She's Not Yours, It's Just Your Turn / The Dark Side of Female Nature

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@seanjones7474]

I really like my filipina...we met online but have been friends for two years. I am Christian, American and ready to go to Cebu City. Should I forget her and meet new Filipinas or try my hardest to meet her?...I really just want to live in Phillipines from USA.

[@FlipandTheBlueMule]

🌹❤️

[@user-wg2vw3mz1v]

Women shoplift at the husband store 😂

[@Mannin_Watch_Time]

This was one of the best script’s you’ve ever delivered Miss Pea 👌

[@LADETROIT]

The second floor in the men's store is actually "a woman that can cook and likes beer" 😊

[@stevelobs6601]

Women forget one thing, with each turn their value drops.

[@MrKrushgutz]

Wimpy men believe anything a woman tells him, so he will never know how many men she’s been with

[@azar1520]

Only in a small town or rural area, where everyone knows each other. In a city, where people don't know their neighbors, women who have been with more than 20 guys can fake having been with only one or two guys in their lives, and you will never know because city dwellers don't know each other's past.

[@stevelobs6601]

@@azar1520 i mean the wall, and the wall knows everyone.

[@AS-ok8hi]

@@azar1520 no you can definitely tell when women have slept around a lot

[@azar1520]

@@AS-ok8hi Only in a rural area. In a big city, a woman can sleep around a lot, and then change her whole persona to appear as a puritan.

[@geography_guy335]

Men, if you're only other option is being alone you need to own it and be willing to show you would rather be alone than sacrifice your self respect

[@kennethedwards1677]

Exactly right, show her the door if she starts to shame and/or compare you with others.

[@AaronStenberg-bn2sh]

So true

[@user-bd3gt9jt1x]

At age 58, two failed marriages I've come to the realization I'm better off being alone nowadays. No sense in going thru the pain of dating and courting yada, yada. So much easier to just do it this way for my remainder days here on Earth.

[@freetheworld12]

amen

[@michaelkeudel8770]

I've owned it for over 10 years now, and there's no turning back, the freedom and peace of mind is quite a freeing experience when you don't have to explain yourself to anyone.

[@douglasmichel1000]

No. Here in USA the hypergamy never stops. The marriage things means absolutely nothing.

[@kengaroo5170]

It means s income.

[@TT09B5]

Yup, women just stair step here on men. If we didn't have white Knights and Simps it would end pretty quickly.

[@segarnyagold1014]

When I met / started dating my now ex, who was a naive Peruvian immigrant, I would say, “Im going to do XYz, if you want to come along... “ And she went along and ALWAYS had a great time. Then after getting her degree and getting Westernized and having kids, she declared I was controlling, etc. no. I was still doing the same thing and she could still join me or not. But she was unhappy, and she needed someone to blame for her unhappiness.

[@bobbruce4135]

That's why red-pill men don't put a ring on it and have a stealth snip. They know the last few sentences in this video (that female nature is different in the East) is bull.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Tragically familiar story 😢

[@omegoa]

@@TheFilipinaPea Yep. That's why it's best to not take the flower from the garden where it grows.

[@kbruff2010]

Basically the West is sick with cancerous ideogical ideas.

[@tetedur377]

I contend that women are inherently unhappy creatures. Now I know I'm speaking in generalities, but it seems to be more true than not. Women just seem to be constitutionally incapable of finding happiness within themselves, which is where men have a leg up on women, in a manner of speaking. I don't know very many women who understand that happiness is something you have to self-generate; to practice, not find by having it come to you externally in the form of things. A husband, children, a good job that pays well, a new car, and so on and on, won't make you happy. Men understand this better than women, for the simple reason that the vast majority find ourselves on our own and in poverty mode for a time (at least) after we leave home. You know the time: when women least want anything to do with us. Women have innate assets that they can parlay into a man taking care of them, and generally speaking, they do so like a video game, leveling up with each new man. The disturbing thing I noticed in the '70s was that too many women are jealous of men, and not just a "penis envy" kind of thing. The late '70s is when women began to use the coercive power of the Government and law to prevent men from having male-only spaces. Locker rooms, gyms, work...in short, any place were males gathered and did male stuff, women perceived and suspected that men were happy without women, and put a screeching halt to that sh*t. Effectively, women derived satisfaction from preventing men from being happy. But they didn't stop there. Collectively and individually, women married men, tried to change them into girlfriends, destroyed them emotionally, took all their assets (including children and pets) and moved on to another man, to do the same thing all over again. With half of all marriages ending in divorce, and women filing 70-80 percent of the time, it's rampant and widespread. Is it any wonder men don't want to get married?

