Shamir Explains the History of the Word 'Agender' | InQueery | them.

[@kumogate]

The term "agender" has helped me to pin down my feelings (or should I say 'lack' of feelings) surrounding my own gender identity. It has helped me to clarify things that confused me or caused me distress in the past. This clarity has been relieving and allowed me to put some things to rest in my head.

[@tom-dahl1598]

and me. there wasn't a word for it 50 years ago.

[@spaceboxpilot]

Seeker of Light same ☺️

[@ConnorSentByCyberlif3]

Yeah me too! It used to make me feel like I was "broken" or "wrong" for being Agender, but talking to a therapist about how I felt helped me realize that I'm not broken for being Agender :D

[@azraelvivanco8113]

Same here

[@exhorciists]

What exactly does that mean? Sorry if I offended you :

[@calciumis]

When you are agender, asexual and aromantic: " *I have the A.A.A. power...* " " *I REJECT ANY FORM OF EXISTENCE* "

[@jelalejanaabubakar7860]

same *insert AAA vine *

[@nyxalex8049]

AND ur name is Alex 💀

[@EarlTheDragonn]

Triple a battery

[@rogueallcopsarebadx372]

I love this 🤣🤣🤣

[@Blwbelle]

I'm only a double a battery lol

[@StoneSaysHello]

I used to think about gender a LOT. I was obsessed with it. But since I found agender as my label I have almost completely stopped thinking about it. I just live my life.

[@kavyabanka4482]

Why you consider as agender

[@hads5279]

IMm happy to see a lot of positivity in the comments. I’m used to only seeing hurtful things with videos like these.

[@doid4354]

@Sarbur Gideg Wow, I keep seeing you under videos about agenders. It must suck having so much insecurity that you go around hating people for living their best lives. Hope you can find peace one day.

[@tom-dahl1598]

@Sarbur Gideg the only freak is you. fancy being so delusional that you think you have insight into the very core of someone else's being. the only thing you know for certain 100% is your own gender feeling. if you're a man show us all the thing that you share with other men (physical bits aside) that women will never experience?? let's see these things. if they're objective reality you can show them to us.

[@mrbrnz001]

Thank the CENSORS!

[@tom-dahl1598]

@Sarbur Gideg how would you know 'it's not possible to live without gender''? you've one unique experience and that's your own. you can't even say what anyone else feels or doesn't feel. you can't know and you'll never be able to know. you claim objective fact when all you've got is subjective experience. gtf. you don't know what you're talking about.

[@Esto_Quod_Es_iii]

I came to see what difference is there in agender and non binary, can someone explain, I didn’t really get it

[@Mircalla]

For all the confused people: Sex and gender are different things. Your sex is defined by what is between your legs and your chromosomes, and your gender exists in your mind. There is a correlation between the two, but they are definitely different things. So, your sex can be male but your gender can be female, for example. We would call that person a trans-woman. Gender exists on a spectrum, with male at one end and female at the other, and everything in the middle of that spectrum is known as "non-binary". "Agender" is a specific type of non-binary identity.

[@chabileo]

@@liljetgames7180 www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/gender

[@annymus4502]

Great explanation Tho I thought agender was having no gender, not even non binary

[@chabileo]

@@annymus4502 being agender IS having no gender, howhever, some folks (including me) still put it under the NB umbrella

[@annymus4502]

@@chabileo Oh, I see Tbh, as a cis female, I don't understand agenderness much Could you maybe educate me a little further or tell me how you realised you were agender?

[@chabileo]

@@annymus4502 firstly, :mygenderisx.com/read/non-binary-gender-identity-flags

[@fahimaidan5397]

I'm agender and this comment section literally made me cry.

[@AlyxAesthetics]

Ok

[@eugene4144]

AS YOU SHOULD🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

[@munchedmuffin]

Love you💜💜💜

[@sniffypants5097]

If a comment section on KZbin makes you cry, you need help. A death of a friend or family member? I get it. Being physically accosted or assaulted? I get it. Having a serious argument or fight with a significant other, close friend or family member? I get it. Watching Awakenings? I get it. However reading comments on KZbin and crying means that you’re mentally weak. You’re choosing to allow the statements someone else is making to offend you. That’s your fault. You don’t have to take anything to heart that you choose not to. You choose to allow to let statements hurt your feelings. Pure and simple.

[@juliwb6390]

@@sniffypants5097 Ehmm... They never said it was sad crying??

