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[@thenorseman2804]

Pleas don't say goodby to us M! This is the only channel i follow and realy enjoy!

[@SPAWNOFSATAN013]

That land cruiser is beautiful. I hope it's not goodbye forever. I'm also excited whats your next rig will be 😀.

[@007Knightjp]

Look forward to seeing this video. I know the feeling well. More than anything we own, our vehicles tend to take on a certain personality; in such that we begin to think of them as living beings, our companions on this wild adventure we call life. The longer we own them, the deeper the bond. I had to say good bye to IronHide because of a 2 second mistake I made. Still haunts me to this day. I remember looking back at the wreck again and again, after signing over the paperwork. It felt like putting down the family pet. My dad still talks about the 83 Mazda 323 that he had many years ago and how all the cars he had since, they never quite captured that same magic. That Mazda would never win awards for best looking, etc., but it was a part of our family. We all have memories about that car. Each video you've made with your 100 series are the memories that you take with you. In a way, it's never gone. Its here.. still living on in our hearts and minds. Its soul is immortalized.

[@OverlandLady]

@@007Knightjp Thank you Julian. This comment gave me shivers. I believe you know the feeling very well. They may be gone. But they forever lives in our memories.

[@mountainconstructions]

So pretty horrible vehicle maintenance and checking.... Wow....

[@brucedouglas7643]

The last few minutes of your video reminded me of a saying I heard years ago- “Don’t be sad that it’s over, smile because it happened.” The memories you have created for yourself will live on in these videos and I for one am glad they will. Good luck to you on your new adventure.

[@billkirby75]

You're so awesome!! I've been a Carpenter since I was 20yrs old, and now I'm 47. I love your videos 😎👍

[@coolpat71]

The people i know that went to college for the trades are working but, the ones i know that went to university, not all of them are working in thier field. All the support for the trades :)

[@markskeels1952]

that's why the windscreen is bigger than the mirror...glance behind every now and then but the big view is ahead...thanks for the adventures so far and good luck with whatever you choose for your future...

[@Phibron101]

I heard a phrase when I was younger, that seems appropriate. Don’t be sad that it’s over, be glad that it happened. There are some slightly different words used, as evidenced by the comments below. But the sentiment is the same.

[@hammockinparadise]

I’m wishing you healing ❤️‍🩹, joy and pleasure in your new metal work training. You’ll know what to do in your heart. I’m wishing you the best. 🙏🏻

[@TygerBlueEyes]

Looking good. Hang in there!

[@jasonpacific5661]

Thank you so much for all the Amazing poetic wilderness adventures you took us on !! And no matter what your next chapter is the way you share your journeys will always be wonderful 🏵️

[@joshm9003]

I feel the same way on nostalgia and being a hoarder. I have a difficult time thinking of getting rid of my old 94 hilux. It's been with me since high-school for 17 years. I've had some of my best memories and trips in it. Even though I know it's just a vehicle it feels so like an old friend. Keep pushing forward in your path. We all enjoy seeing your videos and look forward to what you do next.

[@racebanning6390]

SOME OF US ARE HEAVY THINKERS, AND WHEN DEVESTATING THINGS HAPPEN, WE KIND OF GO INTO A SHELL. I HAD THAT HAPPEN IN 2013. IVE RECOVERED, IT TOOK ABOUT A YEAR TO SORT OUT WHETHER TO CONTINUE OR NOT. I CHOSE TO CARRY ON WITH THAT WHICH I LOVE, AND AM GIFTED AT. I AM A FABRICATOR, BUILDING HOTRODS BY HAND, AND THAT YEAR OFF MADE ME MORE HUNGRY TO CONTINUE. IN 2014, I BOUGHT THE 4TH PROJECT BODY, STARTED, AND COMPLETED IT IN 2018. I DRIVE IT, AND ITS AMAZING. I COULD TELL YOU WERE SO HURT. AND YES WHILE WE WAITED FOR THIS VIDEO, IM SURE IM NOT THE ONLY ONE CONCERNED FOR YOU. GLAD TO SEE THE HEALING HAS BEGUN. I ABSOLUTELY DIG YOUR VIDS AND NARRATING. I HOPE YOU CONTINUE. WE SOMETIMES GROW THE MOST IN THE HARD TIMES.

