Sexual Abuse in the Family

Emilia likes the attention and the gifts but sexual abuse can come from a relative or family member. We can see what that relationship might look like, how it might feel, and how to see your way out of it.

[@yeet4164]

“Remember kids, if someone touches you somewhere or someway that makes you uncomfortable, that’s no good!” -Sonic

[@anonymouscausewhynot]

Sonic is great.

[@idkwhattoputasmyusername9701]

I REMEMBER THAT

[@spaghetto9836]

When did he say this?? 😯

[@yeet4164]

@@spaghetto9836 in Sonic Says

[@lovelycloudyskies]

Sonic, PREACH

[@SCP-469]

"He talked about sex a lot and my body." *ALARM SOUNDS*🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@baesora627]

@@moranoaldre wtf are u serious

[@bungacow9241]

@@moranoaldre oop- found the uncle 💀💀🚨🚨🚨

[@bobbiems3154]

@@bungacow9241 what did he say?

[@tyciydf.7e397]

@@bungacow9241 what did they say in the first place?? 🤔

[@bungacow9241]

@@tyciydf.7e397 They said the uncle could be talking about having a "healthy" body, which you can say without mentioning se* 😒

[@SugarTheRat]

I'm a kid, and I'm glad I've found videos like this. I want to stay safe. Thank you, whoever created this channel.

[@blackberrynina999]

we still have hope guys

[@user-ix6gh1jr3y]

Me too

[@Bunbunnybun]

Same I feel safe with this Chanel

[@Pretend_Im_a_ghost]

Same

[@REEEE329]

Agreed

[@A_frog.]

The fact I started crying at the “no matter what the circumstance no matter how long it’s been happening it’s never to late to stop it.” I was abused and witnessed abuse by and from my father when I was still just a baby up to about 12 (I’m 13 now , don’t know how long this will go on for..) I don’t live with or visit him anymore and I never really opened up to anyone about it.. But , after being recently diagnosed with autism by this kind doctor who also listens to others with similar stories like mine and having a strong feeling that I can trust her…I might tell her what’s happened in my childhood. Wish me luck

[@wisteria2361]

wishing u good luck🙏🙏 hope ur doing better now and ur taking the right action by finding an adult you could trust

[@user-ek3xz8je2y]

I wish you all the luck in the world!!! ♥️ No one deserves to be in a situation like that!

[@none.of_ur.business-L]

I was abused since my childhood from my stepfather and i never have told anyone before. Luckily my mom is getting divorced- Are you doing alright though?

[@DepressedTransTherian]

:0 I have autism too :)

[@7Write4This9Heart7]

Please do! She should be able to help! I'm so sorry that happened to you, but I wish you the best of luck!

[@tylereaze2558]

Sexual abuse is NEVER the victim’s fault. It is never, EVER your fault for being abused.

[@user-xj9xb9zl6p]

Yes it can be victims fault

[@indiratan6242]

Stop victim blaming stfu I know these people who replied didn't know how painful and traumatizing it is to be abused

[@e.s7972]

the comments under this are sick y'all stinky weirdos

[@wassune4134]

me when backlash because hilarity ensues

[@tylereaze2558]

I didn’t fucking stutter. It is NEVER the victim’s fault.

[@shuhuasworkshop8702]

What schools SHOULD teach: What schools ACTUALLY teach: "If Billy had 763 apples and Nayoung had 980 lemons, what is Sofia's shoe size?"

[@korvexus9922]

the answer is e

[@ahmadmujtabawazir4814]

@@korvexus9922 yes, how are you such a genius

[@ahmadmujtabawazir4814]

im 14 and im well educated its really hard to belive that someone like my uncle would do such a thing... in my country this is just not a common thing and its really rare for such a thing to happen but American parents smh if these were my parents and this happened to me I swear to god they wouldn't stop until my uncle was in jail

[@joshfilms4088]

@@korvexus9922 YOUR TOO SMART TO LET LIVE OH NO DON'T USE 50% OF YOUR POWER ON ME

[@masterchief4842]

My teacher was teaching and I said what the fuck is wrong with you

[@animegirl76155]

To all the people who were sexually abused: Im sooooo sorry this happened to you and you are all in my prayers. You didn't deserve this horrible treatment. God bless! ❤

[@cats_are_cool_too145]

Thank you so much that made me so happy! 💗 I was sexually abused twice by my 2 younger and older cousins I had selective mutism after they touched me and other stuff but I told my mom about it. but thanks 😊💗💗

[@animegirl76155]

@@cats_are_cool_too145 Your very much welcome! 😊♥️

[@EvilEnsembleStars]

It's okay, it makes me really special since barely anyone believes it was actually sexual abuse someone on my level would have to get it but still they'd be less special than me even if they get it. Only one person I know is more special than me. Anyway, I was sexually abused by my step-brother at the age of 6(I have a lot of early childhood trauma) and my brother watched and did nothing

[@animegirl76155]

@@EvilEnsembleStars ♥️

[@Lapaito-rd9xg]

Tysm i needed it a lot😭

[@I.K.11]

I was sexually abused from age 5 to age 8 by a girl 2 years older than me (I'm also a girl). I remember having such a bad feeling about what was happening to me, but I felt like I couldn't tell anyone cause of them judging me, and the girl also threatening me not to tell my parents about it. The girl was a daughter of my dads friend, so we played together and became friends. But then she started saying we should take our clothes off, and asked to touch my private area. That really made me feel dirty and she exposed me to sex so young, she basically took my innocence away. And I get how she was a child too, but that's no exuse of what happened. We stopped playing together since our dads stopped being friends, which was probably for the best. Because of that she made me feel like commiting suicide for years until I became 13 years old. Finally I got the courage to tell my mom what happened (I also found out that I was being abused when I was 9-10 years old cause of watching videos about sexual abuse). But to my surprise she was so supportive and surprised. I then told my dad and he was really upset too. Now I am in my late teens and am a Christian, God has played a big part in my healing journey. I'm sorry for the long rant, I just wanted to say this to let everyone know how much of a toll sexual abuse (or any abuse) takes on your mental and emotional state, and that you are not alone. May God bless you all. 🙏❤️

[@ChelseaPariella]

I don't understand why you kids are exposed to adult and inappropriate things. Y'all are too young for that, but it's good that you came forward with the incident. I wonder what your "friend's" punishment was.

[@nikkizorn4252]

@@ChelseaPariellaconsidering a 8-10 year old doesn’t just know about sex they must have learned it somewhere and be processing it subconsciously. I suspect their ‘punishment’ was that they were already being sexually abused themselves. Children aren’t at fault. The adults who victimised them are.

[@ChelseaPariella]

@nikkizorn4252 Yes they are and they need to stop doing that; it's stupid. They're supposed to be mature and responsible, but sadly, they're not. Can't they just leave kids alone and focus on their families or something? Cuz it sounds like they have nothing better to do than to be pedos. 🙄😒🤦‍♀️

[@CherryPie-xd8ql]

The same thing happened to my with my brother he was two years older than me and i was 8 when it first happened , disgustingly i have to see his filthy face eveyday on top of induring his shit when i fight with him and my mom is so shitty sometimes as well she sides with him alot even when she found out he sexualy assaulted me back when i was a kid and told me to never do it again (i despise her for that) ,she would go as far as to lie to justify his shit ,but im just gonna live and tolerate people's shit anyway until i gather enough money to fuck off

[@EfsaN_258]

Something similar heppened to me when i was 6 i told my parents the day it happened and never seen the "friend" ever again now i am 13 but i still have the trauma

[@lilacsilk]

Once she said, “I didn’t want to get him in trouble,” I started crying. That hit close to home.

