Save the Last Dance: Dana Crowell v Bexter Richardson

[@shamekag6403]

All she’s asking for is communication and he’s dismissing her

[@loracro4284]

She’s asking for security that he can’t give to her. She’s very insecure. He could be a better communicator yes but her insecurities is the real issue.

[@kattiethomas4687]

He has double standards

[@sumeenakausari1429]

The man got on my nerves as soon as he started speaking... He started simply blaming her.... He is emotional abuser.. They know what's going on and then will keep blaming the partner to hide their minds and doings...

[@marceejohnson4113]

GIIIIRL! He's a jerk. Either you do how he wants or you can be gone.

[@Remember_Eden]

She deserves the blame, rightly so. From the beginning he told her how he rolled. She should have been gone, but she stayed.

[@yayayanzi]

@@Remember_Eden exactly

[@gwendolynosler3930]

I agree with you she will never be happy with him

[@bee12355]

I dated a man from Liberia - the relationship lasted 2 months. I couldn’t deal with it anymore. I think some of their issues are cultural. Lack of communication.

[@chikaodiliejim]

This guy has an answer to everything. Making her feel guilty for questioning his behavior, he 's done.

[@babes805202]

He’s a narcissist and very manipulative.

[@armcandi36]

Facts covert

[@kattiethomas4687]

Native African

[@BleuReign13]

What I hear is her asking him to communicate more..and I hear him refusing and blowing her off as insecure. If he made her feel secure, over time she would need less..,(,in theory)

[@Novakane78]

What I hear is: she is finding problems and he is tired of it...he is tired of having to answer to her...she isn't talking to him she is talking at him...when you get talked at you don't want to listen...being talked to may award a listen

[@BleuReign13]

@Beast Lee Sounds like she's fed up with him crossing her personal boundaries. So I get it.. It doesn't sound like he ever tried to meet her half way , just this is how I am deal with it.. A relationship requires communication and compromise. It doesn't sound like hes willing to do either

[@Novakane78]

@Djinn2002 maybe..but I listened to both of them ..he doesn't like to answer to anyone...he mentioned coming from a situation of being very oppressed...he wants to feel free...its sad that we addressed her trauma but not his....because he is a man...his trauma doesn't matter...even he kept addressing her trauma but made his own trauma take a back seat..as if we are being made to only address the traumas of women

[@BleuReign13]

@Beast Lee no I'm Not saying his trauma isnt important. I'm saying if you want to be in a relationship you have to come together and meet each other. If he doesn't want to answer to anyone, be obligated to anyone's feelings, or communicate...then he should be single

[@coconwa]

Is not his duty to make her secure, after all , he is not d reason she is insecure. She should go and work on herself.

[@sandrarice4197]

Every time I see Judge Star, she always puts a smile on my face. She is a true class act. Judge Star is brillant, beautiful, eloquent, charismatic, charming, insightful, well-versed-I could go on and on with the adjectives. I just love her so much!!! I pray she is on Divorce Court for many, many years. God bless Judge Star!!!

[@roxette24]

She’s pretty awesome. Not gonna lie, I was DREADING her at the start of last season. I had totally convinced myself that without Judge Lynn, Divorce Court was going to be horrible. It was a little rocky with Judge Faith, but there were things I liked about her. When if was announced that she was leaving and being replaced by Judge Star, I had to Google who she even was and remember thinking, “great, it’s going to be even worse…” but I have no problem admitting that I was wrong-and I was SO wrong!!!! It took about a dozen episodes for Judge Star to grow on me but I love her more and more with each episode!!! Don’t get me wrong, no one can replace Judge Toler, but she’s pretty awesome ❤

[@WilbertGross]

She has her insecurities but she is aware of them. All she is asking for is him to communicate more. And he keeps thinking she wants details down to the clothing of the woman. She doesn't want that, just to let her know basic details. Him not willing to communicate, which would make things easier for both of them, is just stubborn and self destructing.