[@rubyvictoria7055]

A beautiful video, touchingly thought out, put together, and shared. I read the title when it flashed up on my phone and thought 'NO, don't shut your channel down'. So relieved. But if you had, those that care, would understand. Instead I just watched a tribute. To you. A woman who has gone through so many things, mentally, physically, breaking stigmas, pushing boundaries. A tribute to the past. I enjoyed listening as you explained your coping, then recovery and healing strategies. The various 'ingredients' you used to look at the past and heal so as to move forward. So much focus is put on moving forward, there is a pressure to bury the good experiences that were had, ones that can be taken with you. I'm so happy for you that you've reached a point in recovery where you feel strong enough to move, not paralyzed by fear or failure. Yes, it was you. Yes, you've learned so many things. I cannot believe that upper control arm bolt was missing! The twist on the diff, it would have been so much worse if it had had the full time 4wd conversion, where they put hubs in the front. The hole in floor, something sure hit that hard!! Overall, please do what you want. For you. Not for your audience. There are those that follow personalities with which they can relate. To the struggles, the stigmas, the struggles, or a wacky sense of humour. The content, where that happens, is a bonus. The pressure to produce content, that comes second in life, your mental and physical health first. Thank you for putting such a touching video together. One thing I appreciate is your candor. Humility. Ability to share and take us along with you, as though individually. Wishing you every happiness, and hey, take care. Looking forward to a geotag if you'd still like, and whatever you share next. The hilux is looking good. Can't wait till your next episode to see more. Hugs from Oz. 🤗🤗🤗

[@OverlandLady]

Thank you for the heartwarming words!

[@Malc664]

I appreciate you not putting up a negative video for the sake of uploading content. Thank you for coming back, I really miss your travel shows and all your uploads. 🤠

[@thenorseman2804]

M........! How can i comment on this vid with few words! Imposible...... intelligence, wisdom of an old soul, honesty,........ etc.... No one else gives me what you give me! Your voice gives me peace and makes me sleep like a child. I'm a so-called tough guy, but no one knows me. Im not tough but different because i try to live now and realize my dreams! When I close my eyes I hear screams that tear me to pieces, so I understand what you are going through. Thank you M for not saying goodbye, to me and all of us who follow you!

[@OverlandLady]

tough people are usually toughest to themselves. It’s not easy… I understand ❤️

[@Anchor2012]

Everything happens for a reason! Thanks for this video. Thanks for all your videos. You'll be right. ... from me in Australia.

[@stephenjohnston4487]

Best of luck in school and in life. Hope to cross paths with you out in the wild some day in the future

[@davidseck1146]

That's awesome that you're breaking the stereotypes behind tradework. I'm a stationary engineer and on a rare occasion you'll run across female engineers. Good for you and good luck on your career.

[@rockytopwrangler2069]

Wow !! What an interesting and beautiful young lady ,, challenging life and dreams .... Past vehicles were very nice and eventually evolved into a new vision .... I have been a fan of Toyota trucks since the early '70's here in min America ...We can't get factory diesel's ,,although there have been some aftermarket products around ,, but not legal for EPA ... I think learning a trades skill is admirable and rewarding ,, and it seems you have a natural talent for it .... I think more of the design engineers should be required to complete a tech course to understand what techs run into in fabrication ... The new Hilux looks awesome and look forward to see what you come up with .... Stay Safe and follow your dreams ....

[@AW-Services]

Welcome back Monique. Keep fighting that mental health and hit the road again

[@Lokkiism]

You are already so amazing and now your getting into fabrication. Your imagination and future skills will be SICK! Congrats and good luck. 😭 im going to miss you until your return.