[@plutoadsaturnspeil4186]

i’m genderless but like- relate to being a girl at the same time? i’m not a girl but i’m not not a girl?? i’m like, 2% female, and the rest is *just me* being a girl doesn’t matter to me. it’s so watered down by nothing that it doesn’t matter.

[@ChelseaKristie]

same omg like I’m feminine, I love girly things and stuff and I know that I am a girl but like.. I’m also not. I just want to be known as my name.

[@bonsey4088]

Yeah I'm feeling the same tbh. As a biological female, I like my current appearance and how I act toward society, speak, etc., but I don't necessarily feel female. I would much rather appear and act feminine rather than masculine but not identify as one. I'm trying out agender and They/Them pronouns to see if they fit, but I'm still not sure if this is valid.

[@Miimiiplayzbrawlstars]

Maybe you're a demigirl! :3

[@salem-01]

Look up Demi girl! I am, personally, a Demi girl. Demigirl is when your in between agender and female, I’d recommend doing some research because, who knows! This could be your gender :)

[@cyriswinters5233]

There's Librafemme I heard of and Demi-girl possibly look into those?

[@iansysu1236]

I think I might be agender. I feel that physiologically I am a man, but I also feel like I have no gender identity at all.

[@sexypotato8815]

You May be inderfluid.

[@scrubadubgrub]

You might be a demiboy

[@mrloverandf9249]

You may need a mirror and look at your down parts. The answer is there.

[@MonsterZeroLITE]

@@Av-mu3dz *cricket sounds*

[@tiandre6159]

@@mrloverandf9249 bro what??

[@axlien_gaxcha6247]

yo im agender shout out to my fellow agenders!

[@raisin589]

sah dude :))

[@V丂几千山乇尺]

Briavsp what happened

[@V丂几千山乇尺]

Briavsp oh thanks for telling me btw

[@Jay13340]

I want to know more, so what is the difference between agender and nonbinary?

[@blackzero9815]

Disgusting

[@kawaiireaper5474]

I think I'm aromantic asexual agender OwO

[@wawawawawawawawawawawawawawa]

Oh god same

[@midori6913]

That’s so rad X)

[@halimasikiru834]

lmao same

[@selenophile410]

Wow , super human

[@goopa4917]

ooo AAA battery 😂

[@AceHunter0407]

This person's voice is absolutely the cutest ♥♥

[@kumogate]

I could honestly listen to them talk about anything! Super cute!

[@gingerdaan7657]

Really...

[@pink8306]

Ginger daan yeah. really. its cute.

[@mrloverandf9249]

His voice is funnier than cute. And yes it's a HE with painted nail and dressed like a kid....

[@Carol75221]

Tryhard

[@starhutchison7110]

i'm agender but prefer the term genderless. agender is accurate but I feel like it gets used as an identifier so often when the point for me is that i'm a fluid person and don't want to be boxed in by the ideas associated with a label

[@animegothvampire1999]

Me too tbh 😊

[@rockabillymuffin]

The word I found that describes my experience with gender is agenderflux. I dont care about pronouns, I don't like being called a woman or man, and wether I feel more masculine or feminine or neither fluctuates :)

[@munchedmuffin]

rockabillymuffin yes!! im agenderflux too! we out here! nd we beautiful!

[@rockabillymuffin]

Di Di Wuhuu 🌈🌈🌈🌈

[@frahhscloset3430]

Then how shall I called you?help, I still confusing 😫

[@Gee-xb7rt]

i was in school in the 90s, i'm old, and we were already just replacing gendered pronouns. i learned the easiest thing to do is call people by their name, you don't need pronouns and other labels, a name works just fine.

[@Gee-xb7rt]

Frahh's closet You call them by their name or you can also remove the subject most sentences, if they are the subject its going to be assumed. its not very difficult, it just takes some getting used to if you are used to using gendered speech. Maybe it takes a little brushing up on grammar skills, but think about what you are saying and when you can use names instead, and when you can just drop the gendered words and not replace them. They/them is a fine universal pronoun if you get stuck. Sean Hannity isn't even triggered over being called a them, so don't worry about it.

