Sex Trafficking Survivor interview-Victoria

[@johnnyennis9864]

Imagine having the life she's had, and still managing to hold on to your empathy. This woman is so incredibly strong.

[@EventhorizonShadows]

@@blackbriarwolf5766not exactly something you have control of as a child getting literally raped. It is not until you hit your teens to late teens that you can consciously start choosing which way you want your brain to grow. When you are 25, your frontal lobe is done. Your neurons solidify. And it is extremely hard to change your brain patterns after that. You can no longer want to be super man one day and the NBA star the next. So saying it’s not hard is condescending af and quite literally lacks empathy in your sentence Lmfao which is ironic. Someone with real genuine empathy would understand “it’s not hard” is a garbage explanation.

[@sachaw3200]

Sad...

[@theTrend7]

The fact that she could do anything after was a miracle in itself

[@dailysmiles]

A great and beautiful soul

[@nktaylo1]

@@blackbriarwolf5766 The lack of empathy in this statement is ironic.

[@jamesrodriguez5671]

Can’t say it enough Every child deserves a parent Not every parent deserves a child Thank you for sharing your story

[@amiramustafa4291]

This really hit me hard ❤

[@rameesaliyousuf6219]

first HAVE A RULE no relationships before marriage.....get married and then explore her. have RULES..have conservative ways...

[@vampiresquid]

@@rameesaliyousuf6219 that's an absolute crock of shit and has absolutely nothing to do with this woman being raped as a child.

[@williebratcher1028]

A

[@Fly_like_a_bird_Rossy]

Best fact!

[@aftonphelps3885]

She could easily be so angry and bitter towards the world. But she still finds a way to be grateful and humble about her life. Gosh. What a gem.

[@anonanomalli]

what is so grateful and humble about her time on onlyfans, not wanting to talk to people and just to have them 'look at me and give me money' verbatim. She has some pretty gross qualities, i wouldn't want to be her boyfriend

[@David-ol6zj]

Please. This is the least traumatic story I've ever heard. The victim mindset is unbearable. How did she even make it onto SWU????

[@KeziaHughes]

@@David-ol6zj nice rage bait loser

[@absentmindstate]

@@David-ol6zjwtf are you talking about. She was literally given to pedophiles by her own mother. Are you mentally well?

[@scrappy3838]

@@David-ol6zj can you name 3 women that feel comfortable around you

[@IAm-Jupi]

Are there more videos of her? She’s so wise, well spoken, and just truly an important figure to learn from. The resilience is astounding.

[@Lonelypressplay]

I’ve never wanted somebody to succeed as much as I want this woman to.

[@lucasmechtel1206]

Amen!

[@jessicajoyce6338]

Amen!!!

[@mqultra5150]

Great comment!

[@patrickwalsh1794]

Well said . V sad story. 😔 she has good looks, and she talks well . She seems smart her mother fucked her life up taking her to get raped wtf her mam should be locked up with all the other men and wemen who abused her. 🙏

[@GameChanger597]

Many Pakistani men will treat you like a princess until you want to move on. Then they can become violent or stalk you and control you. Please be careful Victoria. God bless you in Jesus Name 🙏🏽

[@yogawithcortni4099]

This woman has survived SO MANY LAYERS of PTSD. From her mom, her husbands, Afghanistan… I’m in awe at how resilient she is. This woman is the true definition of a survivor. I just want to give her the biggest hug and let her know how loved and worthy she is.

[@Mk-ed4rg]

Typical mancs 😊

[@dangerous8333]

Not everyone that goes in the military or gets deployed somewhere gets PTSD. Infantry people are typically who get PTSD. 👍

[@STEEPPOW]

You want to bang her.

[@Beatles0223]

The military she signed up for, so no sympathy there.

[@joyfulherbivore7113]

@@dangerous8333 She described the PTSD she experienced when the kid got killed... are you trying to say that didn't affect her?

[@bundleaddams]

dude the fact that her mom was a sociologist and a daycare teacher is insane. oh god.

[@EC-lh3gu]

It’s sadly common for pillars in communities to take advantage of their status & charisma/persuasiveness in order to do insidious things. More examples: School coaches, Boy Scout leaders, etc. A lot of daycares also have abuse unfortunately, you’d think having one means they love children but no. A lot of people (not saying you) think sex trafficking minors is some stranger that snatches a kid up, and while that can happen, the vast majority is the child’s own family and community. 😖

[@Fefe559]

She should be doing LIFE in prison!!

[@Heddanofarsan]

My now 20 yr daughter has been held kept from me for ten years and I did not even get to say goodby. She was snatched from my flat after my parents helped meet her one last time in like a coup setting. Her mother were helped all along by grandmother, that used to work in a kindergarden. These two women are the meanest sickest fuckers in Sweden where I live.

[@marygraceviramontez4669]

One never knows.

[@jasonbull3987]

​@@Heddanofarsanwhy would they plan and carry out such a secretive thing to get her away from you?

[@paigezinderman7965]

As a military woman, coming from a rough background. It’s amazing hearing your story. It’s important.

[@nikirrae8495]

I agree. It makes a huge difference hearing real people’s stories you can relate to. A huge difference.

[@rebeccavallejo5324]

The fact that her mom threatened her at the cemetery is so disturbing and haunting. She survived her mother. I hope Victoria is now safe and truly loved.

[@ortegaalex13]

@The Amber Heard Playlist!! ummmmm what

[@ortegaalex13]

@The Amber Heard Playlist!! huh

[@alexbaker3958]

@The Amber Heard Playlist!! can it loser

[@AtibaVV]

I hope she's safe and loved too. I want all people to be loved and know how to love

[@sarahneal7330]

Mom sounds mean cruel to never protected your 4 year old girl from rape?!? And then make her feel ashamed for other things

[@Jessica-ro2bi]

This story is why the statute of limitations on child physical and sexual abuse must be eliminated. Thank you for your courage in telling your story.

[@siobhanadvice9257]

I agree its unbelievable that ancient law the people living with abuse I follow one guy on instagram who confronted his abuser years later and the abuser called the police and he now has a criminal record, more than outrageous

[@Jessica-ro2bi]

@@siobhanadvice9257 Disgusting.

[@VISP4RT4NIV]

​@siobhanadvice9257 holy shit that's insane. They arrested the victim?? Did he physically attack the abuser?

[@angelicawolf3267]

Totally agree, we should punch for that, they deserve jail without parole.

[@evelynmccormick2112]

There are 14 states that have eliminated the statute of limitations on child molestation and rape. Iowa is one of those states starting in 2021. Now that the movie the Sound of Freedom has brought more attention and made people alert to the sex trafficking in this country.

[@briannasilva8071]

She’s so strong. Her voice shakes during the entire interview is heartbreaking.

[@johnnydeleon8210]

She was in the midst of breaking down at any second, I felt so bad for her I just wanted to give her a hug 😔

[@lincolnaz7190]

You're right she is strong. I feel there are a lot of people that are not as strong and would go the other way. She pulled herself out and hope life for her will only be full of light!

[@margieaustman]

So much grief, shame, rejection and heart ache!!!!

[@Nessa_1990]

Desensitization is so common with trauma. It's such a foreign feeling, being so vulnerable. IMO it feels like "fight or flight mode" most of the time. Sometimes small things eat people up because they haven't fully healed from strong emotions and traumatic memories. I know I want to see a therapist. Probably (definitely) virtually though🙃

[@CucamongaRob]

Is her Mom in jail? If she isn't dead, she should be.....in jail.

[@alexandriacaudill5288]

The first part of her story with her mother is exactly what I went through as a child with my mother, deliberately leaving me with people who would do bad things to me. Thank You so much for sharing this, this has been really eye-opening for myself and what truly happened to me.

[@astridthepastrid]

God bless you, i am so sorry that you had to go through that.

[@afterthestorm9355]

I’m sorry you also experienced such horrific trauma. Please get therapy from a trauma informed provider!

