seriously overdue kitchen makeover update

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In this highly anticipated second part of my kitchen makeover series, I take on the challenge of reorienting my kitchen space with my contractors and finding the perfect countertops to complement my design aesthetic. I've learned throughout this process that weighing the pros and cons of various options, and ultimately making big decisions is way harder than I thought when it comes to a kitchen.
But the journey towards a dream kitchen is not without its bumps in the road. In this video, I also open up about my growing sense of regret about undertaking this makeover project. From unexpected expenses to unforeseen complications.
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VIDEO CHAPTERS:
0:00 - intro
1:42 - sourcing options for the kitchen countertop
3:51 - working on the electrical plans in the kitchen
7:03 - evaluating the countertop options
10:49 - picking out kitchen cabinets
14:22 - getting my cabinets installed in my kitchen
18:38 - marble or quartzite?
21:11 - outro
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[@chloemorrison2343]

The editing with the pendant conversation was gold

[@weirdxwonderful]

Kelsey needs to make this editing her signature 😁

[@martagavi]

​​@@weirdxwonderful im pretty sure she didn't edit it herself, they have an editing team!! edit: if you look at the description, it says it was edited by nick liske and justin abalos!

[@thegirlwholikestocook767]

As an interior designer that is mostly doing kitchens, trust me, dont put marble in your kitchen! As you said, its is a pain to live with, especially in a kitchen where theres wine, sauce, etc. Its more for bathrooms or decorative purposes. I did like the veines in it but the Quartzite is soooooo beautiful! Its not only the look (which most commenters in favor of the marble are saying) its the material. For what I know you'll pay for, even with sponsors, you have to think about the life of the material. Go Quartizte, go!

[@chazikins]

Always quartz in kitchens, never marble. Marble is a nightmare in kitchens

[@tasnianawreen3176]

A

[@PeacockEarings]

The contrast between Kelsey and Becky's decision process is crazy. Becky is so much more go with the flow, bold and I'll make it work whereas Kelsey's is months of indecision and second guessing. It's great that you guys show both processes.

[@thegeekwearingpink]

Quartzite is to die for and would look really good in that space

[@andreaangelco11]

I think the quartzite. Because the warm tone will tie the lowers and upper cabinets together!

[@LoomofDreams]

And I think it's lower maintenance, which in my opinion is always a good thing!

[@razzypants]

It's also going to be SO much lower maintenance. Marble it just too fragile and needy for me.

[@carrieanderson1238]

Quartzite is amazing for maintenance!

[@evicaf4e]

I also immediately think of that, because of the warm tone it will pop that brown in the cabinets more and if she put green marble the cabinets will look more black.

[@lanafrazier4638]

Get the countertop that is the easiest to care for and is the most stain and heat resistance. You don't want to be a slave to your countertops or constantly worried that you are going to damage them.

[@wandadelacruz2486]

Totally agree

[@RememberTheLord]

Which countertop would you recommend to make life easier

[@lanafrazier4638]

@@RememberTheLord She mentioned two countertops she was considering in her video. I just gave my advice to choose the one of the two that was easiest to care for.

[@slimymouse]

The quartzite feels classic while I feel like marble can look a bit extra

[@dakarihowell]

I think the quartzite would look so good in the space. In a way it’s minimal but still has movement and depth in it.

[@sarahnanette]

Quartzite, it is soooo much more durable and looks just as stunning!

[@joannaopie583]

Your cabinet team look like a bunch of older dads who got together and decided that the cabinet life was for them. Absolutely love it! And if anyone has an issue with my comment my husband and father are both cabinet makers and they both said the same thing!

[@UntetheredBanshee]

I like to think they're troupe of fraternal triplets carrying on the family cabinet trade 😂

[@TheSorryGirls]

It’s quite wholesome honestly.

[@xxoldmagicxx]

No no I agree! They are the actual cutest!

[@monicahayden51]

I noticed those silver foxes too! 😅 teehee, great job fellas!

[@sg2684]

Can you link the cabinet guys?

[@UsernamesForDummies]

I love the green in the Callacutta marble. It gives the very monochrome colour choice of basically black and white some interest, some unexpected character.

