Bride Buys New Dress After Being PRESSURED Into Her Old One | Say Yes To The Dress

[@claveauannie]

OMG the first bride... "If he loves it, I'm happy..." Girl, this is why you're shopping for a second dress. You need to figure out what YOU love...

[@cm29757]

That's sad 😢

[@Millenialmum2020]

I dont think its sad as its a two way street. In the beginning he says she got her dream venue and dream ring so if the dress is something both love , its good. He seems like hes a big supporter

[@claveauannie]

@@Millenialmum2020 we’re not saying he is abusive, we are saying that it seems that she is unable to choose something because she loves it, she has to pick it for him (and everybody else).

[@Millenialmum2020]

@@claveauannie oh ok that makes sense

[@ulvapyren978]

No offense, but its not just HER wedding, she's not marrying herself, she's taking her loved one's opinion into consideration about the dress. Which most brides don't even consider because women have been raised to believe the day is just hers and hers alone. It is not, it is a union between two people. He should be considered of what he would also like to incorporated into the wedding since HE is marrying her too.

[@jourdorae3229]

I loved the first groom! He was so sweet and supportive! I love that she came home and told him she didn’t love it so he immediately went “nope you need to love it” and just ignored the moms to make sure she was happy.

[@sunflowerbaby1853]

If both your mother and mother in law were able to make you buy a dress you didn’t like……..just imagine everything else they will make you do. You need to have your own voice.

[@dietotaku]

and she STILL didn't have her own voice on the second dress. why am i not surprised that the mothers wanted plain jane and the fiance wanted skanknina tornai?

[@kieraethan]

Yep, some red flags flying. I hope it has worked out well for her.

[@MsJubjubbird]

But then she wanted the fiance to pick out the next dress. This is a woman who wants to be told what to do

[@jb6712]

Not that it matters now, but this is from the 2009 season, so hopefully she learned her lesson in the ensuing 15 years.

[@ilerilawal]

I wouldn't blame her mother and mother in law. She's clearly someone who's very indecisive and a pleaser of everyone except herself.

[@marieslabbert6009]

I loved the respectful camaraderie between the first couple. Their relationship is very stable, which I cannot really say about the second couple.

[@mariallopis8014]

Narcissist and manipulative husband

[@kp4911]

Yet the second couple is still married after 14 years with two children.

[@RozanneMiller]

@@kp4911 Let's face it: they'd only be divorced if he told her that was what was happening.

[@mariamendez4543]

The first groom did not want to go back into that stock room lol

[@Tes7000]

I thought the dress he said yes to was ugly but that he said yes just to be done with the shopping. The first bride was her own worst enemy. Without a clear vision, it is no wonder that her mother and mother-in-law picked out a dress for her, and also why the consultant couldn't pick the right dress for her.

[@foxjacket]

Lisa and John Boag were easy enough to find on Facebook. They married in 2010, are still married and have two kids.

[@cc-sb1is]

😲 seriously didn't see that one coming!!

[@terribolan2010]

Well he still has some years to come out.

[@sheriaustin8750]

​@@terribolan2010😂

[@elizabethmurphy5256]

Get outta here??? He is straight? Shocked me.😂

[@lunabelletheinsane]

@@elizabethmurphy5256 Maybe not -he's probably bisexual and just happy with her, and she's happy with him - odds are she's the only woman he's ever loved and if he weren't with her, he would be with a man. But if he's happy and content with her - there's no need to look elsewhere. And I know this, because my best friend has the same marriage. Her husband would be with a man if he weren't with her but he still chooses her everyday. Though there was a lot of confusion when figuring all that out.

[@smeag9280]

Second bride’s fiancé is actually her gay best friend..

[@charlesoquin7367]

As a gay man I totally thought the same thing 😂

[@spudnut00]

My first thought, as well,

[@jeswainston]

You could be right.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

If he is gay then why is he marrying a woman?

[@sofresh5345]

I immediately thought oh a lavender marriage

[@nataliejanepeterson]

My parents have been married for 51 years. He is not gay. However, he picked every single one of us 5 girls prom dresses. He picks all of my mothers clothes. He picked the most stunning and gorgeous dress I’ve ever seen for my wedding. He honestly has the most exquisite taste in fashion. He loves to just feel the fabric in the store. You don’t have to be gay or bisexual to have incredible taste.