[@Taehyung-tb8nw]

❤

[@Taehyung-tb8nw]

❤

[@jillrusso8182]

💕

[@Elleinteriors]

I’m blown away by her eloquence and how incredibly well spoken this woman is. She is so self aware and so resilient. What a beautiful soul with such strength. My heart breaks for what she endured, but her story is beyond powerful of what can be overcome. So much love to you beautiful girl.

[@Freeyourself.movement]

Totally. She is a high dimension soul in a mission.

[@emmaroblox3522]

Omg....her own Mother' one sick individual 😮. Amazing women here to tell her story...

[@janzitterkopf1630]

Amen.

[@KevinSoupy]

Wow such a beautiful soul there’s so much danger out there for girls at a young age. Not all people are bad I hope someday she will see that.

[@atmywhitson]

​@@black-ij3ui Interesting statement to make.🤔 You honestly believe that there's nobody out there who's done drugs who's as successful or even more successful, eloquent, well spoken, poised, and strong? Man, you've most definitely got the wrong outlook on life. Perhaps you should try not be so judgemental because somebody does something and for some reason ppl think those ppl can't turn their lives around. I hope you can step out of your bubble and meet people who have risen from the ashes of addiction and not only survived but thrived. I'm 6.5yrs sober from a decade long pill habit that started with a prescription. Getting serious, getting cleaned up is/was one of the hardest things I've ever done. Nobody can understand unless you've walked with them 24/7 so I don't expect sympathy or empathy from anybody. Most times I meet cynical, hateful people like yourself who have to take jabs at people already in the midst of hell. I think that makes you and anybody else who stigmatizes worse than ANYONE who've I met who's done drugs. I didn't let that life and the experiences harden my heart. I'm so thankful for that.

[@JaySheRight]

The fact that her mom had a daycare and was a pilar in the community…OMG! I am speechless by her story.

[@MrEpz4321]

In what kind of sick society can a single mother be a pillar in the community? Behind every criminal and stripper, there is a single mother.

[@ThePinsay]

Y? Her mother is a scumbag defo! ....but abuse within families is devastating to family's! A person no matter a YOUNG person with a person of truth is NO WORD available! I don't know & I don't act as if I do! TERRIFYING.

[@christellen3077]

Those arpund her other did not have a sensitivity to the Holy SPirit. HOW could they not sense this. Lord let it not be us being like that in the Mighty Name of Jesus .

[@Dark_Aeon]

@@christellen3077 priests do this kind of stuff all the time. Even John Paul II was protecting pedophiles before he became pope.

[@elizabethdasilva5454]

share her story to wake up awareness

[@mikecohen9364]

As a single dad of a 9 year old girl, I couldn't make it to the 8 minute mark without tearing up. I cannot understand how anyone could even remotely do something like this to a child. If someone even touched my daughter inappropriately, it would take everything in my power to not to end up in prison for how I would react, only because I want to be around for her.

[@memeliss]

❤🥺

[@go4damo]

That fine line between protecting your daughter and being kept from protecting her in the future can be hard

[@RLFinTX]

@@go4damo Holy shit, I never thought about that part!! 🤯 Here I was about to say I would take care of those bästards and then walk to jail, and then I read your comment. 😩

[@Boykot1]

@@RLFinTX No one said it wouldnt be taken care of, just that it would involve trying not to go to jail for it.

[@liveandletlive7152]

Just her voice alone is breaking my heart😢

[@annierush3223]

She is such an articulate, amazing, strong, loving person. How incredibly courageous to share these thoughts, feelings, and memories for the benefit of we survivors. I'm so grateful to you.

[@kdssab]

“it’s getting uncomfortable just to be alive” is such a strong statement. Wishing her well - heavy stuff to carry around..

[@misanthrophex]

Well it's the other things that made me sad. I personally have found so difficult to just be alive for the most part of my life, but she had to go through shit that I only see in nightmares...

[@legalservices8856]

@@misanthrophex Me too. It can be hard to want to live in this world the way it has gone so far off from what is natural. I have not been through anything to the extent she has, but still when she said that I cried knowing what that feels like.

[@patriciaduggan4102]

@@misanthrophex if anyone thinks that Satan doesn't exist just listen to this story, myself, I plead the PRECIOUS BLOOD OF JESUS OVER ME AND MY FAMILY EVERYDAY🙏

[@redjasper9458]

The way she speaks about this even though she's hurting so much by doing it is a really good sign that her therapy will be successful. A very tough lady! Prayers for you sweet girl.

[@redjasper9458]

@chrisBaxter-ly8or Yes. And I didn't say she would definitely do well but that her being willing to do something difficult was a good sign. Thanks for asking.

[@floraalexandrou2703]

Very Strong Lady, she has been through so much, hopefully her life will be much better now.

[@QueenSamantha01]

I love the positivity ❤ she is so amazing and strong with such a unique story and how she is still going in life is so beautiful! Prayers to her🙏🏼

[@DiodeMom]

@chrisBaxter-ly8orI am and second the OP. She’s doing an amazing job. I can hear raw pain but also willingness and openness in her voice. All it takes to make it in therapy- are those two things.

[@tokkirot]

​@@DiodeMom her voice shaking and sounding like she'll break into tears, but still carrying on, is the most impressive to me I was trafficked and put in CP myself, but im nowhere near as strong as this girl is. For her to not cry and be so detailed us just incredible to me. It's honestly so inspiring I could never be in her position, even being asked if im okay is enough to send me into tears 😭😭 It's so amazing to see her

[@R0gue6729]

She's a testament to how resilient human beings can be. What an amazing person. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@Amethyst93xo]

Really puts things into perspective.

[@katthefantastic]

Yes! Keep moving forward. Bless her and her story.

[@Alexela03]

Facts ❤

[@blackopal3138]

Her story is also a testament to Washington law enforcement. Everybody knows everybody in a small town, but the woman is able to sell her children to local pedos for years??? Wtf, right? I'm thinkin the cops had to be in on it, what else?? Her mom is a pillar, she runs a daycare, and the teen support center, while she is pimping children, it's like holy frick, what is going on in that town, flippin creepy.....

[@Liquid_Fear]

I completely agree! This gorgeous woman deserves more than she has been dealt, just imagine if she wasn't an attractive woman growing up, I'd imagine her upbringing would be wildly different. IF she would still be here :(

[@raquelsolorio9331]

Three days ago I saw a clip on TikTok & soft white underbelly was in the search bar and I was like man I have a listened or watch one of his interviews in a while, and I watched Rebeccas videos and haven’t stoped listening for the last three days. I’m at 3730 and I can’t even explain the way I feel because it’s overwhelming hearing this woman’s story her struggle yet she has so much composure and strength . The way she composites herself is how I inspired to be. Even myself just hear her story. I feel overwhelmed and angry for her and she’s able to keep her feeling together so beautifully.

[@jessemurray1757]

As a father of 3 girls this breaks my heart. Protecting them emotionally and physically is my reason for existence. I would not hesitate to end someone if they tried even a fraction of what she's endured. How sad, I wish I could give her a big hug, tell her it's alright and take back what has been done. Unfortunately, life doesn't work that way and actions have lasting consequences.

[@elizabethbennet4791]

i know right!!! thanks, we need more men like you!!!! i will help you fight the pedophiles!!! so sick of them, there are too many of them!!!

[@J_M3444]

Wow this hit pretty hard. Father of 2 with the same last name as you lol. This shit makes my blood boil. Who treats anything or anyone like this???

[@thart6103]

Thank you, dads. I watched an interview with a pedophile and that’s the one thing that stood out about that animal. He said he’d always target children with preoccupied or absent fathers. We need more fathers in the world like you ❤

[@happygitana]

Well said. I feel the same about loving on and taking all the bad away. Also have your back in battle if ending someone if needed🙂🤗

[@-AyeYallThereGoLaFlare-]

@@J_M3444 same initials ain’t it

[@kellyporter2475]

She said “I gave up” when she struggled with community college. You have never given up despite your difficulties. Give yourself some credit. You are awesome.

[@Biancasoleile]

You’re amazing ❤

[@AnitaSchervish-sp9pi]

As a recently retired professor who taught for 37 years at a community college, I encourage you to give it another try. The fact that you have made it through such horrendous circumstances indicates that you have what it takes to be successful at school. Best of luck to you!

