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[@willboywonder]

When people who never met you connect you with their minor child, it’s not real. No normal person would do that. Go on and block them.

[@yellowbird5411]

"JUST SAY NO." Any mention of money, even if the person says they're hanging off a cliff and someone's got a gun to their head, just say NO. It's not your problem. It's a scam.

[@missolesoul]

Don't they ever think it's odd that these high powered well off men are going online looking for love? They are captains of industry but swoon over someone they never met? It defies all logic. Trust your gut always.

[@moonlitdesert]

Common sense more than logic!

[@hellekimery9537]

I SO agree with you! I’m realistic when I look in a mirror. Not negative, but honest with my self such as (“ I won’t attract a guy who’s in super shape and loves to work out, and is 20 years younger, and of course well to do”) I know I can attract scammers - ;) they’ve tried. I’m also realistic as I age that the pool of men dying to go out with me, are getting smaller, so it’s much much easier to spot a scammer when you have that attitude. Say I’m a 5 ? I also don’t think I’ll attract a 10! That’s a fantasy that very very rarely happens in real life. No rich, powerful, super handsome , hardworking man, is going to spend hours on a dating site, finding a woman! Why? Because most of them get around, see people and meet people and most likely has the pick of the litter most days!! If he needs my money? He will never hear from me again - just do not have any to share, even if I did, I’d spend on family, not a text person I’ve never met. I’m not saying don’t online date, but don’t be so unrealistic either. If you are a 5 -- most of the men you attract, is usually a 5 or less. I have no reason to believe that 10 sailing around on his fancy boat etc etc is just dying to pick up older, out of shape ( most of us look like this 😍) when they can afford to be some 20 year olds sugar daddy :) And know, it’s not your heart he falls for, he only has pictures to look at, so, at first, there has to be an instant interest in how you look! Just like in real life ! I’m not coming down or pointing fingers, but I was raised not to think too highly of myself or my looks, because there is always gonna be someone prettier, and smarter. That kept me grounded for most of my life.

[@HeatherBoo916]

Not only that but are well off but desperately need money.

[@chanel113]

It’s not so odd as most millennials now meet online. Why wouldn’t other generations start? What is odd is the fact the victims are being chased by someone quite out of their league, and they have no one else to turn to for money.

[@Drakkar2992]

Rich people and famous people only date and marry between themselves or really attractive people. I know damn well that i'm not going to be noticed by someone very handsome and rich. I accept the fact that i may attract others who look like me, a bit like a sack of potatoes. If one lowers their expectaion and is aware of how they really look, they won't be so disappointed and may even not be pulled into a romance scam scheme.

[@lorishu48103]

Psa : Never talk to anyone who says “Hello hello Are you there hello” that shows a lack of respect for your time and boundaries. These ppl are only as “clever” as we allow them to be

[@organicforlife597]

Absolutely 💯

[@charlisays]

Agree 100%. This goes for anyone expecting you to answer immediately or be available at 3am.

[@dennykeaton9701]

Exactly

[@鳳美虹]

His being so pushy should be a red flag. I had one contact me with the same BS, except he claimed to be a surgeon. He had trouble keeping his story straight. I also found it suspicious that he had me set up a Google Hangouts account right away and that he didn't suggest video chatting.When he asked for an iTunes card, so he could call his daughter. (Why couldn't he call her on Google Hangouts?) Then I knew for sure it was a scam and blocked him. I contemplated telling him if he would send me $1000 to fix my car I would drive to Wal-Mart and buy him a $5 iTunes card. Ladies, listen to your gut. No self-respecting man will ask you to support him and or solve his problems. He's a grown up man, not your child! Moreover, anyone having a whole series of bizarre problems is a jinx.

[@sueknoll8567]

Good thinking on your part, his being a surgeon and being on a dating site is kind of strange to begin with, he undoubtedly has money and therefore a lot of women in real life pursuing him. He wouldn't have time for computer dating.

[@rosemariemcgowan6388]

NEVER send money.Let him rot

[@murielwinter2513]

These guys are so manupilative and intimidating and they know how to hold people emotional hostage. Fear is one of their tools. God be with everyone who has been scammed.

[@malcolmhartley6458]

I've read the comments and I have to say the reason VICTIMS don't come forward or struggle quietly is from shame. None of us know until you walk in others shoes. I'm inspired by their bravery & grateful for their stories.