[@callanightshade8079]

Amen. My boyfriend picked the colors for some of my outfits when I was struggling to find a color that I thought looked nice on me. But once he saw Forest Green on me his eyes went wide and he said "that color looks perfect on you" lol

[@natashakuzmanoska9656]

he was 10 she was 2 , it is very likely.

[@RichardPennetti]

No one said you do. But, look at this episode more clearly. He comes in wearing what looks like a white undershirt and he knows fashion.

[@VictoriaMorrisa]

Is he a Gemini?

[@naowright9308]

I hate that men are generally stereotyped as homosexual if they like fashion. Liking fashion and having good taste in clothing does not dictate who you sleep with.

[@avengernemesis7990]

Randy wearing the pink ribbon for breast cancer..thank you. My daughter diagnosed with stage 3 aggressive breast cancer. Love the bride's choices and Randy thank you for supporting breast cancer awareness 🎀

[@ΕΥΑΓΓΕΛΙΑΡΟΥΣΗ-δ4υ]

Last year I was diagnosed with stage 3 aggressive breast cancer, too. I hope everything works out well for all of us. Stay strong.

[@bluesunset245]

The 1st couple, he said yes to the dress

[@rissi2352]

lol :S

[@leannecanty8821]

First bride needs to figure out her own wants.

[@leannecanty8821]

Make that both brides.

[@deniseandrews113]

"I can't make a decision without him" 😬

[@RITIKASWAMY-e1w]

but i honestly think she does know what she wants because if that wasnt the case then she wouldnt be buying a second dress in the first place

[@mortimerbrewster3671]

Somebody else mentioned they are still married so it sounds like she has figured out her own wants. I'm always amused by people who judge others based on their own personalities instead of accepting that some people don't think the same way.

[@angelbulldog4934]

The first couple really really love each other. Theyre so kind and considerate of each other. I agree with the bride. What difference does it make if somebody doesn't like it? He does! I hope they have a long and blissful life together.

[@krishnarawal6395]

I was thinking the same

[@PrettyCreoleBaby]

I love Keasha’s laugh 😆 especially when she learns that the bride already has a wedding dress 😂

[@ridingwilding760]

I understand that every woman has their own personality and that means we all wants different things out of a relationship. Any time I see such a need for approval from a partner is concerning. But the level of stark need of acceptance from their fiancé I see these young women exhibiting over a wedding dress is a red flag to me.

[@RockyMtnRebecca]

That first couple is adorable.

[@kenazfehu7176]

First couple: loved the dress she had already.

[@rachelmaddowswife8713]

Yeah, it was super flattering. I wish they would have started her off in it, maybe the fiancee could have reassured her to keep it.

[@melodied4314]

Her chosen dress was hideous.

[@ndisfoshiz]

My husband told me that if he didn’t like my dress he would tell me the day of the wedding. On our way to the reception he looked at me and said “that dress is beautiful! Mainly because my wife is wearing it” then he listed all the things he loved about it.

[@monal3544]

What if he didn't like it

[@kieraethan]

Very sweet!

[@haplessasshole9615]

Your sweetie sounds like a real winner! How long have y'all been married now?

[@haplessasshole9615]

@@monal3544 I'd bet a lot of money he'd have found something to like about it. He set up an opportunity to make sure his wife felt like a million bucks on a day when she _should_ feel like a million bucks. I love how he cited details, showing he was really seeing her, not just acting a part. I think it's a wonderful story.

[@elizabethmurphy5256]

You definitely picked the right man!!!❤

[@ladyjustice1474]

People are saying John is gay. Now, if that were true, he'd have better fashion sense for both himself and his beard.

[@jemmaj2919]

Think you mean, he'd have come in horrible pink and probably wearing a skirt 🤮

[@ladyjustice1474]

@@jemmaj2919 your comment is rude.

[@jenniferrollison4377]

@@jemmaj2919 you are nasty

[@shamikaoates6380]

Maybe she is a freaky-deeky too.

[@lidijakljucevic84]

Why bring fiancé too see her in dress before wedding day. That’s a big no no. I feel like the fiancés are controlling

[@kp4911]

This is scripted and edited television.

