‘Self-indulgent narcissist’ loses it after being misgendered

[@ken4016]

If you're dressing like a girl, and people continue to call you "sir," it's not working. How many hints do you need?

[@gilbertmillers4865]

Probably nine dozens since this asshole chooses to deny reality

[@margaretmedellin9112]

😂

[@Markham12thcentury]

I refuse to play their game. I call them "Them/their". If someone is 6',2", 210 lbs and wears an Adams apple and a size 14 shoe, that's a linebacker for the N.F.L., not a She/her

[@SiliconBong]

we've a four letter word in new zealand that is already use just fitting for such occasions. . .

[@AwakenedAvocado]

​@@SiliconBongwhat is it

[@johnmusgrave3179]

There was no misgendering. The person was still male regardless of his wish to be something else and "Sir" was wholly appropriate.

[@astutik8909]

Except for the sir part. Sir has the connatation of respect.

[@kyleklukas4808]

Right until you've had three years of hormones, after you get the knife , you are a sir no matter what you want to tell people .

[@jlc5639]

it has penis

[@SmartDumbNerdyCool]

His voice is deeper than mine, and mine is quite deep. It feels like satire to me, like he's mocking pronouns and Sky News is running the story as factual.

[@hiwall4883]

Or using the persons actual name would be even more appropriate.🙄

[@wstavis3135]

He was not "misgendered", he met people not living his delusion.

[@TheSansoomike]

That is my exact answer to these people. They can pretend all they want. But we don't have to play along with their delusions.

[@johnroekoek12345]

When I put on my dracula suit, I expect everybody to call me count

[@patriciablanton6243]

So true!

[@gazb87yorkshiresalt48]

"IT'S MA'AM!!!!!" 🤡 🌎

[@Andygarrett357]

Maybe King Charles will give you one of his suits. @@johnroekoek12345

[@wozy]

Nothing like a middle aged man dressing like a 6 year old and then getting pissed off at everyone around when your voice is deeper than morgan freeman. Good trick to get free food though!

[@avalon1108]

Oh, that’s rich 😂 Thank you.

[@maximan8545]

Savage🤣

[@anapanu]

Lmao 😂

[@D-Will2k]

😂😂😂

[@unnamed2075]

Lilly is only 29 but looks much older. I am nearly 40 and thought she was my same age

[@ananda224]

As an Asian male, I had quite delicate, almost feminine facial features when I was younger. I also preferred to keep my hair at medium length. There were times when service worker would mistake me for a woman and address me as 'ma'am'. I always took it in stride and found it amusing rather than offensive, because I had a firm sense of my own masculinity and didn't need external affirmation of my gender identity.

[@AlbertoEscalante15]

You see, as transgender person I can agree with this. If I get misgendered it does not matter to me because I know who I am. However, the individual in this video has made it a clear point, so, it is quite disrespectful.

[@nennesezagain]

Well said

[@adamanhavengarde]

it's not disrespectful if its instinctive. you see the waiters in all occassions were talking naturally. besides, in some cases, he said his pronouns were she/her, which has nothing to do with "sir". But that's besides the point. Pronouns are supposed to be a non-topic. But saying that misgendering is 'stab in the heart' is exactly why he is a narcisist. Freud, in his lectures did say that homosexuality is connected to narcisism. Although he said it briefly, I think with modern evidence, he was spot on.

[@thedubwhisperer2157]

As a fairly big and unmistakable male, I used to have long hair in a ponytail, an equally long 'ZZ Top' beard and wore camo a lot. A mother with a young child walked past me once, who said: 'Mummy, why has that girl got a beard?". The mother was mortified; I was wetting myself laughing. Sticks and stones people, sticks and stones...

[@gillcawthorn7572]

@@thedubwhisperer2157 That reminds me of a time out shopping , when a dear little child lifted up it`s arms to me and said" Daddy"!. I was in jeans admittedly and didn`t wear a lot of makeup ,but as a mother of two ,I found it hilarious

[@wetookthetrashout]

I grew up in the 70's and could not even fathom that one day such idiocy as this could be normalized.

[@thelegendarymskatlynn]

i was born in 1992 and i don’t understand myself.

[@robingilmore1444]

No kidding. I miss those days.

[@jett3332]

I CANT REMEMBER ANYONE IN THE 70’s HAVING SUCH DELUSIONS. THEY WOULD NOT LIVE LONG IN PRISON.

[@guidedmeditation2396]

This is proof of how social media indoctrinates and hypnotizes people. Fast moving images and repetitive themes for hours can convince people of anything. To truly have a deep thought about anything you need at least 17 seconds. Continual drip drip drip drip rapid images and words at a fast rate will program a person. You cannot get them to think of anything for any length of time.

[@Cornerboy73]

They aren't normal or numerous in the grand scheme of things. Media blows it up for clicks

[@HamSandwich556]

Imagine going to a restaurant, setting up a tripod to record yourself acting like a toddler when people use your correct pronouns. Dude should be banned from every restaurant in the country.

[@trishbrims]

Manners are manners .. if my child was trans .. bi .. gay etc and behaved that way i would give him a lesson or two .. and if i did have children with a gender difference they wouldn’t behave this way ….. WOKE WOKE ..

[@Leon-ty6bw]

@@trishbrims if your little kid is “trans”, check what the school or internet are grooming them with.

[@Takeshi357]

Just ban photography. They can do nothing without an audience.

[@helenowen5408]

Bet that wasn't a restaurant in fnq🤣🤣🤣🍻🇦🇺

[@progrockrules]

Exactly - take away the exposure on social media and - boom - problem solved.@@Takeshi357

[@HayesRanch]

NO ONE CARES WHAT YOU WANT TO BE CALLED - GET OVER IT!

[@mesayso7095]

Absolute love to you!❤️

[@jasmineallen5059]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Ma'am.

[@missizzy1345]

@@jasmineallen5059you thought you ate huh 😂😂

[@mesayso7095]

@@jasmineallen5059 I am an actual ma’am thank God ladies! Am I right?

[@mesayso7095]

He actually called ahead… do you have a reservation? Nope! I got pronouns that make no sense🙁

[@Puleczech]

"Knife in a heart"... That is just ridiculous. No wonder these mega-narcissists perceive words as "violence".