[@bee12355]

Maybe it’s a cultural aspect on his part. What she is asking for is reasonable. I dated someone from Liberia - that relationship ended after 2 months. I just couldn’t deal with him anymore.

[@tashanixon1651]

He seems reasonable to me. She is just insecure. I agree about the joint bank account though.

[@JayDee-ut5yg]

Judge your wig is GORGEOUS!!! She has some of the best wigs that I have seen!!! I need one of those in my life!!!!

[@roxette24]

She really does!!! But she could literally wear a mop instead and still be unbelievably gorgeous!!!

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

That's her own hair!!!

[@shanaleefairclough4073]

Cheater written all over him. He is a slick talker. Why are you calling her Miss Dana?

[@robbbietheim2096]

I would never have joint bank account with anyone, IT JUST DOESN'T WORK 😡💯

[@suade9940]

He doesn’t take any accountability. She’ll be happier by herself because more “surprises” will come up.

[@keishasmith379]

Too much work ppl do to stay with someone. Waste of time.

[@maureen9853]

Ohh you spoke my mind

[@ahood7787]

Let him see what it’s like to be alone girl! Sometimes you have to show your worth. Walk away. If it’s meant to be, you will come back together.

[@gigibrown_wright]

He simply doesn’t want her. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@MarianaAndrade81]

It’s hard being with someone who thinks they know everything 🙄

[@queenebonyqueenebony]

He is single!!! He thinks he’s slick-be grateful you didn’t marry him🎉🎉🎉

[@americanlivinginjamaica181]

He has double standards. He doesn’t communicate with her. He is focused on his career and liberation. He doesn’t want to give her what she needs. He doesn’t want to.

[@gab19guerin72]

He cheating girl! You not wrong. Leave him. WALK and see what happens. 🤣🤣🤣 Yes she is insecure but he is a liar and a manipulator. He has double standards.

[@kaneishasmith1466]

Exactly Sis !! I Feel Like She Only Asking For The Basic Communication. But He Was A Refugee So He Probably Wants to just Focus On Him .

[@gab19guerin72]

@@kaneishasmith1466 he is very selfish and self absorbed. She needs to cut ties.

[@quichequiche4274]

He's not cheating. He just feels like he told her who he was and how he moves in the beginning, so he doesn't want to have to keep going back and telling her. He feels she should trust him and his judgemental and that he's gonna attain his goals for them both. Some women can do that, she's not one of them. They should separate.

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

It's always "just business" until he gets caught with his pants down!! Everything in his eyes is her fault - he's done nothing wrong!! Stop the blame game and be honest!!

[@worldhealthrn]

I commend her for trusting her instincts tho

[@Fleefromsin]

Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. “Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. “For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:28-30).

[@enyin2001]

Amen

[@americanlivinginjamaica181]

I love Judge Star’s hair today. Very flattering

[@dellawhite8781]

She sounds like a VHS tape on fast forward! For all the 80s babies out there!!!

[@jasmindrace]

And 90s lol😅

[@jaelynstellamusic6562]

And 00 lol

[@armcandi36]

😅😅

[@plutodior8613]

Can’t unhear it

[@annabellemascarenas6053]

.she has 3 year old little girl voice…cute ? 🤔🤭🤭🥴

[@sweetsweet81]

Definitely incompatible!!! This ain't gonna work!

[@thebighousencaaattendancer478]

They make a cute couple, though.

[@sweetsweet81]

@Number1DetroitSportsFan true, but it's not enough.

[@trishhur5035]

😂🤣😅

[@worldhealthrn]

She keeps saying we, he keeps saying I, except when he started talking about the money he took from their account

[@mrcoolguy819]

The comments seem split on who the problem was lol. I do think he could stand to communicate a good bit more. He's too dismissive of the idea of communication regardless of what it looks like.

[@oodief88]

I agree, David. Simple communication can go a long way.

[@riquelbrown1357]

Unfortunately I'm not surprised he acts like this.

