Scammers on 90 Day Fiance - YMH Highlight

Tom Segura and Christina P. bring the audience up to speed on "90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days" in this highlight. They dive into talking about one of the coolest guys on the show, David, and his Ukrainian girlfriend, Lana. Who do YOU think is the most tok'ed person on "Before The 90 Days?" Let us know in the comment section below!
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[@ChrisB-eq9ed]

Dude he hired a PI and the PI told him it's a scam and David said the PI was lying lol

[@xaviermonge6873]

David, Big Ed, and Yolanda are dumb as a pack of rocks.

[@soulife8383]

He thought the PI was "There's something about Mary"-ing him

[@mr.jameson218]

@@xaviermonge6873 Big Ed actually is more Jimmy Neutron than any of them. He used Rose successfully. The whole thing was so he'd get a boost to his company or something. He got money, busted a fat nut, and is now a G list celebrity. Got 'em.

[@xaviermonge6873]

@@mr.jameson218 I don't have a comment, however I see your point of view.

[@cordcd7]

Didn’t watch enough. Welp!

[@aarontbradley1]

9 roses, one rose for every time she stood him up lol

[@aidanmchenry3123]

He has a skillset, he’s not necessarily an intelligent person 😭

[@machinesandthings7121]

I can relate to this statement.

[@JZAK367]

I read this as “He has a skillet, he’s not necessarily an intelligent person” Sat here for 10min trying to figure out what you meant by that. Then it hit me, I’m also not an intelligent person 😂😂

[@KodeHz]

Very well put lmfao!

[@plaguedoct0r]

It's a question of _smart_ verses _wise_ . You can't possibly program computers without being a bit smart. You don't need to be, however, wise.

[@davidcox6454]

Even if he is intelligent it doesn’t mean he can’t be gullible. These internet can sites prey on people emotions which can and often do override people’s intelligence I mean the guy is so obviously desperate

[@matthewjudge7124]

“He probably had alcoholic parents” is one of the funniest things I’ve ever heard

[@stevepalmateer]

engineers are the easiest marks because they think they're too smart to be con'd.

[@m.e2383]

Yh . Also Doctors & pilots with their god and intelligence complex they don't ever think they can be conned.

[@HarshNerf]

yeah it's totally not that this guy is a boomer supreme rube. it's totally that engineers are gullible 🤣

[@tjb1085]

I've never met an engineer who isn't socially Tiktok'd.

[@center12]

As a person who graduated with an engineering degree & working on a medical degree, this scares me.

[@nardinit]

I thought it was because they're socially awkward virgins

[@MrCipolenio]

Christina: "I can't believe he's a programmer" Have you ever met a programmer?? Of COURSE he's a programmer!

[@bigbowlowrong4694]

It’s the least surprising thing about this story, really.

[@callanc3925]

fr and not only a programmer, but a *60* year old programmer. You have to have a special lack of social awareness to be close to retirement and understand computer code

[@joeyjoejoejr.shabadu8857]

"He has a skill set" I couldn't have said it better myself.🤣

[@garbougesenior3486]

And after David hires a private investigator he GOES BACK AGAIN 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@wldlvndr9934]

I literally screamed when it showed him going back to the airport

[@sergonesergo]

ABOUT THE 9 ROSES In Slavic countries people only buy even number of flowers for mourning. For happy occasions, it's odd numbers only. But yeah, 11 roses would me more suitable.

[@treyjetson5320]

Thats kind of dumb.

[@lsixty30]

Um wouldn’t 13 be better then?

[@spiritualempress6691]

90 day fiancé was the shit! I only started watching it when I was staying with my dad and he’s just cackling in the living room and called me in with “you gotta see this shit” instantly hooked 😂

[@jdiscount]

He actually met her now and shes real, that's the most improbable insane thing about this story.

[@swheeler2778]

"Big Ed is the sweetest guy ever.." huhhh? Rose is a saint for dealing with him.