[@astutik8909]

Dont worry, it was only a fake knife like his fake personality.

[@tommas2674]

manipulative little dungsters.

[@bstybyz3]

If only, if only, it was a real one every time they did this...

[@BadDriversOz]

@@astutik8909 Fake 'RAGE' also!

[@JustMe-yi8cd]

his heart is obviously on the right side of his chest. So he really is different and "special"

[@toddles9]

Truth is, he was actually hoping to be misgendered so he could make content to show his 'oppression'.

[@derealized797]

This "pronoun" BS just as ridiculous as demanding that people take an imaginary friend seriously. Not much different at all, childish delusions that no one should waste their time or energy on. If it "hurts" him then, well, he can afford restaurants, the guy can afford a shrink, dude obviously needs it.

[@peterlawson777]

Absolutely right, otherwise why would he have himself being filmed? He was definitely hoping to be “misgendered”.

[@deniseclaeys8295]

I've had a double mastectomy due to breast cancer, and chose not to "reconstruct" due to the advanced stage of the cancer. I was recently called "them," by an "well meaning" lgbt person. I didn't like it, but I let it go because I was just buying groceries and having a nice day. What is the big deal? (Unlike that phony and weak man, I have actually had a knife cutting away flesh near my heart, but I don't see myself as a victim.) 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@MM-cv5il]

Exactly!!!

[@demondbrooks568]

Why is her voice so low

[@kevinkish487]

If being called “sir” was the worst part of your day, then you’ve had an easy day.

[@ak-jx1pm]

It's literally a knife in his heart bro. Or bra, I don't want to misgender

[@RighAlban]

​@@ak-jx1pmDon't won't to use the wrong pronounce now 😂

[@0-Jaybee-0]

Glad he can go order fancy meals all over, while baiting poor waiters

[@BraveNewWhirled]

He's not happy that people identify him for who he is... because he's not happy with who he was...(..is..) You a dude in a dress... Except yourself for who you are... Not who you'd like to be.. A lot of children in the playground pretend to be 'Robots and Dinosaurs ' ...but they grow ..(..and bleeding from your anus is NOT...classified as 'having a Period '..🤨🤔

[@marwatson7408]

Absolutely 💯 👍

[@nolangillentine773]

I don't care what it costs me anymore, I will not under any circumstances participate in their delusions.

[@shawnalee9775]

THIS👆❤❤❤

[@Sileaine]

You are by watching this

[@AIG1992]

​@@Sileainehow

[@nolangillentine773]

@@Sileaine No, I think this channel is solid enough that watching this video is in no way supporting the delusions of transgenderism.

[@mesayso7095]

AMEN!!! And I stand with you!!! This has become so ridiculous. Whatever point they were trying to make, has been wiped out by the stupidity

[@jasperhorace7147]

They aren’t misgendering him. He’s misgendered himself.

[@guidedmeditation2396]

That is the best comment on the subject I have ever come upon. Imagine being in this situation with a person like that accusing you of misgendering them and you say "I think we can both agree that one of us is misgendering you" To find out who is wrong and who is right. What sex does it say on your birth certificate?

[@greg16266]

Agreed 👍

[@HammerJammer81]

THIS

[@lorib360]

Bingo!

[@p.beesley9745]

😅

[@te22a]

Imagine being so deluded you have to phone ahead to tell the restaurant staff what gender to call you. 😂

[@ThePanicman66]

If I was back in the restaurant business and someone said this to me while booking a table,I would tell them not to bother coming in 😏😁

[@elless6535]

They aren't being "accidentally" misgendered. It's not an accident to state facts.

[@wendyweiss4469]

God forbid something bad happened to him. If he can't handle a word, he can't handle anything in this tough life.

[@mesayso7095]

Legit amen!

[@azu-c9831]

ok sir

[@mesayso7095]

But HE TOTALLY HAS CONTROL OF HIS BARE MIDDLE 🤮

[@mesayso7095]

Can you imagine… “This DUDE is forcing us all to call him she”

[@AshSee-m4r]

That's a man

[@mike1967sam]

I was a secondary school teacher for 26 years. Last year I called a 15 year old girl "HER" once, only once. They opened up an investigation, I hired a lawyer, since this wasn't a judicial case but a disciplinary action within the school board I was found guilty. Unbeknownst to me was the fact that they (the school board) could find me guilty despite the evidence I presented. My lawyer knew this all along but only told me a month before I received the decision so that during the 7 month duration of the case he could continue to charge me. I'm 56 years old and I left teaching because I refuse to disregard objective reality. We NEED TO UNITE, TOO MANY PEOPLE ARE HAVING THEIR LIVES DESTROYED BECAUSE SOMEONE FEELS OFFENDED.

[@Fruity_maze1029]

Ah yes, because a teacher using a pronoun is enough to get you fired. Next time, at least try to make your lie more belivable. Either A: this didn't happen or B: you were fired for another reason.

[@amel2784]

​@@Fruity_maze1029You're living in an alternate universe, you know that don't you?

[@oeb3847]

I am 56. So you just lost your job, and possibly your profession because of calling a girl--HER. I can't take it anymore!!! We did not grow--up in this kind of world. I seriously wish you well!

[@trollhunter6934]

​​@@amel2784it's called "projection" because they have a serious mental illness and someone let them on the internet without supervision. What IT is doing is screaming at YOU about how they really feel about THEMSELVES. They hate their own bodies SO MUCH they will cut off those "offensive" body parts off so they can pretend to be someone else. I would feel sorry for them if they weren't so hateful to everyone around them.

[@Fruity_maze1029]

@@amel2784 How many bath salts did you do before writing this comment? I'm concerned about your brain health

[@peterwilliamson8963]

NEVER APOLOGISE TO THE INSANE WHEN YOU EXPOSE THEIR DELUSIONS

[@RaMbo-ve2bu]

Or say : Sorry SIR

[@Opinionsrnotfacts574]

Exactly how much does it hurt you to be polite? Seriously - here show me on the doll where it hurts you.

[@susanbarnes9800]

@@Opinionsrnotfacts574 They were trying to be polite. That's why they called him Sir instead of jerk.