[@agechallenged]

I have been an eavesdropper on your videos got in without a ticket. Enjoyed them immensely. After this goodbye for some reason I feel a sense of sorrow and loss. I wish you the very best in what lays ahead for you. Much love from an old guy in Texas.

[@samf8916]

You have got such a big heart, I enjoy watching your work, please keep up doing what you really enjoy!

[@edvela5274]

Love your story’s of your beautiful travels lm so sad for the loss of your car it doesn’t end there I’m waiting on your newest adventure live life to the fullest you are a talented woman keep pushing forward to next adventure can’t wait mad respect ✊🥰

[@GetOutGO]

Really glad you walked away from that accident! As you say, baby steps (in whichever direction YOU want to go). Congrats on the Luxie!

[@mikecowan8762]

Doing So Great....Putting Life Back Together...and Moving Forward...With Stronger/Better Tools....God Bless

[@ladyoverlanderradio]

You are still the OG! We love you at Lady Overlander Radio, and we hope to share a campfire with you someday! Best of luck on your new journey!

[@clubdinousa8700]

Wow - serious crash at 7:45 Refreshing and renewing your mental focus after that is difficult as a content creator. Respect. Best to take some time and regain your focus. On a humorous note, Toyota just released a hilarious video of the New Landcruiser starring Jimmy Yang and his Father. Two ppl destined for conflict and humour!

[@unconventionallifestyle4827]

Having courage to share sensitive matters within yourself, brings about much respect. At the same time, you inspire people who suffer, from what ever loss they may have, to work through the pain, and embrace future blessings.

[@jwilson6086]

Welcome back. You were missed.

[@eutoob]

I'm another one of those with an academic post-secondary education who quit driving a desk 20 years ago to become a "tradie". Best career decision!!

[@SmokeyDaVan]

Glad to see you back! Of course you needed some time off after what you’ve been through. I’m glad you’re coming out the other side and making plans to continue traveling. Looking forward to seeing the new truck!

[@oscarwu4317]

An aussie pickup! Hilux!!! Nice😃

[@florianfischer3127]

You don't have to apologize for your choices . Stay like your are , that what you make what your are now . Stay safe and enjoy your dreams and live

[@lyndoy3559]

Thanking for sharing, your very brave. Good luck with your future adventures. 😎👍

[@johnoaks7593]

we got your back. take your time and when time is ready it will present itself to you. sending positive vibes and we will be there when ready!!

[@adventureoverland2984]

Been missing you. Glad you’re doing better. Glad you got a pickup. Was kinda hopping it would be a Ram but figuring it would be a Toyota. Lol. After a couple of weeks of practice you’ll be fine with standard and one of the few Millennials that can drive one. It’s a good theft deterrent.

[@johnenglish7203]

Hello Beautiful Lady Love your videos & I Enjoy watching Keep up your great work John Australia 🇦🇺

[@susanscovill6817]

I do think you’ve got it in you. We do what we have to do, to do what we want to do. What ever path you choose, we will follow your channel. I’ve quite enjoyed the ride along. Cheers from Vancouver eh!

[@terristenacious2279]

I'm glad you two are OK that's all that matters is 💓💓💓

[@BradIXXI]

Your message hurts so beautifully.. Congratulations on your recovery…

[@texassky9706]

I've really enjoyed following your channel over the last year. I am sorry of your loss. Thank you for sharing your journey. Good luck to you!

[@danielthao127]

Hilux ftw! Cant wait to see the next chapter!

[@6010hotrod]

I have been a welder for 16yrs. Shop,field, ships, high rises. It’s all amazing!!! I’m new to your page, and slowly learning about your adventure. Though it’s changing, you’re still on an adventure!!! Please post whatever is in your heart. Just because you’re overland lady, doesn’t mean your content can’t be about life.