[@mightymouse1005]

I've learned a ton from these stories....

[@heidiheaux7007]

The whole “have you eaten today” seems like such an odd thing to ask. Huge red flag! Think about it, would you EVER ask someone that if they weren’t sick? I think most folks wouldn’t find that endearing…just bizarre.

[@gillmiller3702]

That’s common with scammers . Along with poems copied from a Google site

[@newgabe09]

it's a common thing to ask in many countries to show friendly concern

[@veronicamitchell9378]

@@newgabe09it is common in some cultures in the US also

[@newgabe09]

@@veronicamitchell9378 that's interesting. Any in particular?

[@veronicamitchell9378]

@@newgabe09 African Americans particularly in the southern states.

[@lorenawilson949]

Do not send money to people you meet online period !!!!!!!!

[@marciathehooligan3861]

And "meeting on line" is not meeting at all-- they're strangers

[@shirleyjones5614]

Who is Julian. Vicent. In syiraneeds eBay for food

[@dianaweaver8639]

There is a special place in Hell for these scammers

[@yvonneyvonne2769]

Well said 😎😎

[@mizannwells8381]

Exactly

[@JosephACruz-by5dx]

My heart goes out for the people who gotten scammed just like Ii did. There are low sick people out there and do this to others. But one thing I just got to say God well put you in hell for that !!

[@EuleneWages4644]

You got that right I despise them

[@peerdous5708]

His daughter, Mary, is his "accomplice". The online lover is always in trouble and need your money to bail him out.

[@nathaliemargueritte4561]

No it's not, it's the same guy pretending to be his daughter

[@sunnydays3749]

They are very clever. They pray on the vulnerable . They are evil. I feel for this woman. Thank you for this.

[@gilliandey2490]

Correct they're craftier than a fox

[@donnabonn1892]

She had never seen this man.

[@TN-kz2ox]

He wrote his daughter an email that he was going to be killed? From where? Jail? Why didn't he contact her if he could email his daughter? This is so stupid!!! Sorry, but if you buy this as being true, you deserve a lesson that teaches you to use common sense and those brains you were born with!

[@curliefro]

Yeah - how can police allow an arrested suspect to email someone from jail? That scammer was messy but the victim was a bit dim....

[@smokiana226]

Yup. This one was particularly ridiculous.

[@gillmiller3702]

The scammers are experienced in grooming . Don’t be so judgemental

[@dennykeaton9701]

A very aggressive scammer with a dozen red flags

[@melindacarey9615]

Oh that part asking you have you eaten? Is s big red flag. I had one ask me that constantly. I only lost 50 buying an iTunes card, but it could have been worse. It will never happen again

[@LittleKitty22]

I had a variant of it from a scammer claiming to be in Canada, but in reality it was a group of scammers in Nigeria: asking if I had lunch, supper etc. If I had known at the time that this is a red flag, I could have blocked them there and then - still, they didn't get chance to scam money from me.

[@mizannwells8381]

Yup same ole story

[@abigail7579]

I get that all the time..."Have you eaten?" lol...

[@The69167]

Why do they ask have you eaten! Why does it concern them?

[@veronicalemus3523]

True they ask alot if you eat, I'm like look my eating is no one's business

[@Bee5757]

Scammers are the lowest of the low. I feel sorry for the victims.

[@barebyteentertainment5242]

Bianca R. Hi

[@amalHope3]

In reality, No man falls in love with a woman after seeing her comment or picture on Facebook

[@dennykeaton9701]

Exactly

[@briemills9209]

I have scambaited some of these scumbags and they seem anything BUT clever or sophisticated. Read the scammer's handbook. Every single one of them I encountered went right by the book. Bottom line: if they won't face time within a day, it's a scam. I can't believe anyone would fall for the obvious made up nonsense.

[@tessaohfashion]

You are a talented narrator! Thank you!

[@PungiFungi]

Another guy who claim to have parents from two different European countries and he was raised in a third to account for his accent. The moment he said he’s doing business in Nigeria is the moment she should’ve put a kibosh on it

[@cpmffeilberg4970]

Oh yes this one was played on me 13 years ago after my husband died from Parkinson's disease. Back then I joined grief related chat sites, for widows and widowed alike. Actually there were several people trying at the same time to attach themselves to me.

