10 Signs You’re a MORE ATTRACTIVE MAN Than You Think

[@onemanslifemission]

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[@guntertorfs6486]

The one about you saying that guys entering a room and being looked at are thinking that they have done something wrong is very recognizable.

[@PacoPizano-i7i]

Damn

[@PacoPizano-i7i]

That how I feel?

[@PacoPizano-i7i]

I always thought I was ugly or scary

[@PacoPizano-i7i]

But people I consider ugly get trited way better then me

[@Blinkers2007GameDev]

Oh yes I can relate to that. Going to the room and thinking people look at me because I am ugly. I discovered it was the opposite

[@TheRareCriticalThinker]

The staring one hit me hard. I always had this pet peeve of people who kept staring at me, but when I reinterpret it, I’ve had a lot of successful outcomes

[@mdw1002]

I get looks from girls with boyfriends even while they’re WITH their boyfriends in public. Kind of sad but feels great at the same time if you get that.

[@onemanslifemission]

This is common. They aren't actually checking you out though.

[@mdw1002]

@@onemanslifemission trust me, they are. You wouldn’t even know anyway because it’s circumstantial to begin with.

[@_wazzer]

💀💀💀me too sometimes

[@msv7856]

@@mdw1002 You should have asked him what they are doing...

[@mdw1002]

@@msv7856 what who’s doing? The girls checking out other guys whilst having a boyfriend? They’re scouting for better 🍆 simple as that lol

[@j-real7233]

People will stare at you. You'll get free stuff. If you work out & become athletic, the women that used to not talk to you are all of a sudden carrying on conversations. Girls will end up in your space.

[@ramseyberry3295]

I relate soo much with the 9th point, sometimes i feel like people have really high expectations of me, and then when they actually get to know me and come to find that im just a regular human being with good and bad points... They seem to fade away quickly rather than slowly

[@arialisestrellaartistry]

As someone who was gaslit by nearly every social circle into thinking i was ugly and insecure, to grow into my beauty has been so empowering. People either love or hate beautiful people, and it's sad.

[@AndI0td763]

Human behavior. They are envious so they try and tear you down to their level. Most people are average looking so they want what an attractive person has. Not all but many.

[@chimpwimp9407]

Same. I was surprised to know I wasn’t a 4/10 when I went to college and noticed all the girls I found attractive reciprocated.

[@paulcolin9071]

True

[@puglif3708]

ngl i love to be hated rather than be loved , being loved makes you weak while being hated makes you strong but thats an issue because women that love me i push them away unconditionally

[@TheEarthRealm]

Gaslit? 🤨 Nah, I'mma need to see the receipts. Got any vids of you on your channel?

[@bigneiltoo]

When a woman is attracted to a man she will hold eye contact and smile. It will seem like you already knew her, like talking to your cousin at a family party.

[@who_is_dis]

Not true - not all women are secure and confident enough to do that. Many that are, still might not because of their own internal social customs. That's a proper simplistic - sperg perspective.

[@ContrarianExpatriate]

Ridiculous. Maybe the deranged or narcissistic girls will do that, but most won’t.

[@Thegalacticgeneral]

Facts ​@@who_is_dis

[@sahasrarachakra1]

Really?

[@Star17Platinum17]

Many did to me

[@boeingfan2479]

Another sign is if girls or people in general get nervous or awkward or shy around u

[@joe7665]

Or they start playing with their hair or neck

[@Variable-2-actual]

I've only heard one kid say that I made them nervous, she was like 12 with her mom. She got really clumsy around me and her mom would laugh at her and smile at me. It was weird.

[@XathosLP]

also slightly stuttering while talking to you x)

[@RandyMills-MoneychasinRandy]

Yea thats strange lol​@Variable-2-actual

[@jasonfields7058]

That's called preening. Another sign is prolonged eye contact. Another is "mirroring" behaviors or attitudes. Another is "proximity". They with subconsciously or consciously put themselves in your general area in full view for you to see them and interact with them. Body orientation. When you are around, they will "orientate" their body position to face you or "track" your movements without you even knowing it. Forcing interactions. This one I have had a few situations it's hard to explain. In one situation, I was shopping and when I got to the checkout line, the cashier was talking to me. Now I was not dressed the best that day. I was legit in gym clothing and wearing a hoodie with a du rag. I was also wearing shades and headphones. When I got to the cashier, she started to ask me questions that had nothing to do with my purchase. I made a conscious effort to take my headphones off and she repeated what she said. I nodded my head and put my headphones on and looked down. She kept talking and I took off my head phones again, as said sorry, I sort of zone out when I have my head phones and shades on an then I put my headphones back on and look back down at my groceries. She continues to talk, again not about my purchase and I pretend I don't hear her and begin pushing my items down faster on the conveyer belt. Her mood changed IMMEDIATELY and she just shut up and hung up my items. I have had situations in different context were I would be zoned out and wearing head phones, a hoodie, or on my phone and they would continuously keep trying to break through my zone trance and you could tell I was zone out and it would happen a few times before they got the idea. Most of the time I didn't even know what was happening until after the fact.