[@LawrenceTheKiwiBryant]

SOOOOOO freaking happy for you Monique for getting into the school for learning Fabrication/Welding etc. The time that we are living in now (Since 2012) is about awakening to what our true passions in life are and who we are. Become the best that you can be at your new craft, take your time, breath, Love you new passions in life (A/C Guy included :) and most of ALL, Be you!!!! Im an ex Indy Car Mechanic/Fabricator that got into building Custom Cars/Hot Rods/Race Cars and we love and appreciate the women that are learning the craft and have absolutely zero issue helping and teaching them. There are some incredibly talented ladies out their today :)

[@ASingularWoman]

Nice to see you again. You take your time. Take as long as you need. You take care of yourself. We will be here waiting for your next adventure.

[@FlatBrokeAdventures]

I thank you for sharing so much with us and taking us on some amazing adventures. You have seen and been to more places in Australia than I have and I've lived here all my life. I really think that you can do it again and once you get out there and do 1 trip you wont be able to stop. Yes he memories of your land cruiser will come flooding back and make you sad but you have a new beginning now. I believe you can do it.

[@jeffanderson9442]

Omg, You just got my favorite truck, I can't wait for you to hit the trail!

[@betzaidavazquez5579]

Great to see you back !!! Happy that you are working through your loss and are looking towards travelling again. I'm sure you will conquer the stick shift and clutch in no time. I'll be here waiting for your new adventures. 💗🚙👍

[@kevindeckert31]

Monique ..it has been an Awesome ride sort of looking over y shoulder many familiar places and many new place..journey on

[@iantowse743]

you are a free sprit . love your post be nice to see you back on the road.xx

[@thedaywemake]

You are so right. Full-time travel can be quite alienating and lonely at times. Wishing you much success and new adventures!

[@adventuresintruckland]

Good to see you back here, and starting a new journey. I'm looking forward to your future.

[@tomandalontheroad]

Monique, you are such an inspiration to so many out there. We love what you bring to us in the form of your content. This was and emotional journey for me, I can’t imagine what it is for you. You are so strong which only means you will be providing insight to your future and content that is loved by so many. I can’t wait to advent with you again, and again we thank you. 🤗🤗🤗

[@ericchilver9113]

Hey Monique, so your writing a new chapter, well done you. I’m still here watching, awesome to see your smiling. Much love, much respect

[@andreaskuberka7747]

good to see you back

[@NANKEL1]

After traveling around OZ for 13 years I can understand your thoughts, I been based in Melbourne for 5 year now and I not a big fan of the city life. Im only here because of family and the only thing that keeps sane is my job, I'm an interstate trucker and I still get to travel but not on my terms. I think its great the trade that you are doing it will help you big time in the future if you decide to travel again, it will give you better understanding of car maintenance and the confidence to be able to fix it. Everyone has there own way of dealing with issues time heal weather its short or long, its up to the individual, me its classical music (who would of thought) Good luck on your future I look forward on your future Vids and to her that bit of Ozzie in your voice Cheers mate

[@nomadhammer7912]

Glad to see you are keeping busy. Take you time to better and care for yourself.

[@reesetownes2401]

I am glad you are ok and safe Monique. That was a bad place to have an accident. I hope your passenger was ok as well. Overlanding gets under your skin and we will never be the same. I am a gold hunter and those of us that hunt the gold are the original overlanders. Dating back to the early to mid 1800's.

[@rockbiterhd]

New chapter life goes on do what you are comfortable with enjoy

[@RonSmith472]

Yes Mo, God is there watching over you 🙏🏾 and He will give you rhe strength to continue on and heal. Keep pushing on to the next chapter! ❤️

[@Jason-Frains-YouTube]

Thanks for your content..Glad your back.😁

[@claudelimousin9837]

Never lost the Hope Overland Lady, you have great memories with you forever and your new Hilux may create a lot of more news with a lot of videos to share with us. thank you for all. From New Caledonia East Australia South West Pacific

[@2bond007]

Thank you for sharing and your honesty. I love seeing people live in their "moments". You don't need to be a "religious" person to have a spiritual moment or awakening. We all have guardian angels, some acknowledge them, some don't. Thanks for sharing yours, there's a reason for everything. I do miss your landcruiser because I have a 100, but I realized I still like to watch because of your life perspective and journey, not your vehicle. Cheers!