[@jacquelynwild2326]

You survived a “childhood” no one should ever have to endure. You are incredibly strong. And now you have a lifetime to build the life you desire, you deserve, filled with love, purpose, family, beauty.

[@ronaldnixon8226]

People don't come back from this.

[@californiaconservative949]

I disagree. If she can give her life to Jesus, He can change everything.

[@EllaNonimato]

@bulrich610 she's improving.. but she relies a lot on men, like they are her rescuers. not blaming her. I get it.

[@ronaldnixon8226]

@@californiaconservative949 Jesus doesn't like poor people, and he has an American's First policy.

[@ClockworkWhispers]

@@californiaconservative949 So wild you can literally listen to a story about a young child being r-ped repeatedly and abused and you can still believe in an all-knowing, all-loving sky daddy.

[@lucijazdrilic409]

Dear Victoria, I hope you can read this. I never listened In my life someone so strong, and right as you Are. I wish you all the Best In your life, I hope you found happiness and peace for yourself. This is second time I am listening your interview In the last two Years. I admire you. Stay strong babe 🥰

[@blackinkpetal]

Victoria’s desire to overcome every single situation, the most darkest I’ve ever heard, is exceptional. What a warrior. This will help so many people. Brave isn’t enough in describing you.

[@amberpatrick693]

This is the first one that I’ve watched completely through and I’m absolutely blown away at how thorough and authentic she is in her life’s storytelling. I hope that things continue to work out for her and she starts feeling more and more spiritually healed in the future! Everyone is rooting for you, Victoria! And thank you for your service.

[@suzzjacuzz3348]

legit same same! i listened to every single word too. She should do public speaking

[@RayofHope-rl9oz]

Yes, let's hope the next boyfriend can again 'help' with the healing because it didn't last with her OF Pakistani bf.

[@leannepouremad6215]

So very moving. So beautiful, so intelligent. I am so hopeful for her future. Thank you for wanting to help others Victoria.

[@suzannedelaney7238]

Praying for this young woman/ mother and wish the best for her and the man in her life. God bless you and your new relationship and acceptance to be loved.. that’s what you needed.. is to be loved! ❤TY for your service young woman! Stay strong! 🙏🏻🇺🇸

[@judithfeustel-buschel5761]

Wow....your Mom was an absolute monster, a piece of trash. I hope God gives her the eternal punishment she deserves. I pray for your healing, and I'm very sorry life was so cruel to you.

[@lwkatz428]

This is why CONSENT and child abuse education in school is vital. These predators feed off shame. The irony that they feel no shame about the evil they commit, yet their innocent victims feel nothing but guilt, pain, shame. That mother has no excuse. None. This beautiful woman has been abused and never wants another soul to suffer a tenth of what she went through.

[@debaterofeverythingpresent2775]

I don't like the label "vital in school", making it sound like highschools need a 5 year course on consent and abuse. It can be easily covered in a single sex Ed class.

[@TheJadeFox]

​@@debaterofeverythingpresent2775 there is a need to be teaching kids things about consent and their bodies at every age - for example research has shown that teaching young children the medical/formal terms for different private parts reduces the risk that they will be preyed upon because they don't have any issues reporting troubling behavior from adults in their lives. Then for those in middle school, obviously it's not appropriate to give a full sex education course but they should be introduced to important ideas about bodily autonomy, people needing consent to touch them, etc. unfortunately any age and any situation (even a doctor or teacher) might be the moment a child needs some skills to understand how to respond to abuse. I think this is more of what the original comment meant

[@joestarm1971]

​@@debaterofeverythingpresent2775 Absolutely not little kid, you don't know what you're talking about like telling someone something in a short period of time is enough for it to stick for a lifetime

[@jonathanduarte6412]

@@joestarm1971 you're coming off as a predator here. you don't think little children should have the words to express if they're being abused?

[@anchorthesun3438]

Teaching kids about consent is a in for perverts to teach sexuality to young kids . You can teach kids no means no and to respect boundaries without brining explicit sexual themes where they do not belong . I don’t understand how you look at sexual issues and think brining more sex into it is a good idea

[@AlwaysHereAndNow]

Thank you for sharing your story so eloquently in spite of the pain. As a survival of sexual trauma, and childhood trauma (although nothing as severe as what you went through), i understand the self sabotaging, the fear of connection, the bad choices in partners, the dissociation and PTSD. Receiving trauma informed sacred intimacy coaching really helped me (thatsvwhy i became a coach).You can absolutely heal, and release the charge of the past, and have a beautiful rest of your life. You deserve the best. May your heart heal and may you let the most beautiful love in, yours first, divine love, and of your chosen closed ones.

[@RobinsonRare]

How can a mother do this to a child?! My heart breaks for her so much. She has been fighting since birth.

[@rebeccacoleman9910]

I know, evil.

[@liandrade9198]

Can't call her a mother

[@shellyeckel757]

God bless her , I'm so sorry the female that tried raising you treated you so bad.

[@janeth_6311]

SICKS FUCKS CAN BE MOTHERS TOO UNFORTUNATELY

[@holly8274]

Insane, and then she says her mother actually had a master degree and no drug problem? I don't understand, horrific

[@keshiamichelle6603]

This felt like a releasing session for her. I pray she continues to receive all the love she’s getting. She deserves the world!

[@donutcrash]

Yeah, i thinking made her feel good to be able tocget this all off her chest. My guess is she sees a therapist to talk to about this, which is good. Stay strong Victoria, you're beautiful and it's so wrong what your mom did to you, I'm praying for you. Sending lots of love and prayers 🙏

[@alvinsheczlek5243]

I like how she gives the humdrum synopsis of her past in the beginning that we always hear from ppl. And her real story ends up sounding like an epic blockbuster drama…. We just never know what ppl have been through, but can assume it’s nothing like what they’re telling us at the moment

[@PossibleBat]

I feel like she’s the kind of person to just heal from talking about it. She’s very well put together mentally, so I’m sure she’s resolved most issues by herself in her own mind, but benefits from sharing it tremendously, at least I hope that’s the case ❤

[@Fhatboy601]

@@donutcrash 😅🎉❤ 0:54

[@Fhatboy601]

@@donutcrash 😢

[@missyjean3588]

This is absolutely heartbreaking. Your mother deserves the death penalty and so does anyone who abuses children! God Bless you for your courage to tell this story

[@weedblossom77]

wonderful, death-penalty for the mentally and phisically ill woman. I'd like to know what do you think her dad deserves? but of course we don't think men should be punsihed, just kill the mothers

[@isaacneumann]

Agreed. I hope her evil b1tch mother will rot in hell for what she did!

[@dorisday4765]

Her mother was probably abused as well and that’s all she knew

[@carmenf7994]

@@dorisday4765 alot of people have been abused and treat their children just fine, its no excuse , in fzct it should normally be a motive to do better

[@dorisday4765]

@@carmenf7994 true. I was just being devils advocate, but no one should be sentenced to death. Not even these despicable people

[@Joycemcnamara]

How’s she get so smart with so little education and traumatic childhood? I’m blown away. What strength and intestinal fortitude! I was an Operations Specialist in the Navy with a Top Secret clearance after being sexually abused at 15 as well. You have to be strong in life and make the best of your situation. You go sista!

[@TheGamingCathedral]

Jesus dude. I don't think I've ever wanted things to work out for someone this much, and I don't even know this woman. Stay strong Victoria!

[@phoenix1709]

Sweet beautiful lady..be blessed❤❤

[@gitareinitz9657]

Is there any update? Is she still happy in Virginia with the guy?

[@David-ol6zj]

😂 This is literally the least traumatic story I've heard. How did she even make it onto SWU???

[@TheGamingCathedral]

@@David-ol6zj Wow so edgy

[@angelicablakely2792]

@@David-ol6zjare you serious? Being passed around as a child is very traumatic.

[@lindsayDB6389]

The shakiness of her voice, but the strength shared in telling her story is amazing. Victoria... I hope sharing sets you free and allows you to heal and feel that complete strangers love and support you.