[@bttawfiq]

Aging has nothing to do with girls being attracted to you or not, I am 46 and I get looks and even flerts from girls in their 20s and 30s I don't know why! And they are doing it now more than ever , I guess the more confident you become with age the more they notice that

[@waynejackson1426]

I'm almost 60 years old and I'm still experiencing this. I only exercise to keep healthy, I eat well of course but it still amazes me at this age girls in their 20s are attracted to me.

[@AboutDatMoney]

Its not confidence

[@bttawfiq]

@@AboutDatMoney Enlighten me

[@hiddenleaf2]

They’re just being nice man… they aren’t actually flirting man. They feel comfortable with guys they aren’t attracted to. Guys they are attracted to they can barely speak

[@joen8529]

@@hiddenleaf2 Nonsense. I’m in my 40’s as well and I have more options than ever, and get more attention and looks by far than any other dude at my gym, even though I’m not even close to the fittest guy there. “Just being nice”? Ha. You have no idea what this guy’s actual scene is. Sounds like you’re jealous.

[@brandonparson8821]

Really good video bro👍 this is great for guys that honestly don't know they're attractive Story time for anyone interested I didn't think/realize I was attractive until I was 19 working at FedEx. The reason why is cause I had *REALLY* bad social anxiety, avoided eye contact, and did my best to be unnoticeable in public (but I still made good friends with people here and there). There were times I'd catch girls staring at me then they'd look away smiling, they'd ask me why I sounded different from everyone else (I grew up in Texas and have a slight accent), would usually get quite around me, and then quietly laugh as I walked away (looking back now I think that they got the vibe from me that I was a chill/quite guy that didn't give fuck about anything and kept to himself). My guy coworkers would tell me stuff like "Yo that girl keeps checking you out man!" But I played it off. My first confirmation I was handsome was when a female coworker I was good friends with straight up told me that "Almost half of the women in the building think your really cute." And that "Some of them get hella jealous when they see you talking to other girls." And after hearing it for myself it gave me a *HUGE* confidence boost, and I gradually lost my social anxiety to where now its barely an issue. The end

[@iurycabeleira7990]

Been findingmyself realizing this, hits harder when i realize most abuse I recieved is from envyous men that are competative.

[@evigmann525]

Hit me late in life too. Teaching my kids about envy to prepare them better. It starts young

[@ΣτέλιοςΣτέλιος-ρ1ν]

Lots of guys on the street are looking me with a look like I've done something to them...not sure if they are envy or I met them somewhere before

[@happisakshappiplace.6588]

I'm losing a lot of weight at the moment. Set up a mini gym at home. Mainly for my health. Given myself a 2 year plan to fix myself. I was told by a randoom delivery driver (a lady) that I was a very friendly guy and had a beautiful face.) despite the fact I wasn't a fit man. That comment went a long way to lift my spirits. Now I'm 53 but I have been told I look 40. I have very few wrinkles on my face and have a very youlthful face. I decided to do something about my fitness and is in the process of doing that.

[@onemanslifemission]

Include learning game from me in that schedule

[@americandissident9062]

An interesting thing is that a woman will show certain body parts. For example, it’s known that a woman will expose her neck and turn her head slightly to someone she is attracted too. Also, a woman will show her bare soles to a man when she is attracted and comfortable. Like propping her bare feet up on a desk. They will NEVER do either of these things if they’re around a guy they’re creeped out by or find unattractive. Personal experience, I’ve had two girlfriends who used their feet to show interest in me that way. I’m now married to one of them, and she still uses her feet to signal that she’s horny. She wasn’t even aware that she was doing it until I told her.

[@dimex3362]

One thing to remember tho, even if a girl does find you attractive, that doesn’t mean she wants to actively date or bang you. She could have a BF, or you may not be her type, she simply finds you attractive. Attraction doesn’t mean you’ve won the game. It means you have a play to make if you want to, if you don’t wait too long.

[@hiddenleaf2]

Is this Aristotle behind that keyboard?

