Sexless Relationships, Divorce Rates, Dating apps & The Chaos Of Modern Relationships

There's one thing we can all agree on. The relational landscape has changed. I talk a lot about those changes and the effects they're having.
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[@annatar6453]

Women’s complaints on online dating: the most attractive, tall, rich, successful men in society only sleeps with me and won’t commit. Men’s complaints on online dating: I can’t get a match

[@RonHarrisMuscle]

Women all think they deserve a 1% man even if they’re in the bottom 10% of looks

[@peterhel1077]

Exactly! It blows my mind they don't understand or straight up ignore this FACT.

[@kaitlin8669]

Regular men are not committing either though. They all want sex and few want marriage.

[@riverbilly64]

Men using online dating apps are usually looking to do a f**k-and-flee. Very few are interested in a real relationship.

[@rnt45t1]

I haven't had a girlfriend since 2012. I haven't had sex since 2017. Women don't even factor as a part of my life anymore. I've completely given up. I just do my own thing now. For the red-piller's out there, I'm not fat, I'm in shape, I'm active, I'm tall, and I make over $100,000 a year. I just don't want to play this game any more. I'll just be alone.

[@ManTalks]

What about dating / women don’t you want to do any more?

[@johncoll4456]

And at piece.

[@wayneanderson8034]

You are not an outlier, millions have made the same choice. Our culture puts zero value on Peace, but once a man finds it, it's hard to imagine going back to the dating system.

[@taichiroward5770]

Preach my dude!

[@limitlessinfinite2284]

​@@wayneanderson8034 thus is true. I'm growing spiritually, financially, intellectual, and in my career. I've got kids and have a magnificent with both of them I'm free and have been for few years and I'm thriving in all my ways. Modern relationship is a joke and divorce has skyrocketed. I just read an article about banks/lenders charging crazier amounts/rates and fees for couples due to divorce rate. I have nothing against women and dating amd relationships. For me, however, I'm choosing to stay solo.

[@mirandaschalen]

As a woman i really enjoy this channel. For me, feeling safe and secure with a partner is at the top of the list. If he can be the leader of himself, i can surrender and trust and give. And i'm not that concerned with his status. But the level of self leadership.

[@scottmildy]

This was good to hear. I have lost myself in my 10yr marriage... which is falling apart. After hearing your words I realize I have been conforming to what I think my wife wants me to be instead of putting in the tim/effort into what being the man I want to be and respect....this hit home. Thank you for this insight. I'll be brutally honest, I want blame her but I know I have to change in order to make healthy choices and actions in the relationship.

[@zebageba]

Ignore her and do what is best for you. Stop living for other people.

[@joannayeung3705]

Hi there I salute you for taking responsibility for self development. Your wife will pay more attention to you one you find out own worth from within and not seek for external affirmation. Be disciplined, firm and purposeful so you be your own cheer leader.

[@steph6109]

That is the point where you'll get divorced.

[@julia190]

Marriage should be a partnership - where one does not rule over the other. I applaud you for acknowledging that you want to blame her - we do not want you to change your basic persona - simply allow each of us to grow.

[@bjmaynard01]

Outstanding sir, once you realize you do have the power to live your life according to what you want, the battle is halfway over. If you can nail the self-respect and self-love, your wife's validation will no longer matter so much and it won't feel like a life or death situation.

[@Accentor100]

This is soft Red Pill content right here and it is spot-on accurate.

[@MrWaterbugdesign]

It's not worth the risk. I'm 65, divorced twice. I escaped losing a lot (refused to have kids) in both divorces, not bitter. But there's no question the risk is way too high and there's zero upside. My last divorce was after 15 years of a sexless marriage. I saw her on a dating site later...no mention of her having zero interest in sex. Just the standard list of places she expected a guy to take her. Pity the poor guy to fell for that mess. But that did enlighten me...what about all these other women on dating sites? So started looking closer when chatting, dating women and yup...kind of a mess. I started seeing women in other countries show up on dating apps. I looked into that primarily to learn what scam they were playing. Wanting a green card? Running scams? I mean come up, why are these very young attractive women messaging me? Gotta be a scam. Turned out many were completely serious. Many wanted marriage and to stay in their country. Yes, absolutely no question it's the foreigner's ability to provide was the #1 attraction. I'm OK with that because imo that's natural. Women look for providers, men look for fertility. But these women had realistic expectation on the level of being provided for than US women. Every year it seem the amount of assets US women required keeps going up and stopped being realistic years ago. So I'm off to SE Asia. I see no reason to try and figure out how to beat the system in the US. One plane ride and everything flips. Most important thing to learn in a move is to unlearn how you dealt with women in the US.

