong and independent in a masculine way is the key. Neediness is the killer. Most women want an emotionally strong, masculine man who is as good as his word. Hope things work out for you. These videos and the modern man videos help a lot.
@dt3947
@dt3947 Жыл бұрын
My Wife's love language is being physical, but during this separation creates a lot of confusion. I should take action and not fall.into her wants, but I also don't want to show that I'm giving up
@FLS713HTX
@FLS713HTX Жыл бұрын
This is where I'm at we talk but I don't have the right process of asking the right questions, I'm not trying to do smart contact but where we are in terms of communication it pretty much is smart contact we only have talks regarding the kids of just surface level conversations but I have no idea on the mind shifts or process of asking the questions making me fearful to ask, that's why I'm considering to really join your program we've been separated for 6months now.
@davidkalyabulo1318
@davidkalyabulo1318 2 жыл бұрын
Ur the best.......
@AummenuGuambro10
@AummenuGuambro10 Жыл бұрын
How are you?I need a lot of help. I try to do what your videos say but with my wife it backfires. She had a dream that I was doing these nice things so she would come back to me. So I confronted her and told her I’m not doing this to get you back or not. Im just doing because this is who I’am. The she asked me why the changes, why didn’t I assume the responsibility before in helping her pay the bills. I responded by saying I have tried. I tried working two jobs and you disliked it because I wasn’t spending much time at home, then it came to that I was cheating on her. So I quit the second job, to stay home and to ease her mind. Then again, with the bills situation. Im not making an effort to pay them. I was like,”but I just?!” So I feel like I can’t win. So I explained it to her but she said that was the past, i dont care about the past. Inside me I asked, “ so then why did you ask me on why I haven’t done it before
@AummenuGuambro10
@AummenuGuambro10 Жыл бұрын
And now she’s pissed off at me.
@engineer_zw
@engineer_zw Жыл бұрын
How do I do all these things in a long distance relationship, do these methods only work in marriages or they also work in relationship
@dh5785
@dh5785 2 жыл бұрын
I've been in a relationship for 13 months and my girl friend told me that she's not in love with me but she likes me and she said it bothers her. She also said that she feels like we are not a good match. Also she said I'm not expressive of my feelings and if she goes MIA that I also don't bother to contact her, which is true. Even though we broke up she said she's okay to talk for couple of months and see how it goes and if things get better that we could get back together. She also said not to get my hopes up but lets talk and see how it goes. I need guidance as to how to save this relationship! Also I'd like to know whether there's hope since she said she's okay to talk and see how it goes?
@GeoffreySetiawan
@GeoffreySetiawan 2 жыл бұрын
Hi D H, Watch this video here to learn what "I love you, but not in love with you means" kzbin.info/www/bejne/oJzKc6RrjbKdntU
@alphawavesready6639
@alphawavesready6639 2 жыл бұрын
Geoffrey watching your videos worked, i have a couple problems myself. One I emotionally cheated snd confessed a while back. Things seem okay now. I myself don't know if this relationship is healthy for some reason i feel checked out or still haven't processed that emotional cheating I did.
@GeoffreySetiawan
@GeoffreySetiawan 2 жыл бұрын
Why not have a conversation about this topic using the principles contained in this video. kzbin.info/www/bejne/sGXOmIWdbqpomqs
@alphawavesready6639
@alphawavesready6639 2 жыл бұрын
@@GeoffreySetiawan Hey Geoffrey where do I start on your channel? My girlfriend went through my laptop and seen things she didn't like and it set her off to say shes done. Also how can I enjoy the process of change?
@missqlalah
@missqlalah 2 жыл бұрын
@@alphawavesready6639 You don't deserve her. Why be in a relationship only to behave like you're single? Stay single + be a ho bag without involving anyone in your bs. She deserves a loyal man + I hope she finds him!
@MinorityPo
@MinorityPo 2 жыл бұрын
I'm just wondering if there are any requirements for the masterclass?
@michaelsmith1364
@michaelsmith1364 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah payment. You get a first class for free that is very insightful
@muradcumhur
@muradcumhur 2 жыл бұрын
what if she believed them but still not in love?
@Writer_insides
@Writer_insides 7 ай бұрын
We do talk now ,, i am also changed but the thing is she says i don't want see your changes i dont want to be with you irrespective of your changes Change for your next relationship We talk only about web series, movies like this stuff She says she has very high expectations now and she will not settle for less What to do next ,, and one she didn't text me first, i text msg and call her every time Help me
@josuemartinez5989
@josuemartinez5989 2 жыл бұрын
What if she says she believes in your changes but says she won’t be there to see them and needs to work on herself and future without me?
@GeoffreySetiawan
@GeoffreySetiawan 2 жыл бұрын
Josue Martinez, If this is happening then you must master the art of persuasion. kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJnTgIKAg9B5d9U
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