[@amarson2322]

cope😂if woman finds u attractive she will jump ur bones if u ofc just play it cool and not creep her

[@dimex3362]

@@amarson2322 cope? Dude I’ve banged over 100 chicks in the last 3 years.. girls can be attracted to you physically yet not want to bang you. I’ve been on hundreds of dates and I’ve failed on many where the girl admitted she found me physically appealing, but didn’t want to go further sexually. Attraction is the beginning and it’s a pre requisite. But it isn’t all you need.

[@Jsmoove9627]

​@@dimex3362you got a point bro because just from my own perspective I can say there are attractive females that I don't pursue or just not as interested in but can definitely say they're pretty.

[@YoLightnings]

@@dimex3362your 100% right bro

[@bigneiltoo]

To know how much a woman likes you, simply compliment her (once). The amount she is happy with your compliment is directly proportional to how much she likes you. Examples Fat man: "You're hot!" Her: "Get lost!" Hot man: "I like your blouse!" Her: "THANK YOU! Tee hee!" (primping clothing and playing with her hair).

[@jandelrio7876]

Also it is the quality of the compliment, thoughtfulness is better then a general statement. But yeah there is going to he a difference with the same compliment regardless

[@wezzsimple6612]

I always am in the middle, all I get is a flattered thank you, no hair fiddling or anything like that

[@bigneiltoo]

@@wezzsimple6612 Try being leaner. I didn't have a car for 3 years and suddenly it's like overnight every girl wants to hang out with me or hug me. The main problem is they all know each other. That reminds me. I told some girl yesterday I'd come see her at work at 2:30pm when it's quiet. I noticed she had huge pupils. That's a sign of strong attraction. She also hugged me when she left and told me her schedule. That happened 3 times yesterday with 3 girls. One brought me a present from another country (I had given her some chocolate on Valentine's Day when I ran into her by chance). That said, everyone tries to cock block so you can't tell anyone anything.

[@TheEarthRealm]

"You're hot!" is way worse than "I like your blouse", so it doesn't count.

[@Blinkers2007GameDev]

@@wezzsimple6612 Get lean and take care of eyebrows, facial hair, teeth and skin. You will become attractive. I did these things and went from ugly to attractive

[@mr.j3371]

It’s not wrong to be tempted by another persons looks, but it is wrong to give into it

[@FabianMarquez-sy7jw]

If people hate you without even knowing you especially women. Youre attractive they will tease you and give you a hard time

[@Fabian6980]

I get stares at work every single day its interesting lol at first i was confused by it but im used to it now and its flattering people dont stare at what they dont find appealing

[@cgab12]

I’ve always noticed that I had to work too hard to keep the conversation going with women, so I know that I’m not attractive. It’s common sense, really, if this is happening to you, you shouldn’t need this video. People always tell me that it’s my imagination…I don’t think so.

[@blah9664]

Its not you...women are not good conversationalist. Thats why they all tend to say "dont be boring" because they're boring themselves and want to be entertained. They want men to be everything they ARE NOT.

[@mrFED1k]

Because of porn and pper pressure in my teens I only thought about the sex so was too afraid to talk to woman Now that my relationship might be ending I don't think I could make a connection with anyone else Together 12 years married for 8

[@nickp3949]

I’ve been told I’m attractive multiple points in my life but I still get insecure everywhere I go because I’m 5’2”. So I KNOW people are sizing me up, probably talking about me and laughing in public, labeling me as a low value dude, etc… I feel very intimidated everywhere I go because everyone is always so much bigger than me

[@nickp3949]

@CARTIERH0E Tell me about it. And I can’t do a damn thing about it.

[@Unrealenting]

They are telling you that because they feel bad for you. Get the height surgery, can get you up to atleast 5’5 5’6

[@nickp3949]

@@Unrealenting And the worst part it that I’m not some low value guy with no life experience. I’m ex military, I have PTSD, I’m also a Muay Thai fighter and I have a good job. But I get looked at like a little kid. I get called “kid” by people younger than me that don’t know how old I am. How can I possibly be seen as a manly by women if I have this issue?

[@Unrealenting]

@@nickp3949 gymmax, I’m talking get huge, it’ll earn respect from guys and some girls, take the first thought away from your height and put it towards “wth he’s huge”.

[@slimbrady6004]

⁠@@nickp3949can you grow a beard? Also, the one thing short guys have that tall guys don’t is the ability to put on muscle easily. I’m 6’2 and almost all my shorter friends are more jacked than me even though they don’t lift as much. If you can grow a beard and put on some muscle, idk if you’ll start attracting females, but at least people won’t treat you like a child anymore.