[@stacystahlschmidt1912]

Exactly what I wanted to say! Best interview to date!

[@charlottecolley8713]

❤️

[@karebear395]

❤

[@cappiece3786]

Like to see an interview with her brother now

[@vicki9806]

Wow, you hit that spot on. I'm going to include her in my dinner prayers with my family. Her voice.....I know. But yes. Strenth!! She is so strong. And i KNOW she's nervous about all the good in her life now. I'm similar in the constant trauma and the fear of the floor dropping from under your feet. I know that exactly. But she has to trust lightly and keep moving forward. Don't look sideways or backwards. Jesus, please protect her I know you have purpose for her and I know you've been watching over her continue please, to work in her life. Lay her path out before her. She sees the light. And she is in the light. Amen

[@ixPeaCexi]

The story about her hating her high school boyfriend because he brought up the subject of them losing their virginities together.. breaks my heart. I can feel her pain.

[@tyrellanderson4722]

Your virginity was that important to you?

[@Adam-K4]

Did this happen to you too?

[@Theresa89]

@@Adam-K4 why can’t you show 1 ounce of respect in the thread . Tramps like you are just fckin predators ! Here to fuel your desire 🤮

[@Dragonnn333]

@@Adam-K4 is your curiosity bigger than others feelings? How can you ask such a private question to random people?! Don’t do that again kindly.

[@Adam-K4]

@@Dragonnn333 Now I am curious how you receive this whole video of Victoria? The interviewee was sat in front of the camera to entertain you by going through her PRIVATE life and the pains she endured including the story of losing her virginity, etc.??? You should direct your question to the interviewer!!! AND there is nothing glamorous in losing virginity to a “friend”, regardless of the subject! And my question was not out of curiosity. Find the irony, plzzz.

[@Julia-hz3ur]

I'm so sorry to hear this. You telling your story will help so many of us. Hearing your story definitely helped me

[@davidr1620]

As a dad of a little girl, it breaks my heart to think of a little girl growing up without love, especially a loving father to protect them. If Victoria is reading this, understand that although you didn't have a loving and protecting mother and father growing up, you deserved one. Wasn't your fault.

[@Ashleyyyy_xx]

Beautiful. You're a loving soul and good father.

[@leeartlee915]

As a child of a single mom, I can attest that some men are not fit to be fathers. In a perfect world, we’d all have two parents. But if you can’t have that, having at least one good one goes a long way.

[@osalinasable]

Sending much love to you 💝

[@stenahowell1733]

I totally agree. I have 3 daughters that I love with all of heart and would protect them with my own life ❤️

[@U.SFreedomU.S]

I echo what your saying to only add if I was to hear or find this happening to my child or any child, that person would do magic tricks and disappear

[@stephaniemartinez9784]

You're not alone sweet girl. I was also trafficked . Everything you said made complete sense to me. For years I thought I was broken. I was never able to achieve what I could have if I had parents that cared for me and protected me. My life was stolen from me. The thing that helped me was IFS therapy. I feel safe for the 1st time at 50. You are courageous. Thank you for sharing your story. Also, my mom is seen as some saint by her church and friends.your mom sounds like a narcissist just like my mom. She shamed me and gaslight me to control me.The PTSD is suffer made it hard for me to feel and to parent as well. I persisted. We're both safe now.

[@Marihernandez_vida805]

Thank you for sharing this and I am sorry for your pain. I got trained in IFS last year and it was a big financial sacrifice but feel it has shifted so much for me and the clients I am privileged to work with.

[@waldiolsztyn]

Take Care :)

[@rosieleat6868]

@@Marihernandez_vida805 - what is IFS please?

[@JO-vc3zh]

@@rosieleat6868Internal Family Systems Therapy.

[@Kwinters988]

Thank you for sharing your story!

[@WilliamThompson002]

You are an amazing person Victoria. You are a walking miracle. My father sexually abused me and I survived. I have a PhD in psychology and have had a very successful career. Keep telling your story. My story has inspired many people. Survivors need to share their stories because it will help inspire people to overcome their own dark past. Keep the faith!!!

[@bosslady8359]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@ChampionsOfGracePodcast]

Praise God for your success Dr. Thompson. I have horrible memories of sexual experiences as a young child also. It was bold of you to make a comment like this, so thank you. Keep the faith 🤟

[@altheah.1251]

I was also sexually abused by my bio father. Its something that stays with you and no one understands unless you've lived it

[@angelgee9852]

And you’re a man? Wow a lot of men need to speak up more bc I think this happens more than we know, Jesus Christ I’m speechless

[@angelgee9852]

@@altheah.1251 Jesus Christ

[@afterthestorm9355]

So many comments from listening to this entire story. Development is SPIRAL, not linear. I really hope and pray you get ongoing, continuous therapy to heal. For YOU and both of your sons. Keep healing, Victoria.

[@shawng7902]

The way her voice shakes half crying but still explaining everything so clearly, just rips my heart out. She seems like she managed to keep such a beautiful soul living in total hell on earth.

[@TG-us7hc]

Her story and the way she told it were incredible. Her self-awareness and her resilience and optimism were also so inspiring. Victoria you could and should write a book!

[@Kyle_Warweave]

Is that your... "advice" ? ?! Or admiration ? Or whatever horribly banal "well-intended" -- some people... You probably also have some ideas ready for the cover picture of "her book" ? And I catch a glimpse of other comments: incredible how people who have never been in such a situation dare to offer advice or future plans, yes even pseudo-psychological consultations. Your response is one of the least worrisome.

[@coryd2668]

@@Kyle_Warweavecut the person a break! Their comment was very compassionate!! Writing a book may very well be her ultimate therapy! You don’t know! I admire this young lady for her courage to sit on that stool and pour her heart out for the world to see and hear! Putting it on pages is even better!! It could help bring peace, closure and forgiveness!!

[@LovinGodandmusic]

Absolutely!!! I was thinking the exact same thing

[@LovinGodandmusic]

​@@Kyle_Warweavereally??? Wow, you are incredibly paranoid to assume that from a simple compassionate comment. I was thinking the same thing about the book. And if I told you about everything I've been through, you'd have no grounds for a comment like that about me. But you don't know me, and you don't know this person. So chill out

[@Kyle_Warweave]

@@coryd2668 Give who a break? Take a look at the comment section ! Almost everybody has a say and advice for the victim (you too). Even a doctor should be cautious with advice. But people who have learned their morals from talk shows without any experience in this field shut really back off ! You could listen and say you feel sorry but that's really about it. Unless you have been in a similar situation and then you probably would seek contact discretely and not by posting one of these TikTok comments.

[@sandramadaris7814]

As a mom and a grandmother I just want to hug her and protect her from the world. She is so brave to try to address the great hurts that have been inflicted on her. The evils she described make me physically ill. I cannot imagine doing that to my child, to any child. May she find some peace...

[@TheDropkick2000]

All of your story is heartbreaking, your childhood, your mom, the relationships you had, the Afghanistan story with the little boy. My heart breaks for you. The way you are transmuting your pain and trauma into bettering your life and staying a good person, is very powerful. I hope you have the best happy ending possible. All my love x

[@GregorsOutdoors]

Her clenched fists in the still shot, trembling voice, and constant hand movement said it all to me....she's still that scared little girl who was left to the wolves over and over again. I pray that she can forgive herself because none of it was her fault. There's so much I'd want to say to her mother, but I rest easy knowing she'll get her just reward for what she did to her own blood. Her brothers beating up the married man really made me glad for her, but then we learned she wanted to stay with him. Victoria was trapped in just about every direction she turned in her haunted life. It was so brave of her to share all that in front of a stranger and to the world. Perhaps it is the first big step towards recovery. Brightest blessings over you Victoria. There are a ton of people rooting for you!

[@kgrant3184]

Very well said, Gregors!