[@missolesoul]

That is disgusting. Ghouls.

[@annamariehewitt3173]

THIS is your classic run of the mill ROMANCE scamming story....They are mostly all the same...using the same tactics.... these videos are all over You Tube..We should all watch at least one of these stories a day to keep it fresh in our minds...

[@josephinesosingot-raisanen6743]

If you travel you know companies dont let you travel without insurance and with travel insurance covers everything including the best treatments and airlifts to home countries etc. No down payments necessary usually

[@thetruedoctrineofchristnet7473]

You have to do the investigations before you send money. May GOD bless this lady

[@janetdavidson8798]

Don't send money , then you won't get scammed by their sob stories. No gift cards and no money. Block them.

[@abigail7579]

I've had a scammer asked to speak to my kids...I guess that was his way to get my sympathy in order to get cash, iTunes, Amazon cards...etc...Freak!!

[@miarena111]

i wonder how many wifes are out there actualy wanting a husband that gives a shit about them. the scam works because we tend to neglect each other. at least thats what i hear out of that.

[@tiiuhelen]

As a teen I always felt not fitting in with the group of girls that were my friends cos I thought there’s something wrong with me … I didn’t look nor need boys attention and would not throw myself at them for fun while drinking as all my friends did ( at least that’s how I saw it) I do wonder why that is !!

[@AdultThirdCultureKid1971]

The part about losing his wife to cancer sounds familiar. 🤔😒

[@vford1000]

They all have the same similar story lines, nothing new!

[@kennyclauw9713]

i just lost my wife and 11 kids in 1 carcrash and i survived but im very traumatized since then, can you help me out tanya :D

[@marciathehooligan3861]

Ever notice how they're ALL widowers with one young child?

[@dmgiova3788]

That and having a couple of kids or even just one that stays with another relative when they are away on business (usually working under contract on a oil rig).

[@janetbrown6409]

It's always the same.spouse died n one child. X

[@lucyroark4189]

I know this was posted a few years ago but I just came across it now. Everyone who gets asked for $$ MUST Google the circumstances before they send a dime. Had this woman contacted the supposed companies he worked for, she'd have found out that he didn't exist. Also, she could have done a reverse image and discovered the same thing. A few minutes on her computer would have saved her money and her heart.

[@bonniebloom4953]

Exactly. I would have verified everything.

[@rosemarydudley9954]

I think that any woman who is scammed must be desperate for love and attention. Why pay for it? They really are stupid. It doesn't matter how your current relationship is failing - DON'T GET SCAMMED. Think positive - be independent - think straight. It doesn't matter if you have to live alone for a while because that is you freedom to a good life. Also, your money is YOUR money, keep it.

[@LightnLife3]

This woman wasn't looking for love, attention, wasn't interested in dating, and didn't really like online dating. So, your opinion isn't really true.

[@Jeng4280]

Well that maybe true, however anyone can get scammed! No one is stupid for being scammed. Especially someone who doesn’t really know scamming at all. But here’s my thing: don’t ever EVER go on Hangouts with them or WhatsApp. It’s a trap-they’ll isolate you away from everyone and everything. When they say Hangouts or WhatsApp I say nope! And if they don’t like that they can get the hell away from me! I do hate it that people are continuously being scammed by these crooks. Love shouldn’t cost a damn thing but in this case, to some it does. It’s really scary and can throw you for a damn loop!

[@gillmiller3702]

It’s not being stupid . The scanners are experienced in grooming their victims

[@marciathehooligan9967]

@@gillmiller3702 they ALL have the same line & anybody using common sense can spot these crooks a mile away. One child in boarding school or being taken care of by a nanny. "I'm a surgeon doctor". Can't video chat because the oil rig will blow up. Or "due to the nature of my job". (As soon as they say that, block them!) They're self made millionaires yet don't have access to their money? C'mon, ladies! These crooks ARE NOT clever or even intelligent! JUST STOP SENDING MONEY!!!

[@luvlabso130]

Scammers play on our greed. They are always wealthy giving the hope that someday that money will be part yours. The cam only works cause of their pretending to be rich and our greedy nature

[@vford1000]

Sad what happened to her, but I thought Western Union have clamped down on money transfers to Nigeria!