[@Diabratical]

My last two houses , I have put quartzite ina d have been EXTREMELY happy with its durability and no fuss. I also love green, so the marble is so lovely, however the quartzite gives you the most flexibility for accent colours and for resale whenever that comes. Quartzite = timeless classic

[@ferni24]

Go for the terra bianca, as someone who lived in a house with some marble countertops, they are really prone to staining and getting ruined with cleaning chemicals. Very pretty when brand new, not so much with years of use

[@robinsilk9445]

My vote is for the quartzite

[@itsGabrielaCristina]

Quartzite. It's more timeless. But honestly, they're both beautiful.

[@sandypeters3238]

The Terra Bianca quartzite is my pick 100%!

[@garymarsh5972]

I think the quartzite would look better in the space.

[@tweetesther]

Yeah, I think for the size and closeness of the layout, the design lines of the cupboards... the quartzite is a better option.

[@eamalmberg4787]

It seems like it’s lower maintenance as well, which is always a plus!

[@TyressaL]

The quartzite is something special

[@carolynbriggs6972]

Pick the Quartzite. The marble is gorgeous but a bit attention grabbing. The Quartzite is also excellent but is not so demanding. Kitchen surfaced should be a background to the colors of food. Also, quartzite is so much easier to maintain.

[@tealduckduckgoose]

13:00 Yes! I would love to hear more about the decision making processes, and especially the unexpected things that came up

[@FrenchMayo]

Definitely the quartzite!

[@amaiahperry]

Kelsey trying to pronounce gyro killed me 🤣 it’s pronounced like Euro

[@SpooderCace]

YES! Shes so cute lol. Yee-Roe!

[@Salvation393]

True! Or is sounds almost like a "wh" in the beginning.

[@TheSorryGirls]

Oooops

[@amaiahperry]

@@TheSorryGirls we’ve all been there

[@ERYN__]

I was just about Year-oh, or Yearow, I guess Euro makes more sense. I know some chain restaurant that I can't remember the name of has a Gyro Hero, and saying that it rhymes like Care Bear. Gyro pronounced like a gyroscope is how I understand it's pronounced on the East Coast, and because a meat one comes off a spinning spool of meat, I would also say that is not a "wrong" pronunciation.

[@danyellerobinson5940]

Gyro (yhear-o) and roll the r. What's cute is how different the decision process is when it's your own home compared to makeovers. I suspect viewers can relate.

[@TheImanuelita]

For the lights above the island, I think two junction boxes would be better than one. First because the island is longer and two hanging lights will make it look substantial. Second because you will have one light hanging above the dining table so this will give a good contrast with the lights above the island.

[@shelby4087]

i love the quartzite! it’s subtle but still has a nice character. i think the marble is a little loud for the space but would be beautiful in a bathroom

[@sophieaehae5185]

I am also all for the quartz. Its just not practical to have a countertop which stains so easily, as marble does and I feel like heat resistance is also a huge perk of a stone counter top.

[@Orlagh]

Not you making me think it's a Tuesday. What a weekend blessing 🙏🏻

[@havana55]

I was so confused for a moment, I also thought it was Tuesday 😅

[@Orlagh]

@@havana55 I was like "oops should be at work right now" 😅

[@partlyironic]

100% on the quartzite, it has tones that I think will tie everything together

[@erikaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa]

i lived in an apartment with quartzite for years and loved it- now bought a house with marble and it feels really high maintenance in comparison. its only 6 years old and there are stains from the prior owners. the marble is lovely, just more work!

[@lambwarrior9420]

I like the terra bianca countertop more than the marble!

[@andreasharp2135]

I love the terra bianca countertops ❤

[@11Angel33]

Lone fox did calcatta in his new home and did a very cool and simple process of having them ‘laminated’ to prevent staining, etc. Should check it out! I very much prefer that to the quartzite. I will say it is VEEERY trendy, right now. Which means it could go out of style in a big way when people get tired of seeing it everywhere. And it is *quite* a statement. But if you don’t really care about things like that, no worries. It is absolutely beautiful, imo.

[@Laumorgs]

Came here to mention Lone fox's marble finish too! as I love the Calcatta! Its a statement but also very classic.