[@sitka49]

You mentioned your wife probably has no interest in sex , but the funny thing is she' probably a nymphomaniac now , nothing against you, but she just didn't want to have sex with you. I've heard this before, women supposedly with low libido in relationships come out of one, and become absolute sex maniacs'.

[@StochasticUniverse]

I knew an American guy that had a wife from the Philippines. They split time between both countries and the relationship seemed to work out pretty well. They've been together for 15 years and are still going strong. The only downside was that he had a 15-year-old daughter who seemed to harbor some resentment against him. She spoke native English but for whatever reason she would only speak Tagalog in his presence, which he did not understand. Then she got herself pregnant, heh. Probably just her particular manifestation of universal teenage angst, though.

[@JC-gw3yo]

American women are loaded and don't need men. Let's face it, older women should be taking care of grand children. Look for younger women and a foreign women make sense. But as us American men have wealth, it is about time that the foreign women pay for the dating sites. This will make it honest

[@jjm2948]

I’m one of the 4% and If it’s an consolation most women are shallow and boring. I found a good one after 2 years and countless dates. It’s still a sacrifice and better make sure she actually adds something and makes your life better. Most can offer only one thing and that one thing comes with too many strings a attached and not even worth it. I will say when dating don’t hold back with your true authentic self at all!, if you think it’s too bold or too rude it’s not trust me;) and if it is, good! You weeded that one out move on

[@TheMotArt]

What has she added that the other didn't?

[@joannayeung3705]

Thank you for the statistical breakdown in these dating apps. Indeed, I was divorced in 2015. I spend time developing a enjoying life without a spouse. I'm loving the self discovery journey, though it can get lonely sometimes. It is so important to know who Ans who you are not before you ask another person to spend time with you. Time is precious, don't spent it on short term self gratification. Invest in a true connection with someone who is on the same purpose and mission in life. We are get old and fragile, the heart of the matter will be companionship and those who were with you through the storm. Men get on the duty-bound ship, take responsibility for some thing you care about that is long lasting, no sex, no career, no cars, no materials can replace your inner joy, peace and love once you have secure them. 💖💞

[@gerardmichael8523]

Dating, 98% of women chasing the top 2% Chads leaving the bottom 98% men scrambling over the very bottom of the barrel.

[@RonHarrisMuscle]

Women deny this until you show them proof, at which point they just dismiss it as not relevant

[@ebenezerquartey188]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Only Fans and PornHub it is then.

[@erikjohansson6579]

​@@RonHarrisMusclewomen only take account for the good stuff. And will always be that way.

[@SemiSweetNilla]

Like a sullen incel

[@kaitlin8669]

Since 80% of women get married, I doubt that they are chasing the top 2% of men. Women usually don't chase, they wait to see who comes and if that man will be a good father. Some women with anxious attachment will chase but most don't.

[@Christopherbever]

This was a great take! Thank you for putting out these videos

[@cthomas-au]

Great video. I especially like the advice towards the end. Thank you.

[@kurtisca]

Great job looking at the data subjectively and encouraging a focus on self development rather than blame

[@RiddledinRizz]

Awesome content. I appreciate the inspiring words at the last half. A lot of wisdom in your words

[@fpsguard8758]

I know this has been said before, but im amazed this channel isnt larger. Great content!

[@JC-gw3yo]

I am a middle age man and have used dating apps for 3 years. I have found them to be useless. Stay local. Go to dances, churches, baseball, community events and even bars. Make yourself available

[@danielodutola4740]

You clearly articulate the mindset of today’s dating world. Don’t worry, with time the quality of your content will match your followership. But who cares, keep spewing content regardless of numbers of followers, you are changing lives a life at a time.

[@Mar6579]

As a women, I love seeing your perspective on this. I think women are really lacking w looking at the male perspective and it’s really sad to think about.

