Despite Having It All, Women Are Unhappy - Is Anyone Surprised?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@colinmacdonald9052]

Hi Pea, as usual you have produced yet another informative and entertaining video. I'm quite sure you must invest a great deal of time researching and compiling data for each episode. I can't help thinking, how can this wonderful woman be single? I know there's no shortage of men that would love to be with a woman like yourself. I also know you work long hours and have very little time to socialize, but isn't your life and future goal to be a housewife and partner also important? Of course it saddens me to think that once you find the man of your dreams that you may no longer have the time nor want to make such videos from within a committed relationship. Perhaps I am overthinking this, perhaps you are already in a relationship and just want to keep your privacy? Absolutely no one could fault you for that. In short, you are a woman that not only understands a mans needs, but supports and encourages them, so why are you not with someone? You are indeed a very desirable woman with one can only imagine how many possible suitors. So I have to wonder if you find your one true love, what then becomes of the famous Filipina Pea? I of course, wish you all the happiness and love you can handle and so rightly deserve. I would never ask you to give up your privacy anymore than you already have. However, I'm sure we all wonder what does Pea want? How and indeed where will she find it? and will she tell us when she does? The one thing that is inescapable about your videos, is that they provide something that is very much needed in the western world of selfish opportunistic narcissits, ....hope. And for that you are owed a debt of thanks. But what is more, we all wish for you to find your happiness too. I look forward to your next video Pea, may your happiness be everlasting.

[@dallasarnold8615]

Hi Pea. From what we see here and in your other videos, I am always amazed that you have not found your mate yet. If I were single, even though I am old enough to be your father, I would be chasing you. You display much wisdom, intelligence and pretty good to look at too.

[@Baddawg_313]

Thank you ❤

[@jamestopeka2236]

Another great video Pea , You knocked it out of the ballpark and I'm a living testimony of finding a Philippina as you speak of . I got tired of the western women drama .

[@dongshengdi773]

​@@Baddawg_313toxic feminism. No problem. Now men have better options. Vietnam Thailand Philippines $50 for a happy ending. So many university students are available.

[@michaelkeudel8770]

Stopped dating 10 years ago, I have better things to do with my time then argue with someone that will NEVER be happy.

[@Jcs57]

Bingo! And if you marry that person you gotta give them half your stuff to resolve/dissolve your disputes.

[@richardcasey7521]

So true. I feel I dodged a bullet by staying single.

[@Smalltummywonderful]

Hell, Chris Rock said the exact same thing! Chris said that women are not happy if their man makes more money than they do. Women are unhappy if they make more money than you do

[@Maxxumus]

It's not our job to make them happy, but to lead them if you're a strong honest man.

[@RobertReg1]

NEVER happy! And, constantly distracted.

[@MH3GL]

The main issue is: The ladies want their Cinderella prince - but they don't want be like Cinderella.They keep forgetting that it wasn't the dress and glass slippers that made her beautiful, it was who she was as a person. Apparently that lesson went completely over their heads.

[@JeffBird86]

That’s actually an accurate description of women in the west nowadays.

[@PeterNolan-009]

The main issue is people chose not to take my advice. I went public in 2008. I gave my advice freely. Those who ignored it deserve exactly what they have.

[@SethDornblaser]

they don't even wear the dress in public, just lingerie

[@Koushi82]

Cinderella was poor and working to cook and clean - she knew house chores. She was treated badly by her evil sisters that got everything handed to them. 80-90% of the stereotypical western women looks and sounds like the evil sisters in the story not cinderella. Why would the prince want the fake Cinderella? but regardless. Since women these days are nothing like Cinderella they wont have their prince charming either as it needs to be earned not whoring around with randoms. Last I heard Cinderella only had 1 man.

[@T-roc57]

@@Koushi82 -The other old fable comes to mind, kissing 1000 frogs til one turns into a handsome prince...they took that one to heart.

[@rougebaba3887]

As a western man married 25 years, I can say my experience is quite in tune with what researchers have uncovered.. - She hated her job, so she went part time. It didn't seem to make any difference at all to her overall happiness. -She wanted another child, so I agreed to adopt a daughter, even though we had both said "no more kids" when we married. She acted miserable at times even then... A new kid is so much stress, you know.... - This lead her to decide that homeschooling was just not for her, even though that is what we agreed to for our daughter. And so i paid for private school. Of course she framed this as something good for our daughter, "I worry about her social interaction and peer relationships." The angle being, "Wouldn't you want the best for our daughter?" Thus, my wife got less responsibility and more free time going forward while i had to pick up the slack and pay for tuition - Oh, and she never went back to her part time job. So no work outside the home... Thus, even more free time So, is she finally happy? Hell no, she still finds shit to whine about.. Now our house is too small. Screw it! And the kicker is what she said made her start wanting a bigger house.... "I really didn't think about a bigger house till we helped Nick and his family move and I saw their house." She literally said that to me.