[@lovememore5756]

Lol are you a Liberian 😂 if you don’t mind

[@Kara-kx1lb]

She needs to go find someone else...

[@highlander666]

He's not worth the trouble, not even handsome; she can do much better. A great example of why no one should have join accounts

[@poshpearls23]

Maybe I'm crazy..... but I'm not seeing what she's talking about. They are just not on the same page. He really is one of those dudes that shouldn't be in a relationship rn because he's all about chasing the bag. She's ready to settle down and slow down their pace of living, and he has no intentions of that. They seem like good people- not good together. Wish them the best.

[@andreawashington5430]

His ass is sly and sneaky 😂😂😂. He needs to be single maybe for some more time. He calling her Ms Dana😂😂😂😂😂. Yes they need too separate

[@shannondonnelly7985]

Oh no,I see him.She might be annoying and a bit scarred from her past,but he double talks.

[@chesnetjoseph441]

Only problem on his part is he isn't willing to compromise for the betterment of the relationship other than that he ain't wrong he ain't keeping her hostage in the relationship don't know how many time dude said if it ain't working for her she should leave his goals is his priority right now that doesn't make him a bad guy if it was the other way yall would be praising her

[@relationshipguru102]

So true. I am not saying he's all in all right but I see a man who struggled in that country and now have a chance to change it so he's gonna do what he has to do work wise to change his life. I don't think he's ready for kids and marriage. Secondly I'm not gonna be with men in certain industries because of what it comes with. If u not secure trust me it won't work

[@Shellygrrl2573]

@@relationshipguru102 I agree with everything that you just said. What gets me is all the people in the comments acting like it's HIS job to fix HER. Also that just because he's in a relationship he has to give up everything that he's worked hard for? If it was her doing it they would be like you "go girl! You don't need a man". But HES a jerk for not settling. Wow...These people are bunch of hypocrites for sure🤣

[@wezzman1]

I know this type of guys, say the right things, act like you doing the right thing, what's all the while is cheating

[@X.Sheislia]

“Ms Dana Ms Dana” boy please 😵‍💫

[@sherriebans4737]

He is condescending, dishonest and feels it is beneath him to communicate. ... Girl run, you have wasted your time on this one.

[@helenawharry]

I can't.....I just can't

[@zoelife7272]

he wants no accountability to his partner. this will NEVER work

[@jo-annbastings]

OMG! I can’t imagine her voice under helium! 🤭😄😅😂 Because of her previous bad experiences, she might sabotage a good relationship. I understand that having being cheated can leave you suspicious towards new partners, it shouldn’t lead your life for it will surely mess up your futur relationship. «A relationship with no trust it’s like a car with no gas. It will go nowhere.» Thank you judge for your words of wisdom.

[@passiveincomegirl1824]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@sweetsweet81]

Somebody in the chat said she sounds like Michel'le

[@jo-annbastings]

@@sweetsweet81 🤭🤭🤭🤭

[@peterwebb4468]

That voice of hers 😂😂😂🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

[@Nursetiptip77]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@jeremyjones8917]

This is why I won't get a joint account with my woman she likes to spend and won't say shit 😂😂😂😂nah you won't get me

[@stpstp7963]

You wouldn’t keep props in your personal drawer

[@latacealittle4739]

I miss judge Lynn toler . I think this couple need some of her good advice and they would be ok.

[@cynthiaward4512]

You better run son...

[@asatakromah1216]

This my Liberian brother he’s definitely and narcissist 😂😂😂

[@arielharrison6719]

I’m sick of him calling her Ms.Dana….

[@jasonito23]

He took money out of the joint account without her consent then she took the money she put in out of the account. She may be a fool staying in the relationship but she made the right move with the money. He was going to wipe that account clean.

