Signs You're More Attractive Than You Think

[@ShaunZachary]

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[@NefDakingdom4444]

Yeah I like this girl that works at the pharmacy she told me I had pretty eyes she never gave me another compliment since that was like three months ago. I ain’t tooting my own horn but every time I go up there I’m fly well groomed and humble. I wish I knew how she really felt cause I’m really feeling her. What you think? Great video too by the way I just subscribed.

[@onelife7247]

I guess it’s useful to consider the points you’ve made - thank you. That said; people could be staring for any number of reasons. I went to the ladies room the other day, (I’m a woman BTW) and realised I had ketchup on my chin lol Men do not generally compliment women in England but they do make passive aggressive comments within earshot like: i) “ugh, she looks high maintenance” (haven’t been to a hair/nail salon in years, which is clear if you look closely enough lol) ii) “she looks stuck up” iii) “...ugh bet I can guess how she got that contract/promotion” Not nice at all... Conversely, when babies, dogs and children stare at me, which happens a lot; I find that hilarious and heartwarming. Also, went into a pub for sunday lunch and literally everybody was staring - probably because I was the only non-white woman / person in the entire place. Perhaps they thought I was a refugee- who knows 👀

[@ShaunZachary]

@@NefDakingdom4444 Holler at her bro!

[@ramonpuello2357]

If they only knew that there were many times I turned down p$y is was because it was one of my hater's mother

[@user-ki8mg5jh3n]

This happens all the time.Man and instead of admitting that they like what they see, they look at the girls, because they're afraid.The girls who can't notice me and they jump in front of the girl to distract her from seeing me.They're so frigging pathetic

[@carlosdanger8043]

The number 1 sign is older women who don't play the game anymore and have nothing to hide complimenting you.

[@rayzamarripajr.7571]

Facts

[@VulgarRage]

According to my grandma I’m the cutest guy on earth . Guess I’m a chad then

[@carlosdanger8043]

@@VulgarRage well she's related to you.

[@VulgarRage]

@@carlosdanger8043 it was a joke bro.

[@elihyland4781]

That is fucking true

[@Kingwithoutathrone]

Here's a couple more from the top of my head - dudes put their arm around their girl the minute they see you - women immediately put their head down in a nervous manner and pretend to be on their phone the second they see you (this could also be because she doesn't want you to approach her) - women, especially older women, always smile at you - people (men and women) will have a sarcastic, disappointing smile the minute they see you - people love approaching you and talking to you - people also act mean towards you

[@ShaunZachary]

On point bro 💪🏼

[@hyemuhyemu8221]

Older women give that creepy Jack Nicholson smile, stare and eye brow flash. Its creepy asf lol

[@christofrjinn]

Bro all I get is older women

[@brown4548]

dudes act funny around their girls once they see you lol

[@targetegrat]

@@hyemuhyemu8221 ahahahahaha. You just made think of his character in the Departed when he was getting high

[@blacksky755]

I agree with almost everything you said completely specifically the part about not reciving compliments because people don't want to boost your ego.

[@abra.hui.]

I don't get compliment from boys that for sure, but my girl workmate that I'm really close with compliments me and telling me "that's why a lot of girls like you". I think they won't compliment you if you're not close with them, they gide their feelings on you, or also thet feel thar they don't need to compliment you because it is pretty obvious or others already complimenting you so they won't add to them on boosting your ego. But if you made genuine connections with girls, they'll genuinely compliment you

[@seanknight9808]

Yep, I see that, too. Some women would even tease me to try to test me. Everyone things I'm great looking, but I'm not that tall, just under 5 9. And some women will give me shit about my height, such as saying I'm not really 5 9 (I look shorter because I'm stocky built, being a bodybuilder), and try to shame me for not being tall. They are testing me to see how I act and react. Just a s**t test, which women always do!

[@seanknight9808]

@@hatbpto5180 oh man, that's not good what she did. You're right-she doesn't want to inflate your ego. Looks are a plus but they are not as important as you think when it comes to attracting women. I'm also told I'm very great looking, plus I'm a competitive bodybuilder. Yet, I'm still single. Everyone thinks I get any woman to fall to my feet. Not so! Sometimes I feel women don't like me and that I may be one of the loneliest men in the world! :(

[@hatbpto5180]

@@seanknight9808 Hang in there. I never thought it would happen to me. You are doing the right things. The right woman will come along. She is out there. Think about this: she exists and is doing something at this very moment. One day your paths will cross. For now enjoy your alone time and freedom.

[@seanknight9808]

@@hatbpto5180 Thanks bud. As far as finding the right woman, I think there is NO right one! They are out there, but already married (or about to be).

[@boeingfan2479]

I feel like being attractive can make you more intimidating. People treat me very well but I notice I oftentimes have to initiate conversations. I’ve also really noticed women get nervous around me if I talk to them they are super nice and respond well but I’ve seen some get visibility jittery and shaky around me and some even struggle to speak. Being chill and easy going helps the interaction go smoother.

[@ShaunZachary]

Facts all around

[@skeletorlikespotatoes7846]

​@@ShaunZachary could I ask you some questions about this?

[@seanknight9808]

Yep, goes for me too. I'm 51, but never been married. I'm not even in a relationship now. Women, esp in the country I live (Turkey), don't trust attractive men.

[@ModelJames13]

@@seanknight9808 Yeah...... many people think it's a blessing, but as time passes it seems more a curse.

