What Is Loneliness Doing to Your Brain?

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@fillingchicken
@fillingchicken 6 жыл бұрын
It's hard to meet people when you're socially awkward from not having anyone to talk to you for years people will just push you away
@alancoleman3058
@alancoleman3058 6 жыл бұрын
SethCoC go out on a walk and challenge yourself to ask 20 people for the time. This will help your brain to understand that talking to others is normal and if you do this every day for a couple of weeks having conversations will come naturally. Think of it as a game. See how long you can hold a conversation for. This changes your fear into excitement and determination because your brain wants to beat your record. Go show’em what you’ve got. I believe in you
@StJiub-lc4eb
@StJiub-lc4eb 6 жыл бұрын
Lord Tachanka i never realised I didn't actually need to know the time to ask people. Game changer
@serbancapraru8559
@serbancapraru8559 6 жыл бұрын
Lord Tachanka I think I'd go crazy if I constantly asked for the time knowing what time it is.
@teodorescusabin7923
@teodorescusabin7923 6 жыл бұрын
Lord Tachanka lord kancha allways knows da wae {-}7
@Martial-Mat
@Martial-Mat 6 жыл бұрын
Great advice Lord.
@lifeisablessing247
@lifeisablessing247 6 жыл бұрын
It's lonely being lonely.
@infinity001plus1
@infinity001plus1 6 жыл бұрын
So true, so very true.
@teddissac8155
@teddissac8155 6 жыл бұрын
I feel ya
@sanchirkh6019
@sanchirkh6019 6 жыл бұрын
i hate it being lonely it fucking sucks but sometimes it is beautiful
@jutiajulia
@jutiajulia 6 жыл бұрын
lifeisablessing Yep
@Conormcnproductions
@Conormcnproductions 6 жыл бұрын
my technique is pretend I have friends
@IBradFrazer
@IBradFrazer 6 жыл бұрын
After my dad died I stopped with literally everything in my life. I stopped talking to people at home and at school, and I only did what I had to do to get by in life. That was 5 years ago now, and I am starting to feel the loneliness. But because it's been so long, it's become part of my daily routine not talk to people or engage with anyone unless it's my superiors at work and my mother. I have no friends, I have no life, I have no existence. My doctor just wants to throw some pills at me and that that will somehow help. I told my doctor that I am not depressed, I told her that I simply lost the will to carry on without the actual suicide part. Now I have to pay a Psychiatrist a hundred dollars every few weeks to listen to my problems because nobody else will. Life sure is difficult.
@eli-iw1hz
@eli-iw1hz 11 ай бұрын
Hi how are you doing nowadays?
@supahjadi8944
@supahjadi8944 6 жыл бұрын
I try not to be lonely, but people make that hard.
@serbancapraru8559
@serbancapraru8559 6 жыл бұрын
superyadi It's that feeling when you don't really like most people but you feel the need to be with people... It's fucked up.
@supahjadi8944
@supahjadi8944 6 жыл бұрын
Actually, for me personally, I just have trouble connecting with people.
@MM-ks1zn
@MM-ks1zn 6 жыл бұрын
Larissa Danvers It is more hard to connect with people when you are lazy to impress anyone. I mean it is such a pain in the ass trying to impress anyone. The truth is, if people are not impress with you, they will disregard your existence .
@thinkingofaname6233
@thinkingofaname6233 6 жыл бұрын
M M I don’t care anymore, drugs will give me temporary relief which is all I need, for now.
@Master_Therion
@Master_Therion 6 жыл бұрын
I try to be financially responsible and avoid loans and debt. I'm not very loanly.
@ThxDiogo
@ThxDiogo 6 жыл бұрын
No
@softshore
@softshore 6 жыл бұрын
Just get out
@ajthevillageidiot
@ajthevillageidiot 6 жыл бұрын
Ayyy
@charky6683
@charky6683 6 жыл бұрын
Master Therion get in the bin
@mathafok3r
@mathafok3r 6 жыл бұрын
get out
@archades115
@archades115 6 жыл бұрын
The more time I spend around others, the more lonely I feel. While I no longer find as much comfort in solitude as I once did, I can hardly stand interacting with others. Even my closest friends. And yet... Something is missing...
@micahcorominas
@micahcorominas 6 жыл бұрын
Kyle Towe I’m on the same page. When I do interact with others I always feel a lack of connection. Perhaps you need someone to confide in.
@starwarfan8342
@starwarfan8342 6 жыл бұрын
Kyle Towe I take it your profile picture is an accurate description of your face in general?