[@mathjunior1940]

right

[@polnekwiatki9654]

I'm so sorry

[@victoriafeyTTC]

Same, sometimes I want revenge and for people to not be nice with him, but sometimes I don’t want to ruin my parents perspective of him.

[@MariaLuiiza159]

I understand that

[@lynn6524]

same

[@donthate.create]

It doesn't have to be an adult, it could be a sibling cousin, or peer.

[@kushkouture4106]

Mine was a cousin

[@sanneb1368]

Kush Kouture same

[@darthestar8791]

Ain't that the truth?

[@deepfriedspaghetti982]

Mine was my dog

[@erinmvanilla]

Exactly

[@tiffanypakidko819]

this entire video explains my experience except with my dad. my whole life my dad had been sexually assaulting me and i had no idea it was wrong since i was so use to it. until i got a little older and started puberty, i started to not see my dad as much anymore because of some drama and he was affecting my mental health, that’s when i started realised the things he would do to me wasn’t normal but i still let it happen and then i started seeing him more because he would manipulate me into seeing him and that’s when it started getting worse. recently i had finally opened up about it to my mum and she told me that was not okay and i we have to do something about it, my mum told me about how she was sexually assaulted her whole childhood as well and she knows how it feels and she wants to help me recover. i made the choice of blocking my dad and not seeing him, my mum wanted me to talk to my psychologist about all of this but at that time i couldn’t talk to her because she was away so that’s when i spoke to my school councillor and she called the police station and told them what i said so they called me and my mum and they are making it a case but it’s going to be a very long process since i have to remember everything which i physically can’t remember most of my childhood because of my dad so i’m going to get my mental health back on track and then i will talk to the cops about everything so i can get justice. and i feel much comfortable now but traumatised and guilty how i just let him do that to me and manipulate me my whole childhood. it’s been almost 2 months since i last saw him and it’s a whole heap of emotions.

[@bensmith8957]

I'm sorry that happened to you

[@AvaJal2006]

You are a very brave person wow

[@ecetuzun6928]

It is not your fault, and you are a really brave person. I hope that you will recover from all the bad feelings. May God bless you ❤🙏

[@JessicaSmith-wt9si]

I was sexually harassed by my father more than once,I understand you

[@name1044]

You are so strong and I am so proud of you ❤️ hugs

[@Pixella-he7jk]

I am so so sorry for anyone that has to go through this kind of stuff. Just remember that it's never your fault.

[@yours3629]

The fact that he said “ your no fun “ made me so MAD. He knows what he’s doing .

[@goofybutserious4807]

Everyone's always aware of what they're doing. Why else do you think we loathe people like them?

[@leeknowsnose]

@@goofybutserious4807 can you even see? They said 'he KNOWS what he's doin'

[@goofybutserious4807]

@@leeknowsnose You mean HEAR?

[@carinjansenvanvuuren8988]

I HATE it when people play on your feelings... Like REALLY? Take a look in the mirror!!

[@carinjansenvanvuuren8988]

@@goofybutserious4807 he basically had this statement in his msg tbh....

[@fi6432]

I LOVE HOW WHEN SHE REALIZED, SHE TOOK OFF THE GREEN BRACELET.

[@user-sf4zm6yk2b]

Ikr

[@beautywellness183]

Ikr

[@superior8973]

Ikr

[@SpaceRanger21]

Ikr

[@NationalAeronauticsSpaceAdmin]

E

[@Elham_32356]

The worst thing about rape is that you don't forget and you go back to that scene after a few years and the anxiety and anger take over your whole being. But you see that the person who raped you not only does not feel ashamed but continues to live a happy life Not only does your mother not support you, but she thinks that nothing special has happened, that now you have been rubbed, you wanted to be smart. And no one will ever know how devastated you are inside by something that happened years ago, and no one but you feels displaced. I wish conscience was equally shared among people One felt that the other party had not forgotten and was still ashamed I wish I had opened my mouth in time and defended myself I wish the children of this generation learn to say no so that they don't feel helpless like us. I would never open my mouth against injury and how devastated I am now I wish parents would defend their children If someone assaults your child, don't go back, you should pick up the phone and say the rudest things to him and cut off the communication completely, otherwise that child will never learn to defend himself.

[@Rexsplode1212]

Bro wrote a whole essay

[@PoopyPantsTheThurd]

a strict parent is better than a creepy relative.

[@shakeelabokhari7317]

Def

[@AC-vw8uh]

not when ur parents are abusing u having sex in front of u

[@mia-yf8pz]

what if your strict parent is the creep

[@publicalias8172]

@@mia-yf8pz Then you talk to someone you can trust about it, because even though the thought of telling someone may seem scary at first it's going to lead you to a better life.

[@axehandle6836]

"I didn't want to get him in trouble I just wanted things to be normal". That's exactly how an felt

[@Kiwi-ws4op]

Me too :(

[@dex1041]

me too :(

[@maelenia]

This is off topic, but are you ace?

[@fishboi6051]

Same :(

[@axehandle6836]

@@maelenia ?

[@Peppermon22]

Whe I told about my dad abusing me I was medicated for being “sick”

[@Cynthia-il8ju]

That just mess up.

[@justsomestuff4971]

I was baker acted and told it was all in my head. Nobody believes it when it’s a family member. I hope you’re doing well.

[@kayleesmith1268]

WT ACTUAL F?

[@bunnyx3246]

woah, thats not fair!

[@evaniceface]

That is

[@Milkyway45687]

I love that it shows that they don't always make you feel like you're nothing, sometimes they make you feel like _everything._

[@suckingdickforfood]

As a victim of SA from my foster father, I can relate to this. All of the touches and sex talk he would do to us girls when we were in he and his wife's care, is absolutely disgusting. It's been about seven years since I've seen him and I finally told my parents a few months ago. I'm still learning to cope with all the trauma the foster parents have given me. It's been tough, I can say that for sure. 😕

[@samitaraniswain71]

If you have your own parents then why did you live at a foster care previously? (Just curious)

[@suckingdickforfood]

@@samitaraniswain71 I was put in foster care for a misdemeanor.

[@samitaraniswain71]

@@suckingdickforfood what minor crime did you do? That the jurisdiction put you in a foster care?

[@suckingdickforfood]

@@samitaraniswain71 sry, I forgot the definition for misdemeanor for a sec lol. Well, i didn't do a crime. Nor did my parents. My mom was accused for using drugs but after many tests, she tested negative for all of them. So yeah-

[@suckingdickforfood]

@@samitaraniswain71 lots of kids are put in foster care over stuff that didn't rlly happen.

[@Endmysuffering3162]

I like how the Mom noticed by her tone that something was up. Respect.

[@goofybutserious4807]

Oh my god I think I recognize your pfp Is it the "am I handsome" Monster from Sweet Home?

[@Endmysuffering3162]

@@goofybutserious4807 it is! Keen eyes you got there!

[@goofybutserious4807]

@@Endmysuffering3162 :D

[@lowojii]

Do I lOoK gOoD?

[@claraanastasya4415]

but i ? no my mom don't care all about me

[@Pablomarinho10]

When he said "a cute girl with curves", I said "bruh"

[@sprite5048]

Sexual abuse is such a bruh moment right

[@Pablomarinho10]

@@sprite5048 right.