[@kuroikenshireggie]

You're kinda degrading her by saying she's still that little defensless girl tbh... She's strong and she is NOT that little girl anymore, she grew up and took control. Of course theres insecurities and fears or whatever, but no one will ever take adventage of her like that ever again. We love you victoria, you got this ❤

[@MSR_Ma]

You can really tell she sat there and took her time to say that everything she went through and how she felt. She explained herself so well and I’m so proud of her. Wishing her, her boys, and her loved ones the absolute best! ❤️❤️❤️

[@Daygosd619]

What’s ur snap

[@ignacioarteaga9667]

Every time Victoria took a breath, it tore me up. It is so painful to hear her story . She is so strong. I am happy she is in a better place.

[@danijelamikic5363]

Yes she is,but it was only way to survive,maybe for her son

[@imanim2092]

Girl I’m at work hiding my tears watching this. May The Most High bless you. I pray you and your oldest son have a healthy and loving reunion.

[@erikferrar3453]

Rarely do people get through life unscathed, but man, how much can one person take? It’s mind boggling how strong she is inside. 1% of her story could make the average person fold, for good. I don’t know if she realizes it or not, but her internal survival skills and instincts are at a jaw dropping high level. She’s beautiful on the outside and I just hope that she is able to see her incredible beauty on the inside as well.

[@Tina-ng9up]

Her name is Victoria hence she managed

[@blancal.padilla2123]

​@@Tina-ng9up❤

[@blancal.padilla2123]

True! ❤

[@bradsexton2315]

Absolutely!

[@BOZ_11]

@@Tina-ng9up drawing inferences from a collection of syllables is asinine

[@Whatsthedeal106]

She has so much potential. With therapy and really processing what she’s been through shd could be anything and been successful. She is so smart and a great speaker. She needs to understand she wasn’t a “participant” she was a victim, and a child. She had no choice. She was exposed to adult situations as a small child. My heart breaks for what happened to her.

[@RetroDawn]

So true. I know you meant well, however, I would like to say that they were not "adult situations", but rather evil situations, with evil people, who had power over her and abused it and her in horrible ways.

[@azurephoenix9546]

Early introduction of sexuality and sexual situations is called covert child sexual abuse. It happens ALL the time and is horrifyingly being championed all across the US and most of the western world under the guise of "trans kids." A 4 or 6 or 8 year old doesn't even understand the concept, yet it is being forced on them and they are openly exposed to adult sexuality and sexual situations, without their consent. I'm not political and that's not where I'm coming from at all on this, but it is the same thing, being normalized and made acceptable. These children are going to grow up and realize that they have been the victims of sexual abuse and they are going to have to deal with that, except by that tike, this will viewed as acceptable childhood experiences and the help they need won't be there. It will be like child sexual abuse was treated in the 50s or 60s, as a family issue and not something for health services to deal with. All that advocating and fighting and struggling, and it was all for nothing. I hope that stories like hers and mine and others will open people's eyes to the reality that stealing children's innocence comes in many forms, but leaves the same trail of devastated children.

[@wendyclason8873]

She's by far the most articulate and real person I've ever seen Mark interview. I hope she continues to heal, to grow, to discover her true worth. May God be with her and hold her close.

[@or5171]

It is not true to say that she is the most real person that have been interviewed for this project. I mean she is sooo impressive, one's can't take that away from her. So, it's just that some others had difficulty to express themselves due to drugs, or difficulty to speak openly and fluent about it, or other insecurities. And I think that's why the still portrait photo is attached to the video, to show their humanity and vulnerability. It's very real.

[@MsMak03]

What qualifies one for being a ‘real person’? Other than existing really

[@bethmartinez9558]

@@MsMak03I think they are referring to her not being a drug addict. All of the comments of her being well spoken or eloquent are just thinly veiled judgments of the people on here that are addicts or mentally unstable. It’s upsetting because those individuals are “real” as well. It’s sad.

[@pikotard]

@@MsMak03 If I were using that type of phrasing, I would use "real" to describe someone who isn't bending the narrative in any way. With most people (including normies), you can tell that they are saying what they think you want to hear rather than describing it in their own words.

[@allivanaip]

Like fir sure but did you like it because it was liked and liked it but like I don't know did you like

[@swimmer6890]

As a father of two this makes me feel so much anger and so much sorrow that someone could do this to anyone especially their own child.

[@jehanhakim2434]

She has obviously done A LOT of healing! I can tell in how articulate she is, the way she tells her story, her EI is incredibly high! A true story of resilience and strength, while also a reminder of how ugly the world can be. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Praying for you to be continually uplifted.

[@samuellandos785]

Is it healing or did she toughen up? Unfortunately that’s not the same

[@JeanineH]

Ditto!!!

[@Adam-the-rock-hound]

A LOT more of the world is like this than some people would like to believe

[@Hopesperance]

She's incredible. The fact that she left the military - the first place that elevated her self worth and was clearly good for her, because something she saw there no longer aligned with her principles is commendable. She's so articulate and such a brilliant story teller. But what comes across most of all is her humanity. She's the sort of person that restores your faith in our kind. Someone who's seen the entire spectrum of humanity, the bad end more than the good, and yet she chooses to keep moving forward. To stay hopeful, and open, and kind. I'm a British African woman from Kent and I would like to say this on behalf of all humany: Thank you Victoria. You are loved. Every version of you matters, and is worthy. I'm sorry you were let down by so many people, but the way you dug yourself up from the shit over and over again, and continue to do, is the most heroic thing ever. I'm so incredibly proud of you. I'm glad you took a chance on your current boyfriend. I hope you find peace, comfort and long lasting love together. Thank you for sharing your story. Thank you for fighting for yourself and inspiring us all to do the same. Keep moving forward. All the best xx

[@angypangy8513]

Beautifully said, praying for this Beautiful young lady and her son's 🙏🏼🕊️💕

[@doingmybest826]

Such a thoughtful comment and very well put.

[@arai4176]

Thank God for the DayLight5 post. Well said. Numbing to hear how kids are being treated by faith based parents and "role models." Her smile will light up a room when she feels capable to let it all out. I hope and pray for this new relationship in Virginia. She will be in my prayers more often than she'll ever know. Please God be a blessing to this young lady in and through her everyday walk.

[@noracharles9366]

Wow. ❤

[@austinolson143]

So beautifully said, thank you for expressing what I was feeling. How big of a heart she has after all she’s been thru is actually unbelievable..

[@jodyeggleston6045]

The fact that this girl keeps going should be an inspiration to the rest of us. What she’s been through is WAY too much, but she keeps trying. Will be praying for her.

[@MORGAN2FARMS]

Or she is making it all up seeing how there is so many mentally ill people in this country anymore. It's just really hard to trust anything anymore

[@XRemARx]

@@MORGAN2FARMSwow you are a douchebag for saying she made this all up. but maybe probably because you fear that this is taking place throughout the world. Quite commonly, in fact. So you’re a douchebag AND a coward! :)

[@XRemARx]

@@MORGAN2FARMSI see your profile picture is a pig. Quite fitting! Oh the delicious irony.

[@girlplease2452]

@@MORGAN2FARMSbe quiet please

[@jodyeggleston6045]

@@MORGAN2FARMS As a mental health professional, I would be EXTREMELY surprised if she were making it all up - she’d have to be a pretty accomplished liar/sociopath to fool me this well. Not bragging about my skill or anything, but this ain’t my first rodeo… what DOES surprise me is that she hasn’t just given up - a lot of people would have by now and just let depression/drugs/alcohol/poverty/despair, etc. take her down with them. She’s one tough 🍪!!

[@ZorbaGreco]

My heart goes out to her. No-one should go through such pain, physical & psychological. I'm so pleased for her that she found someone who really loves her and cares for her. I wish her and her children nothing but the best.

[@ronn773]

That is probably the most amazing story of overcoming adversity I've ever heard. You deserve an award for turning your life into an honorable one & not letting life events define you. You should be proud of yourself.

[@jacksquat4140]

She deserves an award for turning her life into an honorable one? Did you actually watch the video all the way through? The last thing she told us is that she does online pornography, and is now shaking up with one of her OnlyFans patrons. Where is the honor, virtue, and integrity in that?

[@fixyatooth]

Yes!

[@ernest1576]

Dude I couldn't have said it better myself maybe 5 percent become productive citizens the rest are dead or junkies

[@misskennakenna]

Being 16 is not being a young woman. Being 16 is being a CHILD. even still at 17 you are a child! Adults need to be held accountable for the damage this does to the children of all genders.