[@munchedmuffin]

We love agender beauties!!💖✨

[@sexypotato8815]

No one love me. 😂

[@gingerdaan7657]

@Adrien Starlight oof

[@user-io6pn2eh6c]

Di Di I don’t

[@TobyyBugzz]

Thank you! ^^

[@ConnorSentByCyberlif3]

Thank you :D

[@bendk9946]

I really like their hair . It's really cute 😊

[@trajanledesma]

His*

[@gingerdaan7657]

Mmmkkkk

[@itz_felix8863]

@@trajanledesma that's kinda rude

[@dylfanone]

Its not rude, its real. He is a he.

[@itz_felix8863]

@@dylfanone it's rude when this person wants to be called a '' them''

[@lol-qg6rz]

I pretty sure im agender, and now that i know what it means i feel like it fits how i feel well and it makes me feel happy that there was something for me and im just so happy rn

[@donel7315]

I finally figured out I'm Agender, and I feel so much better knowing who I am now and proud

[@Blue-Hoe]

i hope they find a cure for you

[@lucki_charmz6603]

Congrats!!

[@Ahria256]

​@@Blue-Hoe smfh, likewise pal you prob need it more smh

[@DangerousKaos]

This is awesome ❤Thanks for making this! We need more videos explaining so people understand

[@alder6717]

Thank you so much for explaining! I’ve been doing research to educate myself in terms of the LGBTQIA+ community and this was very helpful, though it’s a shame I’m so late.

[@onesourlemon8]

This comment makes me so happy. I’m so glad more people are trying to educate themselves and learn about our community instead of being close minded

[@lovelyjanuary]

@@onesourlemon8 oh my gosh I am loving this series for the same reason as Because Me? too and I agree that it is so great to see many more people wanting to learn and be more actively supportive of the LGBTQ+ community! Even though I don’t identify as a member of it, I am close to and have had loved ones in the past who were a part of that vibrant, brilliant and lovingly full of life beautiful community of people and I am always loving and excited for more information that I can learn and be a more well rounded and educated person when it comes to other people and how I can respect and interact with them in the happiest and most openly accepting way possible!!!!! Plus, I just love words to be honest lolololol. My “amateur expert etymologist” habits are very ingrained in my personal identity Hahahah and I can’t help but love this series especially for that reason even without everything else extraordinarily great about it too!!!! 💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@zaina-d2e]

I came out as agender to my cousin a couple weeks ago before I saw this video, after watching this I feel it’s actually very educational and could be helpful to others questioning their gender!

[@Swenglish]

The use of the word "decide" throws me off. I can't speak for anyone else, but I never decided to be agender, I discovered that I always had been, and no matter how hard I've tried, I've never been able to be anything else.

[@Swenglish]

I guess I "decided" to embrace the word after learning it, but I had been looking for it my whole life.

[@melodicatyto]

Yeah I think it depends on the person but I agree. I personally never decided i just always have been you know!

[@tom-dahl1598]

i've never had a inner feeling of being gendered. just always felt human/alive. i've got all the male bits and i've asked plenty of other men to show me what we have, emotionally, spiritually, psychologically and objectively in common (physical bits aside of course) that women will never have and never be able to experience.the question goes unanswered. 51 years (quite a long phase i'm sure you'll agree) and i'm still waiting to experience this 'feeling' of gender.

[@hermitswag]

shamir uses he/him, not all nonbinary people use they/them pronouns

[@acdeeiprrt]

But as the default even before the trans rights movement became mainstream, they is always the safe choice

[@selenophile410]

Huh how

[@wahooilovewomen]

@@selenophile410 Pronouns dont equal gender

[@adelinepickral7518]

@Sarbur Gideg no, someone who is non-binary or agender can still use she/her or he/him pronouns

[@adelinepickral7518]

@Sarbur Gideg Well, I guess I don't exist-

[@mac4192]

Well now I got the three As. Asexual Aromantic and Agender

[@chappelled]

They call them... *THE BIG THREE*

[@veeayala4664]

Aaayyyyyyy

[@emmahollow8898]

these people are so dense it hurts

[@justamikee]

That's kinda funny, congrats though! :D

[@namiip]

I’ve seen the word “agender” be used as “gender apathetic,” so that’s what I thought it was. Though, now I do wonder if there’s a word for gender apathetic. I don’t really care what pronouns people use for me. I’m cis by default I suppose? I wouldn’t even mind if someone just called me “you.” I’m just very apathetic to identity itself- don’t really care to be anything or anyone

[@uhuhno6441]

I think you don't belong here. Those people don't want to admit it but they are 100% group identity. In that regard they're no different than all the other randos.