[@johnhoran9840]

Never humor the insane.@@Opinionsrnotfacts574

[@Puleczech]

@@Opinionsrnotfacts574 But that is exactly the point. Misgendering someone does not equal to being impolite. This video just proves the point. The waiter was polite and even apologised about it, but I am sure the entire fucking restaurant will be labelled as "transphobic" now. And to the point of being polite. I really don't think it is polite mandating other people remember some completely arbitrary stats about you, especially in a place like restaurant, where the interaction is temporary by definition. It comes from the same bucket as "DO YOU KNOW WHO I AM???" or similar extremely self-centred behaviour.

[@randywoodworth5990]

Pretending to be something you're not, is the very definition of delusional, and expect others to participate in it is even stupider.

[@scarlett19b]

👉🏽 *It's a combination of Multiple Personality Disorder/Peter Pan Syndrome/Autogynephilia/Body&Gender Dysphoria!/Being A Pathological Liar!* 👈🏽

[@TheAppaloosa14]

The emperor has no clothes lol

[@scarlett19b]

@@TheAppaloosa14 *Right!?*

[@JohnDo187]

@@scarlett19bShes a woman, you guys are transphobic #TransWomanAreWoman

[@derealized797]

​@@TheAppaloosa14 Thank god this dude does. 'Cause he ain't fooling anyone

[@robinkyllonen5470]

This is the same person who had the audacity to claim that Kurt Cobain was trans.

[@robinkyllonen5470]

According to them, it's only offensive to misgender someone living, but shitting on someone's legacy after they die is fine.

[@hazaenrawr]

I saw that. I was sooo annoyed by it. She is such an embarrasment for our trans-community.

[@dendog13]

It's a he, nothing feminine about this dude 😬😵‍💫

[@johnsmythe6134]

@@hazaenrawr "SHE"?????? That's a damn DUDE. Stop this braindeadness.

[@sajahb7444]

If he’s filming himself he’s clearly hoping for it to happen so he can make himself a victim. Sticks and stones sir!

[@redskyatnight123]

Facts

[@redskyatnight123]

Theses freaks are nutters

[@pmc2999]

What kind of person sets up a camera every time they go into a restraunt? He's hoping to have someone slip up (or just not care). Looking for that free food. And to post his video to his few followers so they can console him over how oppressed he is.

[@lisa438321]

Not sir!🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@errolfoster1101]

I wonder how many places he went to get these reactions

[@vladtheimpaler9577]

If being misgendered is trauma to you but you keep tricking people into doing it then I can only conclude that you love the pain and by definition it makes you a masochist.

[@gibsonduvall]

Vlad: I always find it highly amusing when these mentally deranged freaks accuse people of mis-gendering them when in fact, the exact opposite is happening😂

[@lunkerdoodle-1]

I think that word is to big for their vocabulary.

[@bobblue_west]

In other news, Sir, Jews are being kidnapped and beheaded, Ukrainians are fighting and dying for their country.

[@TheScience69]

thats a man anyway. even if he is wearing lipstick, calling him sir isnt misgendering him. misgendering means calling them the wrong gender. pretending thats a woman is the misgendering.

[@spiritfingers6897]

​@TheScience69 Then they say gender is different from sex all while at the same time dressing as the opposite sex, you cant make this $hit up.

[@DragNetJoe]

Yes. It is painful when your delusions are forced to confront reality.

[@fritz596....]

It's a childs cry for attention.

[@gordocarbo]

@@fritz596.... Yet they get upset when they do get it cause it isnt what they want. Cant help but wonder where Daddy was when they were growing up.

[@wilson6904]

I can't help but wonder where either of your parents are with how you like to dehumanize people for not having a father as if it's their fault. Do you go to the funerals of soldiers and make videos of you mocking their little kids crying? After all, those kids are fatherless and clearly the IED explosion was the soldier's fault. /s@@gordocarbo

[@JeannieH1006]

HES already filming, he’s waiting for it to happen to start drama… Yes I said it HE!!! I’m done with this pronouns insanity

[@seventhtrumpet2012]

The thing is,.. HE'S not being "misgendered". If HE can't accept HIMSELF for what HE is, HE shouldn't expect anyone else to.

[@crushendobear]

right.... the one who constantly stabs him in HIS heart is himself, because HE constantly misgenders himself.

[@NickDanger-t5c]

He is the one who is "misgendering".

[@swiadomosczwiazkowpl]

If parent and peers don't accept you then you can't accept yourself. Basic psychology.

[@trickshot_katebishop7612]

Exactly he’s misgendering his self

[@kyleb6050]

Right 💯 percent right. Why do I have to pretend to help his mental illness? I make sure they know I don't play along!

[@FirstNameLastName-sc2lm]

Anytime you see them recording themselves you know that they want a reaction

[@pingu3984]

100% correct. If there's a camera, there's a performance.

[@stick9648]

Take it a Kotex and say you're welcome.

[@Daniel-h8e1r]

They need their stupid validation... They forget we dont have time for this shit

[@leoarmand751]

Thinking the same thing, but then realizing that everyone is recording themselves doing completely random things as well.. that being said: this person needs professional help.

[@texican512]

Yup I’d roll my eyes if I was one of the waiters and call him out for using us in his videos for views 🙄

[@johngomillion4872]

Just because people see through your disguise, doesn’t make them wrong..

[@420StepsFromHell]

Ze Heavy is a spy...

[@coobay4786]

Newsflash your either male or female 🙉

[@ldavanzo44]

Perfect comment😊

[@Southbound63]

We’ll be normal then. The world is going crazy.

[@peterwhitey4992]

Why are you so judgmental? If someone feels like a woman and wants to live as a woman, then why does it bother you? He wasn't being rude about it. He asked nice and even asked ahead of time to be called she. It doesn't affect your life at all. you're the Karen here.

[@Eric-f4b]

A sir trying to be a Karen.

[@tedzeiter833]

Sadly we've tolerated these people for way to long.

[@Timothy_toenail_jr]

True

[@lizzieb6311]

Yes. The previous term we used was correct: CROSS DRESSERS

[@anthonymorena6259]

Not me...couldn't tolerate them from the beginning...

[@neilfoster814]

Transvestite actually! @@lizzieb6311

[@hazelanderson1479]

@@lizzieb6311 My generation called them transvestites.