[@cody3766]

Look up the woman who escaped North Korea, she has interviews with Jordan peterson and Joe rogan that are great watches about overcoming diversity.

[@masterofwit339]

I am speechless. Victoria’s life experience was designed to annihilate her soul and spirit yet she kept pushing, put up the middle finger and showed up for herself and her son. I’ve never felt the way I do right now watching a SWU vid. She deserves the world. I hope it’s still in her hands today.

[@chrisyates8115]

Demons at work! Sad

[@jimcarlton7732]

Absolutely awful! Her mother should have been arrested.

[@unisemendez677]

yes, you are right the devil causes pain and torment because the more he does that the more the persons soul will die

[@researchbear4074]

I'm speechless too... these adults were predators...evil. maybe Germany cared, but he knew she was a kid, and had no where to go.

[@johnmccann1960]

I have met some Brave men and women in my 63 years, but I have never 'met' a braver person than this young lady. I am filled with the utmost respect for this young women. I hope she finds all the love, peace and happiness in her life she so richly deserves. Talk about an Inspirational Person.

[@Noneofyourbusiness-qc7cj]

Dude she made a living on only fans with her body and thought nothing is wrong with that. I wouldn’t want to use her as an inspiration. You need to look at other survivors of abuse.

[@Emily-vw9cc]

@@Noneofyourbusiness-qc7cj you’re not someone to give advice. You clearly aren’t a great person if you are leaving a hate comment on a 63 year olds comment. People find inspiration anywhere and with anyone.

[@Noneofyourbusiness-qc7cj]

@@Emily-vw9cc lol You don’t know me. Your not qualified to tell me my opinion doesn’t matter. You are what people call a hypocrite. Look up the definition.

[@janelliot5643]

​​​​​​@@Emily-vw9ccI don't agree completely with the assessment of "none of your business," because I think if she quit prostituting herself on camera , she is still a good role model. I don't have the hour to watch to make sure his assessment is correct, that she thought nothing of it - it broke my heart in the 7th minute to hear that she had been locked in a box for extended periods, I just can't...- so here is my Criterion. If she would do it again she's not a good role model, if she wouldn't she is. But his is not a hate comment.

[@JeanineH]

AGREED!!!!!

[@shivanijadaun69]

Thank you for sharing this with all of us, Victoria! Love from India. You're so resilient yet so graceful. I wish you a peaceful, happy, and healthy life. I'm sorry for what you've been through. We haven't given you anything but you gave us all so much. Wherever you are, remain healthy and happy. 🌸

[@שרלילה-ג6כ]

Her cemetery story, how her mom told her she'll end up there soon because she's not sexually pleasing anymore... that was heartbreaking. Some people are monsters.

[@kristinavysniauskaite6216]

That is a horror…how can tou do that it is beyond understanding…her mom is monster…

[@tdeo2141]

I would love a follow up on Victoria. I really hope she is doing ok.

[@lorimav]

Seems like her mother was a sociopath

[@CajunAdrienne]

Her Mom is lucky she didn't get stabbed to death by her daughter when she got older.

[@whileistaysecluded]

Thats one of the most evil things i have ever heard

[@IreneCapuzzi]

My heart goes out to all the abused and unloved children who then grow up with so much pain! Thank you for surviving!

[@ziontatad1554]

This is so heartbreaking. Sending you lots of hugs. I grew up in an abusive and chaotic home. Both parents were abusive. Left home at 14 years old and never looked back. Mother hated my independence and at a young age i knew i can take care of myself no matter what.

[@Lucy-ie8qw]

I have tears. She has so much trauma. My god....her journey. The self sabotaging to avoid the real connection...due to the trauma. Thank you for sharing your story. I am a therapist and can hear and feel your pain. Your story has helped us all understand the depth ,trauma and complexities of trafficking.

[@srod679]

First and foremost, thank you for your service. I work for the VA. I am so grateful for your story, you're not only exceptionally beautiful, but so corageous, humble and intelligent. I pray that you continue your journey and speak your truth and that God walks with you as you continue your life with your beautiful family. I truly believe you could write a book about your truth and I bet you would help so many thousands upon thousands of people. Thank you and may God Bless you and yours, always.

[@dtm6678]

This woman is highly intelligent and a deep thinker. I hope she finds peace and happiness.

[@hoptoit8687]

I disagree

[@clivejones2944]

Exactly what struck me.. How bright and articulate.. Selfless individual who just aspires to be a virtuous person.

[@fhdhhfjdb5851]

@@hoptoit8687 shut the fuck up, she is very articulate and intelligent, if you can't see it you are just a dumb idiot

[@Mully6566]

@@hoptoit8687 if she wasn’t molested and raped as a child. Most of the comments would be how retarded she was

[@palladium607]

@Hop to It! your comment added ZERO value. It's fine you disagree but you offered no alternate point of view to be considered. Nothing

[@joslynm7359]

This was one of the hardest interviews I’ve watched. So strong and resilient. As a fellow survivor, at times I wanted to stop listening, but I will never not listen to a survivor speak their truth. I’m a mother now, and thinking of her as a child and not being protected made me cry. I know sometimes “true” healing never happens with things like this, but I hope that she has many years of happiness and healing. I’ll

[@MrDontcareify]

That is so true about sexual abuse. When it happens to someone, they usually are never able to heal fully. It happened to me and it never really goes away, even after years of therapy.

[@Lilianjade]

She is healing and will heal .

[@rose-ij2lh]

@@MrDontcareify healing is completely possible, it comes through acceptance

[@funnygaming2672]

@@rose-ij2lh nope you cannot move on (just fake it) and have all acceptance that it not you the problem, but you don't heal gaslighting yourself that you are heal don't work in long term that why it constant therapy because it don't work .i had 4 groomer /pedophile plus abusive parent and 1 rapist and accepted that no it not my fault i was a 2 year old until the age of 18 before it stop (33 now with my own family) .acceptance don't heal when you already die many times just a waste of money they give you the same trick ect

[@rachelcash4136]

The first time I watched this, I was only able to watch until she started talking about those early tactile memories and it was too much for me. She’s so strong, I’m glad I came back to finish it.

[@lyndxnjoel6917]

I just wanna give this woman a hug and pray for her. I'm 7 min into her story and my heart is cracking.

[@tinaespino7874]

I’m at 7 mins now and it’s really hard to listen to.

[@tylerdurdin.1982]

Wow, I'm at 7:09 minutes in and I stopped. I don't have many words for this but I have prayers and hopes for this unfortunate soul.

[@loridavenport8810]

You are such a strong woman and you are incredible after all you went through and still as strong as you are. ❤

[@julieinthedesert420]

I'm 10mins in and I've stopped it 3 times. This one is hard. 😢

[@luckyluke9225]

I thought of my kids the whole time through this interview and how important it is to keep them safe and lead by example and be there as a father. What a sad story. What a strong, sweet woman. I hope someone invents a time machine to back and rescue these poor children.

[@angelicafigueroa7421]

Victoria is the definition of what it means to be relentless. No matter what, she kept pushing forward. So strong and inspiring. I am rooting for you!

[@r.b.wilkins5042]

I can hear her pain and it hurts. The comments are filled with “Im sorry’s” but I want to say congratulations. You’ve survived. You’ve overcome. You’ll always be healing, but your moving forward. Keep pushing. ❤

[@Rn4lyfe317]

“I’m sorry” is a trauma response. I feel your pain Victoria. Hold, love and take care of that child within. You are the true definition of a survivor. ❤

[@jaimechavez5249]

She just wants people to feel sorry for her until she wanted to she had so much time to say something

[@boredonyoutube8289]

@@jaimechavez5249F off

[@nlcnlcnlc]

​@@jaimechavez5249 man how can you say something that is so truly heartless? You are not in her shoes. You will never be in her shoes.

[@lindsaytarbox8574]

@@jaimechavez5249 You are a terrible person.

[@teresarodriguez821]

Her mom should have been behind bars and have intervention therapy. What a beautiful girl, her testimony is moving and what a life she had.