[@鳳美虹]

They are trying.

[@sthorson3955]

Yes western Union has stopped funds to Nigeria, only because they were being investigated and as a result, THEY WERE SUED.

[@janetbrown6409]

@@sthorson3955 so they thought western union was shady too. Just money grabbing at any cost. X

[@starb0rn]

I am glad this woman's husband didn't have cancer after the scare. I am sorry she was scammed. These scumbags really need a taste of their own medicine.

[@suhailldiaz1616]

Omg these scammers recycle the same lies how disturbing and I feel for the victim.

[@brendaross3961]

Thank you SSA!!! Very informative!!!!

[@rosemariemcgowan6388]

Well if he broke the law he should go to jail.Get on with it Lol

[@Debbie-19497]

Don't give your phone number. Mine was on my Facebook profile because I have a business. What a mistake .

[@mildredpierce4506]

I heard another scammer claim to have malaria or typhoid. When the fake victim told him that she would meet him in Abuja Nigeria to give him some gifts, he suddenly recovered. He got on the bus and went to Abuja. If he had malaria he has no business being on the bus especially since there would be a lot of coughing on his part as well as diarrhea. when he thought he was getting an iPhone, designer clothes, designer shoes and a gold chain his malaria miraculously disappeared.

[@LLittleLessons]

shouldnt she have put the photos on google image search before sending the money?

[@ScammingScammers]

She should have but many don't know to do this

[@鳳美虹]

She should not have sent any money, period! It's not the job of one adult to solve the problems of another. Besides, being hit up for money is a turn off.

[@dennykeaton9701]

Obviously

[@reinaortega5231]

Thank you very much for shared that you story this is blessing for me

[@sandraragbir4195]

One person did all this mischief he pretended to be the daughter and msg her how can he sleep at night knowing what he did to her all those lies etc just for the sake of money. Pretended to love her and cared so much he had her waking late hours to chat with him what a good for nothing scammer he is this type of people will never reach no where in life .

[@victoriafontana3520]

sandra ragbir the story sounds all too familiar. Most of them have the same damn stories and they think we're all stupid, They take advantage saying they have a child A guy tried to pull that on me , sent me an e-mail supposedly the lady next door was taking care of his daughter , because the nanny had gone to visit ,her home country,. he wanted me to send the daughter an i-tunes card. And he was going overseas on contract. You stay away from doctors and Engineers oil riggers Construction they're all fake scammers. And they don't talk the same way they all have an accent and they always call you dear They try to find out if you're still working and if you live alone. And they all try to get you on Hangouts or Whatsup site. I have blocked them from trying to friend me on Facebook and I deleted messenger. The new way to contact you is to love all your posts , an eventually they say please friend me they can go to hell. I could write a book one guy strung me along for 13 months. Asked for money .. Report block and delete, I could write two books on this subject.. when I see the scammers from the scammers site and they show up on the dating sites with many aliases. I plaster the photo on my Facebook page.. I remind them the photos are of innocent victims and most of the time it's Africans and Nigerians that are behind it.. now and then though you get an. American, from the United States that will try to pull this. Stay safe ladies. He sent me an e-mail a few months back saying he was sorry. And that he loved me. I told him he was a lying bastard.. and to leave me alone ,or I report him to the authorities

[@sandraragbir4195]

Victoria Fontana As soon as someone ask you for money thats it you know they just want to be your friend to use you . I dont mind helping someone but after seeing this video it says all . Most of the FB friend request I took its the same excuses they want money .They ask u all your business to know your financial situation and then they tell you their sad stories

[@victoriafontana3520]

sandra ragbir honey I told you that I already know that. The man , I was talking to for 13 months didn't ask me for money until the end. I can teach all of you out there a few lessons on how to spot them in the first few minutes you even talk to them. They all have a script and they get you so hooked that you really think you're in love with these idiots. Then they make you feel bad that you don't help them. Just buy the first words what they call you how their discussion with you , go and when their wife died and how is it dead giveaway. Unfortunately there are plenty of women out there that are so desperate for men they believe anything

[@victoriafontana3520]

sandra ragbir I am not some idiot I have plenty of experience almost four and a half years and I know what to look for. I tried to help other women by placing scammer photographs on my Facebook page and on the internet.. it helps if some women would joy the scammer site and when they see the picture of the man that talking to. They should Google the photo or use tin eye..