[@backcountryoverland103]

Nice. I like that new word......to be happy for the past and experiences. Especially after loosing my dad last year. There has been a hole in me like your floor board...... Some good insight and messages in this vid. Good wishes for your future. Peace.......Jim

[@studiobrar1692]

Thank you for reiterating the meaning of "life", "being fortunate" and yet beautifully explaining "natsukashii". Cheers all the way and waiting eagerly for future content...!

[@BostechStudios]

G'day from Tassie! I am devastated to hear about the accident, but grateful you are physically well. The mental side may take time, but you are taking the time so healing will come. I hope you put a little something of Australia in your new vehicle as reminder of us down under, while we think of you. Take care!

[@OverlandLady]

A big part of choosing a lux was influenced by my time in oz. hence "the land cruiser exist in this new vehicle, which is only here because I had the Cruiser, and I lost the Cruiser."

[@Stuey0404]

We want you back when you’re ready, thanks for a great vid

[@Roger_Podactor]

Everything has a time limit, phases come and go. Our job is to release and let go when the time is right so we can make room for what’s new in our life

[@williamhickstein685]

You inspired me to travel, so I bought a Nissan Xterra and planning a trip to Alaska this summer.

[@joserbrizuela9691]

I miss you videos

[@FerdinandUribe]

So happy to see you back! Go Monique! Can’t wait to see what the future holds for you and that hilux.

[@offrdgirl1040]

I loved this and it made me sad! You're a natural at this kinda stuff and you will find your trails again and adventure on! Missing your content but looking forward to seeing your new trails of life adventures!

[@Tony-bn6sm]

I totally understand where you are coming from... After a serious vehicle accident 7 yrs ago now that has left me unable to work, and barely able to move, I had gone through the same questions as you did... I think you need to answer those questions though to help you on your path to recovery... Even through tragedy, there is always brighter times ahead. It comes down to your attitude. You can stay in the gloomy depressed state or you can do as you have done and got on with your life and learnt from it. Life is always a learning curve and whether we want to admit it or not, we never stop learning. You have a positive attitude, you are getting on with your life and in your own time things will look a lot better... Never let anyone rush you into recovery... Like everything in life, recovery is a self journey that only we ourselves can travel. You are an amazing girl, and can be thankful that you are still well and healthy... You are a young inspiration to me and many others

[@00ninja00]

I don’t know if you read these comments, but I’ll just tell u my most important opinion about vehicle and using said vehicle as your main everyday ride/home/everything. I used to drive a used Tacoma 4door trd4x4, and I used it to do some traveling and outdoor stuff. But something on the used suspension failed and it cost an accident. After that, I made the best decision of my life and truly believe in this: if you’re going to use a vehicle for daily work traveling close distances, used is fine. But if your life depends on the vehicle and it’s used to travel great distances and in bad conditions etc etc, buying brand new is the way to go, or as close to new as possible/one can afford. There’s a big ease of mind knowing that your vehicle is new and everything is where it should be, and know at least it’ll be safe and reliable for 100k miles (if you don’t cause any damages yourself), before needing any real repairs. (Reliable if choosing a reliable vehicle, not a Land Rover defender lol).

[@OverlandLady]

very good suggestion!

[@philippecourtois8269]

.... your body expresses your soul at 18:13... It says much more than words... Nice machine you got yourself... You call that baby steps ? 👶

[@d.shanerose1729]

I had no idea. I thought the KZbin algorithms had simply directed your channel away from me - for an unknown reason. I'm sorry your journey took such a dark turn. Regardless of which path(s) you choose in the future, thank you for the content you've provided in the past. Well done.

[@Adventure_Rig]

You got this girl

[@BorisEkner]

So nice to see you again. Missed you a lot!

[@timwhite8878]

I wish you all the best.i will miss you and your videos. Be safe out there

[@SPAWNOFSATAN013]

Truck is a beast.. I want one. I'm so jealous of you with the welding class I always wanted to learn.

