She’s a future wife

[@peagee4518]

brought a tear to my eye just to believe that women like this might still exist...

[@lilfairycupcake]

dont trust a dam one of them.

[@daveshore8671]

Midriff tank top. I doubt it’s real

[@PoldaranOfDalaran]

Just the fact that she's delaying gratification for the sake of her future tells me a LOT about her, and what it's saying is good. I hope she finds a man who is worthy of that.

[@ASRMN27]

If you believe her then I have a bridge to sell you .

[@johnlennon6790]

Yep it says that for long-term planning she is definitely the right partner. Hopefully that means she picks the right long-term planner type of fella.

[@davidp2888]

She's a rare breed.

[@Luke_wait_for_it_marengo]

Yes, she is, mate :)

[@OzyWazza]

Sad thing is that it's likely that she's copped PURE HELL for having this stance over the years... Absolute bow of respect to her for not having such a stance, but weathering the storm while doing so.

[@Hammerhead137]

Anyone know her name?

[@jasonbolster3259]

Similarly, I am someone else's husband. I will not dishonour my future wife by lusting after other women.

[@MDE128]

Same

[@Keith-e5f]

It's a fact that people that sleep around have trouble settling down with one person. She's admirable.

[@afterlife697]

As a Christian man who is saving myself for marriage, I very much appreciate this kind of attitude in a woman. The last girl I had dated told me that she had slept with someone a few months ago for the first time I immediately knew the relationship wouldn’t last and she wouldn’t become my wife. The worst part is the guy she did it with ended up harassing her, and she ended up hating herself for what she had done. Don’t give to peer pressure men like myself are out there waiting for you!!

[@McTaco]

Used to be the standard for everyone. Good for her.

[@iceonthesun8880]

If only every woman was this level-headed & loyal to sacred ideals Oh well, I guess

[@mikesackmary]

She sounds like a keeper!

[@Things_I_wish_I_knew]

Understanding, recognizing, and appreciating the need for us to be accountable to others is what also by extension helps us to grow and develop into overall better people... Even sometimes despite the fact of how we are treated ourselves.

[@ralphmiranda2077]

She's the diamond [that] makes the work on yourself worth it.

[@eta_carithebrightlord3396]

Nah

[@ooshta]

My spouse was the same and we've been married along time and even have grandchildren. Our child did the same thing as did his wife as they keep their relationship with Jesus close. ❤

[@tkorte101]

For women, sex releases neurochemicals that bond her to her partner. A woman that has many partners loses the ability to bond to any partner as a result. The consequence is that she also loses the ability to feel the sense of belonging that comes along with the bonding.

[@nunyabitnezz2802]

Oh, that’s science right there. 😏

[@tomwalters2529]

Sounds like she is a grounded person with an eye to having an emotionally rich life. There are always people with other intentions but...if your looking for gold you've got to sift through a lot of earth.❤

[@HappyGrapefruit99]

This might be TMI but I always (secretly) had the same ideals in my head.... I just didn't advertise it, since I'm not religious so it felt "silly". Let's just say, when I met my future husband, I was so into him that I found myself bending my rules! It all worked out in the end, though, so in general I wouldn't fault a girl for following this approach....

[@CopperMan-h2b]

While I think you should live your life in a way that matches your values, as a senior, and a Christian man, I can tell you that there is nothing a woman can do before entering a relationship with me that could be disrespectful to me in the least. I wish love and relationships could last forever, but they don't. Make good decisions, but live a full life, and experience all it has to offer while ensuring you are being respectful of all the people you meet along the journey. If sex was just about respect, God wouldn't have made it one of the most incredible experiences of a person's life. I think the person you were commenting on has a misunderstanding of what respecting and disrespecting someone is. Take care, Raymond

[@AlexSmith-tb9jb]

And their future husbands better not be sleeping with other women, otherwise they don't deserve a woman who has been saving herself for marriage.

[@Concordfan443]

I refuse to talk to women that wont be my wife, i dont want to be a villain

[@Allan_aka_RocKITEman]

The problem is FINDING women like that.