[@Blwbelle]

Cassgender?

[@sveps8883]

Yeah, you can perhaps be Gender Apathetic, Cassgender or Gendervoid, those are terms under the agender umbrella

[@SilverHairSimmer]

I’m so glad you made this video! One of my kids was explaining a-gender to me and I wasn’t understanding it differently than nonbinary. I am so glad they were able to send me this video, as well as a few other sources, so I can better understand and advocate.

[@Evgencia]

Never let anyone, not your parents, not your friends, not your family, not sociaty, not ANYONE in this world force you to pretend to be someone your not. Be yourself 🙃. It might be weird or imperfect but it's you.

[@frostcupissailing2920]

I am agender and it's so good to know that there are people supporting us!

[@SparrowTeaDragon]

My sibling is having a gender dysphoria crisis right now and I’m trying my best to help them. They know they don’t identify with a gender, and just wanted to be referred to as their name. I really hope they can feel comfortable one day and I hope I can help them make sure our parents can understand how they feel. It’s still a learning process with us but I really appreciate videos like these because I hope they can help to effectively communicate to our parents how they feel. I really love them and hope they can feel comfortable with themselves as soon as possible :) Update: They have come out as non binary! I’m so happy for them and because of it their self confidence has improved so much. Our parents still slip up every now and then with their pronouns but my sister and I are there to correct them for our sibling, and they don’t get angry about us correcting them anymore either which is great! Our friends use their pronouns too! We love them so much.

[@Yusuketh443]

i feel bad for you to have sibling cringy like that 😞

[@SparrowTeaDragon]

@@Yusuketh443 my sibling isn’t cringey at all. After months they were FINALLY able to tell us that they’ve figured out that they are non-binary and we love them very much. Since them coming out as non-binary, it has completely changed how they are, they feel more confident in themselves and their mental health has gotten way better and we are so happy for them for that. Them being non binary isn’t cringey at all. Them being happy isn’t cringey at all. What’s cringey is that your comment and lack of understanding. Don’t say sorry to me. Say sorry to my amazing sibling who is one of the best people in this world. Please understand that love triumphs perception.

[@Yusuketh443]

@@SparrowTeaDragon non binary is cringe

[@rayduit]

i wanna say i'm agender (i dont like being called girl or boy unless medically) and i use all pronouns, is that ok?

[@lovelyjanuary]

It’s totally ok!!!!! It’s *your* identity and you can define it however you feel and think is right and perfect for you 💕💕 No one else has the authority or knowledge about you that you do yourself, so no one else has the right to tell you what you should/should not be, either! I am happy that you are starting to know how you identify and I hope the best for you too!!!!! These videos are so helpful and educational as well, even if I don’t identify as an LGBTQ+ individual, I appreciate the ability to be more informed and learn the lexicology :)

[@salem-01]

Yes! It’s totally ok, pronouns don’t equal gender, and plenty of agender people do it!

[@frenchdeer]

I know for sure that I'm an aromantic asexual. But still trying to figure out my gender identity. I've wondered if I'm agender. I have no attachment to a certain gender. Nor do I feel like it fluctuates through the day. It feels almost nonexistent to my everyday life. I'm comfortable if people use "she/her" pronouns. If someone mistook me for a guy at any time (which has happened b4) I'm comfortable with he/him pronouns as well. I'm not fond of "them" pronouns used for me. I'm trying to figure out if this still applies as agender or something else?

[@harperlynn1440]

I’ve been questioning my gender for a while now. I’m afab and haven’t really questioned things till a couple months ago. The way I feel is I just don’t want to be like anything at all. But at the same time you could call me a girl, demigirl, nonbinary, genderfluid and I really wouldn’t care. I just wanna exist and feel like gender identity drags me down. My bestie told me to look up agender and I like it a ton. I wish we lived in a world where there were not labels and conformity although I understand why others find comfort in labels

[@sanchisan6997]

Omg, those butterfly clips! 💀💀💀 They were SO POPULAR when I was in middle school 🤣😂

[@finniantylermorey8843]

I've been trying to figure out my gender for so long. I'm not a boy or a girl, im not non binary or genderfluid and I think, maybe I am agender. it seems to be the most accurate one.

[@rxpunzi]

Agender still comes under non binary!

