Seeing Two Surgeons At Hospital | Cancer & Vlogmas DAY 6

[@tiffanythinks]

Happy Vlogmas Day 6 - initially I just wanted to get the surgery done and not meet the surgeons but now I completely get why seeing and meeting them is so important. It’s so important to understand what they’re doing & how it’ll impact my life. I know it’s a big surgery but I also know I am the luckiest girl with so much support so I will get through it🙏 thank you for being part of my life - i love you a lot a lot a lot my tiffanythinks family, we got this💙 IG, FB & TikTok: @tiffanythinks. Subscribe💙

[@sherrybettencourt8424]

💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏WE GOT THIS 💙Thinking and prayers & Love sent to you Tiffany. ❤️❤️From Canada,🇨🇦

[@attainingwellness4559]

💙💙💙

[@louisepianokeyz2860]

💙💙💙

[@annsmith4739]

Hi Tiffany sweetheart,iv sent you a card I painted an made myself sent it to your P.O. Box hope you like it Ann 🇬🇧❤️❤️❤️

[@debbiestinson9983]

We love you too! You are the sweetest and strongest person I've ever seen 💗

[@patdaniell5528]

I think mum is looking unwell because near to the op on her daughter. Frightening for a mum who can't show her true emotions in front of you tiff. She needs lots of hugs and kisses from you especially when you see her like she was today. She has done so well xxxxx

[@katarzynaw.9036]

Please, Tiffany, give your mother a big hug. Yes, from Mom to Mom. I feel sorry for her. Seeing a child suffer is a terrible thing. Hang on Girl!

[@SingingForTheCreator]

🙏we are praying everything will go well.

[@DanetteVega]

I totally agree!! Amma Is amazing. Everyone needs an Amma.

[@charliebarrow7086]

You are speaking directly from the bottom of my heart, and surely on behalf of almost all mothers out there. My heart is full of love for Amma.

[@liviamoon]

💖🙏🤗🕊

[@michellemarshall4411]

🙏🏻💙

[@kristinsiebert4504]

My mom watched two of her children be sick from cancer. Sadly my brother passed away. The pain she had in her heart was unbearable. Let Amma be there for you, let her cry with you, let her hold your hand, let her wipe your tears, this is what moms need to do. My mom used to tell me, it doesn’t matter how old we are she will always be our MOM. Biggest hugs to Amma and Tiffany you seem to have so much joy in your heart right now it is so nice to see. I call all of my health issues bumps in the road. You will get over this bump and life will be so much better 💕

[@puntinprincess7343]

My dear, beautiful, love of my life grandma had to deal with my moms cancer, which we almost lost her and my grandma was there every single day, for months why my mom was still in the hospital, she said a mothers love and care starts at the womb to the tomb, which is so true and didnt really get it until i had my own children. A saying could never be more true!

[@librarylover6414]

I lost my daughter in a car accident. Heartbreaking. So sorry for the terrible losses in your family.

[@kristinsiebert4504]

@@librarylover6414 thank you!

[@joannpergakis4183]

So so sorry, hugs your way

[@joannpergakis4183]

@@librarylover6414 so sorry I lost my son suddenly Hugs to us

[@lisahubbard6442]

Your precious Mom is hurting. It shows in her eyes. As a mom myself, and as a mom of a cancer surviving daughter (she’s only 27 now) she is terrified and hurting so bad for her Tiffany. Love on her - she needs it. Praying for you in NC, US.

[@joanneshaw3071]

I have a daughter who’s just turned 27. I can’t imagine the unbearable pain you must have gone through. I’m so glad your daughter is ok now. It was heart wrenching to see Tiffany’s mum I’m this video. The pain in her eyes. I’m a nurse here in Australia. I see young adults with cancer and as much as I do all I can to help them I pay so much attention to the parents. I’m really concerned about Tiffany’s mum from a medical standpoint.

[@brannon5311]

Tiffany, you are surrounded by a world-wide hug. You got this and we have your back.

