Secrets Women Don't Want Men To Know

TOP SECRET! There are some things that women just don't tell men... But today, the cat is out of the bag. These are secrets that women keep because they don't know how to tell you or are too afraid to... but the time has come to let you in on this information. In this video, sex and relationship Coach Caitlin V lets you in on the biggest SECRETS WOMEN KEEP... And she doesn't hold back. 💋LEGENDARY LOVER: SHE COMES TOO COURSE | Be the Best She's Ever Had💋
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[@prtrice2003]

There aren't too many women nowadays that take men's delicate egos and feelings into consideration. Most women's tongues are razor-sharp

[@zefult]

I like how she says "if you've been laying the pipe the same way for years you need to change it up for her to reach climax" well my advice to women on that is " stop laying there expecting men to be mind readers & do all the work" trust me we men get bored laying pipe in the same ole boring hole as well.

[@user-of9go8yc2d]

Yeap

[@bennyh4950]

This.

[@23xXDMANXx32]

thank you sir🤘

[@ballbuster4317]

So in other words....women are high maintenence and men are simple....yeah we know that already..

[@FlyingFun.]

Honestly they are not worth the effort imho, we put everything into a relationship, our money our time , constantly trying to be the best we can be and yet if we make ONE mistake or lack in one area a woman will jump on that. Meanwhile they do NOTHING and expect us to be fine with that, A women I've known might make an effort for the first year or so and then it's like they think they then own us and can just stop bothering and just boss us around. Imho its women who need coaching now not men, we are quite happy without them and their drama. I'll add that I'm married and have a daughter, my wife knows how I feel and we stay married out of mutual respect and love but there is no effort in the bedroom and hasn't been for many years, sex is not everything but it's pretty difficult to have a married without it if I'm honest.

[@judyperri9496]

@@FlyingFun. Your bad attitude is a good part of your problem

[@FlyingFun.]

@@judyperri9496 you know nothing about me, my marriage, the sacrifices I've made, the pain I've suffered not just in marriage or my attitude , never get personal on KZbin comments, have discussions about attitudes in general definitely but never get personal. One big reason is you never know how fragile someone might be, one comment like that could push someone over the edge, people commit suicide all the time, Always think before commenting , if what you are saying is not constructive then dont bother. But we all have to learn , we grow with experience, I'm just pointing out the general attitude of women ( or girls) is pretty childish selfish and self defeating. Men are supposed to be simple and we are easy to please yet women cant be bothered to fulfil those simple needs yet expect men to fulfill their ridiculous demands and wonder why men are walking away.

[@scottvoss9023]

@Judy Perri It is your attitude, the same attitude many women have, that is the problem. Why should men be held responsible for learning all things that women need for a relationship to work, but the same is not expected of women learning what men need? I put effort into my relationship every day; help with the kids, clean up the house, do the laundry, be flirtatious with my wife, letting her know she is sexy and beautiful, a simple card to put a smile on her face, surprising her with flowers or inpromptu dinner and drinks out, listen to her about her day and her fristrations. However, many days, I feel like there has been no effort on her part to meet my needs.

[@easypeezie4494]

@@FlyingFun. buddy, if that comment makes you feel suicidal, please go talk to someone. I think it’s more likely that you are gaslighting that lady for her very true comment. I’d bet you do something similar in your female relationships. Take some ownership. If your in a bad relationship, you’re partly to blame. I’ve NEVER seen a failing relationship that was all the fault of one person. It takes two to make a relationship good or bad. Sounds like you’ve got some maturing to do. I don’t mean it nasty, just honest.

[@karthekeyanperiyasamy3093]

I am just tired of hearing men only like to thrust, teach women also to take care of men. All channels and videos only lecture us and we know now enough and we can learn, on the other hand, no women try to even ask, they assume men are machines, which is not true always.

[@emale03]

Women,many times, brings out the rage in men: women are not saints

[@jamescox1805]

Somehow they think we need to introduce new things in the bedroom despite never saying out right what they want, because they don't know what they want. Yet they never introduce anything new. Imagine that.

[@jamescox1805]

@Jeffrey Henderson no because God has nothing to do with it or anything because God doesn't exist but you can get a 'yes sir'

[@amandasmith8108]

@@jamescox1805 I think it falls to communication. I think having a frank conversation about what each person wants or enjoys...or not should never take place during sex...other than to encourage! It would be so great if everyone could be brave enough, and gentle and kind enough, to have that conversation out of the bedroom. Imagine how mindblowing the sex could be...for both...just through TALKING! 🤷‍♀️

[@amandasmith8108]

@@emale03 No. We're not. But most of us don't want to be on the receiving end of a fist for having the temerity to express an opinion. And in this case, an opinion ion which, through a full and frank, no judgement conversation, could make bedroom time absolutely bloody awesome for both. TALK!! 🤷‍♀️

[@stevegrady5134]

To be fair Caitlyn, female-on-male domestic violence also exists and is very underreported due to 1) embarrassment and stigma on the part of the man and 2) the societal tendency to view female-on-male physical lashing out as being somehow ‘lesser’ or ‘not really counting’.

