I have a somewhat deep, yet raspy kind of voice. My children once said to me, "Daddy, we can tell when you're becoming angry, because your voice sounds like Batman!" I said, laughingly, "It does NOT..." One day, I heard myself when I was getting upset with a gas company representative while I was calling for the third time to try to get them to check a gas leak on my street... ...and I sounded like Batman...🤦🏽♂️😔😔... My point is this: I don't want to have to be that person with my wife! Bad Guys get Batman; Beloved gets Bruce Wayne! I don't want a "rival" sleeping next to me at night!
@queenh40735 ай бұрын
Love it.
@chaps817775 ай бұрын
Love and respect to you.
@rdkirk38345 ай бұрын
Not "soft," but kind. Not "vulnerable," but open. Not "hard," but reliable. Not "sensitive," but perceptive.
@donnachavous68405 ай бұрын
Thanks you for letting them know that our men should be sensitive and vulnerable with us.
@hotice88855 ай бұрын
Except that is not what he said. He did not focus on what a man should be for a woman. He focused on what a man should be ABLE to do with his woman--meaning, he called women to *change their attitudes and treatment* with these "sensitive" men, before they absolutely destroy the closeness that they claim to want with a man.
@chaps817775 ай бұрын
It’s hard enough for us to open up. But with pressures of the world and to come home and have to put up our guards there too.. It’s a lot.
@hotice88855 ай бұрын
@@chaps81777 💯 🎯
@elmyra.jackson29 күн бұрын
I've listened to the young man in the video many times and he is full of beautiful insight! Wise women will take heed!
@pamelamoody25845 ай бұрын
Preach Black Man Preach
@Netherwolf61005 ай бұрын
Yeah this is true. The same women who talk about men being sassy or sensitive or soft, are the same women who complain when they find that hard man with a myriad of walls and no desire to open up or communicate in any personal or intimate way.
@blackolantern56665 ай бұрын
@Netherwolf6100. They don't know what they want simple as that.🤷🏿♂🤷🏿♂
@mizkomunikation94785 ай бұрын
No. Men need to stop claiming you built the world, and then try to blame everything in it you don’t like on the people you forced to adapt to the world YOU made. The women who drag you for being soft are a reflection of the men who emotionally beat them into the ground for being “soft”. That’s just a reality of life: Stop bullying women around you and show respect for their feelings, and that respect will be returned. But if you wanna do the whole macho, “I ain’t got time to bleed” thing, that will STILL be the rule even when it’s not fun anymore.
@Netherwolf61005 ай бұрын
@@mizkomunikation9478 No one here is complaining about the world. It's about the idea of opening emotionally to the same people who complain both simultaneously that they hate the emotions of a man, but then demand that men shouldn't be silent on it. But I do appreciate you serving as a good example. It's nice when someone readily displays their stupidity to prove a point correct, especially when they missed the assignment
@blackolantern56665 ай бұрын
@@mizkomunikation9478 "(( SILENCE! )) " - Paul Atreides, "Dune"
@leighwilliams-pn5rr5 ай бұрын
I want my partner to show me all of him!!A sensitive man shows he has a big HEART!! When you share sensitive feelings w each other to me it makes your LOVE stronger!!LETS CRY TOGETHER!!after that let's put that LOVE together!!making LOVE will be more powerful❤❤❤😂😂
@elmyra.jackson29 күн бұрын
My husband's vulnerability is my kryptonite 😀💙
@Wubby8055 ай бұрын
I will NEVER be vulnerable, sensitive, or explore my emotions with a female. NEVER. Women will use that against you, throw it in your face and employ it as an excuse to cheat. I respect every word he said and love his delivery, but as for me, NEVER.
@bgrego885 ай бұрын
Cuz you know better
@p-jaywade13335 ай бұрын
😏 Stereotypical modern day women? Yes. Those women constantly posting pictures of themselves online seeking attention and ALWAYS coming to you about THEIR problems but lack compassion about YOURS? Absolutely. But I've seen enough to know not every woman is the same; just most American women in general.
