Freestyle Tinder Openers - Improve Your Response Rate

[@saintwithatie]

I can usually come up with a witty, teasing opener if they have enough in their bio to go on, but I've struggled when their bio is empty or sparse (useless cliche). It blows my mind to see you come up with openers based just on pictures. 10/10 quality content, Damien

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Cheers dude!

[@cyxtg]

@@SchoolOfAttraction hey I matched with a rlly cute girl, but she didn’t reply to me. Any tips to get her to respond

[@ingrainedquark474]

The most hilarious video on this channel ever! I came up with this while watching: 1:55 So you're best friends with your stunt double, ha? 2:20 What did you do this time to get locked up with the kangaroos? 2:50 Oh look it's dinner time and baby tiger looks soo hungry 5:20 Hey crazy girl, did they have to restrain you again? 7:02 It was a long time ago, but I'm sure the surf instructor taught me another posture 9:05 The drink and the stick, cause maybe your boyfriend agrees with you or maybe not, right? 9:35 Yeah it's never easy to steal camels, is it? But your banter was also funny :)

[@freilezjawa8328]

These are really bad ones

[@nvrmnd7858]

@@freilezjawa8328 this dude is getting zero coochie

[@star7wars7]

Great content, the only thing harder than getting matches is to get them to respond XD

[@RocketLR]

DUDE, I literally matched with a chick that had one wine glass in the picture with a friend. I pulled the same line but in swedish + added corona pun and BAM she responded in SECONDS x'D amazing, you get a sub xD

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Haha cheers dude!

[@stevensharpe1792]

Great video! Should do more of these as I really struggle with teasing women

[@MrNoface0]

Really good video! Practical examples are super helpful, and doesn't just have to be about tinder.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Definitely not just limited to Tinder!

[@AlexSaheli]

I died at that wine glass joke

[@LartisteSapio]

I have no idea yet if those kind of openers are going to work for me but as I am being creative in such a way on an dating app right now, I am having a great time writing them! Making myself laugh and being flirty! 😆 Thanks for the inspiration.

[@Mr190093]

For the girl with the wine and pool cue. I'm curious about whether this line is any good or not: "A lady prepared for all situations. Ready for either a victory toast or to beat her opponents into submission with a pool cue! 😏". Any feedback for this opener? Improvements?

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Yep, I like that one, works for me!

[@emperorofthegreatunknown4394]

2:20 "Oh no! They finally caught you, we need to plan your escape!"

[@Mr190093]

Yes. Please do more. I managed to come up with a few you said (paused the video first)

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Nice work

[@DanielPaprocki]

Even if some of this lines aren't funny they are original and much better than ordinary "hi" 🤷🏻‍♂️😄😎

[@carvedouttastone]

wrong - field tested openers for years. "hi ...." is consistently my best opener for responses.

[@realfan91]

@@carvedouttastone you joking🤣

[@the-octagon]

Wow! You are a natural to be able to freestyle like that. More videos like these!

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Cheers Brian

[@patriceparent8673]

fuzzy sweater girl: I thought sheep were herbivores.

[@GhullieUser]

start with an insult, good plan xD

[@yellowlightingbolt]

- Do you like chicken? -yes - wing or leg? ... ALWAYS works, thanks 😂

[@acidhauss7018]

@9:44 I'd say something like "On our first date, can you bring the crazy headscarfed moustached man to be our drinks server"

[@KatzeArtemis]

great lines, especially the gun one. the elephant one could be percieved in a negative way. she might think you actually think she's maltreating that elephant. then she'd just delete the match, or wanna start a fight with you

[@carvedouttastone]

11:00 - c'mon man, the correct opener for this one is "Hey, how about a kanga-root?" laughter emoji.

[@LK56835]

whats a Kanga-root? sorry but I really want to know

[@SeanGoresht]

6:21, try this opener: "Do you always do yoga with your dogs? I always wondered what the downward dog would look like with two dogs at the same time."