[@todds.6028]

Women only care about the aspects of "equality" that benefit them or paint them in a flattering light.

[@Misdirect]

as a man who had a voilent partner, I agree with you. I didnt report it and I didnt talk it over with anyone. I work in construction and ive heard who people laugh at men who "cant control" their woman. This is the first caitlin V video I felt bad watching.

[@x-man5056]

@@Misdirect My former wife put her biggest ring on her right hand an sucker punched me, laid my eyebrow open. Then jumped in her car, pulled some of her hair out and ran into an emergency room claiming I beat her. Fortunately, I had already called the sheriff, deputy showed and noted the gash in my eyebrow, then located her. He was smart enough to know that a woman being beaten is not going to stop and grab hair up from the floor and drive to the hospital with it in her hand. She was Borderline Personality Disorder nut job. So glad she lives on other side of the country now.

[@kris_a.griffin8699]

There can be an equal librium also looking to be sewtout, desiring the physical aggression to be recipocated...? Every situations needs to be put on a coin, flipped and turned in full 360° and looked at from every possibility, having more communication, that's key! There's flex & a reflex as well as being flexible.

[@stevegrady5134]

@@x-man5056 I’m glad that the sheriff’s department used some discernment in your case. So many guys tell of being hit repeatedly by a woman, calling the police and then being arrested themselves largely due to officers arresting men almost out of habit when responding to any sort of domestic call.

[@michaelvanmastrigt7591]

Thank you for reminding us that women tend to be overly and unnecessarily complicated on every level 😎😎

[@tbyrde53]

No wonder we give up, there’s no hope of pleasing a woman. I’m having fruit loops and call it a day

[@bashirjohnson4120]

SO TRUE! 😊

[@Godbois-ts8jg]

So good my man. seriously.

[@therealtulip]

I really feel sorry for men who watch these sex advice videos, and instead of taking notes and trying to learn as much as they can, just get sulky and decide to give up. On the other hand, the world is already overpopulated as it is. 😅🤷🏻‍♀️

[@tbyrde53]

⁠@@therealtulipI’m hardly sulking, I’m having FruitLoops and enjoying all the comments!! Have a blessed day !

[@eleveneleven572]

This is pure gold. All men should see this...and avoid women. All about what we need to do for them but nothing about what women must do for men.

[@disaffectedmale]

FACTS.

[@ThatGuy-rb5yw]

Yikes! And facts! 😂

[@leosanchez2309]

Amen brother!! Amen!!!

[@kbanghart]

@@leosanchez2309 haha I found the incels

[@calvinpowell6662]

​@@kbanghartfr there are so many incells in this comment section and it's honestly sad because instead of putting in the effort to make your girlfriend have a lovely sex life, they'd rather just be lazy and jack off the porn

[@assplundah]

So, it’s all the man’s “fault”?! Even if we are the “Christian Grey” type guy who actually does fulfill the woman’s “wildest fantasies”? We then, of course, actually DO fall in love with that woman & by doing so, we become “unattractive” to her & she ends up despising us?🤷‍♂️ Make up your minds girls! And stop complaining that there are no decent men out there!

[@scottmghill]

What he said. SO TRUE.

[@thomasgrzybowski3420]

Uh

[@Private-GtngxNMBKvYzXyPq]

Men aren’t unable to understand their own feelings and emotions, they are just experienced enough in life to not disclose information that is inevitably weaponized against them. The fact that most men are evolved enough to process and regulate their emotions is something that many women seem to have a complete blind spot about. Respectfully submitted.

[@dreday77764]

Agreed. It all comes down to emotional intelligence. Something A LOT of women lack.

[@aaroncobb5581]

I already got a full time job and other relationships with friends and family that are plenty of work without requiring all this extra stuff. Looks like I'm staying single lol. Good luck everyone!

[@freespirit369-nb4jf]

I am willing to do whatever a woman wants if they would just be open and honest. With both people!

[@davidwinet5607]

Haha. Good luck with that!

[@freespirit369-nb4jf]

@@davidwinet5607 I know I can at least dream lol

[@sonyafeeney9190]

You just haven’t met the right woman. I have yet to find a man that is willing to listen to me be open and honest!