[@cushingpushing]

Men age like wine, women age like milk. ☺

[@brothercarlos6944]

🤣🤣🤣

[@brothercarlos6944]

😂😂😂

[@MIDNIGHTSUNALASKA]

FACTS

[@harpersnyder2297]

You wish

[@Paul-yk7ds]

Most men do not age well either. Fat, out of shape, balding thin hair, etc.

[@TheMeJustMe75]

After I started dating my first real girlfriend in college I realized I was probably just next in line. She didn't take me too seriously when we started dating and I finally put my foot down with her. For 2 1/2 years things were really good and we were also talking about our future together. She had gone back to college to change degrees and then things started to change for the worst. She started " hanging out" with people from her classes but never got a straight answer on if these people were guys or girls. She finally slipped up one evening and told me she went out as friends with a guy. After she realized what she had done she tried to back track her story. I knew at that moment it was just my turn. I broke up with her because she wanted to continue her friendship with the guy. She had an absolute fit if a girl even looked or smiled in my direction. She ended up marrying the guy 3 months later. About 9 years after that she found me on an early form of social media and wanted to get back together even though she was married. I told her no and got rid of that account.

[@drleo6409]

Just shows how stupid some women think men are. Also how shallow some women really are.

[@prod.gregupnext2958]

Damn you dodged a bullet bro she sounds like trouble.

[@guitarman0365]

Women freak out you talking to other girls because they project their own thoughts onto the situation. They knew if it was them it would be cheating. So this is why you as a guy have to take other guys seriously

[@user-wg2vw3mz1v]

For women, social media is like shoe store with an Ikea layout and unlimited selection - they enter but they can never leave!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hotel Californication 🤣

[@nairbyad7188]

@@TheFilipinaPeaI want to visit the Philippines, just to meet you! ( ; - } Seriously, you're a lot of fun and wise beyond your age. What we're witnessing is the intentional destruction of healthy culture by satanists and communists who want to control and cause suffering. We are in and this earth has always been in, a spiritual war. Breaking up families causes girls to grow up without fathers, so they become promiscuous looking for that fatherly love they missed.

[@alals6794]

@@TheFilipinaPea Great and classic rock song....still have the original CD, ok a remaster.

[@kingmaafa120]

OF 😮

[@moretoolove2]

Hypergamy and anti-male feminism are two sides of the same coin.

[@jethrohope202]

Exactly, yet militant conservatives (Andrew Tait to name one) preach that we should settle and have families with hypergamies women, and at the same time preach that feminists are bad (which most are). Sooooo..........

[@williamkahlert3611]

The male is the coin

[@npenick66]

My wife of over 20 years was from a 2nd generation filipino family in the San Francisco Bay area. They were a very traditional family. The children were sheltered from bad influences, they went to Catholic schools, no make up, no dating, every weekend was family events and church. Very good people. She spent the bulk of her time with her grandparents who both passed about a year ago. Then two months ago on 1/5/24 my wife unexpectedly passed in her sleep. An electrical heart issue. I'll probably never date or marry again, I'm 57 now and I'd probably always compare any woman to my wife which wouldn't be fair to anyone. She had the looks (solid 9+, not blowing smoke, she really was, she was 52 and looked 30), the temperament, the kindness, the laughter, the gentle nature, a woman in the best connotation of the word. She always laughed at my stupid dad jokes and usually doled out big hugs and kisses after each stupid joke. She rescued animals, I had a heck of a time keeping her from feeding our neighborhood rodents in the winter. She was a feeder, nobody left her house hungry, usually had to-go bags of food when they left. Finally, she was a mother. She had been told from a young age that she couldn't have children because of her heart issues. But after years of good health and a pacemaker/defibrillator the doctor gave her the green light. You wouldn't believe the hoops this lady jumped through for the chance to have a baby. She told me that the only thing missing from her life being complete bliss was a baby. The kid never had a chance to doubt that he was loved with all the hugs, kisses and tons of food, but she'd crack his rear to keep him on the straight and narrow. Now it's up to me to finish that job. If you are a traditional man who would treat a lady well then I'd recommend checking out the traditional parts of this culture. Be respectful, don't be the typical arrogant jerk westerner. Study the culture ahead of time and act accordingly. There are still some small pockets of this culture in the US but they're fading fast. Not for everyone but it sure worked out for me.