[@time_to_sleep12]

@@seanknight9808 you too :) in turkey hard life bro:)

[@keifer7813]

Its better to not care whether you're attractive or not. Ironically that makes you way more attractive, but you gotta genuinely stop caring and not act like you dont care

[@tonyromano8337]

Being delusional about the way you look or in denial by putting ur head in the sand will not help you…

[@jerryesque3747]

If you are an attractive guy when you are young, you're gonna feel it even more when youre older.

[@shmoofgang]

🔥🔥

[@foreverseethe]

Has not been my experience. But kudos to you. But then again maybe I was never really attractive.

[@thetoughgroup]

Facts! I'm experiencing this now in my 40s. The only caveat is you must maintain your physique. Gym 5-6 days a week, plant based diet with fish and shellfish, drink lots of water, get healthy sun exposure but protect your skin from sun damage (particularly the face), avoid stress and toxic people, and nurture your relationship with The Most High. All this has worked wonders for me 👏🏾

[@infjmale91]

I LOVE most people on here, me included (using a face filter) hide behind an avatar NOT because they are too hideous but because they don't want the unwanted attention. Best of luck dude. I'm with you too.

[@hectorortiz4766]

This is high level intellectual being information, definitely credible and authentic. This is everyday battles.

[@ShaunZachary]

🤜🏼🤛🏼

[@AlexanderPews]

100% agree, this was informative on another level

[@tujmedia5403]

it’s tough being a good looking man ! i’m not too pressed tho it has its pros

[@DB-sd3cw]

Why are you typing like that? 😂

[@seanknight9808]

Jealously and envy from other men is a big issue for me. I've even been let go from my job a few times because of that, besides the fact I'm also intelligent and have a degree.

[@hobosapien7735]

Have you also got mean stares, as if other men are trying to intimidate you, for no explainable reason?

[@TheRelaxingWind]

@@hobosapien7735 nah but i get random men testing me or if they are near there girl they will start being insecure

[@Jedilord882]

@@hobosapien7735i get that. Especially from other black dudes (for reference, I’m a 6’1 lightskin with a beard and long hair)

[@kagoatleonard4019]

@@TheRelaxingWindWhat is it with men showing insecurity in front of their girls I’ve never gotten it. Like do they think their girl will appreciate it or think “it’s cute”??? Or somehow convince your girl to not talk to him like she don’t got a mind of her own. If anything its gonna convince her u see something better in him so its best to hide it and remain humble. Many guys miss that

[@timthechampmanimtellingu5373]

@@kagoatleonard4019they prolly think u gon take they girl 😂

[@jamesdudley8696]

I REALLY needed to hear this brother. You (and a few of the comments) have described the last 35 years of my life. I've always thought i was about average, but most of my dating life is full of women accusing me of being a ladies man. Now i understand why. Thanks.

[@ShaunZachary]

🤜🏼🤛🏼

[@UnknownSource08]

I’m 32 and finally realizing the same. See I didn’t have a strong male figure in my life so it’s been a slow learning process. But I can proudly say I’m a attractive alpha. Keep growing kings!!

[@vuyissecretgarden]

♡

[@emre7677]

@@vuyissecretgarden you are so pretty

[@vuyissecretgarden]

🙃 aww, thank you @@emre7677

[@tyreecestewart4997]

Dont get me wrong, im overweight, short, dark skinned with a bald head and a beard, but im not letting that get in the way of me and my charisma, style, confidence, and humility. A humble warrior with the rep to prove it but with nothing to prove to anyone, my energy is felt wherever i go. And i see it in ppl with their actions (or inaction in some cases) which means my sigma/alpha energy speaks for itself. And i LOVE IT!!!

[@TheNextProtoman200]

Real shit comin from a tall brownskin I been 6 foot+ since I was 14 didn’t start attracting women till I was 21 cause that’s when I gained confidence and stopped being nervous ab shit. Always tell dudes height ain’t as big as a deal if u a real one to the core!

[@imjudeau2156]

Grown ass man calling himself an alpha and being overweight makes no sense if you claim to be “alpha” which is all bs it should mean you’re on top of your shit fitness health etc 😂

[@roylle6346]

That's just you romanticizing how short guys are extra 🙄

[@tyreecestewart4997]

@roylle6346 no need in being extra when im.being myself. I'm usually the quietest guy in the room, but my energy is the loudest or one of.

[@roylle6346]

@@tyreecestewart4997 hmm. Interesting... you're actually humble. Maybe you're right. Peace

[@battlevain]

At the gym, you often find that girls who have boyfriends will interact with you differently when they are alone and then change when they are with their boyfriends. They are much more friendly, but when their boyfriends are around, they keep their distance and often dont really want to encourage your friendship with their boyfriends either.😂🎓

[@EWWWYOURFAC3]

This girl when she is alone always stares at me and tries too come close ! When she with her bf he always mugs and looks at me 🤣🤣🤣

[@tonyromano8337]

These 304’s aint loyal 🫡 🚩

[@EWWWYOURFAC3]

@@tonyromano8337 bro have fun with them ! Don't wife them up

[@dominikkkkkkkkkkkkk]

the most important thing is to not judge so quick, if somebody is looking at you you don't know why and shouldn't be offended, just be chill be glad people notice you

[@onelife7247]

True. They could be staring for any number of reasons. I went to the ladies room the other day, (I’m a woman BTW) and realised I had ketchup on my chin lol Men do not generally compliment women in England but they do say passive aggressive comments within earshot like: “ugh,a she looks high maintenance” (haven’t been to a hair/nail salon in years) “she looks stuck up” “...ugh bet I can guess how she got that contract/promotion” Not nice at all... Conversely, when babies dogs and children stare at me, which happens a lot I find that hilarious and heartwarming.