[@richardhahlani9855]

​@@sonyafeeney9190hi sonya

[@Coyote-wm5op]

#1 is exactly why you don’t share information with women that you don’t want others to know

[@bigglyguy8429]

Yeah, we're always being told to "open up" but we know doing so means we're opening up to all her friends, and her friends, just for their own egos, will always side on 'dump his ass' for pretty much ANYTHING. She could say you confessed to (insert absolutely anything here) and they'll tell her it's ground for divorce. Women hate each other and love to create drama for entertainment.

[@Mounty621]

I’ve been married to the same woman 33 years. It has been an odyssey of emotions and working through problems over the years. Finding a doctor to get her hormones balanced has been a miracle cure and opened up a lot of avenues, but she still has trouble communicating what she likes or wants to “change it up” and keep it fun for both of us. For her “vanilla” works most every time. I still live by the motto “ladies first,” even in the bedroom. Although, sometimes I know when I lose her mentally and emotionally during intimacy because it is manifested physically. Great list, Caitlyn, but it definitely doesn’t all hold true for all women as you said.

[@stephenbreed5186]

I agree!!

[@Markus_Pis]

33 years with the same woman? You must be aiming for the "Saint of the Year" award...

[@Mounty621]

@@Markus_Pis Cheaper to keep her . . .

[@j.a.6866]

What was the process for her hormone therapy? What did she need? How did it change her after the fact?

[@Mounty621]

@@j.a.6866 Same as for me. Went to a bio-identical hormone doctor, got blood tests to confirm hormone and blood levels, and then subcutaneous pellet insertion via a 1/4" incision and a trocar. Changes were in the fact that she actually had a libido again. She also received some estrogen via bio identical pellets, which assisted with lubrication in her vaginal lining. It can be a bit expensive, but it was well worth it, in my opinion.

[@brandonhiggins1394]

Men Rule #1- Every Woman is Different. Talk to your Partner and ask her what she likes. Period!!!

[@jamespaterick5784]

You are , as usual 💯 percent correct. I'm currently working on myself to communicate better.

[@route779]

Women also must remember to put in the work themselves. I listen to my friends and they always leave it up to men to do most of work if not all the work, mentally, emotionally, and physically, when it comes to the bedroom. Men put in more effort in the bedroom.

[@Inate8]

Men put in 90% of the work in the bedroom most of the time. Women think they are something special and deserve ALL the work to get with. Nah... Take some accountability women.

[@flash_flood_area]

I had to initiate with my ex about 90% of the time. That went on for 16 yrs. I also put in the majority of the effort in bed. Not every couple fits your experience.

[@jasonhickman252]

One of the most honest discussion of women ever. And from a woman. Kudos.

[@steveroberts728]

I absolutely hate when women say “tell me you fantasies” or something similar. Any man who is stupid enough to give any information, knows that all her friends, fitness instructor, cousins, nail technician, sisters, her hairdresser, business colleagues, the doctors receptionist, her pilates coach, PTA, soccer Mums, neighbours, the baby sitter, sorority sisters and probably her mother let alone all her social media platforms, will know all your intimate details with 24 hours. Just look for the smirks, giggles, rolling eyes and more smirks next time you meet one of the above. Worse is the tutting and shaking of the head and raised eyebrows. You just know she has broken the bedroom secrets rule. Never, ever, ever, ever tell a woman anything you don’t want the whole world to know about in graphic, colour, 3-D , wide screen, Dolby sound detail.

[@bigglyguy8429]

True, and they don't just tell, they ask for opinions and women love to undermine other women's relationships, so the opinion is always negative, recommending she dumps you. Always. It's best to never, EVER give them anything like that to talk about.

[@flash_flood_area]

I never talked about what my partner was like in the bedroom, not with anyone.

[@Markus_Pis]

That's not 100% true. They only tell the things you don't want others to know. I had a couple of women who were impressed by me. I would have loved them to tell that to all their friends, but it didn't happen! 🤣

[@PeterL7531]

SO much stress, pressure, and anxiety. I will stay single and unattached. That way no one is disappointed.

[@Turnpost2552]

Except yourself. Look, sex doesnt have to be that important.

[@randysurline4651]

Someone out there feels the same. Make it your job and save 'em champ

[@joepeters3552]

Hi Caitlin! I've always thought and been told in the past that I was a good lover, but you have helped me step up my game! I enjoy and appreciate your insightful videos. It's important to me to be able to satisfy my lover and meet all of her needs. Although I do agree with Marion's comments. I do my best to please my girlfriend and be everything that she needs me to be, but it can be a full-time job. I do wish the woman would take as much time and effort that some men put into making sure our women are satisfied. That being said, Thank you again, I think you're awesome!