[@PeterNolan-009]

Exactly, notmen are NEVER happy. No point bothering.

[@L6FT]

"No More Mr Nice Guy" -read the book, it may help. Women do want to feel a man's strength and centerdness, women in the drivers seat will wreck it all cause they want to be lovingly yet firmly contained like a father would. Problem is if she hasn't had a proper father figure.

[@rougebaba3887]

@@L6FT Yes, well her father killed himself when she was only 6 years old..

[@xdecroix]

yeah I wonder what kind of idiot would marry her.

[@charlesekpima8210]

You are the cause of her rubbish don't give in to an unreasonable demand

[@jonniemactyler7929]

My dad for years has said this phrase, probably heard from one of his elders. The older I get, the more I see the absolute truth of it. "Women aren't happy unless they have something to bitch about."

[@richardm3023]

My ex-wife's last words to me were "You're going to die alone". My response to her was "maybe so, but you're NEVER going to be happy.". I think I won.that one.

[@TheyCallMeSledge]

I find it hilarious that women think that's an own towards men. Us guys thrive in solitude, they're the ones that seek and demand attention which is why the "die alone" phrase hurts them more than it ever will to us.

[@HunkyMan777]

I hears the same line feom my ex

[@kls701]

thats terrible! yeah she needed to go.

[@richardm3023]

@@kls701 yes. And the fun part is I got laid more in the first two years after my divorce, than in 20 years of marriage. Eight years later, and I have not looked back. I will not date any woman born in the USA, just women who came from Central America or southeast Asia. I always lead with, "I'm not broken, so don't think you're going to fix me. If you can't cope with that there's the door." My last girlfriend was from Costa Rica, and she was lovely and a firecracker in the sack. But I had to break up with her. She told me that she thought I was going fishing too much and that I should stop smoking cigars. I don't negotiate. I spent 20 years negotiating with my wife, now it's my way, or the highway. And yes, sometimes I get lonely. But I'd rather be alone than be miserable.

[@jimslancio]

"Maybe so, but I won't die wishing I were alone."

[@mensmans9241]

After getting divorced from my British wife, I found a great Filipina girl and married her within 2 years. Several years later and life can't be better and she is still amazing. She is sweet, smart, good looking and a fantastic cook, She never complains and is always in a good mood. She does not try to change me and loves me for who I am. I cannot ever imagine going back to a western woman.

[@James.984haid]

But will she tell you if she is unhappy?

[@mensmans9241]

@@James.984haid Yes she will. She is quite outspoken when she wants to. But I can read her mood quite easily and luckily enough she is usually in a very good mood.

[@jamesb5864]

​@James.984haid I have a Filipina wife of 10 years. I know her friends and i can confirm most of them are great (province) This is after I finally got cheated on by my lgbt western ogre that took my daughter and taught her to be a self loathing toxic ogre as well. I couldn't be happier to be free from that mess. My Filipina wife she cares for our relationship and thinks about us as a unit. She is content with the security loyalty and love I provide her. If the west doesn't destroy my daughter by the time she's an adult in 5 years ill accept her offer to try to communicate and I'll treat her with respect and maybe even open my heart a bit. Until then I consider her just another part of the alphabet mafia. Wouldn't be caught dead with the little blue haired brat that learned how to lie and manipulate for short term gain like her mother.

[@rogerlenton3335]

@@James.984haid It's amazing how many Westerners think women from Asia are submissive. They are not, they are simply more considerate.

[@benm5913]

Been married to a, "I don't need no man," woman for 12 years. It was stressful before, now 4 kids in its miserable. I really can't do a damn thing to make her happy. An empty bucket with holes in it is a perfect description. Best I can do now is recommend my son go the passport route and raise my daughters to not be feminists.

[@rayrwyr]

Women will follow their mom's example. Sons will follow their dad's example. Children don't listen to what you say. But they watch what you do.

[@rayrwyr]

Divorce her before she does it to you.

[@oakinwol]

Horrible advice to divorce, I'm sure youre smarter than that. Depending on your constitution, you can always shift by manifesting in order a serious of dramatic physical, mental, and emotional health transformations. Very difficult, but not impossible. That will wake her up, depending on how disciplined the change is. She may complain, but everyone recognizes transformation work, even if they're a hater at first. The key is that the vision for yourself and your family is clear, your intent to provide protect and lead is clear, and your execution is borderline olympic. If you can accept things as they are then do that, but never leave if there's anything left on the table to do

[@mastera6999]

i agree if you leave your just as bad as her "selfish" the little ones still need you for guidance protection etc. when they are out of the house then if she shows no signs of improvement then its time to leave @@oakinwol

[@chrisjohns9631]

Why the hell would you give her four kids?

