Serbian Men vs. American Men

[@amerikanka]

Please give this video a LIKE if you like Dušan Tadic :)

[@draganasokolovic1401]

You are 100% true. Everything on point 👍

[@dusanpantic792]

Lol...

[@Anyatash123]

Pa to je belac na slici kao amerkanac pa zar nema I drugih rasa u americi, crnac, azijati zato samo belac kao amerikanac?

[@natalienovak7407]

@@draganasokolovic1401 Nema. Amerikanci su svi beli.

[@Mercy.94]

I’m Indian and my bf is a Serb but he lives in Australia. Some of them is accurate. But he is definitely one who once he gives his heart, he gives it all so it took him a while to open up to me. But I love him for that. Love my man so much. Can’t wait to be his wife.

[@JO-tw5yd]

I am an Indian started dating a serbian a week ago, do you got any advice? We’re from the US btw

[@mahipriyadarshi8458]

I'm an Indian girl with a serbian bbf 🙂 btw hope you both get married soon and live a happy life ❤️ god bless you both 💜

[@oreasic901]

If you are black and you live in Serbia, you are the most popular person in village 😂

[@mcbp95]

This is true and how I got my Macedonian husband 😂🤌

[@hahahahbutt]

There are chinese areas in belgrade but still I am Asian looking (i am korean american) but also with a very unique sense of fashion, I was stared at a lot in a friendly always and guys were super friendly to me and in rijeka croatia, no joke just me walking around in the street I would cause 17 car traffic jams on only a 1 lane road hahaha zagreb I wasnt stared at as much but was invited to a lot of parties and even followed for 3 levels of a mall by 2 little middle school girls who asked for my autograph and photo with me thinking I was a kpop star hahaha - god bless the balkans!!

[@serbsrb]

@@hahahahbutt same story for tall Serbian guys in China. Girls throw themselves at them. Kids want to take photos etc.

[@shireensaroea946]

@@mcbp95 do you have a vlog or channel?

[@mhiemhie888]

@@serbsrb hahahaha that's so true

[@drafillar]

"American man definitely play the game better" 5:25 You are 100% right! Balkan man does NOT play the game! We are not acting / playing...we are real & honest, often brutally honest and people here appreciate that. You will never have to try to read our mind, you will know what's up... Why waste each other's time??

[@andjelkovicjasmin2954]

Bravo! Tako je!

[@tameka1712]

I honestly would prefer friendships and a intimate partner that don't beat around the bush.

[@andjelkovicjasmin2954]

@@tameka1712 Finding that is hard. Most people are so insecure that they can't even say the truth, because they are afraid to search for the truth. Those people can't find the truth and even if the would, they could not accept the truth because it would be too painful for them to handle the truth.

[@dekuboidonut4552]

I am pretty upfront and honest about how I feel as an American man

[@matilda4406]

@@tameka1712 me too

[@sylvia8940]

From my experience, everything you said is 100% truth, girl! Also, if I may add, almost all of them look like supermodels, gorgeous men, and most of them are very intelligent, which, to moi, is uber attractive.

[@ilijameseldzija2983]

About our expectations from the women to be more feminine... It is because we are expecting from woman to be a woman, not our business partner. We are looking for someone who is going to be more gentle than us and someone with who we can sit and cuddle after long day dealing with different kind of idiots and not talk about stock markets with her... Serbian men's are more protective for their woman and their family. We don't mind if she is financially independent and have a career, but we are expecting from her to be our gentle side and not bitch how you said... We are more like "Leave the financials and problems for me, you just give me support and be my gentle side"...

[@Daniela-wg9nz]

Like a babysitter 🤔

[@VAZAX7]

Ajde ne seri budalo

[@sofystacy5959]

Nice. Well said Ilija💕

[@Nature-ep5cu]

..."after long day of dealing with different kinds of idiots.." LOL😁😁😁

[@arcsoned1112]

@@Daniela-wg9nz If you were a man working (for example: engineer on a building site) for multiple hours under hot/weather, you would want to sit back and cuddle with your partner and relax, would you not?

[@matilda4406]

I love the direct blunt approach. They play less games and you know where they stand

[@VodeniZeka]

I believe the main difference is that Americans and Serbians don't have the same point of view on "dating". As I understand Americans have hockups which is just sex, and I guess it's the same here, they have relationships, which is again same here. But we for the most part don't have casual relationships in the sense that it's ok to date different people at the same time. For the most part in Serbia the relationship starts from the first kiss. So yes if someone tries to pick you up at the bar that's because he is not interested in dating, we just don't have the same concept of that. If we take a girl on a date that we like, the dating lasts just until our first kiss, at which point we either enter into a relationship or we don't. If you even hit on a girl while dating another that is considered as cheating

[@VodeniZeka]

So yes we are maybe blunt, but why would anyone wanna waste anyone's time if we are interested only in sex. But if you go on a date with someone and after that first kiss, if a Serbian men calls you again then he considers himself in a committed relationship. So there really isn't a middle ground in Serbia, you either want sex or relationship. And we believe that is the honest way

[@mm832]

Serbian men really look like Russians haha. only Russian guys are much softer in the sense that they are more shy :) Kosovo is Serbia ❤️

[@LorenCognita]

@@VodeniZeka I LOVE THAT! It’s very common in America for men to lie to women, tell them they love them, commit to a relationship, all of that just to get the woman to go to bed with him. That probably effects her perspective on Serbian men. That’s amazing that you guys have so much honor ❤

[@VodeniZeka]

@@LorenCognita it's not that Serbian men don't cheat, but it's different how we look on cheating. Men and women in Serbia will consider cheating the fact that you are seeing another person while you are dating them no matter where you are in a relationship, one day or twelve years it doesn't really matter. I'm not sure if I'm making any sense. Sorry for my English

[@alexandraferrari8331]

@@VodeniZekaI love what you said and your English is perfect! Hvala!

[@azagranga]

Bluntness? My mom once told me that when she lived in Serbia, it was like a perpetual stream of feedback coming from everybody. She always knew exactly how she was coming across and whether anything was out of place. When she came to the US, by comparison, she said it was like a constant awkward silence or uncomfortable numbness.