[@EuleneWages4644]

So true it's one person

[@carlennabrattin7731]

Hangouts and WhatsApp has scammers on there

[@pameladotson2503]

Many scammers use these sites.It's all the same scripts to there stories.They just change it up a bit.One is divorced.One lost his wife to cancer,childbirth or car accident.They work good jobs far from home.They have sons or daughters being taken care of by a nanny or in a boarding school.They all have a money crisis and need gift cards.

[@vivianabellana33]

Scammers are evils they are using the name of god i hate them

[@rosemariemcgowan6388]

Nigeria! RED FLAG X

[@rosemariemcgowan6388]

When he said he would die she should say bye then/I will find someone else loser!! lol x

[@shakacat3180]

Poor lady just goes to show that humanity has gone crazy and unfortunately money takes over and feelings get robbed so sad thankfully not everyone is the same but oh dear so sad 🐱

[@starb0rn]

Well worded, and so true.

[@rosemariemcgowan6388]

Poor woman these scammers work from a script! x

[@bonniebloom4953]

Yeah and each time I listen to any scammer story from any channel, it's the same old thing. I get so mad and say "come on you asses make up some new storys. These are getting so old ".

[@dennykeaton9701]

Same old script

[@shirlainewilliams152]

all the time he was in prison and getting beaten up he was able to email lol lol pls

[@angiedixon8017]

Your story helps

[@shonii119]

Since he mentioned malaria, I googled it as I have never really known what it was. It has symptoms like a really bad flu.

[@chandaibijaram5441]

Thank.u so much william i love all your video i learn lot from.it GODbless you..

[@dennykeaton9701]

Another one waiting at the airport on the invisible man.

[@irmapuerta8771]

I'm so sorry for you you lady😢😢that break my heart.😢😢all sounds familiar 😢😢

[@kenmoreSF]

protect your assets. do not send anyone money unless you absolutely expect nothing in return.

[@mildredpierce4506]

Small town in the Midwest very naïve and unaware that scammers exist and unaware that the scammer’s accent does not match the picture or the country they claim they’re from. A lot of victims meet this profile.

[@lsimon343]

Never ever accept requests from people you don’t know!!! How can you be so daft! Anytime you hear Nigeria RUN!!!!!

[@mirelairinapetre6503]

You should loose your trust in your own judgement! Not in humanity!

[@JakeSVanHfan]

Oh well looks like he's going to have a long long life in prison LOL. Stupid scammers need to come up with better ideas.

[@marciathehooligan3861]

Obviously not. Cause people are still gullible & desparate enough to fall for this poop

[@mauriziomoreni1434]

I don't touch social media. I always say its dodgy

[@suzmariesquires5065]

Sounds like the same story I got from a scammer

[@teresabrady3402]

How many times , Don't send any money , too any one , if anyone asks for money say no ,

[@almamacabe2981]

Oh my god, very Sad Story. I can Crying 😢 to much Women. Lost, to much Money Please all Women, and Men be careful about your Money we are working very hard for Money please don’t stop sharing your, Video Anne and William , About, Scammers godbless both. And thank you so much !!!😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪

[@thuyphan6925]

I hate the scammer. I hope they rot in hell, I was scammer 1 month ago.. I lost $4500 to the scammer 😡😡😭😭

[@victoriaspencer8926]

Thuy Phan Oh my I’m really sorry dear. I lost a lot too, over $20,000 but I got help from a recovery agent who helped in recovering my funds. You should recover your funds too. It’s not late

[@dianaweaver8639]

All scammers will get what they deserve. Karma is a bitch

[@roverdover4449]

This person was a little lucky that she wasn't asked to buy the scammers "ticket" back to America.

[@patmorgan5990]

Very familiar true story!

[@Debbie-19497]

I had someone tell me if I block him he's going to kill herself

[@ScammingScammers]

Typical emotional BS from a scammer.

[@鳳美虹]

That's his choice and not your problem.

[@marciathehooligan3861]

I would've said, "Good. Have a good time". Lol

[@jreed3620]

@@ScammingScammers do we have new stories for February 2020? So ready for more stories!!!