[@lewisvogel466]

As a single man, all I really need are people to communicate with, and I'm blessed to say I have what I need.

[@zombygunslinger]

I was looking for weight loss tips on reddit and found a thread that was all women. Half of them were blaming their husbands for pointin out that they were fat, and the other half blaming their husbands because they said looked fine as they are. I realized that there was no way a man could win and that it was always their husbands fault they were fat.

[@TGOZ18]

Damn, when you can’t win why even try?

[@Shafries]

I've been around groups of fat single women and they all blame their weight gain on medication, thyroid, or medical issues. Again its never their fault. No way it can be all the door dash, and netflix.

[@joefresh3725]

the best words of wisdom I have ever heard "women don't know what they want, and they won't be happy until they get it." it really helped me stop just wasting my life trying to please women.

[@michaelfreiwald5236]

mine was similar;”they don’t know what they want but inevitably, they want it all.”

[@Steven-hk2wb]

It took me 40 years to realize needy women will always be needy women. You can't fix them. If you want to date them for fun, go for it, but you will eventually find women who actually like themselves, and they are happy with what little they have.

[@randomdude2287]

This 🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺

[@RatdogDRB]

I love that one and will remember it. LOL

[@EDINTHEWIND]

When I first started looking in the Philippines for love I met a woman in SA who was about to finish her contract and return home. The only thing she required of me was the ability to eat three meals a day. After I got off the phone I broke down and started crying. I don’t know how western countries have become who they are.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

😢😢😢👍

[@snickers525]

Sorry for the spelling on my post... "It was already bad"

[@snickers525]

It was already bad 20 years ago. Social media has made it much worse. "Me Too" etc.

[@David-qb7ck]

😂

[@jsd2799]

Q: "I don't know how western countries have become who they are." A: Liberalism...and then feminism. Feminism is just a branch of liberalism.

[@rosaliecgarcia]

As a woman, my mantra in life is: 'Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking.' - Marcus Aurelius. I believe that happiness radiates from the inside and can be felt by the people around you. Life is too short to be unhappy. :)

[@Mftjan2000]

So women CAN be happy, yes! WISDOM and CHARACTER are needed. But this headline is very destructive.

[@scratchy996]

So many women feel that they can solve their problems by running away from them. But they can't run away from the problems within themselves. So they run from man to man, and blame them for being "below average", because the men can't solve the inner problems of a woman. Now we have a situation where men prefer to be single than to deal with moody, emotional immature women.

[@slcainehmierz7681]

When you have nothing inside you then there cant be anything radiate from it. Who is the group that either consumes stuff or urges others to consume - mostly women. Men can life nearly in an empty, small apartment with a bed and a pc or a tv/console and still be happy. Its always women that want more, bigger, better and get quite fast bored by stuff. Look at stuff women say - what can you men do to entertain me. In addtion to that the cultural aspect is also important. Which was your upbringing - How did you experience and learn to be in a relationship? Were your parents a role model in that case or the classic example of how not to do it. Were your dad always being pushed around by your mom or did he just do the "right" stuff so that your mom didnt get angry at him and he cant at least have a bit of peace and quite? .....

[@Mftjan2000]

@ClownWorldExplained The headline is ugly and evil. I can understand nasty, stupid women as well as anyone. But condemning and slamming all women is not only wrong it's STUPID. PERIOD. Same with slamming all men! Generalizations are STUPID.

[@minime1988]

@@Mftjan2000 The title is made based off the majority of women and as clickbait also. There are always exceptions to the rule, but we don't base our lives and make decisions expecting to win the lottery... Well at least the logical person wouldn't. The message is as a man don't waste your time trying to make a miserable woman happy, she's a grown women and has to do that herself, she has to take responsibility of her own mind, faults and insecurities to make herself happy. A lot of women unfortunately live in a state of mind that is very toxic to themselves and people around them. One woman like this can ruin multiple dozens of young inexperienced men before she figures herself out and that's not going to work out for society as a whole since those men she broke "discovering herself" will continue the cycle by treating women based off their interactions with her.

[@thedynamicsolo4232]

Just spoke with a 26 year old with a great job. He said he and his four friends just don't want the hassle of dating and marriage. They know EXACTLY what is going on. Most of us older men, we just stepped out.

[@TheHappyBachelor]

Yeah, its sad to see. I don't blame them, as I stepped out myself, but it does suck for the future.