[@flowerlm47]

Great way to describe our love and care for Tiffany!💙

[@tanyacrumlish]

There is not many youtubers that I need to watch instantly like your videos Tiffany, you are such a lovely young woman, and with such a kind positive energy about you. you have been through and going through so much yet you always remain so kind hearted and always looking out for us and everyone around you. Praying for you always💙💙💙

[@lenablanc7162]

Hi tanya. I always see and read your comments. You always write very thoughtful, kind and loving ones. I think it's amazing. Just wanna tell you. Have a nice evening

[@tanyacrumlish]

@@lenablanc7162 Hi Lena. This comment is also very sweet and has made my evening thank you love💕 hope your evening is going amazing!! sending love 💋

[@lenablanc7162]

@@tanyacrumlish 💙💙

[@Simple-d9i]

I Agree!

[@sarah29880]

Same !!

[@chelsealouise1717]

Can see the pain in Amma’s expression in this video. Wish I could give her a big hug. It’s hard when you are trying to keep a brave face for someone you love when all you want to do is break down. You will get through this Tiff I have every faith. We got this 💙💙

[@showjumpingdreams7379]

Bless poor Amma. She really seemed like she was struggling emotionally and physically in this video 😢

[@stormfaith]

Yes, Amma is carrying a heavy load. I love her so much… please, let’s keep Amma in our prayers along with darling Tiffany and Matt.🙏🏽

[@MM-px4jc]

You got this Tiffany - love your positivity. I generally try to watch your videos as an onlooker and not get emotionally drawn in, but today seeing Amma's comportment in the waiting room hit me hard on an emotional level. I hope she's also seeing a counselor to help her deal with your cancer journey. Wishing you the peace from God that surpasses all understanding.

[@DanetteVega]

Tic tic tic!!!

[@bygrace24]

I hope they are all being supported by cancer counsellors. There is going to be a huge lot to work through and Amma looks like someone who keeps it all in, bless her.

[@misskay8131]

Omg, I thought I was the only one that saw how drained and upset Amma was in the hospital as they were waiting for the doctor. That really pulled at my heart strings. She is so strong, but I can’t even begin to imagine what she is dealing with seeing her daughter go through all this. My heart goes out to her and mothers everywhere whose children are unwell.

[@jaynebahler9696]

Hi Tiffany and Amma, I can really see the sorrow on Amma’s face today. She is struggling knowing her beautiful daughter is going thru this difficult journey. Please tell Amma I am praying for her that God will give her all the strength she needs. She’s the best Amma ever !! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@elainesheldon5823]

When will you get a date for your operation? All taking a long time.?

[@sherladixon2842]

As a mom of 3 grown children , my heart goes out to your mom. I can’t imagine how she feels seeing you going thru this. God knows all about your body and he knows what you need. He will give you strength .

[@mindy9061]

What is the date for your surgery?

[@21237flower]

She will let us know when she is ready. ❤

[@MrsKimani26]

When is the surgery date?

[@tamathamavraides5532]

To Oma (spelling?) I see her pain. I hurt for her. She’s such a loving Mom. She’s the strongest person I’ve ever seen. To watch her child suffer is awful. I’d love to hug her so tight. Please tell her we love her. We see her. We really feel her hurt. We’re here for her too. She’s amazing. Please tell her or have her read these. ❤

[@dovestone_]

I think it’s spelt Amma x

[@dianestevens2659]

Are we seeing the videos the day they are filmed? People are saying they are a week old.

[@dovestone_]

I think they’re about a week old

[@ingridsywak8572]

How do you know?

[@barbaranjang3730]

And please a big hug to Ama. She is such a great, lovely, strong Lady with a big big Heart with sooo much love inside💙

[@tamitarekolayan9918]

Tiff, really enjoying your vloggmas!! Plz give AMMA a hug from Mom to a Mom! I have a chronically ill child now 26 and I know the pain a mother harbors inside! You and Matt are taking such good care of her!! She is priceless!💙💙🎄

[@paula6928]

Have you been given any possible dates for surgery yet? 💙

[@karynahern970]

Sweet Tiffany, As a Mom I can see the pain in Almmas eyes, Pease give her a hug and kiss. Maybe you and Almma can go out for a special lunch, just you and Almma. Mom's always feels the hurt with their children no matter what their ages are. It breaks my heart seeing her like this. You are such an inspiration to all. You have a great support team, with Almma and Matt and all of your Tiffany Thinks Family. We all wish you the best in everything. We love you all too.💜💜 We Got This!!🙏🙏