[@hatchetboi__]

SAME I- 😭✋

[@OMELOTTIE]

ALL GIRLS ARE CUTE NOT ONLY GIRLS WITH CURVES

[@hatchetboi__]

@@OMELOTTIE *ye*

[@OscarE-Zac]

As someone who never been treated nice, I feel better now, thanks therapist

[@_--Alejandro--_]

I leterally love this channel, it teaches me everything about abuse. I'm a 6th grader, so I'm really young, and this channel teaches me how to protect myself from abuse. Thanks.

[@BenjaminGoodman]

People who abuse others don’t deserve to live

[@AmyKaty214]

Benjamin Goodman Agree.

[@BenjaminGoodman]

Lonely Guy not really, abusers don’t have feelings

[@sticks2221]

Lonely Guy true they don't have to die :/

[@BenjaminGoodman]

Zaria The KZbinr technically they shouldn’t deserve life tho if they keep it up

[@Galaxy_World]

@Lonely Guy agree

[@thatcrazyfan2285]

I was sexually abused by my uncle and I told my family, my aunt wanted nothing to do with me and I wasn't allowed to see my cousins. My family didn't support me. About 5 years later I found out he was doing it to my sister. Now my parents finally wanna listen to me and now there is so much going on and I feel so alone.

[@arielevelin7181]

Thank you for sharing. I know there will be times you will feel alone, just know that Jesus is close to the broken hearted. You’re not alone 💕 Your story will be used to help/save others. I’ll be praying for you ❤️

[@fireruby1882]

Im so so so srry you went through that. You did the right thing tho

[@beeblebuice]

i was sexually abused by my uncle as well, and he had done it to his own kids before me (his wife found out and they divorced and he went to jail, when he got out i had never met him before and thats when the abuse started). i was never brave enough to tell my parents. i live in a different state now and never have to see him, but i still wish i could tell someone what happened. i just want you to know that you aren’t alone, and that you are so strong and so brave for hanging on through all of this. if you need any support, i know the RAINN textline is really good. i just wanted to briefly share my story so you would know that you aren’t alone. im so proud of you for being able to speak up about your experiences, and i really _really_ hope that you can heal in the future. i believe in you, im proud of you, you can do this. please hang in there.

[@LOREIRIN]

You said the same thing here : kzbin.info/www/bejne/mWSvYZyBpqiUeZI

[@ackerman7490]

I hope that things will get better for you, you're being really strong right now.

[@lStranger]

I think the worst thing about this type of situation is how it's handled. Our system tends to do one of two things; either shrug it off and say "there's nothing we can do", or aggressively/maliciously go after the person in question. Anyone suffering from sexual or any abuse needs support first and foremost. The most important thing is to help them resolve the issue so they can regain confidence in themselves. It's not always a case of rape and thus lets crusify them, but it can be something as simple as making inappropriate sexual comments. In that case, a stern talking to might fix the problem. If not, then you take further action such as taking more precaution around that person.

[@Ani.1105]

I don't know how society will judge because being a boy , society pictures you as a abuser not a victim. But , Back in few years - I was sexually abused by one of my female friend that I haven't share with the world. I JUST WANT TO FORGET THOSE HORRIFYING MEMORIES BUT they are not letting me do so.

[@David_Miller633]

You are lucky 😂 so

[@miyuki146]

@@David_Miller633That’s disgusting to say..

[@mariafeescajadillo5331]

Im so sorry. I'll pray for you. You didnt deserve this

[@predat0r.1110]

​@@David_Miller633wtf is wrong with u.

[@marymystery4427]

I have a couple male friends who were also abused and deal with the same problem. You are not alone, and there are people who will listen and take you seriously. Best of luck to you stranger

[@way.to.edenless]

"You're not fun" No, I'm just not comfortable with you.

[@brisjapenseboyfriendyaoi4869]

Love your profile photo!

[@way.to.edenless]

@@brisjapenseboyfriendyaoi4869 Thanks!♡

[@brisjapenseboyfriendyaoi4869]

I'm guessing it's BTS!

[@jenniemeow1316]

*Anneyong ARMY* *Stay gold, stay strong.*

[@anitasebastian3881]

@@brisjapenseboyfriendyaoi4869 that's nct

[@Sarawarawara-]

Why doesn’t school show this instead of I s a w y o u r w i l l y?

[@ashlynnketchum9017]

I HATE THE I SAW YOUR WILLY VIDEO SO MUCH

[@Nokl03]

Omg I saw this lmao

[@sM-qp5lb]

@@ashlynnketchum9017 ikr it's so cringe

[@dokushu55]

TiMmY pOsTeD a PiCtUrE oF hIs WiLlY aND sHoWeD iT tO sAlLy sO sAd 😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢

[@maiya5560]

Remember the scene where the group of adults in the bus saw him walking by and said "I saw your Willy!"

[@cassidyjanuary576]

I’m pregnant with my first baby, definitely showing him these videos when he’s of age

[@blackberrynina999]

you are going to be a good mom!

[@thedragonsquirrel]

it hurts the worst when the “adult you trust” don’t even listen or believe you😒 learned that the hard way and never told another soul after that until 3 years later.

[@VanessaLol421]

Same here. My aunt didn't believe me as well as my mom. They said that I was "seducing" him, when all I did was exist

[@thedragonsquirrel]

@@VanessaLol421 that’s awful :( I hope you’re doing ok now

[@deborahwinston102]

Hurts to see that this is way more common than I expected. No one should find such things relatable..I know we're strangers but I sincerely hope you're both OK and wish you the best.. stay strong.

[@luhver663]

literally most of the male figures in my family make me so uncomfy. i cant even wear a tank top or shorts without being uncomfortable i hate it here

[@toyeager6234]

So there are no other girls but you in your family?

[@ilovefentanyl12345]

Do you need somebody to talk to?

[@niknakahara-dazai4694]

Same!

[@minnasouen7460]

Same! That's why I don't dress up when visiting them. Tbh I only dress up when im out with my friends. I don't even dress up for school. I just always feel self conscious about the way adults especially males in my family making the compliments. I mostly wear jeans and t-shirts. It's easy to wear and it's minimal. Thanks for letting me share. Edit: I also would like to add even if i don't dress up, I don't get why I can't be pretty as well in casual clothing. Its like when we girl/woman bare our skin to the world is when it is most accepted, via the male audience. Sometimes I wonder if the rare ones only like girls for whom they are no matter how we look just liking us for us.

[@emerald3578]

They shouldn’t make you feel like that.

[@YuubiTimberwolf]

When i told my mom how grandpa touched me, she was the one to break down because he did it to her as well and she thought that he would draw the line at his grandkids. I cant wait to see his funeral.

[@onceyoujiminyoucantjimout2759]

Iam so sorry that happened to you 😢 😔 😞 💔

[@mjkpopstanweeblonelyweebbl6015]

I can't wait to see his funeral too after all he has done to you, you people deserve so much better, You guys are so strong, I could never be like you guys who goed thrue such a harsh time and Im sorry, I wish I was your friend or I wish I could've helped you. Hope you're doing atleast a bit better. Im such a scaredy cat that If a stranger ask me my name I wouldn't tell them my real name or just run away as fast as possible- Like faster then nezukos run

[@aakriti5429]

you will never recover from anything unless you do something about it he may die but what he did to you will stay in your mind forever. I think it is never too late to stand up for yourself and take action about it .

[@alexispark3504]

A lot of us r waiting for certain peoples funerals so we can be the ones smiling

[@heyhoe168]

Funerals are fun. My grandmother almost burned the house to ashes, that was satanic picture.

[@Matt_JJz]

I have never been sexually abused, thankfully. But I know people who have, and I am so proud of them for not only surviving, but overcoming it and becoming stronger people. No one and i mean no one has the right to touch you without your consent. It is your body and your life, defend it with your life. I know it is hard to stand up against this, but just know that the strength is in you and that you can do this. I and so many people believe in you even tho we do not know each other, and I hope this message at least can help one person.