[@AnikenSkiwalker]

Very lucky guy. I'm still searching for that happiness. Sorry for your loss.

[@HDSharpe]

@@AnikenSkiwalker I am so sorry for your loss brother. I lost my first wife as well. She died from liver failure and drug OD while I was deployed to Iraq in 2006. She was Chinese-Malaysian, but American born. I've been with my second wife for 15 years now and we have 6 beautiful children who look nothing like me, but I'm going to keep trying to one looks Eurasian. What I am saying is I know life looks short and bleak right now because it's in perspective. But if there's one thing I know is that any filipina would want you to see that your children are cared for and that you live the rest of your life as happy as you can be. Take your time to heal. If that's a month or 10 years, that's between God and you. Mabuhay.

[@Smileforya]

I kindly thank you for sharing your story it was very intriguing wish you well in your senior years God bless.

[@alals6794]

@@Smileforya He is ONLY 57...not senior at all, in my opinion. By the way, a recent article told of a 95yo Irishman who exercise regularly and has the body health of a 30 to 40 year old! So, the fountain of youth is there for all, such as it is, but it involves concerted exercise effort and a good diet. I would say good genes also but this man only started working out at age 70 so......

[@Invizable99]

1 John 5:7 KJV For there are three that bear record in heaven, the Father, the Word, and the Holy Ghost: and these three are one. John 1:14 KJV And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth. 1 Corinthians 15:47 KJV The first man is of the earth, earthy: the second man is the Lord from heaven. Hebrews 1:8 KJV But unto the Son he saith, Thy throne, O God, is for ever and ever: a sceptre of righteousness is the sceptre of thy kingdom. Matthew 28:18-19 KJV And Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth. [19] Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Acts 2:38 KJV Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. Ephesians 4:5 KJV One Lord, one faith, one baptism,

[@KobusBotha-wl7in]

Peace is priceless

[@rickmancc]

Hypergammy is true fact of life. It is definitely the social standard in the usa. To all the men here dreaming of a pea for yourself. Once you bring her here and once she integrates to this culture she will be no different just another western woman. I personally seen it with other relationships. Married to a Filipina that is very westernized (20 years) I have an inside look that pea doesn't see YET. She will once or if ever she moves to west full-time. This doesn't happen over night the absorption into western life. I still see parts of her that are truly Filipino but I see how she changed too. So men beware when she gets to the US she will find that elevator eventually just make take her a little time to navigate the new store.

[@Wahinies]

Eddie Murphy spoke about this in the 80s stand up ”Eddie Murphy Raw" - search "what have you done for me eddie"

[@user-sz5dt9ih7f]

Thank you for your wonderful insight into Filipinas. It is very refreshing to hear. I am U.S. citizen who met my Filipina wife online. I was immediately impressed by her and found her easy to be around. I never thought she was after my money and so married her. We have an eight year old daughter and I've never been happier in my whole life.

[@Nordic_Sky]

Good for you! Congrats.

[@kflashcarr1992]

What site were you using? If you don't mind...

[@user-sz5dt9ih7f]

@@kflashcarr1992 That was ten years ago. I'll have to check with my wife. Please stand by. She's sleeping right now.

[@MarkKeenaye]

Iris

[@robertruck5501]

Out in the western mountain states in the US, it's not called marriage. It's called "taking your turn"

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Seriously? Oh my goodness - how depressing 😢

[@silverliner4894]

I hear you brother, I live in Colorado and what you said is so true.

[@moderndaydrifter4672]

It's the same futher north in Calgary Alberta Canada. I wouldn't waste my time with a North American women. I married a Filipina December 3 2023 and it's so nice to be respected and wanted and loved.

[@davidramsey5952]

I love this channel, Pea is absolutely 💯 amazing, here in New York with the women her before you can even speak, if you even look there way, you get a dirty look!! 👀 I’m done here, they don’t deserve me. I’m going to the Philippines an added plus is the cost of living. Thank. You Pea for your hard work, it’s very appreciated and refreshing. I wish I could figure out how to contact you directly just for some add helpful advice and information since I will be coming there not knowing a soul.

[@user-uy4no1ti1k]

Iv`e said it before, and I will say it again ! A basic fundamental thinking process in life is, "Stay the Hell away" from western women, or suffer the consequences...