[@agen7m0thman]

@@rxpunzi doesn't mean it's non binary. Bisexual is also a umbrella term but that doesn't mean pansexual is bisexual

[@rxpunzi]

@@agen7m0thman thats just .. not what i said?

[@Tired_Nerd2006]

I think i may be agender. I dont really care is people call me boy or male but its mostly cuz i dont really care about my gender most of the time and other times i do care and i dont wanna be reffered to as a male. I dont really want to wear clothes that are considered masculine or feminine and i feel a bit uncomfortable when i grow hair or if my voice sounds too deep

[@sandyg4646]

What you want to wear has nothing to do with your gender identity

[@Tired_Nerd2006]

@@sandyg4646 iam aware of that now. In the past few months i have been thinking about myself and thinking about how i feel and i have fully figured out that iam agender as well as being both asexual and aromantic

[@piccolofan24]

@@Tired_Nerd2006 Congratulations! Fellow triple A battery here. 🔋

[@littlefemme4957]

I love this video! I came out as agender a years back and it really changed my life for the better. I'm happy to see more and more education being brought out about it and more agender people feeling at home with their identity. 🖤💚🖤💚

[@mrloverandf9249]

To my eyes (and most likely your mirror) you are a woman. We need genders for legal purposes. ✌👌

[@Sipsipsippinonlambtears]

@@mrloverandf9249 We don't necessarily need gender and it's fine if you see them as a woman, but you can't tell them what they are and what they're not. It's not up to you.

[@DivineDemonStudios]

Such a sweet voice and cute presence! It's so nice to see other agender people living life and being cute QwQ

[@emmahollow8898]

This is weird not cute. Very disturbing at that.

[@kavyabanka4482]

@@emmahollow8898 what is agender

[@kaden587]

i love their voice, i could literally listen to it all day.

[@justice4all352]

Does he sound male female or Androgynous (mix of both simultaneously)?

[@kaden587]

@@justice4all352 they* and i'd say that their voice is androgynous but is high enough that it could pass as a female.

[@darrianmcneil3481]

Naw that doesn't pass for female he sound like he faking

[@emmahollow8898]

Wtf how can you like that voice. It sounds painful for him to even speak. He sounds like he’s been stomped in the nuts and is being forced by gun point to talk about a gender people.

[@ruthcousins3110]

Love the video so educational, respectful and simple to understand. Inqueery is a great series, I would really love them to do a video exploring the word 'transvestite' it's had such a mixed history in our community and has had a massive negative affect on this new generation and I think it's very important not to forget the past and look into those words and the great folk associated with it. If it's done by them I think it would be a really good video and very respectfully done

[@Jackisokidoki]

Im Agender and this video made my DAY wayyy better ❤️😊

[@tokioteleiras]

Is it possible to be an agender woman? I feel agender but my gender expression is more yin/feminine and I was born female...

[@Ahria256]

no, that means you are gender fluid :)

[@gooner3681]

sounds like you’re…a woman

[@Ahria256]

@@gooner3681 what's it to you, gooner?

[@gooner3681]

@@Ahria256 i’m answering her question

[@spice0467]

Yep, agender just means YOU dont connect to gender, it's not important to you or at least not a significant part of your identity. You can alsow lookinto demise genders, where you only feal partly this and that.

[@TheCaliforniaboy1]

I've on a roll with watching all of these videos about identity but I have a question: Is Agender and Non-binary the same thing? If not, what's the difference between the two?

[@lapain4]

Agender people are non-binary but all non-binary people are not agender

[@lapain4]

Do you understand what I said by that? (I may be mistaken I'm French)

[@TheCaliforniaboy1]

@@lapain4 I do thank you!

[@lapain4]

@@TheCaliforniaboy1 No problem !

[@salamii_jpg]

Wow- I have been looking into it for a while, as in i dont like my Feminine body but i dont feel right going by He/him pronouns. I have read many articles and Watched many videos.I think I found what fits how I feel the most.

[@Rebel_Vamp1r3]

same!!

[@emmahollow8898]

You are disturbed

[@justamikee]

Congrats! :3

[@spu-get-ee]

I’m going through a gender identity crisis, and I was wondering if someone could tell me the difference between agender and non-binary?

[@salem-01]

Non binary is an umbrella term for Agender, Demigender, Bigender, and any other gender that isn’t apart of the gender binary. Sometimes it’s just easier to say your non binary, rather than trying to explain it like a video game slider.

[@moche2303]

Yay!! Amazing video. Shamir is super dope!!