[@nina.azuos.]

This is such an important topic to talk about, I’m glad you guys post these videos! Hope some parents show this to their kids/teens

[@prepslayla563]

“Age is just a number” *ah jeez. HERE WE GO AGIAN*

[@Persphone_cabin]

So is a jail sentence

[@voidsthetic2288]

A prison cell is just a room.

[@nedlooker9954]

Actually, age is a word

[@mallgoth]

So is 911

[@JavierEscuella1911]

Just as a life sentence is just a word.

[@canardfromage8002]

I mean this is a serious and important channel but unrelated, the art style for these cartoons is really pretty and fluid? Its just very visually appealing idk

[@serafeather4507]

I think it actually helps. I mean, if it is visually atractive then people stay to listen

[@mr.tadakichi1720]

Yeah, I love the animation and the voice acting is also good too.

[@LIL-DOVE]

Its meant to be for children, so a cartoonish type of video might be more familiar

[@meshers]

YES! I watched another video of theirs and watched this right after it because i loved the art

[@maripaws]

I agree.

[@NicoleBowman-zl6ev]

I got sexually abused in foster care I’m glad I found a foster mom who really cares about me

[@NorthernMouse52]

A well written and animated short film that deals with a sensitive subject in a clear and understandable way, this should be shown in every secondary school! 🙏

[@ash.6258]

I’ve been told so many times it wasn’t sexual abuse because it was my mom doing it and not my dad. Women can also be sexual abusers, I don’t know why people can’t understand that. The point is I was a child and she was an adult. End of story.

[@alexispark3504]

Fuckin preach, man. Abuse is abuse. The gender doesn’t matter. Damage has been done

[@alejandratoledo5900]

I know abuse can be made by anyone, but your mom? That's a whole new level. I am sorry you had to go through that. God bless you.

[@nurulhafizah1555]

I am so sorry. You are so brave for telling this. I hope you get help and healed. Sending love❤

[@juanitamorgan5475]

Yes it goes for all of us I was a child myself and my uncle was the adult but he still hurt me anyway and I've blamed myself for years for what happened and the worst part is that no one in my family knows about it and I don't think I'll ever have the courage to tell them

[@businessmanbrute2211]

And men who got abused probably aren't in the mental state to say it online they know if they say it to the public noone would believe them so they just suicide.... this also explains the high suicide rate of men all over the world

[@pxrveen]

i’m a boy and i have experienced the same thing. i was at 9th grade, when one of my uncle did the same thing to me and i felt really uncomfortable and insecure about myself. next day, i told to my mom about this and she was like so mad at me. telling that i shouldn’t walk like a girl, that’s why i’m getting attacked. and what made me feel so upset is that my mom said that she was embarrassed to have a son like me. if you’re a guy or girl and experienced these, it’s not your problem. i’m giving y’all love and strength. you’re not alone ❤️

[@blboysLoveKareena]

Same I also experienced it

[@hairyspiders407]

I'm sorry.

[@hairyspiders407]

@@masterchief4842 huh

[@Lavanyapeddapaka]

🤍🤍🤍 I hope you are doing well ☺️

[@usersnoone]

please youre the strongest guy ive ever seen, please acknowledge that not only females experience this and i feel so sorry for them, i hope we can respect each others in the future

[@spankyharland9845]

it is also up to the adults to weed out the perverts in their family and keep them away from young girls and boys. my parents would tell me to stay away from certain uncles...especially if they were drunk, and they would literally create a barrier as well.

[@N3verWKn0wn-bk6kg]

It's never, NEVER the victims fault.

[@DepressedTransTherian]

But if I just said no it wouldn't have happened so wdym it's not my fault :(

[@cantthinkofagooglename7114]

​@@Gibbyson19How?

[@Mrcryalot]

​@@cantthinkofagooglename7114their ideology is that it's immediately their fault if they don't fight back, which is just not true.

[@alvindzaki6085]

This channel is better than that stupid channel over there which generate stupid story and moral message.

[@kieranstark7213]

It is My Story Animated. I subbed to it.

[@noorehab8273]

I think they meant about truestory, actually happened ete where the stories are basically wrong and redicluos

[@smolbuns8108]

@@kieranstark7213 they usually exaggerate stories. This is much more realistic.

[@MasterOfViewership]

@@noorehab8273 Oh yeah. THAT channel

[@il1680]

He’s talking about ACTUALLY HAPPENED

[@Super-ic8xs]

When she wanted to speak to her mother but started crying instead, i felt that. I do that too lol

[@laxmisarma868]

a few months ago..I also tolld my mom.......

[@asphaltfanasphaltfan2555]

Cuz mothers want to think they know more then the world.

[@purplelemons6277]

I told my mom on this tuesday ...this week I cried and she cried she gave me a hug

[@armiuaena8534]

@@purplelemons6277 same here 🙂 being a girl is fuckin uncool

[@ade-oluwaspov206]

@@armiuaena8534 It is cool. We just have to trust our instincts. Are you okay?

[@VivianeAnanthi]

I can related to every to every single reactions and emotion this character went through, thank you for spreading awareness. I wish I had stumbled upon this video years ago, I might have known what to do then.

[@avabellag13]

It breaks my heart to know so many people go through this I hope you guys know its not your fault and you are truly very loved💗💗💗

[@aSECRETSproduction]

I work for a domestic violence agency and these videos have been very helpful to show clients. If you could make more videos about witnessing domestic violence I would greatly appreciate it.

[@1ali1996]

Thnx __ me too am an Arab man ___ This is really helpful

[@exhhhhh_b]

@@1ali1996 سلام

[@1ali1996]

@@exhhhhh_b حبيبي ايهم اهلين تشرفنه صديقي ....

[@willhuey4891]

there are sometimes when women stay with their abusers or if they go to jail they live in fear of what will happen when their spouse gets out.

[@axingswordlol1130]

Samantha Day, you’re a great person for working there, I hope that the people you see can get better

[@bigpimpdaddytruckernuts3754]

Yo who disliked this? A bunch of uncles?

[@vatnikexterminator9074]

Me. I disliked it the moment when the girl came crying to her mom even though the uncle hasn't even done ANYTHING to her! ...which probably even led to the uncle having problems with the law. This cartoon is such bullshit. Sexual abuse is ONLY abuse when you say "no", or at least give a clear sign of it. If she had any problem with him, she should have let him know, but instead, this bitch pretended she's okay all along and then just framed her uncle like a snake. They didn't even have sex and she cried like he literally raped her on the spot... fucking disgusting!

[@randomperson-vv5oq]

@@vatnikexterminator9074 1:57

[@thea9153]

Дмитро Скрипняк I agree tbh. I you find it uncomfortable, or know that its wrong. Say no, if that doesnt help call the damn cops, or talk to family members or something. Like Why are people such pu$$ys. Dont let an old creep touch u that way

[@Bongbongo]

@@vatnikexterminator9074 lol I wonder who will take the bait

[@backwashh]

Thea When someone makes you uncomfortable, your confidence in wanting to say something diminishes, ESPECIALLY when it’s an adult that is making you feel this way. You begin to have trust issues as well. No it’s not about being a fucking “pussy”. People are afraid to speak up because their abuser made them feel like it’s all their fault. And people like you damn well make the victims feel worse

[@blehthebutt]

Oh my god. This made me realize so many things. Thank you so much for this video.