[@ashp5648]

I met my Philippine partner on a bus near Bangkok. She is 29 and I'm 52. We are planning to raise a family and live happily ever after somewhere in South East Asia. I have never come across anyone as sweet and I can't quite believe my luck. Life can change in a heartbeat. Value yourself.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

In a heartbeat, yes! Take one step in a different direction, and your life could’ve been so different 😳👍

[@robertricci2111]

Wow ?! God bless you starting a family at 53 years old 🙏?.....God bless you at near retirement age.🎉❤😊

[@rm6857]

It can change in second. You will dont know why

[@MrKrushgutz]

There is no such thing as happily ever after. It’s just your turn

[@jameschan9634]

so naive. Tread lightly.

[@Gabriel-er8pp]

Women are only as loyal as their options.

[@user-wg2vw3mz1v]

"If you exude confidence, women assume you're successful" ... even if you're a LOSER. This is why they're getting a train run on them by Pookie and Ray-Ray.

[@jocivtrance3455]

No confidence has nothing to do with it. They are attracted to the bad boys that treats them like trash and not serious. They settle for nice guys after they hit the wall. Don't act like women get fooled, they believe what they want to

[@fruitiusmaximus925]

Yep. Women are suckers for men who are too dumb to know they are losers.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It does in part explain the Bad Boy attraction, yes 👍😳

[@sverre.mortveit1193]

Pookie and Ray Ray have 14 million followers in the Philippines, that's a success rate to talk about, or as I would call it: stupid is what stupid does, and it shows most will fall on their back for anyone with more than 2 pesos that weekend.

[@user-wg2vw3mz1v]

@@TheFilipinaPea It also explains dysgenics in the form of destitute single mothers with derpy offspring...but hey at least their dad was "confident". The ladies seriously need to up their self awareness because the winners are taking note and putting a premium on virtue and morality.

[@JoeSteffe]

This is so true . After my Divorce . I was just my turn with this girl.

[@nealm8322]

Wow! Very well articulated snd delivered.

[@cjg2877]

The most effective solution to this problem is to not give your love until she gives hers. Always be willing to walk away.. It's just a negotiation.

[@erickjuma7643]

But women don't love like men do, it's too dangerous for her survival if she loves the way you love her. She can't be too attached because she needs to be able to move on faster to get another protector and provider in case you aren't there

[@DannyBoyle-tp5vg]

@@erickjuma7643 then she is not worthy of marriage.

[@justaskKj]

This video should be mandatory watching you dropping gems of knowledge.

[@johnlong3543]

Another informative and entertaining session. I appreciate learning more about women and relationships from you. Thanks Pea! 😅

[@jairusmedley8246]

Hey Pea You are right, again. Filipinas like you to be confident but not cocky. I had a Filipina I was talking to for a year. Right before I was going to the Philippines, she threw out some crazy demands. I quickly cut off the relationship and cancelled seeing her. The problem was she had been watching and doing too many lives and matches on Tiktok. She thought I would change my mind and do what she wanted because she had silly Western guys sending her gifts on Tiktok. Shortly, after I broke it off, I had other Filipinas wanting to talk to me. A real Filipina is not impressed with what you can buy her but how you make her feel. Much love Jairus

[@wwaldes]