[@lindsay8575]

Agree!

[@JohnnyElihue]

What kind of therapy is going to "fix" anyone who is emotionally capable of sex trafficking their own child. They are a lost cause at that point. Totally unfit for society, and should be disposed of immediately.

[@1957jmhiser1]

It would surprise you how many adults allow their children be used and hurt

[@gus7007]

No she should be sentenced to death.

[@prinarielll]

@@JohnnyElihue fr her fucking mom is a moster!

[@bluebellegreen2804]

This woman is not only highly intelligent she is extraordinarily empathetic and kind. What a GOOD person.

[@bluebellegreen2804]

I wrote this before the end.

[@henyosdilly8999]

She said "I really want to be a good person" . She's a great person.

[@NickWixx]

She is a victim but she’s also a terrible person. Awful credit. Awful mother. Manipulative liar it seems like. Has a good boyfriend she won’t kiss but sucks dick at parties. Twice divorced. The first husband did nothing g wrong and she made him seem like a rapist. Who knew the second relationship wasn’t gonna work. HE was crazy too! Yea right. She is Crazy.

[@WATSONMUTH]

@@NickWixxand she killed a kid

[@chappiexgarra8467]

Yea great person left her son just for fear of explaining

[@carolapostolos8929]

Exactly.

[@Ez-lk2hl]

@@chappiexgarra8467you must’ve missed the video, she stated she signed papers that said she has no custody of her son dumazz

[@troll23-troll23]

I just stumbled onto this because of the topic "child trafficking". An exceptional interview, Mark. Thanks for just letting her find the words, pour it all out, and let the world know what her incredibly hard life has been....I have watched many such interviews, on other channels, and too often the interviewer interferes, asks unnecessary questions, takes up too much space which is utterly painful. In this one I could "hear" your compassion that gave her the trust to speak so openly. I am in awe of both of you! Victoria, you are such an amazing human being, I will keep you in my heart.

[@MrWadeBarrett]

Completely disagree. He interrupts her with completely strange questions. Worst interviewer so far from the videos on this topic.

[@rachaelmincham4711]

As someone with PTSD her explanation of her trauma and her perspective on life is so relatable and so refreshing to hear from someone else. Keep striving Victoria

[@kimberlysmith7311]

I had it PTSD for years. Finally I wrote up and realized that those memories were not who I am..The Power if Now by Eckhart Tolle explains what happened to me. There are other great books that point to the same truth too. You never rave to suffer again. 🙂💞

[@emillyyelen5169]

@@kimberlysmith7311 So you dont have PTSD anymore...?

[@kimberlysmith7311]

@@emillyyelen5169 No, and I had it so bad I couldn't walk thru a store without wincing in fear if people raised their voices ..nightmares, panick attacks..so on...but for all those years I felt like I was my history and totally identified with it.

[@kimberlysmith7311]

@@emillyyelen5169 do you?

[@kimberlysmith7311]

@@emillyyelen5169 I woke up and realized that the identity who had ptsd was an illusion

[@Rosieblue111]

I just can’t fathom the evil of some people. How a mother could treat her child this way It makes me so sick. My heart breaks for this beautiful lady, I hope she finds peace. God bless her

[@GozieZilla]

No proper father figure because the system allows crazy women to have FULL custody

[@Saulgoodmane]

@Islanboy lol I can’t believe your corny ass making excuses for the mom, based off your statement you’re basically saying if this woman continues the cycle it’s totally fine smh you’re acting like someone who’s been through something traumatic doesn’t realize that it hurt them so it’s okay if they do it to someone else, it’s men like you that keep these cycles going. Her mom was dead wrong and thank God this Angel exists and she is able to show that what happens to you doesn’t define you and you don’t have to continue the cycle

[@Elizabeth-cj8cn]

@Islanboy her mother is to blame, her mother could’ve gone through it too but it does not mean it’s okay to let her child get sexually abused. All the adults are to blame, no matter what they went through.

[@boochicks2590]

@Islanboy this survivor has not done the same with her children so yes her mother is a million% to blame.

[@ManInTheBigHat]

I know a mother who was abused b her father and decades later sent her daughter to the same man to be abused as well. I think it's denial to make mom feel better. By mom sending the daughter it makes mom feel like "nothing happened to me so nothing will happen my daughter."

[@thatrandomeditor1499]

She’s unbelievably intelligent, articulate, and strong. It’s so amazing how she overcomes all odds and comes out on top. Blessed her.

[@YayaDaAries]

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[@redrustyhill2]

She is anything but intelligent. Intelligent people dont make all the bad decisions she has then play victim

[@CharlesAPetitjean]

@@redrustyhill2nice troll. Imagine going through the shit she did starting at age 4 and having that not MATERIALLY affect the rest of your life and your decision making. Kick rocks.

[@wendysalas8833]

You just never know what people are going through or have gone through, this is why I try to be kind to everyone I meet. What a strong woman she is. I pray she heals completely.

[@poom641]

True, but we never know what % of what people tell is Truth. Or Not. The public is ASTOUNDINGLY gullible, and often believes things just because they're presented to them.

[@cloudydays6277]

@@poom641 ur comment on this video is STUPID. This person is a clear victim!

[@dobnerk]

@@poom641 It's obvious she's telling the truth. Why would you even inject that comment here? This is why so many people stay silent. One of their fears is that they won't be believed. Not only is there no benefit to her for speaking her truth, but she runs the risk of reading comments like yours or even worse, mean and nasty comments. Another words, be supportive or shut up.

[@Asiathegoddess-id8yb]

@@poom641 This is real life,it isn't all peaches and cream...we share a world full of sick individuals.Just because you haven't witnessed or been through horrible things doesn't mean other's haven't.

[@DanGalietto]

This is a year later but I can only wish her the best and sympathize with how many times it takes to get things right sometimes. My mantra is “and this too shall pass” and “being of service to others is the gift that gives back immeasurably”. Take those hardships you had to overcome, share that experience and by chance or by nature they will give someone hope and strength. That may be all the inspiration they need to make it through their own hardships and struggles. I love the fact that this channel is so raw and real and yet there are so many survivors and redemptions that bring light to their darkness and their darkness to light.

[@raymundo4638]

Her voice sounds so broken, she endured so much pain. I just want to give her a very long and big hug < 3

[@David-ol6zj]

That's nothing. But this is considered a major struggle for a 👧 I guess

[@SprCaliFrglistikExpeAlidocious]

So heartbroken her voice this whole video bless her wonderful strong soul!

[@revolutionunderground]

Exactly what a predator would say

[@nimanixo]

No it doesn’t her voice is beautiful please never judge someone on their voice it’s extremely rude

[@friendlychick4462]

Same!

[@danthesafariguy]

No child should have to endure this type of treatment. I’m so sorry for what happened to you. You are a true survivor and wish you the brightest of futures.

[@elizabethbennet4791]

WHY IS HIS MOTHER NOT IN PRISON

[@MickeyGreenEyes213]

God damn. Her explaining why she hasn't reached out to her first son was heartbreaking, insightful, and incredibly mature. That is a REAL mother right there. She is putting what is best for her son before any needs or desires she might have personally. She is also taking his stage of development and how he would be able to interpret things into account.

[@BenjaminButtonJr]

Absolutely; prioritising critical period for neural development / betterment of her child.

[@markpaul-ym5wg]

STOP CURSING GOD.HE HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS.WE HAVE FREE WILL,TO DO AS WE PLEASE.WORSHIP GOD,NOT CURSE HIM.DANGEROUS OCCUPATION.

[@MickeyGreenEyes213]

@markpaul-ym5wg calm down pal. Not everyone believes in your imaginary, invisible man in the sky 🙄

[@MickeyGreenEyes213]

@markpaul-ym5wg wow. You've officially converted me. Your unhinged rant to a total stranger on the internet was just the thing I needed. Thank you so much for showing me the lord’s holy light....

[@markpaul-ym5wg]

@MickeyGreenEyes213 Sir,my comment was the truth,and not unhinged.People have always ran from the truth.Obey GOD,and you will never need for anything,because he will make it obvious where it came from.