[@Mar6579]

I’m 25f and recently back in the dating world. I was in a monogamous “situation ship” for 2 years but as I have grown older, I’ve realized I want and need something more fulfilling. I really love your channel because it gives me hope! I think you’re helping a lot of people out :)

[@bcarp509]

Dude, you are spot on! Thanks

[@valeriemcdonald7514]

This video is quite relevant. I am of the wemen who instigated the divorce. I had to subscribe to tell you as a woman, the advise you give is quite accurate also. The general tendency (my point of view), is wemen tend to nurture. The familie's well beeing preceeds the individual. My experience is that although wemen fall into a relationship with confidence, the tendency is to morph into the ideal nurturer for the person they are into a relationship with. Suddenly, friends, hobbies, passions fit around the partner's schedule. We then become less then what we were getting into the relationship. Eventually, insecurities become tangible because all our investment is into that realationship. I love your way of explaining how to be a better self. Your suggestions in my opinion are very useful to wemen also. Thank you for that!

[@kjellkanin]

I'm a woman and I personally never cared whether a guy was tall, rich, balled or chubby. I'm still single though and struggle as much on dating apps as anyone else. I haven't dated in the last 8 years or so. I get matches on dating apps but the conversation always dwindles away if it ever even starts. I totally understand though that the risk is greater for men. I'm glad these things are talked about and I hope for positive changes.

[@nokwareknight6469]

Good clear explanation

[@theguynextdoor4978]

They did a survey asking men and women this: If you met a person who was 80% of what you wanted, would you be happy? most men said yes.. and most women said no. I think as humans we could benefit from altering our requirements, based on what REALLY should matter long-term in a relationship. Not just: He is not matching 5% of the male population. i'd rather be a cat lady.. NEXT until I hit the wall and my cats will meow on their grave.

[@mikegraham819]

It great information the show good and healthy . Most of all honestly.

[@colettefackrell7349]

RE: divorce. I made most of the money, and he asked for the divorce to which I readily agreed. I'm the one who paid support to my husband because I made more money and he chose to no longer work. So it just depends on who makes the most money. As far as dating apps, they are bullshit for the most part for both sexes. It's a system that encourages total superficiality. It's really unfortunate. Much better to going back to meeting people at clubs or the grocery store.

[@shellylen4582]

Where's are the male feedback? They whine about alimony and child support. I thought they would've been happy at your story.

[@PLsexpicklePL]

@@shellylen4582 No Man would be happy for that guy. He chose to not work and let his ex-wife take care of him. Pathetic. My Mom is in the same situation with a loser husband she makes like 6-7x more than. I want to toss him off a cliff!

[@ericephemetherson3964]

Much better to read an interesting book and not in a pub.

[@0fficialselena__90]

@@shellylen4582 It truly saids a lot about some men especially the ones in the comment section

[@rafae5902]

A woman that stays in a relationship with a man that doesn't work (for whatever the reason it may be) is the exception.

[@thegrandhouseofamen7]

This is why there is the return of the "pass port movement" more than ever. Men finding women with more traditional values abroad. What will happen is the women is developed nations will price themselves out of the market.

[@nicktaber2969]

So many people seem to assume that the way online dating works is the way dating in general works. It's completely different and far fewer women are on dating apps than men.

[@tyronemarcucci8395]

25% of marriages end up sexless while 53% end up in divorce, so why get married?? Save your money, time and effort and get sex from wild women. They are out there.

[@2ndChanceAtLife]

I must be a freak. Female, college degree, successful career. Looking for a common sense man who is spirituality sound, knows RESPECT, knows how to and loves to fix things such as cars and houses, and appreciates a nurturing female who will go out of my way to bring a smile to his face when he comes home from work. ❤

[@JC-gw3yo]

Good God, A unicorn...

[@peterhel1077]

Start a cult.

[@riverbilly64]

Men don’t give a $h*t about ANY of that caring behaviour you listed. Sorry if that’s hurtful.

[@zareeftashfique8168]

Seriously at this point I am really REALLY considering travelling to 2-3 countries where women ACTUALLY value men… I am physically fit, 28 y/o, gotten therapy for the last year, and in a rock solid career! I have seen a few of my friends as of late travel and go to places where women ACTUALLY APPRECIATE men, they are happy, and I think men that puts in work and is a decent human being deserves that…. I don’t know why this is “too much to ask for” as ppl complain “men are entitled” …..