@drita50385 ай бұрын
Wow
@suebaybee5 ай бұрын
Remain single
@Wubby8055 ай бұрын
@@suebaybee Proudly.
@tanyaglenn28545 ай бұрын
Teach them. That’s why we are men’s partners.
@karenwilliams76855 ай бұрын
He’s absolutely correct 💯
@antoinettejohnson15655 ай бұрын
Real talk. For all things going viral, this should be one of them
@kmel13135 ай бұрын
For the same reason that when he was talking and over half the room was quiet. Some women only want to hear the bashing of men, especially blk men , it makes them melt inside.
@deebrown48775 ай бұрын
💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯
@BaYaNahGad75 ай бұрын
When women say things like this it's kind of hard to know what they really mean. Is she saying he's effeminate, passionate about something or showing concerns? A woman Using the word sensitive could mean anything so I would ask her for some examples to better understand is this crying watching some Disney movies or expressing himself with passion for interests in something because with women you can't just jump to conclusions you know what talking about.
@pernicecartwright84205 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤AMEN BRO❤❤❤❤❤❤
@tallmarn89275 ай бұрын
These garden tools DON'T CARE, dude.
@UrbanSipfly5 ай бұрын
There come times that it would benefit other people to stay out of other people romantic relationships of what goes on behind CLOSED DOORS!!! It's funny how the internet has opened up a Pandora's Box to all sorts of therapy quacks like the woman speaking in her video!
@mizkomunikation94785 ай бұрын
Men need to PICK A STRUGGLE. If a woman sheds even one tear for any reason, men accuse her of being “emotional”. Men laugh at men who cry or even say, “I love you.” to their own wife and call them, “feminine”, or “simps”. Yet when a man finds himself all in his own feelings he wants to cry about not having a safe space to be “sensitive”, even though HE’S the one who thought he wanted to live in a heartless world where feelings aren’t allowed.
@rdkirk38345 ай бұрын
The black community is into the third baby mama generation, into the third generation of most men being raised without a father in the home and without a strong male community patriarchy that can teach and enforce functional manhood, into the third generation of males raised by their mothers and feminist school teachers. They have been _taught by women_ to be all in their own feelings...and then when the testosterone hits, it causes an unpleasant reaction.
@nathalieduverna69635 ай бұрын
❤
@Carlovymusicc5 ай бұрын
Exactly
@devilsadvocacy5 ай бұрын
0:24 Answer: You don’t. The Miranda warnings are good advice, and apply in this situation just as much as when the police get a hold of you. Zip your lip
@alleykatt61105 ай бұрын
Amen!
@msangie50495 ай бұрын
Vulnerability & emotional are 2 different things a man should be able to be vulnerable BUT if a woman sees emotions as a weakness and she don’t crack under pressure she won’t understand and know how to handle a man that does. It’s all about emotional intelligence and life experiences I’m not gonna lie I’ve had to survive which means I had no time to cry and fall apart I expect that same strength from my man can he cry yes but how long r u gonna do that we still have to SURVIVE 🤷🏽♀️
@davidedwardstruegospel24925 ай бұрын
💯
@hereforit23475 ай бұрын
Reaction? WHAT reaction? This was clickbait. BOOOO! 👎🏾
@michaelwilliams65735 ай бұрын
This young man says some things that are spot on but you are from Mars with this response know your role; coming from a 62 year old Man.
@hotice88855 ай бұрын
"know your role" doesn't say much. What did he say that was wrong?
@El_Fonzo5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@mark1eyeball5 ай бұрын
. He didn't say anything wrong. BUT... We as men can't be like that with women. As soon as she gets mad all that sensitive stuff that he shared with her is flung back in his face at warp speed. That being sensitive for us as men is dangerous because we (men) have such a propensity for violence. It's just not a good look for us
@El_Fonzo5 ай бұрын
@@mark1eyeball men don't have a propensity for violence, some of us (men) can keep our emotions in check. Don't speak for men.