[@dominikkkkkkkkkkkkk]

@unknownT-wd2mf yes some are like that I try to not take them so seriously and still do what I think is right, what I'm enjoying

[@thursdaygrape]

As a lightskin black man I've dealt with this crazy ish for a lifetime. BIG Kudos for your channel family. We are brothas 4life King. You a 4 real one= straight OFFICIAL

[@ShaunZachary]

Appreciate you bro 🤜🏼🤛🏼

[@Jedilord882]

Same shit (6’1 lightskin with a beard). I’ve only recently started to understand why dudes always seemed to hate on me, and still do 😂

[@STELLARMIGHTY]

😂😂😂 light skinned is funny

[@cipherP9]

I almost got into a fight at work because a guy who I worked with was trying to get with 1 of these 2 new girls who started working at our job. One of the girls completely ignored him and the other actually worked close with him until she randomly started working with me. Then he saw the other girl who ignored him, give me a long stare until she got back to her station. Since then he would randomly have issues with me for no reason. Good thing he was a shitty worker, so they eventually fired him.

[@d.d.c.p]

HAAAAA 😂 @ his lack of work ethic- He was too busy worried about u King!

[@trillykolla8347]

i hate that shit . people are always starting lol i be feeling like something wrong with me lol. i mean mug alll the time lmaoo

[@hyemuhyemu8221]

Staring is one thing. I've had girls, go quiet, break their neck and follow me with their head as i walk by. It feels like being a damn celebrity lol. I used to feel insecure. Now it makes me walk into places with confidence like i own the place! With confidence, its fake it till you make it

[@hatos662]

It makes me fkn weird i swear, i hate when people stares at me but i can't help it 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@borisstojanovic6633]

All 5 happened to me exactly like you explained here.Thanx man, much respect and love for great effort ❤ I will add on top of this my observations: 6.Girls love confident man, who walks masculine and look straight in their eyes when passing by...some smile helps also 7.Learn how to develop positive attitude at all cost, repeat it so many times that it become your habit.When it become so natural to you, you are winner my man 8.Woman are so sensitive and her intuition are so powerful that your vibes she feels miles away.Nobody will say that but I learned that recently myself.If you are desperate and needy, there is great chance she will sense that and ran away. 9.She laughs at all of your jokes, bad ones also.This sign is so obvious because she want's you to pick it up 10.Girls love to touch you sometimes, take a seat next to you even there is plenty seats left, rub her body etc. I hope this can also help and be valuable to someone.Remember this, winner never quits guys 😎😎😎

[@hxxdiec428]

i dont co-sign to vibes but if your desperate and needy it will show in the way you present and converse anyway.

[@Re_zoro]

Time Stamps - 1. People stare at you - 0:46 2. People will act differently around you - 3:36 3. People will rarely give you compliments - 6:01 4. You are going to have haters - 7:17 5. Women will choose you first - 10:23

[@TurnOntheBrightLights.]

Thanks boss 👍👍

[@davidhamm4845]

Bruh I've been experiencing this lately

[@erwaldox]

I don't get a lot of people staring at me but i never get compliments and I got ton of haters for no reason .p

[@ezecskornfan]

you comment shoul be monetized.

[@dogeatsthesun908]

Was looking for comment like this. Thanks man.

[@josephvincent7912]

Bro, I needed to hear this. I don’t see myself that way, but friends and acquaintances will tell me I’m very attractive. It becomes so awkward at times walking into a restaurant or a bar. I’ve learned to stay out of my head and realize that ugly people don’t get stared at.😂

[@jodo7814]

Well it’s like staring at a painting. Do you wanna keep looking at Mona Lisa, or a kindergartner’s stick figure block head abomination? Lol

[@Blinkers2007GameDev]

Yeah people think they stare at you because your ugly but nobody stares at someone who’s ugly or average(unless their super ugly) because they simply disregard them. I used to be ugly and have a lot of face fat and didn’t get stared at. But when I started losing weight and then lost over 8 Kg of fat, I noticed I got a killer jawline. People(and girls) started treating me better but they also started staring at me a lot more. Now I know why, I became attractive

[@SMules]

Based on your profile picture, your acquaintances are quite right. Coming from a woman.

[@landrytelfair445]

Ppl staring at me gave me anxiety. Legit anxiety to the point where I was on meds before going to bars. I watched this video and realized why they might be staring. I am top 1% shredded, 6'2 200lbs and I always would think my outfit or look was off. But it makes sense. All of these points together gave me closure. Thanks fam.

[@ShaunZachary]

🤜🏼🤛🏼

[@kamartaj3010]

U got nice hairs too

[@GQguy24]

6:01 this is HUGE for me. I need those compliments and validation. And when I don’t hear them I get very insecure and feel like I’m not attractive at all.

[@sookiezboly4502]

everyone need that. People saying otherwise are liar because compliment is what build confidence. Most men are compliment starved.. A shit ton of men can go through weeks without getting a single compliment.

[@cipherP9]

I would say change that mindset, don’t look for anyone’s validation about yourself except your own. If you get a compliment, good but if it doesn’t happen, keep pushing forward. Remember, you are a man and confidence in any situation is key.