opowiem pewną 3 miesieczną przygode. oczywiscie wszyscy mowią nie ma co wiązać się z filipinką mezatką z dziecmi. takie kobiety tam są skazane na ostracyzm i wykluczenie na filipinach z powodu niemozności rozwodu. pani mloda, 34 lata, dwójka dzieci, mąz, twierdziła że maż jest hazardzistą za jej pieniadze które wysyła do domu, oddaje polowę pensji w pracując jak niewolnik w singapurze. liznęła trochę luksusowego swiata, pokojówka to niewolnik, ale jednak w komfortowym świecie. 8 lat na obczyźnie, raz w roku podobno widuje się z dzicmi. gada coś zdawkowo że zła teściowa, że huj mąż, ale dzieci są pod dobrą ich opieka. ona nie ma rozwodu. tzn uniewaznienia małżeństwa, bo twiwrdzi że to droga sprawa, więc trwa od 8 czy wiecej lat w pracy za granicą. wdaje się w romans, podobno kilkuletni. jest ładna i bystra, ale romans jest skazany na niepowodzenie bo podobno facet, marynarz ma 4 dzieciw europie. niby z nim zrywa. pożniej pojawia się następny facet, szybko zawiązuje się nić porozumienia. snują marzenia o spotkaniu podsycone przez nią, z resztą zainicjowane przez nią samą. ma dosyś dobrą komunikatywność, i wydaje się, że ma chęci do życia. jednak dwójka dzieci pozostawiona z mezem i tesciową oraz brak rozwodu i praca na obczyźnie, brak jakiegokoliwiek majątku i perspektyw paraliżują jakiekolwiek plany na przyszlosc. Nowy facet chce jej pomóc, szuka mozliwosci emigracji, pracy, studuów, angazuje się. dziewczyna ma urok, ale ma też dziwne zachowania, wspomina o poprzednim nieformalnym związku, o 4 poprzednich latach. okazuje się że znika kilka razy na dzień, (kontaktt tylko internetowy), nie odzywa się, taka sytuacja powtarza się wiele razy, za kazdym razem przeprasza, być może robi coś na boku, albo uprawia nierząd, nie wiadomo. znika na cale niedziele albo popoludnia, pojawia się za dzień i przeprasza. facet z nią zrywa. ona szybko otrzepuje się z szoku i nawet nie probuje naprawić sytuacji. plany wyjazdu, studiów i zaangażowanie w zalatwienie spraw przepadają. tak więc kobiety są różne, różne są też filipinki. trzeba uważać, nie ma ideałow.

[@aaronsims3719]

You are a genius. I very much appreciate your deep thought. It's rare find somebody that's so intelligent with such broad big picture thinking.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much for that, Aaron! 😊

[@aaronsims3719]

​@@TheFilipinaPeayour welcome.

[@personalJoke]

The phrase has been labeled in my soul: She id not yours, it is just your turn! So true!

[@VistaBlueGT]

I have you to thank for me finding an interest in Filipina women, Pea. I never would have even considered looking for a Filipina wife if it wasn't for you. I have been a subscriber for a long time. You were the very first Filipina that I started watching on KZbin just out of curiosity and was highly impressed with your content from the beginning. There are many others who have their own style of content, but none reaches the same level of insight, humor, maturity, education, honesty and integrity that you do. Well, I got lucky and found the right one a year ago and now we're engaged. I am forever grateful to you. Thank you so much, Pea.

[@myendlesslove5120]

Congratulations!

[@geo525252]

Interesting analysis. I might add that women who fail to recognize that being particular past their "sell by date" will end up settling for far less than they could have had.

[@timgrier3317]

"She was never yours, it was just your turn" This phrase is actually quite freeing! When applied to relationships, i find that i feel happier and more peaceful because i known that it WILL end. Who gets angry at a roller coaster when the ride eventually ends? No, you just get in line for another ride. Its freeing to know the status quo and actually enables you to enjoy the moment and leave the past

[@spaceoddity2485]

Correct Sir

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[@rlh125]

"When applied to relationships, i find that i feel happier and more peaceful because i known that it WILL end" Exactly. I was recently dating my friend's daughter who is 20 years younger than me. I would remind myself from time to time "She's not mine. It's just my turn." Then one day, out of nowhere, she started acting aggravated with me for no reason and hinted that maybe she isn't in a place where she should be dating right now. So, I said let's end it and she agreed (but was polite enough to pretend to be very sad about it). I felt nothing. In the past I would have been upset because there was an ego boost in dating a woman so much younger than me.

[@MrKingkz]

I have always been like this and it is why am still friends with some of my exs like you said you dont get angry at a roller coaster when it ends and if it was a good ride you can always have another go

[@johnharrid5729]

Too right you are. Always be ready to walk away. Wish her well. Regroup and find your next.

[@user-ei4iq7gl5l]

Thank you, Pea for telling it like it is. I dated a lady ten years ago. She has two kids, at that time her daughter was 17 and her son was 24. Her kids were from two different ex's. (A red flag I should've acknowledged) After seeing this lady for a year, she ghosted me. No rhyme, no reason, no closure. I was left with nothing but a lesson to be learned. She was never mine, it was just my turn. Today I am no longer the guy who gets rejected, I am now the guy that women wish they can get. Western women (not all) can be a piece of work. I'm more aware of this now. And Pea, I like how you quoted Joyce Meyer, whose sermons I listen to everyday. Thank you, once again Pea for your content, which is informative and intelligent.

[@thefriendlypsychopath3894]

You're the dummy who accepted a used woman with some other guys kids.