[@hyemuhyemu8221]

6 is so confusing to me. I get smiles, smirks, grins, giggles, to them losing it and laughing out loud. The other ones make sense but the laughing for no reason when they see you is weird asl. Ive made whole groups of girls sitting at a table go to talking to quiet and staring at me following me with thier gaze as i walk by but also I've made a table of girls who are sitting eating together, not talking, go full on laugh out loud! Makes no sense bcs in our men brain, someone laugh when you didn't make a joke is disrespectful! Also i get giggles from late teens and early 20s when i first make eye contact with them. Before i took that as them thinking i look funny but now i get it. They're feeling really happy, flustered and butterflies at the same so they giggle as if they just saw their crush

[@BWater-yq3jx]

You are wearing pants, right?

[@fuzzypanda1684]

In my youth, I got none of these and did terribly with women. Which made sense because I was skinny, shy, unconfident and introverted. I saw guys who effortlessly attracted girls and decided that I was going to be that man, no matter what. So I spent years improving my physique, face, charisma, confidence and social skills. I'm now in extremely good shape (6 pack abs, 17in biceps, V-Taper etc.), with an above average face, and a full head of hair. I get looks, double takes and outright stares from girls on a regular basis when I go out, and I get told that I look like an actor at least once a week. Yet... I still get the same end results. When I go out, no matter how positively the girls react to me, I go home alone every single time. When I show interest in a girl, even if she was giggling, smiling, making eye contact and looking between my eyes and lips, she suddenly loses all interest and starts avoiding me. It's driving me INSANE, because I've done all the right things, made all the right changes, get all the right reactions, and can SEE the massive difference in how people act towards me, but get none of the end results. It's absolutely maddening. Oh, and I'd absolutely help an old lady whose car is broken down, what kind of a**hole wouldn't?

[@onemanslifemission]

You need coaching with a man like myself

[@DanLetts97]

It doesn’t mean they don’t have boyfriends. Women still like to look at, and even flirt with good looking guys, it doesn’t mean they’re looking.

[@fuzzypanda1684]

@@DanLetts97 In some cases, perhaps. But I've met girls who brought up that they were single, which usually girls don't do unless they're very interested, who ended up being completely disinterested. Not to mention the many more who I asked if they were single, who said yes, only to still be disinterested.

[@fuzzypanda1684]

@@onemanslifemission I've had coaching before, and even gone out in person with a few coaches. In every instance, they told me that they can't understand why I get the results that I do, because it makes no sense. They told me that I'm in as good of shape as I claimed, as good looking as I claimed, as confident as I claimed, and approached girls with confidence and good openers. One guy even told me that he was going to steal some of my openers. In the end, NONE of them charged me, because they felt that they couldn't help me and couldn't understand what was happening.

[@IshvaraGodCazimi]

@@fuzzypanda1684try to glow down a bit and then hit up girls then glow up again

[@kinglouiethegreat1165]

I thought that thing in the top right of that bookshelf was my index finger for a sec.

[@onemanslifemission]

🖕

[@onemanslifemission]

lol

[@mikewilkins2030]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@afroslacker7383]

I can’t unsee that now 😂

[@RandyMills-MoneychasinRandy]

Nice

[@lamakalama2999]

ive been having short term relationships whole time this helped

[@billybanter9573]

I am 6'5 a lot of people look at me normally in everyday life.

[@jackie3814]

How to be 6,5

[@shadowlaw809]

If a girls passes by you and at that exact moment she plays with her hair she is feeling you

[@Bobby_Duku]

I mean yea, that can be the case you know.

[@gamingguy8595]

I have opposite sometimes girls do hair primping when they see me.Not every single girl do hair primping when they see me. Also sometimes i get smile from gals. Mostly i get stares from gals and guys.

[@mrFED1k]

I have a bit of feeling too much shame looking at woman like that so I immediately just ruin my chances, unless I'm drunk but it's not genuine

[@thunderking8925]

Or she noticed gum in her hair.

[@birdinreality8928]

Women feel like I'm rejecting them or when I'm having a normal conversation they think I was shooting my shot, the whole time I thought we were building a solid friendship

[@ppumpkin3282]

I was always overweight, didn't feel attractive, and didn't have much luck with girls - until I was forty - at which time I had difficulty swatting them away. I think it was because I was very successful at my job. Most of the girls that were hitting on me were related to my job. Conferences and seminars where I travelled to a hotel and there were other professional women there was hot. I also learned some game, and sometimes just mirroring women sitting near me was effective. Of course as someone who wasn't getting it for years, it was hard to handle all the new interest. I was also a part time professor and every semester there was one or two girls who would do anything for me.

[@SilxDrums]

Anything?😂😂😂bruh sounds you been with some freaks..