[@markospas]

my experience the same when I moved to Canada, I feel Canada is even worse in that regard, even to this days, and I have been living here since high school -I'm 35 now, I still have struggles with that, I've toned down my bluntness but still people find me here too direct sometimes. I always say if you think I'm blunt you should meet my cousins from Serbia :). In Serbia literally if you have bad breath people will tell you that and tell you to go and brush your teeth ahah, I miss that.

[@VLASPAR]

Ah yeah people in Serbia like to notice everything, give advices about everything, gossiping a lot, have opinions about everything, literally everything and have very broad general knowledge. But on the other hand, very social people, who cannot survive without other people. I am in Netherlands I had feelings many time that I live in abandoned city 😂 Serbian vibe is way above those european or american wavelengths..

[@matilda4406]

@@markospas yeah! I much appreciate the bluntness, that also means I can be blunt back and no-one is offended. and we can all have a laugh. It also means people are emotionally healthier and can take a lot more feedback and it's just a nicer atmosphere to know what people think and feel...... and you feel like they care. And they do!

[@RavenYeah-7]

Yup, but not all americans are like that!

[@markospas]

Diner is more cultural thing too, I've been living in Canada since high school when I moved here with my parents, and one thing in beginning that have drive me crazy and I was finding to be really rude is how people here like to eat and talk, and sometimes they will be even talking with their mouths full. When I got married here with Canadian, and we start living together to her diner was time when you seat with your family, socialize and talk about your day. In Serbia we don't do that, when you eat you eat and no-one is talking. Families will be talking and socializing after diner is finished. In Serbia growing up as a kid your parents or grandparents will yell at you if you talk during the lunch or diner, so that is something deeply rooted in our culture. I was explaining that to my wife that when we socialize we will have coffee or drink but not full meal, so if guy in Serbia takes you for a drink or coffee it means he really wants to get to know you, because eating and talking is no go in Serbia. I know my wife and i had to overcome that, and was bumpy but she accepted that I'm not talking when I'm having my meal.

[@TheSvetmen]

This is so true. I felt this part needs a better explanation. My wife is not from Serbia and we had so many conversations about why I don't like to eat and talk . It's who we are in our roots and I think this is far better than talking while spaghetti leaves your mouth in the direction in which it came in.

[@LorenCognita]

Thank you for explaining this!

[@JRspeaking]

Huh. Well, that explains a lot. Interesting!

[@saphirmambou9438]

I’m Congolese dating a Serbian man and my experience is really different . His the best thing that has happened to me ! Only thing I can agree with is them being blunt and smoking

[@ainyc88]

This was interesting listening as Serbian woman living in USA for the past 10 years. What I miss from dating Serbs: 1) tall/look - in USA, it's a miracle seeing someone at list my size (5.9) and I miss having 6ft+ and big man, generally when it comes to attractiveness, Serbs are much better; 2) Blunt/direct approach - hating games and sugarcoating as a Serbian woman I'm very much as my male counterparts: straightforward to the blunt point, which occasionally scare away my American dates. What I like more with an American man, compared to Serbs, less obsessive with gender roles, which to me as ambitious woman is much better and they are much more supportive business wise.

[@milanradojkovic3818]

Realno, mi vise volimo casual varijante za prvi izlazak, ne radi se tu o dopadanju. Mnogo bolja prilika da upoznas devojku, kad zasednes jedan na jedan uz veceru (obicno) je mnogo ustogljenija atmosfera, ume nekad da bude i neprijatno. Ovako, izadjes neobavezujuce, manji je psiholoski pritisak za oboje, popricas, prozezas se, vidis kako se ko ponasa u drustvu, pa polako. Naravno, nije ni to pravilo i ima nas raznih, u globalu u Srbiji sto si stariji vise naginjes kafanama i restoranima, sto si mladji vise si za diskoteke, klubove...

[@Ms777Lena]

I ne moraš da sediš dva sata na istom mestu ako nećeš. Mi generalno nemamo taj običaj.

[@britneyt9253]

Are young people at clubs actually trying to find a potential partner? Or is it just for hookups?

[@milanradojkovic3818]

@@britneyt9253 there is no rules, it could be everything.

[@DimitrijeJoka]

Ja npr vise volim na prvo sastanku da segam sa osobom i cak vise nasih devojka isto to voli. Kada god predlozim da sednemo negde da popijemo pice ona odbije i kaze da je bokje setati. Msm da i jeste,mozak bolje radi dok si u pokretu,vise tema za razgovor se nadje tokom setnje. Isao sam sa bar jedno 15ak devojaka i na prvom sastanku sam samo sa jednom seo u kafic

[@delphinahinneh4416]

Can we be friends I'm a black girl

[@donblockchain7887]

Well in some points you are completely correct while in other completely wrong. For example - we prefer drinks over dinner for first date because it is more casual (and I cannot already know what kind of food, restourants you like before actually I get to know you right?), then this part where guys approached you in described way, I first time heard for that kind of approach, so really cannot be shown as a rule. You mentioned men heaving issue when woman earns more then a man, I know a lot of happy couples in this kind of situations, and I wouldn't mind that my wife earns more then me, at the end in marriege there is not "mine" and "yours", it is "ours", so more for her more for me and vice versa. Yes I prefer more feminine women, otherwise I would be gay, but feminine doesn't mean weak, my wife is strong, very beaitiful and very smart, also we both earn good money (same amount), yet we agreed on splitting jobs in home so we have both more time - she does cooking, I do cleaning,... and some things we do together. And correct we are familly oriented because familly is all you have behind you in tough times so somehow it is normal thing. But I think there are a lot of familly oriented men in USA too, just depends who you run into :) wish you all the best ;)

[@pameti.dragoblago]

must say, as a half serbian woman who grew up in bosnia, i find you experiences a bit surprising. (culturally, i don't think there are major differences between the 2 countries, if any. my mum is slovenian and brother in law croatian, and culture-wise it's all the same, except that slovenians are more 'serious' and workoholics - which is not good for health.) i agree, for example, that serbians are direct and blant in communication - and so am i; but i actually find them quite warm and sensitive, often vulnerable, but always kind, gentle, highly respectful and decent. it may be that my many 'circles' (from air-force and heavy-metal to farmers and intellectuals and engineers), were different to yours. as for man being 'patriarchal' - i guess so are woman. we just want to spoil our boys as mothers and as wives. (my dad used to say to me, if my dog male dog was begging for food while on diet: 'give him the food - he's a male'. i would laugh my head off.) both of my parents taught my sister and i that we are absolutely equal to everyone else - so i never in my life felt that i was somehow inferior to anyone else, male or female. i think that is true for all women in that region: we are equal - we don't have to prove it to anyone.