[@sookiezboly4502]

@@cipherP9 Sorry but that's bs. In a society it's other that build your confidence or your lack of it then the whole thing just snowball in your behavior. That's why we always tell parents to not hinder, ronce their children for example whether it's for creativity, imagination, testing limit etc... You dont and never build confidance ex-nihilo. If everyone call you ungly since you're child you definitely wont have confidence on your looks for a very very very long period of your life. If your boss only shit on you you'll lose confidence on your hability to do the job. it's been documented over and over.

[@fiat_ow7876]

@@sookiezboly4502weeks? Try years

[@superjbird2710]

It does make you somewhat insecure, people just assume that if your that good looking you must have everything or everything figured out. Sometimes I just want to fly under the radar and instead all eyes are on me .

[@muzixinsider]

Yes.. attractive women are lonely cause men think they get any man they want. Attractive men are depressed for the same reason but worse cause we 9 times outta ten initiate the convo

[@will3634]

​@@muzixinsiderAttractive women are lonely because their hypergamy breaks the scale.

[@kagoatleonard4019]

@@will3634I think theyre lonely because most guys just get nervous around them and they realize that. So they throw themselves onto the guys who dont because they know they got it and they dont wanna deal with that. Its rare for them. But usually these guys are very high value making them come across as hypergamous. Anyways, thats just what i think

[@nomorepartiezz]

the struggles of being an attractive guy who’s quiet and has RBF. people think you’re an asshole or are intimidating. people will stare at me and i just give an emotionless look back (because that’s genuinely my natural state of being) and i feel like it doesnt go over the way i was intending it to

[@Squash45]

RBF?

[@PS-lv1mr]

what is RBF?

[@kingonyx472]

@@PS-lv1mrlike a permanent mean mug basically, you always have an angry or irritated look on your face .

[@bryonwinfrey1923]

Human behavior is funny. I've been through all of them situation

[@cloudattack3279]

Modesty aside, this does happen to me quite a lot. Particularly when im talking in groups and my wisdom is shared. Some people just farken hate me for no reason. I never reciprocate any negative emotion back their way, the power of positivity is hard wired in me. You have to believe in yourself, no 1. Always dispense a common courtesy, the true people will always appreciate you, and this is infectious. Great vid once again, brother 👍

[@ShaunZachary]

🙏 🙏

[@TyrianHaze]

I know this feeling very well. I am pretty well educated(computer engineer), and engineers are literally there to solve people's problems or make their lives better. But apparently ignorant individuals get offended whenever I speak basic logic based on years of experience solving problems. It's usually the narcissists that have a cow about it though.

[@bernardbrooks3935]

People can feel our energy. People find us very attractive.

[@alexander4448]

us and our?

[@liveslowlivesimple]

@@alexander4448 yes

[@cecegiles7753]

@@alexander4448 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@PhysicalEntity]

All of this is extremely relatable so thanks for making this vid, not exactly a comfortable topic to explore with other real live people

[@mincarve7697]

u right, i have no one i can talk to about this :(

[@AndI0td763]

You’re a good looking dude yourself Shaun so I know you get it. Sometimes when you see these things from other people you think there’s something off about yourself but then you recognize the signs, so there can be no doubt that what you say is true.

[@RonnieColeman80]

It's strange, I almost immediately understood it was a good thing when people stared at me, always gave me an ego boost

[@deeebojangles5588]

Not only that bro, it's a true compliment to get stared at blankly by the haters, sometimes we forget we are fly as fuck brah ✅✅✅👌🏻

[@ShaunZachary]

💯 💯 💯

[@charlesjung2790]

Totally relatable, I'm not bragging, but I do get a lot of attention from women. Going into restaurants when its full of women gets me so uncomfortable. Eyes on you makes you feel extremely self-conscious. Much easier to walk around unkempt and be unnoticed.

[@wadimjan7002]

How old are you?

[@kamartaj3010]

I too noticed that when i visited pub one time. Girls were checking out too much and i felt uncomfortable

[@alexdevries8761]

thanks this is quite validating. Its hard to talk about with people as noone understands and interpret it as me showing off. So some recognition of this is great.

[@unappealingundesirable2826]

Shaun, I was born in Seattle in 1973, where I grew up. Japanese-American. Male. I'm 5'10", 152 in high school, 200-220 in my 40s, and down to 195 or so in 2022 (I had to cut down my blood sugar). I've always thought, (except for when I was 20-27, my "handsome" days) "what the heck are people looking at ME for? I'm a TOTAL nobody, a 'blends in with the crowd,' and frankly, a typical Asian male nerd." I'm thinking, no WAY are any desirable women looking at me for GOOD reasons.

[@renaldsunset]

Weirdly enough I have only one female friend who compliments me and we talked about this. I know I’m attractive and been told often plus my dating life tells all, but she was shocked to learn that I didn’t get plenty of compliments and approached daily by women.

[@keysoteriq2590]

Be careful because she may like you too. I had a female friend in high school that I never knew liked me until her friend told me my senior year.

[@renaldsunset]

@@keysoteriq2590 That’s probably true but she’s an ex of my brother. Also I know another guy who she slept with. So it’s never happening 😅

[@keysoteriq2590]

@@renaldsunset lol

[@amandanxala2580]

Lol what about the fact that your own friends won't want to take pictures with you but they take pics with eachother.