[@jimson1969]

My wife and I have been married for over 30 years. I love her, but a huge problem is her inability to "keep things spicy". It's always up to me, and I'm done. If she can't contribute, then she doesn't want it that bad. Sorry, not sorry.

[@ryanclark6988]

Same boat my man. After 15 yrs, I quit too. Not worth the worry or energy anymore. 😢

[@gkauto1959]

@@ryanclark6988 And this is why they divorce us and come out ahead EVERY TIME! They are rewarded for tossing us economically and wonder why we arent marrying them anymore? Marriage is now such a deadly risk we are out and since they actually need it to grasp economic advantage women have now made it impossible for themselves to get ahead once all the men wake the fuck up. You young guys reading this see all the heartache? protect yourself and NEVER MARRY!!

[@JB-fg9jo]

OMG in the same boat 😅

[@armyparrot9353]

That is sad. I personally love being with one woman. What is important is for us to keep an open mind, toys, and have fantasies and if the relationship is amazing maybe the occasional alternative lifestyle. Ester Perel talk about the demise of sexuality in a couple especially in women through time. Women want a story and mystery....so is hard when a woman see a man each day. I personally never had that problem as long as kink was talk about. I have a girlfriend and it is already going down after 8 months! She started school + work....

[@nickpersenaire4443]

Same boat, each partner should contribute equally.

[@kingleo1128]

It's is always up to the man to know what women want and how to satisfy them regardless of how different each one of them are and how they change on an hourly basis. Men are simple. If you love us the way we are today, then love us the way we are tomorrow. We don't change the way we are every other day. If a woman remains true to the relationship, we'll love her more ten years later as we did from the first day. Women should stop raising the bar to unachievable heights that men just can't reach. They may find that they have a whole lot better relationship when they put men more on an equal ground as opposed to getting men to change to how women think they should be on Monday, Wednesday, or Saturday.

[@afveteran]

Caitlin.. well said and appreciated. Thank you.

[@psmith4491]

Wow! If only I'd found your site, 50 years ago! You are a great teacher, thank you.

[@rogerwilliams5366]

You are a great communicator, Caitlin. And funny, too 😊

[@juliodefreitas157]

Thank you for sharing your video Caitlin ❤❤

[@SoloBattles]

Even without being told, after 35 years of marriage, I can definitely agree with everything you say. It might seem overwhelming for those who want simple instructions and a yes/no format, but of course, you are describing all woman, a broad topic ;-) It's also nice to hear after 35 years, I might have figured a few things out! One thing I would add, is that over time, as the newness wears off, true intimacy replaces it. As much as I might thrill to the fantasy of a different lover, I know that I would miss the true intimacy that time creates. "You and I," would replace "us." Rather than meeting a friend, I would find a stranger. Possibly exciting, but ultimately tedious, having to start all over again.

[@montezuumah]

She's speaking from a h03s perspective.. not all women are so hard to please/understand, just the ones who have had astronomical amounts of men, because they lack loyalty and are unable to truly bond with one man

[@edmoran869]

True

[@CJamesO75]

I really enjoyed this video. Caitlyn comes across like a best friend giving me the lowdown on it all.

[@davidcliatt1314]

I have watched around 5 of your videos this morning ( I wasn't really counting). I was enjoying hearing about what was doing correctly and enjoying even more hearing about what I could be doing that I haven't thought about doing yet😊.

[@DefendAtlantis81]

-Wow, this was incredibly enlightening. Thanks Caitlin!

[@larryfulkerson4505]

There should be a class in high school that teaches how to improve relationships and how to deal with emotional issues. There should also be a class in high school about marriage. Some people shouldn't get married by the way.

[@rfrancoi]

100%

[@williamcrowley5506]

Not going to happen any time soon, would be labeled as "woke" and attacked

[@kennethmabus381]

Definitely some people shouldn't get married.

[@bige2012]

it’s not public educators job ti teach this- it’s up to the parents, to gasp, teach live to their kids!!! smh

[@williamcrowley5506]

@@bige2012 let us know when parents actually have the correct information and then we can talk.

[@hustleboy562]

Thanks Caitlin V for the tips. The relationship with my partner has gotten a lot better now that we have began to communicate and talk about what she likes and what I like. And I do have to agree with you she was shy at first to tell me. But overall it’s gotten better still working to make it better but gotta start somewhere. Love your vids by the way

[@HandsomeGrim6969]

You're on point, thanks for this video.