[@jelenatroyanska3656]

Komšinice, apsolutno si u pravu. Zašto bi odbijanjem da učinim užitak voljenom čoveku značilo da sam slaba i podređena!? Naprotiv, jake žene mogu sve. I da brinu o sebi i o porodici, a samo plus je ako nam je suprug isti takav. Onda kuća cveta i nema nadređivanja. Te zapadne feminističke fore mi više liče na ono Ko će koga bolje da prevesla!

[@jackstone4825]

One massive thing you don't understand about Serbia is that there is NO dating culture here, everything is way more spontaneous. There is no such thing as a 1st, 2nd, 3rd date, etc. Also, free dinner dates... Forget about that. A Serbian man will take you out for food when you genuinely show you're in for the ride. No free meals in Serbia.

[@RavenYeah-7]

💪👍♥️ Bravo!

[@lukacalov1988]

Next video differences between serbian and american girls/you

[@JRspeaking]

Oh, the smoking in Belgrade is so DISGUSTING. Such beautiful people with such a horrible habit.

[@milenailic1437]

Sadly, Serbian men are much more respectful toward Serbian women. They should have been respectful to all. :( And yes, they are very family oriented.

[@nikolavukicevic9799]

A što vi mislite da mi ne poštujemo strane žene? Mi i jesmo porodično orijentisani zato se i ženimo sa Albankama i drugim stranim ženama koje su ženstvene i porodično orijentisane

[@milenailic1437]

@@nikolavukicevic9799 Slažem se, ali dosta Srba jada vidi strankinje turistkinje, prvo pomisle na dobar provod. Fakat he da se domaće devojke više poštuju, kada pričamo samo o početnom udvaranju. Nisam pričala o ozbiljnom vezama I venčanjima.

[@nikolavukicevic9799]

@@milenailic1437 Spomenuli ste porodično orijentisani, kada ste u braku to i jeste "ozbiljna veza" po prirodi svaki pravi muškarac želi porodicu i decu. I te strane žene takodje dolaze u Srbiji na dobar provod sa našim muškarcima, nije da mi gledamo te žene samo na seks i dobar provod, već i na više od toga. I Srbkinje idu sa crncima arapima turcima spavaju sa autsajderima ne čuvaju moral a smeta vam kada je Srbin sa stranom ženom

[@nikolavukicevic9799]

@@milenailic1437 Moja komšika je bila udata za portugalca u Švajcarskoj, on je nju ostavio kada je njena ćerka imala 3 meseci. Iz tog razloga njena ćerka ne želi da se uda za stranca već za Srbina zato što zna kakvi su stranci, da je preljuba i blud mnogo česta pojava na zapadu nego kod nas na balkanu

[@milenailic1437]

@@nikolavukicevic9799 Nadam se da je tako, ali dosta je rasprostranjeno I kod nas, samo što mi teže rasturamo porodicu i ako brak ne valja.

[@markojokic2980]

I was born and raised in Serbia, moved to US 10 years ago when I was 21. I agree, everyone smokes in Serbia and it’s disgusting. Really going overboard with it. 2. Guys will take you out for a drink, due to financial situation in Serbia it’s cultural now that they take you out for a drink instead of a restaurant. So if they are not sure you guys are going to be moving forward they won’t really go out to spend their money. 3rd, men in Serbia do think women from western culture are easier, like women from America. Which I can confirm it is true by far, as in Serbia women really have to worry about what and who are they doing it with, it’s a small place if people find out there are no chances of her getting married. But in that case men in Serbia have a complete wrong image about American girls, yes much easier to get to sleep with you but as you said you need to vibe together and in order to move it forward too fast they need to make you comfortable etc, not just like let’s go fck, that’s disrespectful and they don’t get it-they think it’s so easy. It’s easy but it’s not like that. Agree Serbs are more traditional, they expect their women to do house work l, not quite scared or not a fan of women dominating career wise or anything like that but they will still expect you to do house work, for an example the way life is setup in Serbia, men has many gender specific roles they have to do, let’s say before winter most of Serbia uses firewood to keep the house warm, men chop it out out it away and keep the fire going, building stuff, protecting, house/yard work. So men who do that they do not expect to go in the house after working outside all day, and be like let me make lunch, they expect it waiting on them. For an example in America I need heat I just turn the thermostat on and gas does it’s thing it’s delivered to my house and I don’t have to do anything, most of manly gender specific roles here in US died out, that’s why I feel like women feel injustice when they have to still keep doing house work and men be just sitting and laying around doing nothing. In Serbia women have no problem doing their thing.

[@LorenCognita]

I agree with this! Too many American men take the role of women but want women to be submissive. What woman in their right mind would be submissive to a lady-boy? My boyfriend is Serbian and he’s very masculine, it’s very attractive. I hope you guys don’t ever change, avoid Western media lol

[@gharapike2172]

I feel like Serbian mens would respect more someone of their own kind of course … they won’t respect a foreign woman … but Thsts just how it is .. they are great people but I don’t like their old fashion mentalities !

[@tashavolovsek9115]

If they are home all day that's OK. However in the U S if a woman is working all the time then the house chores should be split. In the U S it takes two incomes now to pay for that gas to heat the house , so most often the woman is now working long hours also. But I like it if ypu chop wood for me !

[@alexandraferrari8331]

I really like what you said and how you said it. Definitely different roles and it works 😊

[@ChaosPrototypeIX]

About those sexual desperados, you are just going out in the wrong circles. Although its is a pretty big circle considering that majority of them watch that utter reality garbage like parovi and farma where the main point of "appeal" for them is those hook ups, arguing and fighting. Basically its Jersey Shore but Serbian edition and big percentage of population here is into it (I mean its so popular that those human disgraces in those shows get 20k+ euros just for participating in them) so that tells a lot about the dating culture and culture in general here.

[@nikolazekic549]

Unfortunately, very true... The downfall started in 1990s.