[@junhuangzhuo2848]

Thank you for making these videos for everyone it teaches us

[@shayragulaab1859]

Some mothers trust their husbands more than their daughter 😢

[@jenny45935]

Yesss 💔

[@pinq.ish.]

AND son

[@habibi42069]

:((

[@yourdaddywhowenttobuymilk]

They don't deserve to be called MOTHER

[@mimi-milkymulti_fandoms6735]

I wish parents could listen more of their child/children

[@razarryan2465]

The dislikes are from sexual predators

[@EnvironmentallyFriendlyGacha]

Underrated comment!

[@rubyroseberry6891]

That's exactly what I was thinking!

[@fightfannerd2078]

obviously

[@jk09345568]

Yes. They do not want the truth to be told.

[@user-sf4zm6yk2b]

Ikr

[@Existing_not23]

As someone who has been through this, I could empathize with this…It’s never too late to say what happened, there will be a light to shine in the dark.

[@angie.sunflowerr_]

This is a very educational video and hit almost all the marks, on what sexual abuse can look like. I’m glad it tells people who suffered sexual abuse, it was not their fault. Nobody deserves to be sexually assaulted/raped or abused. Take care of yourselves everyone and stay safe, don’t be afraid to tell a trusted adult immediately. ❤

[@Joeyblondewolf2]

This was hard to watch. This happened to me when I was just a child with a older cousin. He wanted to rape me but I got away and said something right away. My family brushed it off like nothing, and during holidays I was expected to pretend like it didn't happen. I forgave my cousin and actually feel sorry for him. Everyone shut him off because he got into drugs and steals and doesn't really have a home. But he made his own bed. Now he has to live with it.

[@user-wj1it4gb1i]

Same one of my friends now my ex friend, got on top of me while I was in my room then I pushed him off and said "what tf are u doing?" I'm traumatized to this day

[@ratqaws]

I am so sorry for both of you I hope u all are ok

[@theGoldjey]

I feel your pain❤️ exactly my story as well this holiday season was tough I had so much time to think about due to the pandemic and it made it all worse. This is the last Christmas I pretend it's all fine with me.. He still lives with this mom at 30, never had a girlfriend and is miserable I do feel that the universe does look out for people. That you reap what you sow. Doesn't make it better on the bad days but the regular ones it does help a little bit to know he's not winning at life :)

[@meowmeow9144]

I'm so sorry. I feel your pain that when your abuser is a family or relative your own family just brush it off which irks me. Sending my hugs.

[@drogo1913]

I'm with you on this...it happened 17yrs ago with me ex stepdad and for the longest time I couldn't tell anyone especially my mom, they knew each other "platonically" from high school and that just made it more difficult to say anything. I didn't understand any of this and was creeped out, he even paid me to keep quiet...it's been dealt with and I NEVER have to see the bastard again but It didn't just traumatize me mentally, I'm so physically traumatized the very thought of getting touched intimately/non-intimately terrifies me to this very day!

[@blackqweenmars]

The fact that the uncle was a well dressed man that seems kind and respectful was even more accurate. Sexual assault doesn’t have to be from the crackhead on the street or the obese and hairy 40 year old man who catcalls random teens. It can be from people who you care about and trust and love you and it doesn’t have to be hardcore penetration or ripping your clothes off and pushing you against the wall. It can be as simple as touching you in strange ways or saying/asking weird things from you and you might not know or even somewhat enjoy it until way later when you realize that it wasn’t normal and that you were taken advantage of.

[@94namnam]

Especially if this "well dressed man" helped you and your family. And you trust him with your life

[@tahraethestoryteller6079]

To be fair, Steve also falls under the stereotypical rapist Older White middle aged man, 5 O’clock shadow, graying at the sides, an uncle

[@originalname8541]

@The Padded Cell you know the situation is real, right?

[@anshu223]

Exactly, the same happened with me.

[@creepstone8621]

Damn, that's insane, man.

[@jessycass1900]

Thanks for creating this kind of content. It will be so helpful!

[@7Write4This9Heart7]

This is so great and important! Love it! They need to show this stuff on TV and in schools, seriously! Can you guys make videos on emotional/psychological child abuse? That's what I survived, and I think it's just as important, if not more!

[@neighborlu]

this NEEDS to be shown in schools. as someone who is a survivor of sexual harassment, i feel like this video would have helped me see it more easily edit: ok can people please stop taking pity on me? i already said im over it-

[@alishagee3450]

agree, raising awareness to children would save them.

[@kaylarevuelta3988]

Are you ok?

[@neighborlu]

@@kaylarevuelta3988 Yes, I've gotten professional help with the situation and I'm getting over it. ^^

[@kaylarevuelta3988]

@@neighborlu ok good

[@alishagee3450]

@@neighborlu don't hesitate to connect if you need someone to talk to

[@bbunny727]

so we gonna ignore the fact that he left the babies alone while he went on a drive with her

[@TheUser69420]

*oh shid*

[@doublenaut443]

somebody was going to watch them he said so i think they are not lying

[@bbunny727]

@@doublenaut443 k

[@aungsay3283]

He said his wife got the kids. He didn’t just leave them by themselves.

[@bbunny727]

@@aungsay3283 nice

[@TomokoChan]

It can come in a lot of ways and with any family member... It happened to me with my little brother (seven years younger) and I was 24... I was in denial at first. I was able to told my family a year later after asking my therapist to help me telling them what was happening... My two brothers believed me and didn't leave me alone I'm still haunted by the memories and even though I'm not in that house anymore I still have problems to sleep properly. It's never too late to ask for help, there's people out there who loves you and really cares about you ❤

[@Juli0_00]

This is productivity! This video will truly help me.

[@Sassynbluntaf]

The worst part is even if you tell, they sweep it under the rug and pretend everything's fine (I didn't mean to discourage any victims I was just sharing my experience with this)

[@noya6006]

I can relate to this.....

[@ahmadmujtabawazir4814]

tbh its really hard to believe that someone like your uncle would do such a thing but American parents... smh if these were my parents and this happened to me I swear to god they wouldn't stop until my uncle was in jail

[@Sassynbluntaf]

@@ahmadmujtabawazir4814 wasn't an uncle for me, a disabled cousin

[@ahmadmujtabawazir4814]

@@Sassynbluntaf disabled??

[@Sassynbluntaf]

@@ahmadmujtabawazir4814 physically

[@deadective]

my brother sexually abused me multiple times when i was 7-9 years old. i didn't wanna tell my mother because my aunts ex boyfriend did the same thing to me around the same age. when i told my mom she just brushed it off. she told me to "hide behind the shed" whenever he visited our garden. the things that my brother did to me still plague me to this day as he visits us every other day of the week. i have to hear his voice and look at his face and it's hurting me. i'm lucky to have friends that distract me with phone calls and texts whenever he's around. i really love and cherish them

[@elishamariejacosalem679]

I really hope ur okay, please stay safe love you.

[@cake4964]

Omg 🙊 im so sorry for you 😭😭😭 get better soon 🖤❤🖤

[@emogirl-qm9jv]

I understand you. I was sexually abused by my older brother as well when I was 10 and it lasted until I was 12. He would treat it as a "game between siblings". I was always afraid of speaking up because he would tell me that if I said something he would do something to me as if what he was doing was not bad enough. I called him out when I was 12 (he was 16) and that is when he "apologized" but it never healed. When I was 15, my cousin (who was 21 at the time) started to do things to me and touched forcibly and I would cry every night wondering if what I had been thru was not enough. I could not speak because we all lived in a big house together and I did not want to make things harder than it was for my parents, so I pretended that it never happened. To this day, I currently live with my brother and parents. My mom now knows the whole story IN DETAIL about my cousin and my brother and said it was a "teenage phase". She made me feel that I was an experiment to them since I was the only young female of that house. Never told my dad because he has a very severe heart condition and I don't want to make him feel my misery since he is the only person who has shown me genuine parental love. It gets to you, when people you think are supposed to support you do these nasty things to you, creating a double standard that if they were complete strangers, they would not hesitate to put them behind bars, but since its family they do not do justice. I promised myself I would hold them accountable.