[@cherylannzetz9641]

There is no such thing as "misgendering" someone and i would never apologize to these people.

[@crushendobear]

@cheylannzetz : here is an idea : when we come across a self-indulgent woke jerk like this him / her,... or her / him we use the phrase : How can I help you my fellow human. What would you like for dinner tonight my fellow human. What do you think? I'm above you a bit ^^^^^^^^

[@ElvisPriceless]

I think the same. I try to be correct cause I'm a good person. But I won't feel sorry for any poor soul who think he's a woman, a tree or a flying squirels.

[@angelaharris53]

Technically there is. As a woman, I have had people call me "sir" before on accident. When I wear my hair down, it softens my face and there is no mistaking what I am, but when I pull it back, my features are strong, not softly pretty, so at a glance, I am not traditionally feminine through the face. So I have had people more than once just call me "sir" at a glance when I simply throw my hair up instead of taking the time to wear it down. Of course, I am not so personally affronted by things that I make a big deal out of it. Mistakes get made, and I know I'm not a glamor queen.

[@NickDanger-t5c]

I will never lower myself to the point of buying into their stupid fantasy.

[@ElvisPriceless]

@@NickDanger-t5c He was a he. Now it's a thing.

[@lilblacklamb222]

How do these people have the energy to be offended by literally everything all the time?

[@sonialinsey8083]

Idk but I guarantee their health is suffering because of it.

[@PruneHub]

Am I wrong for seriously hoping you're right?

[@MikeWhite-n9l]

3:46

[@moralityisnotsubjective5]

They don't have jobs.

[@paulbell4062]

I totally agree it must be exhausting to be permanently offended 😮

[@alexbecker2868]

This person needs to get over being called Sir because with a deep voice like that you're always going to be called Sir. Get over it!

[@Franklinguy759]

I accidentally misgendered someone the other week. My wife said to me “You need to be more careful with that these days “ My answer to her was “No I don’t, I’m retired, I’m not getting a performance review, I’m not going to lose my job, and I’m nor running for public office. I will never be cruel, but I will never be careful “

[@x19Ghost93x]

Don't even worry 'bout that. It's the time that changes, not you, why should you... why should I... because people get oversensitive!? Naaaah... Had a transgender a few months ago who was looking for a job in my store. On his first day of work one of his first question was: "how are transgendered people treated here?". My only response was "I don't know... nobody cares 'bout that - after all people are here to do their job, that's what you should be here for, not for attention 'bout your gender"

[@bullgravy6906]

Called a guy a guy at my old job, he said “I’m actually a woman, common mistake.” Now I have a heavy beard, huge bushy mustache, bright blue eyes, and a strong brow ridge so it is incredibly easy to tell by my face when I do not care what you think. So I just stared at him rather sternly until he said “…and you don’t care.” “No sir, I don’t care. Get your reports done and turned in before end of day.” He actually became a good employee after that

[@apontutul]

You need to be careful in life mostly but not with these trash

[@Igorath]

but you can, and will, be arrested by the freak police for that. canada and england are the hot spots for this.

[@Hudpix16]

Lucky, I wish I was retired and did not have to give a crap.

[@Leon-ty6bw]

- It hurts a lot when you call me sir! - It hurts a lot when you force your delusion on me, sir.

[@1Corinthians6Verses9thru11]

Exactly 💯 ... this comment deserves an award.

[@AlbertoEscalante15]

No, that’s not how it works. Look up suicide rates amongst transgender/LGBTQ+ youth, add discrimination, hate crimes, and murder, and you’ll see that the hurt in our community is very, very different.

[@trishlangford5773]

Absolutely 💯💯💯

[@Leon-ty6bw]

⁠@@AlbertoEscalante15 Maybe stop forcing normal people to affirm your delusional identity, instead, try to really love your body how you were born as.

[@Leon-ty6bw]

⁠​⁠@@AlbertoEscalante15 Yes I looked up those number, I found that most the real abuse are done by the people in your own community (gay lovers/pimps boss/ drug dealer best friends). But you don’t care to solve that real issue. Your loudest complain is for strangers who simply refuse to participate in your fantasy.

[@Still-Learning]

There used to be a time when schizophrenia was a mental health issue, now it's a political marketing campaign.

[@adcas1238]

Pyromaniac and kleptomaniac are mental disorders as well , what’s next are we going to glorify them as well and support them The world has gone crazy

[@ew7512]

Schizophrenia is still a genuine and severely disabling psychiatric disorder. This person isn't genuinely delusional. They're self obsessed.

[@free..to..air..]

True...how agendas have to be driven speedily and incessantly to hammer home perceived " Normalisation " processes...to the detriment of logical argument against ..say it long and loud enough and people will be forced to accept the absurd as aforesaid rational argument

[@Jason-im3pz]

And then when you bring up the mental illness concern for these people, you're now somehow no better than a murderer

[@mrdth1012]

Schizophrenia is still a mental health issue but this person ain't it. I'd put my money on Borderline personality with narcissitc traits and gender dysphoria.

[@TermiteVideo]

Jock in a frock, he would NEVER be mistaken for a woman. These guys are hilarious, they think a lipstick makes them a woman! Unbelievable

[@Without_Lies_Media_Dies]

I swear we need to send all of these things to Madagascar and let them survive without anything.

[@gilbertmillers4865]

Yeah or Saudi Arabia

[@julianpetkov8320]

Before Margarita Panahi pushes them off a rooftop?😂😅

[@milk_n_bikkies6345]

Mars would be better. Why should they share our oxygen?

[@Without_Lies_Media_Dies]

@@julianpetkov8320 She would be doing humanity a great service.

[@Without_Lies_Media_Dies]

@@milk_n_bikkies6345 True.

[@l456tatertot3]

He wasn’t misgendered, he was referred to as Sir and that’s what he is. We need to stop participating in this nonsense.

[@sonquatsch8585]

😂

[@dereksbooks]

It would have been misgendering if he had been called anything other than sir.

[@GameChanger597]

No one is participating in this insanity but the demented themselves

[@VauxhallViva1975]

"SHE" does not exactly sound like a woman. "SHE" has the low-frequency voice........OF A MAN, dressed in woman's clothing - a transvestite, in other words.

