Sensitivity of Men (Reaction)

[@mr.dennis5503]

I have a somewhat deep, yet raspy kind of voice. My children once said to me, "Daddy, we can tell when you're becoming angry, because your voice sounds like Batman!" I said, laughingly, "It does NOT..." One day, I heard myself when I was getting upset with a gas company representative while I was calling for the third time to try to get them to check a gas leak on my street... ...and I sounded like Batman...🤦🏽‍♂️😔😔... My point is this: I don't want to have to be that person with my wife! Bad Guys get Batman; Beloved gets Bruce Wayne! I don't want a "rival" sleeping next to me at night!

[@queenh4073]

Love it.

[@chaps81777]

Love and respect to you.

[@rdkirk3834]

Not "soft," but kind. Not "vulnerable," but open. Not "hard," but reliable. Not "sensitive," but perceptive.

[@donnachavous6840]

Thanks you for letting them know that our men should be sensitive and vulnerable with us.

[@hotice8885]

Except that is not what he said. He did not focus on what a man should be for a woman. He focused on what a man should be ABLE to do with his woman--meaning, he called women to *change their attitudes and treatment* with these "sensitive" men, before they absolutely destroy the closeness that they claim to want with a man.

[@chaps81777]

It’s hard enough for us to open up. But with pressures of the world and to come home and have to put up our guards there too.. It’s a lot.

[@hotice8885]

@@chaps81777 💯 🎯

[@elmyra.jackson]

I've listened to the young man in the video many times and he is full of beautiful insight! Wise women will take heed!

[@pamelamoody2584]

Preach Black Man Preach

[@Netherwolf6100]

Yeah this is true. The same women who talk about men being sassy or sensitive or soft, are the same women who complain when they find that hard man with a myriad of walls and no desire to open up or communicate in any personal or intimate way.

[@blackolantern5666]

@Netherwolf6100. They don't know what they want simple as that.🤷🏿‍♂🤷🏿‍♂

[@mizkomunikation9478]

No. Men need to stop claiming you built the world, and then try to blame everything in it you don’t like on the people you forced to adapt to the world YOU made. The women who drag you for being soft are a reflection of the men who emotionally beat them into the ground for being “soft”. That’s just a reality of life: Stop bullying women around you and show respect for their feelings, and that respect will be returned. But if you wanna do the whole macho, “I ain’t got time to bleed” thing, that will STILL be the rule even when it’s not fun anymore.

[@Netherwolf6100]

@@mizkomunikation9478 No one here is complaining about the world. It's about the idea of opening emotionally to the same people who complain both simultaneously that they hate the emotions of a man, but then demand that men shouldn't be silent on it. But I do appreciate you serving as a good example. It's nice when someone readily displays their stupidity to prove a point correct, especially when they missed the assignment

[@blackolantern5666]

@@mizkomunikation9478 "(( SILENCE! )) " - Paul Atreides, "Dune"

[@leighwilliams-pn5rr]

I want my partner to show me all of him!!A sensitive man shows he has a big HEART!! When you share sensitive feelings w each other to me it makes your LOVE stronger!!LETS CRY TOGETHER!!after that let's put that LOVE together!!making LOVE will be more powerful❤❤❤😂😂

[@elmyra.jackson]

My husband's vulnerability is my kryptonite 😀💙

[@Wubby805]

I will NEVER be vulnerable, sensitive, or explore my emotions with a female. NEVER. Women will use that against you, throw it in your face and employ it as an excuse to cheat. I respect every word he said and love his delivery, but as for me, NEVER.

[@bgrego88]

Cuz you know better

[@p-jaywade1333]

😏 Stereotypical modern day women? Yes. Those women constantly posting pictures of themselves online seeking attention and ALWAYS coming to you about THEIR problems but lack compassion about YOURS? Absolutely. But I've seen enough to know not every woman is the same; just most American women in general.

[@drita5038]

Wow

[@suebaybee]

Remain single

[@Wubby805]

@@suebaybee Proudly.

[@tanyaglenn2854]

Teach them. That’s why we are men’s partners.

[@karenwilliams7685]

He’s absolutely correct 💯

[@antoinettejohnson1565]

Real talk. For all things going viral, this should be one of them

[@kmel1313]

For the same reason that when he was talking and over half the room was quiet. Some women only want to hear the bashing of men, especially blk men , it makes them melt inside.

[@deebrown4877]

💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯

[@BaYaNahGad7]

When women say things like this it's kind of hard to know what they really mean. Is she saying he's effeminate, passionate about something or showing concerns? A woman Using the word sensitive could mean anything so I would ask her for some examples to better understand is this crying watching some Disney movies or expressing himself with passion for interests in something because with women you can't just jump to conclusions you know what talking about.

[@pernicecartwright8420]

❤❤❤❤AMEN BRO❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@tallmarn8927]

These garden tools DON'T CARE, dude.

[@UrbanSipfly]

There come times that it would benefit other people to stay out of other people romantic relationships of what goes on behind CLOSED DOORS!!! It's funny how the internet has opened up a Pandora's Box to all sorts of therapy quacks like the woman speaking in her video!

[@mizkomunikation9478]

Men need to PICK A STRUGGLE. If a woman sheds even one tear for any reason, men accuse her of being “emotional”. Men laugh at men who cry or even say, “I love you.” to their own wife and call them, “feminine”, or “simps”. Yet when a man finds himself all in his own feelings he wants to cry about not having a safe space to be “sensitive”, even though HE’S the one who thought he wanted to live in a heartless world where feelings aren’t allowed.