@jonedavila5954
@jonedavila5954 6 жыл бұрын
The need to feel like we belong is always our defining nature, but it does give some level of comfort to realize every now and then that there are others who feel exactly the same way
@gretchensmith2852
@gretchensmith2852 6 жыл бұрын
I struggled with something very similar in high school. I was sick of shallow interactions that had virtually no meaning to me. Personally, I'd recommend trying to connect with a group or club that relates to something your interested in. That can give you instantly more common ground with people: you can always talk about whatever the group is about. For me, I joined the debate team. That meant we could always talk about the debates. Over time, the strictly "professional" conversations began to turn into deeper more meaningful conversations, since we had gotten to know each other already. I found it a more enjoyable way to connect with people and it let me skip a lot of the shallower get-to-know-you-phase. I still use this "strategy" to find people I want to connect with; maybe it would help you, too.
@archades115
@archades115 6 жыл бұрын
To the one who asked about my profile pic, yes that is how I still appear. No, you need not elaborate how I look like a creepy, pedophilic school shooter with shit for brains. I have heard it all before. And for joining groups with similar interests, I have done something similar. Long story short, I don't much care about the interests of others. They will use me, or anyone else, and care only for themselves. I wish to be left alone, while still missing something.
@mangnuuu
@mangnuuu 6 жыл бұрын
Loneliness is killing me slowly...
@ishitagarg3785
@ishitagarg3785 6 жыл бұрын
@astroteen Do not worry. I also face loneliness in day to day life. We lonely people are not alone. We all can squish it slowly and steadily with efforts.🙂🙂🙂
@mangnuuu
@mangnuuu 6 жыл бұрын
ishita garg 😊
@jazzeeeecrock
@jazzeeeecrock 6 жыл бұрын
It's quite ironic that we as a society although more "connected" than ever via social media have become so far removed from said society and the physical relationships and bonds that make us truly happy. The thing that was supposed to bring us closer together has just driven us further apart.
@KittyBoom360
@KittyBoom360 6 жыл бұрын
Speak for yourself. I'm way more connected with this world now. Tho I'm almost half a century old and remember.
@PrimeBrenon
@PrimeBrenon 6 жыл бұрын
Social media might not have driven us apart. I think what he was saying is that it doesn’t bring everybody closer together. But like the sapien, some people are brought closer to people. That probably means he is using social media the way he should.
@jazzeeeecrock
@jazzeeeecrock 6 жыл бұрын
We are more connected with the world as a whole but I think that we have become disconnected from things like family and community. Of course that is generally speaking. The modern world in general has distanced us from one another. It's fascinating to me. This isn't related to the "online" disconnect, but it's a similar story. I remember a few years ago the power went out in our neighborhood and after about 20 mins ppl started coming outside to see what was going on. A hydro pole had fallen so the power was not going to be back on until crews could come out and fix it. Anyhow, those ppl started talking to one another. Neighbours were reconnecting. Some found that they didn't even know each other. People brought out food and drinks, and a few even brought out guitars. For hours the street was alive with ppl talking, singing, playing cards, etc... It was a beautiful sight! It's amazing that it took a power outage to bring ppl together. It was short lived though. As soon as the pole was replaced everyone scurried back inside their houses like roaches running from sudden light in the dark. The street got really quiet, really fast. It was back to "normal". It's kind of sad really.
@jazzeeeecrock
@jazzeeeecrock 6 жыл бұрын
Brenon Thiel that is very true. If you are responsible with it it can open up a whole new world for you!
@anitacline213
@anitacline213 6 жыл бұрын
jazzeeeec it is ironic, but studies have shown that being on social media makes people feel even worse about their own lives and makes them feel lonelier. I believe it’s because people only represent the best of themselves and their lives on social media like Facebook and others only see the shining happy smiles and good times and then compare their own lives, which are hard and people struggle with relationships, money, jobs, etc. If social media were more honest and showed that everyone struggles in the same way, it wouldn’t make people feel even more miserable by leading them to believe their the only ones struggling.
@bradleysdavis8400
@bradleysdavis8400 6 жыл бұрын
I like this guy, he nailed it.