[@dianneatfeld687]

SHE!

[@jamessm4401]

Calling this creature “sir” is giving HIM more respect than HE deserves.

[@bruhmcchaddeus413]

Americuckss

[@scarlett19b]

@wheatandtares-xk4lp👉🏽 *Respect = earned!* 👈🏽

[@luislaplume8261]

Well even Rachel Maddow aka Richard Madcow of MSNBC the Mindless Senseless Nitwit Broadcasting Company can be also cisgendered! 😁

[@raedgaj3878]

IT or THING would be more appropriate.

[@jamesportrais3946]

_Now_ I understand MGTOW...

[@sedlyholmes3722]

"I am not a sir" *Bro sounds like a Sir*

[@Leon-ty6bw]

- The waiter just called me sir! - So what’s the problem, sir?

[@gothgirl4evr881]

"Well sir, I'm sorry but that's bc that is what you are"

[@jmc4766]

Lmfao

[@MrCFNA]

what about, what's the problem mate?

[@lefkytheshin]

It really ticks me off that, as if life weren't tough enough for folks, now we're being barked at by these freaks.

[@echoecholima]

“Crybully” is such a great synonym for covert narcissist, I love it!!

[@margricks]

I'm stealing that word!!!!! I hope you don't mind!

[@AliceNsWonderland]

​@@margricksthe broadcaster literally used that exact word... echo didn't create it; you don't need op's permission😂😂😂😂😂

[@margricks]

@@AliceNsWonderland LOL!

[@indridcold8433]

It is quite the term. But, it will likely not be made into an actual word because it makes micro demographic groups look bad. If it made the majority look bad, it would have already been in the Cambridge Dictionary and Webster's Dictionary.

[@margricks]

@@indridcold8433 Sooooooooooooooooo true!!! Great observation.

[@Elementalwarrior16]

'Its like a knife to the heart everytime' Clearly, you've never been stabbed before SIR

[@MrPhantom1961]

I love the way 'she' falls into her own trap by complaining about the waiter and referring to him as a 'guy'. How did she know his gender preference?

[@darrenyoung3102]

It,s a HE...

[@peterbaruxis2511]

Good catch! I missed the the first time.

[@glendadowe]

Good Call !

[@musicmanindiana9463]

It's their double standards! Typical for those type of people.

[@cyano741]

Well, lets start by not calling him a "she" if we want to complain about correct gender pronouns. I don't even identify as anything. I'm a woman. The rets is obvious. No one should be going along with this lunacy.

[@Iohannis42]

When this happened in a local restaurant, the manager apologized, then took the food away and told them it was time to leave because the restaurant would not be able to accommodate them.

[@JGofBEWA]

😂😂😂

[@Christianne-md2nd]

My herollll🤩

[@karencahill4798]

👏 yay! Do not play into this insanity!

[@harriscarol513]

Nice!

[@rainkatt]

I love it!!😂❤

[@just-a-cupcake]

This is so insane to me. I'm 60yo, if you had told me 20 years ago that we would have to live in other's delusions, I never would've believed it. But here we are.

[@kellyhughart9600]

I'm 55, and I feel the exact same way. The world you and I grew up in wasn't perfect, but it was a heck of a lot better than the crappy times we're living in now!

[@peznino1]

Are u a real person?

[@peznino1]

​@@kellyhughart9600it's called rose tinted windows....coule it be that you're just old and boring..maybe if u were 25 you'd be a him/they living your best life

[@kellyhughart9600]

@@peznino1 Is who a real person? Me, or the person who started this thread?

[@Kraggypandapops]

I'm mid 50s and this world has allowed people like this to express themselves and be 'offended' at everything and anyone.

[@EdHelwig]

“I am really bad with pronouns, can I just call you bad hair dude?”

[@jaysonolson516]

I love how HE always sets the camera up to catch HIS knife-in-the-heart moments...because...validation.

[@crushendobear]

the person who most frequently stabs HIS heart is HIM, right. Since he constantly misgenders himself?

[@moralityisnotsubjective5]

If he keeps annoying people one day it might not be a metaphorical knife. There is always someone out there crazy enough to do something when someone pisses them off.

[@OldGreyMulletTest]

Indeed: validation + views = cash.

[@kellywilson5124]

And the idiot bleeding heart left pretends to care.

[@TinoSoto]

Lol

[@gdobservation]

"He called me sir twice in a row." A+ for the day. Got all the answers right.

[@cuddlepaws4423]

He shows he can count to 2 but is sadly lacking in everything else. It proves that it hasn't got a c*nt but it is a c*nt by the way it's acting.

[@sarahelliott3229]

It would have been hilarious if the manager had come over and said “what seems to be the problem sir?”😂😂😂

[@ak2nda695]

Dude has a voice deeper than hell, and a 5 o'clock shadow and expects people to call him ma'am. Clearly he's insane.

[@DorothyHouse-m3k]

If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck it's a duck, sir.

[@DodgyComedy]

When he was with the dog and complaining to the manager, he called the waiter “the guy”! He assumed his gender. What a bigot!

[@harriscarol513]

Ha! Good point! That waiter might go by she too!

[@deborahhernandez7785]

That makes him a hypocrite.

[@Eilen62]

​@@deborahhernandez7785The guy carrying on about being called 'sir' probably wouldn't know the difference.

[@dragonflydaughters]

Too bad the manager didn't notice that too, and pull the old Uno reverse on him. 😂

[@barbararobertson2307]

‘Hi guys’ I hate that if your with your husband or a mixed group of people that is how you are greeted. What’s wrong with ‘ hi everyone or nice to see you both.

[@chapo318]

The fact that he is filming every altercation let me know he is getting exactly what he is looking for

[@lancehobbs8012]

Nah I've always done it , sure, start off in the pub with pronouns and cameras before I even order a bloody pint😂

[@thieupham493]

Likes on social media?

[@lsteiner]

@@lancehobbs8012 BwaHaHa!

[@sandyrodriguez9341]

Maybe HE gets to eat for FREE????

[@markwinter8315]

Absolutely 👍 💯 👍

[@Greatscott24]

You know it’s neurotic when he still puts them on blast after saying , “I’m so sorry, my apologies.” If you are unable to accept an apology, then the problem is YOU.