[@nickfilippos3340]

@@emogirl-qm9jv You thought and did the right thing. Remember that family is kind of a pact between people (an ancient one, sure). You are not isolated in this micro system (unless physically so). There is always someone out there who is able to help you, if you feel like you need an extra hand to break free.

[@gregoryzamora9009]

Call the police

[@PREPPY-REBECCA_slayssss]

ITS ALWAYS THE UNCLE 💀

[@As__Ya]

Such videos are very necessary! Thank you for jog!❤️

[@Fionacle]

YES! She took that bracelet off by the time she’s narrating this! Cut free from that creep!

[@magnetsonfridges]

I didn’t even notice this!! Amazing!

[@user-sf4zm6yk2b]

YES!

[@bat7320]

For me it is bullying and sexual abuse. And knowing that my step dad wants to keep the sexual abuse under wraps from the world. So what Happened me and my family went overseas to visit my step dad's family. It was fun, we went to the beach and went to a little carnival there. I was probably around 9 or 12 at the time if my memory serves me right. Some months later my mom and step dad left me at a friend's house. The lady that they left me with was supposed to stay to watch me but she left someplace and left me alone with my step dad's brother. His name is Ali. I was laying with my arms behind my head relaxing by a couch and watched TV. He sat next to me and that's when he started to touch my breasts. He even went as far as to put his hand under my shirt and would squeeze my nipples. I was so scared that I pretended that I was asleep. I felt so sick and shaky during this. After some time he stopped and his brother came to pick me up. I was so scared the whole drive back to my step dad's mom's place which was where me and my family were temporarily staying untill we found another place to stay. I didn't tell anyone what had happened because I felt like I had no rights and that I thought nobody would believe me. The sexual abuse didn't end there unfortunately. He would get in my face and kiss me on the lips. He even did it while I was standing behind my mom while she was on the computer. I wanted so bad to tell her what happened but I couldn't. On the last day when me and my family were at the airport my mom left me sitting next to him and when she was gone he forced me to kiss him. He grabbed my head and did it. When my mom came back from wherever he quickly pushed my head down to make it look like I was resting my head down on his lap. My mom asked if I needed to go to the restroom with her and I said yes. As we were there I told her what happened. She made me kiss her lips the same way he did to me. I felt so sick. We left and went to catch the plane and while we did that she gave him a look and left. My step dad wasn't with us during our second trip so it was only me my mom and two little brothers and that monster abusing me.

[@sarahsierra8205]

I feel you🙁

[@yuishi3714]

YOU NEED MORE DAMN LIKES!!!!

[@kynaluniticpenguin7555]

Me too I was sexually abused by my grandpa sadly But I will tell the whole story about my grandpa. I met my grandpa around 2010 I thought. And i was three around that time, and when I met my grandpa and grandma I was happy to meet them, thought my grandpa would be perfect but I was wrong about him. He would touch my private parts and he would sometimes go to the bathroom with try to touch my body but I stopped him and we laughed it off. Years later

[@ashsznz]

its gonna happen to me, my dad keeps trying to touch my hips or my thighs.. im seriously scared.

[@_faith_6958]

I've had similar experiences with both my uncle on my moms side, and my grandpa on my dad's side. With my grandpa it was a slow build up over the years after my grandma died. I was young and chalked it up to he was lonely, and needed a friend. He'd kiss me on the lips and I'd tell him I didn't like it, he'd promise he'd stop and then the next time he saw me he'd do it again. I thought he just didn't remember since he was old. I didn't want anyone to get in trouble, because my dad was really close to his dad, and I didn't want my 'wrong' feelings to get in the way of that. Plus I was scared that since I'd let it go on for so long my parents would get mad at me for not saying anything sooner. The thing with my uncle was a lot shorter, only lasting a few days, but it was worse. He came to visit us. Me and my siblings shared a room with him and he and I slept in the same bed since it was the biggest. He'd wait until my siblings were asleep and then tell me to do things that I didn't even know what they meant at the time. I wasn't even brave enough to tell my parents myself. He tried doing something and I made up the excuse that i had to go to the bathroom. My mom and dad were still awake and I guess something about me was off because my mom followed me to the bathroom to ask what was wrong. I told her everything, she hugged me and calmed me down, and then brought me to tell my dad. My uncle came out to see what was taking me so long and my parents confronted him about it. He said I was lying and to this day denise it ever happened. I'm not sure what happened after that but he was gone the next morning. I'm just glad I was their only target. My sister recently told me that our grandpa tried to do the same to her, but she's way stronger and more assertive than I am

[@mvleksa]

Well made and educative, good job!

[@whee2387]

The exact same thing happened with my grandad from the time I was 12-almost 14. I didn’t realize until recent years that the grooming actually started when I was 10 or 11. He was a completely normal grandad my whole life before then, to my knowledge and memory anyway. Her story feels so much like mine, except I didn’t get help nearly as soon as she did. The thoughts, the feelings, the progression, everything. I didn’t realize he was grooming me or abusing me until things got to a certain point that I won’t describe. I thought things were weird but I figured he was just odd and didn’t mean his behavior “that way” until things got to that point. By the time I realized, it felt “too late” to get help. I thought it was my fault to some extent. Then, another family member around my age who he began abusing convinced me to go to some adults about the abuse. I’m a grown & married adult now in my 20s. My grandma stayed with him and has nothing to do with me. My extended family was kinda broken after that, which I feared would happen, but I don’t regret it. I’d do the same thing again.

[@johnathandeperalto1391]

This is actually a cinematic masterpiece lol

[@astoruforealityen2723]

666 likes bro

[@astoruforealityen2723]

Sorry had to break it

[@astoruforealityen2723]

The 666 likes

[@astoruforealityen2723]

What the hell

[@astoruforealityen2723]

I can comment

[@catlover6663]

It’s soo heartbreaking having to scroll down and see others stories of how they got sexually abused. 😭 To all those people, I hope you are doing alright. Remember to stand up for yourself and tell a trusted adult!! 🧡

[@fatoshysi1014]

*:(*

[@shaimashaima299]

Omg pls you're so cute 😭💕💕

[@alkasingh7227]

Yes u are true..

[@shivanivyas6973]

Yess my body n mind feels so ugly to know about this type of story 💔💔😫😫😥

[@swaegblue62]

Thank you so much💗

[@emiko4889]

This made me feel better and know I’m not alone. But the sad thing is that I’m not. It isn’t rare for stuff like this to happen

[@deylinconnors2147]

I can so relate to this story because my grandfather did this to me when i was only 12 years old.... Its scary but if you feel uncomfortable and are experiencing abuse like thus. Tell someome you trust so it can stop and keep you safe

[@JackthePumpkincat]

One of my fears is leaving my child with a babysitter because I don't know much about who they really are.

[@jacealpha7413]

Totally!!!

[@reaganruthie2176]

When i was little the nearby church leader (if you know what Mormonism is... he was the bishop) would babysit me because he had all the trust in the world from that neighborhood. He penetrated me at 5. Definitely be cautious of babysitters. They may be someone who you literally believe is gods helper

[@jacealpha7413]

@@reaganruthie2176 I'm sorry that happened to you!