@lamdrewpleasse4667
@lamdrewpleasse4667 6 жыл бұрын
"Special thanks to Mamoudou N’Diaye" nooooo this means he probably wont make more rip
@universe1225
@universe1225 6 жыл бұрын
Bradley S Davis That's what I said!!!😂
@BooleanDev
@BooleanDev 6 жыл бұрын
Lamdrew Pleasse where did you see that
@lamdrewpleasse4667
@lamdrewpleasse4667 6 жыл бұрын
dEsCriPtiOn
@jonathanodude6660
@jonathanodude6660 6 жыл бұрын
pretty sure it says that on all his vids and has the same message for all the other hosts as well
@cup_check_official
@cup_check_official 6 жыл бұрын
*Did you know loneliness is now considered an epidemic?* And we thought technology will connect us
@yourmoistgrandma3202
@yourmoistgrandma3202 6 жыл бұрын
The Ironic part is, *We're already over populated.* 😂
@officer_baitlyn
@officer_baitlyn 6 жыл бұрын
regarding rec room anonymity is also helping i think also, most people in the game are interested in similar topics and talkative( at least ig) as opposed to what u'd find in public but yeah rec room feels very similar to meeting at a friends home if you know the people u are with tabletop sim is also very similar in that regard i guess
@smilo_don
@smilo_don 6 жыл бұрын
Your Moist Grandma, no we're not. overpopulationisamyth.com/
@jackojb1
@jackojb1 6 жыл бұрын
Something that is readily available is perceived as worthless. Like connections to many people. Generations ago building relationships was harder, but those resulting connections were worth a lot more.
@PrimeBrenon
@PrimeBrenon 6 жыл бұрын
Well, maybe not Snapchat and Twitter, things like that. But I feel pretty happy when I play roblox.
@lachronic7821
@lachronic7821 6 жыл бұрын
I thought that was his hair.
@ashleyiverson8478
@ashleyiverson8478 6 жыл бұрын
Unlikable haha yeah i thought the same
@nocomfort111
@nocomfort111 6 жыл бұрын
Can't unsee 😂
@omarowo1790
@omarowo1790 6 жыл бұрын
unseeing is impossible
@PrimeBrenon
@PrimeBrenon 6 жыл бұрын
Lol.
@Furkward
@Furkward 6 жыл бұрын
His hat
@nuke8191
@nuke8191 5 жыл бұрын
I TRIED "meeting someone." She's the reason I am currently lacking the motivation to stay alive.
@Archontasil
@Archontasil 6 жыл бұрын
Yes i'm lonely. But I don't need panda. I need friends, and a girlfriend.. probably two girlfriends.. or three is allright..
@guesswhoami4723
@guesswhoami4723 6 жыл бұрын
Archontasius lmao, we think girlfriends will make us better but it won’t, trust ne
@thesupertendent8973
@thesupertendent8973 6 жыл бұрын
Archontasius: didn't work for Picasso very well You need people to hang out with that you trust/ won't put you on a path of trouble
@mohamednahuvee7583
@mohamednahuvee7583 6 жыл бұрын
i tried. now im tired
@markec123
@markec123 6 жыл бұрын
now you're just greedy
@emanueladoci1785
@emanueladoci1785 6 жыл бұрын
Archontasius Lmao 😂😂
@Jaylio
@Jaylio 6 жыл бұрын
I think I overcame loneliness... Well. I’m still lonely, but I’m always alone, it’s natural for me to feel lonely on a regular basis. I think the damage is already done. I started to notice how less empathetic I became for the past years and how I couldn’t give a shit anymore. I guess I’ve just gone too far down to go any further.
@BrianFrichette
@BrianFrichette 6 жыл бұрын
I hate that the writers felt we can't talk about something serious without needing to be periodically distracted by something cute. It shows a real lack of maturity. It's okay to feel badly sometimes, and being okay with it is a sign of emotional strength.
@dapsfix6606
@dapsfix6606 6 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more. but it's probably there because their audience is immature.
@vishwas5554
@vishwas5554 6 жыл бұрын
Loneliness is a powerful tool, those who know to use it reach higher levels and those who misuse it by watching porn and spending time on social media end up having depression.
@ch1ll1add.25
@ch1ll1add.25 6 жыл бұрын
Whats the rigt way to use loneliness
@krzysztofpiasek5682
@krzysztofpiasek5682 6 жыл бұрын
V ... wot. There is no way to use loneliness in any good manner. You might have tought about being alone, not being lonely.
@jhhwild
@jhhwild 6 жыл бұрын
"Go out and meet people"? Easier said than done. Personally nobody approaches me and I dont observe others approaching random strangers in public when I go out. People are glued to their phones, most mistrust strangers, are already hanging out with their pre-established group, or are preoccupied with their task at hand. Plus if you're socially isolated people think you're some sort of weirdo and don't want to give you a chance. It's like you need to already have friends in order to make friends.