[@justinmcintosh6554]

Agree. My son saw my misery and at 27 chooses happiness instead of a woman

[@ThreenaddiesRexMegistus]

I did the same. 64 and doing just fine, thanks!👍🏻

[@TerryProthero]

I'm 53 and haven't dated since I was 20. Never been happier. Some men, because of their circumstances, are better off not being in romantic relationships. It's not for everyone, and people shouldn't assume that it is. And as bad as things have gotten in the dating market, there is more reason than ever to avoid the situation. I was born in 1970. So right about when things started to take a bad turn if Fillipina Pea is correct. And I'm also autistic. Which can make romantic relationships difficult under the most ideal circumstances. Let alone the circumstances we have now.

[@TerryProthero]

@@TheHappyBachelor "But it does suck for the future." In the short term, maybe. But in the long term it's for the best. It's a natural correction that needs to play out. When a high enough percentage of men drop out of the dating market, the supply and demand issues Filipina Pea mentioned will turn the other way.

[@aicsusa]

I’m in my 60s and haven’t found one woman worth marrying in the USA.

[@cjswa6473]

True. American women ruined

[@boogitybear2283]

Same here! I turn 43 in 21 days and not only never married, but I have never found 1 American Woman I wanted to not only Marry but have kids with. American Women got me not wanting kids period and I’m okay with that.

[@davecue2]

Truth

[@johncowan9106]

That may say more about you than about American women.

[@aicsusa]

@@johncowan9106 LOL Always a smartas* troll comment. Then again, it may have backfired on you. You may be right, I don't put up with drama and bs! I have a happy life and am well off. I don't need anyone to ruin it or try to take part of it away from me after I worked my butt off all my life to become self-made twice in two different industries. I have a great woman from another country who is much better than anyone I have met in the USA! So it does say a lot about me, I won't settle for less than I deserve! Amen!

[@DuaneThomas-n1f]

A man can find happiness in the smallest ways imaginable, playing video games, going to the gym, fixing things… as long as he has his peace, respect and some good food he will have not 1 complaint!

[@Aquientrenos_oficial]

You left out the most important part! ( SEX )

[@eyeamphree3337]

@@Aquientrenos_oficialmen only crave sex that’s hard to get. They can’t sexually fulfill 1 woman trust me. Men want to feel needed not desired ✌🏿

[@triad6425]

36yo physician here. Now getting divorced. My ex simply could not respect me or be kind to me consistently even when she was able to stay home. She just kept finding reasons to be unhappy even though I was taking care of all the bills by myself.

[@IikaalayAdiga]

You are lucky that she didn't kill you for life insurance payout

[@welllll...ok...]

Well, bills are not everything... (though hopefully she is appreciative of the lifestyle you are affording her). Could she be craving some of your time and affection? Doctors often work long hours and can be critical of those not as clever as themselves.

[@michaelchevreaux7780]

​@@welllll...ok... Missed The Point?

[@welllll...ok...]

@@michaelchevreaux7780 just being the devil's advocate. The number one reason women leave men (and sometimes why men leave women) is because they don't get sufficient attention from them. They don't feel valued.

[@WaveformV1.0]

@@welllll...ok... hope, they are simply unreasonable human who struggle with the monthly hormonal changes and lack reason.

[@shomermamillailah86]

I remember a woman talking about her dating stories. She said to another woman: "You need to date at least 15 men to find one acceptable" (acceptable, not good). She didn't even think about if she was the best woman out of 15.....she was a western/westernized woman, so entitled to have everything without even thinking what to give back

[@cryptotrader2779]

Exactly. Women now believe they only have to turn up, even when they have nothing to offer but the obvious thing. When you ask a woman what she brings to the table, many say "I am the table". That's code for "Nothing".

[@sunshinekisses8498]

They're goblins. They just seek to plunder. And nothing more

[@notoriousj_]

No one wants used up women who are ran-through. High body count is disgusting

[@darren25061965]

I would`nt touch a woman who had already been around the block with 15 other men.

[@shomermamillailah86]

​@@darren25061965 Do you mean to have slept with 15 men or just dated 15 men? Anmyway, today, in the west, it is the normality that a woman reaches her thirtieth birthday having already had sex with at least a dozen men. "Normality"

[@johnminichielli8957]

I met a very picky girl who told me she finally found the perfect guy but it didn't work out. When I asked her what the problem was, she said the guy was looking for the perfect girl 😅

[@DMSProduktions]

OOOF!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@DiscreteNature]

These women don't realize that them all wanting a small percentage of men leads to those men being picky because they know they have options.