[@amerikanka]

everyone tells me this: "you're going to the wrong places." "you're in the wrong circle." ... trust me, this happens to me EVERYWHERE. maybe it's because i'm a foreigner and i look different

[@nikolazekic549]

​@@amerikanka I suppose noone wants to acknowledge how far our culture has fallen :( I fervently hope that you shall find a soulmate of your own, be he a Serb, an American or someone else. For the sake of my nation, I hope that such a fine woman stays among us. :)

[@alfaman8386]

@@amerikanka ,you are brain wash American girl. You like bi in Parovi -reality shou.?

[@alfaman8386]

@@amerikanka this reality Shou caming from demonocratic USA , what is good in USA? HOW many Americans No have insurance, How many Americans No have food, Hov many Americans is homeless,a ? Serbia iz much over USA , is smart people, famyly oriented. What you doing, why not married,you child - you no have child,who are you?

[@glicmathan1771]

I think the men you’re talking about are the poseurs in the clubs of big cities. They will live in the gym to compete for women. But are they the same guys smoking all around you? Smoking isn’t a healthy lifestyle habit. I’ve seen lots of overweight guys in Serbia. And their average height is only like 1/2” taller than American men. The US has A LOT of Asians and Hispanics who lower the total height average.

[@scandmaster]

To be honest I prefere the Serbian way. Talk a little and then go straight to the point, in terms of boy meets girl in a bar. Of course you can do that American sweet talk, make you feel comfortable. But in the end, the end result is identical. They want to have some "🤪😋🙈🥳". I think the Serb men just don't have a lot of fake "sweet filters" to attach to themselves. In the end is all about learn to read people. Direct approach doesn't necessarily mean a creepy guy. Sweet talk doesn't necessarily mean a good guy. 😎

[@TheSkullThatTalks]

As a Serbian guy that never learned to read people you can't imagine what funny failures i had :D I can't read people but what i can do is mathematical statistics,and i date using that.So you can imagine XD

[@TheSkullThatTalks]

As a Serbian man,I must say you are spot on,but I also must elaborate on why it is like that.Serbian men are like that because Serbian women trained them to be like that. Being assertive,blunt,and rarely emotional is what Serbian women crave.Im more of an American type of guy the way you say it,and had more luck with western girls,and less luck with girls here because of that.I look good,but I can't count how many times girls found me boring for being too talkative,romantic and complex/nice. It's especially bad if you are emotional and more opened up and progressive,because most of our girls consider that a weakness.Most of girls will say otherwise,but they all lie,or lie to them selves.Every Serbian girl will forget everything she represents if she meets strong,tall,assertive,blunt,barely talkative,rarely emotional guy that openes up harder than a tank door. In a way Serbian women(most of them) are halting Serbian men progress,because they encourage that sort of behaviour.A lot of guys fake this behaviour just to get the girl,and start acting like they truly are when they get married.Also a lot of guys that act like that naturally have bull mentality and are as blunt as a rock.I made a terrible mistake when i was younger and was more opened up and talkative.I failed so hard,and for so long with women until i learned to not act like that.But im in my 30s now and i really don't care to act like anything at all. The point is that Serbian womens mind and emotions are driven by deep sexual desire.And it all comes from the fact that many of people from rural areas have come to live in Serbian cities(especially Belgrade) in late 20th and early 21st century,and are still coming.They brought their mentality with them and in a way halted the progress of minds.It doesn't mean city people are less patriotic as i surely am as an ex soldier,it means they are way less open to change because in their village: "something was done in some way for centuries and it must be like that always"(usualy an old grandma says that).

[@tashavolovsek9115]

It's always hard to find more intelligent people who like to discuss higher level things. It's part if growing up and finding your circle that fits you also. It's hard in America to find a man who wants to make a family and not just hook up, and at the same time allow for the life goals of the partner with out being controlling.

[@marypaz9118]

I am from Latin America and I had a relationship with a man from Serbia. At first he showed me a very romantic side and at the same time direct and clear with his intentions to build a family and a home, but when we lived together he started to be a very hard and cold person, he decided to break up with me and Then he kept looking for me but then it was hard and cold again, he broke my heart many times, he always told me it was a trust problem, I was loyal and I loved him a lot but I can't handle his moods, I think the culture shock was strong, It is not normal for me that one day I am the most romantic and the next day a person ignores me and does not seem to care about my feelings, my image of Serbians is that they have a very strong character like a rock.

[@deepworklabs]

It’s like that w all women

[@rossanasnezana]

[@Sam-du7cm]

I'm surprised that serbian men aren't a classic eastern european traditional man who takes you out for dinner on the first date. Usually that is what I hear with eastern european men.

[@RavenYeah-7]

Even russian men do that.🤣🤦. We are a different breed jebote.🤷

[@cheguevara3392]

Gym yes over the last decade plus, but workout can be done for free (all kind of 😂, but I am talking about basics)

[@nikolamiskovic3923]

Okay, here it is 1. We don't open our selfs because we are listening to you and nobody cares about our stuff unless it's interesting 2. We are direct because in most of the times you take a girl out for a couole of time often more and nothing happens, so why waste time 3.We are family oriented 'cause FAMILY 4. Not that we don't like the long run, but, we were rejected so many times than we just go for it 5. If i take you on dinner, that is the sign that something is going on allready, i first need to know you if i want a relationship 6.We were friendzoned so many times because we talked to much and we reveald about our selfs that it stops the mistery 7.You don't know the hard work people are doing here for such small money, and usualy it's the male who is working and paying everything so we just want respect for that, and when we come home tired and hungry and nervous...well just don't talk, and a nice meal would be great, you can buy it, doesnt matter, but it would really be great Again it's not everybody! And finaly.. as you saw everybody tries to talk to you and win you over, no matter the cost, and if we got you, if we are in the relationship.. well we know guys will try to sleep with you all the time, and we are afraid of that, cause maybe, some day someby will come that you like more that us...and honestly we dont want that...because we are rearly capable to have female friends... yea that should be it

[@saleskgs1733]

Vi očigledno imate loše iskustvo sa muškarcima u Srbiji. Izbor Vam je loš. Više sreće sledeći put😊

[@wakanda6547]

Nwando rocks! she speaks Serbian reads their alphabet she is intelligent feminine plays guitar dresses clean good looking Nwando I am glad you have topics that are off the beaten path...and keep a dialogue going. Eric bought a farm I hope he brings you a bushel of fruit.