[@triplezgames3882]

Which countries are those? (asking for a friend)

[@zareeftashfique8168]

@@triplezgames3882 shortlist at the moment : Colombia, Thailand, Brazil, Mexico, Indonesia, turkey, Romania

[@latinaalma1947]

@@zareeftashfique8168 You will need to be cautious in foreign countries too, especially if you are from a perceived properous country. I have lived in a Central American country for 20 years as an early retiree American expat immersed in the local culture. Young women, mature women too, here are on the hunt for a man from Canada,the USA, a European country and even some countries in S. America. These women have been brought up to manipulate their fathers..it is a standard model here. Papi has the money, the mother dresses the little girl like a doll and yes they are adorable. The girls and later women are hyperfeminized and charming. The mothers teach them to cater to the man with the $. It is something to behold. Yes Busse is right women want a man to have access to resources I am very familiar with the research having taught it as a professor. Our single male friends are charmed by these women. The woman is invariably very good looking. She cooks well her mother made sure she had all the feminine skills housekeeping, sewing, cooking AND that she knew how to flirt and charm a man, how to put a man first ...while they are datiing. Marriage is the brass ring. Once married the woman no longer is making the man shirts, hemming his trousers, sewing on buttons. She no longer spends all day preparing his food to.his taste. She wants to go out to restaurants constantly, after all the First World guy has money doesnt he?? Wasnt that the point? She says she wants to look good for him and spends way more money (his)on clothes, shoes etc ...she wants to be a movie fashion plate Latina version (put in any nationality you prefer). They expect the First World guy to help their father with a loan for his business, replace her brothers wrecked car or moto, pay for Mamas surgery. In a few years the man is depressed. He is trapped, He was suckered . If they dont have children she starts telling women including ME the mans friend originally, that he wont take her dancing he is an old man (men want younger women whether they want children or not you are biologically programmed that way...see Buss et al). Some even complain he is too old for sex he isnt really a man (any man with an erectile problem is asking for trouble with a Latina...she expects the man to perform and takes it personally if he cant at times). I have had several bare their personal sex lives to me. As a psychologist I keep my mouth SHUT but other women are not similarly inhibited. He is unhappy , she is unhappy. Everyone of these men was not naive, age 30s to 60s but they thought "She is different." Well no. Most are not. Out of about 100 couples we have known I can think of about 10% that have been truly happy amd stable for many years. About 30% have been disastrous and one partner or the other has fled the relationship. Women here get 50% of your assets period no matter what THEY did. Anythin g you have in this country:house, cars, land, businesses,bank accounts, investments of any kind and you better believe those wives before they dumped the guy did everything they could to get the guy to transfer all their assets in to THIS country. Men have heard of the women who want US, Canadian etc citizenship via marriage, what they havent heard of. are the ones who want to stay in their country and milk the guy and that is maybe 80% of the women. If you want a foreign girlfriemd fine, here are some tips: 1. If you are not penniless DONT marry them. 2. Dont have children with her, she can take out a denuncia on you for non child support or desertion if you are married and abandon her and you will NOT be allowed to leave this country EVER til you settle your debts with her and no the US government will not intervene on your behalf. 3. Dont loan money or gift anything of value to anyone in her family or to her...you will find out if she loves you pretty fast. Within a very few years ...if its money she's after, she will move on cause she has a short shelf life to find a meal ticket. 3. Use protection cause some of them are not as pure as the driven snow as they pretend to be. Have fun by all means, court women. Enjoy women, dont abuse or trick them with promises you dont intend to keep, but be HONEST about your intentions...see how long she sticks around. Try not to give your heart too easily...these women are highly emotional and want YOU to be too Be rational and think with your head. Sybil Francis PhD clinical.psychologist /professor ret.

[@Christopherbever]

This is basically the handbook for Latina dating. @sybil I would love to hear your thoughts more on this topic! Specifically Latin American parenting as it relates toxic patterns and generational issues/traumas.

[@chadcadsonvii5258]

@@latinaalma1947 thanks for the insight Doc. I see this mistake men make of leading with their wallets which is always a bad move no matter the country.

[@kaitlin8669]

I sort of feel bad for guys who sleep around because they are going to wake up with lots of vipers.

[@genovinchenzo4237]

Read 3% man by Corey Wayne. It will change your life-I was a natural alpha til I was about 28-always had tons of women…a few negative things happened to me-took me for a downward spiral-got over weight and lost all my confidence. Started reading 3% man at the beginning of the pandemic-totally changed my life-this dude is giving good advice-reading 3% man and the superior man will help you a lot-good luck and Godspeed fellas 🍻

[@likearollingstone007]

Look, another salesman getting in the ring. Free agent life style is the way to go.