[@idab6864]

I feel like both are just trying to get something out of the situation and not actually have a relationship. There's no way rose is attracted to Ed, she wants a better life. And he wants sex.

[@swheeler2778]

​@@idab6864 Agreed but he lies, gas lights and tries to belittle her all while using a really creepy "I'm here to save you" voice looking how he looks and probably smelling like mayo. She was so patient with him and handled everything he threw at her with grace. He thought he could take advantage of her situation to bully her into mistreatment. His behavior was way worse than just wanting sex

[@nardinit]

@@swheeler2778 She was rude rude from the first time she met him. They're 2 faces of the same coin. Neither of them had good intentions. They deserve eachother. Like a rich doctor and trophy wife.

[@swheeler2778]

@@nardinit hmmm. I totally disagree but maybe I'll re watch it see if I missed something

[@sprycmg]

Jess Klem you gonna have the same energy for any woman with a young man? Lmao

[@mister62085]

Profile pic: Halle Berry Real life: Chuck Berry

[@pdubzpyro]

mister62085 Cut to: Someone Marry Barry

[@D-Fens_1632]

I once heard that one as "profile pic, J Lo, in person, hell no."

[@eliquate]

Keep in mind, this dude is accompanied by a TLC film crew and my guess is security to insure they don’t fuck up this great television.

[@Shredzilla]

RIGHT!? Like okay, don't you think all this shit is a scam like wtf man it's kinda obvious there's more people with him it's not like he's handycamming this shit all himself.

[@joelbizzell1386]

Sadness, loneliness, and desperation coupled with (I'm guessing) some degree of cognitive impairment. That guy likely has absolutely no social skills and has been cast aside for most of his life. It really is very sad. Sure you want to smack sense into him for his own good, but the people that prey upon people like that deserve the harshest of punishments. It's no different than scamming old folks.

[@pallyboy6005]

Didja see the follow up? She's real

[@marqmelrose6156]

This reminds me of my own dad who did the same thing a few times but it was five years instead. It very sad and I tried explaining this to him for years. I gave up telling him this.

[@MK_ULTRA420]

Same, boomers gonna boom.

[@marqmelrose6156]

Well, my dad was emotionally abusive to me and my brother. He believed that women in the US are pretty much money driven and women outside America are more family valued. Not to mention his narcissistic tendency to build a relationship in his head that will make others jealous. This wasn't just those 5 years he pretty much isolated himself not really building any relationship or friendship with anyone. Pretty much all of my teen years and most of adult life he has only sat behind a computer chatting with women and sending money to them.

[@marqmelrose6156]

Also he's Gen x

[@marqmelrose6156]

We're not on speaking terms, his choice. I called him out and he stopped talking to me. Meanwhile I moved on got married and have kids.

[@juliawhite3014]

I'm guessing they've only seen Big Ed's promotional interviews...? Gotta admit he does come across as a genuinely down-to-earth and personable guy before you see how he acts on the show.

[@OfficialDJLaxative]

Julia White dude is a scumbag behind the scenes though. Genuinely

[@mansoryO]

before they see the mayo

[@ryangiesbers]

Definitely. Tells her to shave her legs, asks her to take an STD test, gives her tooth paste and mouth wash because her breath is bad. Literally the one thing she wanted was a kid and he was like “no I can’t afford a kid, I’m getting snipped”. Not surprised he fucked it up. 28 years and no relationship, he’s got a self centered mindset and thought an impoverished Filipina would just bend to his every demand. I really respect Rose for walking away.

[@jordyroberts600]

That's what I was thinking they must of not watched him much lol

[@ninakore]

That turned out incorrect

[@poboy_outdoors]

This is a perfect example of why prostitution should be legal 😆

[@StonkeyDomp]

"It's easier to fool someone than to convince them they've been fooled"

[@petsarahjane]

Every time he says fully tik tocked .. I laugh so hard 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀

[@Lizzie9024]

Between Lana and "Williams" I'm not sure who's worse.