[@53strat55]

@@renaldsunset LoL, would be the same reason for me not to go serious with a girl. If you have the choice why settle for a girl who has been fucked by guys you know or has a high body count.

[@steveo13757]

Was talking to a girl at a bar one time, she was into me, i came back from the bathroom and she ended up looking at me like i was dangling a dead rat in front of her and wanted nothing to do with me after that, then I noticed there was some people there at that same bar that night that talked trash about me before. Yep, one of those cowards Im guessing said something to her while i was in the bathroom. Also what you said makes total sense about on how confident guys are a threat to some women. Classic case of the girl at the bar where all these guys are eating out of her hand and shes laughing and talking to all of them, but she totally ignores you and never looks in your direction at all even though she noticed you right away as soon as you walked in the place. My brother worked at a night club, he said you would be surprised at how many women were jealous of him, at the time I couldn’t figure out why that would be, but now a days I totally understand.

[@kandikane1588]

Im a woman but I notice at work that when some people have to work with me, they act really awkward or aggressive. This one guy looked like he was gonna nearly pass out the other night and he kept walking away…like he couldn’t even work in my presence. It came off as really weird to me

[@Ash_Hudson]

The first point you made I've experienced for years and years. I always took it as something was wrong with me in some way, maybe I was ugly, or dressed weird or maybe I looked tired. No idea, but it used to make me self-conscious and defensive as well. Not always, but most of the time. Really depended on how I was feeling inside before I stepped out of the door that day. I don't feel attractive lately though. Haven't for months since my last break up. Even have girls telling me they think I am, some girls hitting me up first etc. But I just don't believe it or see it, and I think it's showing in my demeanor because now when I go out, no motherfucker is looking at me.

[@Earthtime3978]

I feel you bro. In the same boat.

[@aus_huayra500_3]

I still and always have had everyone look and stare at me but im 6"4 so I cant determine if theyre shocked by the height or think I'm attractive.. I hope its the second one

[@Ash_Hudson]

@@aus_huayra500_3 Height is attractive these days

[@aus_huayra500_3]

@@Ash_Hudson That is true however I havent had a girlfriend for an embarrasing amount of time so idk man I feel like I only got height not looks

[@TyrianHaze]

@@aus_huayra500_3 Early bird gets the worm. If your height gets people staring, then make the first move. There's only two possible outcomes if you try. There's only one outcome if you don't.

[@emanuelameh5722]

The most inspiring part of this: "Remember fella, you're the prize. Continue to work on yourself day in day out ". Thanks.

[@djtrakakadrunkpoet8598]

Yo that first part resonates so well . I feel that shit like a sensor on my body . I feel mad eyes on me and it can feel weird as hell. Like a object.

[@WendzM7427]

This is very very true. As a beautiful woman I get that all the time its true. No matter what hairstyles I do. I didn't understand not every woman get that until I grew up. I can only befriend beautiful men and woman who are confident in themselves that way I won't have to soothe anyone's insecurities, because the level of aggression is real

[@saintultra2737]

I grew up so ugly and out of place, now I’m fit (I could do more) and am attractive. My ex felt insecure from my body, and I’ve had comments made about me as it of jealousy. Stand strong. It sucks because I understand what it’s like to feel less than and not be visually appealing, so it’s just :/

[@alexanderduff6018]

Yes sir. Finally someone that speaks about this!

[@Jervdbur]

some 'friends' act different around me when there gf is alround. Trying to prove there alpha but there showing the opposite.

[@Iamsandivo]

You hit the nail on the head with the first one!

[@OnlyOneCarter]

No 🧢 cap.. good video.. I have that problem, sometimes at the gym I want to stare back, but now I just approach the dude say what’s good man, half the time the hater just wants to be your friend…

[@ShaunZachary]

Facts bro. I realized that I needed to be more friendly at the gym after not speaking to anyone for years. When you see the same MF’s every single day, may as well say hello and be cool.

[@jsabra89]

I just wonder how much potential i have missed out on because i let some of these scenarios get in my head and make me things negatively about myself. I owe it to myself to get myself out there and show up like the attractive man I am.

[@222333aaaaaa]

There ya go.. hope you been doing it

[@chimaera_2330]

I´m a woman and all these things happen to me since I´m a teenager. It got so bad that I became socially anxious because of this.

[@nickypoundtown9568]

Kinda makes you think, attractive or unattractive? What's the difference

[@a-terrible-fate532]

​@@nickypoundtown9568most of the time if you're insecure you probably think you're unattractive that's why they are staring at you etc. But other times you can kind of tell by the way look at you if they find you attractive or not.

[@nickypoundtown9568]

@@a-terrible-fate532 lol I know the reason, I'm average looking and 5ft6 so that means I'm 5ft5, people avoid me in public, never walk past me, no matter how friendly I am I'll always get a rude cashier even though they were normal with the previous customer

[@arianamontenegro5528]

Stop being a feminist

[@vipeton.8927]

​@@nickypoundtown9568 my life exactly. Very rude cashers it is norm. Guys before me gets jokes, compliments and me gets rude attitude.

[@zacharyperdew4007]

Bro I got a compliment from a lady today. For the first time in I don’t know when. She said that I was losing weight and to keep up what I was doing.

[@ShaunZachary]

Good shit, keep it up!