[@jinenjuce]

No lie, online dating makes me want to kms so I just quit. Now my friend that fits the description of "the elite few that women are after" is trying to drag me back in like it's just so easy

[@taichiroward5770]

You’re preaching Connor. I have one of my undergraduate degrees in psychology & you come off as a social psychologist. The hypocrisy in the dating scene currently is asinine! I refuse to date anyone with a kid cause I don’t have any but I’m chastised for it. Could you imagine a dudes dating profile requesting for a partner to be in shape so they can enjoy the outdoors together. I refuse to date anyone who eats animals also. Been single for almost a decade now cause I was more focusing on getting to & through med school. Your resource statement is a women’s evolutionary psychological programming. I won’t date anyone who doesn’t read leisurely. Another fun fact, 53% of marriage’s end in divorce so worse than chance.

[@Jay-ef2ii]

Questions for Men: Do You like how the Woman looks? Is she embarrassed of You? Is her love for you Unconditional? Does she work hard and does she do it for you? Does she take care of your things? If so, marry her, and never let her go, period. Marry her even if she is a 5 in looks as compared to getting a 9 Woman. Many men now want a woman who has looks but this is not the be all and end all of the situation. You need to focus on the heart first and then you focus on looks. Don't be silly in just focusing on looks and then you find out that her attitude is just plain rotten. You will never move forward with a negative Woman. Once you find the love of your life then be faithful to her, forever. Finding True Love is hard to find and once you find it get it and hold on to it, forever. Never let it go and be faithful to that Woman. It's best to find a 5 woman who cares about you so much than finding a 9 woman who only likes you only on Pay days. Many men can find love but men need to lower their standards in case if you are not lucky in finding the woman of your dreams. Lower your standards and the love of your life is just 3 yards away. Society has become too picky and if this grows then America will be a sea of singles. June 8, 2023. USA.

[@StochasticUniverse]

America already is a sea of singles, and I don't think that "lowering standards" will fix that, or is otherwise desirable, in any event. America is just catching up to many other societies, like Japan, that have been in the same boat for a longer time. It's a global phenomenon.

[@Stoneybv]

You're right sir. Good advice. Many men and women also have to big a ego and that blinds them. I have found my one and I love her to death so I actually do plan on marrying her but I'm going in with the mindset that's it's a dance with her and I have to dance till the death of me

[@riverbilly64]

I assume you mean a 5 in looks? Looks change, a good heart doesn’t.

[@josefarrington]

16:00 "A Man that does the work". Oversimplified; A man that is willing to be a provider(a.k.a buy long term access to a vagina) or a lover(man that gets express access to a vagina.)

[@sitka49]

be the best version of yourself ? what ever that means ,what if your electrician, or truck driver, and your ambition isn't to be the boss, and you like what you do ? for instance My discovery of no matter what a guys profile says as long as it’s generic ,harmless etc.… and he has 2 or 3 very good looking (top 5%) pics he will get not only the most attractive women(8-10’s)which is expected but also a ton of 3’s -7’s who I can assure you have never dated anyone that looks like these guys. Now when these 3’s -7’s don’t hear from the attractive guy they won’t email ANY men who are in the 5-8 range. All of these profiles were basically the same stats EXCEPT attractiveness. So none of that is a real shock because as we all know everyone thinks of themselves as much higher. I know men do the same thing they email women way out of their league but I also think that men email more women in their league and below just because if we can’t get what we want we’ll take what we can get. The statistics I have shown above indicate that the key problem is that women are only interested in the very top of the scale. They do not realize just how selective they are. To them men of 6ft are plentiful - in reality only 15% of the population at best. Most women online wouldn’t give a guy with the national average salary a second look. 50% of men will earn less than this average. If only 5% have the right income, and 5% have the right looks, and 15% have the right height, and 10% have the right intelligence then it follows that women will be perfectly happy with one man in 30,000 and half of them will suffer from substantial hair loss !

[@shellylen4582]

Everybody wants something.

[@jeffreycheng5984]

"Live your best life! Have incredible relationships, just don't get state divorce laws involved. They will dictate your finances in the likely event your marriage becomes non-functional! Be careful out there! I wanna keep ya outta my office!"- Jonathan Noble Esquire. Pennsylvania divorce attorney who has practiced in fields of divorce and family law for 20 years.

[@riverbilly64]

It’s called a pre-nup.

[@darkelf1000]

What crisis...I'm not dating so no crisis. 💪💪

[@steelydan146]

And I must be 1 of the 4 out of 50 men women are pursuing since I'm averaging 2 dates per week from online apps. And I don't hide the fact that I'm only 5'8".