[@ItsMoneyMakingMitch]

These were so funny! I'm supisingly impressed Gonna try to observe the principal behind them to implement

[@mazentabbara3321]

They're all cocky&funny openers, I love them. I've been trying to get these kinds of openers out of my mouth for a long period of time now but can't seem to find any. I do have a talent for the follow up messages since I am a really confident dude but I still have problems with making creative cocky&funny openers. Could you help me on this matter or redirect me towards some material that will help me 10X my creativity in teasing women ?

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Hey Mouza, it's really about practice honestly - you just sit and stare at profiles and brainstorm. like.. if you brainstormed openers for 20 minute a day - a solid 20 minutes - then after a week or two, you 'd be starting to come up with really good one of your own.

[@spitfire929]

one other thing, i often run into close up pictures vith just their face pretty much nothing to see in the background. How would you open those?

[@ashd5349]

Those are bots

[@bandolero7970]

I recently made a fake profile on tinder. I used pictures of a handsome guy. The bottom line is: if you're not handsome and/or not fit, give up the tinder.

[@ericp1470]

un bandolero donde voy lol you chump, just get fit instead!!

[@augustlavdal6187]

Dang, you got good lines.

[@spitfire929]

ok, i couldn't come with an opener but everything i knew it involved the things that you pointed out, like for the wine or the runner etc

[@alzdsz]

Hey man I've stopped swiping and started watching your videos and I have to say I'm loving this more than swiping but tinder has just turned into shit along these years 😆

[@CarloRizzante]

This video is gold, thanks for sharing!

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

You're welcome Carlo, I'll make another one again soon

[@disaffectedmale]

Am I missing something? You can't message until you match or is that just UK? Your tinder screen looks different to mine....???

[@acidhauss7018]

@7:50 Id probably make a pun saying "My mate told me theres some nice looking birds on hinge, I didnt know this is what he meant" more UK focused though

[@matthutchins2032]

The gun girl and pool girl are the same person 😛 I got some good ideas from this video, thanks mate!!

[@Highflyer25800]

I got 40 matches in 3 days and lost all of them because I can’t talk to women. Looks are not everything....

[@elliotkouame3849]

Great stuff. Really useful.

[@charlotteai2818]

If I was the girl in black I'd probably respond with "its black, for the funeral they had for your sense of humour."

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

and then I'd have fun with it and say "Oh no, my humour! I hope you're willing to lie when you give its eulogy and say that it will always be missed and that it was always loved! :P"

[@charlotteai2818]

@@SchoolOfAttraction yeah, totally easy- I lie to guys all the time. :D

[@kevinyancey1962]

You’re smooth af

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Cheers Kevin - not always I assure you ;)

[@JamyOats]

Damien - were these all 'front' photos? I find the vast majority of front photos are plain selfies which makes it much more difficult to come up with material. Great video btw

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Hey James, no these aren't all front photos (although most are) - Also sometimes I use something from their written profile instead - but I didn't bother with those because it's less interesting for youtube.

[@MSFTSTRIO]

@ashleighhobson isn’t an insta model btw

[@khotsomohlala1106]

Openers I'd use Girl on balcony(26 year old) - Balcony wars, I bet you that you look better/amazing on my balcony wearing that same smile but holding a glass of wine Girl with gun (30 year old) - hey, since you trying to figure all this out, is that how you planning on shooting your shot. Tell me what you think

[@marvinabt4964]

if you see a photo of someone on a mountain or on a balkony you could say glad to see you're not scared of heights cause then you wont be scared when you're on top of me cause Im so tall.

[@raffyoei6647]

“This girl has got a little bit of meat on her”😂😂😂

[@stevesquad7110]

Damian I liked how you made it s challenge for me viewing to, to come up with some ideas

[@kelfablob9823]

more of these kind of videos please

[@tipat00]

Damien sometimes girls have ridiculous first picture only because they left the setting at favorite picture. Tinder just try different pictures from your profile and keep fist the one that gets you the most like. Well in theory...