[@ScammingScammers]

@@jreed3620 Yes absolutely, I just posted one this morning

[@nathaliemargueritte4561]

How can you be so naive??

[@charlisays]

When I was online dating I had a few attempts and they always use the kid thing assuming all women are maternal. I'm not and the whole thing was obviously scammy and weird. I have no interest in being a mummy to your made up kid 🤣🤢🤣

[@bonniebloom4953]

Omg I love you. Lol I'm thinking the same damn thing. I don't want to talk to your kid. Go away.

[@charlisays]

@@bonniebloom4953 hahaha totally! Pay for your own ticket, kid, medical bills 🤣🤣

[@thetruedoctrineofchristnet7473]

I would've said well your azz will have to sit in jail and get beat!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂

[@Debbie-19497]

You can have Facebook and be in peace

[@gilliandey2490]

Off to Nigeria where he never ever left

[@shaneedaniel5125]

Do scammers deliberately keep their victims on line through the night to keep them tired and non functioning especially when they had to work the next day. Lack of sleep can be torture and you can end up making bad decisions.

[@ScammingScammers]

They absolutely do that and they also call people over and over again, constantly keeping them awake

[@donnabonn1892]

Another thing... men who are busy making money they don't have a lot of time spend hours on a phone....they about making that money.

[@gilliandey2490]

You're in a movie for sure a horror one.

[@dennykeaton9701]

The creepy accent, and the personality of a teenager should have been a clue.

[@sarahparis9860]

So sad

[@JacyJ1]

Why do all the victims wait until they have lost money before searching for their “partner” online? The moment someone asks for money is the time to diligently search

[@dafnecastillo1294]

Thankfully your scammers stopped early, before creating mire havoc on you. I guess the scammer had a bit of a conscious.

[@debmccafferty1007]

Met oil rig scammer on FB dating. Wanted 30k loan three weeks later Bye!Alaye!!😂

[@christinehaigh9807]

who's pulling your heart strings?

[@irinairina6662]

Scammers are bustards !!!!!!!!!😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

[@jenfnp]

If you are relying on Facebook for your news, I am concerned. One thing many of these folks have in common is Facebook use.

[@Gamepak]

the photo research was good but a bit late, would be the first thing to do

[@armandosanchez8901]

This guys are like God.... apparently always need money

[@nancywijangco5368]

tsk tsk .why believe in chat chat ? tsk tsk

[@patsurtees5020]

LOU

[@Debbie-19497]

Do you know in Africa $1,500 will buy a house car and land and you can still live well.

[@violeteland8677]

It's not true

[@chyrelmuzic329]

That’s not true a house in Nigeria starts around two hundred thousand it’s not cheap only the Internet

[@mampelesetla387]

Debbie Kent it's a lie, where did u get that one from? Do you know that Africa is a continent? Go back to school please 🙏

[@v.r.2834]

There are 54 lands in Africa with different economy levels, for example,Nigeria has oil, they are not poor and beside oil, Africa is abounded with mineral reserves. So, for example, in Nigeria, the house and land is not cheap, between 80.000 up to millions of $

[@taulyne2001]

What country in Africa are u refering to???? Such info ignorance😨😨😨😩😩😩

[@nathaliemargueritte4561]

We pray together... ha ha ha! Americans should stop being so bigots

[@anjachan]

girls NEED a mother? Gay men Couples don't agree! xD

[@ScammingScammers]

Gay men couples are awesome parents!

[@anjachan]

@@ScammingScammers they can be awesome or not like every other couple ^^ but it's cool you think like that ;)

[@macm3081]

Wtf!.. this cant be real. Some stupid urban legend creepypasta crap. Right?

[@ScammingScammers]

Every story is verfied through the victim, the fake profile, payment details and information. Nothing here is "fake" Also, these types of scams are extremely common and the stories very common. If you learn about romance scams you will find this is a typical scam story.

[@EuleneWages4644]

Apparently u have not listened to many of William and Anne's videos they verify things before telling it.i no for a fact the scammers will come up with unbelievable stories I've heard some that would curl a person's hair if they think they have you where they want u they will do or say anything to get money.ive talked to them right up til they ask for money then hit block I wanna hear wat lie they tell and how deceitful a person can really b.