Choosing The Wrong Person Can Destroy Your Life

Choosing the wrong person can destroy your life. This is why you must be diligent in the way you vet your significant other.
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[@devontezp347]

To you young guys out there listen to this message. I was decieved a few years ago. I thought my ex was solid even after testing her. In the beginning she held me down, but over time her true colors begin to show. She hid her mental health issues extremely well. I wasn't aware that she had a major problem with alcohol. Now I'm going through a divorce with a woman who's selfish & won't allow me to see my kids. I was young when I met her, but I do hold myself accountable. Be careful out here.

[@Frontlineinvestigation71]

Facts!! Thanks for sharing bruh

[@devontezp347]

@@Frontlineinvestigation71 if I can help the next man, then I will gladly share my story.

[@jacknorton3771]

I've been there myself bro. I'm old now and the wrong one will cost you.

[@alexervilus170]

Thank you for sharing bro!

[@TYE2020]

When someone is mean, don’t listen. When someone is rude, walk away. When someone tries to put you down, stay firm. Don’t let someone else’s bad behavior destroy your inner peace.

[@jayraw1120]

Patience is key guys. I’ve had One long term relationship 10 yrs and many short term flings. I’ve been with quite a few women over the years and have always invested in them, thinking they would come around to my loyalty and solid morales , thinking they would change. I’ve wasted many years thinking relationships would fill that empty hole in my life. Guys…. And I really mean this …. No women is gonna bring you happiness…. Unless you find your purpose …. Get in your masculine frame and create a legacy for your soul. Once this happens, you will easily filter out the oil spill and move towards the crystal clear waters of a real womens heart. 😎😎💫🙏

[@awilliams310]

Yes!!! This!!!

[@Frontlineinvestigation71]

My guy dropping gems!!!:facts

[@heavensea141]

Escorts are the best

[@metalmouth0413]

Disagreements can range from money to how laundry is folded. For example, my ex-wife and I argued over laundry. She didn't like how I folded towels and such. She'd re-fold it. She'd fold my stuff a certain way, but I wasn't messed up about it. I was appreciative that it was done, and just put the shit up. Got critcized about other things. That kind of stuff leads to resentments. I didn't understand vetting women. That's why I refer to my divorce as educational.

[@hulk-smash-deez-hose.7951]

There’s far more women with no income looking for some help 😂 especially single mothers, they don’t have no job, will empty your wallet, all they bring to you is dry box with fish odor, and headache nothing else 🙅🏾‍♂️am all set with modern American women.

[@brandonhunt2187]

My ex couldn’t even put a dish in the fucking dishwasher. She couldn’t cook anything, I spent $80 on groceries for a solid ass dinner, and after coming home from work, reemed my ass out for being late that night. Gave me the cold shoulder. 8 years deep and after a girls trip, goes out & cheats. Breadcrumbs me for weeks, my birthday, valentines, watching new releases in theatres. Last time I seen her she told me she loved me. Now she’s posting up with a diff dude, at same places I go to the day prior. Parks her car outside my house randomly. Fuck women bro.

[@JM-dk4ec]

It’s true fellas. Just because she sucks you good after you come from work doesn’t mean she is the one. Like Shaun said if both of you view the world in a way different perspective, you guys will have a pretty bad time together when shit hits the fan. The politics views that’s also very fucking important that many people overlook.

[@ShaunZachary]

💯

[@Mstluangatutua]

Listening from north east India,....

[@Davidchendavid]

That’s awesome man!

[@JodyWestbyHanalei]

Exactly what I needed to hear today. Mahalos brah! 🤙

[@slayer5097]

Seems like a lot of ppl have that bell on

[@francoismarc3]

REAL Talk! I dated a girl last year here in Korea (a Korean), but did not properly vet her before starting a relationship. Long story short, I went to therapy for four months because of her...much-needed message!

[@ShaunZachary]

🙏🙏

[@Tom-cp6yj]

Political, YES!! Nothing pisses me off more than disagreements on that!

[@ShaunZachary]

The worst bro

[@badmuthafuka4015]

You are so right!

[@TheGbass87]

💯 that’s why I take my time focus on my path too old to be playing games

[@thatboydeezy8370]

Amen to that my brother!

[@youngmunna5417]

Listening while at work 🙏🏾👍🏾

[@strangersandfriends]

Another great video! Keep up the good work 👊🏾

[@dave-rupofficial4627]

Everything you have spoken is what I went through. Thank you for rising this topic to help young ones who haven't made a mistake like me. Much love brother from Australia

[@ShaunZachary]

🙏🏻 thanks for watching bro

[@BrandonVerse]

Kings, never lower your standards and accept a women you don’t truly want. If they’re anything wrong, cut the line and let her go.

[@zacharyperdew4007]

You know Shaun, I love your videos and they are super helpful. Even though I do already know for myself most of the stuff you’re talking about, it’s still important for me to listen to your lectures. I’ve been vetting not just ladies but potential friends as well. Last night was a learning experience. I invited people to come have a few drinks for my bday. Literally 0 showed up. It sucked, but I learned who my real friends are. The only person I blame for this is me. I need to do some soul searching and figure out what about me attracts fake people. And how do I not end up here again in the future. Vet your potential friends too. Thank you for your videos. I hope everyone that reads this has a great day.