[@hannahkime6902]

Do you know what I can't wait for the most. This time next year as we are watching you trim up for Christmas, watching you eat all the food you want. Living the life that you have fought so hard for, you are so remarkable and resilient and I simply cannot wait to see you take life by the balls. Loads of love to you all xxxx

[@tanyabryden4640]

Can you please tell your mum Tiffany that she is so amazing with her driving. I have no idea how she drives around in places she's not familiar with and seem so calm. Honestly that in itself deserves huge 👏. 💙..love to you all x

[@sue7500]

You and your Mum are adorable the love u have for each other shines like a bright star. U have got this.xx

[@abigailh7715]

🥰so sweet and such kind encouraging words

[@cherdeandrade9259]

Im so worried about Amma as well. I know tiff is going thru so so much, but her poor mom...I wish we could help her in dealing with Tiffany 24/7... it's daunting and I sure hope Amma is taking care of herself too.❤

[@ivonnevermeer3600]

It’s nice that you have the feeling you are in the best hands with your surgeon, I did not know Amma means mother, but I am sure we all want to have such a loving mom like yours dear Tiffany, you are both so loving , giving and humble, just like two angels, we got this 🥰💙

[@lauraapuan5610]

My heart goes out to Amma in this vlog. As a mom myself, seeing her face in the doctors office, when you got a little emotional, her eyes looked so sad. Her love and concern for you is so apparent. I can guarantee you there is nowhere else she’d rather be than with you, supporting you, loving you. It’s been heartwarming to see you so happy and enjoying your Christmas decoration, and your darling Matt. You’ve got this💙 and we are here for you💙

[@peggytan8328]

Amma looks so exhausted. Hope that she takes care of herself too, eats well and rest well so that she is able to care for you after your surgery. Wish you well, tiffany!❤❤❤

[@iselasotolongo6695]

Poor Amma is barely holding on. As a mother I can imagine what she's going thru watching her precious daughter suffer.

[@lindajohnson.]

She looks very stressed today! Hope this surgery will be over soon❤

[@karenturner7983]

I would like you to give Ama a hug for me. From one Mom to another. Watching her, breaks my heart. 💕

[@lindaballenger4935]

Me too

[@lifewithveronicah]

Today she especially seemed down😢 I hope she knows how much we all care about her and Tiffany 💙💙 We got this Amma . Lots of hugs from 🇰🇪 💙💙 Matt is the most amazing boyfriend to Tiffany 💙💙

[@heatherjunker967]

With having to meet with each doctor to talk about surgery, it makes it more real. Of course Ama is upset and she's tired. Most mom's would be the same way. She is trying to be strong but she is going through emotions too. Some days are going to be better than others. One step at a time they will get through this. I am glad this community is here to give support. There are lots of good people here.

[@dianebaugher3919]

Have you asked about whether you will have chemo after surgery? Sometimes they do it just to make sure they get every cancer cell.

[@pamelaelliott7118]

I love the relationship you have with your mom. Such love and support for each other. I find you on my mind so much. I'm praying for you and your surgeons.

[@EshaAudrina]

Do they not assign a dietician to you for the type of food to eat?

[@theresacrockett8559]

Tiffany, Throughout this awful ordeal, you have been able to be a light to everyone around you. You have the most beautiful, kind and loving and joyful spirit. I see it as God Almighty supernaturally carrying you, Amma and Matt. Even under this immense strain, I see the unwavering peace and love among you. No matter what comes against you, I see how God's spirit is protecting and keeping all of you. Psalm 91 He who dwells in the shelter of the most high will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I thank God for all who pray for you. We are witnesses to the Grace of God carrying you, Amma and Matt. Love and continued prayers xo

[@Luna_and_Miles]

Beautiful.