@rdkirk38345 ай бұрын
@@El_Fonzo A man without control of his emotions will have a propensity for violence. That's what happens when testosterone is mixed with emotion without a strong framework of stoicism.
@Zx14rrrrrrrrrrr5 ай бұрын
Zero reaction 😂
@goofywill905 ай бұрын
Extremely sensitive man needs a masculine woman bottom line. Usually my understanding of sensitive are things that trigger an emotional response/break of stoicism where the release is venting about it. Now when women need an emotional release it's usually through venting and a man is through isolation, reflection, rest, and further engagement with hobbies.
@hotice88855 ай бұрын
Funny thing is that no man has EVER DESIRED a masculine woman.
@YB-bd5sd5 ай бұрын
Yes they do when they ask us to do so much that's considered traditionally the mans role and then expect us to be as feminine as they need us to be. But when we're put in and performing roles not meant for us you lose some of who and what you are as a woman. And you become a little bit of a hard exterior woman with a mans traits. My male friend told me I'm hard, I'm tough that I could handle xyz and I had to remind him I'm still a woman and sometimes I can't handle everything and that I get scared and have vulnerabilities and I'm not a rock always. I'm a sensitive woman, but all he sees is the rock. Even though he's experienced the sensitive side of me. No trying to figure it out.@@hotice8885
@3coursethoughts4485 ай бұрын
@hotice8885 this is true. Sensitive men is considered a feminine man. No one wants that. Same boat sorry.
@queenmini3725 ай бұрын
👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾❤️❤️
@michaelwilliams65735 ай бұрын
BS
@hereforit23475 ай бұрын
Did she SAY her man *”CAN’T”* be sensitive or vulnerable? Did she say that, in *Tripp’s* words, she “didn’t want” a man who is more sensitive than her?? NO. She did not. “Sensitivity” is relative. How about getting clarity before jumping to conclusions? All this young lady said was she wants to know “how to deal with” a man who’s more sensitive than she is. That could mean that she is, in *her* own eyes, less sensitive, and less empathetic and has found herself with someone who is more caring, tender, and sweet than herself. Maybe she needs advice on how to act and speak so as not to hurt her man, or worse, lose him. But no. As usual, Tripp made an assumption based on his own feelings about vulnerability without ever getting a proper take on where this young lady is really coming from.
@owttlaw5 ай бұрын
Meanwhile… Majority of the ladies there were in agreement with him. But hey, keep doing what you are doing. At least the ladies in attendance are WILLING to listen and ATTEMPT to understand.. Which is the point of these!
@hereforit23475 ай бұрын
@@owttlaw: And? What does that have to do with me? Tripp has fans. Everyone agrees with him, male and female. I have yet to see anyone challenge anything he says. I, on the other hand, am not a follower. I think for myself. You ought to try it sometime.
@owttlaw5 ай бұрын
@@hereforit2347 Just like a woman.. Y’all Have to throw insults in whenever someone “ challenges “ y’all.. But as a man does when it comes to women like you. I will take the high road and I WILL NOT throw insults your way just because we are at an disagreement.. Grown men like myself know how to talk and get our point across without insulting.. Back to my point.. I think you missed the BASIS of my point.. My point is that people are there for UNDERSTANDING. NOT a challenge. With your mindset ( which is the typical one ). You’ll never understand because you’re not even trying to do so.. You are looking to respond with whatever comes out of his mouth. All they are trying to do is help you UNDERSTAND, NOT debate!
@user-sw6lf8em8o5 ай бұрын
@@owttlaw Right! Why did she have to say “you should try thinking for yourself sometime”? She has no idea that all she is doing is showing that nobody can “ disagree “ with her, without her feeling some type of way. Which is also why women don’t understand why it’s hard to have a CONVERSATION with them because they say things or react and just start insulting… But then blame the man when we decide to retaliate.. Cudos to you owttlaw for not INITIATING any insults or retaliating with any…