Sexual fantasies as a portal to self-acceptance and inner freedom | Lucia Cordeiro Drever | TEDxCU

[@mingcheng_hsieh]

it's quite true that we people tend to think the negative solutions first than the positive ones when facing the crisis, we may try to walk around to see different scenery and have a good mood.

[@lemmymemmy]

I think this could also apply to other parts of ourselves such as the less seen things (negative emotion) we have. Being truthful to yourself will make it a lot easier to live. Denying that we are angry about a wronging done to us or someone we love, not acknowledging that we are sad or heartbroken about something, pushing whatever we really want for ourselves in life to the back of our head because we’re scared of failure or afraid to break out of our comfort box- this all ties in together. Refusing to accept yourself, ALL of yourself will keep you chained down. Living life to the fullest (whatever it is in your opinion) will come when you choose to acknowledge all parts of you. This is all in my opinion and take from what they said. Maybe they didn’t mean it like that but it’s what I got from the video.

[@deborahdean8867]

I don't think that was what she was talking about at all . It's clear what she was talking about and it's fine if you want sn intimate relationship with your own ego. But it was a great self relocation about what is on your mind!

[@lemmymemmy]

@@deborahdean8867 I don’t think you understood what I said either. It’s not about having an “intimate relationship with your own ego” it’s about understanding yourself. Knowing who you are and how you feel very frequently even helps people manage their anger, their actions, and how they articulate themselves. I also don’t appreciate those little jabs at me you tried to take but keep it cute and have yourself a day you deserve.

[@sharayutravels]

Honestly this lady brings up topics which occupy minds of everyone. She is also right, it should spoken as topic and not to be made a taboo or otherwise have crazy extreme reactions to such talks.

[@Ablecore]

“From the fear to awe” A path to our purest self we left behind long ago “I ask you to remember again, Tough work!” Nancy Friday (Bernard)

[@dittagecoeco2738]

This talk Is a true gem! Rare topic, precise, thoughtful, documented, funny and useful too!!

[@njannuzzi]

Brilliant and eye opening! Congrats!!

[@mianti69]

Lust, on the other hand, celebrates self-indulgence. Love comes with open hands and open heart; lust comes with only an open appetite.

[@BigHenFor]

They come from the same place. Respect, and make friends with your demons. Ignore them, and they'll destroy you out of frustration. Understand them and maintain your boundaries, and you'll never be alone again.

[@coffeeseven]

@@BigHenFor very well said.

[@coffeeseven]

@Shadow69 You say lust and self indulgence like they're bad things. It's part of life. Healthy emotions shouldn't exclude them or you'll wind up feeling guilty all the time.

[@mianti69]

@@coffeeseven so, you are repressing priorities over instant gratification without even looking for red flag in the way!!?? 😂😂 You'll end up in very deep waters my friend...each and every time

[@coffeeseven]

@@mianti69 I'm a good swimmer. Sometimes I float. Have a great day.

[@sunnyskytarot]

Well I think she's brilliant

[@mihaelaclaudiap..2]

I only live with fantasies lately (2 years), I wish I could live with the real deal sometimes ha,ha!

[@TrashHere]

Um… give a shout :)

[@irfanmehrazulhoque804]

Thank you 💐

[@dark_red_blood]

The wolf you feed wins, if you want to feed 'want' then that's on you, like smoking cigarettes, whenever I smoke I crave more and more and never get full.

[@gamer9720]

I'm sure the comments on this one are gonna be awful LOL

[@cocofingerfamilysong]

lol

[@ManyHeavens42]

Wrong baby

[@pass-the-juice]

you mean they'll disagree with your opinion?

[@laurabustos6560]

It certainly doesn't seem risque so far... Mostly ppl saying this is exactly what's wrong w "woke" Americans.

[@dementus420]

Should be a goldmine.

[@managementstudy7203]

This is naturally but not comfortable to talk in society, I thik we can talk on this topic,,and thank you for giving your openion 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@dementus420]

I'm also ashamed of my eroticism.

[@abrirlaimagen8949]

Loved this talk, so inspiring, thank you Lucia, you rock!!!

[@crystalc8254]

I really enjoyed this talk. Really gave me somethings to think about

[@tomconcitis9322]

Fantasies originate in learned experiences from art, entertainment, readings and videos, and story telling. Sounds like therapists also are sources to fantasies

[@user-hf4eh2ts3q]

These people are like "Hedonism Bot " on Futurama.

[@dylanbuchman8128]

That last segment was great 👌

[@pass-the-juice]

when all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.

[@princeyadav_7573]

I really learn something this channel

[@flexa41]

Some fantasies are best left being a fantasy.

[@banksta654]

Real eyes realize real lies

[@Idkokyes]

This was amazing! Thank you! ❤❤❤🌈

[@vikinginspace4881]

TED talks how really become low frequency now

[@deborahdean8867]

They sure have, what happened?

[@andrewfetterolf7042]

CU boulder is full of disagreeable people

[@smallfootprint2961]

Good talk. Love the accent.

[@anubhavforall]

I have experienced this and I affirm this is very very true!

[@cocofingerfamilysong]

yeh

[@Ablecore]

Yes it’s a path to our purest self that we left behind

[@deborahdean8867]

Are you married now? Are you loved more than anything by your devoted spouse? How long have you been married?

[@annamaegold]

Thank you. 🕊

[@Kami-mk7tu]

The comments luckily aren't too bad

[@swarleystinson6733]

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[@dennyduane]

"They get really excited for me." 😂

[@cocofingerfamilysong]

me to

[@suyashishan1960]

Shortest 14 min video I ever watched

[@davidryan7386]

this is completely wrong. your true self is an integration of body, heart and mind with your spirit. not a fantasy trip.