@RudeAlert
@RudeAlert 6 жыл бұрын
Yup, just like you need work experience to get a job... but you need to have a job to get work experience! Too many bullshit paradoxes in this fucking universe.
@jhhwild
@jhhwild 6 жыл бұрын
RudeAlert You can get a job by knowing people in the right places. Often it's not about what you know but who you know. So much hinges on social connections that the unpopular, lonely, isolated people are screwed over.
@thinkingofaname6233
@thinkingofaname6233 6 жыл бұрын
jhhwild if that’s how it is I’ll happily murder as many as I can
@zaneorion9710
@zaneorion9710 6 жыл бұрын
I kinda have a loose rule to never comment on the internet, but Seeker has always been really compelling and I've loved the mix of everything, from what's being released in science, paired with videos like this asking simple but important questions and letting you think on the matter in an open ended way. It's not all matter of fact like quite a few other channels I watch. However, that being said I know my opinion mute, but I just want to give my thanks to Seeker, and it's partnered channels for being so approachable and fun with their content. Keep being awesome guys! Thank you.
@KaiCyreus
@KaiCyreus 6 жыл бұрын
Best new host in a looong time ☆
@reshmisaha
@reshmisaha 6 жыл бұрын
So i was lonely for many years. Went into depression too and then forced myself out of it. And when i say lonely i mean it. No family or friends by my side whatsoever. And then i realised that i feel fine now. Here's the thing, i weighed out the pros and cons of my experiences with people throughout my life and realised that almost 98% of them have been negative. And i just hate to deal with it again. Instead i diverted my mind to something else that would make me feel better than sulking about why im lonely and all that. I love music, animals, reading etc. And now im at that stage where i want to avoid human interaction at any cost. And feel contended with my loneliness too. Bcoz people are not a necessity anymore. They are an extra aspect i can live without. Surely if i have lived without them in the past means i can live without them. I know this sounds super weird but this is true. When someone has lived alone for too long they find it much easier to continue living like that.
@Zariston
@Zariston 6 жыл бұрын
I am not lonely. I am alone ...
@seventhkeyomegasghost8233
@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 2 жыл бұрын
Neil Maccauley (Heat 1995)
@infinitetundra
@infinitetundra 6 жыл бұрын
I love being alone, but hate being lonely.
@johnjoe7687
@johnjoe7687 6 жыл бұрын
i honestly like being alone..who else does?❤❤i just feel im fine alone and dont need others👊
@johnjoe7687
@johnjoe7687 6 жыл бұрын
👑
@Just_a_niceguy
@Just_a_niceguy 6 жыл бұрын
I prefer solitude too.
@cn0412
@cn0412 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, as introvert. I agree.
@WeHadColor
@WeHadColor 6 жыл бұрын
I concur!
@smilo_don
@smilo_don 6 жыл бұрын
You can be alone without being lonely, and you can be lonely without being alone.
@joshua-lk1gf
@joshua-lk1gf 6 жыл бұрын
I'm lonely and I don't use facebook or any of that crap. The vast majority seems to blame social media, which isn't the case for me really. Apparently I'm the only person that feels alone, no matter where I go :/.
@finn2219
@finn2219 6 жыл бұрын
i love this man... and pandas???
@steffieswift5484
@steffieswift5484 6 жыл бұрын
Really, right now? When I'm feeling lonely? Is this a coincidence or what? 😒
@allenantony6523
@allenantony6523 6 жыл бұрын
Don't be sad. Here have an internet HUG !!
@krzysztofpiasek5682
@krzysztofpiasek5682 6 жыл бұрын
Steffie Swift yes. Yes, It's.
@kyrlics6515
@kyrlics6515 6 жыл бұрын
Steffie Swift no they're watching they just don't want to talk to you
@rdreese84
@rdreese84 6 жыл бұрын
*Sending hugs
@bigtownbiwwy509
@bigtownbiwwy509 6 жыл бұрын
Yes
@marer1000
@marer1000 6 жыл бұрын
ironically panda are some of the most lonely creatures.
@GBEQUICKSCPOE
@GBEQUICKSCPOE 6 жыл бұрын
Is a fact that Gucci mane made three albums called breakfast, lunch and dinner.