[@AnnaPace-t5v]

Well, they've seen everything else before the wedding!

[@belmarmom]

It's always smart to have your wedding dress chosen by a man who thinks it's okay to wear an undershirt as a shirt. Very haute couture.

[@bt.c.1829]

Thank You!🙆‍♀️

[@christinebrument6851]

Tell me about it!!

[@lydiapicano8806]

Yup.

[@jonelfilipek7848]

He just came from work. He might have been too late if he had gone home to change.

[@RichardPennetti]

Absolutely. I agree 100%. Even coming from work, that T shirt. Unbelievable. You could see the bride was desperate to get married. I am not surprised they are still married. If you are willing to have a 70/30marriage, it will work .

[@harveythepooka]

I feel bad for the 1st woman because she's such a next level people pleaser.

[@annagraser5088]

Guess I am old fashioned, because I don't think the groom should be there to pick out the dress.

[@absatwell8163]

Me neither.

[@maryjodaley1383]

I second that !!

[@kareneley-ix6lu]

I agree

[@Profitnessbabe]

I also agree completely

[@lucindajones2892]

Agree 100%!

[@RevLeigh55]

That first bride needs to not cede all her decision making to her husband.

[@Madamchief]

Both of these ladies seem to have codependency issues 😒 I hope their husbands are good to them

[@jeanettejeanette1199]

She let her Mum and MIL choose the first dress, then let her fiance choose the second dress. I think the issue is with her, she doesn't know what she wants.

[@hkmetz]

Ultimately it's the Bride's decision. This is what happens when you let your family push you into making a decision and now she's not happy with it.

[@ConnieStone-z8o]

The way the second bride tustled her hair when she got frustrated was so CUTE!

[@rrrjjj5572]

It is sad that the second groom nixed the dresses seemingly without asking what the bride thought about the dresses. He nixed her favorite and she swallowed her disappointment in deference to his choice and approval. Is the second bride going to choose the groom's suit and tie?

[@mariaferreras4369]

Why bring men at all? It’s not their day. It’s the brides day to pick the dress that she wants to wear and it’s his job to tell her she’s gorgeous as he marries her no matter what.

[@Tori-vz5vc]

some women want to share the day with their partners. Theyre gonna share a wedding day after all as well as the rest of their lives anyways

[@lisadavis4279]

Ok. Like others mention below, I read gay for the 2nd bride. For both brides, of course, you want your future husband to love how you look in a dress. If he loves you, and obviously loves your personal style and look, he will love whatever you wear. However, I worry about brides who cannot make up their mind without another person approving. You should have the confidence and know your style enough to make a decision on how you want to look on that day.

[@happyash6048]

You can lack confidence in one area in your life and still be fine. I was an engineer for many years (and later went into teaching.) I've lived alone, moved to new cities, and traveled the world. Yet for important events, I will have a friend help me pick out clothes to wear. They know "my" style and help me take it up a notch. You can have and recognize your own lack of fashion sense yet still be a capable, confident, successful person.

[@mortimerbrewster3671]

Once upon a time I would have said gay but the men now days have (scientifically proven) less testosterone and it's evident by how many are straight but coming across more effeminate.

[@lifesjourney65]

So the first bride bought a dress because her mother and future mother in law liked it, then she bought a second dress because her fiance liked it. She really needs to find her self confidence

[@lunabelletheinsane]

I actually love when a bride says "This is my budget, but if I find something I love, we can discuss going over." It shows that they know what they want MAY cost more than they want to pay, but if it's worth it - they will. Brides who buckle at large price tags after they try on the dress annoy me. Like tell your consultant what you're willing to pay and they won't pull a dress over that budget unless they're not finding what you want in your price point. I just watched a video where a bride wasn't willing to pay for the more expensive dress that had everything she wanted, which wouldn't have been pulled for her if she'd told them she really would prefer not to spend that much from the beginning and she wasted the consultant's time.

[@Tes7000]

For some reason, I tend to think that there is a $3,000 version of almost every $6,000 dress in the store. Giving the consultant a bigger budget is just going to lead them to pull more expensive dresses.

[@tinaakers1752]

I don't get why the bride brings her fiance🤷

[@WellISaidIt]

Because that is what she wanted. What is so hard to understand about that?