[@carolliskovice7250]

I’m glad he pain medicine and anti sickness meds have made such a difference. You are eating well, smiling, going out and enjoying yourself without pain and even drinking hot chocolate. You go girl. Hugs and love.❤

[@shirleymarshall425]

Amma is such a wonderful woman.I pray for her every night.Her heart must be so broken to seeing her Daughter going through so much.God bless her and all of you.

[@babysteps22]

I am glad you are enjoying the season. I hope all of you (you Amma and Matt) have considered support groups and seeing a therapist. You all need

[@irenekupczak1314]

Amma is a strong woman, but we can see just how exhausted she is. Love you all...

[@susanfleming496]

You and Amma did a great job getting through 2 appointments on one day. It can't be easy. Praying that your surgery goes well, Tiffany. It looks like you're doing well and eating more lately which is great. Thinking of you and sending big hugs to you, your sweet mom and Matt. We got this dear girl! 💙💙💙

[@sharonhoward884]

You could see the pain in Amma's face today & from the comments here most people can see this is taking a big toll on her. She didn't look well later in this video. Perhaps your aunt who is a doctor can sit in on a chat or help get a Tamil speaking counsellor & home care service on board. Matt is wonderful although he is the income earner and his physical capacity to be there is limited. Amma is probably grieving and still has a lot of emotions to experience while at the same time providing physical care and love for you. It's a lot. she'll need breaks (whether she likes it or not) and someone to be there for her. "Who nurtures the nurturer?" was something I remember well from my own cancer journey. Prayers and love to you all xxxx

[@christine8394]

I struggle to eat first thing after waking up, I need at least 2 cups of tea and a shower before I can face food :) I don't get hungry until mid afternoon. It's great to see you so positive. 2 important consutations in one day must be physically and emotionaly draining but 'you've got this' xxx

[@stephanieadlard4077]

So glad that you were pleased with you visit with the doctors. Stay positive and everything will fall into place! Praying for you always! We Got This💙

[@charliebarrow7086]

I thought I was one of the few that feel like you feel about breakfast. Can't eat in the mornings, start to get hungry at around two pm.

[@michiganmom857]

I always think of Surgeons as artists, they are truly amazing in their abilities.

[@providencephelps1497]

Does anyone know what day Tiff’s surgery is scheduled for? I haven’t missed an episode. I know that she said that the physicians were hoping to get her in before the 19th. I’d feel so much better knowing that they had an actual date for this procedure. You’ve got this Tiffany!! We love you!

[@providencephelps1497]

@@danielbobberson9849 thank you! I’m sure she’s set to have the operation. I just remembered that she did mention a possibility of January a few weeks back. I just want to get this done and over with. Cheers to a cancer-free Tiffany!! ❤️❤️

[@marisa8699]

@@danielbobberson9849 what's your evidence for that?

[@annettejarvis9830]

I found your channel recently; you are such a considerate, kind girl; so loveable and special. You light up my life even while you are facing difficult times yourself, if only the world were full of more people like you xx

[@joannemcmurray1361]

One last thing, Amma is very worried and she needs a lot of cuddles. I’m a Mom and I can’t imagine my daughter having cancer, let alone major surgery. She will as you feel better when that’s over. Me too love jo

[@lifewithveronicah]

Please give Amma lots of hugs from us💙💙💙 Today she especially seemed down😢 I hope she knows how much we all care about her and you Tiffany 💙💙 We got this💙💙 Lots of hugs from 🇰🇪 💙💙 Matt is the most amazing boyfriend 💙💙

[@MaryMary-ci2ek]

Team 🇰🇪💙 Tiffany

[@tamathamavraides5532]

Matt is the sweetest! He packs lunches and snacks. He’s thoughtful. He’s loyal. It’s so easy to see he loves you. I’m so happy you have such amazing support. What I want for Christmas? I want you to be healthy after this surgery. That would make me so happy. Best gift ever. Stuff doesn’t matter health and relationships matter. We’ve got this!!!

[@julielynn86]

Tiffany, your channel was recommended to me yesterday and so I clicked on it. I'm watching a bunch of your videos while I'm down with the flu and today, a migraine. I paused the video after you asked your precious, incredible, steady and STRONG mother if she was okay because I wanted to tell her that I connect with her mother's heart and I'm so sorry for her pain. I have three grown sons who are your age Tiffany, four-year-old triplet grand-daughters and a two-year-old grandson. I am praying so earnestly for your mom and you and your whole family.