[@rdkirk3834]

The black community is into the third baby mama generation, into the third generation of most men being raised without a father in the home and without a strong male community patriarchy that can teach and enforce functional manhood, into the third generation of males raised by their mothers and feminist school teachers. They have been _taught by women_ to be all in their own feelings...and then when the testosterone hits, it causes an unpleasant reaction.

[@nathalieduverna6963]

❤

[@Carlovymusicc]

Exactly

[@devilsadvocacy]

0:24 Answer: You don’t. The Miranda warnings are good advice, and apply in this situation just as much as when the police get a hold of you. Zip your lip

[@alleykatt6110]

Amen!

[@msangie5049]

Vulnerability & emotional are 2 different things a man should be able to be vulnerable BUT if a woman sees emotions as a weakness and she don’t crack under pressure she won’t understand and know how to handle a man that does. It’s all about emotional intelligence and life experiences I’m not gonna lie I’ve had to survive which means I had no time to cry and fall apart I expect that same strength from my man can he cry yes but how long r u gonna do that we still have to SURVIVE 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@davidedwardstruegospel2492]

💯

[@hereforit2347]

Reaction? WHAT reaction? This was clickbait. BOOOO! 👎🏾

[@michaelwilliams6573]

This young man says some things that are spot on but you are from Mars with this response know your role; coming from a 62 year old Man.

[@hotice8885]

"know your role" doesn't say much. What did he say that was wrong?

[@El_Fonzo]

😂😂😂

[@mark1eyeball]

​. He didn't say anything wrong. BUT... We as men can't be like that with women. As soon as she gets mad all that sensitive stuff that he shared with her is flung back in his face at warp speed. That being sensitive for us as men is dangerous because we (men) have such a propensity for violence. It's just not a good look for us

[@El_Fonzo]

@@mark1eyeball men don't have a propensity for violence, some of us (men) can keep our emotions in check. Don't speak for men.

[@rdkirk3834]

@@El_Fonzo A man without control of his emotions will have a propensity for violence. That's what happens when testosterone is mixed with emotion without a strong framework of stoicism.

[@Zx14rrrrrrrrrrr]

Zero reaction 😂

[@goofywill90]

Extremely sensitive man needs a masculine woman bottom line. Usually my understanding of sensitive are things that trigger an emotional response/break of stoicism where the release is venting about it. Now when women need an emotional release it's usually through venting and a man is through isolation, reflection, rest, and further engagement with hobbies.

[@hotice8885]

Funny thing is that no man has EVER DESIRED a masculine woman.

[@YB-bd5sd]

Yes they do when they ask us to do so much that's considered traditionally the mans role and then expect us to be as feminine as they need us to be. But when we're put in and performing roles not meant for us you lose some of who and what you are as a woman. And you become a little bit of a hard exterior woman with a mans traits. My male friend told me I'm hard, I'm tough that I could handle xyz and I had to remind him I'm still a woman and sometimes I can't handle everything and that I get scared and have vulnerabilities and I'm not a rock always. I'm a sensitive woman, but all he sees is the rock. Even though he's experienced the sensitive side of me. No trying to figure it out.@@hotice8885

[@3coursethoughts448]

​@hotice8885 this is true. Sensitive men is considered a feminine man. No one wants that. Same boat sorry.

[@queenmini372]

👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾❤️❤️

[@michaelwilliams6573]

BS

[@hereforit2347]

Did she SAY her man *”CAN’T”* be sensitive or vulnerable? Did she say that, in *Tripp’s* words, she “didn’t want” a man who is more sensitive than her?? NO. She did not. “Sensitivity” is relative. How about getting clarity before jumping to conclusions? All this young lady said was she wants to know “how to deal with” a man who’s more sensitive than she is. That could mean that she is, in *her* own eyes, less sensitive, and less empathetic and has found herself with someone who is more caring, tender, and sweet than herself. Maybe she needs advice on how to act and speak so as not to hurt her man, or worse, lose him. But no. As usual, Tripp made an assumption based on his own feelings about vulnerability without ever getting a proper take on where this young lady is really coming from.

[@owttlaw]

Meanwhile… Majority of the ladies there were in agreement with him. But hey, keep doing what you are doing. At least the ladies in attendance are WILLING to listen and ATTEMPT to understand.. Which is the point of these!

[@hereforit2347]

@@owttlaw: And? What does that have to do with me? Tripp has fans. Everyone agrees with him, male and female. I have yet to see anyone challenge anything he says. I, on the other hand, am not a follower. I think for myself. You ought to try it sometime.

[@owttlaw]

@@hereforit2347 Just like a woman.. Y’all Have to throw insults in whenever someone “ challenges “ y’all.. But as a man does when it comes to women like you. I will take the high road and I WILL NOT throw insults your way just because we are at an disagreement.. Grown men like myself know how to talk and get our point across without insulting.. Back to my point.. I think you missed the BASIS of my point.. My point is that people are there for UNDERSTANDING. NOT a challenge. With your mindset ( which is the typical one ). You’ll never understand because you’re not even trying to do so.. You are looking to respond with whatever comes out of his mouth. All they are trying to do is help you UNDERSTAND, NOT debate!

[@user-sw6lf8em8o]

⁠@@owttlaw Right! Why did she have to say “you should try thinking for yourself sometime”? She has no idea that all she is doing is showing that nobody can “ disagree “ with her, without her feeling some type of way. Which is also why women don’t understand why it’s hard to have a CONVERSATION with them because they say things or react and just start insulting… But then blame the man when we decide to retaliate.. Cudos to you owttlaw for not INITIATING any insults or retaliating with any…

[@owttlaw]

@@user-sw6lf8em8o Lol. Thank you!