[@Ezra_they-them]

Hello people, I recently discovered Agender and think it is what I would like to identify as. My only problem is that I am unsure what the pronouns linked to it are, can anyone help?

[@dudhrfjfdasg]

well, most agender people feel more comfortable using gender neutral pronouns like they/them. but you can use anything that you feel comfortable with! Im fine with any pronouns being used on me, and some people arent. it just depends on the person

[@Ezra_they-them]

@@dudhrfjfdasgThat makes sense. Thanks for explaining :D

[@Vojtechovskq]

Thank you for this video :) I love to see the positive comments! I didn't know about agender before but I'm happy I got to understand what it means and is. I hope everyone reading this has a nice day - non bianary person

[@ryliesolomon2018]

I feel weird calling myself a girl and feel weird calling me a boy and feel weird calling myself non binary. I feel weird using the girls bathroom and feeling weird using any gender neutral bathrooms. So this really helped:

[@voxicwaste]

I'm still so confused, so I just decided to ignore my identity for a bit and it worked, and then I thought I was non-binary. But I don't think thats what I am. I don't know what I am, can I just not care about my gender without having any labels? Sorry if I seem rude

[@madisongrace7675]

Sure you can! Whatever makes you comfortable. You don't need labels if you don't want them. Labels are totally optional. :)

[@NoxAtlas]

I know this problem too well. I have a female body but don't really feel like a woman, yet I could never tell what identity actually fits me. Everything sounded so confusing and abstract. At first I thought I was a demigirl, then believed I am simply non-binary but now I finally came to the realization that agender fits me the most. But not everyone needs a label and they don't really care about their gender identity. And that's fine too. That doesn't make you less valid

[@imkrisyoung]

I’m agender. I don’t identify as either a man or a woman.

[@synonymous_]

Great comment.

[@lisalegato0109]

So then what do you do about doctor's appointment and dating?

[@discobassgroove]

LisV :3 why is that anyone’s business but their business?

[@THEwolfKiana]

@@lisalegato0109 Doctors only care about your sex. Sex is important because they have to keep an eye out for diseases that only effect people with certain sexual organs. Doctors don't care about your gender.

[@ycazawilliams2535]

Not possible

[@justamikee]

Thank you actually for this! I'm non-binary, and have been curious about a gender, and if it's the same as non-binary, very informative! Also your voice is really cute!

[@mangiehorsie3754]

THIS WORD RIGHT HERE EXPLAINS ALL MY FEELINGS RN IM SO RELIEVED IM CRYING OMG THIS FEELS SO WEIRD SO FCKING WEIRD

[@CoryBeeson]

I love Shamir! Their music has always been a top fav of mine! ❤️ Thank you for the lesson

[@itz_felix8863]

@DY_Physics no one cares

[@mrloverandf9249]

@@itz_felix8863 Let's be grammatical correct: This person is a he.

[@iamgaz8585]

@@mrloverandf9249 stop

[@mrloverandf9249]

@@iamgaz8585 Too late to reply to an old comment. Do you have a job? If not, I can help you to get one. Enjoy your day as I am not going yo engage in a back and forth.

[@iamgaz8585]

@@mrloverandf9249 bro, I'm 14

[@mineola_]

This is such a cool series, it's interesting to learn where words came from and what they mean to different people.

[@EllieMcHale1]

I love Shamir!! Shamir is one of my favorite humans.

[@juliwb6390]

Uhm... I have a question If person A is hetero atracted to male/female, and person B is agender, but person A likes B, would that make A bisexual? Or is still heterosexual? Im trying to make an asexual oc, but I couldnt answer this question Thankss

[@9e05cherianpadipurackalvar6]

If a person is attracted to someone with no gender, then they are asexual. /j

[@zackthomasville]

Yes

[@kurupath7775]

I'm happy to see people like you so i can laugh sooo much 😂😂😂..

[@-_selenitepaw_-]

Ok I’m like so confused about what gender I am. Like I’m absolutely fine when someone refers to me as she, he, or they, but I don’t like being considered a boy, girl, or non-binary. Like sometimes I feel feminine, but I don’t feel extremely feminine, and theirs still a bit of masculine feeling at the same time if that makes sense? Like i never feel a strong connection to any certain gender, just I sometimes lean a lil but more towards one gender than the others. But even when I’m feeling masculine, I don’t really feel offended or anything like that if someone calls me she. Idk I’m just super confused-

[@honeysugar2046]

That's my cousin!! Ilysm Mir keep going!