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

I don't know about women - but for men, that feature doesn't actually appear to work anymore

[@izak7779]

This was legendary, very helpful, I laughed so much. Thank you sir, please make more like these

[@firdauszainal8981]

We have an opener .. now we just need a middle game .. how to keep the conversation running.. still be funny and sarcastic through the whole chat or what .. come on i need to know

[@patriceparent8673]

Two girls one glass of wine: Quick question.... Do both siamese twins feel tipsy when one drinks?

[@Serafin0707]

For the girl with the gun I'd say "1v1 me bro! May the best quick scoper win!"

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

She probably wouldn't get it, which would be a huge waste of a good line :P

[@SecretSickle89]

I don’t understand why the match rate is so bloody low on Tinder. I’ve swiped hundreds of girls and only have 27 matches, and out of the 27 maybe 5-7 will respond. Is there any point using Tinder in this day and age?

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

The difficult part of Tidner is having a profile that gets matches, that takes a while to master - it's like online advertising - most online ads you se dont' get very good clicks at all - it takes lots of trail and error to find a profile (advertisement) that people will click on.

[@realfan91]

I swiped hundreds and got two matches. What are you smoking🤣

[@benjaminmcgrand5961]

Your actions have angered the wine gods.

[@brutalbrainwash]

Good ones

[@gsg6667]

Does that apple offset the , health restrictions of the wine youre about to consume? :p Yeah man love these, theyre cheesy but yeah best way to get a girl to talk is to tease her a bit, bust her balls. Used to go to POF birds who've viewed my profile saying , "arent you just a regular variety stalker, perve and go, dont have time to say hello? :p" Worked luke 20% of the time .

[@ajg9937]

Good video idea

[@patriceparent8673]

Gun girl... What did you do to the last guy who insulted your ugly plaid shirt?

[@OddDude21]

I mean, youre attractive so of course the resond to you

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

The important point is that if I just write "Hey how are you?" the number of women who respond ot me drops by somewhere between a factor of 2x and 3x fewer.

[@Aslam2012ful]

Do more of these

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Cheers Ahmed, based on feedback I will be doing some more!

[@patriceparent8673]

Poor lonely glass of wine.. You abandoned her. My lips will steal her away from you.

[@jimmyhart5155]

These have the right idea but are Low quality, key is to be more genuine

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Interestingly you may be right now - Meaning expectations are rapidly changing on online dating - when this hvideo was made, these openers worked gangbusters - but even myself now I've been slowly changing my openers to keep up with the shifts in what women are wanting.

[@jimmyhart5155]

@@SchoolOfAttraction sorry didn’t mean to be hating, good point though and good video!

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Not at all dude - that's why I conceded things are changing

[@patriceparent8673]

Surfing girl: If a dolphin jumps between your legs... I swear i'll marry you right now.

[@GooSoldier]

daaaamn you are good

[@xavierquinonez9883]

Girls in America would not go for this, at least the defiantly not the pretty ones in the Bay Area. Maybe well off white girls, but that’s about it

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Haha you just started off very wide, and narrowed down super-quickly - I've done this in many cities around USA with many very attractive girls - definitely not just white or well off. I'm sure it wont' work on all girls, but I want girls who match my sense of humor. These work extremely well for me, I get a far higher response rate than almost anyone else with these - so I'll keep using them.

[@squarepeg9484]

Fuck knows how I stumbled upon this page, but when he said ‘openers’ I imagined a tin opener or a key. Dating sites sound like the cesspit of hell, I’d say ‘Do not, I repeat, do not, go into the cesspits of hell’. Why are you going on dating sites to speak to someone who lives around the corner or a mile away ffs. Get outside in the real world for that shit. I pity young folks these days, it all sounds awful. 😝 I saw the film ‘Catfish’ years ago, it must be worse on dating sites now 😬

[@cr0wnnoize808]

Works

[@patriceparent8673]

Girl on balcony: An elegant dress for the neighboors.. A sexy leg just for me. You're so sneaky.