[@davidryan7386]

and yes, I have tried this tack, it leads to dispersion and decadence.

[@onefishtwofish2771]

It's the lowest low but since it gives momentary jolts, most assume it to be the highest high.

[@CodeNameSlicerYT]

Taboo and important. Just interesting.

[@ilhamshebani7482]

Interesting 🤔

[@cocofingerfamilysong]

yeh

[@lunaticplantlover]

Thank you Lucia, this was really helpful and much much needed. 🧡

[@Hummingbird25]

This presenter is very well spoken and funny

[@siddhantjadiya3757]

This was great knowledge about human psyche and yes i also want to try different fantasies in my mind but waiting for that someone.

[@mart7615]

😱😱😱😱 God help us!!

[@hmahmud34792]

RIP ted talks

[@theavengers.]

Nice another Ted talk

[@alteredillusions100]

Very good points,

[@jagadeeshkumar5251]

GOOD VIDEO

[@seididumol837]

Surely,..nice

[@اصيلعصاماليافعي]

~ interesting topic to talk about .. 👌🙂 that's the nature of us .

[@aayushkumar9355]

Tbh, this is useless in real life.

[@silviat8759]

What is her accent? Scottish? I like it...🥰

[@fullup91]

Not Scottish. It's American-ish but she's not native.

[@silviat8759]

@@fullup91 thanks 😇

[@simpdown1404]

This talk deserves an acoustic accompaniment of Cardi B. and Meg Thee Stallion’s WAP 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ethicseo]

Jesus can change your life ❤️✝️

[@AHHHyleen]

🤣

[@macedonian4life536]

Ahhh yes 🤝🤝the religious enthusiast, well Jesus.... and knowledge of virtually and literally everything else. We need to consume information constantly so this vid isn't all too bad. But ultimately I'd agree with religion

[@Iam-qp4md]

He also could've stopped child abuse but we won't go there..

[@ethicseo]

@@Iam-qp4md Human need God to stop child abuse, we are 100% agree, but people leave without God...

[@DaRyteJuan]

Not necessarily for the better though.

[@Qwerty8]

Well, how to solve fear: stop going to churches 🤷

[@ZPositive]

There's a word that begins with gr and ends in oomer.

[@ZPositive]

@@Dimitris_Half no it doesn't. Happily married man over here. But I must've hit the mark if I triggered you that much.

[@GlennSteffy]

What a pile of bs. Where are the solid videos???

[@weme11]

What a nonsense. Nothing important to learn from here. Only diversion to escape the reality.

[@ManyHeavens42]

I make earthquakes everyday

[@Mir_Aakib]

It's sad that i couldn't fantasize about you Lucia. otherwise you've proven your point.

[@VeganChiefWarrior]

that off tone on the end of her words is expressing the wrong emotion.. thats like an irish scottish complaining to your son about something he just wont stop doing tone lol

[@puneetrana575]

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[@lauriewolomor7435]

very good speech

[@jaygee5344]

This is what's wrong with America in it's current "woke" state.

[@rayau6443]

Tedu talks

[@cocofingerfamilysong]

yeh

[@aj28b2xe16]

🤢🤮🤮

[@hmahmud34792]

Men!?🤨

[@macavelli8905]

Very good video

[@fr3q_m33k]

❤

[@dinni2007]

Общие фразы, стандартные клише и ничего конкретного, какие-то жалкие потуги на оригинальность.... В 21 веке никого секс-фантазиями не удивишь, в общем - потратила время зря на эту билиберду... 👿👿👿

[@leviefrauim1425]

These two points- "psychedelic-assisted therapy" and "pursuing a PhD in Clinical Sexology"- tells me all I need to know about this speaker and her topic. Clearly, another lefty loon, especially if she's willing to have her small child talk w/her about it. .

[@mikepcs7]

Is she time travelling from future😂👍

[@Ablecore]

To connect us to our pure self from the past

[@onefishtwofish2771]

"survey says" really? All I am wondering is why she picked that outfit.

[@gavinhelgeson2880]

Groomers…take notes.

[@cocofingerfamilysong]

hmmmm

[@themcgeefamily7514]

💚💙

[@kaelightupthedark]

filth.

[@arinzechukwuamanekwe9104]

This lady is just crazy lol!

[@uf1978]

Your wardrobe selection needs some work, just sayin.

[@beththompson5845]

I'd worry about yourself instead of a whole other individual's preference and choice in clothing. You probably weren't comfortable or in agreeance with the topic... And instead of scrolling to the next thing...or speaking what you really feel (which would be 100% valid).. you take a dig at her. Small one. Which speaks volumes on the digger. [I'm sorry but your validation is denied. Due to insufficient funds in your account.] "Dishonor on you. Dishonor on your cow!"

[@VeganChiefWarrior]

too funny

[@jonathanmachjacksontrad5704]

I fantasize about her getting a haircut

[@gavinhelgeson2880]

Cringe

[@cocofingerfamilysong]

yeh

[@freya9809]

That's exactly what she is talking about

[@gottaluvpink89]

…I’ll go ahead and unsubscribe 🥴

[@abrirlaimagen8949]

Go ahead we won’t miss you

[@hmahmud34792]

I already did lmao

[@azaraliyev2064]

I thought she is a guy)

[@Freetheworldnow]

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[@kaelightupthedark]

amen!!

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[@onefishtwofish2771]

Some/most women. Not all.

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