[@deniceetterholehan7653]

WHY can’t mothers let their daughters pick their OWN gowns?!?!?!

[@jb6712]

Because this is nothing but hyped up drama for the sole purpose of "entertainment." Look it up...there's not one single "reality" tv show that doesn't lie, doesn't hype up everything, and doesn't make drama where none actually exists. It's VERY WELL KNOWN that the onsite producers and directors tell the various participants to make up drama and to hype up any miniscule perceived bit of clashing. It's to get the gullible viewers, including YOU, to ask exactly those questions, and all of you fall into it, hook, line, and sinker, and that makes the production crew very happy. They just love gullible people who believe everything they see on tv and the Internet.

[@flagal519]

I know, right ?I left everyone at home and went shopping by myself and I got the dress of my dreams with no Interference ! But I guess they need the drama for the show....

[@trayciepitcher3098]

I didn't think the second bride looked good in anything she tried on.

[@melissashilkoff]

I agree, the goddess type is not the right shape. Maybe a fuller A-line

[@kimberlyjackson2346]

Mermaid, she has an athletic body. Off the shoulder isn't working for her. Something more figure hugging maybe

[@ChristaLina1]

Bride to be 2, please no strapless dress. Not flattering at all.

[@lunabelletheinsane]

I looked up her wedding photos - she went with a spaghetti thin strap a-line dress with lace rouching at the top. It actually looked really good on her.

[@edgygyal]

can u share a link

[@stefaniekuzminski9575]

Good Lord second bride run for the hills!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@JodiLeaSnakeQueen]

Why??

[@jenniferrollison4377]

@@JodiLeaSnakeQueen because he is a control freak

[@stefaniekuzminski9575]

@@JodiLeaSnakeQueen because the fiancé is an arrogant arse hole that told that lovely intelligent woman what she felt beautiful in.

[@jemmaj2919]

Denise was tired and sick of searching and wanted to end this saga

[@mariesmith1616]

First bride looked way better on her original dress. Definitely that’s the silhouette that fits her but the see through bodice wasn’t good.

[@runrgrl35]

Keasha was always my favorite consultant. I was sad when she left SYTTD😢

[@hayleymariemills]

The first bride said her budget was $3k but if she really loved something she would spend more. Who else bets the consultant immediately brought in $4k dresses?

[@francinepassias2378]

I am happy they line the corset top...for first bride's dress...

[@NH-tb2sm]

Both brides need to grow up but the second bride really is sad. Not only is she marrying her gay friend but she has zero voice. The second bride is in for a very unhappy future if she stays with her controlling gay fiance.

[@vern0018]

She looks more in love with him than him with her. Just curious, how can everyone here tell the guy is gay.

[@kgrant3184]

If she liked sparkle, why didn't she investigate have gorgeous sparkles ADDED to her existing dress? It already fit her, and she looked great in it. Surely, that might have been a compromise worth considering...?

[@marilyngall]

1st bride - when i think chateau its not what u have picked out

[@ashleybarber4086]

Who's going to tell the second bride about her fiance'? 🌈💅

[@tamt5846]

The first bride looked gorgeous! The second bride, well, good luck! That groom was just too narcissistic.

[@kp4911]

He was on screen for less than 3 minutes. That's pretty harsh and not enough time for a psych eval.

[@lisabarnes3405]

That both had matching big noses. Just kidding. They really didn’t seem like they matched.

[@randigregory4059]

Who is going to tell the second bride? I'm not going to tell her....🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thoughtsideas6929]

First bride I’m concerned for - first she spends thousands to people please her Mom/MIL on a dress she hates, THEN she spends thousands more on a dress she CLEARLY hates for her fiancé. I wish they hadve shown her the dress first so she could anchor in her own feelings about it. She’s going to combust emotionally in a few years if she doesn’t HURRY UP and find/acknowledge her own voice. Her husband seems to want to make her happy - they could’ve found something they BOTH truly liked!!

[@unicorns40]

Bride one should have stuck to whatever she bought the 1st time cause it can't be worse than the see-through corset option she went with. And the second bride... I thought the main issue was her inability to make a decision without her fiancee's approval, but after seeing the fiance I figure she has bigger issues to deal with. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@melissadurante1450]

He seems gay....