[@sincerelyjacklinediy2534]

I think the quartzite. Love the veining on that one

[@honeybutterpotatochips]

i would choose the quartzite. as you said, the marble stains easily and requires to get sealed every now and then. since the kitchen is a high traffic area + where you cook, the quartzite would be the best choice for the function

[@Karen1234-]

I vote calacatta verde! As an homage to the previous green countertops

[@raynavittrekwa6531]

calacatta verde is a vibe because of your love of green and it also mixing in Elliot's love of black

[@ladypinkylee]

Definitely the Quartzite!

[@annierae6355]

Quartzite for two reasons: #1 long term maintenance, trust me the constant worry and care of real marble will get old real fast - especially after the first red wine splash. #2 I believe the real marble is gorgeous, and the super obvious veins are gorgeous....while in a big huge slab. Once that gets cut up into smaller strips and laid end-end (for me) it then begins to look like zebra stripes, which isn't my vibe. I prefer the subtle and calming movement of the quartzite. It sure has been a joy to watch your channel over all these years and see your life expand from college students to full-blown adults!!!

[@sknight0612]

I like the quartzite option better

[@sophwitchproject]

I would go with the quartzite even though I love green, you don't want to have to do a ton of upkeep on your ctops

[@ImCassy]

We are literally in the process of starting our Kitchen adventure. Picked out the cabinets, the layout and now talking with the contractor on walls being removed and electrical, etc. This episode is getting me stoked!

[@clara.valeria4701]

I would go for the terra blanca quartzite (well I would go for would wood, but at least between those two 😄)

[@cruelaz]

I have gone for wood aswell and the maintenance is surprisingly low we just reoiled the wood after two years it held up great. also no big stains and so fourth the grain of the wood helps alot. I personally wouldn't go for a white especially not marble bc of the upkeep and easy stain problem gorgeous stone though if one is better at cooking mess free 😅😂

[@juliat7475]

I would go for calacatta, with the green tones!

[@SpooderCace]

This! It needs a touch of color and the bold stone on that island will NOT disappoint!

[@beckymcdonald8040]

I think the two stones are very comparable in looks, but I also think maintenence on the quartzite will be so much better! When we built my home, the things in my kitchen I appreciated most, were all the electrical outlets we installed, the cabinet for bakining pans, tons of large drawers, stove top and vent in the island (vent raises up) , and the indispensable appliance garage. 14 years later, I wish we had painted, and not stained the cabinets, but that's easy to fix. Oh, and after all this time, the one seam in the granite, is now separating slightly. If you do have to have seams, ask them to reinforce them from the bottom as well. Gotta figure out how to fix mine.

[@erinnorris]

wow the time lapse of them installing the uppers is so satisfying

[@meshiawriter]

I've been waiting for this kitchen makeover like I really live there with you and Elliott

[@TheSorryGirls]

as long as you share in chores, come move in

[@Mrsthekatspyjamas]

quartzite for maintenance, marble for beauty

[@anyavreck639]

I vote for the quartzite, I wouldn't want to have to worry about re-sealing the natural stone all the time, or being afraid of staining it. I totally understand your stress about picking a countertop. We are changing our bathroom vanity countertop and it took over a year to find the sample and the place to install at a good price. The kitchen is looking amazing, I am obsessed with the lower cabinet colour. Good luck with the rest of the renovation.

[@nomadine85]

Terra Bianca Quartz! That warmth in the undertone of the white really sells this one for me, and the veining is more delicate

[@megangentry5313]

Please make a video about what you would do differently while redoing a kitchen! My mom is redoing ours right now and could use some guidance!

[@JL11775]

Love the color of the lower cabinets. As for the countertop I’d go with the quartzite if it’s the same as quartz which is low maintenance. I would not want to worry about stains with marble or having to seal it. Can’t wait to see how it all turns out! Thank you for this special Sunday episode!

[@Sullivan_Owen]

i’ve had honed Mystery White Marble counters in my kitchen for a decade, never sealed them since install and yes they get stains and etch and all that but they are beautiful and aging so well. I would still choose them again. Personally I think a slab with more veins and contrast would be interesting in your kitchen because it can be like abstract art. I have soapstone in a primary bath that is all the pattern needed. Quartz is so expensive because it’s engineered and usually you have to pay for the whole slab whereas natural is usually just the sq ft needed. Everyone learns so much from each reno project, kitchens are different each time.