[@jacealpha7413]

@@reaganruthie2176 I'm sorry that happened to you!

[@jacealpha7413]

@@reaganruthie2176 I'm sorry that happened to you!

[@LEELOLKH]

The only family member I trust are my parents and siblings

[@MrCODEmaster00]

And your siblings probably trust you to stay quiet when they climb into your bed at night, as you give yourself up so they don't fight you down and make it take longer.

[@goldensunflower6761]

@@MrCODEmaster00 excuse me, but what the fuck??

[@rukablackburn9526]

Read previous comments Someone literally abused by brother

[@goldensunflower6761]

@@rukablackburn9526 ....that doesn't mean all siblings are like that okay?? stop making them paranoid. They trust them, so leave. them. alone.

[@rxndxm_mf861]

@@goldensunflower6761 yeah a proper respective brother will always love you and will give thier life for you (don't get the wrong idea of this, I just wanted to point out how should a bond between siblings be)

[@jaredbrandyburg3889]

Thanks Emilia I'm Glad we have this talk about skip Sexual abuse

[@abigailfarmer2339]

I’m so super duper glad that I have an actually nice uncle who isn’t weird. Most situations of sexual abuse in families come from fathers/uncles/etc.

[@christineann4746]

Sexual abuse in a family really exist. I was once abused by my brother and I'm still carrying the trauma.

[@AustriaCH]

Omg i feel so sorry for you it's really hard to forget something like this especially if it traumatized you :(

[@iHitYouLikeBang]

Sorry mhiemaaars😢

[@blancarugerio39]

Seek counseling , help . You can go through this . Best wishes .

[@bonitoflakes1285]

I was also abused by my brother. I was probably around 5-7 years old when it first started happening and it didn’t stop until I was 10. I’m 23 and I just told my mom. She said her brother did it to her too. I really don’t know how to feel but it feels good to have gotten it off my chest.

[@sewamazing4498]

Same here

[@fea_puta1]

Why does this happen? This world is disgusting

[@SiliconDrifter]

Cored like an apple

[@Thommyboi-yq2qy]

Every day we stray further from god

[@TestChannelOfcourse]

That's what makes Earth so beautiful

[@Bongbongo]

@@TestChannelOfcourse not really. I can tell your just tryna be edgy but you are a little right. A world without evil is a worse world. Balance is important

[@gta-ju1ov]

Because people are DISGUSTIN and like sex so much

[@elizabethjohnson-wg9ts]

My own bio parents sexually abused me for years and I didn't think I was safe anywhere near any of my family members besides my brother and he was abused but not in a sexual way and I thought I could tell my aunt but it turned out she was being sexually abused by my bio dad too (her own brother) but as soon as she found out it was happening to me she found all of us a way out and i'm so grateful for her but sadly my brother and I had been sent to live with foster parents so we couldn't see her anymore but my bio dad went to prison and my bio mom didn't get into any trouble at all so she is still out there somewhere and i'm always so scared she will find me and "make me pay" (she said that as the cops took her away)

[@magicshop4829]

I am so sorry that happened to you. I hope you're fine and your foster parents take great care of you But what about your aunt. Is she fine?

[@elizabethjohnson-wg9ts]

@@magicshop4829 i have no way of knowing but i just hope shes doing okay. Also my Foster parents have adopted me and my older brother and they love and care for us the best they can

[@magicshop4829]

@@elizabethjohnson-wg9ts That's really great to hear😊

[@randomstranger8938]

​@@elizabethjohnson-wg9ts I'm so sorry that happened! How long did it last for, if I may ask? Sorry if this is inappropriate

[@elizabethjohnson-wg9ts]

@@randomstranger8938 the first time i ever remember them touching me and making me feel uncomfortable when i was 4 years old and i didnt really tell anyone until i was 9 so it happened for 5 and a half years

[@FreeAudioSFX]

Great work as always

[@jigenese]

I was sexually abused by my biological father. he and my mom divorced when I was about five or so, but he used to touch me in inappropriate ways and would lock me up in a closet for hours if I ever did something to annoy him. I was only a small child so ofc I didn't know any better, didn't know that was wrong and couldn't ask for help. for all I know, he was like this for much longer and I can't even remember it. I finally broke my silence when I was around 13, not long after one of my best friends took his own life. everything just kind of broke out of me at that time, I ended up in a mental hospital where I was able to be diagnosed with depression and PTSD. I received the help I needed, I know I would've killed myself that day hadn't my school counselor called the police to Baker Act me. now I'm 18 years old, turning 19 this year, an out transman and am about to start college. I'm majoring in psychology to hopefully help others the way I've been helped. I sincerely hope that anyone out there who may be going through anything similar to what I've been through, those who have been hurt by a family member or groomed over the internet (don't trust people on discord, found out the hard way as a kid that love doesn't equal nudes), may be able to find their own peace. just know that help is out there and you are not alone

[@glocksantana853]

I was sexually assaulted multiple times by multiple people since from when I can remember 3 years old, up until I was 14. i just turned 20. everyday is confusing numb pain. Im sorry you went through all that and im glad you got help, and good luck with your college stuff :))

[@glocksantana853]

Reading that made me tear up

[@jigenese]

@@glocksantana853 I'm so sorry to hear that you went through this :( I genuinely hope for your happiness and wish you a successful future

[@foreverinchrist6198]

@@glocksantana853 I am really touched by your comment and I feel your pain Last year October I felt abandoned broken and an outcast and had no one to turn to but in that moment of desperation was when I decided to open up the bible app on my phone and I started to read the book of proverbs I started to feel remorseful and realised that the life I was living was an attempt to feel true love and happiness but that was something that always didn’t feel right and that was because I didn’t know God our creator and was constantly trying to fill a void only he can fill because that’s how we are all created. And so when I had nowhere and no one to turn to the ONLY person there for me was Jesus and he said I love you and I’ve been waiting for you to come and at that moment I felt this peace in my heart and I was overwhelmed with the love of God and now 9 months down the line I’ve been loving Jesus ever since and he’s always been watching over me listening to me and answering my prayers. And after reading your comment I can see me of Last year who all I needed was to come to Jesus again wholeheartedly just as I am and accept his love he’s always knocking but he waits for us to answer first. And he doesn’t condemn or judge us of our sins or wrong doings but instead gives us his Holy Spirit which will strengthen and help us to do what is right in God’s sight and the best part is God is ENOUGH. He is more than any woman/ man/ friend could ever be although having a woman/ man/ friend is nice but trust me once you have God everything else will fall in place. Jesus loves you he died so that your sins can be forgiven and if you believe in him you will have eternal life there is hope beyond death I hope you have a blessed day😇

[@daguroswaldson257]

Oh, my goodness! I'm so sorry! I don't agree with you decision on being trans but I think I see why you decided to do so. Such action from him is utterly condemned by the Scripture and if it were up to me, I'd have your biological father, castrated and forced to eat his own genitalia.

[@JessicaZane4realz]

I wish people would talk about not only the fact that some of us get sexually abused and have to go through therapy for it, but some of us get sexually assaulted and we actually orgasm because physically I guess our body likes it, but mentally we are hating it. My psychiatrist said this actually does happen but for some reason it's just making things even harder for me to move on and I can't even like have a serious relationship because it just messes me up so much. But nobody ever talks about that part of the abuse because I think it adds to the torment later on.