[@Mr-qt4xr]

#4 (haters) I lost friends over this. I get approached and initiated by women all the time. All my ex gfs have initiated not me because I am actually pretty shy despite my looks..When other men see you get women this way it makes them really insecure. What makes me uncomfortable: when I'm walking down the street and teenage girls are staring at me, sometimes from quite far away. Or worse they talk about me like I can't hear them as they walk behind me or something. Plus, I can never tell anyone about it or it just sounds like I'm bragging/a creep haha. You can only laugh about how people react I guess.

[@TonyDracon]

stop the cap

[@timmymannies6888]

Honestly, many girls used to stare at me too and can relate to what you're saying but no hate, but I genuinely find it hard to believe that women approach you because it's very rare that happens. If what you said is true then good on you 👍

[@yaboi608]

@@timmymannies6888 Women do approach very attractive men. It’s just this guy is probably an 8.5-9/10 while a somewhat handsome 7-8/10 won’t really receive the same reactions. Other men who have never seen this often don’t even believe this happens but it’s not very uncommon for top top tier men.

[@meechie9z]

I just got out of high school last year and having that happen is really weird to me lmfaoo

[@cipherP9]

I think it can be different reactions based on attractiveness of a race of men. Because I almost never get approached by women as a attractive black man, I always got to do the introducing. For instance, there is a Spanish woman at my job who talks about doing a lot a freaky stuff to me when she talks with her Spanish friends. They talk in Spanish so i don’t know what they are saying but then some of the Mexican guys around tells me exactly what she said. But when I actually talk to her the conversation are very normal, I wouldn’t figure she had a thing for me.

[@Tom-cp6yj]

Ya I'm constantly being stared at especially at work, women and men! I can't even eat lunch! I have dudes always wanting to get super close to me, it's just awkward.. 😳

[@starmorpheus]

That you in the profile 💀?

[@andrefitness3641]

​@@starmorpheus lol some of these dudes are delusional bro

[@cindychelsea784]

@@starmorpheus 😂😂😂😂

[@emkast8257]

i been known but u know its better when u hear it from someone other than yourself. thanks king!

[@xander70]

14:43 minutes of truth. Your observations are perceptive, positive, and uplifting. Well done.

[@ShaunZachary]

🤜🏼🤛🏼

[@yodaDageezy]

As a teenager I was always the person that always kept to themselves. Also was very insecure… Had a very small circle of friends. (For more context I was a somewhat-dark skinned-asian. in a predominately Hispanic and black high school). So I wasnt in anybody’s preference (that I knew of). It wasn’t till after my gf (end high school) broke up with me that caused me to be depressed and I lost a lot of weight. When I started goin to college and work. I would get stares and heard rumors people saying I was fine af. Which I thought was BS because I was never complimented like that before so I thought those people were messing with me. Fast forward to today (25), Im a sexy mfker! and I have anxiety from all the stares I get everywhere I go lol. And now I go to the gym to boost my ego even more 😈 Ironically I have no game besides my looks😢

[@battlevain]

Very insightful. I would also add that some people just have great magnetic energy and light up a room with their presence alone. It's more than just confidence too, as such people seem to be able to uplift others and create a very friendly and warm atmosphere that others are drawn towards. Attractions happens on many levels and in many different ways.

[@ÑEZ0688]

The "second look" is another. It occurs in a millisecond, so you gotta be very observant to catch it.

[@ShaunZachary]

💯💯

[@jordanedwards9681]

Needed to hear this. As a 25 year old dark skin man with a beard I have been told countless times I look intimidating. I never understood why maybe just thought it was my demeanor but it is clear now.

[@planetphatness]

I've had people say that to me too, I'm like nah I'm chill.

[@icristian6707]

Finally someone else who is feeling like that

[@degenr8]

me too. same age also.

[@cecegiles7753]

When people are intimidated by you compared just being nervous around you, maybe you don't seem approachable. That word means you're scary.

[@jordanedwards9681]

@@cecegiles7753I do not believe I am scary at all. Maybe my looks can come off that way but to people who know me I am a straight clown.

[@liamcrowwardartist4745]

I can't believe I didn't recognize that shit about myself when I was in middle school and high school??!!!

[@RaysGreatAwakening]

Yoo I’m glad I’m not alone I resonated with everything you said the stares the change of energy when I come around the hating 😂 I feel like eyes are always on me whenever I’m out

[@yves-thomasriant5833]

I'm in a couple and had opportunities with woman quite normally. Those many awkward moments always questionned me and looking back it might had been because of these reasons. It acted on my, my self esteem and still follows me today to how I define myself. Nice straight to the point video man. Thx

[@paradiseplayer5103]

The point about staring is so funny because you mentioned that it can agitate you. You start thinking are these people mean mugging me? I’ve never considered myself an attractive person but over the past 2 years I started working on my appearance a little more. Mostly skin care and working out. After 6-12 months, I started to notice that women were now point blank staring me out. Smiling and staring. Double takes. Walking up to me and ‘bumping’ in to me to start a conversation. It was so unusual for me that it took me about 6 months to realise that they weren’t doing it because they thought I was weird. I want to say that skin care and growing a light beard really helped me. My skin is light brown but I had some bad hyperpigmentation my face so I visited a dermatologist for help and started educating myself on it. For facial hair, I researched minoxidil and started applying it daily. I advise anyone that is considering minoxidil to do a thorough research before starting use as it can come with side effects. There are always things that can be improved and I’m not just talking physically. I’m talking mentally and spiritually. So never stop growing and changing in to something better.