[@user-ks5ls1yc1b]

Great job. Love your podcast and going after great subjects

[@wilmathews6810]

OMG! You are too funny... and spot on... thank you so much for taking the time to explain things... The way you explain things makes it very easy to understand... I can tell you that as I study...and watch and learn... I am becoming a much better lover and partner... Thank you for being a part of that!!!

[@davidart0128]

Yeah! LOVE your vibe in this channel, Caitlin! Keep doing what you do! Your insight is very enlightening and intuitive! I had a toxic marriage where I was never allowed to penetrate my ex-wife, which took a huge hit to my confidence in the bedroom. You help me with my confidence in being with a woman with your knowledge!

[@smiles7631]

A wise young man once told me to never try to please women. Just enjoy and love women.

[@hoosierdaddie5177]

Thank you so much Caitlin!

[@riproar11]

I'm well above average size and have never received complaints, only compliments. Any woman who saw mine, I could tell from her friends' treatment towards me during introductions, that they were all informed about me.

[@theprolific5269]

Women who get bored and everyone gets bored in the bedroom time to time a woman getting bored in the bedroom chances are her body count is too high and that is the detriment of sleeping around because you get to a point where you're never satisfied with your experience. And instead of looking at your partner as a human that you're sharing a sexual loving intimate Relationship with you're just looking at them as sexual experience. Which both being addicted to porn and promiscuity creates it really devalues the commitment that sex deserves

[@jeffgagen3561]

Caitlin, this is the best. 10 thumbs up. Most these I've know, the thing is you have just let me know the simple thing, "Ask the lady what she want & how to make her insanely happy." The woman can always please me by just being there & being with each other.

[@ifeanyiidam6508]

Thanks Caitlin for your insightful lectures.

[@mickeybonejelly]

Hi Caitlyn, thank you so much for this super helpful and honest video.

[@CaitlinV]

You're welcome!

[@matthewpride179]

MERCI BEAUCOUP Caitlin... this video content was eye opening and learn so much. Keep providing great content here. *chef's kiss*

[@zenchoctaw]

You give me more confidence with your facts debunking some myths about size of members. I'm not so stressed now.

[@sacred_alchemy]

I love you!!!!!!! I laughed out loud x 5-6 times ❤❤❤

[@paulthomas3015]

I’ve been told I’m big down there even though I don’t think so. Why do women get carried away and then complain about being sore later. I like to go slow and enjoy the journey. If I’m too much let’s take it easy and it doesn’t have to go in all the way. Honesty is key in and out of the bedroom. Thank you for your advice.

[@reyrainer6332]

Another fantastic video and numerous fantastic tips. It's tough to figure what is right for women, because, as you say, women change all the time, their bodies, their mentality. There's an old saying - men marry women thinking they'll never change, but they do; women marry men thinking they'll change, but they don't. A generalization of course, but often enough true. Both men and women need to get this kind of advice and open themselves up to the changes we want.

[@byroncharles]

Thanks for the honesty

[@markhammock5623]

I have not had such amazing advice since I worked as a male black tie escort in 1976 and 77 being taught by the women in Gypsy Rose Lee trailer park. Spot on info. I’m impressed

[@disaffectedmale]

To be quite honest I'd sooner go without completely than have to remember a laundry list of expectations. Nearly 4 years voluntarily celibate now. I just can't be bothered being apparently wrong or lacking in some way all the time any more. I'm 49 and have completely retired from trying to please women. It's like trying to ice skate up a hill.

[@Swearengen1980]

It's really not that difficult. Most of what she's saying you should have known by your mid to late 20s. It's literally as simple as showing interest, knowing the female anatomy, being very observant to her body language (before, during, and after) and adjusting accordingly. They're pretty simple concepts. Something she didn't mention - If you're not sure or you're overwhelmed because you're clueless: Just ask her. On the rare occasion I've had to ask what does it for her, I ask her to show me what works for her. She puts on a show, you learn what she wants if you didn't figure it out. Put the ego and insecurity aside and put the work in.

[@disaffectedmale]

@@Swearengen1980 And what's in it for me? Really? A financial drain, restrictions on my movements, sharing my house, having to justify this and that like she's some kind of royalty while she does whatever she pleases and claiming controlling behaviour if I have anything to say about that. I learned plenty in my 20 year marriage, and the main thing I learned, whatever you do, say or give, is that it's never enough Nah man, I'm out. I simply don't care what they want anymore. I'd rather be on my own and just please myself, too old for all that noise.