[@amerikanka]

lol, a bushel of fruit!! i will ask him to bring me some. he is a great cook! and thanks for all the positive words

[@moedervanfilip5395]

No.

[@frog382]

I think its the places where you go out and meet people. Im from Belgrade as well and the theory is that similar mindset and goal is inside people who go out a lot. Muscles are for aesthetics and not health lol, most of them eat trash and drink a lot, plus as you said smoke most of the time. As in every nation, sex is generally a taboo, so they get away with ”im not doing it all for sex” , while doing it all for sex xD Best person in Serbia you will meet randomly on the street, not in a house of obscenity

[@amerikanka]

everyone tells me this: "you're going to the wrong places." "you're in the wrong circle." ... trust me, this happens to me EVERYWHERE. it's because i'm a foreigner and i look different

[@moljac369]

@@amerikanka You just go to the "most famous places" and probably not with "ordinary people", try to go to the less "famous" places and maybe outside of the Belgrade, try Novi Sad, Subotica maybe... Belgrade is the capital of the crime in Balkan and many people are in Belgrade so... We like to say: "Погрешно време у погрешно место са погрешним људима"...

[@LorenCognita]

@@amerikanka they’re 92% Christian, try meeting a man in church lol ❤

[@nikolazekic549]

I very much agree with your observations. That being said, I must ask, out of sheer curiosity, how tall are you? :D

[@spreadlovenothate88]

Svaka cast lepotice 👏🏻💖❤️ pozdrav iz svedcke ❤️

[@IvansBikesBmws]

Spot on video. I agree 100%.

[@markogagic4091]

First time hearing that Serbian men would aproach a woman and after 5 minutes ask for sex. That's more of a west thing isn't it, you can see that a lot in western countries. But in Serbia or Balkan in gerneral that doesn't happen much, even when it does that guy must've been completely wasted.

[@af4362]

😊😊😊

[@RavenYeah-7]

🤦

[@boskovukovasustransf]

Fishing ... Quick win or loss...

[@Pamelagroove]

I love my Serbian guy 🥰😂

[@moamenahmed4928]

If you know the Egyptian you love him more ❤️😘😃

[@louisaklimentos7583]

Not all Serbian men are dark . Some of them have medium and light brown hair with blue/green eyes . Some maybe blonde .

[@haristhebosniaklion8584]

Hey buddy, It really is not my fault that i am ugly to most;) ;) and that many girls,mostly Bosniak girls hurt my feelings by telling me how ugly i am,you know very well what was done to them in the Aggression on Bosnia.......btw(Kosovo Is Not Serbia ) ✌️

[@louisaklimentos7583]

@@haristhebosniaklion8584 They are so rude to tell you that you are ugly . Beauty is always with in and when we become old , we lose our beauty. One day you will meet someone who will love your inner beauty . I wish you all the best .

[@PatriciaKaunda]

I definitely do agree with the last point you gave,I also did the same video do check it out ☺

[@tomislavandric6476]

I had no idea we are so tall.. But im short, 180 only so i guess i don't pay attention 🤣

[@tashavolovsek9115]

Your talker than many American men! Lol! As a,woman I feel like a giant here . Many american men are intimidated by me just becayse I'm tall. I love being around our people because then I feel normal again .

[@4elovechishe]

Where do I find me a good Serbian man? 😊

[@tangokaleidos1926]

Austria

[@space_rs]

In serbia lol😂

[@RavenYeah-7]

Nigeria

[@meriena]

Ti si jedina u ovoj zemlji koja vidi isto sto i ja. 100% je sve tako kao sto si ispricala i hvala to za istinu. Obozavam te! 💕

[@antipolitika4552]

The Amerikanka rocks, very smart & perceptive, in addition to being gorgeous. Listen up, guys, useful stuff!

[@marko1263]

Damn you didn't hold back for this one lol

[@bonita329]

I meet someone here in deutschland and I'm black woman but first i need to discover about Serbia man lol before i jump that's way I'm here because the way he react i really don't trust him but his cool 😂🤣😂🤣😂 now i know two people we can play game then 🙌🏼🙌🏼🤣

[@thelonewolf498]

Depends from person to person

[@angrybutgoodbosniak9128]

My Muslim brothers,do not forget,ever,what the Serbs and Americans have done to our women and young girls,during the aggression,i respect anyone that is fair and good,but do not forget and if you can chase their girls and date,have fun,i cant sadly,life is ruined,but i want to get even really bad for the evil this American government did to me, ( Targeted Me ).They did what they could to make me look bad and I am not!!!!!

[@tashavolovsek9115]

@@angrybutgoodbosniak9128 in America they Make serbians "look bad" and glorify the Muslims. Also you have no idea what her people have been through in America because of slavery.

[@tashavolovsek9115]

You remember slavery right? Or is that also erased out of your "education " books?

[@Tamarakanso98]

Do Serbian man let the girl pay ever ? When out on dates and stuff ???

[@space_rs]

Yes we do😂

[@RavenYeah-7]

I do. I don't pay on the first date, she has to pay for herself.

[@nikolamarkovic3649]

A typical Serbian is a gentleman and he will never let you pay for a lunch, dinner, coffee , drinks, etc...

[@shmoo-zd1yz]

Second date I don't feed smudge if she earns money from tinder or daday

[@nenaddamjanovic8981]

We are full charge, but what you getting it the life ......serbian man are rough,but if you got one a they really protective a good husbands.....

[@waresJohnSmith]

I am Serbian man and I agree with your observations.

[@amerikanka]

Jovan Smitović?

[@cickislav]

@@amerikanka Haha, yeah. And yes, I agree too. And as you said that's what our girls say too (Serbian girls) often like a complaint. But I agree it should change in future.

[@capitosinora]

Jel bre Amerikanka kad ces da postanes serbian snajka pa da pravimo svadbu? Sta bre cekas kad si lepa ko lutka.

[@Zocky73166]

Good that you mention that many times - generalisation

[@bandza66]

So many strangers in Serbia have conclusions and opinions about Serbia and Serbs and you know what...we just don't care...we are that package so take it or live it

[@RavenYeah-7]

Bravo

[@gutsandgrittv5076]

Have you ever moved in together? And how is the cultural norm to wait?