[@xaviermonge6873]

Both David and Yolanda are pathetic! Coincidentally both of these "sorry" SCAMMED idiots live in the same state and town. #Losers

[@Stickweeed]

Both of them are fully delusional. It's so sad.

[@Stickweeed]

@@xaviermonge6873 too bad they dont just hook up, but they both have taboo attractions to youngins. Yuk

[@zombiesir]

lana and williams are the same person.

[@DrobusMaximus]

I don't know if it's a Slavic thing or a European thing, but we buy an even number of flowers only when mourning. For a funeral, for people who lost someone, etc. If you love someone, or you're giving someone flowers for their birthday etc., you always buy an odd number of flowers. Giving someone an even number of flowers for a happy occasion might be taken as an insult.

[@rabbitblue1083]

Whatttt....Big Ed is disgustingly horrible what are you talking about??????

[@Stax62]

I think these are recorded like a week in advance, probably was before we knew all that

[@HollowGround1]

I'm pretty sure they were just being painfully sarcastic. Much like when they call people "cool guys", but they're really chomos

[@MrGonzo38]

Hes just OCD and wants it his way. Probably why he hasn't been in serious relationship for awhile, but u cant blame him for that. Unlike David hes being bright about the authenticity of this. For sure I'd ask for an std test! She definitely seems like she's done a bit of hooking.

[@xaviermonge6873]

Big Ed is a complete excuse for a "good/romantic" man.

[@eduardocastillo6527]

@@xaviermonge6873 agree...he is the epitome of incel culture. wondering why he can't find love.

[@jimiesoteric2417]

Damn oh well second isn't bad lol Christina didnt find those keys Tom!!!

[@MusicIslife-nn9gn]

I love how he says “in THE Ukraine” 😂😂😂

[@nuangrobbelaar7659]

Big Ed is in no way a sweet guy

[@biguprochester]

If he starts feathering it he might have better luck.

[@plaguedoct0r]

This kind of thing makes me sure there's a distinction between smart and wise.

[@MegaLadyrainicorn]

You guys need to do a collab with Tigerbelly (Bobby Lee) and talk about 90 days! they also love ittt

[@Madkalibyr]

HOW ARE YOU TOO SO WRONG ABOUT BIG ED?! just curious, kinda getting fully tok’d.

[@fattdamon1980]

No offense but how are you so wrong about to too vs two lol. Definitely fully tok'd.

[@nicholasmaniccia1005]

@@fattdamon1980 because big ed deserved to get dumped by rose sure but he is a nice guy. He's not satan because he is dumb dumb that can't handle culture shock

[@nicholasmaniccia1005]

@@fattdamon1980 because big ed deserved to get dumped by rose sure but he is a nice guy. He's not satan because he is dumb dumb that can't handle culture shock

[@bamacapt115]

We need these two on the Pillow Talk show.

[@boneempire]

This show consumed my life during this lockdown. Team Sojaboy!

[@papiphilycheezestake]

the craziest thing about all of this is she actually ended up showing up hhahahahaa

[@silver5liter]

Blew my fucking mind

[@sanaalllove5288]

I hope the show will introduce Yolanda and David , these two can support each other like a support team. 😂

[@ДаниелКаменаров]

Well they finally met and it was HILARIOUSLY embarrassing

[@zacharygreenwald4561]

We need an update on this now with the current situation in the world

[@Dafoodmaster]

when they say the "profiles are fictional" it means that it's a photo, a chatbox and a username. This could literally be 40 different people who worked at one company profiting off of desperate men

[@jeffredfern3744]

Big Ed makes me very uncomfortable. He's a complete creep.

[@tontyrutinel7680]

That rose sales lady is good😂

[@mmihai4193]

The uneven number of flowers in a bouquet is an Eastern European thing. People say even numbers are only for funerals, that's why he got 9 roses.