[@priceles971]

She is anxious and he is avoidant. They both need time appart to figure out how to fix their relationship if they even care about one another. The guy doesn't seem to want to participate in helping his woman heal from her insecurities. She'll always be that way but it gets worse because he doesn't want to compromise on little things. Simple actions as in sharing some details about his intentions or women he meets would ease the situation (normally). He's so focused on defending himself and proving a point that he's not actually listening to her needs and trying to meet them. The woman should fix her insecurities by seeking a therapist but in a relationship, I believe a partner is here to be supportive and participate in every aspect of the relationship. I believe she's helping him succeed in his career (so his needs are met) but he isn't supporting her emotionally. That's sad

[@The_Love_Counselor]

Very well stated.

[@kf79perez70]

She’s anxious and he’s avoidant.

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

Yes you do need to communicate with her!! You can let her know that you're going out to do whatever and you should be home by whatever time. Is that hard??? He doesn't want to communicate what's going on because it's suspect!!

[@crystalm1758]

It irks me every time he calls her Ms. Dana. Why is he being so official with his intimate partner. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@brittanyhawkins960]

I don’t understand what’s so hard about checking in with your lady

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

It's always "just business!!" Until you get caught woth your pants down!! Then it's not "just business" anymore!!

[@zazay9]

She has trust issues, and Judge Star said it best” because you have a check list that don’t mean he has one” you can’t bring negative energy from the past into your new relationship.

[@kemahclark9708]

For some reason from the time he started talking I knew he was a Liberian cuz I can hear my Liberian English in his mouth I'm a Liberian so I know when I see one... I knew he was from Liberia

[@cute6933]

I suspected as well from the moment he talked that he must be Liberian or from a country in West Africa. There is always a salient accent that comes out when our brethren when they speak. Meanwhile you would agree that this is a case of cultural shock. He might not even be cheating however he is just not use to been questioned from a partner about how he does his dealings as long as he does what he believes he is meant to do.

[@Moore_cookies51]

WHY DID HE STAY SO LONG? She knew what she was getting into.

[@chocolateangel8743]

He stayed because of her skin color. Why are you putting so much blame on her? He should have been more communicative, and he shouldn't have taken money out of a personal joint account for supposed business expenses. That's what business accts. are for.

[@penelopeb1370]

She is clear about what she needs. He is capable of providing it but refuses to do so. Got it.

[@superblessed2956]

There's also some huge cultural red flags...Run!!!!!!

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

He's not hearing her!!! It's all about him - she's always wrong!!

[@FreedomNurse]

This man shouldn’t be in a relationship. He is career driven and is not in a place to be in a relationship. She should leave. She’s wasting her time.

[@deborahrollins7071]

I’m wondering why is he calling his girl miss Dana?

[@PumaaGotcha]

Same thing Im wondering.

[@jadriangarner6374]

Culture differences….smh🤦🏽‍♂️

[@berlingrace634]

He is selfffff absorbed and not husband material. He never says ‘we’ just ‘I’

[@empressyaya6927]

He told her from the beginning that he didn't think the relationship was a good idea because of her past experiences; red flag #1🚩. He also explained that he is coming with baggage from his past experiences, and he is not willing to compromise his goals, red flag#2🚩. Coming to court with a sparkly rhinestone bowtie, and having a draw full of womens lingerie, red flags #3-100🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩!

[@okaygworl]

I think they could actually work it out with some relationship counseling focused on communication

[@Dezzy_502]

Na they both set in their own ways.

[@miss.nita.]