[@totallyfab95]

Please do the calcutta verde!! It’s so pretty and a nice way to break up the “black” + white with still being neutral!!

[@meforever1997]

Definitely see why it’s hard choice, I think while the marble has more dark to tie in, the quartzite matches the aesthetic more of white uppers and dark lowers. So my final decision would be the quartzite

[@CelticGrammy]

Loving the quartzite

[@carlyh6913]

The marble is GORGEOUS and adds alot of value to your home. Also it's not a massive island, we all use cuttings boards etc these days so i bet it's not as fussy as everything thinks. The green parts of it omg 🥰🥰

[@hzelhalliwell6677]

I love the quartzite

[@denidoo82]

The quartzite. No question! It's gonna tie it all together

[@marieabrahamsen6580]

The calcetta verde marble for sure!! It has sooo much more visual interest and it's just beautiful

[@Hasna-td7jf]

My family currently struggles with maintaining the white marble as it stains so easily that even a little brown makes the white look dirty. My vote is for the quartzite

[@silh3345]

I think the more minimalistic look of the quartzite would look great in the kitchen and stay classy for a really long time

[@margaritanikia7190]

hello from Greece! it's pronounced like yeero! love what you're doing every single time

[@dannakuhr9718]

Pick the countertop with the fewest maintenance problems. Both are beautiful.

[@silkes.7817]

I am so satisfied to see that Kelsey is also not that fast with design decisions regarding her own home as I'm sitting in a mostly undone apartment myself for some time now. Nobody understands, but I don't want to shop everything at IKEA (and am not a DIY pro :/). The options are endless and I also want everything to be perfect. In the end we're getting there!

[@LukMcKain]

Warm quartzite for the win!

[@erikahunter652]

the green marble to reminisce the old lime countertops!!!

[@AnnaYV]

I like the quartzite option of countertop

[@kateadams1744]

Quartzite! I have quartz countertops and they're so easy to take care of and with no staining or scorching from hot pans, and if you picked porcelain and dropped anything from a cupboard, like a can or jar you could chip or break it. First time you knocked over a wine glass or had blueberries on the counter with marble you'd have to worry about staining all the time.I'm all about easy and practical, along with looking nice,too! Enjoy the process!

[@kebert2thumbsup]

I really liked Elliot's original pick for the marble counter top. I liked the dark grain running through it and thought it would pull the cabinets and appliances in nicely! I'm also a sucker for marble!

[@valarya]

from someone who just bought a house with marble DO NOT DO MARBLE!!! 😂😂 -- when they say it's "easy to stain" that's underestimating it so hard. It's impossible to NOT stain it even when you're careful. 😣

[@TheSorryGirls]

oh no, scary!!

[@therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar]

OH THANK YOU

[@redvinesron]

I say the calacatta verde! It's such an interesting look that provides a new layer of depth to the space instead of jusy being basic/stagnant like the other stone. Plus it has colors both of you love. 💚

[@abbij6090]

It took me 4-5 months to decide on everything for my kitchen. I was just paralized with making a decision. What I had in my mind was so hard to find in reality. But now 4 years later, I would not change a thing. I regret nothing. Get the countertop that speaks to you. The Calacatta Verde marble speaks a little more to me than the quartzite, but they are both great options.

[@Jennifer.Greene]

I would pick the more durable and less maintenance choice

[@rhegislorraine]

Definitely the quartz!

[@Kennylovessandwiches]

If you can’t find a sustainable option, it’s important to at least pick a timeless looking countertop Future homeowners are more likely to rip out and replace (causing even more environmental damage) really trendy countertops that will be out of style in 5-10 years.

[@TheGreeneBead]

1000% the Calcutta! It's so pretty- that green is gorgeous and will totally fit whatever vibe you bring into the other spects of your home.

[@alexx384]

I think the marble would be a grate choise and it would be an homage to the original kitchen. Plus it brings some color to the space but like you mentioned it wouldn't be overpowering or overdoing it with colors.

[@aleximarie4300]

Calacatta verde marble 100%, the other one is a very safe option and would still look good. The marble though is gorgeous and would add visual interest

[@sharylkriete]

I would suggest the quartzite because of the ease of care and warm tone.