[@gayathrimasadi2371]

this is so true. And to make things worse, a cousin sexually assaulted me. An elder brother. It torments me everyday and i just wanna be able to tell my parents soon

[@gayathrimasadi2371]

@RF I'm working on it. It's just that my mum will be really sad and i really dont want to see her like that. It's also really hard to tell them because mentally, we really want to tell them but when we go forward to do it, I just am not able to. I am doing a bit better now, thanks to these videos and my assaulter not being around anymore. Thanks for taking the time to ask. I really appreciate it.

[@hotaru8309]

@@gayathrimasadi2371 Do you live with family? I wanted to ask, not to invade, but because if family shares your space or is very close by, it affects the situation and makes it feel harder to tell.

[@Ett.Gammalt.Bergtroll]

Its the same thing as “It wasn’t rape, he had an erection!”. Bodies are simply going to respond to physical stimuli regardless.

[@coconutmomentyeah]

Before anyone comments anything rapey or stupid, just don’t. And yeah. Saying people like it because physically their body is reacting to it as it does, is like saying someone likes stress because your forcing them to smile at gunpoint.

[@shaikhtanveer3998]

This story can be relatable to so many people and me too this is so help full to them to understand what to do but sometime u cannot say to anyone in ur life not even ur parents

[@a.m.c.c.3356]

What I never understood Is why FAMILY AKA RELATIVES sexually abuse each other...like sexual abuse is wrong in anyway but....incest....like

[@beanmaster69]

The incest part can be ignored by people who do this, and can even be a factor of their "attraction". There's also the factor of if the abusee has an obligation to their family, which helps the abuser keep what they've been doing secret.

[@cousinnips3333]

as someone who’s been abused...they usually ignore the fact that it’s incest. they just want to use your body, it’s not even about you. it’s only for your body and their pleasure. that’s why they befriend you first. it’s a type of grooming method, they want your trust.

[@doublenaut443]

they basically see you as a piece of meat that can be used at that point

[@tamirisgaelzer1902]

Because it's about power and the power imbalance in family hierarchies is just something else they like to use to their favour

[@seapop2629]

Because it's easier with manipulation

[@cheetahchan]

my cousin would talk about sex, puberty and sexual things. i would always feel uncomfortable until he would ask me to show him my body. saying its "normal" and no one will know. But everytime he asks me that, I would always tell him no. he keeps asking but I would never accept his request. everyday when we would meet, id pretend everything is fine,but in the inside I feel so uncomfortable around him

[@meloetta1542]

If it still happens please tell someone

[@user-ku1vo1zo8n]

my cousin wouldn't even get to finish the sentence i would have drop kicked him or something

[@gemini_2372]

If those kind of things make you uncomfortable, tell him or tell an adult. Tell your parents, grandparents, uncle or aunt about it. Your cousin sounds very immature for saying "its normal" and "its fine don't worry about" and stuff like that if it makes you uncomfortable talking about it. Don't feel like you have no one to talk to because you do.

[@salviarifdah2730]

Please get help, please. You know that you are uncomfortable. You gotta talk to a responsible adult to set things up. You have to do the best thing for yourself.

[@noorehab8273]

You should tell someone who you trust that's the best choice

[@AmaniMohamed-jb6dg]

😢you never can trust in anyone exactly in this time cause everyone can try to abuse and exploit you in sexual and anything else 😢❤im really happy to find this video to advise me and tell me the right way to treat anyone cause i need to take care of myself

[@GODSAVETHEQUEENTHEFACISTREGIME]

these vids are so educational and they are catoons very good for kids to watch.

[@deamorebeaute2412]

I was abused by my own biological father at the age of 12. It took me roughly two years to work up enough courage to tell my mother about the abuse because I didn't know how to express what was happening to me.

[@bensmith8957]

I'm sorry that happened to you

[@thatoneblueberry2738]

Hate to admit it but happened with my biological brother...that's how I knew what sex and this stuff was actually. I got the courage to tell my mom after like...3 yrs?

[@Meowqueen344]

Horu now?

[@margaretrangel7223]

I was abused by my moms boyfriend at 12 for almost a year. When I told her she did nothing besides tell me to just stay away from him.. it wasn’t until I told friends at school that the police got involved. He was sentenced to 16 years and my mom was charged with failure to report a crime which is basically a slap on the wrist for her.

[@g4sp4r40]

Hey im so sorry about what happened to you. I hope you can fully heal and keep on helping others with your story. I want to recommend you reading eckhart tolle’s book. “The power of now”, the bible and the tao te king to heal both mentally and spiritually. Apart from that please take care of your brain by healthy diet and training so that you can handle your emotions better. Read about nutrition for the brain and try to be the best versión of yourself from now on by helping yourself and helping those around you. God bless.

[@eleah2256]

I told my mother and she doesn't take me seriously and gets mad when I'm "too dramatic". Luckily I'm in my twenties, and can take measures myself. It just sucks to feel so invalidated.

[@meghnalekshman4137]

I'm so sorry she said that to you. You're not being too dramatic. Wish I could send you lots of warmth

[@daphneesperanza]

You're not being too dramatic. We're here for you!

[@chaosincarnate7304]

Disown your mom. If she cares about you she'll know she was wrong. Usually people who say stuff like that are just ignorant and need to be educated or atleast taught a lesson. If she doesn't care about losing her daughter she never cared in the first place.

[@Randomela]

@@chaosincarnate7304 how do you disown your mom? i thought only parents could disown

[@lipton3120]

@@Randomela Well u need to prove to the court that you living with your parents is actually hurting your welfare. Saying this off my memory though could be wrong

[@BESTCONTENT69]

This important message must be spread across the internet. People literally joke about it, but it’s just so terrible. I have no personal experience, but I hope that those who have surpass it and transfer the message on.

[@ttyn-dz5rp]

I’m happy my mom had taught me to tell her whenever my family or anyone touches me, I hope other people knows better and tells their parents.

[@Lilgreenboy46]

If you look closely she ends up not keeping the wristband at the end

[@collisionstone404]

Oh yeah I just noticed by now

[@kat9596]

When he said *Your a cute girl and you got the curves * I was like boi don't do dat👁️👄👁️

[@just_ise4418]

@Some annoying person yeah you live up to your name

[@kaylarevuelta3988]

@Some annoying person checked your channel. Hate it.

[@liammw9752]

@@kaylarevuelta3988 Checked your body. Hate it.

[@kaylarevuelta3988]

@@liammw9752 how have you seen my body?

[@moonoftheblood]

@@liammw9752 even if your could see their body, bodyshaming someone is not an argument and it's just a pointless shitty thing to do.

[@ArtysCozy_Aubrey]

I'm glad i found this video...

[@LuminescentLumine]

This felt so real, i had an exact situation like this when I was younger

[@mirakhan7597]

My sister abused me for a year... When I grew up I told my mom but she said, " maybe I misunderstood because how can a girl can abuse another girl." she also asked me to hide it cuz nobody likes a abused person.

[@bensmith8957]

I'm sorry that happened to you

[@voidsthetic2288]

gender doesn't matter... girls are human beings and can abuse other people if they are not good at heart. your trauma is valid. What happened to you was not your fault.

[@a.t.1241]

Related to the "hide" part... That's not true. You need to speak with a trusted person about it, and if they really care about you in a good way, they will accept and support you regardless of your past. So, take courage!

[@nevaehlheaven]

My mom went through the same thing as me and felt bad because she was so careful to put me around only people she trusted. My cousin was one of the few people I could actually spend the night over with and she. Man I felt so bad for years around girls it makes me cry. I always got to be strong. I try to protect my other cousins and second cousin from evil. Kids deserve to be protected. And I guard them.

[@kjsworld2112]

I feel sick in my head pray for me