[@tomj4262]

If you are unable to accept that you have male reproductive organs, and xy chromosomes, you definitely have a problem. Don't expect the world to run at your convenience, and affirm your delusion on demand.

[@tylermarkham3411]

This was my 1st thought.

[@derealized797]

They're addicted to the attention that they get from playing childish games, they don't actually care about who says what really, he cares about playing the victim... it's covert narcissism. This is like those delusional broads that go to the gym recording themselves and insist that men there are staring at them, even though they're not.

[@kirbyclone3293]

It is amazing that just yesterday, kids were taught to say “yes Sir” or “yes mam” as a sign of respect. And now this sign of respect is being attacked.

[@kimsimmons3911]

This delusional individual is 'baiter'. He goes to public places and sets up a camera to film himself being a self proclaimed victim. It's not a 'knife in the heart' to him, it's a damn game to him. 🤨

[@twiceonsundays]

You beat me to the comment. The fact that the camera is even set up to film the normal everyday activity of eating let's you know this idiot is looking for a confrontation.

[@C.L.190]

It's absolutely a game... If he was really self conscious about it, he wouldn't use the lower/deeper end of his voice. It's 100% baiting, and he's using foreign waiters bc he knows they'll "mess up" more than someone who's first language is English

[@mikepetrie5851]

he’s definitely a master baiter.

[@zeldagoblin]

​@@mikepetrie5851You win the internet today, sir!❤

[@d.i.l.l.i.g.a.f.594]

@@mikepetrie5851 😂🤣

[@C2thadizzo]

We live in a society where people just can’t wait to be offended.

[@jgstargazer]

They live in their own little bubble and you must affirm that.

[@1134gh]

Ignore it. Narcissist can't stand being ignored.

[@kygal]

I can almost guarantee the people in those establishments breathed a collective sigh of relief when he left.

[@Hexgirl]

The fact that they apologise and he still "exposes" them shows who the real villian is!

[@KS-bo7rm]

Exactly.

[@carolturner6780]

This!!

[@gloriamrales-king8606]

He's a dingus!

[@WilliamSouza-x2j]

Poor fnBaby No One cares 😂😢😅😊

[@WilliamSouza-x2j]

Bichyo don't deserve sth

[@marilynndesilva7620]

Shops in the U.S. often will have a sign that reads: 'You broke it, you bought it." They need to start applying that policy to these cretins who deliberately damage valuable art works.

[@harriscarol513]

Right?! You can protest but when you destroy something, you need to be held responsible. Jail time and pay for it. Ridiculous

[@kateboulton8789]

Yes, that's a good one!

[@WangNurMouth]

No s41t, if I went in there and did that would be sued for damages, but if ur an idiot you get a pass. So stupid.

[@Mark_Bridges]

I agree, however the cretins are usually young kids with only a few dollars to their name. They can't afford to buy it and have no income to make payments over time. If you push for payments they'll just declare bankruptcy. As usual, they go effectively unpunished.

[@pathamm5834]

Dressing as the opposite sex , doesn’t mean you are what you are pretending to be. You are still the sex you were born & always will be .

[@francesbernard2445]

Sounds like you maybe have never lived in a cold climate that goes down to minus 40 Celcius or so more on average than once a year. Have you ever tried to wear long dresses always in the snow with dainty looking enough footwear too during that kind of jot always predictable weather during the winter or what?

[@MrMirack]

​@francesbernard2445 did you have a point? Are you trying to say that your "manhood" shrinks away in the cold? Just because you have a micro penis does not make you female... Also, if your genitals can retract to keep your sperm warm, you're still describing a male.

[@ioanfaur3200]

Zombie

[@EarlofBusterbrook]

@@francesbernard2445 They weren't saying that women have to wear dresses in the freezing cold, what are you talking about?

[@snarkyenigma9219]

@@francesbernard2445 WTF does that have to do with the subject at hand?

[@bpabustan]

There is no other way to address HIM as SIR!

[@Saiko-Johnny]

If I were the restaurant owner, I would give those waiters a raise in salary, because it's clear they don't have their eyes in their pockets...

[@waterkoud1]

and send your waiter back to take away the food and make him leave the restaurant.

[@sherriflesner784]

Narcissism rates have gone out of control since social media. It's really quite scary

[@TheFoxTailPalm]

I'm glad SOMEBODY finally acknowledged who some of these people are; socially acceptable bullies

[@Bob_Johnson349]

Ah yes, attempting to get employees fired for just doing their job and not singling you out as special.

[@RUSerious97]

You look like a sir. You sound like a sir. You were/are a sir. You're not passing off as what you want to be. You're making headlines though, so hats off to you, sir.

[@twiceonsundays]

I love the term "cry bully." I've been looking for something to call that.

[@lancers7]

we only had to deal with him for 2 minutes. I feel sorry for the dog who has to live with him.

[@pauldavis5665]

Dog? That dog identifies as a cat, how dare you! 😠

[@mhrgall]

lol.

[@cecemeadows8117]

@@pauldavis5665 🤣

[@cecemeadows8117]

I was thinking I wish someone would rescue that poor baby from its lunatic owner.😢

[@margricks]

My sentiments exactly! Poor dog!!!

[@AlexDeLaO-kd1yi]

If you have to ask “ahead of time” to not be called sir your probably a sir lol

[@northpaul707]

If that person showed up where I worked I would lose my job. No freaking way I'm catering to people like that.

[@mikebryant614]

I'm lucky enough to have a Boss that wouldn't fire anyone over this - He would back up the Employee if it was an honest mistake .But, I also live in Florida and we are well known for not playing these liberal games down here like they do up North.

[@ernsttrekiew198]

@@mikebryant614 If that pansy doesn't want people to refer to him as *HIS ACTUAL GENDER* he shouldn't be going out in public and deliberately setting himself up in situations where this is 100% guaranteed to happen.

[@usafvet100]

Wouldn't care to draw Mr Fluffyduffy here as an Uber passenger. I would say or do nothing to provoke a confrontation, but also would decline to play gender theater should he insist on being a Karen. My dashcam records every trip should any falsehood accusations be made.

