Sex Starts in The Morning | What a Wife Really Wants with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Join us as we delve into prioritizing both physical and emotional connections amidst the chaos of daily life. Through personal anecdotes, we explore how shared responsibilities and intentional communication can nurture intimacy. Whether it's addressing everyday acts like household chores or understanding the impact of health and self-care on a relationship, we've got you covered. This episode is perfect for anyone looking to strengthen their bond and create a more fulfilling partnership grounded in mutual respect and love.
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[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

Challenges in relationships are a normal part of life, but there’s always a path forward. My marriage encountered major difficulties, but with proper guidance, my wife and I managed to resolve our issues and deepen our connection. If you’re willing to put in the work and collaborate, solutions are always within reach. Keep hope alive; there are answers out there.

[@BruceKnapp-n4q]

I’m facing serious problems in my relationship and can’t stand the thought of losing her. I love and miss my partner greatly and am willing to do whatever it takes to have her back. Any advice or guidance you can provide would be deeply appreciated.

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

Releasing the grip on someone dear is always tough, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual guide who preserved my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

[@BruceKnapp-n4q]

I'll immediately seek her out online. Appreciate it. I'm hopeful that implementing this method will also bring me success; I miss her dearly.

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

You should... I promise you will not regret it

[@Kae19999]

I’m single and I loooooove this channel! Thank you for sharing biblical knowledge and personal experiences! God bless!

[@c.a503]

This is my 3rd podcast this afternoon. I've been watching them back to back, and I know God sent me here. God bless you.

[@rachelphillips5576]

I like the way that Tabatha has observed her husband Ken so much through out the marriage. That she knows he is more sensitive than she is. Wow! I pray I know my husband like she does after 15 years‼️

[@lisafarmen9367]

Hi, I just subscribed.. however I've watched 3-4 videos already. I'm going through the most difficult time in my long marriage, that I appreciate your biblical advice. Thank you lisa

[@twinmamacooks2469]

I tune in every week! New mom and wife here. Soaking up all the knowledge you guys offer. You both are helping families everywhere 💕 also I felt Tab on the lip stick thing! It looks beautiful on you by the way 🤗 But this happens sometimes with my husband also lol.

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Thank you for tuning in every week, we pray these podcast episodes are a blessing to you. Don't forget to share it with family and friends! Thank you for the compliment by the way :)

[@marycannon6046]

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE HOW DOWN-TO-EARTH THIS 👨 MAN AND HIS WIFE IS!!!

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Hahaha! Thank you so much. (:

[@Dr.Cherokie]

Yes the taking things off my plate just feeds into the ‘Security, Safety’ piece that we need. I take care of everyone/everything else but you handling a chore is like someone is finally ‘Taking Care Of Me!’

[@christopherrose7785]

Thanks for that reminder Pastor Tabatha to help me be a better husband and lover to my wife. God bless you both with your ministry and podcast. 🙌🏾🙏🏾🖤

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Thank you so much!

[@clavenscales3196]

What a great conversation. Getting uncomfortable to become comfortable. We love yall. Love from Houston, TX

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Appreciate the love from Houston! ♥️ love you!

[@michellewilson443]

This is my early morning podcast and I love it...I'm a single mom and this is a blessing. Love the topics, authenticity, and advice in Christ! Thank you both for sharing!

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Thank you for your support, it means a lot to us. Have a blessed week!

[@queenelizabeth15]

I’ve been laughing this whole podcast !! I love you guys!! Thank you for always keeping things real and biblical!! God bless you both❤

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Laughter is medicine! hahaha thank you (:

[@ktop08]

Hey, I subscribed to your podcast from your Proverbs 31 vlog. I am having relationship problems of wanting to be in control all the time & basking I. My feminine energy after not dealing with men that were a waste of time. Now i have a good God fearing man, i feel like im going to ruin it for being so strong all the time. I did want to more God fearing couples and I’m glad God led me to your channel.

[@Valholla03]

I agree with just about everything Pastor Tabatha said. I was nodding my head the entire time she spoke. I just found your channel today and this is the 3rd episode I’ve listened to. I’m so grateful for both of you

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

if you don't mind telling us how did you find our channel? Thank you for watching and let us know what do you think of the other episodes (: We are grateful to have your support!!

[@kalimahperry4690]

Amazing break down for married couples at all stages/years in marriage! Thanks for sharing.

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Thank you for watching! Don't forget to share it with friends and family :)

[@alicetorres503]

Sorry pastors am old listen to this podcast brought out many memories. Thanks blessings

[@barnetgarcia7880]

I am loving this segment, currently working 😅 so I will need to re listen and start taking notes, Pastor Tabatha you have given us husbands the playbook 🙌🏾

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Re listening is always good! You can grab some extra nuggets you didn't grabbed the first time (:

[@daniques2569]

Blessings from the Netherlands ❤ I listen every week.

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

We appreciate your support from the Netherlands!!

[@Renewed_ByTheHolySpirit]

Love this! Pastor Ken is really taking notes lol. Good job Sir. Love Pastor Tabatha ❤ loving the podcast Ive been watching for about 3 months now. I have learned so much. Thank you both!!