[@aogio]

Minoxidil is safe ?

[@paradiseplayer5103]

@@aogio For me, I had no side effects. But I advise you to do your own research if you consider starting.

[@theguy9067]

There was a 6'5 jacked goodlooking guy i used to live with and i was around him with other people for a time and I would never hear anyone give him compliments EVER. And he was obviously top percentile in looks and you just couldnt ignore it. I think the only way youre treated differently as a guy in terms of compliments is if you are a celebrity online getting chased by teenagers. Most men, especially obviously good looking ones dont get "youre pretty" equivelents because as you say, people think they get it all the time

[@djtrakakadrunkpoet8598]

The problem is the movies and culture made us think that we were attractive , people would act natural, but nah that act weird as shit and for those who can stand being around that facially blessed will conversation with you like family and not make you feel judged . And that’s like 50% of the people I come across . But like you said take it for what it’s worth and walk in your attractiveness with confidence, great video brother

[@Lekan-o2r]

Bro I’m going thru exactly what you said man. This videos helps big time thank u

[@uzimachi1]

I realized I was the moment a friend told me he's never gotten a match on dating sites, and when I used these I got to meet a lot of women. I thought it was normal to get a few dates at least. Some dudes get nothing.

[@LuisKnight]

So I get the first one and recently at the gym it has been happening that a lot of women workout around me and I usually go to the corner to be alone while I workout. In my head I was like damn I need space. I didn't think that attraction could be the reason. I've been working on getting healthier losing weight building muscle so I'm fairly new to getting attention. Most of the time I'm thinking what do you want from me instead of hey she may be interested. Cool vid man.

[@mmm-ie5ws]

regarding #5. One strategy i learned by mistake is when she is around, just start talking on the phone or text someone in plain sight of her. She will rush over to you to hear what you have to say or who ur texting. they want to know if its another girl. OMG did this work on multiple girls. Like literally, hunching over to see what im texting on the phone.

[@cyantadeo975]

Now a lot of my interactions with other people back in school make a lot more sense

[@lasvegasplease]

Girls being passive aggressive with you to knock you down, men trying to make fun out of you around women because they are jealous and insecure about you, Ive had allot less attractive women trying to play hard to get because they feel lower than me on the market. Can be frstrating. I dont give them my energy. Let them do their thing.

[@CartelFund]

I was paranoid for the longest of people staring but I realized why haha

[@Cosmicmorales]

SAMe HERE

[@davidw5532]

Same!

[@michaelazariah73]

Handsome bros unite ✨️

[@BlazeUpMaryJane]

Thanks bro I really appreciate this video right now ! Never seen it from your perspective. I always hated being stared at especially when I would go out to eat like other people at the restaurant would just turn and look @ me eat , it made me so uncomfortable or when I was standing at that train station or bus stop everyone stares but I guess I’ll just accept it now 🤩😎

[@pavelonline3913]

i DEMAND SECOND AND THIRD and etc etc part! The man looks and speaks like a modern prophet! Thank you Mr Zachary!

[@Ajax2696]

Ive been rejected probably around 100 times and I am barely 27. Ive only had 3 gf's in my lifetime so don't give up y'all it just happens.

[@josheves9022]

Bro 100 isn’t anything

[@Sam-uh3oe]

Damn. I reject myself and don’t even approach.

[@Quincy82AAC]

Excellent video Shaun and I fully agree with you bro. I have been through this experience my whole life as a good looking man. 😎😎

[@jayjayleee]

The way people treat you when you're attractive is ironic really because it can make you feel like you're ugly

[@dontex7]

Bruh everything you said was all facts no cap 🧢 #salute 🫡 💯

[@thechucksmitty]

Straight facts Bro! 💯💯💯

[@ShaunZachary]

💪🏼💪🏼

[@Acord718]

Especially when you're in the hood. Pisses me off. Like I'm going to get into a fight or piss off a guy because his wife or girlfriend are there. That or people can just be prejudice or racist.

[@liluzihurts3117]

I watched this hoping to boost my confidence, but this just confirmed that I’m clapped 😑💀.

[@KingR1P]

I used to have a crazy low self esteem growing up cause i had horrible acne. It cleared up, but the scars on my reality were still there. So, fast forward. I noticed that people would always stare at me., come up and talk to me randomly of all ages and races, cashiers smile at me and hold convos, stuff like that. Oh, and even when i was broke out i never had trouble gettin women and thats true to this day even tho im takin a break from all that. I cant believe i ever thought i was ugly, and when i was built like an action figure the attention was overwhelming damn near suffocating. I was dumb for downplaying my looks, but im thankful i did because im not arrogant and i dont call people ugly either unless im joking and they KNOW im joking and i know them by name beforehand. No strangers.

[@blixx87]

I’ve been to the gym high as fuck and see people staring at me, guess I know why now, maybe they all didint know I was high after all 😂

[@indiamoreno4859]

Nice advice brother 😊 I found benefit because I know my value

[@infjmale91]

Dude, you are a good looking dude. I don't have insecurity & wish the best for you. Plenty of men & women to go around. Great videos.