@lachronic7821
@lachronic7821 6 жыл бұрын
Jose Medina the hell
@GBEQUICKSCPOE
@GBEQUICKSCPOE 6 жыл бұрын
Unlikable I know right
@lachronic7821
@lachronic7821 6 жыл бұрын
Sajid's Toys Review he’s a rapper.
@AeroMittens
@AeroMittens 6 жыл бұрын
Jose Medina xD
@coopergoss350
@coopergoss350 6 жыл бұрын
that occasional taste of feeling that makes you realize how empty and lonely you are
@charmaineespeut4627
@charmaineespeut4627 6 жыл бұрын
I was lonely from middle school to high school. All you need is one good friend and you will be fine. A friend you can do stuff with like go to the movies, go out to eat, play video games etc.
@thinkingofaname6233
@thinkingofaname6233 6 жыл бұрын
Charmaine Espeut a friend I had and lost, I had to severe my emotional links because he was an unreliable liar.
@jadenmist
@jadenmist 6 жыл бұрын
Mamoudou you're a very talented presenter bud! Great delivery. One thing if I can give a constructive criticism though is it would help if you slow down a bit. It can be hard to grasp what you're saying at times since you talk a big fast. But enjoying your work here keep it up!
@allenschmucker8323
@allenschmucker8323 6 жыл бұрын
I don't get lonely. Being by myself is the most blissful experience I can have.
@Siberius-
@Siberius- 6 жыл бұрын
I would like to see how this general research is changed when you look at people who prefer to be alone by choice and don't feel lonely. It's just how they're most happy. They still see other people from time to time, or even have close real friends they can open up and bond with.. but they don't get much out of it and are perfectly happy being alone for the vast majority of the time and happy that way. I wanna see that study.
@TechCloud786
@TechCloud786 6 жыл бұрын
It sucks being lonely
@TommoCarroll
@TommoCarroll 6 жыл бұрын
“Y’all better go out to the quarry for some stick ball and a swim” 😂 🤝 congrats, that was amazing.
@ifureadthis_urgay
@ifureadthis_urgay 6 жыл бұрын
It's not called being depressed. We're just bored af with life
@NakedAvanger
@NakedAvanger 6 жыл бұрын
youre not bored with life, you just have no interest in doing things, which is a side effect of loneliness maybe even depression but idk about the later
@krzysztofpiasek5682
@krzysztofpiasek5682 6 жыл бұрын
WillWhiskey There really are not that many things to do in life. What is in your opinion worth doing? Is there enough positions on this list to spend 80 years doing those? Please...
@NakedAvanger
@NakedAvanger 6 жыл бұрын
Telling you some random shit that i personally like wouldnt make you think any different. This is something you have to do yourself, you must search for something you like for something you'll be passionate about. For instance, my family are all bikers and i never really cared about it but recently i developed a passion for it and now im working on getting enough money together to buy myself a bike and biker gear granted i was driving weaker mopets till now but never really enjoyed it that much only did it scarcely when i had nothing better to do and because of a sudden urge to do so. Almost forgot... i actually found another passion, downhill longboarding, its something i really want to do in the next few years because it looks exilirating
@krzysztofpiasek5682
@krzysztofpiasek5682 6 жыл бұрын
WillWhiskey I wanted *you* to realise that possibilities are really limited.
@modernwarrior24
@modernwarrior24 6 жыл бұрын
Krzysztof Piasek If everyone thought like that. Nothing would get done.
@richarddeese1991
@richarddeese1991 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks! The saddest thing to me is when I see someone walking around, or in a line at the store, and they're on the phone. Their reactions become so weird! It's like the physical people around them are an actual nuisance, & the only thing that matters is that phone stuck to their ear! I've actually worked cash registers, & had the next guy in line (yes - *_always_* a guy) actually hold up a finger, like, "hang on a minute" at me! Do they really not see all the people in line behind them? Are they really that far gone, that they think we're all just going to stand there while they finish their conversation? [If they ever do!?!] People get so attached to their phones that it's as if nothing else around them is even real to them. Now *_that's lonely_* - whether they know it or not! tavi.
@BabyJokerGaming
@BabyJokerGaming 6 жыл бұрын
i spent the whole video trying to figure out if that was a hat or his hair
@DirtyEdon
@DirtyEdon 6 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@evelynsnyder5866
@evelynsnyder5866 6 жыл бұрын
heh I see what you mean.
@WWZenaDo
@WWZenaDo 6 жыл бұрын
I love this video! Good presenter, well presented too.