[@camiloverland]

Wow! I was asking myself about you and your content last week. Good to know you are moving on at your own time. Now I see you bought a Hilux and also learning some new stuff. Congratz for you, thank you for shareing with us what it's been happening and I wish you the best in this new stage of your life. Keep the good work, we will be here to watch your content.

[@bobfromtexas3819]

Monique, Nothing is ever to chance and not by mistake - Yes, I believe there is a higher being that guides us all and for you as well. One door may close, but there will be another to open as well. AS odd as your accident is, maybe it saved your life after finding a bolt was missing when you parted out the LC. Cheers, glad you are pushing on, posting, doing things in whatever, your own way. Keep it up, you have way more faculties and life skills at what you are doing than most. Keep on venturing.

[@surfing4theloveofit]

Welcome back, I like what you say you never really get over a lose in your life you grow around it, I wish you all of your 💕 desires, can't wait to see what the new truck has in store, 😊🌟

[@rrrrrhino]

Great to see you back!! Been missing you!! 👍👍 on your apprenticeship!! 👍👍

[@solarinsocal6025]

確かに懐かしいって言葉はポジティブな意味も含まれているけど切なさもちょっと入るので今のあなたの気持ちをあらわせるのにちょうど良いかもしれませんね。頑張って下さい。

[@thuan888x]

welcome back good to see your back 😀

[@neffwai]

Thank u for the awesome content you have given to us always a fan

[@jeffsegui3280]

Glad to see u back missed you get ur ticket and maybe be a travel tech as I'm a traveling reflexologist for the last 30 years and now traveling with a1962 VW panel camper good luck

[@hubertgailuron6402]

I hope to see you in an other trip. I like your vidéos. In french linguage: à bientôt et au plaisir de vous voir. 👍👋

[@matty86suk]

Welding is awesome!!! University degrees are awesome...

[@HomeMadeBow]

Crikey Mon. Your Aussie vowels are hanging in there. 🙃 Love your approach to everything mate. 👍👍 More strength to your arm. 💪💪💪

[@samsanderson7159]

I'm not real spiritual either, but I like to believe there is a higher power watching over us. I also believe things happen for a reason. Maybe you were ready for a new vehicle and just needed a push to get it. I've enjoyed your videos, and look forward to more of them. I fully get what you said about habits. Its hard to get back into something after you haven't done it for a while. I'm trying to push myself to get back into the gym. It's all mindset. We both need to get ours right and get going with it. Get back out there on the road Monique, and I'll get back to that weight bench. Congratulations on the new truck. It's going to be a great overland vehicle.

[@LilChefKimi]

Love to you 💜 Keep on keepin’ on.

[@LifeTripped]

You need to get back into the saddle before it doesn't happen. I have a van and the main reason is security in the sense that if I need to escape quickly, I can just jump into the seat and drive. Whereas, if I had a truck camper or a Jeep tent camper.. that means I would have to get outside and run around to my seat and/or pack up the tent and then drive off. In an emergency situation, every second counts.

[@midnightadventureswa]

Good evening Monique Thank you for Sharing your adventures and content it was great seeing you stick welding and learning a new trade while you still are healing I also do welding for fun and tinker and work on all kinds of things to keep me learning you will know when it’s the right time to get back in to over landing when the time is right as of right now the best thing is is to take care of yourself well I’ll be here when you decide to come back and show us your adventures take care B

[@jeffgreene3059]

beautiful, beautiful. keep on keeping on as they say. well done young lady !!

[@timothyschulz4730]

Love your series of videos...such an adventure. But most importantly I don't know if you've been told, but you have such a beautiful and calming voice.😊

[@jakes_on_a_plane]

5spd manual.. wow good luck with that. Seriously jello though

[@scubaleesk]

Don't be sad. Stay strong and I am always a fan of yours. I will stay tuned and good luck in your next adventure. I can't wait. Do you have an email that I can write to you?

[@perfect2282]

Please take your time, no need to rush into another truck. But really appreciate your life update. Please think and plan your next move. With the gas price so high, may be you may change your mind about living in a car. Take it easy. God blessed.