[@julielynn86]

PS. I named my youngest son Matthew. His wife calls him Matt. ❤

[@CocktailUmbrellas]

After meeting with two surgeons there's no "new news"?

[@lizgephart2040]

I can’t comprehend this at all.

[@tiffanythinks]

It’s about the surgery and what it entails - my main surgeon has already told me what each surgeon will do. I know it all now so when I saw these doctors I already knew what was going to happen because my main surgeon had already told me ☺️ hope this makes sense 💙

[@Luna_and_Miles]

If by "news" you mean you want every detail of everything Tiffany's surgeons tell her, that is asking a lot. It is quite personal. Tiffany has been fully informed and that is all that matters.

[@loretaloreta1041]

@laney268 stop being a scam. Tiffany block this one!!!!! she all over leave comments being not a friendly at all only trying be negative and saying things against you!!!

[@debsarley5612]

Dear Tiffany, it was so nice to see you enjoying yourself out to dinner with Matt! This is exactly what you should be doing- having fun and making memories. At least your journey is moving forward to rid yourself of cancer finally. God bless you!

[@Crystal-t6g]

Tiffany, Will done for keeping up with these daily videos. Please be careful your not doing to much, can you please say more about your surgery. It would be helpful to understand what why and how your surgery is going, l feel in the complete dark, in terms of what’s happening for you. Have you started counselling, you will need some preparation, before your operation. Your mum needs a break she’s shattered, she’s an absolute angel. I love her nonstop take care of yourself and rest up. 💐🎄💛

[@debvw9740]

When I watch you, I am struck by the amount of love and support you have from Matt and your Amma. This must be so stressful for them, yet they put your wellbeing ahead of everyone else. It is beautiful. I think of you every day and want you to know that you have so many who love you and are praying for a safe and successful surgery. You got this beautiful girl. Hugs.

[@spirit9290]

I think poor anma is tired and very worried which is understandable give her an extra long hug love your beautiful family love you all you got this💙💙💙💙

[@suecaron4674]

Your Mom is so amazing as is Matt, cancer effects not only the one with cancer but all your loved ones. I’m 10 year cancer survivor, stay positive, pray, and know we are all praying for all of you all.

[@angelabatterton5080]

Have you and your family had counseling or talking therapy.. Maybe your mum could do with talking to someone she seems to be bottling everything up xx

[@marilynsinger2821]

Hello my darling Tiffany, each step is taking you closer to being without cancer. You have an amazing future with Matt and Amma to plan for, and I am with you every step of the way. I have been on the same journey as you, many years ago. Not an easy journey, but so worth all the challenges... I am 75, with a happy life. My love is with you always sweetheart 👵💙🙏🏻🌈🎄xxx you got this 💙💙💙

[@lenablanc7162]

Hi darling. Glad you could speak to the surgeons. I think, for me, it's always better when I know what's coming and what I have to expect. And very happy your surgeon made you comfortable. Love you. 💙💙

[@nanam5917]

Tiffany, it is so unfortunate that you have cancer and are going to face this big surgery, but you have so many supporters and prayers each and every day. I tell you what, you have the sweetest mom and boyfriend that love you so much. There are a lot of people who don’t have that kind of support and love. Tiffany, you are so sweet and you will be in my prayers.

[@maryharding6399]

Dear Tiffany. So pleased to hear everything went ok with the surgeons. I really felt for Anna today. She seemed very quiet and not herself. I can understand how terribly difficult it is for her to see you going through this journey. Please give her a big hug and send her loads of love. As I am an avid George Michael fan, Matt made my day choosing Last Christmas to sing in the car 🤣👍. Take care my lovely. We got this 💙💙💙

[@catmama54]

When my brother had his accident and became paralyzed it was very hard on our parents but they became his caretakers,doing everything and I do mean everything. My Mom learned how to Catheterize him and take care of his wounds. This is what loving parents do and your Mom needs to take care of her girl so let her. ❤️🙏

[@mmmmlllljohn]