[@haristhebosniaklion8584]

Hey buddy, It really is not my fault that i am ugly to most;) ;) and that many girls,mostly Bosniak girls hurt my feelings by telling me how ugly i am,you know very well what was done to them in the Aggression on Bosnia.......btw(Kosovo Is Not Serbia ) ✌️

[@gutsandgrittv5076]

Your videos are so much fun 💝

[@haristhebosniaklion8584]

Hey buddy, It really is not my fault that i am ugly to most;) ;) and that many girls,mostly Bosniak girls hurt my feelings by telling me how ugly i am,you know very well what was done to them in the Aggression on Bosnia.......btw(Kosovo Is Not Serbia ) ✌️

[@Slamber77]

I’m an American woman who lives in Arizona and dated a Serbian man, and he was the biggest narcissist I’ve ever encountered. After dating him for a few months, I grew curious as to why he never invited me to his “luxurious Scottsdale Loft condominium” that he always bragged about, so I did a simple background check and found out he lived in a very dangerous part of the valley in a 1,200 SF home with his parents, his 43 yr old brother, and his 6 yr old son, amongst a few other ridiculous lies like about playing football in college (he never played football in college, because he NEVER went to college). I decided his excuse for these lies could slide (stupid mistake) because shortly after, he moved himself and his son into my apartment without me even realizing it until I got a USPS address change form in my mailbox one day. Anyway, I dated him for over three years; I tried many times to leave, so he started locking me in the house…I won’t go into much more; way too traumatic 😣 But know I will never date a Serbian man ever again, and I mean ever! 😖.

[@mbole87]

That's sad! But a Serb in America is not the same as a Serb in Serbia, in America they are like little girls :)

[@nikofranko2068]

My mother already has a son and does not want her daughter-in-law to be a boy

[@ms-eg9hr]

Why American women are so obsessed with the dinner on first date? What's wrong with booze or coffee? That can be romantic af too ,if you are dealing with the romantic guy. Maybe you value romance the wrong way. Me paying the dinner for you is not necessarily act of romance ,an act kindness maybe. I like to be focused on conversation without munchin on something. Dinner is fine if we are already in relationship,on the first date, we are getting to know each other so what is wrong with making things simple? So if guy is not taking you out for dinner, that means he is not romantic? Girl if someone turn your around 180 degrees on the first date I asure you you wouldn't mind if munchin on peanuts . Millions of other ways for the guy to be romantic and not only with his wallet Serbs are different, you have to earn trust, and after all romance goes both ways ❤ and you are in Serbia for a long time now ,you should be familiar with financial struggles, or date a criminal or big night club owner ,than you will have dinner every time.

[@mcbp95]

Love my Macedonian husband

[@amerikanka]

awww, congratulations on a happy marriage :)

[@MizzleMeezii]

Some of the men walk in Serbia because they don't have a car and they take the bus. They also don't have all of the preservatives in their foods like we do in America. They also smoke and drink tons of coffee to stay thin. I use to visit there a lot and I've noticed that.

[@jelenae5171]

Smoke and drink coffee to stay thin?!?🙄 Wow, I live here and I didn't know that! Thank you for an eye opening observation😂😂😂😘

[@wakanda6547]

kissing an ashtray ewww

[@ChaosPrototypeIX]

Good thing that you who "visited" knows better than us who live here. You must be member of MENSA and NASA for sure with those keen observations.

[@Djare915]

@@3sat_arte_zdf the tables have turned.

[@Butterflieslove2]

People don’t walk because they go on the bus🫥 perhaps they have healthy fitness routine and eating…

[@Dee_wu]

I feel that. My bf really straight forward, Conservative, stubborn, and far from romantic.

[@cheguevara3392]

😂😂😂 Yes, you are right, but I think you didn't get it! Romantic dinner and roses laying around (250$).taking you out and have some 🥃 is not the worst tactic if you know what I mean! Yes, there are some ladies worth to spend more time and effort (but not all)!

[@jbl443]

Well,we dont talk bs we are just honest from the begining :D

[@STASHYNSKYI]

When it's comes to diner it's not about money but culture. It's stupid for first date go and eat .

[@jha-nocri2551]

yep, keep the investment low, don't lead with your wallet

[@RavenYeah-7]

👍

[@RavenYeah-7]

​@@STASHYNSKYI 🤣

[@bellebeautyboutique8289]

Just curious

[@cheguevara3392]

😂😂😂 YES, IT'S CALLED "Dosta Romantike skidaj se" in the Balkans 😂

[@NikolaAvramov]

Eh, those sound like the more edgy men around here. Met a lot of mobsters, cutthroats and slimeballs that behave like that towards men. Local Orc, mostly.

[@arlekin1976]

You should`ve called this video chads vs simps.

[@tashavolovsek9115]

Hahaha

[@tashavolovsek9115]

Dragos vrs simps, we are not Anglo and don't use the name "chad".

[@arlekin1976]

@@tashavolovsek9115 We are not using "simp" either

[@dracocaelestis6370]

i really appreciate your insights on serbian men and dating. i am serbian and have been living abroad and all over the world for 12 years now and my husband is american. i agree with some things that you said, but i never thought that majority of serbian men were particularly fit or sporty (watching soccer games and going to kladionica doesn’t count). i rarely come to serbia these days but when i do, sadly people seem to be getting more and more overweight there, including men. maybe it’s because i’ve spent most of my time in socal and am very involved in crossfit and hiking communities but i almost wanna say that american men take better care of themselves. but as you pointed out, america is so diverse and really depends where you are. you go deep south, an everybody and their mother seems to be obese. also smoking freaking sucks. as a non-smoker who wanted to have social life, going out in belgrade was always a hell. it was a deal breaker for me for dating as well. coming back from a night out would usually involve red eyes, stuff nose, stinky hair and clothes that are ready for heavy duty program 🤮

[@cuorenerazzurro1661]

I don t get this obsession of some black people, male and female to want to mix with us from the balkans. Our identity is important, in 10-20 years seeing randomly mixed children in the balkans will be painful, we have plenty of choice in our own nation or brotherly countries.

[@haristhebosniaklion8584]

I actually like Serbian and American women/girls (❤️👍✌️😎).Their guys like our women/girls ,they did prove it in the aggression on us.