[@richardrodriguez4652]

I'm a 43 year old Man and I receive looks from Young and older women. I go to The gym since I was 18. That is very important.

[@kllol1892]

Smart good look man thanks for sharing beautiful video with great message. Love you all keep smiling. 😊😍

[@onemanslifemission]

💪🏻☺️💯

[@kllol1892]

👍

[@kllol1892]

😊😍

[@catilina9251]

Always been a nerdy kind of guy, short and unimpressive. Over the years had some attention from hot girls occasionally, but I was so low on self-confidence and inexperienced that I assumed I misunderstood. In hindsight, realized that I may be pretty ok on the attractiveness front.

[@styx953]

As a 6'4 guy with lean body, dark hair, deep voice, high cheekbones and good jawline (decent overall facial symmetry), I would say most of these are true, especially the staring part, but since all of my attractive features are genetics not self made, i've been stared at by women and men alike my entire life so I kinda tune it out at this point. I purposly just assume they will stare so im not looking in their direction and just go on with my day because I find it highly annoying that I can never enter a room without everyone noticing any little mistake I do it makes you self concious and it is more of a curse than a blessing for the most part. Sometimes you just wanna be invisible and not be checked by everyone at all times. It kinda lead to me developing social anxiety. And sometimes I wish I was just ugly so I could go outside in peace without having peoples acting nervous around me all the time and staring. Just want peoples to act normal. That is why usually when I go out I dress down alot, dirty shoes, sweat pants, t-shirt etc to not stick out as much and to prevent peoples staring at me (atleast in my head that works). But the fact that most peoples will rush in to help you if ever are in trouble is the one boon that I actually like about being conventionally attractive. Everytime I enter a store if its a woman behind the counter she will rush in to offer her aid almost instantly if I pretend to be confused but not say anything, ignoring all her other customers that is kinda funny. If you are ever around a man and his girlfriend you will have the woman hitting on you infront of her boyfriend and the man giving you the stink eye and clammering onto his gf to make it clear that she is not single while she is pretending to be single, that is another funny interaction you have with peoples when you are attractive. The fact that you can never truely be friends with another woman without her either hitting on you or her boyfriend getting omega jelous is a big negative. Because sometimes you just wanna be friends with a woman because she have a nice personality so you will have to breadcrumb her to make her stay in the friendship at all times. I think there are both negatives and positivies to being attractive, but in the end I would say that the pros outweigh the cons.

[@IshvaraGodCazimi]

Good read

[@Jaytecx]

11. Getting excellent service in expensive shops. 12. Children will approach and smile more often at you.

[@Rusty624]

Damn. I learn all this once I'm in a relationship. Just my luck.

[@rik-keymusic160]

I’m a good looking guy but don’t have many options… a lot of woman think I’m a player I guess. Many woman i find not attractive… i had a nice chick in the past but she wasn’t really stimulating me mentally. I’m also someone who works on himself etc. And when I’m out i see so many red flags so I don’t know where to find a quality partner that is available. What ate the odds to find an attractive woman who’s single and interested in me 😅… I’m 35 and didn’t had a long term relationship for almost a decade. I’m a bit concerned that i missed the boat although i still look 26. Anyways, i hope someday the law of attraction will bring me something interesting 🤣

[@onemanslifemission]

Sitting around hoping is a terrible strategy. Get some coaching with me, and I'll make things happen fast

[@autoclearanceuk7191]

You are in the prime of your life. Now is your best time.

[@j_huert9770]

Update

[@fernandosandoval9306]

Think you! Never knew that!

[@onemanslifemission]

You're welcome buddy

[@hsard]

I needed to hear this today... Thanks

[@beefhamburger-yy5jb]

I will not look at a woman if she is with her bf and their walking towards me out of respect for her man. Because I know what it's like when I've had gf's and when me and my girl had to walk past attractive dudes, I hated it I was so insecure

[@colinesquire2480]

It's a very accurate list

[@SI-nh1kw]

For years I always thought I have done something wrongwhen I walk into any space cos people stare at me

[@mickey875]

The listening thing was it for me the fact that they listen wether they agree or not they care what you have to say

[@marcus_ohreallyus]

The age thing has been the opposite for me. I get more looks as I get older...from younger women. But I also don't look my age.

[@onemanslifemission]

@@marcus_ohreallyus Depends on what your base level was.

[@robinsonnwanebi2544]

This has happened once but I guy kept on eyeing me as if I’m a threat every time he was with his girl

[@nickyjames1985]

Yeah....I got none of those but it's comforting atleast to know they won't be looking at my imperfections

[@onemanslifemission]

Chin up bro

[@danaf9716]

Strongly disagree with some of the points. You can listen to somebody because you are interested in ideas and understanding where the other person is coming from without any sexual context or attraction going on.