[@JillLowman-l4f]

I liked the first bride's original dress. And why is the fiancée even there picking her dress.

[@mariesmith1616]

Me too. What a waste of time and money.

[@lisabarnes3405]

Yes it is pretty. I don’t understand why some brides want something to be so wow and stand out so much. It’s a wedding, not the Met Gala.

[@shewasnumber1]

Okay, the ruffles aren’t hiding anything.. John is lol

[@bettinadewoof3309]

“Chateau”?? It’s a house with a turret.

[@AnneCaulder]

Yes, that house made me cringe and made me wonder where they’re from. No matter what year this was, the place looked run down.

[@nickpassion123]

looked more like a cottage

[@thecatfromoregon]

McMansion Hell!

[@jennifermarinca257]

Is someone going to tell her?! GBF 💯 I couldn’t believe my eyes and ears! 😅 and the first bridge. Such a beautiful girl. Had to please her in laws then her fiancé. Seems like she’ll never know what she likes.

[@jennifermarinca257]

Bride*

[@angelacameron4086]

I would be very, very surprised if the second couple made it down the aisle. She's his cover for sure

[@kp4911]

Still married. 14 years, 2 children.

[@joralemonvirgincreche]

Gender exists along a spectrum. Just because a man knows about fashion and isn't hyper masculine does not make him gay. I wish people weren't so tired and predictable with that assumption.

[@gabygaby5701]

Fashion forward and comes out in a plain t shirt…. ???

[@S.Morgenstern]

It probably cost a thousand bucks though 😄

[@oldageisdumb]

I wonder if his work is something that requires a uniform and he just took off the shirt before coming in

[@jemmaj2919]

He looked well presented. Fashion forward isn't the garbage we see with supposed men wearing skirts 🤮

[@annehersey9895]

Ohhhh Jen! If you don’t start speaking up for yourself soon, it does NOT get easier in 3 years when you realize you’ve lost your voice! I’ve NEVER heard a bride say th😢if he liked it then she can probably like it too!

[@nelleeh]

This comment section is baffling. Why do people presume the 2nd groom is gay? Seems like a lot of people have a very narrow (and toxic) view of what a man can be 🙄

[@alayoung9746]

For my special day😂😂😂they’re looking at the wedding not the marriage

[@birgitgschier8006]

What a nice groom. The bride could wear any dress with such a nice figure, I don't know why she bothered to find a new one, maybe a blingy belt would have done the trick

[@yesiownfrodo]

This second bride needs a dress with shoulders or sleeves.

[@AmyAboshelbaia]

Maybe 🌹 the most welcome one but blessed her at least 😂

[@ramonarolando7026]

Second bride and fiance look like identical twins, and he's ABSOLUTELY gay or at least bi

[@melissaalexander8673]

I’m pretty sure he’s gay and she’s a man (trans)

[@sharicemcclendon9350]

the second girl should know the closet is glass c'mon now

[@af3893]

Anyone trying to pick your dress has control issues. Red flag 😢

[@leanneheinemann3862]

Who is wearing the dress, the bride or the groom? Why do they need their fiancé’s approval?

[@kathimorrical9912]

There's a BIG difference between a chateau and a mansion.. which is it?

[@mbyrd6713]

This is exactly why finance’s shouldn’t go wedding dress shopping.

[@dr.sammypryor]

I don't see the second marriage working out. Controlling vibes from the guy!

[@Moiyikyoi]

They are still together!

[@jemmaj2919]

Thank god it wasn't up to you

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I don’t think you should determine that based on this clip.

[@Jerseygal30]

When he said she gets compliments on all the clothes he buys her, it gave me controlling vibes.

[@thehoneyeffect]

@@MoiyikyoiI thought he was gay or maybe bi/pan. He’s not giving straight vibes

[@CathyDoherty-hr4mx]

So crazy The guy should be surprised. I never cared what anyone else cared. Bought what I could afford. .

[@lisabarnes3405]

My MIL bought my dress at the JC Penney outlet in Atlanta. It was $150 for the dress and veil in 1989.

[@nillaskat1]

I'll not ever understand why the bride can't pick a dress without the groom what happened to him seeing the bride for the first time when he's at the end of the aisle, the bride has to feel beautiful her opinion is all that matters

[@leahpope8672]

Please yourself! He's a good guy, he will want that and then he will be pleased that you are happy.