[@Ragnarakk187]

I’d rather watch Tom segura narrate the episodes than watch the episodes themselves lol

[@Psyrecx]

He's flown abroad several times... As opposed to what he had hoped, to have flown a broad.

[@juliamontalvo2934]

It's been 2 years and I'm sobbing laughing at my cubicle at work

[@beanzo7512]

wonder if that guy is still in ukraine

[@njfuentesrespecter81]

Opie and Anthony used to have the greatest shows doing play by play of 90 day fiancé clips.

[@Wheres-Wolfie]

Man this guy makes me feel better about me being single at 46 lol. Well I'm off to North Korea to finally meet Suni after all these years! Wish me luck!

[@lebumjames1373]

That’s sad

[@nicelydunwell5681]

There's absolutely nothing you can do to another human being that they don't deserve, therefore you should never feel guilt no matter how horrible your actions.

[@Bkgiest]

Thanks YMH fans. My head has been throbbing over those sweet Ed comments. Thought I was going crazy

[@micjr21]

Tom, "yeah he's fully tock't"

[@sabastiantaylor7209]

I used to feel sorry for David, but now it’s defending into RAGE!!! I so relate to that sentence about David. At first. I was like poor guy but the reality is he’s so physically attracted to Lana that he’s not living in reality anymore. This isn’t about love. This is 💯 lust. He wouldn’t go this far for a really nice and awesome girl who was just average. Look at his female Ukraine friend. I think that she’s better looking than Lana but he knows he doesn’t have a chance.

[@Indianaparadise]

He doesn’t have a girlfriend he has a 50 year old Indonesian boyfriend 😂

[@gregorygutierrez2856]

Dude that fuckin show is amazing. I get high and my girl has it playing in the background. IT WILL MAKE TOU YELL AT THE TV!!!

[@witchygothrocker]

Big ed is such a dumpster of a person, I feel so bad for Rose, I dont blame her for being kind of cold toward him. Ed just has so much culture shock, and after the whole reveal that he didn't want kids, she realized Ed just liked the idea of her, and didn't actually like her as a person.

[@raspycellist]

I can't believe his family and friends let him fall for this. That is if he has any.

[@sophiaboivin5466]

The topic I’ve been waiting for!! 😂😂

[@OCTOSCUT]

oh wait till they find out how 'sweet' BIG ED is, hahahahahaha

[@wolfinbearsfur]

Hmmm… clearly Tommy Buns never heard of Lorne Armstrong 😂😭😭

[@TheSmsawyer]

In that part of the world, even numbers of flowers are for funerals. The odds are for everything else.

[@chazmichaelmichaels88]

IT guy here, SOME programmers make absolute bank.

[@drummerjosh1984]

Work with a guy just like this, older strange engineer/computer programmer. These guys are the biggest weirdos.

[@mikelpascual]

Oh, you are in for a treat on the next episode... Christina's gonna need some restraining straps to stop from going in a mission to slap the guy into reason xD

[@douggles06]

Is it just me or has 90 day finance has really grown in popularity really quick?

[@countys32]

If you desire something badly you are vulnerable to being scammed.

[@jankowalski6338]

Well, she turn up and that was her.

[@ACU_misfit]

Smoke weed everyday.

[@memelord420blazeit8]

I'm with you...

[@artyomsevchenko6089]

The denial is absolute.

[@Akron162]

I think this is a case of the sunk cost fallacy.

[@jannash8334]

In Russia, odd numbers of roses are given for some reason.

[@Scottywardgaming]

Plot twist: There is a llana and she stole his cell phone 🤣

[@kingofopossums]

One of my favorite things to do is look at the comments on Facebook spam account. Then look at all the creepy ass people. lol

[@connorpayne9830]

Her only fans is her running with the wild dogs in Chernobyl

[@tinfinz1630]

This guy is probably so happy right now

[@Rock-n-Rolla369]

These guys should host “90 Day Fiancée.”