@Bucksh0ts
@Bucksh0ts 6 жыл бұрын
It took me 23 seconds to realize that was a hat and not his hair 🤣
@stepdun99
@stepdun99 6 жыл бұрын
ŚÇÀŔ 😂😂😂😂
@timothyco0per
@timothyco0per 6 жыл бұрын
So Mr. N'Diaye we're making you the head of seeker. That was great, I've never enjoyed a talk on loneliness until today.
@soundlyawake
@soundlyawake 6 жыл бұрын
my first time seeing his host aaaaaand I’m in love
@demonmercer2736
@demonmercer2736 6 жыл бұрын
3:24 "I can't wait to play with it" ahhh yes, the battle cry of every single lonely man on the planet.
@andrewthomas4941
@andrewthomas4941 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a lonely person
@FranticFoe321
@FranticFoe321 6 жыл бұрын
I am lucky to meet a guy who will always talk to me and keep me company even if I am boring and a jerk.
@Imilmano
@Imilmano 6 жыл бұрын
Who else is an introvert? ✋
@PerceptionVsReality333
@PerceptionVsReality333 6 жыл бұрын
Me
@gabrieltheodore621
@gabrieltheodore621 6 жыл бұрын
I actually like this host. Well done delivering the subject without making it too dark.
@sergiorivasisla
@sergiorivasisla 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the carisma when talking about this topic ;)
@NoNotVahzy
@NoNotVahzy 6 жыл бұрын
So I guess I’m smoking 15 cigarettes a day, thing is I already do that every day because nicotine numbs the pain. I’m only 16. Please, please listen to your parents when they tell you to never even pick up one cigarette. Even if it feels like it helps you, just stay as far away from nicotine as you can.
@giovannifrrri5495
@giovannifrrri5495 6 жыл бұрын
Hope you get better, stay strong mate!
@JosefK2275
@JosefK2275 6 жыл бұрын
it’s not quantity of friendships, but quality, and thus most are doomed.
@sleepysartorialist
@sleepysartorialist 6 жыл бұрын
Very nice choice of t-shirt 👌🏾
@brisnamtz
@brisnamtz 6 жыл бұрын
Rocko's Modern Life! Love the shirt. My favorite show as a kid. 😊
@willywanker2376
@willywanker2376 6 жыл бұрын
I feel better when I'm alone in an empty place
@budgie4350
@budgie4350 6 жыл бұрын
He’s nice.
@braysniper58
@braysniper58 6 жыл бұрын
I love this guy
@hollywoodmoviesreviewinurd5617
@hollywoodmoviesreviewinurd5617 6 жыл бұрын
I have completely isolated myself from the world the only social interactions I have with people is on twitter no and I will be honest I am very happy about that no one wants me I don't want anyone ...
@supahjadi8944
@supahjadi8944 6 жыл бұрын
You're missing out on REAL social interaction.
@hollywoodmoviesreviewinurd5617
@hollywoodmoviesreviewinurd5617 6 жыл бұрын
superyadi what do you mean ???
@supahjadi8944
@supahjadi8944 6 жыл бұрын
I'm just rephrasing the video. Online interactions such as "twitter" as you mentioned do not count as real social interactions. Go outside, have a chat with people your age.
@thinkingofaname6233
@thinkingofaname6233 6 жыл бұрын
Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am! Environmental factors may prevent him.
@ISpeakHTML
@ISpeakHTML 6 жыл бұрын
I love this guy. Amazing video ((:
@careforjusticealways
@careforjusticealways 7 ай бұрын
i tried meeting people and it made me feel worse. I volunteer and that’s nice so i’m just gonna make my goal to volunteer more throughout the week
@noloosmond6688
@noloosmond6688 6 жыл бұрын
quite a charismatic fellow..keep them coming, will you?
@nesseihtgnay9419
@nesseihtgnay9419 6 жыл бұрын
Some people are just mentally stronger than others being lonely...sometimes lonely helps the person, with time it helps them think and realizes what that person want in life. The others it makes them insane sometimes turning them into killers or creepers or even unstable. So it only depends on how strong the person is.
@brandonellis1337
@brandonellis1337 6 жыл бұрын
Didn't plan to comment but u mentioned solitary confinement in prison and that I can relate with. I did 130 days in solitary and ONLY came out of a 8 foot by 8 foot cell 3 times a week for literally a 1 minute shower. It was lonely to say the least. But now years later I look back and realize that I've been more lonely at times out here when depressed then I was when I was truly alone for those months in confinement. U can feel very lonely and be surrounded by people. If u know what I mean then u been there and can truly say u know how it feels to be lonely.