[@Swearengen1980]

@@disaffectedmale And there it is. You had a bad experience for 1 woman and you project all of that onto every other woman. There are an awful lot of women who are not the narcissist that you describe. You're broken and just scared of getting hurt again. You need therapy. But hey, if you're fine going through life angry and bitter at all woman just because your marriage sucked. My ex wife wasn't much different. She didn't care what I wanted, she refused to get a job after the kid was old enough. Shit, I pay a good chunk of child support despite having my kid over 50% of the time while she now has a job and lives for free in a family member's home. I know what that anger and resentment does to someone and it greatly contributed to the heavily alcoholic years I had after the divorce. Then I woke the hell up, got help, and I still see a therapist regularly. And as a result, I've dated some good women. It didn't ultimately work out, but they were good people. If an angry, hateful, miserable alcoholic like me who was content on drinking myself to death in my free time can get my life together and do a 180, anybody can. Of course that will never happen if you don't stop this woe-is-me, self pity, bullshit. Even if you wanted a woman, they'd run like hell at the first hint of that mentality. But hey, if you want to die alone and miserable because you can't get over your ex wife F'n you over, well good luck with that.

[@WendyW7508]

@@Swearengen1980 Beautifully put. 🤗

[@disaffectedmale]

@@Swearengen1980 Well, that's okay then because I don't want a woman. If you think a couple of paragraphs is going to undo the rightful dislike I now have for women then you're madder than they are. Unlike most things they get handed to them for simply existing, they actually earned my distrust and contempt. I'd sooner cover myself in gravy and jump into a crocodile infested pit than deal with another one. It's inherently safer and considerably less painful. At least the crocodiles wants and needs would be honest, crystal clear and wouldn't change every five minutes depending on it's mood. I'm cool with being on my own , last year I bought a really, really fast brand new motorcycle without having to justify spending my own money to some self appointed female overlord. I quit my job in June and never got nagged about being a deadbeat because my available cash to spend on HER was impacted. I spend as much time as I like playing video games as I want, without having to endure the Fem-police pulling faces and making disapproving comments. I don't have to constantly entertain a permanently switched on attention vaccum cleaner. I don't have to spend money on dates, flowers, clothes and lavish gifts every time she feels she needs to be rewarded for breathing in and out. I don't have to share my house with someone determined to erase any of my identity or personality from the surroundings. My house is like a giant man cave, it's awesome, electric guitars, a HUGE 4k TV with PS5, motorcycling and sci-fi and movie memorabilia everywhere I want to put it, a colour scheme that doesn't resemble a make up sampler, beer fridge, a freezer stocked with things I like to eat. If I want a loyal companion, I'll buy a dog, unlike women and despite a canine brain being about the size of a walnut they actually understand the concepts of loyalty, honesty and gratefulness. All of which are frankly beyond the majority of women out there. I'm not sifting through any more garbage looking for a diamond, it's a waste of my time, emotions and energy. I've got twenty or so years left of good health left before old age kicks in properly. Those years are for me to enjoy not to be spent on a never ending treadmill with the speed gradually being turned up by a woman who can't be satisfied with what she has. I thank god I never impregnated the last one and have no children, it's meant I never have to speak to her, or put up with her demands ever again. That's my payoff for 20 years of busting my buns trying to please the unpleasable.

[@whitewolf6730]

I have found out a lot of that stuff just by paying attention! Thanks for giving us the insights, nothing surprised me!

[@SuperProwler1]

Thank you for all of this. Most guys don’t know this stuff

[@raymondblaquiere9137]

Awesome advice as usual. Thanks

[@random33E]

There are a lot of fair points, however I think it's unfair to just go straight to us being violent if we can't control our emotions. Most of us just end up either removing ourselves from the area (ie. Go for a drive) or argue to a point where we just give up, stop talking, and ignore her.

[@matthewschafer6359]

I couldn't really pay attention to this video because I kept looking at all of those pillows on the bed. How many pillows are on that bed? How many days of a woman's life are spent solely moving pillows on and off a bed?

[@dreampedaller2113]

Years probably…

[@cryptowealthonyt]

Unbelievably good explanations. Thanks.

[@thomasadams3773]

Thanks for your work; you are a breath of fresh air and you are very appreciated.

[@dankearney1636]

I wish more women were like you, you are one special person thank you

[@CaitlinV]

Thank you, Dan!

[@allenlacy2605]

Loving ypu now.@@CaitlinV

[@alexspectre962]

Take note men: no matter how good/great you are, women are NEVER satisfied. Don't ever forget that.

[@kingleo1128]

Fact

[@anitatehrani4028]

It's your experience!

[@johnnycorn7225]

It's every man's experience, of all ages, all in agreement by the millions, on this thing called the internet. Men are learning A LOT all at once right now, that is what is "wrong" with us today. We are adapting to a situation.