[@dsc3275]

I had the same values as a man. Waited for my wife. A bunch of women crossed my path first though and none of them were wife material so I didn't sleep with them and then move on, making myself no better than they were. Now looking back I'm glad I had standards for myself and for a wife. Married 35 years to a woman who has always loved me back and never given me any reason to doubt her faithfulness.

[@zenquantum1246]

This is one end of the spectrum. The best is somewhere in between “no sex till marriage” and “one night stands with everyone I find attractive.” Sex is part of who we are and exploring that is an important process of learning about ourselves so that we know what to look for in a lifelong partner and how we’ll react to them. As with all things: education and balance

[@ozzieflower4232]

I’ve been married twice over the last 50 years. My first wife was NOT of your mindset. My current wife and I are well into our 35th year of a very strong, loving and respectful marriage. Well, I respect, love and cherish her, and with my military and police careers she tolerates me. I am in no doubt that I am among the top minuscule percentile of fortunate and favoured men. And I make sure she knows that I know it.

[@anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470]

You think that mindset isn't popular for women men get even more ridicule for it

[@patrickriarchy6054]

I'm someones future husband. So I won't disrespect them by going out on dates. It's easy considering nobody wants to date me.

[@gordarcher9748]

I like and appreciate the sentiment. But when I invest heavily in something I kind of want to try before I buy. And a life long commitment of the magnitude of marriage is a huge emotional investment. So future wifey feel free to disrespect me, a little bit, in your effort to find me.

[@AbcDef-s7r]

attention incomming

[@hamletthaus3046]

Unfortunately it’s not the world we live in anymore. Almost everyone and everything has been corrupted.

[@mikemidwood9661]

I think the must frustrating part of this conversation is that most guys don't really care if you've had previous partners. They care if you've had a careless approach to sex in your past.

[@docsavage8640]

False. Numbers matter a lot because they tell us your attitude.

[@mafp22w]

I care.

[@StillNotCancelled]

Some guys care. But a lot don't. It doesn't really say much about you whether you care or not, only the reason why you care.

[@nunyabitnezz2802]

I only care about her future.

[@chumbucket6184]

​@@nunyabitnezz2802history repeats itself

[@jkbrown5496]

Strictly speaking she's only promising to not sleep with other men. She could just get up and go elsewhere after the fun.

[@Remedy462]

What if she becomes a wife to a man and sleeps with him but he divorces her and she wants to find another man but can't because now she has already disrespected her future future husband by sleeping with another man?

[@glennbrooks3449]

Deal with it when it happens.

[@Remedy462]

@@glennbrooks3449 Her logic is flawed.

[@docsavage8640]

Pros and cons to everything? There's really no downside to a woman being chaste before marriage. Only a lot of upsides.

[@LinWatchorn]

Well she won’t know somethings! You may have to teach her what you like. Of course this goes for all relationships though.

[@mikewhitaker2880]

she's somebody's future wife and won't disrespect him by sleeping with other men.. unfortunately ALL men are the OTHER men to her.... she has YET to realize that Prince Charming is a fig newton of her dreams and does NOT exist.....

[@docsavage8640]

You're coping so hard, does it hurt?

[@patrickcreighton5109]

The men are out there but they're working they butt's off and I hope the twain shall meet . ⚖️

[@sjonnieplayfull5859]

Almost the same story here, but on easy mode since I'm an average guy, so basically invisible to women

[@rogerwalker3969]

Every chick says this to herself after ending a relationship.

[@SKIPWOOD-UA777CAPT]

it's called pair bonding.....

[@riaanbreedt5490]

she have a rare beauty within her and may the God bless her abundantly in the name of Jesus Christ amen she is a keeper, wife material through and through. her future husband is going to be the most happiest and luckiest man ever in this world to be with her forever.

[@uoabigaillevey]

She speaks the language but probably has standards set so high that the guy she falls for will likely be a pump and dump kinda guy.. who would drop her immediately if she doesn't put out. She is likely to remain single a very long time otherwise.