[@bunny19-xk5mj]

I also think that

[@ArizonaAirspace]

This is so helpful. Thanks for uploading your video.

[@starkid77]

An 11th sign is when a couple walk by and they both like what they see.

[@TheEarthRealm]

...Like a gay couple? 🤷🏿‍♂

[@tolazyforaname6654]

@@TheEarthRealm 🤣

[@williamhughey6875]

Men don't know how good looking they are sir, because WOMEN DONT SHOW ATTRACTION TO MEN OR COMPLIMENT MEN. Women are too busy complimenting OTHER WOMEN.

[@onemanslifemission]

True

[@mountainlion105]

The second point is very good..i observed that too

[@bedlfit2198]

Been getting checked out by girls since high school. I definitely appreciate it, but after a while, it begins to become more important than it should be. It’s taken a long time to cope with being attractive, believe it or not. Finding the balance, the appreciation, the real importance of life…etc. Good looks can honestly become a curse if you allow it to become larger than your character.

[@eddexplorechannel3965]

Good video I must be more attractive attractive than I think I am because I get most of these in your top 10 top 10😊😊

[@paulackley2882]

A man needs to walk with a purpose. Women truly notice how a man walks & stands.

[@EE12CSVT]

Correct, a huge amount of it comes from your presence and body language, and a lot of men don't bother to learn this

[@EE12CSVT]

I get looks from much younger women all the time, as well as women nearer my age, at least 6 today in a few hours.

[@Kuu_7]

The more I watch this video, the more delusional I get. I love it 😂

[@onemanslifemission]

@@Kuu_7 😳😳😳

[@kevingrace4831]

😂😅

[@sgtrazor9-446]

People treat me like crap. I don’t even care about if I’m a attractive guy.

[@jamessmith-ol6ww]

grow a pair so.

[@sgtrazor9-446]

Make a complete sentence if you are talk shit

[@gb5634]

Do you treat you like crap?

[@sgtrazor9-446]

@@gb5634 I don’t treat people like crap.

[@mck7646]

Jealousy is one of the main conditions of being human. Many don't talk about the downsides of being good looking. Often times you will have a target on your back and this opens you up to attacks from envious people who feel that it's okay to try and knock you down to their low level. Happens a lot.

[@theyoodoo]

I get many of these signs from younger women at work. It's helpful to know all this. Women my own age show little or no interest.

[@EE12CSVT]

Another one is if she's intimidated as you pass her somewhere. She'll look a bit awkward, go quiet. This is partly fear, but not because she sees you as a creep - this has happened with women who know me as an acquaintance and know that I'm not the neighbourhood psycho, and see that everyone around me has a good relationship with me.

[@SakoBrownBearHH]

This is some good stuff. Very consistent with my own personal experience. Liked and subscribed.

[@who_is_dis]

More than ever before, I'm getting my friends partners giving signs overt enough for my friends to notice - it's actually kind of annoying because they end up excluding you or resenting you even though you're not doing anything. I also just don't really see myself quite like that but I do get plenty of that kind of feedback.

[@ashleysmith1011]

Great content thank you.

[@dundaz1]

My confidence was destroyed after an 8 year relationship, wasn’t aloud on sunbeds for skin tone, couldn’t work out, could only eat certain foods. So glad I’m out and picked myself up, (not gona lie, took people I was close too, a mental health nurse and anti depression tablets to get over it) why did I not run? I had two kids with the girl. But as a 34 year old man I can safely say I can’t handle the complements I get on a night out. What’s worse is I’m 6ft 3 so 9 times out of ten people stare anyway. I always feel like there’s a hidden agenda.

[@onemanslifemission]

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[@cateclism316]

I got the most gawks from girls in my 40s. I was partly gray, somewhat overweight, so this surprised me. I had a trainer at work tacitly invite me to her training room (the smile said it all). Wait, didn't you see my wedding ring???

[@WhetuRichmond]

Its a curse I often get hit on by my relatives partners, freinds partners, co-workers partners, randoms with there girlfriends ect.. till the point where its almost a fist fight in most cases over jealousy..so I stay home most of the time and mind my own. I value good company but majority of my circles are like this. Its important to take care of yourself keeping well groomed, smell fantastic and keep in shape for your own bright personality. I get hit on by ALOT of dudes too 😂 no homo.