[@davidwinet5607]

@@anitatehrani4028his and Brad Pitt's too. Also Tom Cruise's…

[@stevenzeluck]

very encouraging Caitlyn

[@joeanco1993]

Hi, it's me again, from one of your other videos comments. It wasn't just in the bedroom. If you can name it, we probably did. Everything from a hiking trail to a cave tour. Off the end of a boat to back of a parked motorcycle. A Hammock to the top of a forest fire tower in Eureka Springs Arkansas. Well, you get the point, 33 years, she went cold turkey and tried someone else ride... If she was bored, we could have worked something out. But trying to hide an afair from me will tear anyone's heart out... P.S. I'm an intervert. My feelings are locked up.

[@Kv-pk2st]

Be in tune with her body....yeah first woman need to learn how to communicate. We are not mind readers

[@tgsiii2179]

May I add my endorsement to many other comments below, in thanking you for explaining why any hope of establishing and maintaining a long term relationship with a woman is futile? So, your advice is to simply seek out short term, sexual encounters......and forget being able to maintain the excitement and "newness" a woman requires over time? You have generally confirmed what many of us men learned a long time ago. I don't refer to myself as "going my own way"......I've been "sent" my own way, by women's indifference.

[@jcojrDTG]

great info and so easy on the eyes😍

[@Quake476]

Your candor is refresing; some great ideas to think about.

[@damphir46]

My wife has no problem telling me when she does not get there. So we discuss what could help her there so we can make changes. So both are satisfied.

[@wertpollwert]

Communication is the key.

[@no-namecrown5510]

Men, determine early if she's for recreational use only or worth commitment... Keep it simple!

[@tristankiddie1710]

There is nothing sexier than a woman who is honest and open. We know when you are keeping secrets, and if we are really into you, those secrets will kill the relationship. So speak up before we give up. When we give up we get the blame anyway. And expecting us to keep up with all your changes is pathetic and one sided if you are not intent on us and our needs/desires in the same way. Only 1 female i have been with has really engaged with the act. The others lie there and expect me to do all the work and know all the right buttons. This is backed up by every guy i have ever spoke to or heard discuss the topic. The majority of guys would love to give the greatest performance for her and truly turn her inside-out with the rolled back eyes, arched back, and toes curled like the witch in the Wizard of Oz. But with so little engagement from the females, many of us give up really trying.

[@edmoran869]

Relationships now days are of, by, and for women. Men are largely just the bill payers anymore. Which reminded me... Are there any channels here that actually work at teaching women how to be better girlfriends and wives? Does anyone show them how to be better women in general?

[@RedSinter]

You betcha and it had very interesting rewards, especially since I didn't know she did. She left and when she moved on I had girls looking me up for years from that point in life and one finally told me about it.

[@jewman303]

That first point is why I never tell women my really important stuff and feelings. They don’t know how to keep things to themselves. It’s bad enough I get insecure that she talks to her friends about my dick and skills.

[@Inate8]

Yup, women are highly abusive towards men because they see us as inferior/trash.

[@rogerwilliams5366]

So true; been there.

[@flash_flood_area]

I have never discussed those things with my friends. I was appalled to hear a friend describing her husband and also a mutual friend that some women we know have dated. Absolutely not my style. I keep things private!

[@jasonbarkley4586]

To be honest I don't think most men get violent at all when dealing with their emotions ..I know I don't and just we are being emotional because we say you are being illogical doesn't mean then that you arent

[@matthewselman4579]

Really good advice thanks I wish I had axis to your advice when I was younger I look forward to more of your techniques and advice and trying them out

[@bobversheck2131]

Love to watch you move and and your face as you speak in that cheerful voice. Amazing!

[@maximusmeridius3380]

Ok wait, over and over again I have heard that women lament that their guys won't go down on them and now you are telling me that women don't want men to go down on them. Something smells fishy here.

[@virtuosooo]

Loved the clubbing baby seals comment lol. Caught me off guard for sure haha.

[@rogerwilliams5366]

That was funny 😂😂😂

[@jasonposte8521]

Am learning a lot thank you for your advice.

[@flashpan26]

Great video and very true

[@theprolific5269]

Yeah the main reason why men clam up when we catch feelings is because we don't want to escalate the situation because logic and emotion don't match and when a man wants to explain things And talk things through a process of resolving and understanding all women do is react to it emotionally and we feel like we're not gonna get a solution or a conclusion it usually ends in a woman Is boiling over and wanting to break up instead of resolve.

[@dredey1971]

Wow!!! Learned a lot from this video. Thanks!!

[@desidemars8201]

I always look forward to to your new videos. I was wondering if you have a recommendation for my wife for someone similar to your self but for women?