Imagine hearing her high voice all day every day 🙈

[@tasbar7743]

Like nails on a chalkboard 😳😳😳

[@wavez415]

She has the cutest voice

[@decembersmith2555]

This lady not crazy uno, he’s cheating on her. 🙄🙄

[@bevonyoutubetv4333]

He heard what she is asking for she wants to be more apart of his business and wants him to communicate with her sir. Is not what he feels is right is what she knows is right

[@queenb2713]

He sounds like he's from Liberian

[@mringram]

It's not going to work

[@passiveincomegirl1824]

She doesn’t sound a day over 10 y/o

[@ioniefrith3095]

Confusion 😕 Confusion

[@worldhealthrn]

But I'm sure he told her those things because the way she stated them how she phrased it that's something that you hear in Black communities we're going to be a power couple and either u buidl with me or we can't be together that is very popular lingo... I think he has changed his mind since his business has grown and he just won't be honest with that he wants to let it go

[@2ABECKLES]

He's making excuse and she needs to reevaluate their relationship

[@gwendolynosler3930]

This man just want everything his way

[@gwendolynosler3930]

Run lady run

[@worldhealthrn]

Now I think he might have been trying to sabotage to get out of being with her and having kids just as his dreams are coming through

[@biblosantral]

White women has officially patent the toddler voice for grown women everywhere in the world to use, I could not argue with this lady in all seriousness in the middle of the argument I'd probably forget that she's an adult and tell her not to back talk me or I'd probably tell her she's grounded lol but I can tell she's not going anywhere and ain't gonna make it easy for him to leave either, they deserve each other

[@gzyememhrey708]

Came both of you working my company leave this job

[@tyara5884]

How you professional with women and reusing lingerie?!?! Idk how y’all feel but he start wrong

[@nicolemcintosh2403]

I had to check my playback speed. I can't watch no mo...my ears hurt

[@loracro4284]

At the end of the day, it should not be this hard to be with someone. She has the right to ask for what she feels she deserves, he’s a bit of a douche so don’t see why she’s begging him to be with her.

[@shawnbrown9061]

Who are they?? With all the promos and music videos they talking about being in. I never saw either one before

[@LBrownoffical]

Now I know why she's single

[@MsBizzyRae]

She is insecure, she needs someone that will give her every detail and assurances at all times. Most healed people don't need that. It's not wring that she needs that but "healed people" don't need that. She either needs to heal or be with someone that can cater to her until she heals.

[@Shellygrrl2573]

So true. I don't hound my fiance about every single thing that he's doing. He's not the man that hurt me and I don't bring that crap into a relationship because I don't care about those people anymore, I've moved on. She hasn't moved on. And that's not HIS fault because he told her to not be with him unless she's healed and she lied.

[@MsBizzyRae]

@@Shellygrrl2573 exactly!

[@TheAvianne]

Culture is all over him that is the way they are

[@sjont]

They were literally there to promote themselves.

[@derrickstingley6895]

They don't need to be together

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

He's making me nuts!! "Miss Dana" - if you're a couple, why di you address her as "Miss Dana"?? There's no trust between the 2 of them because he won't communicate with her. I don't think she's asking for much!!!

[@susiesolangesimpson2828]

They’re from my city. Let me look them up lol

[@bmore8338]

Do as I say not as I do

[@davidmiller5995]

Get away from this girl do your thing brother she is a problem.

[@mayakalinda]

He's cheating and he's lying about it. Talk about gaslighting.

[@monica-lo9yd]

I want to see the video

[@jasonito23]

He´s calling her Ms. Dana. That´s weird.

[@redeemfaith]

STOP having joint anything money related if you ain’t married. Ppl change and you don’t want to be nickel and diming to the penny if things don’t end up on marriage.

[@michellestanford517]

He dosen't want a future with her

[@wizwitit]

Please leave the chocolate Six Flags mascot

[@bribrimimosas250]

She should’ve healed before jumping into another relationship. People like him who come from little to nothing- they usually are smooth talkers. He gaslights her as well.

[@sophiaandre139]

She talks too much!

[@Junestee3]

She sounds like a little baby.....

[@eng.reagan9540]

Funny how everyone is hating on a brother. A former refugee now has his brand and company and a side hustle with a clear vision for the future. I see why she doesn't want to let him go. He is just better than most of the Americans who came up in here. Ms. Dana fight for your relationship. Don't pass a good one, cuz in this dating world, few like that brother are left. I see him going places in few years time.