[@PersianHotties]

Hypergamy. All girls even with a very low SMV looking to date top %5 of guys and they expect loyalty and commitment of them

[@jsd2799]

The perfect man doesn't exist. The perfect woman is even rarer.

[@InkByDaniel]

After 23 years my wife told me she wasn’t happy and moved in with another man. I guess he made her unhappy too because it lasted 6 months. Then guess where she tried to go? Right. I told her no way I will have her back. EVER! I retire in four years. So, I can wait to go find a woman overseas. A woman who loves me and wants to be with me.

[@PeterNolan-009]

Not men are not capable of love.

[@nestorcolt]

You are the man!

[@shapika195]

Absolutely beautiful! She thought, the grass was green on the other side.

[@manuelillanes1635]

bad idea pal, women overseas won't make you happier. ironic but the statistics are there

[@InkByDaniel]

@@manuelillanes1635 what statistics? Show me..

[@test-rj2vl]

It all starts with parents who raise their girls with mindset of "Oh you little princess, you deserve the world, you don't need to work for anything, no one may hurt you". If we want a better future for our children we need to raise them with mentality that "No one owes you anything".

[@NERO_MYBAND]

This right here, it just seems to be a common problem in the west that people are entitled to literally anything in life because that’s what they are told.

[@TheWinterShadow]

Good luck with that.

[@rolgor]

No, it starts and stops with the leftest feminist movement and liberal persecution of men.

[@eyeamphree3337]

Stalkers think everyone owes them the world from their poor upbringings 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@DavidECoy]

As an American man who found his very own Filipina wife who I love and loves me back, I completely support this message. Lol

[@DMSProduktions]

PPB FTW!

[@dpanman]

Me soon.. Can't wait

[@jukio02]

You should stick with your own women. It's not right to take other people's women away just cause you can't get your own.

[@DMSProduktions]

@@jukio02 I-diot & racist! As to Philipinas, they are not really competing! What western men like & Pinoy men like in girls is quite different & they go after girls with different aesthetics! So your comment is spurious!

[@DavidECoy]

@@jukio02 sorry ur not good enough for me to compete for. So go trick some simp to love u because ur BS doesn’t work here.

[@DavidECoy]

American men can find happiness in the beautiful Filipinas. They are beautiful outside but more importantly beautiful inside. I’m so happy with my Filipina wife.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️ Glad to hear that! 👍

[@Instantbeans]

I am happy with my Filipina wife as well. First, last and only wife I'll ever have.

[@DavidECoy]

@@Instantbeans congratulations to us both, now do what I do and spread the message of your happiness to other guys so they may share in the joy we have my friend. Bless u and ur Filipina.

[@davedodge7761]

Me to.

[@bostontracy5151]

While my wife is a HOT & SEXY, & beautiful, Malaysian, I’m considering maybe moving to the Philippines. While I think Malaysia & Singapore are also on the table, I think the Holy Spirit has Brought the Philippines to my attention, because y’all might have finished your development into a 1st-World country by the time we’re ready to move & pick a location; I believe y’all are at the tail-end of said development. I need reliable access/delivery from the various online markets (Amazon, eBay, individual companies, etc.), so I can invent/build all my innovations. We’ll see where y’all are at in y’all’s cultural development, when my beloved wife & I are ready to move! 👍

[@QuinnPrice]

As a man, this resonates. I let go of dating because I found that women's expectations were killing potential relationships. Peace. And I've found that dating in South America, where I live now, is problematic for other reasons. Under-resourced yet attractive ladies are fine with an older man who has $, but it's a sugar daddy dynamic. How much can she extract from him to get resources for her children and family? So for North American women, it's Brad Pitt or no thanks OR you become the goose that lays the golden egg for a relationship that will drain all your resources. Hard pass.

[@wolf30324]

Same as some women from the Philippines as well. No difference 😮

[@bigglyguy8429]

Bollox. Watch the video again. Asian women have a whole different dynamic. Yes, you still need to keep your eyes open, be picky, be careful and work on the relationship but IN GENERAL you have vastly better odds over here than in the West.

[@markwilliamson2795]

Always rent the newest .... never buy...4 at a time...more fun that way and they won't fight..

[@NEILBAGELSTEIN123]

You just can't win in both places

[@bigglyguy8429]

@@NEILBAGELSTEIN123 I've been winning for over 20 years :P (happily married to my Asian sweetie)

[@sages101]

36 yo male and still single. Had a girlfriend when I was 18. That was it. Didn't mess around or have any fun all throughout my 20's. I'm so used to being alone now that I can't really imagine including anyone else. And seeing other guys get screwed over left and right is like a daily reminder to be thankful. Besides, at this age, it's just single mothers and endless baggage. I never even had a chance to raise my own family and I refuse to raise anyone else's kids. If they made the decision to have children with the wrong guy, that's their issue.