[@ShaunZachary]

🙏🙏

[@alitcb9384]

Always On point 💯🌟👌

[@harry.86]

It all starts when all you want is to be loved. You rush it they sence it your pray . You have to love yourself. Been there and im 100% sure its my own fault i let it happen. If you let them they will

[@deang522]

Spitting facts. You are a real one bruv. Appreciate you fam

[@ShaunZachary]

Much love bro ✊🏼

[@ahmedr1157]

My man coming thru again with the sauce

[@agsotonukable]

Such good points Shaun. This is almost the most important piece of advice out there for relationships.

[@ShaunZachary]

Agreed

[@oluwatuyikayode1986]

you god damn right one of the mistake i made, i never vetted my ex wife well, this woman can be sth else sometimes. thanks for the video quite educating

[@callumwhitelaw4581]

100 % correct. Especially when you have children with them and still love them it’s a whole different ball game.your videos inspire me and keep me going through the dark times.Thank you from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@ShaunZachary]

✊🏼✊🏼

[@MrSemro12345]

Sending love from Edinburgh!!

[@Jaytheprofessor]

Great video bro ! I learned the hard way in my early and mid twenties. Once I hit my late twenties and up I’m full blown aware of women antics and nature.

[@ShaunZachary]

✊🏼✊🏼

[@seinfeldfan442]

The fine young cannibals song she drives me crazy is the best way to describe what your saying about a man chasing a woman and being obsessed.

[@dahnger]

Spittin facts

[@Davidchendavid]

Ya man- ❤

[@sandrewmukhim108]

What a powerful video you got there brother

[@ShaunZachary]

thanks fam 🙏

[@erice.3892]

Shaun, what are your thoughts on the statement: “Women can’t love you. They only love the way you make them feel.” In my experience it’s generally held true.

[@ShaunZachary]

I would say that’s not far off in most instances

[@katcarvajal7286]

Woman here, we are very much capable of loving. I feel that statement is true from the ones that don't love themselves.

[@awilliams310]

Amazing as always. Thank you for all your amazing content.

[@ShaunZachary]

No doubt thanks for watching 🙏🏻

[@chevchelioz6663]

Great video Shaun! Question; do you sometimes drink in the weekend or smoke a blunt once in a while?

[@ShaunZachary]

I partake on occasion 💪🏼

[@HEALTHANDWEALTHCHANNEL-h6o]

It already did.

[@jessebradford7130]

That's why as a guy who wants to follow God, I believe God has a woman for me who he ordained. I gotta follow the rules of his though. No jerking off, pre marital sex, living ungodly etc. I'd actually be pretty dumb to assume I could find the right one after everything you Shaun and many others commented on the ways of women. Plus what I know about it myself. Don't get me wrong following God sounds boring and lame to many people and it sounds like goody two shoes. No, it can be boring and hard as hell. But it's the safest and most positively effective. Not to mention you can be a masculine bad ass who lives the right way.

[@vimzibaiegh]

The devil will be throwing hoe's and beechis your way too, and fine assse. Some sweet as an angel. Some butter face chicks that give you a woody. All in order to make you a hypocrite in the eyes of the Lord. The ordained girl might be plain af though, that unicorn that few guys would go after and worst of all doesn't turn you on at all. Actually this is what you'll be dealing with. If she's a 3+ dozens of guys will be showering her with attention on a daily basis just for showing up and you'll be dealing with that the rest of your life. Any half way decent looking woman has no trouble getting men without her needing any redeeming qualities whatsoever. Are you going to say, I'm religious, I don't care if I'm not attracted to that nice lady, she's got a good heart so I want to spend my days with her? You know, that women that attached to you that you just couldn't imaging smashing? You could probably still get with that lady, but I can't imagine too many guys being with someone that they aren't attracted to at all. No one should say God, look how good I am, send me the woman of my dreams and realistically expect it to happen. Maybe you could get lucky and a fine woman likes your lifestyle enough to be with you, but vetting will still be important. And to repeat myself, if she's good looking guys will be throwing game at her very day. I can't speak for Shaun, but I think that's part in why he has said that men need to work on and focus on themselves. I agree. Fortunately, for a woman, getting dak is so dam easy that she's looking for something other....something more than sexx, but conversely, anytime she wants it, she's got it. I realize you didn't actually say that you're going to follow certain rules to get a woman, but having read your comment, I wanted to follow up to say that by all means go ahead and follow whatever rules you want to but I'm only suggesting that you do it because it makes YOU better.

[@patrickquinn4961]

Sean for a young 🧒 Man .ya have a wise head .Well tune 🎶 In (top man

[@peterrose8886]

That is my philosophy I I stat that I'm in a serious relationship after a year cause I have to see how you carry yourself we get too enthralled with looks there's a reason why the divorce rate is 60% we don't pay attention enough

[@maxstreetracer1592]

8 months to a year i think is too vet her

[@ruilotz]

Its really hard to find a decent woman these days. Decent women should go to decent men as well...

[@seinfeldfan442]

Some say will slapping chris was staged, but yes I've heard jada isn't faithful. Good advice though I think waiting for a longer period to get a better women is worth it.

[@o751106]

11:09 13:34 😂😂

[@clintonsthilaire]

💥💥💥💥

[@harry.86]

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