[@artistsanomalous7369]

OK...not what I expected from the thumbnail.

[@ceverett68]

I'd like to think that's real. but it's probably just clickbait. some women screaming for attention and engagement. that has an OF

[@LinWatchorn]

I didn’t think of that. I hope it’s real too

[@SG-js2qn]

Why "unfortunately" ...?

[@stormlakebobcat9058]

Wahmen: the past does not matter Men: sure it does. Youre now a rusted out broken down Datsun B-210 wagon. We're a well tuned Toyota 4 Runner. And we just passed you in the traffic of life. 😅😊🐻🐻 Grizzle Grizzle

[@dustyk103]

There are so many factors that go into a relationship. My first said no sex till we’re married. That’s when I found out we were sexually opposites and had a miserable marriage.

[@Luke_wait_for_it_marengo]

Actual wife material, take notes ladies.

[@jamesbush5990]

💯 give it a try

[@jfct9226]

Amazing 😍

[@ericwilson2585]

So you're saying that if they've been married twice and have 5 children, IT MIGHT BE A RED FLAG????😮😂

[@jasperzanovich2504]

I am pretty sure she is going to have a hard time finding someone who will marry her first. Well, outside of the Amish and other hardcore religious groups.

[@elijahwilson1422]

Even they can spot a trollop

[@mafp22w]

Both my sons, are waiting for marriage. One is a CPA and the other an electrical engineer. I think they are a good catch for a girl like this. But they need not worry. It is God that brought Eve to Adam and He will find someone for them.

[@Actaeon2nd]

If virginity is a requirement for your future bride ... good luck with that !!!!

[@StillNotCancelled]

Indeed. If her future husband considers it disrespectful that she has a past *before* she met him, the marriage won't be that successful.

[@Hammerhead137]

Found the 304s

[@StillNotCancelled]

@@Hammerhead137 They were the friends you made along the way.

[@Actaeon2nd]

@@Hammerhead137 ???

[@Joseph-gm3qm]

Delusional in this day and age thinking you're going to find a mate without sleeping with them. People have needs and if you won't meet their needs they'll move on. I admire what she's trying to do, but I don't see it working out for her unless she gives up the 😺.

[@jeffharper7579]

Just my opinion but marriage is the number one reason of devorice I was for 12 years but the last six I was just a servant and a.t.m.

[@arthouston7361]

May I add something? Tattoos are expensive to have removed. They cost a lot of money to get put on, too. Why not just pass "go" and not get one? Not having one makes you look a lot closer to being wife material.

[@LinWatchorn]

I can see both sides of this one. I personally regret all of my tattoos except one. (The one I don’t regret is very small and hardly noticeable).

[@arthouston7361]

@@LinWatchorn Yeah, I'm in the "small tattoo" corner, but I also see women with a lot of hoe tattoos, I see a lot of sleeves, and I even see some neck and face tattoos on women..... and I have to say to myself, "what the heck were they thinking?" When I was 25, you basically had to be a "biker chick" to have ink. Now that attitude seems to have changed beyond the point of being reasonable. While I do not think that the internet is the source of all evil, I can tell you, as a person who turned down a job in adult films when I was in my 30s, that the internet has done a lot to influence young women in a negative way.... and lots of ink is one of those ways.

[@revanamell1791]

I think saving yourself for marriage is an entirely valid choice a person can make. I just get uncomfortable with how purity and chastity are given too much to the super creepy religious tyrants and it's not often framed as a personal decision but an obligation others should expect from you.

[@docsavage8640]

Where are all these religious tyrants except in Islam?

[@perlacamargo5080]

💙💙💙

[@williammoses6460]

I wanted a wife with a body count. Sex was important to me and it had to be as important to my wife. We were married for 44 years. Marriage is not a walk in the park and sharing that chemical attraction sure helps smooth out the rough patches.