[@DannyBoyle-tp5vg]

the red flag was giving time to a single mother, big mistake, you were a beta male then, hope you changed.

[@familychannell2210]

well said and wise words. Your videos got me thinking about PH and the possibilities. Now, 2 years later, I am happily married to my filipina :)

[@ItsTimePictures]

This may very well be the best video you’ve produced. There is an astonishing amount of wisdom in this 17 minute presentation. Well done.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks ITP - I tried to pack it in, yes 👍😊

[@mediocreman2]

I'm not even interested in a woman who has had 2 partners, let alone 26.

[@christopherway2546]

Yeah, this is a problem for most men. Sure, most men will sleep with a woman who’s had 10 partners(as long as there’s paperwork proving she’s clean) but there’s not ever going to be a ring.

[@genxx2724]

Then I hope you offer the same thing.

[@davidbrown3971]

Well aren't you Mr wonderful.

[@FromDkWithLove]

Only 26, shit, where'd you even find such a unicorn!? My first girlfriend at age 22 was already at 30+ when I met her. And she was the shy bookish type, but obviously overly anxious.. but that's all young women. Tried dating a second time a couple years after that, but she was only into hypergamy. Let me know on the first date, which was cool at least.Tried a third time by my late 20s, but by then the only girl I met and like was at 100+, so once again I walked away. Then I stopped dating for 10 years till now. So if you know someone as chaste as to have only been with 26 guys, let her know I'm interested.

[@genxx2724]

@@FromDkWithLove may I ask your age, And how old these girls are now? I think it is generational.

[@richardrinn1522]

If a woman has had 26 partners, I would not want to be 27.

[@thystaff742]

For the last 3 decades American women started their path of promiscuity by 9th grade, some earlier. Having an average of 5+ guys a year. Then if they go to college you can bet it's around 10+ partners a year.

[@ets2atstruckermartin527]

just the 27th hook

[@MrIgorradisic]

you should be more open minded

[@thystaff742]

@@MrIgorradisic You should stop simping.

[@eyeopeningtruth7518]

Same with good women. Good women also dont want used men. Only women at 26 can consider used men

[@renaldofanucci]

Thanks Pea.!!

[@scottfox4456]

Yes its so true.... I work two jobs, and don't have the looks, money, or prestige. I fell for a Filipina and got my heart broken. I was just bargain basement.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

😢😢😢

[@lionheart6699]

That's what's you get. How are you broke and working 2 jobs? If your so busy then how do you have time for women? Fix yourself first bud , tail comes later

[@judd_s5643]

Pea is an excellent speaker, regardless of the subject, and is extremely skilled at keeping her audiences attention. It takes a lot of preparation to do this, and she consistently pulls it off. I’m throughly impressed, when Pea speaks I listen!

[@unclemo-ch6kk]

This is one of the best vlogs you have done, Pea. Thank you.

[@Mr.Gibbs980]

Wow! That was great Filipina Pea.🙂☝️👍

[@bryanheyland7142]

You are so right ma’am Have nothing the upmost respect!

[@neilefc877]

12:17 The one thing I would say about to this point would be this is why more and more men - regardless of background, creed or color - are simply throwing their hands up and making the conscious decision NOT to find a female companion. Too much competition, too much investment of time and money with a dissatisfactory return on said investment. The great irony is that more and more women are complaining that men no longer pursue them now... #humansaremad

[@mrMacGoover]

"And that's the problem.... there's too much up and down going on" 😂 well put Pea!

[@davidmorrow6409]

Thankyou for your awesome advice❤️

[@johnclark7973]

Without question, this is your best video to date. Thank you for sharing your perfect perspective! I can't agree anymore with you than I do. 👌

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for that, John 👍

[@omegamale7880]

Yes, confidence is SO undervalued! 🙄

[@discoverglobeliving]

It's thought-provoking and challenges traditional views. Worth a watch for a different perspective.

[@RomeoWhiskey692]

I love that you are giving some of the guys another viewpoint … We’ve reached a cold , empty , stoic hopelessness here … Dug in and holding on , though most of us aren’t sure why … what the purpose of the exercise is anymore . No more turns for us . Life is just a test to see how tough we are . But even the hardest of us cannot resist smiling back when we see you on our screens . Even if western women do think you are the second coming of Tokyo Rose . You tell ‘em Kid … show ‘em that not every light at the end of the tunnel is a freight train coming their way at a high speed . Give ‘em a goal … a dream to dream . Good on ya , Pea .