[@thecocksaysmoo]

SHAMIR OUT HERE EDUCATING PEOPLE, WHAT YOU DOIN WITH YOUR LIFE?!?

[@obliviate1953]

So validating! 🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉 Thanks!

[@YOUsamisan]

I like this person’s Hairbuns

[@xemity2]

i personally identify as agender because i feel like theres always some sort of bias or prejudice when you state your gender, sexism is ingrained into our society and our brains and it’s just not possible for someone to have _no_ subconscious stereotypes guiding their interaction with someone of a certain gender. i consider myself transmasc because i enjoy he/him pronouns and like the subconscious perception of being masculine or even some of the stereotypes (the subtle subconscious stereotypes that add up not the “boys don’t cry” or something) but i identify as agender.

[@irl_unicorn]

I am agender and acesexual and I'm really happy that I found myselfe ❤👽

[@lisanelson302]

I was raised up in a Christian household. Our belief starts with how God took a rib out of Adam and created wo-man with his rib. Man and woman share many similar features and feelings. I'm a woman somedays I feel more like a man somedays more feminine. I think this is just normal. Why does it need to be more complicated than that? I'm just learning about this never heard of agender before. But I think the need to classify things sometimes complicates a very normal human experience. We all feel like this sometimes in my opinion. Or am I misunderstanding?

[@iloveasunflowah89]

I think i actually found my people I'm so happy

[@madisongrace7675]

Congratulations. :)

[@RWAsur]

presently losing my mind that agender was coined around the same time I was writing fanfiction and saying "I am gender indifferent" about how I view and feel about gender

[@sallyw8684]

Please add captions that are not auto-generated to this video

[@ebonyblack4563]

Distracted by trying to figure out how to make that little pompom hairstyle so cute, every time I've ever tried it something like that failed, and it's been way too long since I saw it look so right on a person.

[@rafora_]

reject gender, join the a-team

[@caca-iq8wf]

nah

[@MelVdB07]

Thx I just saw agender tiktoks but I don't know what agender was :D Edit : I just realized I made a spelling mistake I meant I didn't know at first thank you again for explaining

[@Anonymous_Gambito]

What an amazing style! I should try this look sometime :D

[@Harry-vx1et]

I'm agender but I love ice cream :(

[@pityhasnoshame]

Im androgynous,asexual and agender,which means Im.... AAA

[@RamenNamen991]

I never understood what gender was, and why people had such a strong attachment to it. Maybe this is why?

[@madisongrace7675]

Maybe. You should look more into it.

[@AK-df3lh]

(Alyssa Edwards style) Alriggggght. I just wish they weren’t wearing the white shirt with the overall dress. Love the dress, wish it was pair with a fun 90’s inspired striped situation. But overall, I’ve learned a lot today. Thanks.

[@maddkidd]

Yo- This video is so helpful. I'm trying o figure out my gender identity and im like 99 percent sure im agender..

[@urielalves72]

I DIDN'T KNOW THEY WERE AGENDER 😭❤️ OH MY GOOOOOD

[@sienna6340]

This was really helpful thank you 💗💗

[@ezradelgado2964]

i love shamir’s voice idk it’s really nice it’s makes me feel happy

[@blink182lives100]

ezra delgado because it sounds like Micke Mouse

[@michaellivingston8881]

this is what i have been looking for. thank u

[@niydaddy213]

If they make a new Mickey Mouse movie....he’s the guy for Mickey Mouse lol...he has to be!!!

[@ajj2717]

Right now when I look at myself in the mirror I don't quite see a gender. I don't see a female or a woman. I don't see a male or a man. I just see me.

[@satomizukutomekitoari6144]

I’m neutrois which is similar to agender!

[@serenity___4499]

I don't know if you went over the topic I can't remember but do agender use they/them pronouns or can they use any pronouns

[@Hahah998]

its best to ask those people because not every agender uses the same pronouns!

[@salem-01]

Depends on the person! Everyone is different

[@extrovertedintrovert22]

I don’t care what gender I have... like... floating in between or something... is it this now or... do I still gotta try to find out? (•-•;)

[@madisongrace7675]

You don't have to do anything. Whatever makes you comfortable is fine. :)

[@u.sagent5091]

If I’m being honest I’m really confused by this but I’m not the type of person to judge people

[@cr4cked146]

... My mind throughout the whole video: I am confusion :/

[@madisongrace7675]

Lol, it is hard to jump right into gender without looking things up beforehand. It would be so much more helpful if we learned about things younger so we'd have more time to be confused and then understand, but...What can you do. I could answer any questions you have, though!