At first, I didn’t know that Ama meant mother but when I did, it was o.k. to still call her Ama because she is the mom I always wish that I had. Thanks for sharing your Ama with us. You are such a kid, Tiff, especially around Christmas! And Matt as well! Love from Mississauga ❤️🇨🇦

[@asabovesobelow7981]

hugs, urnotalone

[@mmmmlllljohn]

@@asabovesobelow7981 I know that now, thanks 😘 Big hug back ❤️

[@joankidder4674]

Tiffany, your dinner with Matt is exactly what my husband and I do when we go somewhere special to eat. Order different plates and share. Like you said more to try. Glad you are enjoying your holiday season with your family. Love the relationship you have with Amma. Stay strong for her. WE GOT THIS!!

[@johnnylnowlin]

Bless your beautiful soul. Thanks for inviting us all into your world and allowing us to share in this difficult journey - of which you will rise victorious

[@ppthegreatest3941]

Darling Tiffany, please give your gorgeous mum a big hug from me. I can see in her eyes the worry, which is completely natural. Love you all. We got this 💙💙💙💙 xsuex stay strong x

[@SleekBlack82]

This video footage is probably from a week ago (End of November) so I'm guessing her surgery is a week away from now. Before Christmas.

[@SleekBlack82]

Exactly.

[@lyndabriggs3615]

Glad that days over for you. Amma is so lovely and she's keeping it together because of the love she has for you. I would like to give you both a huge hug. Soon be all over and you can get on with the rest of your life. Bless you Sending lots of love ❤ 😍

[@kendramiller3529]

Hugs to ama! She is so strong! Matt is such a sweetheart! You have a wonderful support team!

[@Lacroixmakeupartist]

Hi Tiffany....strong,sweet,intelligent,patient,caring,loving lady. Sometimes i find it so hard to say something about you and your disease process.I find it diffecult that you feel so bad often.And that you have to fight like this. Your strenght...your sweet Ama and wonderfull boyfriend. Your family. I am so glad you have them around you. They pull you trough. Lots of Love from the Netherlands! Stay strong Tiffany! ✨❤🎄🎅🏼✨

[@shernandez2276]

Tiffany. It was lovely to see you having fun after your appointments. Soon this will be done and you can move on to your “new” normal. Praying for you and your family ❤

[@siobhanjohnson8088]

Glad you got to chat to the surgeons but I think this is all getting very real for your mum and as he just looked like she needs a big hug 😢. Look after yourself and your lovely mum ❤❤

[@juliemitchell3013]

You can see Amma is sick with worry God love her xxxx

[@AllThingsClarice]

Bless Amma, she’s worn out gods bless her, she deserves her wee nap as her head will be going round in circles with worry. Glad you have now seen the surgeons and they have explained everything. Won’t be long now and you have this Tiffany 💙💐🎄🤗😘

[@joanbrucks446]

I'm not a breakfast person. Watching you, Matt, Ama, and your whole family is such a joy!😍💕

[@joanneantoniak7760]

I can not begin to tell you how much i love vlogmas!! Seeing you everyday is such a gift. Blessed are the mothers who walk a tough journey with their children. I am confident that mother Mary is watching over our dear Amma and giving her strength 🙏🙏. Amma suffers with such grace and courage - bless her 🙏🙏. I love that Matt makes you eat the whole pancake!! Eat that pancake girl 💗. Praying for you all 🙏🙏. We got this 💙

[@sharonproctor4079]

Here in the US usually only kids do advent calendars. The excitement builds each day to Christmas.

[@patdaniell5528]

I don't think a child would like the candle calendar do you have a nice Xmas

[@jodysmaggus1862]

My husband is enjoying his After Eight one. He is 59😂❤

[@helenagreenwood2305]

My adult daughter buys me the Number 7 make-up calendar 👄💅 am in UK 👍🇬🇧

[@lynnpayne6262]

I have seen them for dogs and cats too. So cute!

[@loretaloreta1041]

Im in USA and i just got beer advent calendar for my boyfriend😂

[@lauraamante5862]

Tiffany , I love how you are so strong when with Amma. When you cry she must feel so sad . I know this because I’m a mom

[@elainehammond4598]

I absolutely love watching you and Matt together. Have a wonderful sleep. Love you.