[@abbeymooneyham9670]

Soooo exciting because I, myself am FINALLY getting my kitchen completed after 2 years. Long story short, I’ll never use lowes or home depot for a kitchen remodel ever again oml. I just picked out my hardware and they still have to put the toe kicks, and a side panel on. Not sure how long that will take but I can finally do my dishes and I never thought I’d be so excited to do dishes but after not having a kitchen, let alone a sink for so long, it’s stress relief.

[@Gelime_]

Mt husband and I have been looking to buy a house for almost 2 years now and this is both comforting and sad to watch because we just lost out on a house that I was excited about, bad inspection report came back and was going to be like $30,000 of work done on top of the price....stuff that's not DIY friendly, like replacing all the piping and subfloor...mold in the ceiling/attic, etc. 😢 absolutely suuuuucks

[@yzolakitchi]

Always go for easier maintenance on counter-tops. Always!

[@dianeosgood6594]

If you do dark cabinets you find dark counters will be too much dark. Dark counters also show scratches.

[@lindabirkes-lance8915]

I loved, loved, loved the quartzite that I had in my previous home. It was very similar to the faux marble pattern of the one you were looking at. I had people think it was real marble or granite. I plan to redo the kitchen in the house I just bought and will use the exact same quartzite again. I love the ease of care for it.

[@chica23034]

QUARTZITE! Quartzite gives you the feel of marble with the veining but unlike marble (which is a soft material/scratches SO easy) quartzite is a super hard stone (won’t scratch easy/would be hard to chip). It’s also heat resistant and the color tones would complement the other finishes in your kitchen beautiful!!

[@Spidermonkey16]

My husband is Mediterranean and they pronounce it yeee-ro 😊

[@sousoukitten]

As a Greek I can verify that.😅

[@bookllama8158]

Germans pronounce it güros 😂

[@moonbeeps]

I'm sorry, but that's a weird adjective. Nobody from any country of the Mediterranean describes himself as Mediterranean.

[@stefaniabay2269]

I would choose the terra bianca quartzite! ☺️

[@vernieplummer5148]

I think the quartzite is your best option. They both look good in the space But the quartzite is so much more durable.

[@suakvile]

The marble is absolutely exquisite! It gives a timeless chic vibe

[@lynndongg]

Marble = maintenance. I am definetly team Quartz!!

[@anonymouse7078]

I would normally go with green since it's my fave color, but I'll have to agree the quartzite is the better choice.

[@rashmirekhachangmai]

In the middle of a kitchen renovation myself. And all my research has led me to conclude that marble might look really pretty but its really really difficult to maintain. And I would like my counter tops to last after investing so much money in it. Opting for a natural stone instead. Granite for me. But the quartz option you picked looks great. I vote for that.

[@anabarth9117]

Countertop fabricator here, try looking for discount, precut & remnant material. You can do your cabinet run in one shade and the island in another if need be. These lots were ordered for other jobs and either not used or the left over pieces. You can also get higher end colors this way at a good discount.

[@_cherry_marly_]

I would pick the bianca quartzite. Just because i know how brittle marble is and i would be waaaaay to lazy to always re-do it😅 And something about the bianca color is more suitable for me

[@xxoldmagicxx]

You’re contractors are actually the cutest

[@elly1725]

Fr they looked like a group of dads and I loved the vibe

[@peppanotpepper4672]

The marble is beautiful! Quartz is more durable, heat resistant, and does not stain - it’s a much better product for a kitchen and especially you guys do a lot of cooking.

[@wagongirl3439]

Just LOVE our Quartzite we have in our kitchen and bath. No food or makeup staining at all!

[@miaclee]

It seems like pretty much everyone is team quartzite but with all the other green in your house I really love the marble! I feel like the quartzite is kind of one note and the marble would add a lot of depth to the space

[@whitney8002]

I plan on doing a kitchen reno in about a year. I would love to watch a video about things you would like to do differently and advice about the process!

[@vickytimmerman1365]

I always loved a sink in the countertop in the island. When you have company and you're preparing food or cleaning up a little bit your back's not to them.. or even when you're home alone you're not facing the wall using the sink

[@Mieke_Karth]

The marble feels more unique to the space and ties in with the current theme and vibe of the space