[@trippywolfgamer2873]

I’ve honestly been really confused and I actually somewhat figured it out I actually feel more like a she/they I think I’m agender but get confused because it means gender less I believe? I really honestly want to change myself to match myself cause honestly I just don’t feel like myself? I’m kinda struggling with understanding what she/they would lie under but people tell me that it lies under agender. But if anyone can help me understand in the comments if it’s true or not? It’s be quite helpful :3

[@cactushotsauce362]

I like hearing about other identities, I'm a agender demigirl.

[@sandyg4646]

Isnt that contradicting? You're saying you have no gender but half a gender at the same time

[@cactushotsauce362]

@@sandyg4646 it changes for me depending on how I feel. Pretty much like genderfluid. I say these two because that's what I feel like at times. I can understand why you would be confused about it though.

[@sandyg4646]

@@cactushotsauce362 how can you tell when your agender vs demigirl?

[@cactushotsauce362]

@@sandyg4646 I'm not sure how to explain this to someone who might not be genderfluid because they wouldn't understand unless they were, but I have times where I just see myself as agender because it can feel weird to describe myself as a certain gender and other times when I don't feel completely genderless.

[@sandyg4646]

@@cactushotsauce362 what does it mean to be a certain gender though?

[@negar006]

I really don't bother about gender I just exist ✋🏻

[@im19ice3]

but when will it finally be standard in all documentation to allow recognition of gender outside the binary

[@emmahollow8898]

I hope that it will never become a standard. Why can’t we just go back to being male and females

[@im19ice3]

@@emmahollow8898 we were never males and females tho. its like going back to being kings and peasants. its all made-up and the only thing keeping it going is mass conformity, not the magical power of truth or whtvr it is u believ in

[@gaby-zf8jj]

hey so i dont mind what pronouns smoeone calls me at all, and dont feel like im drawn to being a girl or a boy so would that be agender?

[@9e05cherianpadipurackalvar6]

Maybe? There's also a term for a 3rd gender but i think it falls under the agender umbrella.

[@9e05cherianpadipurackalvar6]

If ur neither man/woman, ur definitely non binary

[@chocolaterockz]

i loved this and i just wondered - is there any more info about the term 'hypergender'

[@mrloverandf9249]

Girl please, we are either man, women or trans... the mirror says it all.

[@h0neyj4rs]

@@mrloverandf9249 non-binary people are also trans- 💀

[@thefuture5386]

How long have you been rehearsing that voice?

[@justice4all352]

It sound fake lol it don't sound natural

[@Lucy-rb1ol]

I don’t like ice cream and I’m agender....hmmmm o^o

[@kazuhasensei]

Does agender fell in love with female or male?

[@senor2930]

That is sexuality, not related to gender

[@Ahria256]

yes

[@swededontknow]

I love the idea that Allah is Agender. Thinking of them having being male or female seems. weird. to me because they’re a force that controls all and creates all, so Allah having a gender wouldn’t really be needed (not that gender is needed whatsoever) because they created everything. Thanks for pointing out religion and agender, it’s very interesting to me!

[@mrloverandf9249]

Excuse me: Since when being refered as a male or women is weird?... wow... the world is really changing for the worst. Being calling they when I only see one person; THAT IS WEIRD.

[@Zankori]

@@mrloverandf9249 This person said a God with a gender would be weird.

[@mrloverandf9249]

@@Zankori 🤣😂😂😂 but then God said he made the man (and woman) according to his own image.

[@Zankori]

@@mrloverandf9249 Sure God could've said that, if God's even real, but just sayin the person commenting didn't say being referred to as a female or male was weird, but having a God with a gender sounds weird to them.

[@star_is_g]

@@mrloverandf9249 then that means "he" is both man and woman 🤣😂😂😂

[@veda-buglanding5467]

If one were to resonate with being gender fluid, can that fluidity include agender as well?

[@wizardrat8520]

I feel like I’m a gender because I feel uncomfortable when people view me as very masculine or very feminine. I don’t like very masculine or very feminine cloths and just want to dress in a stylish way that is neither gender