[@kenrickman6697]

This!!! I respect a person’s freedom to choose for themselves how they live their life. But this notion that chastity or virginity are somehow valuable are nonsense to me. Imagine saying that you’re going to respect your hypothetical future partner by never learning to cook, manage finances, or any other basic aspect of being an adult until you’re with them. I feel sorry for that poor future partner. They’re going to have to raise a child.

[@Mark73]

Right, because sexual compatibility isn't a thing you should figure out before you marry somebody. Is she going to find it disrespectful if he had ever had sex with anyone else?

[@docsavage8640]

What an ignoramus. If you've only had one partner you have nothing to compare it to and complain about. That's why marriages used to last a lifetime.

[@Mark73]

@@docsavage8640 Marriages used to last a lifetime because women had no say in the matter. Also, are you advocating "ignorance is bliss"?

[@StillNotCancelled]

@@docsavage8640 It's also why a lot of people had very unhappy marriages.

[@MisterMarin]

"Unfortunately"? She does know marriage is completely optional, yes?

[@docsavage8640]

That's what permissive hedonistic nihilistic modern society tells you anyway

[@Danboster65]

I guess everyone has their preferences. I always preferred a woman who was self assured and confident in who she was and didn't need to be identified by her relationship to me. My marriage is a partnership not a patriarchal dominance. I'm sure the religious right loves this type of woman, who will likely be easily controlled by their ideology. But ladies, if you want to save yourself to be controlled by someone else, it certainly is your right to do so.

[@coastalbeer]

Thats a very narrow way of looking at life. You are already setting yourself up for disappointment. I'm not saying sleep around before marriage . What I am saying is you need to be free to do whatever you want without restricting your choices based upon some imaginary future husband. Respect yourself, don't worry about some future Joe.

[@Michael_Thomas134]

My wife had never been with a man before me, I’m sure she was happy I was an experienced lover.

[@sibhuskyguy]

Never buy a car without a test drive. I knew someone who waited till marriage to do the deed... She ended up divorced in less than 6 months... They simply were not sexually compatible.

[@cruallassar7428]

The moment you drive that car off the lot, its value depreciates drastically. I’m glad to see that there are still people like her in the world, who maintain their value until purchase.

[@TheGreatQbert]

I feel like there were many other factors that caused their relationship to fail long before they got married...

[@sibhuskyguy]

@@TheGreatQbert no.... they were great beforehand up until the week or two after the wedding when neither of them were compatible in bed, far as I know the frustration on both sides led to a lot of arguments that never would have happened if they were sexually compatible.

[@docsavage8640]

What an ignoramus. If you've only had one partner you have nothing to compare it to and complain about. That's why marriages used to last a lifetime.

[@sibhuskyguy]

@@docsavage8640 so knowing what you want and expect out of a relationship from all aspects makes me an ignoramus somehow? white knight harder simp boy....

[@stephenclarke6347]

LOL! Good Luck with that! She's going to end up settling for some "Simp" as all the Real, smart, capable men have gone MGTOW.

[@StillNotCancelled]

No they haven't. The best men managed to find awesome women to be with. MGTOW is just for the men who either couldn't find or couldn't attract awesome women and decide not to settle for a mediocre one.

[@EricThompson-bq2tv]

Yes both men and women should be like this, no mam or woman with morals and cares about their future will want to be with someone who has slept around doesn’t look good on you if your partner is a W***E. If don’t find your future partner early in life might be impossible to find someone who is a virgin but at find someone who hasn’t slept around carelessly at least. I met my wife early in high school and we waited till she was out of college to get married 7yrs of dating and engaged we knew each other very well and wanted the same things in life, family, faith and for our future, not worth rushing into jumping in the sack for a few minutes of fun when it could ruin your life being tied to a horrible person for the rest of yours.

[@vicdeak1868]

I LIKE THIS LADY BERY MUCH, SHE HAS SELF RESPECT, AND SHE VALUES HERSELF AND THE RELATIONSHIP AND FUTURE LIFE SHE WILL HAVE WITH A HUSBAND THAT WILL BALUE HER AND ABOVE ALL LOVER HER AND ALWAYS PUT HER AND THE FAMILY FIRST!. 😎