[@angelbulldog4934]

7:05...Gorge! Stunning! Fabulous!

[@torchy1245]

Does he know what a tourniquet is?

[@connie27100]

They wow to return with a better idea of what they both like 😂😂😂

[@justalittlebitmo]

The second bride... it looked a little like the fiancé deflated a little when she said he would have made the whole appointment go quicker. I feel for him. It gets tiring when you're the one who has to make all the decisions. The first few years of my marriage, my husband put all the decisions on me in the name of being a gentleman. It was not gentlemanly. We've both grown so much, thank heaven!

[@emmaphillips2608]

Wish we knew what happened after the families of the first bride reacted to the new dress

[@janicewebber5584]

I'm sorry, that first dress she bought was the bomb!

[@AnnaPace-t5v]

Isn't this the bride who announced her pregnancy at the reception? Tacky!

[@NattieC33]

So first dress was her mother in laws choice and second was her grooms she basically settled again to please another person lol

[@alisonfraser8231]

The story of a woman who has no opinions of her own.

[@jeniferclemente1252]

It’s not really an old-fashioned thing to not have the groom with the bride when she’s picking a dress. It’s supposed to be more about surprising the groom on the day of the wedding as a happy occasion. In the sense that he will see her in the dress for the first time feeling like the luckiest man in the world. But having him there, takes away her independence and the happy surprise for that day.. Both brides have no independence; relying too much on their fiancés’s opinions. The second bride needs a different silhouette and neckline that doesn’t make her look like a kid or an old lady. All of the dresses just didn’t really suit her and she relied too much on the fiancé’s opinion.

[@wildchildatheart]

I never asked my guys opinion about the dress, don't even know if he liked it. 😅

[@jeanfarrell8017]

Second bride did not look good in any of her picks

[@peachygal4153]

She needed something besides strapless and low cut. She was really thin and hardly anything up top, so those styles made her look 12.

[@helsnheidi]

I think it’s shame that brides are still expected to wear white as it’s just not for everyone and I don’t think anything white would look good on her.

[@nancymckinley3068]

I would marry Dennis.

[@txnana5459]

Lisa makes me sad. I’m hoping they didn’t get married.

[@marybowesobrien7185]

👀👀👀👀👀 I just can’t 😱

[@marzenaaneta7469]

Keesha one of my fav consultant

[@susanscottfarrell3713]

If I were young & having a big wedding I'd go for a blush Hailey Paige or... The ultima blue Randy Fenoli (but I've never wanted that wedding chaos) Maybe in another lifetime... The Randy dress would be the one

[@krystenburkhardt-hansyn]

Why didn’t you bring a picture of the dress?

[@krystenburkhardt-hansyn]

She’s listening to someone else again. She needs to listen to herself and pick her own dress. She should’ve went by herself.

[@Didyoupray]

Second bride reminds me of Miranda from sex and the city

[@patriciamoreno5733]

The first bride's dress is beautiful but I find it hard to believe it is $3000 price range. I wonder who the designer.

[@moneysports1793]

Not sure about him.

[@ashp2317]

I will have to try. Looks good! Tfs❤

[@NatalyGarcia1999]

It’s not bad to choose groom over mother,the two of you will do everything at the wedding.👰🏽‍♀️So if the mother doesn’t like it she will have to suck it up or the wedding should be postponed.😑

[@lauramcinerney1559]

First bride the dress is terrible

[@rezotydnic]

Both fiancé's have feminie energy. And i don't get the groom seeing and chooding the dress. Where is the surprise on the wedding day? But if we get real here how many haven't had sex or lived together before marriage so that gift had already been unwrapped so might as well see the dress too i suppose.

[@amymitchell8227]

The low v neck gave it away

[@Joury07]

I bet the 1st bride came back with I was pressured AGAIN appointment. except for, she was not pressured what so ever she the kinda people who's always seeking validation and indecisive.

[@HC-ir9rr]

The baby boy is wearing a dress, stocking, a headband with a bow and a pair of girl shoes soooo 😮 i'm wondering why this happy young couple dresses their baby boy like a girl 😅