[@isaacdandn23]

A couple of items I noticed. I went from unattractive in high school (late puberty, ance, braces) to what I believe is attractive. When i was ugly i was essentially invisible to girls or they were blunt/mean to me. Now a lot of matches on apps. A lot of staring/glancing from girls but most times quickly looking away when you catch them. girls coming up to you and asking you out (still rare but the fact this happens at all). Women at work praise your work trying to get your attention a lot even competing with other female workers for my attention. Women giving you a pass when you say unfunny jokes, creepy things, awkward things, etc

[@jorgenrexolson6451]

You earned a sub with that opening truth bomb. “There will be ppl who don’t like you for the simple fact that you’re fly…” Truth right there. Envious types can’t even be around good looking ppl without getting intimidated.

[@AndI0td763]

Not only that but like this guy said they will make things up about you and look for flaws when they’re around. They think they’re being all sly but we know exactly what they’re up to. Keep being fly bro.

[@londonmaths1557]

i get this alot in the gym...dudes and girls..its literally like the ghost level on super mario world, when marios backs turned the ghost stalk him, soon as he looks at them they pretend like they dont even acknowlegde him..looool...when i tell u it really be like that.. side note i dont chat to girls at the gym.. just not my thing

[@abeldk8861]

How about being bullied in school by friends, being called ugly? Everyone in the gym stares at me and women get real nervous when I’m around.

[@handsomeX]

I can totally relate to everything said here 💯🔥💥

[@tonyglobal1537]

so true , another real video

[@skizzler1232]

I'm not gone lie I be compliments all the time at work I don't have too much of a big ego i would consider myself pretty decently attractive

[@ShaunZachary]

Yea it could go either way for sure

[@Blinkers2007GameDev]

Bro I can relate to number 1. It gets under my skin and pisses me out. I always think it’s because I look weird or whatever but I realized they started staring at me when I got my killer jawline and lost body fat. So I guess I understand why they do it now Edit: also I noticed women started surrounding me a lot more and be near me. And stare at me. At the gym. I was doing cardio the other day and tons of beautiful women throughout tried to get eye contact with me. I noticed when I did cardio they wanted to do cardio near me too. Even if women don’t approach you they will be near you

[@aquamon17]

I'm in the same boat, so much so that I feel immense pleasure when a man doesn't look at me if I'm passing him by. You must develop a strategy to make these stares become inconsequential and have less detrimental effects on your mind. I sometimes swear almost audibly when men stare at me, but I'm more in a phase where my coping mechanism is 'don't give a fook'.

[@Blinkers2007GameDev]

@@aquamon17 Exactly. Practiced some mma in the gym today and people started staring at me. I just didn't care, and went back and fourth confidently. Confidence is everything. Even new people who saw me practicing mma didn't stare at me because I did it with such confidence

[@concretephysique1564]

Love this!! True confidence boost! Thanks bro!!

[@ricchprodigy9594]

Or sometimes if she ratchet and their in a group they will talk louder and try to make contact with you

[@ShaunZachary]

💯💯

[@00wrongun]

I'd consider myself average looking and always dealt with jealousy in some shape or form, I think it's more my personality as I'm layed back and make people laugh, I have been single for 22 year's, I'm 50 this month but I've got too comfortable living alone

[@Hello2u3582mypincode]

I'm trying hard to avoid that at almost 37 now:P Been alone for 12 years now and I'm shifting up the gears recently and yes I'm getting a lot more female attention, but it's like a marathon and a continuous sprint at the same time to really get in the zone.. I notice plenty of women are insecure themselves when it comes to attractive guys but they do like to get around me and get approached and hit on. Still working on my techniques though, but without trying I won't imporve anyway. And Yes, I know this (too) comfortable feeling of living alone. Therefor I'm getting myself in uncomfortable social situations more often lately. Not too uncomfortable all at once but gradually increase my social game, just like building up muscles with sports..

[@TheOneWhoBecameStrong]

I like you man. I can relate to everything you said is true and you're funny 😂

[@ShaunZachary]

🤜🏼🤛🏼

[@marikabastien]

The "no compliments" thing! Spot on!

[@michaelazariah73]

The apartment complex I live in everyone hates super envious of me because im ridiculously good looking ❤❤❤❤❤❤ bro

[@CiluhStyle1]

When I was feeling down about myself for a long time I couldn't knock the fact I always get compliments...from beautiful and nice women...and stares...I thought people was lookin at me cuz something was wrong wit me but damn I figured out people detect and gravitate towards me...had 3 different girls at my job told me I should model...no bs... crazy...and I have an intimidating look but I have a captivating smile according to people they tell me I should smile more

[@chrislife1101]

Walking to the bus stop and people break their necks to look at me, got me feeling all self conscious and awkward....its crazy. Happens so often.

[@aquamon17]

There are many persons going through that it seems as I read the comments. It can almost seem like curse but we must make the most of it and adopt one or more strategies to keep us grounded and less frustrated when we are the centre of attention in almost all settings.

[@nigeldonaldson1647]

You can't ALWAYS know why your being looked at. the reasons can vary of course it could be because your - over weight, unusually tall or short, or your complexion etc. Or it could be for more complimentary reasons, myself I don't really care as long as I don't sense a threat about how I'm being looked at

[@Fabian6980]

The biggest one Is if they hate you for no reason and when they don't even know you lol

[@AndI0td763]

That’s a big sign, and also if you establish yourself at a new place you are a known person right off the bat and people want to find out more about you. People come up and talk with you about anything and others will just sit back and observe you. Definitely keep an eye out for the haters they’re everywhere.

[@francoismarc3]

Anther banger! Keep bringing it out!

[@ShaunZachary]

✊🏼✊🏼