[@shotelco]

Tokyo Rose? "Modern" Western females would impress me if they even knew who that was.

[@RomeoWhiskey692]

@@shotelco I think I was proffering a stereotype , rather than a particular character . You do know that Tokyo Rose wasn’t just one person , right ? The one we think of most went by the name of Orphan Annie . I think western women would describe Pea as a turncoat against feminism… because , as we all know … all women are feminist nowadays , they only vary in the degree of their dedication to the “cause “. That she is even slightly sympathetic toward men is a scandal in today’s world . All the more reason for me to applaud her efforts .

[@TheFilipinaPea]

They would see me as Tokyo Rose, yes 🤣🤣🤣🤣 But the difference is - I’m telling the truth 👍

[@ramonantoniodejuanbennett6239]

@@shotelco aaaannnddd let's not forget AXIS SALLY! If Pea is Tokyo Rose(but telling the truth looking out for us), then most Western women are Axis Sally. And do we take Axis Sally seriously?

[@AnAZPatriot]

6'3", 6-figure income, 6 pack abs, and not Chad, but chiseled well enough..... strong, confident, decisive (employed in emergency management so it compliments my strengths), and will give the shirt off my back to someone who needs it more than i do. And i haven't been on a date in 5 years. I dont chase, i dont vomit unearned praise at every woman i see, i dont sleep around with women who do, and i play second fiddle to no one. Very slim pickings in the US. Have yet to meet a woman I'd want a 2nd date with, let alone a first.

[@aavila1206]

Pea, muchas gracias for your insight and your voice on this topic!

[@themacker894]

One of your best videos. Simple and honest. Yet, so hard for most guys who are desperate. Lonely people will do anything for acceptance and love.

[@ToxicTotoro]

Always rent, never buy

[@BennyV654]

Exactly idk why everyone keeps saying Felipinas are the best Wife's 😂 at least have a body of a grown women first!

[@freemax178greg]

You're absolutely right there is a saying that goes you may not be Mr Right but you are Mr right now

[@gordonb1737]

Best video you've made so far. Very well done

[@codywy5579]

Brilliant!

[@Tech2goit]

Apologies social media is absolutely no good at all. Thank you for your message it’s appreciated.

[@cushingpushing]

Men age like wine, women age like milk. 😀

[@cushingpushing]

Men love idealisticaly, women love opportunitistically.

[@twoweeledsoto6072]

So much truth being spoken from the Pea. So true! She makes so much sense about things I didn't think about.

[@johnlobley]

More great insights, Pea. (sorry i'm late) ...and always let the ads play

[@poekiemanpoekieman9224]

Red pill wisdom

[@aussieraver7182]

Now thats a real women! And she knows what shes talking about. Respect!

[@robertchristianson1187]

It reminds me of a saying we had when I was stationed in Japan. " How can you speak of love when you have no yen?"

[@Dutchy-1168]

Donald Trump had a point when he said ; When I got millions $ in my pocket …they all flock ‼️

[@eyeopeningtruth7518]

Not all only 26 used ones

[@decoyaardvark2828]

​@@eyeopeningtruth7518Better than the woman sniffing creeper Biden.

[@QH304]

exceptional analysis. A real man simply wants respect and peace. Not complicated.

[@RatdogDRB]

And, THIS gentleman, is the application of common sense and a perspective we're not used to having the company of. Avoid the traps and seek the prize while remaining true.

[@sdideon]

Awesome discussion… again. It is because of you that I found my wife in Cebu. 😀. Great videos, great advice. I’m glad I listened to you and took a chance with a wonderful girl! Would live to share our story if that is ever appropriate.

[@gordonweber2972]

You nailed it Pea on so many levels. Thank you for not going the jiggle route but staying classy, informative, and caring enough to be helpful to us. High quality men want more than looks, etc. You even feature wonderful ladies from their twenties on up and I can tell all of them would be great life partners. Feminism has ruined the American female I hope to take my basketball to another game! Thanks for enlightening us and most of your comments and stories back that up. Wow.

[@Lyrikhan19]

I love the story and honest perspective Pea! This is why I’m looking for a Filipina! ❤

[@jimharris8172]

Loved it! And the Bond finish--superb!

[@SFSraptor]

"Well researched and presented. Great job, Pea!"