[@stephandeetlefs9875]

General context is informative. Although all woman are different - there is general similarities. Well put together 👌🏽

[@blackmcbain3145]

Thanks for telling me. I think women think men think like they do. A man don't get "hurt" or "ego bruised". That bothers me that they don't want to actually understand a man, that they want to apply their emotional fragility to a how dude thinks

[@kingedwardthenow]

The real stat is most domestic violence happens between women who co-habitat amongst other women.... not "when men can't control their emotions" 🤣. Let's keep it factual.

[@dandilion62]

Great show!!!!

[@ralphmossor3160]

Great info

[@josecortez5213]

I let go of a girlfriend because of the edited stories of hers. I wasn't nosy but the way she hid a lot of things constantly just became a huge red flag.

[@armyparrot9353]

That is so annoying it really shows intimacy will be weak. When the person cannot tell you who they are or what they like it is not love. Love I think is when both naturally feel like being vulnerable together and hence increasing connection and pleasure despite everything going on around you.

[@wendellpiuswalters1984]

Miss Caitlin V, when and how much does a woman actually take accountability for herself and her own mind? Because what I hear you mention about how women are presently; there seems to be no difference from the 1950's in the category of sex. What mentality regarding intimacy are women improving upon?

[@francisbradley1027]

I am one of the few. I can and do express my feelings and emotions. It’s called communication. I cry, laugh and many more emotions, aside from the obvious.

[@kentanderson9432]

Thank you, Caitlin.

[@CaitlinV]

You're so welcome!

[@jeffholt3841]

Every woman is different, likes different things, you have to learn to understand their bodies clues

[@studylondon5362]

Superman became Clark Kent when he opened up to Luis😂 don’t fall for it fellas

[@bbussey1967]

You're helping so much with my relationship with my Amazing Girlfriend Thank You

[@marby.]

Thank you for sharing. Some good stuff posted. Also reminded me why I took a break from relationships and dating. Loving a woman is a lot of fucking work. We have to be providers, patient and thorough lovers, romantic, spontaneous, ambitious, charming, outgoing, manly, chivalrous, caring, understanding, supportive, be open but not too open or else you'll look like a pussy and that's just to name a few and a woman can still get bored with you. There's some amazing women out there, but this shit is a full time job in which you're at risk of losing your job any day. I get there are shitty or unknowing men who need to step their shit up, but why is it always on men to be everything? Imagine if a man told his woman he was bored of their relationship. Will Smith is an accomplished and caring guy and his wife has been bored of him since before they got married. Not here to shit on women, but some women truly need to appreciate what they have. Not every man will be the Prince Charming mold that's expected of us. Some need to learn and that's okay, but we get so much pressure that's rarely acknowledged and our efforts aren't appreciated a lot of times. I miss being in a relationship sometimes, but I'm not all that broken up about being single. They take a lot out of you for sure.

[@oliguayasebesteves166]

You are 110% correct.

[@gkauto1959]

This should be required reading for all men while in a relationship or thinking about getting into one. Superb analysis of the co$t of dating and relating. Women have now made their bed and wonder why nobody wants to share it!

[@rogerwilliams5366]

A lot of good points here; and sincere, heartfelt comments

[@Pjf12]

Agree with you completely, women really do need a reality check and to do their part.

[@JAMEYSIMMS]

Not worth the trouble. No accountability, everything is our responsibility.

[@revsellers]

Yes, we men know how to describe our emotions; we know when we are hungry, when we are tired and when we are hungry. Those are the emotions we know how to describe. That being said, I don’t think it’s fair to lump every man into the statement “women get killed when men don’t know how to express themselves.” There are millions of men who treat their wives right even when she is not behaving in respectful ways, and a few hundred (which is still waiting to many) women who are abused by their man in this specific situation. TOO MANY, but it’s not across the board. In truth, far more men die because we don’t know how express ourselves than women who die because we don’t know how to deal with our emotions.

[@chrisgibson6725]

Great information

[@invi_carlos]

Your videos and delivery are amazing.

[@Mysteri0usMem0]

It feels like women “need” a lot of things… Men need things too but it seems the culture is to tailored to women for what ever reason. Maybe thats why men dont stay in committed relationships as much. We need a culture shift.

[@detroitlionsforever1]

Women tell men what they want, but women dont actually go with what they want. They do the opposite.

[@Mysteri0usMem0]

@@detroitlionsforever1 yes that is very true which is why there is a big disconnect. Both sexes need to own up to their own faults.

[@detroitlionsforever1]

@@Mysteri0usMem0 you're right. It's us as the man to ask the better questions and the women to answer them. Plain and simple.