[@funkyguy99]

I'd feed him dog food and say it's oysters. If you can change reality based on nothing but your delusion, so can we. 😂

[@AnimalisMD]

Some fish flavored cat food would do just fine!

[@tubularguynine]

If you look like a sir, and you talk like a sir…you’re a sir, no matter what’s going on in the alternate universe between your ears.

[@paulwirth923]

Some are easily offended. Some are eagerly offended.

[@Wavelover33]

He’s not satisfied until someone “offends him”. It makes his pathetic ego feel more important

[@kishascape]

And it's always the deformed looking clown shows who aren't passable doing it. It's like I'm watching a documentary about classical clowning in the middle ages.

[@barbarathompson8559]

His comment offends me. There only two genders are male or female.TWO genders.

[@paulb3436]

It's his whole social media shtick

[@nannerrammer]

it's probably to get free fancy food or mad discounts, since he's probably not pulling that shit at a drive thru. But, when there's a dozen oysters or some foe grias on the table, then he's going to be extra sensitive

[@kathystoneburner4947]

And his pathetic life. I have to ask, with all this whining/protesting/just waiting to file a lawsuit etc...does anyone work anymore or actually attend a class? I realize they teach crap on campuses but when? It seems the clueless little students can't spend much time in a classroom with all their crying and protesting.

[@alicerose6640]

Yep, you just go mate. This man is a male and every server got it right. He is a sir, will always be a sir. We need those special little hospitals brought back and quickly.

[@zanido9073]

Yep

[@guidedmeditation2396]

The dude is misgendering himself. The server was just being polite.

[@dorianshadesofgray]

This guy should move to Gaza and try that at eateries around there

[@fallinegg]

this.

[@dominicpelle7841]

Or to some other ANTI-WOKE countries like Iran/Saudi/Russia. etc..

[@Without_Lies_Media_Dies]

@@dominicpelle7841 They wouldn't make it past the airport, Many of these countries that I am critical of have some good policies regarding degeneracy.

[@okinrob1743]

She films so that she could shame them. A very Karen !

[@blue_blue12]

He's not a female😒

[@thahbx]

He not she!

[@okinrob1743]

In the Philippines, we dont have a concept of he/she as pronouns. We always use "they" thats why since Eng is not our main language, we often mix He/She. I have never had any complaints from people when I mixed these two. I guess people like that Lady/Guy (debatable) would definitely have a problem and would get us canceled.

[@mesayso7095]

Hey! He has on lipstick!!! Respect the trans😠🙃☹️

[@smullps]

​@okinrob1743 SO glad you brought this up. This individual likes to pick on servers who are ESL and knowing this makes this person's actions even more despicable. English is already a difficult language to learn, never mind assholes like this who make things even more difficult for people struggling to understand. Respect is a 2-way street. Newsflash, if you want to be called "She", give some respect to the damn people serving you who don't even speak your language fluidly.

[@Mr-Brazza]

Honestly he is absolutely going out on purpose to get people to call him sir. Dont give him air time

[@ItalidaReviews]

The fact that people are catering to these delusions sickens me. And the worst part is that innocent people are losing their jobs because of these nut cases.

[@robinsonnier6887]

People better stand up!!!!!! Don't play these games with these nutty people

[@christineallen]

Nuts and I won’t ever call a d!ck with a dick anything other than a d!ck

[@jojomcdodd8122]

Wait serious?

[@TeenageMutantAussie]

If I was a waitress serving him I would not even apologise and maybe even steal his food afterwards and eat it in front of him

[@PygmalionFaciebat]

@@TeenageMutantAussie Same here. If he doesnt want the respectful "Sir" , i maybe would call him ''Dude''. In my opinion bodydismorphia in terms of gender, as far as it even exists (which i doubt), is a mental disorder at best, and narcissistic behavior at worst. In the first case he needs a therapy to realize that he is a guy. In the second case he needs a therapy to learn social behavior. I tend to believe its the second case every time. For the simple reason: that a person cant know how a woman feels. He was never in the head of other women to compare. Sure, women also weren't in the head of other women to compare. Thats why every woman lives her own feminity - but every woman realizes : ''i have these genitals, therefore i am female'' .. simple as that. And from there on the woman simply creates her own feminity... not every woman wears make up. But every trans-''woman'' does, as far i saw.

[@perspectiveseeker1943]

The fact that HE took the time to film HIMSELF doing this shit just shows you how truly mentally ill (narcissist) HE is.

[@justathought7235]

And stupid

[@TheAvprobeauty]

self absorbed and obsessed. so gross.

[@marieellard2973]

You know nothing about her! She is an influencer on Tik Tok and goes out to different restaurants and rates the food. Do your homework first!

[@harristanaya31]

She is an amazing person. She is a food critic. It really don't happen that much. This bigot took clips of hours of her stitched them together to make her make believe rage. The so called news ppl need a life

[@Rita-yw2tn]

You’re absolutely right HE is a mentally ill narcissist !!

[@schizoid9847]

I think that precious painting was covered in a glass pane..thank goodness.

[@D3spairFacTor90]

If a biological woman was called sir, they’d laugh it off and move on.

[@vincentrogers1223]

Right?! Real women don’t freak the f**k out, they let it go and move on.

[@johnrick3508]

He knows he is a sir

[@Angieibrahim777]

Tbh I think I would cry 😭 and then ask “ is it my shoulders?!😫” 😂

[@malibu3905]

@@Angieibrahim777same 😭

[@Laura-kg9le]

100%

[@2800boy]

They get angry when you misgender them but if it walks like a sir, talks like a sir, and looks like a sir, what do you expect them to call you. You sir, are a sir 😂

[@ElsyOO366]

😂😂👍

[@regularSenseAppeal]

Only misgendering here was done by mr. Narcissist

[@jkweili]

@@regularSenseAppealI was just gonna say that

[@71donkrider]

Bawahaha

[@noellecauble3796]

He looks terrifying tbh.. Combine that with his short fuse and low self esteem and you SIR have a serial killer lol

[@Donkey1668]

I’m a woman and if someone called me a man by accident, I would laugh about it

[@garysadler727]

This isn't by accident though. He clearly is a man. He's fooling nobody. Don't even try and put a voice on

[@SolversSocietyHQ]

Ditto Donkey 🤙

[@mstrdiver]

So the little beret on itself and its little dog 'Toto', is an obscure attempt to visually identify as 'French' in some way?