[@EPmessi9800]

What if they look away? Like a whole 90 degrees. Happened a few times. I think I know the answer but just don’t wanna admit it 😂

[@slavamareev274]

i work as a cashier and if their girl order's the guy usually darts straight behind or beside

[@WorshipTheLordYourGod]

I can't help but laugh. When I saw "The Disabled Casanova" in the background xD

[@onemanslifemission]

You don't think disabled people can succeed in life?

[@WorshipTheLordYourGod]

@@onemanslifemission I do. I’ve seen it. To clarify: All I’m saying is it delightfully caught me off guard. I’ve never seen that before.

[@WorshipTheLordYourGod]

@@onemanslifemission especially since I’ve seen this video a few times and never noticed it before.

[@Dennisthemas]

So basically i need to go out in public for me to actually see results.

[@onemanslifemission]

🤣

[@Ignemfarem]

I get mostly side eyed by women. I dont know why. I am pretty jacked tho. And dont know if I am too jacked for them but wtv I like my gains. Guys that walk past me usually gives me a nod or a "phewwh" face. Is this good or bad?

[@RacerX_1111]

I’m a woman and a 20 year old guy asked me how he could tell if this girl liked him. The first thing I said … she will let you in her personal space and not back away. If a girls not attracted to you, you’re not getting in that space. 😂

[@rickcarrasco6716]

So usually when you walk in the room, everybody looks, and then they look away. What do you mean they stare at you or they look at you and look away or what

[@dsumecki8176]

Thanks bro for the advice 🙏

[@onemanslifemission]

@@dsumecki8176 You're welcome

[@TheFuture36520]

Number one you're on Vogue magazine!

[@PCP1992]

I honestly don't even know anymore.

[@RJATTRILL]

This is really helpful straightforward advice. Alongside of pure looks, how much difference do you think that internal confidence (swagger) makes?

[@BLITZY261]

Mark Wahlberg should give the answer to this one...the man has total swagger. He once played a character in a film of his, SHOOTER, as one actress referred to in a scene as ... "I KNOW YOU...YOU'RE BOB LEE SWAGGER".... I can't help reading that as "Bobbly swagger"....you do the math. Ball-swinging swagger. Yes, swagger matters...Wahlberg's character got the hot girl in the end. He was laughing all the way to the bank on that one.

[@americandissident9062]

Makes zero difference without initial attractiveness.

[@jbohler33]

None of these are happening for me. I guess I know what that means.

[@PeterGuru]

Number is one opposite for me. Men look at me more than women. They have told me before, I am attractive. But I also noticed this one guy stares at me lot lately. And called me baby. Strange thing about him, is he is married man with baby. I am bisexual man. Called me baby and boy multiple times. And he also try to get closer to me. I also noticed him asking my friend about me.

[@jmj7543]

I was at a restaurant with my friend. He's a good-looking fellow as well. A girl and her boyfriend were seated a few tables away. The girl kept giving me looks for a good 45 minutes until they left. I told my friend about it and how sad it got me that she was doing it right in front of his boyfriend but he asked me to tell him later. I was confused because why couldn't I tell him then and there, so I did anyway. As we were leaving, my friend told me that he didn't want me to speak about it because there was another girl very close behind me who was doing the EXACT SAME THING. I wonder if the girl behind me even realised after hearing our conversation.

[@onemanslifemission]

Learn cold approach from me

[@teamsophie3130]

There are no ugly people, only strange beauty, join the gym, dress well, gain self-confidence and everything comes by itself.

[@jeremyterkelsen2518]

Strange beauty? C'mon bro

[@liborplacek]

COPE

[@AboutDatMoney]

Cap

[@Viscous_6]

🧢

[@jayslungsbloodclot2733]

Strange beauty = Political correct name for ugly mf's

[@rdbagaming]

thanks dude i like your content

[@onemanslifemission]

👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

[@Thekulprit92]

A good personality goes alot farther than looks alone, dont forget that dudes, but dont forget, you do have to invest in hygene and your looks, men often arent taught this or they simply forget they become nasty, if you dont care about your looks and hygene, no woman will

[@TheIrritsBand]

I am an absolute stunner, my ego told me so 🤣🤣

[@onemanslifemission]

@@TheIrritsBand You don't believe that

[@Angelique-m8l]

What if this happens but in "spurts" meaning that all of what you explained happens but in one month... then nothing until 4 months later....then nothing until 6 months....rince/repeat

[@backtoshellac6459]

You might be fluctuating in weight or skincare. This happens to me when I fatten up a bit, once I drop below a certain weight though the looks turn on again like a light switch.

[@birdinreality8928]

Shaved my beard and I get more looks

[@onemanslifemission]

Try some stubble too

[@benravenwood8535]

I'm quite the opposite

[@DanLetts97]

The opposite is true for me. When I grow out a scruff, the difference is like night and day. When I’m clean-shaven, I turned into the invisible man.