[@donnaoleson9499]

Yes , poor Amma 😢, she looks especially sad today. The world is encircling her in a loving hug

[@dianestevens2659]

I feel she is suffering from carer stress and needs a break

[@yanniegrannie]

💙💙💙💙💙💙 six hearts today because of the double appointments. I'll be keeping you in my heart ❤️ and as a mom of a daughter with terminal disease and extra hug for Ama😘

[@lindadykes4040]

Tiffany you are an amazing person. Your mom and Matt are so special. May Jesus protect you and your family under the shadow of his wings! God bless y'all. We got this 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙✝️

[@natmcd4043]

Ur so brave tiff.. you got this... love from Ireland 🇮🇪 💚🍀

[@marionelizabeth1]

Tiffany, Amma is such a good person, and a very loving mother.

[@allyp1088]

Love amma and it’s hard to watch her seeing her baby girl go through all of this your so brave and positive Tiffany you’ve got this sweet girl❤

[@babysteps22]

Oops you all need support and your recovery will take awhile. I think you all try to protect each other and you all need a safe space to express your feelings.

[@reginabutta4443]

What a wonderful mom you have!Hang in there Tiffany.

[@lindc1070]

Pretty hard on you and your mum. All these pre surgery appointments and the actual op + everything else. I hope things go well and next Christmas will bring better days

[@Pewo7140]

Hugs to you both! You’re so blessed to have your Mom right by your side.

[@CarolandDave]

3 not 2.

[@Pewo7140]

@@CarolandDave ?

[@CarolandDave]

@@Pewo7140 sorry if I misunderstood but I count Tiffany Matt and Amma

[@Pewo7140]

@@CarolandDave that’s ok! Lol. I was confused. Definitely Matt too!!! I commented before watching him later lol.

[@CarolandDave]

@@Pewo7140 thats the worst of typing things can be misunderstood. However they are a fabulous support to Tiffany

[@lzal9204]

I would totally call her Amma if I ran into her! 😂 From this mom to Amma, hang in there. Sending you a huge hug. 🤗 I’m glad you were able to speak to the 2 other surgeons.

[@27Eilene]

Tiffany, I’m not sure if you covered this and I’ve forgotten but will you share what the whole expected surgery plan is? I know things can change but are there any parts they are sure of? I’m sorry if you don’t plan to share. No disrespect. I understand. Lots of love, sweetheart. 💙

[@susanbennett9062]

Soon as Tiff posts I stop everything to watch her. Anybody else like this? We got this!! Big breakfasts make me want to go back to bed.

[@susanbaptista3967]

Me too Susan! Take care, Susan

[@Naz-io5gc]

Tiffany I think you should book Amma a suprise spa day for the both of you to get a massage, get your hair done and nails. She seems abit down in this vlog I think it would cheer her up💙💙💙💙

[@julieharden2433]

My favorite breakfast is: fruit, topped with a drizzle of maple syrup, topped with rolled oats and walnuts. Delicious. In the summer, I shop up a nectarine or a peach. In the winter, I use berries and maybe some mango and banana. With the fruit - you get all your vitamins and antioxidants. The rolls provide the fiber (and cleans out your arteries). The walnuts provide the crunch, the healthy fat, and the protein. Super quick and easy to make. Delicious, nutritious, and filling. Travels well, too. You can even make this the night before and stick it in the fridge.

[@marilynpalosaari2387]