[@SolversSocietyHQ]

@@mstrdiver I see it all as theatre Makeup n wardrobe does not constitute a Womb Man!

[@miguelagonzalez63]

Does he also identify as a mime?

[@Pro2nd_Amendment]

Real women wouldn’t offended by getting called sir.🤣

[@katykayy]

Damn! I’ve been called sir so many times in my life and I’ve never complained to a manager about it ONCE!!!! And I’m an ACTUAL woman!😂 Get over it mister!

[@inconnu4961]

Right you are, sir! When i had long hair, I was referred to as a woman at school! It hurt, but i didnt complain, i just did my hair different. LOL

[@MamaDisco1313]

Same.

[@cristalblackstar8177]

Same there. Sometimes they called me dude. Never went crazy over that.

[@vladtheimpaler9577]

The guy who spews f bombs and "I hate you" every 3 seconds is calling the other guy hateful.

[@captaincapitalism264]

Yep. Blind to the irony.

[@medusaslair]

That's how they roll.

[@SeanVplayer]

Invited to have a conversation, he instead engaged in a rant. When asked for the source for his accusations he displayed his own racism and hateful attitude. Also, When did it become HIS campus? Can he produce some documentation for his assertion of ownership?

[@fibanocci314]

"I just want to hate you." Okay?

[@marksoutofzen]

Absolutely a classic case of projection

[@snowman7070]

Its such a scam. They know people are going to misgender them when they look like a sir 👀

[@lesmoore3638]

That's his business model for content creation.

[@wmpetroff2307]

free food, free accommodations, attention, bullying satisfaction, aclu money...then a strait jacket.

[@melissadunton3534]

This makes me want to come out of retirement just so I can open a restaurant and when one of these mentally ill ppl say something to one of my employees I can have them trespassed from my establishment. I was a chef for years and I’d be damned if I’d let anyone talk to anyone BOH like this woke bully. Where is the support for FOH??

[@DorothyHouse-m3k]

I'd gladly come out of retirement to see it!!! I waitressed for years and never witnessed anything like this. Insanity and they're trying to take everyone with them.

[@karenfellers2828]

My question is how many free meals has this grifter has scored with this complaint???

[@djnolan00000]

Omg that's true

[@kristinwuori3769]

Exactly what I was thinking. Why does he have the camera ready for the moment of murdering his sheer existence if not for his self-absorption and a free meal?

[@juliaha4934]

Karen fellers that is a just and accurate question. I am sure he does it every day.

[@heatherhinde6544]

Exactly.

[@godeplatformyourself7108]

Quite a few, evidently. The only thing vaguely feminine about him is that extra layer of subdermal fat he's working on. Keeps the skin smooth and supple, you know...

[@franciscofranco5739]

I would’ve laughed so hard “yah I was called Sir.” Then then the waiter is forced to come back to the table to apologize and says “I apologize for misgendering you, Sir.” Lmfao

[@theresashaw7850]

I would Never say sorry to those pronoun nuts, even if boss says i need to. Then ill go to that IT/THING and say IM SORRY YOUR A WHINNY LITTLE BITCH CREEP WHO GOT NOTHING BETTER TO DO THEN WHINN ABOUT PRONOUS CUZ ITS HURTS YOUR FEEELING AWWW POOR LITTLE WHINNY BITCH. BAH BYE

[@1nikg]

That's happened 😂

[@nomaam2159]

If being misgendered is the worst thing that happened to you consider yourself lucky. There are people women and children and men dying in wars. Starving in poverty, your problems are self imposed that means you can solve them. Your problem’s are your problems you are wallowing in them. When you could easily try to solve them instead of trying to get people to cater to your emotions.

[@alphamale1717]

This is what happens when you empty out the asylums and let the inmates have their way.

[@gabefuller5212]

“Cry bullies.” That’s a great way to put it.

[@TheRealKaiProton]

If I was the manager, I would be saying "Feel free to pay your bill, and never eat here again"

[@zanido9073]

"Feel free to pay your bill, and never eat here again... Sir."

[@TheRealKaiProton]

@@zanido9073 Even better!!

[@guidedmeditation2396]

Ask them to bring their birth certificate next time and if they are a woman they will get a free meal.

[@Iwoasasaned]

@@guidedmeditation2396they are already letting these changed into whatever they want. So no, birth certificate is no proof of sex anymore.

[@SyntheticStuntMan]

@@guidedmeditation2396 excellent

[@JayDillDrums]

Wait a minute he called the waiter, sir… I would lose my job lol

[@Noneyabiz001]

I’m a male, I grew up in the 80s and had hair down to my butt. I was misgendered so many times. Never once did I ever complain. Usually I laughed about it

[@N-Lee]

"Same Old Cliches, is that a Woman or a Man" (Bob Seger) takes on new meaning nowadays.

[@sonneversets3530]

My little sis was mistaken for a boy even in HS. Had a Peter Pan haircut & flat chested. When younger, we called her ‘Twiggy’. But in HS she was referred to as ‘Petey/Peter Pan/PP’. She grew her hair out Sr yr & post graduation, & wasn’t mistaken for a male as much. She finally got implants a few yrs after HS, & that took care of any ‘mistakes’ for good.😂 Now, everyone does it! Many guys had longer hair thanks to the Beatles in the 60s & the rock bands that took off from there. I loved it, for the most part!👍 Now, it’s all ‘normal’ too. And I still like it.

[@katieb4655]

Many years ago, a colleague of my dad's was at an airport and saw a woman with long blonde hair in a queue, and as he was very fond of the ladies he sidled up and gave her a cheeky pat on the butt. He never lived it down when the blonde turned around and revealed himself to be a young guy. This was the 70s. There was no screaming or shouting about misgendering, no running to the press, no backlash. Everyone just took it in good humour, and my dad's colleague was of course ribbed mercilessly. But no one kicked off about it. Now imagine this scenario in 2023...

[@nutwatch1854]

Same, I'm not trans and have been misgendered many times. Never got upset. These people need a dose of Marcus Aurelius. "You don't have to turn this into someting. It doesn't have to upset you."