[@rickcarrasco6716]

Also, you said you got a little older and no one looks at you anymore does that happen because you get older no women look at a man anymore what’s the case with that?

[@chokwoo5720]

I'm Oversea Chinese living in Europe, I do get a lot of friendly smile from female, always though because I am tall and slim compare to 95% of the people with exotic look, until Women start google me after a brief occasion of name exchange

[@jakesontiano]

If you don't know if you're attractive, you're not, trust me, attractive people are very well aware that their attractive.

[@onemanslifemission]

Maybe

[@who_is_dis]

You'd be surprised. Attractive people get a whole mixture of social feedback. It's really not that simple unless you're all the way at the end of the spectrum where it's really obvious.

[@Handle6278]

It depends. I used to play soccer and grew my hair out because that was a thing in my team. I didn't cut it short until my sophomore year in college and you wouldn't believe the difference. It was genuinely night and day. The funny thing is I've always been a quiet person and when I had long hair they called me shy, when I cut it they called me a stud. But my mentality of not being attractive stayed with me. It took a while for me to get used to the stares, girls actually wanting to talk or study with me. Wanting relationships. So you never know! Everyone has their story.

[@Ash_Hudson]

That is not entirely true. I'd say I'm an attractive dude (Yes, I do know that now) but for years I was plagued by doubts about it. I was insecure and had no idea I was attractive.

[@CrooKdLetterJ]

Lol fuck off i allways think I'm ugly but women don't I allways gotta tell em they're out there mind some people just got issues like me 😅

[@akgamer2.054]

So I am not attractive

[@_healthy_codegod-lz2ex]

I hit 9 signs out of these 10 regularly but not daily.

[@onemanslifemission]

@@_healthy_codegod-lz2ex Awesomeness

[@ramelhagins6698]

Same here, use to get alot of looks from the girl's. Now that I'm older I'm invisible.

[@raiswarnim9431]

People do say look good and I do catch some girls looking at me but I don't have a girlfriend 😅

[@ndumisogiftmdletshe2684]

Disabled Casanova at the back😂

[@onemanslifemission]

Read it

[@freyr9617]

Number 9 is the only tell tell sign, if its not dont bother watching this video

[@onemanslifemission]

Don't bother reading this comment

[@freyr9617]

@@onemanslifemissionwhat a high iq comment

[@oeleveoleve.7562]

When a man with o without girlfriend see me... He always try to see me trying his girlfriend not see him. Do not know why am so attractive to men....

[@prudentiusinvader6652]

Girls always give me hard eye contact but I cant follow it up lol😅

[@onemanslifemission]

You can do it bro!!!!!!

[@onemanslifemission]

I believe in you!

[@Vellisaden0207]

Wuss !!!

[@thesheepthemightythecrazy]

social interaction takes practice. you have to keep at it and learn.

[@cdbryant2471]

​@Vellisaden0207 naw. Some just aren't good at communicating. Do you think that's am easy skill to acquire?? Took me years

[@insomniacbat-u3f]

Hey aren't u Dave Lee from Sydney Australia? I rmb your old videos lol 😂😂😂

[@onemanslifemission]

RMB?

[@onemanslifemission]

I'm coaching men now

[@TaxEvasi0n]

I only get low tier women interested in me, or chicks below my league. Does this still count?

[@onemanslifemission]

Start asking yourself. Stop seeking validation from other men

[@TaxEvasi0n]

@@onemanslifemission Wtf lol. How is that at all relevant or an appropriate response? Ask myself what? Clearly it's not a question I know the answer to. Validation from men? What men? Is this video not about a man offering a support of some kind to other men?

[@adriangarza7584]

@@onemanslifemission bro wtf is this response, you didn’t answer his question 😂

[@jimbrown5552]

Watching from Ireland

[@onemanslifemission]

@@jimbrown5552 Welcome. Sign up for coaching

[@Krishicher]

I fully comprehend that the purpose of this video is to drive connections for your coaching business. I have no interest in signing up but I did want to comment because I am a person for whom zero of these signs apply. I am 58 and have more years within the dating scene than a 24-year-old (quite obviously). And in those many years, I have never had a single one of these things happen to me. I have to rely on intellect in order to find dates, and that can even turn people off.

[@onemanslifemission]

Cheers

[@andre1987eph]

Here in California you have to go by how many men check you out per day. (Cause California women just cant be bothered with men). Im being 100% serious.

[@onemanslifemission]

🤣🤣🤣 that cannot be right

[@bircruz555]

That is a lot of California you are talking about.