💙💙💙💙hi from 🇨🇦 Tiffany. My comment today is for Amma. Today was an extremely HARD day for her. I know she usually sits out appointments in the car. Today she came in, and heard some pretty complicated & explicit details I imagine. You could see the sorrow and fear in her eyes behind that mask. Yes... She opted to stay home for a "rest." I think she needed time alone for a good cry. Also... The look on her face (almost like horror) at the food treat you brought back for her.... Her face, to me was like "how can I possibly EAT when I feel like this?" I imagine her anxiety, stomach knots, and fearful brain is every single bit as bad as yours is, Tiff... and she too, tries to put on the brave face to protect you too. I feel like today she just Crashed & really hit a wall. So Amma and Tiffany... Hug it out and cry it out together. Reassure Amma that you will be strong enough to deal with the after effects of surgery, no matter how it goes. Tell Amma in WORDS that she helps you stay strong so much with her actions every single day! It's very easy to see that you are as close as can be, but sometimes we need the WORDS our loud, along with the hugs. Tell Amma from me, that she is a true Momma Bear & is doing a WONDERFUL JOB, but that she absolutely needs to take care of herself too. ❤️❤️ I say this all with love & send all my love to your entire amazing family! 💙💙💙💙

[@Luna_and_Miles]

I think you are assuming an awful lot. Amma was exhausted, had been sleeping, she was sleepy when Tiffany handed her the bag of food. Don't assume you know that she was "horrified". Remember these videos are edited as well. We miss a lot too, of what goes on amongst Tiffany, Matt, and Amma. Maybe they ARE already hugging and crying it all out every day, most of the day. We get a tiny slice of their lives here in a half hour video. Tiffany is putting a brave and positive face forward, and I don't see why people have a problem with that.

[@marilynpalosaari2387]

@@Luna_and_Miles I'm sorry if my post sounded harsh or presumptuous. It certainly wasn't intended that way at all. I LOVE this entire family & their dynamic & kindness towards each other. ❤️❤️ I, myself have travelled the cancer road, and know all too well how it affects EVERYONE in the family. I am 67 and a mother myself, and I know how I would be struggling to keep my *hit together if it had been my daughter going through treatment, and not me. So I DO identify with Amma. She is Tiffany's rock for sure, as is Matt. I have been following Tiffany from the start (and even 5 years ago), so I would never say an unkind thing about her or her family. I know she doesn't post every private moment. I know being on camera is not Matt or Amma's favorite thing, but they are getting used to it. Amma just seemed like she was having a very exhausting day. I wish I could reach out to her with huge hugs and cuddles, because she needs them too ❤️❤️❤️

[@mjt8318]

Tiffany I’m loving Vlogmas with you, Matt and Amma. Just like last years vlogmas, you make every day better with your beautiful spirit. Sending hugs and prayers your way. We Got This 💙

[@IsabelSantosCunha1972]

Is Amma a little sad today? is she alright? maybe i'm being super sensitive, but dear Amma doesn't seem too well 😢 Hope everything is Ok.. Xoxo

[@buleberryjam177gaming7]

@Laney 26 It is probably the first time she has understood what is actually going to happen in this surgery.

[@buleberryjam177gaming7]

@Laney 26 Not sure if she can be totally prepared for what lies ahead.

[@vikkiskomarokha150]

Do hot flashes make you sweat or do you just get hot? When I get hot flashes from anxiety I get so sweaty!

[@inhabitantofearth]

I love how every time you see Matt after being away from him for a while, you’re SO happy to see him, and vice versa. You’re such a good girlfriend to him, and a good example for me to learn from. You’re very fortunate to have each other and I’m so glad he’s stayed by your side 😊

[@mariedoucet2371]

Dear Tiffany - for breakfast I do a smoothie with kale or spinach, strawberries, blueberries, banana, 2 cups oat milk, tablespoon of nut butter and ice cubes. Big smoothie but easy to sip on for an hour when not hungry. On other days, wheat/seeds toast with egg and/or avocado. Fills me and healthy. You go this…you all deserve a hug. You got this! ❤

[@traciebrookes8231]

Big shout out to Amma you are truly amazing mumma xxxx

[@sharron-6540]

Tiff you have got this, Amma is incredible and please give her a huge hug from all us Mums who are watching her on here, especially those that have daughters your age, we are all sending her a lot of love and strength. Matt is amazing he is an absolute rock for you, his love comes in packed lunches that have so much thought put into them, in his big hugs that wrap you up, in his calming voice that reassures you in your most difficult days and his unconditional love that we can all see he has for you and Amma. Tiff you will get through this very difficult time because you are a strong, kind, caring, beautiful and optimistic young lady that deserves the world. Sending you so much love and hugs from Ireland 🇮🇪