Sexual Esclation Vs Sexual Tension - A Mistake Many Guys Make

Do you know what the difference is between sexual tension and sexual esclation?
I get men contacting me every week asking me how to sexually escalate with a woman they've started dating, or a woman they'v ejust met in a bar.
But this is the wrong question to ask, because more men should be focussing on building sexual tension with women instead. And the two are not the same thing.
In fact, if you sexually escalate when there's no tension, you can actually turn a woman off of you forever!
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[@MrDanthemaniam]

Yes. Non cringe non creepy tension escalation primmer needed.

[@mfc4655]

Yes I woud like that video

[@MARKDARKOS]

Yes, please. Make that video.

[@BalkanBiker]

I try too hard when I talk so I instead try to talk less and focus on direct eye contact with a smirk, but not staring at her. Sometimes I just don't even say much, I'm just like "mhm" while looking her directly in the eyes. Great video by the way! You definitelly should make that video you're talking about. You're one of the few channels here who actually know what they are talking about.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Cheers Dusan!

[@goulet268]

Great content !! Can't wit to see your subsequent vids. I shared this one one with friends, after we had a discussion this wknd about sexualising with people.

[@simonl4657]

Yes please give details and examples. I am just not one of those guys where this stuff comes naturally.

[@BrianWKohls]

Please make that video! I think it would be exceptionally helpful for many men, including myself!

[@5757ash]

Yeah, I would love to see more videos on how to build that tension. Thanks

[@aglet4778]

Yes! Make that video Damien, totally!!!

[@-A-c]

I usually find myself making things awkward when it comes to sexual tension. A video detailing the subject would be very helpful indeed.

[@guadalupeinescastillo8635]

Go ahead and make the video !! 🙏 🔥

[@akfilm1992]

Yes we want that video :D

[@APIB89]

Video on tension please. Great vid

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Coming soon!

[@neildoerdan2298]

Great vid, yes we all want the video on building the sexual tension!

[@Straga_Severa]

For me, the problem with sexual tension is that it requires either having a lot of reference experience (the stories, the sexual jokes) or active participation from a girl (leaning closer instead of pulling away). So I would really like if you in the next video focused more on guys who have little or no reference experience - guys who have a lot of sexual stories don't need more help, surely ;-)

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Yeah, a video for guys with 0 experience at all, would be a good video I think

[@elseverehmedli8819]

Thanks for this video, it was very useful, and yeah it would be great if you make videos about building sexual tension

[@travelerfinder7840]

it would be great if you did make those videos. a Plus if you did demonstrations with a friend of yours.

[@janejordan1894]

This is interesting and makes a lot of sense. Yeah, these are some of the reasons I'd get turned off immediately if I was even interested to begin with

[@stephenyerardi7851]

Definitely please make that video on sexual tension.

[@robins5314]

Yes please on the video.

[@Unity-Mack]

Also I could go for a video dedicated to sexual escalation.

[@ZotyaPotyaZTA]

Good topic and I liked the ideas, because this is how I want to approach dating, you have to make that video, because more video from you is always a blessing

[@Unity-Mack]

I think what I really like about this is that the woman always has more of a choice in the conversation and there isn't anything threatening going on. If I arbitrarily just start touching a woman's leg, she doesn't have much of a choice of whether or not to participate in that and it can also be pretty weird and creepy to do that, whereas sexual banter is a non threatening way to get her to participate. I also find that eye contact is really good, I try to do that with everyone but I find it really helps on dates.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Nicely said

[@keithmullally3343]

Yes I would to see a video around how to create sexual tension

[@elijahdickhaus938]

Have to somewhat disagree here, I think sexual escalation is what happens when you get them home but when on the date, it's physical and verbal tension. Taking a woman's hand and small touches absolutely contribute to creating sexual tension it's just physical rather than verbal. Especially compliment her hair and run your fingers through it she'll get goosebumps all over wondering if you're going to kiss her. Not kissing is correct because then the tension is broken but light subtle touches absolutely build it and it will be highest when combined with the verbal. For building verbal tension the #1 easiest transition you can ever make into sexual banter (because women LOVE talking about sex if you are confident and uninhibited about it) is ask her what her favorite three movies are...then look at her like 'c'mon now, it's ok you can tell me the truth' she'll be like what what "what about 50 shades of grey no way that's not on there"

[@mexicanblackops2cel964]

SO LET ME ASK YOU SOMETHING? IF I'M A 5'1 INDIAN, WITH A GIGANTIC WITCH HOOKED LIKE A TOUCAN NOSE, HUGE RABBIT TEETH, BALDING, TINY HEAD DUE TO BAD GENETICS, CROSSED EYED IT CAN I BUILD SEXUAL TENSION ? DON'T AVOID MY QUESTION

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

If you're as aggressive in your approach as you were with this question, probably not ;) But I did say in this video you need initial interest first before you can build sexual tension - she needs to be open to it... I've had clients with no legs, I've had clients wiht burn scars on their faces, and a whole range of other non-ideal genetic things.. It makes it harder to meet women - of course it does - but they've all met women, and they've all gotten into relationships. Which means they all men women who were open to them building sexual tension.

[@Straga_Severa]

@@SchoolOfAttraction > but they've all met women Literally all of them? You never had even one failure as a coach? Or is it figurative, meaning "most of them"?

[@ifeelhalfnaked484]

hi, you've addressed a problem that i had, many times some girls will quickly agree to me on a date, but whenever i try to put the sexual tension on, they will just be ''politely'' answering or dimissing the attempt, i guess this is one of the way they see me not high smv than hers, *let's just say there are many girls who go out on date they have no intention to get laid quickly, no matter how convincingly you appear to be, a.k.a they're just out there to kill some time*

[@Verteune]

or trying to find a connection?