@avengersnewbie2348
@avengersnewbie2348 6 жыл бұрын
Whenever I don't talk with people around, they think I am oversmart and have ego, pride problem. But I don't feel comfortable and confident enough. Once in a group meeting, someone told everyone that I am introvert and then later after few minutes I told them I am not feeling well and left the meeting. Damn, loneliness sucks. I am improving a little by little everyday, but I usually spend most of my day on KZbin, Instagram, Facebook, games etc..
@jhonnyenglish2545
@jhonnyenglish2545 6 жыл бұрын
A person from middle age used to have the same amount of information as a single Newsweek magazine edition, during it's lifetime. We've been lonely since always, but today, the diference, we live a diferent kind of lonlyness. We shout to the whole world but no one listens.
@RaydioRental
@RaydioRental 6 жыл бұрын
It's tearing me apart, Lisa!
@Bill-zp2mt
@Bill-zp2mt 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for giving me more anxiety, just what I needed.
@MrWillibaldvongluck1
@MrWillibaldvongluck1 6 жыл бұрын
Insurance companies will jump on this. If they find out how isolated you are they'll load your life assurance policy as you will be at increased risk of heart attack or stroke. If you have no family or had a useless one, it's particularly hard. You can't just go out and meet another one. When I was a teenager (and long before,) my habit of relying on the kindness of strangers began. Some took me to their hearts and plenty took advantage of this vulnerability, which haunts me to this day. Like a fog following me. And the shame of it...The only thing that would make me feel any better would be to go back in time to say, 1975-1995 and stay there until I died. Coming from a rubbish family sets you off on the wrong foot completely. It's like trying to maintain a house with little or no foundations. You're forever patching, underpinning and trying to shore it up. It will never be strong enough to survive a storm or high wind.
@horizon241
@horizon241 6 жыл бұрын
If you need more IRL social interaction, I recommend finding out when your local comic book shop plays Dungeons & Dragons, because it's a great way to meet new people and have a lot of fun in the process.
@sargambihari4855
@sargambihari4855 6 жыл бұрын
I love him! He is amazing !!!! More videos with him please.
@cahidijoyoraharjo7833
@cahidijoyoraharjo7833 6 жыл бұрын
Dude, the Pandas didn't pop up long enough for us to enjoy! Definitely need more than two seconds for their cuteness to sink into our minds!
@epicshade3463
@epicshade3463 6 жыл бұрын
When people want to be real to each other that would help. "Friendships go both ways" including those feeling moments of help.The reason why some people game is because they meet better people in gaming then they do in their own street or couple neighborhoods. The people they truly see as a friend and don't feel like there is a missing link.
@bryanbunchesofoats
@bryanbunchesofoats 6 жыл бұрын
Why did he say don’t leave just when I was gonna leave. I’m SHOOK.
@psychoactivednb
@psychoactivednb 6 жыл бұрын
It makes me realize how much more I like myself than other people. :)
@codruverde8503
@codruverde8503 6 жыл бұрын
I didn't know Brian Blade is such a good speaker
@carringtonmiles4489
@carringtonmiles4489 6 жыл бұрын
I had to go to rehab to figure this out. It's absolutely true. I love your video
@kaiyan1573
@kaiyan1573 6 жыл бұрын
I am lonely, i seek independent and i thrive in that environment. Become the best version of your self first before investing your time in other people.
@brickbuilderx2316
@brickbuilderx2316 6 жыл бұрын
I can understand “not being able to find meaning in life”. Honestly, I’d rather be locked in solitary confinement, no stupidity but that of yourself to deal with
@yabbadabbindude
@yabbadabbindude 6 жыл бұрын
This loneliness won't leave me alone 🎶
@bwxmoto
@bwxmoto 6 жыл бұрын
Most people are a hol es... Sometimes loneliness is preferable to hanging out with a hol es. LOL
@ETBrooD
@ETBrooD 6 жыл бұрын
BWX Correction: some people are aholes. Some people are cool. Go find the ones that are cool :)
@bwxmoto
@bwxmoto 6 жыл бұрын
LOL I do, just saying if there's only a hole s around, better to be by yourself.
@lsdpepe3516
@lsdpepe3516 6 жыл бұрын
Alot of the time...maybe geographic location is a factor...
@wildmanofthenorth1598
@wildmanofthenorth1598 6 жыл бұрын
It the inability of others to find meaning in my life but they're just not ready for my brainwaves
@angusandthetriplets
@angusandthetriplets 6 жыл бұрын
That came at the perfect time. Thanks.