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

We appreciate your support and we are glad you been learning a lot through the podcast. ((:

[@jademalanchefservices]

I really live & appreciate you guys transparency ! This episode was a blessing per usual ❤

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Thank you :)

[@honker1307]

Amazing, thank you for this.

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

You are welcome (: Thanks for watching!

[@dixiesingleton8268]

I love your podcast!! It has helped us see pieces we can work on to strengthen our marriage. Even after 25 yrs we still got things to learn and work on. God bless you both 🙏🏼❤️

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

We love to hear that! That's what is all about!! Praise God and God bless you both as well!!

[@jess222_]

i LOVE!!!! this podcast!!!!!! I found ya’ll on tiktok and i absolutely love and am drawn to every single episode!! God bless the both of you always! Beautiful family ❤ Are you guys on apple podcasts?

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Thank you for checking out our podcast. That's very cool to know that you found us through TikTok. And that you are enjoying our episodes! Yes we are on apple podcast :) Let us know if you were able to find us!

[@mikecarter523]

I seen the notification yesterday before it released on KZbin. My wife haven't mentioned this podcast in a while. Then all of a sudden when I get in from work she like "Ken and Tabatha have new podcast dropping today. It look like a good one you should check it out". She need fo check it out too lol. I love listening to yall while I am working.

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Hahaha, I love that you two are listening to it. Let us know what you guys think of the other episodes as well! We appreciate your support.

[@mikecarter523]

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha I have been tuned into yall for about a year now. I wish it was around 14 years ago when we got married. I am sharing yall page to Believers and Non-Believers.

[@tonig6892]

I got married in June. I’m so grateful for your faithfulness to do this podcast. I feel watching you both helped me better prepare to be a wife. Thank you!

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

We are grateful for you! Thank you for tuning in to our podcast!!

[@edwardcarter6408]

Hey its my first time here and I have subscribed

[@mikecarter523]

Def not your last!!!!

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Welcome to our channel! And thank you for subscribing :)

[@lf90745]

I'm new here, and I love it! ❤

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

We are glad to have you here! Let us know what you think of the other episodes :)

[@mrsnelson0812]

First time listening to your podcast. My cousin recommended your page to me

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Thank you for listening! We appreciate your support and say thank you to your cousin from us :)

[@rosanellesblessedlife1786]

New subscriber here.

[@albertfarleyiii3750]

This was good! I was thinking the same thing about if I tell you I love you or you look beautiful all the time, it loses its impact. But noted! 📝 Facts about the cleaning and kids! I do that one, if not both, daily.

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Love it! Taking notes haha

[@nikkinicole4444]

Greetings. I have a selfish suggestion. Is it possible to include bullet points of what was discussed at the end of each video for easy note-taking? If you care... not really a big deal. Blessings. 🙏🏽

[@PrancingIvy2000]

My number one need as a woman is respect then love. I don’t understand how you love anyone & don’t first respect them.

[@carondamoore8862]

I just Love you two ❤❤ ..a woman is like a slow cooker and a man is like a microwave with a woman it’s starts in the morning all day

[@lisasykes624]

I love ❤️ you guys 😅🎉

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Love you!

[@reginamcclay6701]

Can you please give address of your church if someone wants to write you guys. Greatly appreciated. I love eatching your podcast.

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Here you go! 1649 Florida Mall Ave, Orlando, FL 32809

[@mikaylascott4395]

Can you guys go in depth on foreplay for the woman? My husband knows me inside and out, yeah he could probably complement me more.. but I feel the real thing lacking is zero foreplay before the bedroom. The bedroom foreplay has improved tremendously. I’ve said it to him, tried to explain it, but maybe I’m not saying it right or he needs to hear it from another man. Teasing, naughty words whispered.. etc

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Do you guys watch the podcast episodes together?

[@alicetorres503]

Complement what she does and how she looks …. Like she said that color looks good on you . Listen to James Ingram song ! One hundred ways .

[@lisasykes624]

Say it 10x 😅

[@tsloan101]

❤

[@alicetorres503]

Women are more sensitive. Especially with details and little things .Knowing each other In every way

[@jessyjonas4988]

😮

[@annakorna4002]

l love this discussion. My husband is helpful in Grocery shopping, School runs for our children and driving me to work sometimes. This and other things he does turns me on and makes him sexy/ irresistible. God bless you both pastor and Mrs.

[@sugris1]

Sounds very difficult to meet women's needs. Thats a lot of work day in day out. I mean appreciating her 24/7 all year. That's long. Too hard. Women need to lower their expectations and meet us half way. She should know that we love her, full stop.

[@BurgetteArcher]

I definitely disagree with you comment! Women don’t need to lower their expectations because women are programmed the way they are because of how god programmed them! And as far as men they are programmed the way they are because god programmed them the way they are.. it’s not about expectations it’s literally about what your wife likes and if you’re not willing to be uncomfortable to figure out your spouses wants, needs, and liked then either you need to go to god in prayer or you just don’t need to be married because marriage is about learning your spouse because marriage is a covenant between you god and your spouse and it takes work so if you are not willing to do the work then don’t get married or pray and ask god to prepare you for marriage period