[@thebettersideoflife]

“Its so uncomfortable just to exist” such a hard hitting statement that I’m sorry you had to feel.

[@johannawigg6921]

I felt that when she said that 😢

[@monavis2356]

What a sweetheart. Any parent would dream of having such a daughter. So smart, so empathetic, so driven & ambitious, so beautiful inside and out. She deserves so much more. Sadly today there are exams/licences for the most mundane stuff, but not for becoming a parent. She will do great. She is a warrior. Lots of love from France

[@tonebonetones]

You missed the part where she treats her 'nice' high-school boyfriend like filth while sleeping around with asshole after asshole. You missed the part where she gets banged by a 30 years old divorcee, and her brothers do the right thing, but she goes back to this scumbag and gets pregnant. Did you even watch any of this? She had choices. She's anything but a 'sweetheart'.

[@BurkhardusX]

She is an actor, that is all scripted.

[@monavis2356]

@@BurkhardusX Do you know her? Why would you say that? Provide proof please.

[@BurkhardusX]

@@monavis2356 it’s the other way round. She has to proof what she is pretending and alleging. Otherwise it could be true, or could be wrong. And most probably it is wrong, because there is no proof, and there are so many storytellers, who only want attention, clicks and money. What she is telling is at least only one side of the story, and there is most probably another side of the story, that could be told in a different way.

[@monavis2356]

@@BurkhardusX I agree, thanks for explaining your reasoning. Makes total sense.

[@poshboy111]

Sometimes these stories are genuinely incredible and hit hard. This is no exception. What strength and kindness she has shown

[@janpierzchala2004]

so many monstrous cases like this mother compared to Europe

[@annarydel4742]

I don’t even know how I should reply. Thing is I am maybe far away but I am you

[@crystalvangent285]

Wow! She can sure keep order on her life story for having such trauma as a child. I have child trauma but I could never explain it clear in a 1 hour interview. I’m so impressed, I know there is a life more of a story for her but she got out her words enough for us viewers to see truth, hurt, pain, growth, strength, majority, intelligence and beauty. I wish her nothing but the best life. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@lpetmcd]

The fact that you were so strong to see a therapist, you are amazing. Just listening to your whole story screams perseverance. You work so hard.

[@TerehiaSampson]

The way she has explained herself was very clear. Even Down to the smells bringing back to a certain time… exploited as a child and knowing it’s happening but not being able to stop it 😢horrible.

[@iiiiiccccc]

As a residenrtial (female) social worker working with teen girls that fell victim to incest, domestic violence, sex trafficking, prostitution and a number of other imhumane horrific settings..... I can only deeply respect Victoria for sharing her story and be happy about the clear and true sense she's made of the years of hell tnat she's survived. Victoria, you're so so strong and so right about what you've been through. (You’re very intelligent on top of that! The world is your oyster) lots of love from Europe!

[@MrAimMDMA]

@theamberheardplaylist6768 what are you talking about?

[@deeznuts7375]

Thank you so much for what you do. Your compassion brought me tears, and it is clear that you are a warrior for these hurting women. Thank you, and may God bless you for your service.

[@tyrrellfurlow5009]

"Character development is not linear." wow what a simple, yet powerful statement.

[@anonymousgamer8356]

i don’t get it

[@DaRkPlUm]

@@anonymousgamer8356 She explains it shortly after she says it. Becoming a better version of yourself isn't a checklist; once it's ticked its done isn't how it works. For example, if someone is a year sober and they relapse they have to "untick" their being sober box, speaking abstractly. There are times you will have conquered all your demons and be moving forward, other times they'll be back to get you. Such is life.

[@misscyanic2484]

I've replayed that part 4- 5x. Like I've always known that but never spoke it out so well. It's so obv too! Good ppl make bad decisions, some years or periods of time are more difficult, etc. Life isn't black n white. ❤

[@RefRed_King]

wat does dat mean

[@VersusArdua]

​@@RefRed_King reed da repleyezz

[@kathrynkaiser360]

What an incredibly powerful interview. And a beautiful and resilient young woman. ❤️ Victoria has told her story with heart-wrenching clarity and eloquence. If she ever decided to write a book, I feel she could help many other survivors of trafficking and trauma. Sending love and wishes for healing.

[@bingneedsalife]

It just dawned on me the bravery it takes for people like Victoria to come on the internet and be so vulnerable, describing their trauma in such detail. I just wanted to say I give them the utmost respect.

[@joepalouka1]

Poor choices

[@raybelle1]

How about her bravery just to continue getting through every day of her life having gone through all this. That’s what’s hard.

[@pachiecakes8467]

I don’t usually cry over these interviews but I’m crying along with her .. this poor girl. I hope she knows how amazing and special she is

[@Ashley_USA_]

same. my heart breaks with her

[@beverlyaragon1569]

I’m crying u push my sweetheart you can do it counseling the best I go it helps me

[@jjonez787]

She is full of shit

[@bernice4599]

Same here 😢

[@donnarinehart1216]

I stand in awe of this woman’s strength, courage, intelligence, and will to succeed.

[@wam3374]

I can feel how strong this woman is. She shook, the whole time, as she spoke of her experiences, and yet she kept going. She held herself together sooooo well. A defeated person wouldn’t be able to do this interview. She saved her own life, the moment she decided not to fall into drugs.

[@doingmybest826]

That moment at the end when she was talking about her boyfriends mom and the light in her eyes just shined and this beautiful deserved innocence shone through. I am just so glad that she has that and has found so much healing in that experience. You can just tell.. her face completely changed. What a resilient, strong woman. She is truly inspiring. She IS a good person.

[@mim-zeemims]

Her life story makes me, once again, realize how blessed I am for having had a normal childhood without any negativity occurring that is even worth mentioning. Listening to her life story was a blessing for me which I am grateful for. I am also glad that he allowed her to tell her story, in its entirety, with any interruptions.

[@IMan_93_]

This interview (and many others on this channel) really shows you how unbelievably important your childhood is. The way she was raised and introduced to this world set her up to make bad decision after bad decision which made her life worse and worse over and over again. It shows you how those things build on themselves and how important the people you are around in your everyday life really are. Her mother set her up for failure from the beginning. I hope she’s ok

[@lexasamuel]

I live in the Nederland and I lived in New York for 21 years im just recently seeing so much sex trafficking stories where the parents were the culprit..I always found it to be strange that theres so many stories of videos on the dark web of babies and young children being sexually exploited and abused I couldn’t imagine it but my bcuz its seems so crazy but I always believed that somehow the parents must be involved bcuz mothers always know where their babies are unless they’re in daycare so I now understand and it makes sense that these mothers of these children has to know its happening..so the government in California wants to take children away from parents for not affirming their identity but they cannot take parents to jail for their children being abused sexually there needs to be an awakening of this madness we all need to stand up for these children even if its years later these children should get justice for what their parents did to them ..they got bill Cosby years later they can also get these parents to ..its so sad to see innocent children being victimised like this

[@noooname]

It also reinforces the idea of systemic oppression and how a pattern of poverty, poor education and poor opportunities creates a horrible cycle specifically for minority groups. It’s incredibly hard to break the cycle.

[@ChelseaMiddlebrook]

You can hear the pain in her voice. This poor baby .. watching this again a year later and it's still so riveting

[@cinder4181]

"Surrounded by people who didn't work that hard and their life is flourishing while yours is tanking." That hit so damn hard on so many levels it brought me to tears... It is so damn hard to find that motivation to get up some days and keep trying to aim for the greener grass on the other side...

[@TripDadLife]

It was "their lives are taking off and yours is tanking".

[@user-pb8ce6ki9z]

Yeah that part hit the hardest for me too.

[@laurenpatterson9659]

Her talking about letting her son go, I just can't imagine. So much hurt in her voice. You can tell she really wants to be with him, but doesn't trust herself to be able to do it without hurting him. So selfless and so strong. I hope they can have a relationship one day. He deserves to know that he came from this beautiful person

[@Stopthecäq]

is it selfless? the man she left raising him is a *predator* ...a pedophile.

[@wattsinaname6975]

For real.