@jeremiasrobinson
@jeremiasrobinson 6 жыл бұрын
I like the guy who hosted this video. I almost feel like we're friends.
@nolatare
@nolatare 6 жыл бұрын
You got an awesome shirt. Also, interesting science! I'd also like to know how severely online only interactions compare to real life only interactions and also a no interaction group. I think it'd be an interesting study on what sorts of brain alterations such a study would present.
@Epicurean999
@Epicurean999 6 жыл бұрын
This video was ONLY AND SOLELY made for me.YAAAAAAY I'm no more lonely😀
@1nulcearfamily224
@1nulcearfamily224 6 жыл бұрын
dude your my new favorite on this show. so funny. seriously.
@zubairbhat1723
@zubairbhat1723 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks to social media we have to discuss loneliness as epidemic
@lillylake
@lillylake 6 жыл бұрын
I enjoy being on my own, people just bring drama. I left Facebook and I don’t plan on going back! I deleted my account that had 800+ people and most of the list simply just couldn’t care less as long as the likes kept flowing. Another problem is your either to nice or to mean - you can’t please anymore. Well no one I know anyway. I’m happy to do my own thing with the small amount of people I know. But life is busy, kids jobs etc. It’s all good, acceptance isn’t a bid deal to me.
@OrganicStuff1
@OrganicStuff1 6 жыл бұрын
Don’t need to socialize when you have the feeling of getting shot in public
@Feber2001
@Feber2001 6 жыл бұрын
In some areas...Yes.
@horizon241
@horizon241 6 жыл бұрын
Nice Rocko's Modern Life T-shirt! Brings me back to my 90's childhood cartoon days.
@Coco111s2
@Coco111s2 6 жыл бұрын
Ive always had the feeling like you see in the movies where your standing motionless in a crowded place and they are all in fast foward moving around you. Never noticing you. Like you watching life pass you by.
@mr.l5783
@mr.l5783 5 жыл бұрын
I’m around people all the time. Yet the more time I spend with people, the more I realize how lonely I actualy am.
@funnynickline
@funnynickline 6 жыл бұрын
'sometimes I feel like it but I deal with it cause my doctor told me it is normal,. without it life is no meaning it is a part to our lives sometimes.... and my answer to these are those with your details and a prayer, for me to be back to life after sometimes.😁😍
@aarondelgado3421
@aarondelgado3421 6 жыл бұрын
We were definitely designed to be social creatures, but yes, it is perfectly normal to desire to be alone sometimes. Too many young people are very busy on their phones instead of actually going out and socializing with people. People seek attention and satisfaction in the wrong ways by being alone [and on their phone].
@LandoKalrizzian22
@LandoKalrizzian22 6 жыл бұрын
Put this dude on more videos!!
@chrisluckas7521
@chrisluckas7521 6 жыл бұрын
Being lonely is not always bad, it can actually be quite pleasent sometimes if you need some time to think.
@saloni2244
@saloni2244 Жыл бұрын
You are confusing loneliness with being alone solitude is a different thing loneliness is a state of mind it feels like no1 cares about you while they talk to others they don't talk to you and even if you talk they arent interested in the conversation
@sigitato560
@sigitato560 6 жыл бұрын
The panda pic really help, thanks
@wolflegend5950
@wolflegend5950 6 жыл бұрын
Im lonely and no one does anything about it. I'm shy as hell and if I do try to become friends with someone they cut me off on the first day. People see that I'm alone but they just don't care and my parents just recently got divorced (Im 16) and I've been with them my entire life. I have depression becuase of other events that happened in the past and recently. So all of this is actually killing me slowly and painfully.
@Michaelmyrers0
@Michaelmyrers0 6 жыл бұрын
I love your references when you talk about stuff 🙂
@clarisse.padilla
@clarisse.padilla 6 жыл бұрын
Can I just say how timely this is for me...
@amityville768
@amityville768 4 жыл бұрын
i thought thats his hair
@Itsnotanymore-ku7dz
@Itsnotanymore-ku7dz 3 жыл бұрын
SAME
@luvyou-baby
@luvyou-baby 6 жыл бұрын
i think we suffer from anxiety and depression from genetic/food/environmental factors => so we than isolate ourselves to protect us from being hurt , ashamed, feeling more anxiety , sadness and stress => which then makes us be even more lonely=> and than more depressed and anxious . well atleast thats how it is for me
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