[@2501vai]

Same, friend. Same

[@thefrener794]

Strip clubs are a good option to get some fun. Stay protected.

[@sages101]

@thefrener794 I don't have much of a sex drive anymore. Ngl. Went so long without sex that it's really the last thing on my mind these days.

[@Ghastly10]

I am in the same boat, been single since I was 25. it is now 30 years and still single, I once asked my oldest sister whether I should go looking for girlfriend. Her advice was that since I had been single for so long, and so set in my ways that changing myself to suit someone else would be hard. And well with how bad things are these days, I have to thank my sister for her advice as it has saved me a lot of grief.

[@sages101]

@Ghastly10 I think your sister gave you the right advice. As one of the other commenters stated, leave yourself open to the idea, but don't go chasing. I'm very cautious myself.

[@keithgibbons3094]

The outtake from the western woman perfectly described the situation preceding my divorce in 2010. There was absolutely nothing I could do to change my western wifes mind and believe me I tried everything. It was at that point I knew that I could never trust my heart to a western woman again. It has been a long wait but I am finally approaching my retirement and I'm happy to say that I have found what I was looking for in a woman in the Philippines. My fiance and I were engaged in September and I couldn't be happier.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️👍

[@Jcope-ce9ef]

I married 2 different filipinas years ago,ruin me to where inthe short term marriages I lost everything even my S Security so I worked all my life for nothing .Just be careful PLEASE man.

[@DavidBrockes]

Honeymoon isn't over yet mate.😆😆😆I'm not saying she isn't the one, but 'fools rush in where angels fear to tread'. How long were you looking. It took someone I know over 7 years to find the right match. People tend to find someone, think they are in love, then spend the rest of their lives trying to make it work. I'm not trying to rain on your parade, but, eyes wide open man. Ingat always🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@tootellustraight]

@@Jcope-ce9ef. Yes plenty of horror stories from us men falling in love with a pinay Philippines woman. My ex pinay of eight years together. In the end I realised too late that she was an academy award winning actress. She pretended to be a good church girl. But she could Lie Cheat and Steal thief. And sneak around behind my back. But always telling me that she loves me or she misses me. And her daughter calling me daddy for eight years. Built them a house support them eight years. All a waste of time and money on that Pinay

[@ltsallwood]

@@tootellustraight See, that's why I'm going to be a penny pincher if I end up going over there. I sure as shit won't build someone a damn HOUSE when I don't even have one for myself.

[@Okafor1000]

My gf is Filipina. She is literally the happiest woman on earth. She sees the positive in every bad situations and appreciates the tiniest little mundane things. Shes literally God sent.

[@jayd5360]

Congrats Bro. You hit the jackpot! Enjoy. And bless your wifey

[@RayRay-tr3wm]

I’m only half Filipina but I’ve been raised by women who were full and I mush preferred being around my Filipino side than my white side because my Filipina relatives were just so nice to be around

[@thepassman]

I am not surprised Pea. This reminds me of that scene in one of my favorite movies "The Book of Eli" when Mila Kunis visits Denzel Washington and asks what the world was like before the apocalypse. His answer "People had more than they needed. We had no idea what was precious, what wasn't. We threw away things people would kill each other for now.". I think this aptly describes why so many in the West are unhappy. Many have forgotten what is precious and what is not.

[@MartyGodby]

It is YOUR job to make yourself Happy. I had a manager ask me one day why I was always smiling I told him that it was because I was doing my most important job and he asked what that was. my responce was KEEPING MYSELF HAPPY. He said you know I should try that.

[@gertjanvandermeij4265]

*I'm 53 years now, and back in the day, I had 4 serious relationships ( each 2-6 years ) and they all dumped me.* But strangely ..... 3 of them, are now BEGGING me, to take them BACK ! They thought they could do better, but all got WORSE ! And since I'm no fool ... I hope they learned their lessons ... BUT ... *I am NOT taking one of them, back ! THIS is my happiness !*

[@PullHardSkiFast]

Pea- you are spot on. My ex wife and I were having troubles. Rather than quibbling over the details, I asked, ‘Can you tell me about the last time you felt pure joy?’ She paused, ‘What do you mean?’ Telling huh? I said, ‘Joy, you know, laugh out loud shrouded in happiness?’ Pause. Pause. ‘Well, I would if you hadn’t done X and had done Y blah blah blah’. I actually felt bad for her. She was from a very wealthy family. We had lots of money- we travelled all over the world including to the Philippines about 8 times, and had smart healthy kids. But she was still miserable. Sad.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

😢😢😢

[@JustNo8808]

Because she probably does things to her mind to make herself feel happy synthetically like drugs, including alcohol. That is why those things should never ever be used once in a person's life, can find joy in throwing their child up in the air and cathing them. Oh wait, I have never seen a woman throw a kid in the air and catch him unless that kid was one. Women just don't know how to have fun in general.