[@ephoratagora4179]

Well said, Lady! 😊

[@Dutchy-1168]

Its just nice to know that some of the Ladies are more than willing to SHARE ‼️🤣🤣😘😘

[@Dutchy-1168]

Thanks for the video “ Pea “ …… Ur the best ‼️❤️🇨🇦

[@user1952-e4g]

Pea, you have outdone yourself. The wisdom in this presentation would normally takes years of painful experiences to acquire. It is so valuable and easy to follow it should be mandatory for every 18 year old guy anywhere to view before taking the first plunge with the opposite sex, not just those seeking a Filipina girl.

[@m0r0ntia]

An interesting but valid point of view...Lee

[@newtonvictorian687]

A lot of things came Too mine, but confidence was not one of them. But good point😅😅

[@MAJESTIC-SU9]

Once again, big ups for the Filipina ladies

[@bobfrantz534]

..which is why ill move slow this time...youre a very wise person. Be safe sweet

[@seandunn1128]

When you take control and lead, there is a moral obligation to protect and serve. Those who don't are the trash that ruins souls, families, values and culture. Thank you Pea.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Right on, Sean 👍😊

[@locker1325]

Well said. Not sure if I believe it all but I'm sure the quality of Filipina women are above Average.

[@user-nj7nc9ou4p]

Pea , you’re brilliant the way you articulated this is on a new level. Thanks so much pea .

[@davediaz5447]

Dang sis...some serious intel! Bravo Pea....always bringing out the best of the best. No more excuses gentlemen.

[@jamesconnors8095]

One of her best videos ever. Filled with truth and correct observations, Pea proves yet again that she is wise beyond her years.

[@carltonbanks9173]

Hello Ma'am Pea...just want to say i absolutely love your videos...i am currently engaged to a filipina and the day i met my filipina queen 👑my life changed completely...i feel so blessed knowing that i have a woman like the one i have now.

[@jimbo8888]

Very well said, Pea.

[@Matsonman]

Great content and a clear message. Well done!

[@jse6557]

I highly recommend a workbook question- answer type of marriage counseling before marriage. Turn in that required workbook and let the marriage counselor expert evaluate know about you and your mate, then learn if you are a right person to get married.

[@jse6557]

One of the questions ask on the marriage counselling that we separately answered was… “number from 1 to 10 what is priorities and important in your relationship.” Another “Does submitting to your love one important to you?”… another “What is the meaning of husband should love their wife?”… another what do you think of your spouse-to-be family?

[@dylanhill1640]

This statement is rather true so never get too attached. Men can find happiness but take time to vet and observer before going on all. Always leave yourself an out!

[@BrooksKirkbride]

Brilliant insight Pea…nice to have you advocate for les Philippinas! Well done and thx for the inside intelligence!

[@greg6811]

Your objective analysis never disappoints Pea!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Greg! 👍😊

[@greg6811]

@@TheFilipinaPea I didn’t even know Filipinas were such a gem until a bunch of them friend requested me on Facebook. They had me confused with another Greg Hansman that married their Filipina friend. God gave me a sign 😉

[@somethingdifferent4u247]

Excellent video.

[@scotttaubold4121]

An empty bottle of Red Horse. You are very funny "P". You are also a very intelligent woman, I still love your breakdown of traditional relationships and why they work a few videos back. That could be elaborated on considerably.

[@jimstenlund6017]

Thank You Pea🙂

[@dgwinc]

Very good insights here, thanks for the video.

[@balsafarmers10]

You are getting more sophisticated ❤

[@hybrid711]

Good stuff Pea.

[@Kevins-Philippine-Retirement]

Excellent one Pea. I have also researched this subject myself over the years and found the same facts. Men often get labelled as the "bad" gender, when they are not 'badder' or better, just wired different. Thank you for bringing this to attention.❤

[@hermannmuller1872]

Very well done...Thank you ! And kind regards

[@kidagave1]

This might be the best video describing the effects of social media on our lives. Dating apps do the same to inflate a woman’s self image.

[@isrbillmeyer]

Simple common sense logic... You have good insight in human nature whether people may like your opinion or not.

[@jonathonbarnes3582]

Some people play hard to get... I play hard to want. ;) Super confidence is my super power!

[@mikesilva6858]

You are so professional,, I dont know you are able to produce these videos. A TV station would have a huge staff..you are fantastic.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks! I just work as hard as I can, 24/7! 👍😊