[@RavenYeah-7]

I will definetly not accept the race mixing!

[@Crackkudi1957]

Fuckin shit i was literally thinking about dating serbian man after knowing these facts better to stay away 😂😂😅😅😅😅

[@pavlestanimirovic]

Let’s gooooooo

[@serbsrb]

Srbija i Srbi imaju tradiciju koja datira jos od 6. veka. Mi se do dan danas drzimo te 1400 godina gradjene tradicije. Srbi imaju jak identitet, obicaje, kulturu i medjusobnu povezanost. Ti kao zena iz Amerike vrlo tesko mozes to da razumes i da se uklopis u tu tradiciju i bez obzira na to koliko godina zivela u Srbiji nikada neces postati "jedna od nas" jer to jednostavno nisi. To nije nista lose, vec jednostavno cinjenica. U nasu kulturu donekle mogu da se uklope ljudi iz Ukrajine, Rusije, Belorusije, Bugarske, Rumunije, Moldavije... Nasa istocna i vasa zapadna kultura su jako razlicite u samom pogledu na svet i jednostavno se ne mesaju. Potpuno je razumljiva cinjenica da se tebi kao devojci koja pripada zapadnoj kulturi ne moze svideti nas mentalitet i da ga ne mozes razumeti nikada u potpunosti. To sto ce ti neki Amerikanac mazati oci celo vece i lagati te da bi te na prevaru odveo u krevet mnogo je gore nego Srbin koji odmah iskaze svoje prave namere i da ti posten izbor. To sto te nece izvesti na veceru tebi je bitno, a Srpkinje to ni ne primete. Nama je bitno da je to dobar covek, a da li smo na veceri ili ne nije ni pitanje niti koga zanima. Srbi generalno u tebi vide strankinju i ne razmatraju te u bilo kom ozbiljnom ljubavnom smislu. Ti si ovde ono sto su devojke iz Srbije i Ukrajine u Americi "Eastern European chicks" od kojih momci zele samo jedno. Srbi su divni ljudi i nama Srpkinjama najbolji na svetu. Mi ih volimo i obozavamo i ponosimo se njima. Sto se tebe tice, mislim da ako zelis nesto ozbiljno to ne treba da trazis u Srbima, nego medju svojima, medju ljudima koji imaju iste vrednosti kao ti, mentalitet, vaspitanje, pogled na svet...

[@serbsrb]

@@janakolasinac1686 Dobro ja znam i tu tradiciju, ali ne zelim nikakve rasprave. Ovo je ono sto znamo 100% i sto niko ne moze da nam ospori. A o onom ostalom cemo pricati kad se za to izborimo.

[@christinakiki75]

Mentalitet u Srbiji.? To li da trosis pare al Nemas Jel..?.. znaci kao Americanci....Ili zapadnjaci

[@serbsrb]

@@christinakiki75 Amerikanci su jedina drzava na svetu koja stampa novac bez pokrica. Oni bukvalno stampaju i trose pare koje nemaju koliko zele i kada zele. Da bi ocuvali tu svoju kulu od karata, bliskocnoistocne zemlje moraju da prodaju naftu drugim zemljama u njihovoj valuti. Kina se sada bori da pocne da placa naftu Saudijskoj Arabiji u juanima umesto americkim dolarima, i trebalo bi da uspeju u tome.

[@nikolavukicevic9799]

Srbkinje idu sa crncima arapima turcima, ali zato vama smeta kada Srbin ide sa crnkinjom ili tamnoputom ženom. Srbska plemena su širom sveta nestajala samo zbog ovoga, rasnog mešanja

[@af4362]

to an American or Latina they do not even reach the heels 😂😘

[@nikolazekic549]

00:07: I guess that makes me a woman :D Well, you definitely are a woman! You sound like one, you look like one, for all intents and purposes you are, and quite a fine one at that.

[@amerikanka]

Nikola, where you been all my life?!

[@nikolazekic549]

@@amerikanka This is simply my opinion of you, formed after watching many of your videos... One simply cannot fake such a complex character and stay consistent throughout. :)

[@BeeboiZam]

I'm an American guy and contrary to what she said, we def do not like an "independent liberated bitch". The progression she is talking about is getting wayyyyy out of control here. Conservatism is much better.

[@Daniela-wg9nz]

Why shouldn't a woman be indipendent?

[@LorenCognita]

Unfortunately the Conservative Party is outnumbered by liberals

[@BeeboiZam]

@@Daniela-wg9nz There is nothing wrong with a girl who is independent. The problem is usually what this "independent liberated bitch" attitude manifest itself into...usually an overly/unwarranted sense of self worth, entitlement, and generally shitty behavior.

[@nenadzivic2457]

Tinder? oh no no no

[@RavenYeah-7]

🤣👍

[@marinbabajko7944]

Looks like someone doesn't like Balkans anymore 🤣

[@zjzj6800]

Zato sto je niko nece pa se ljuti!🤣

[@nikolamedic9402]

About getting weight... Well Americans are so much bigger .... And ofc we are tallest

[@andrejdestradi7414]

ciaoo Bellezza Veliki Pozzz🙋‍♂️🌹🤗😘😘😘💖💕💕💕💞💞💞💞

[@amerikanka]

Caoooo

[@andrejdestradi7414]

@@amerikanka ciao The Amerikanka Veliki Pozzz🙋‍♂️ i bas si super mega kul devojka samo da znas ostani uvek takva puna pozitivne energije ok i bye bye Bellezza🙋‍♂️🌹🤗😘😘😘💖💕💕💕💞💞💞💞💞

[@cheguevara3392]

Look, you are something special and man are man! They are looking at you 🤤, (their GF's may hate you and their surrounding because you are a threat), but this is a global thing! Girls somehow don't like when competition comes right into their middle and the GUYS LIKE IT!

[@pgalerie5322]

There are different societies. The primitive and superficial one is more visible everywhere. Try to avoid this circle (they are conservative, materialistic, superficial), just look for a more intellectual one. No, Serbian woman are quite emancipated and strong, and many Serbian men like that, so go into a more intellectual circle. Good luck

[@howl777]

You are stop on 👍

[@joshuawood7342]

Are woman in Serbia as attractive as you for the most part? I've wanted to take a trip there for some time now but wasn't sure how the people were.