[@jackyack7850]

Men and women see things completely different. I can sit in a nice warm house, on a comfy sofa playing games or watching my favorite films with a beer and can’t think of a single thing that would make me any happier. Peace, quiet and time to relax are all blessings. Men see how fragile these things are. Women are always looking outward, comparing themselves to more beautiful or more successful women. This is why the Kardashians are still on TV. They present this lie of having a perfect glamorous life full of drama. Next time a woman asks how much you think of the Roman empire, ask them how much time they waste reading or thinking about celebrities.

[@P213-n4d]

I'm a 50 year old never married westerner, I grew up with an older sister and a mother with 3 sisters. Through all my relationships with women and relationships I see my male friends go through, I noticed more and more that western women, at least, complain about everything all the time and don't seem willing to try and solve the problem. This is one of the things that has steered me away from relationships more and more. Whenever I overhear female conversations I get the impression that western women on the whole, have become addicted to sympathy exchange which in my view is where the snowball starts.

[@eduardomaldonado1647]

Im a 50 year old american with a 26 year old Filipina girlfriend. She is wonderful. She cooks for me and takes care of me at home in every way that I need. I met her when she was 18 and became friends. She sure gives impression of being very unfriendly when you first meet her. Once you get to know her she is very sweet. She never says no to anything that I ask as long as it is reasonable request. I ask her can you cook me this? Or you want to go this with me? The sex is fantastic anytime I want. She says you are kind to me and treat me well. She is from provinces Same as Pea and grew up in bamboo house. She has 3 other sisters with babies and two of them got pregnant and boyfriend left them. She says you known me 8 years and always by my side your a good man. I do more for her than anyone she has ever known. She is also what filipinos would say negrita. I love my little negrita she is great. Men in her culture don't want her because she is short, dark, and round nose. I find her to be very cute and exotic.

[@richardm3023]

American women are professional victims. They would rather get listen to a TV talk show by closeted lesbian billionaire who has never been married, never had kids, for relationship and child rearing advice than to talk with their husband.

[@Maxxumus]

Social media gave them voices, they shouldn't have...la la land let them whine and be disgruntled. Women are big consumers, Panda Bear Vibes. Imagine a world with just women, infrastructure would fall apart roads and resources!!!

[@Maxxumus]

​@@eduardomaldonado1647congrats

[@donalddudley9253]

You bring up some VERY INTERESTING POINTS. THANKS FOR THE SURVEY'S YOU TALKED ABOUT IN THE VIDEO. MEN AND WOMEN IN THE WESTERN WORLD HAVE REACHED A BAD POINT IN THEIR LIVES

[@benlaw4647]

Thanks Pea ! Enjoyed this ! My ex wife was one of those " nothing pleased her " women. Nothing made my ex happy. One time I was going on a date with a woman, she did not like the color of my shirt , and "told" me to change shirts to one of her liking ,or it was a no go . Guess what ? It was a " no go" 😂😂.. Appreciate you Pea! Good night, sleep well dear 😊🙏💝

[@bobbruce4135]

I experienced all this with a Filipina. As have most guys who made the mistake of thinking it's different somewhere else. Only-Chads are loved and Darwinian natural selection explains why.

[@waltgreen8759]

@@bobbruce4135 ridiculous incel comment

[@hdcordes6299]

You just described ALL of our ex-wives. You are NOT alone, my friend.

[@JohnBarry-g5l]

I saved 100K in my 401K through payroll deductions. When my wife found out, she cussed me out for hiding money from her.😵‍💫

[@waltgreen8759]

@@JohnBarry-g5l uh oh!! lol

[@CarsonBoyd]

I remember a talk by Jack Canfield. He said, "You cannot make someone else happy" and my heart sank. I had been trying so hard to make my wife happy and I was an undisputed failure at it, but I had made promises and taken vows, and that was that. Only later did I learn that, in her mind, her vows were suggestions, not promises. She dropped me the moment she thought she had a better option. It was the kindest thing she could have done for me. It was a horrible thing to do to our 6-year old daughter.

[@PeterNolan-009]

Notmen are NEVER happy.

[@Sonnell]

:( I am sorry for you. It seems you did all you could.

[@CarsonBoyd]

@@PeterNolan-009 I don't think that's true. However, growing up means taking responsibility for your own state of happiness.