[@bgbills10]

I used to think people have to be cruel to take advantage of guys like him. But now I am totally convinced, if you are that gullible you deserve it. I mean come on, how many red flags do you have to see before it’s abundantly clear. Hell at this point those red flags have morphed into a blazing hot, Fourth of July fireworks show, with a dj playing “you’re an idiot” on an eternal loop. My god man wtf! The person pretending to be Lana needs to continue this charade, why not.

[@nickytheanimal2413]

Bro this is so funny how does this guy go there 5 times

[@pest5373]

American hero as far as I’m concerned.

[@thegreyarea477]

Andrew and Tristan tate are “Lana”😂

[@markpetroshus8504]

You two should try and get on Pillow Talk!

[@zacklattak]

I'd watch a show with just you two reacting to 90 days fiance.

[@typeerk]

But you are watching it now...

[@Poxymonkeypox]

Seriously though, who is Randy?

[@jurj97]

He's fixing the car, John

[@timothylewis2527]

When someone makes you feel a certain way, you never want to stop feeling it, even if it means lying to yourself. Of course most of us have to at least have sex with the person before forming that kind of attachment!

[@immanny85]

How can you both be right but you are

[@shrotcake]

The Big ed being sweet thing is a joke right? He's trash, Rose is amazing for putting up with it.

[@JamersonFromBranson]

So glad I found this podcast. Every other podcast is all doom and gloom right now. I love listening to YMH to forget for a while that all this bullshit is going on.

[@pallyboy6005]

XD definitely a light-hearted, non doom-and-gloom story today xD

[@skillerftwerr]

thanks lil C

[@caseywood9781]

It's fear of success

[@HobtheGoblin]

Being a computer programmer doesn't make you an intelligent person. Source: many tiktok'd classmates back in college for CS.

[@biguprochester]

Do you know how many stupid people think they’re smart because they went to college? It’s disproportionately absurd.

[@jayj3000]

but you would think a CS degree would help you understand how easy it is for Vlad to make a fake account back in the ukraine and jerk some american......

[@CrystalGal]

He might have book sense just no common sense

[@deadsetmassascared]

I watch that show and it shows me what I don't want for myself. I'm not like darcy who is trying to make dudes the one so bad and I'm not this dude in major denial and putting myself through a self inflicted ringer for someone who doesn't give a god damn. Woof. Thank you, tlc. And I also feel like a straight up roman watching 90df.

[@Andrey-rc6wp]

About the roses, in Russia we give an odd number when we go on dates and such. And we give an even number for funerals.

[@JosephDillman]

David : Lana :: All the US Dollars sent to Ukraine : Actual Justice for Ukraine

[@glitchunicorn]

I met someone kinda like this at a gig i was doing and the weird stories he told me about his "girlfriend"

[@24fretsoffury]

It’s the relationship version of the sunk cost fallacy.

[@philiptheron6299]

9 roses is 12 minus one for each time he got stood up

[@tommersch4296]

Imhotep. Twump is great. Imhotep. Twump is great

[@kingdb3595]

Crazy that it wasn’t a scam lmao

[@endcensorship874]

Just because you are a computer programmer doesn't mean you ain't thirsting. And this chap has quite the thirst.

[@21pilotstillidie58]

That Big Ed is a sweetheart comment really aged poorly😅😅😅

[@undergrounddojokeyboardcag701]

Ive said "i almost got you a dozen roses". When i was in high school still i thought it was a great idea to get the girl i was dating a dozen roses. So i went to the florist and they had remade packages of a dozen roses. Grabbed one, paid for it, drove to her house and as i was walking up to the door i just happened to glance down at them. I don't know if i had a bit of a Rain -Man moment but they didnt seem right so i stopped and started counting, i got 10. The words out of my mouth were literally "I almost got you a dozen roses, its 2 shy for some reason so i will bring you 14 next time".

[@NotManyDTL]

Odessa used to be one of the most criminal cities in the former USSR

[@Nfnf889]

Big Ed is a goof