[@boxy1375]

Both women and men in Serbia are attractive.

[@barefootmustang777]

They are mommas boys.You must be willing to be more of a mother/ obedient wife.

[@toxicgamers1113]

cute as ever

[@amerikanka]

sweet :)

[@barefootmustang777]

Blunt or just plain rude or even abusive? I hate it!

[@A-Ls1]

Now because of you I’m having dreams about Tom Brady and football like... ruined my sleep with the thumbnail 😂😂😂 I’m not actually mad though like 60 guy at once were having games in an actively packed Walmart parking lot it was interesting.

[@amerikanka]

hahahahaha! i'm not a fan of Tom Brady, but I had to put someone SUPER AMERICAN in the thumbnail, LOL

Games are 4 kidds 😎😉🇷🇸🤫

[@markoristic8028]

Normalno da ćemo ići na piće. Kao male su nas učili da ne pričamo punih usta 😃

[@DanTheManNetwork]

100% on the dot . Duki 👍

[@alien925]

Slatka devojka

[@moamenahmed4928]

And what is the Egyptian 🤣🇪🇬❤️ man

[@haristhebosniaklion8584]

I actually like Serbian and American women/girls (❤️👍✌️😎).Their guys like our women/girls ,they did prove it in the aggression on us.

[@moamenahmed4928]

@@haristhebosniaklion8584 I love them too♥️

[@haristhebosniaklion8584]

@@moamenahmed4928 Aww.

[@moamenahmed4928]

@@haristhebosniaklion8584 ♥️😀

[@nkrihargamati4925]

Egyptian man is very romantic ,and very sensitive

[@bojanraicevic34]

My dear, poor economics in Serbia don't alllow us to take beautiful women to have dinner every time we want. It's more that,then the matter of likeing someone.

[@RavenYeah-7]

Both brate, both.

[@andrejdestradi7414]

The Amerikanka😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😋😁🙆‍♂️uff🤣🤣🤣

[@amerikanka]

[@grofmarkocontetintoretto6778]

Dobra riba ;-D

[@RavenYeah-7]

🤣

[@Vlay76]

You are right about everything you said about Serbian men.I'll just add that all the good men left Serbia long time ago because no one wants to live in Banana Republic and the sense of style and coolness dissapeared together with those guys!

[@Butterflieslove2]

True

[@DJFlying82]

Bullshit

[@tashavolovsek9115]

Where did they go Chicago?

[@RavenYeah-7]

​@@tashavolovsek9115 🤣

[@aleksandar_sasabelov4751]

Станија на амерички начин

[@vsazdric9150]

Serbische Männer beste 🤩🧿🧿💖🇷🇸🌞👍🧿lover 💋

[@_m.g07__]

Nah u know Serbian men way too well

[@haristhebosniaklion8584]

Hey buddy, It really is not my fault that i am ugly to most;) ;) and that many girls,mostly Bosniak girls hurt my feelings by telling me how ugly i am,you know very well what was done to them in the Aggression on Bosnia.......btw(Kosovo Is Not Serbia ) ✌️

[@tashavolovsek9115]

Many different nationalities wound up in America for many reasons including serbians. There are communities of serbians in America also. However there are,far more Anglo and western European men in the U S because of the eugenics that were promoted agaibst Slavic people during the Jim crow laws Era when the English Anglo Saxon and Nordic dominated U S congress passed racist laws against us causing our immigration to become illegal. Far past ww11 we were not part of U S,society even though we have whole communities there. We have no real representation in American society because we were not part of the upper crust of American society. We were labeled an inferior race and had many of the grunt jobs in America's factories , foundries dries , steel mills and mines. We were not even considered part of the true white race during the times of eugenics , Jim crow and the Sicilian lynchings through out the south. Some Slavic people were even killed by the kkk in the northern labor movements . We remain systemically racistly omitted from the American public school books , collage course books and curriculums. We remain under represented in politics and demonized in the movie industries of both the U S and England. So the American society that is promoted as mainstream America has its roots in the English Anglo identity with a huge input from German society in the north and the French and Spanish influences of Louisiana territories . Of course the southwest is heavily influenced my the Spanish/Mexican influences as well. In Louisiana there us an area of Cajun influence , however say that area us shrinking . Places like Milwaukee are very germanic , even though there are many Slavic people there including serbians around the Chicago/Milwaukee areas. Many slovenian communities in cleaveland /Pittsburgh etc . The list goes on . However the lack of representation for the many different Slavic peoples is so absent in the projected "American culture" . The narrative is still very Anglo centric in its out put . Thank you for the representation you bring forth. Now if we could get the American colleges to stop chopping off the Balkan peninsula in the whole chapters on things like ww11 that they write for our high schoolers that would be helpful . How about them serbians working with the Tuskegee airmen in the biggest rescue from behind enemy lines in modern history of 500 (white) U S airmen that had been shot down by the occupying German forces ? That's absent from the American "education" books also.

[@OfficialNotMeBro]

Serbia has stronger men with more balls.0

[@RavenYeah-7]

Yes!💪

[@dzidzabidza789]

Kako bre za cetiri godine nisi naucila bar malo od Srpskog jezika.Cudno.

[@jelenae5171]

Mislim da zna srpski, ali mnogo važnije je što je nesigurna, nezrela, neizgrađena kao ličnost i ne zna šta hoće... otud i svi "problemi" sa kojima se susreće i nezadovoljstvo koje je kod nje evidentno, ali ga (bezuspešno) potiskuje. Možda grešim (tek sam danas "naletela" na njen kanal), ali meni tako deluje iz do sada viđenog.

[@stevannemes458]

Mislim da je kanal vise orijentisan ka strancima.nema razloga da nama objasnjava kako se pije rakija😀

[@nikolazekic549]

Pusti djevojku na miru, nije ni prestolonaslednik naučio, pa ga eno prdi u Beli dvor.

[@l.w.paradis2108]

Are you kidding? Nwando speaks well. When she doesn't code switch, she has a great, posh Belgrade accent. Her American accent comes out whenever she code switches. This is called . . . normal.

[@ChaosPrototypeIX]

@@jelenae5171 jbt ti stvarno imas neke gadne komplekse.