[@patriceparent8673]

Hello Mr camel... Hurry.. Bring the pretty lady to Canada. We have a DATE ! ! !

[@NewWorldHacker]

Don't like the music 😅

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Lol, you're the only one who has complained and so far music = longer watch times for people, sorry :P

[@twiggysmalls7539]

3:58 should’ve said “DON’T JUMP, DON’T JUMP”

[@starraider25]

Super! I can do cringe comments

[@maxsmith6958]

You do a really bad job of blurring their faces cuz I can still pretty clearly see them lol

[@patriceparent8673]

Hi pool shark. Gonna take advantage of me with the booze or the pool cue.

[@MrFrobbo]

Damien - having been using a selection of online dating sites over a period of years these have to be the most cringeworthy openers I've ever heard, mate, I'm seriously worried about all of them and wether you're actually experienced. Totally agree that teasing is a successful opening style but many of your examples would offend Tinder women or come across as 'dad' lines. I would recommend comedy rather than cringe! Or pick out something she's wearing and tease, but never tease something about her features, that's a big NO NO. My simple line is 'Hello trouble' it's that's easy, response rate is around 85%, but critically the weighting is on your primary profile photo, that's where Damien's advice is second to none! Guys, steer clear of these cringeworthy openers.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

DUDE! Women love the corny tease openers, just be willing to try them man, you'll be pleasantly surprised.

[@MrFrobbo]

@@SchoolOfAttraction I understand you're protecting your interests but they are cringeworthy and in my many years experience in the UK are not attractive to women. A man is setting himself up with this sort of initialisation, often then fails at the next 3 messages and likely ghosted or sidelined/friendzonned for validation as a result. I understand I'm looking through a man's lens but let's see some real evidence that examples in this video work, now that would be interesting!

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

MrFrobbo - I can show you literally 1000s of conversations where women have responded really well to these openers. Also, you know 100s of clients I've worked directly with who have also had 1000s of conversations. If it didn't work, I'd just teach a different strategy. I've been in this game for over a decade bud. But you do you - if you have a different strategy that works for you, more power to you. Just never assume yours is the only strategy that will work

[@alsatian1266]

As a woman I need to admit, it did exactly what he intended. Made me smile and had the effect, that i wanted to answer this tease. They are very cringy, but they are also just openers, if the follow up fits, it works (in my eyes) quite nicely. But true, if the following messages fail, a decent opener wont help you. If someone would write "Hello Trouble" and nothing else, i would roll my eyes and never answer. There is no real need to answer. But ofcourse, thats just my personal opinion, and every woman as well as man is different.

[@patriceparent8673]

bird... If i open your cage and walk away... Will my birdy fly away?

[@modustrollens4806]

Is it normal to take a long time to come up with a joke about the pics?😅 im having a hard time over here lmao

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Haha - it is for most guys in the beginning yeah... Your brain is trying to work in a way it never has before... it will get faster though -and the skill is so usfeul for actual dates, or cold approaching

[@patriceparent8673]

blanket balcony girl... Did you sleep in the balcony waiting for me to pull up? I slept in my car waiting for you to come down.

[@aaronlward]

Please never use these tips they are beyond cringe. Also you should use their bio as material not just the first image

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Why not use them? They work incredibly well! Not just with my own profile, but with 1000s of clients. It's not really up for debate... You don't HAVE to open like this, but it does work very effectively

[@alsatian1266]

As a woman I need to admit, it did exactly what he intended. Made me smile and had the effect, that i wanted to answer this tease. They are very cringy, but they are also just openers, if the follow up fits, it works (in my eyes) quite nicely.

[@dimitrikorsakov2570]

If this is cringe, what would your openers be for some of these girls?

[@patriceparent8673]

girl with two dogs...... So much clevage on your dog's face. Cant stop looking at it.