[@rootcanal7188]

@Steely, But what is the quality like? Will they pay their own way on dates?

[@Accentor100]

More power to you bro. If you can do it, do it. I'll cheer you on from the bottom 46 club haha

[@victor_lar]

So you pay for someone else dinner twice a week? 🙂

[@RonHarrisMuscle]

Does that mean sex with 2 different women every week?

[@victor_lar]

@@RonHarrisMuscle He just pays for their dinner, no sex 🙂

[@MX-CO]

Husband = Chump in 2022

[@ronh1850]

Honest question. Is it possible to be a top 5% man on the apps and not objectify women? It sounds to me like these men never invest into a relationship and keep moving on to the next. I'm sure the player lifestyle is fun and all, but ultimately very shallow. What kind of life is that to look back upon in old age? Perhaps I've been in an LTR too long (20+ yrs) and cannot wrap my head around not seeking a life partner. If I lost my marriage, I would be in the elite club by most objective measures (college educated, 6 figure income, 7 figure assets, high fitness, etc). But it sounds like most women are actually seeking transitory relationships aka situationships? Is that a consequence of, or the reason for the apparent irresponsibility of top men? I'm fortunate to have an amazing woman by my side. Not perfect by any means, but neither am I. I don't understand why people cannot be satisfied with 'good enough' in life.

[@riverbilly64]

Most men are seeking transitory relationships. Or transactional. They want to be players. IME. Or have free in-home nursing care.

[@dericflairmultiverse4952]

Men also use dating apps more than women, some women also just use the apps as an ego boost sometimes 😂😂😂

[@rockfishgamer1408]

gg thanks

[@gregc247]

Do all of this to get a shitty chick with an attitude that could still leave you

[@jeffreycheng5984]

How many women are neck deep in student loan debt? Who wants to DATE THAT?!

[@josefarrington]

Can you share the 46/50 of women pursing the 4/50 of men in Tinder? I think this is more about a woman's first choice than what she is actually getting. Are you telling me that a man that is a 9/10 is dating a 1/10? Women have to adjust to the market and accept bids from men that are not the first choices.

[@steph6109]

- Lots of men put their body shape and weight preferences in their bio. Create a female account, see for yourself -divorce is no different to a break-up unless one party earns significantly more. Alimony is gender-neutral. -sexless marriages occur when the men are neglectful and the woman goes from hopeful to tired to resentful. It's preventable. - a mans resources are not #1 but if she's taking a pregnancy risk, he needs to be ready to potentially take on a father role, that requires resources. - women don't need sex like men do and having sex with the wrong man is more damaging than having sex with no men. So yes they can and should be choosy. Many women would be happily single rather than 'date down' in areas they deem important. These top 20% of men will only be able to play around for a few years. Women aren't generally polygamous, when those men are tagged as fbois they will be istracised by all than the polyamourous community which is very small. -

[@awsambdaman]

I agree with all of your points except the last one. I would say that men “needing” sex is worded too strongly. Many men today are sexless and there’s actually quite a few that are okay with that. Especially as testosterone rates continue to drop, men are exceedingly just not as interested in chasing sex. Also many women say they’re okay with being alone, but what they’re really doing usually is putting an excessive burden on their family and friends to nurture their emotional needs. While their family and friends have relationships, these women don’t and their family/friends have to watch out for them which can be taxing. Also, even if a woman does choose to be single, what’s her path for having kids? Most women still want kids (thankfully, children are wonderful) and a man is a requirement for raising healthy children. I’m sure we don’t need to go over the stats about fatherless kids. Also, the fbois are going to be fine. Fbois are different from the polygamous community. The polygamous community is more niche than the one the fbois are involved in and fbois will always be able to get sex. Maybe not with any woman they want, but as long as I was dating, there was always a girl who was “just got out of a relationship and wasn’t looking for anything serious”. Fbois will find their target market

[@slowliving2041]

Be a muslim. It's liberating.

[@steelydan146]

Guys whining about dating is just that... whining. It's not attractive. That's why you're not getting dates or getting into an LTR. Do the work on yourself. Read & APPLY Dr. Robert Glover's book: Dating Essentials for Men. Do the work & quit whining.

[@peterhel1077]

Well how did that work for you?

[@LorenzoMasterConnector]

Yeah it’s for sure women’s fault, but it’s really our fault for giving them soo much freedom. Sorry, it’s true. 😂

[@HappyGermanShepherd-xi5sq]

Heightism is a 100% social construct