[@PeterNolan-009]

@@CarsonBoyd it does not matter what you think is true. It matters what IS true.

[@PeterNolan-009]

@@CarsonBoyd knotmen never grow up and never take responsibility for anything, let alone their state of happiness.

[@RonaldKarle]

Wow, you are so right, Pea. I'm 69 and my Filipino Wife is 63. My first wife, (An American) I could never make her happy. I gave up and divorced her after 8 years. After that, I had about 100 first dates. Examples of why I didn't get a 2nd date was, she didn't like the way I walked. I was too Fat, My car was too old ( 4yr old car), I didn't wear the right clothes. The list of petty things could go on and on. Then quite by accident, I discovered Filipina women. Been Happily married for over 26 years. I could tell you more but this comment is too long already. Keep up the good work. And tell Lucy I love her warm smile. I hope you have her on again.

[@q.t.9819]

Thanks for sharing your story. Don't worry about the comments being to long, some people still read them.👍🙂

[@Cons2911]

4yr old car? That’s not old! I mean would she replace a 4yr old car if it was hers and she’ll pay for it?

[@barryj3266]

I became widowed in my late 50s, so by the time I was 60 I jumped back in dating pool. Wow what a disappointment. It felt like job interviews. After 10 or 15 of these I said no thanks. Then my nephew introduced me to his Filipina fiancee, and I was intrigued. So now I too am engaged, have made 3 trips over, and are planning to live over there.

[@RonaldKarle]

​@@Cons2911 It was a minivan also. I don't think anything was good enough.

[@RonaldKarle]

@@barryj3266 We live in the US. My wife stayed with me here. I never could have found a better woman. And now I know quite a few good ones. Some of them are widowed. Many won't remarry because they still love their late husbands.

[@hickory2918]

Thanks so much for easing the pain and guilt I was feeling. Just today I'd decided to leave this miserable, unhappy woman I've been trying to please or "fix" for 13 years. God must've sent you my way .

[@briandillow6767]

Good for you💪

[@michaelgeraghty3989]

My ex girlfriend has a Ph.D in biochemistry, is blessed with good looks and good health, an ocean view home in a great neighborhood, and a $3 million net worth. She's been in & out of therapy for years and battles with depression and unhappiness.

[@lavellelee5734]

She's literally a main character but with depression 😂.

[@Willie_Wahzoo]

Intelligence and wisdom are two very different things.

[@arizonaaliasofficial4733]

@@Willie_Wahzoo 💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@CABell-6thsept]

If only those western women who called us Filipinas uneducated and could not speak English can watch your videos, they would have realized, though they may not publicly admit it, that they are wrong in their (ignorant) declaration. I love your videos, Filipina Pea. Keep it up!

[@mnemonicpie]

You are just a bunch of gold diggers😂

[@scottulbrich5376]

No, they are too ignorant to apologize,take care

[@matthewgaines10]

They can’t admit fault or responsibility. If they watched the videos, they would post angrily about how men, foreign women, and everyone else is the blame for how they feel.

[@paulroseartanddesign]

If anything, I've found south East Asian women more educated and well rounded in life, love and happiness than their western counterparts. You rock!

[@helmutsimon8788]

Yes!! True!

[@petermujica7866]

Well you already know my story. I do get a little satisfaction knowing that she's still miserable and it pisses her off when she sees I'm happy. Another great episode Pea!

[@jimburg621]

I know zero about my ex wife's life now, but deep down, I know where ever she is, she's the same, pissed off, unhappy human.

[@randomyoutuber308]

My parents divorced a few years ago in their early 60s. From what I've seen its just been a weight off my dad's chest and my mom is unsurprisingly still a miserable person that is never happy.@@jimburg621

[@ricgunn1439]

She's envious and that's the best revenge, although you probably can't be bothered looking for it🤗

[@blightedgrounds]

Being single is great because i don't have to worry about me picking unnecessary arguments with myself to ruin my own day for no reason, taking all of my own money to spend on my 30th pair of shoes i'll never wear,, and then gaslight and cheat on myself when things don't work in my favor 😂

[@caucasianafrican1435]

😂😅

[@eyeamphree3337]

Just make sure to pay your child support before you buy another pair of shoes chump ✌🏿

[@sonoftherepublic7737]

Love what you say Pea! You are simply saying what the majority of females really want deep down, but some of us men are gun shy because of what we’ve dealt with here in the west! Being blessed with a female with that mindset would be heaven on earth!

[@nyronfranklin5789]

Then go east young man go east. Or south. Anywhere but Western countries.😂

[@snickers525]

@@nyronfranklin5789 and don't ever bring them to the west! They will change right before your eyes!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Lots of gun shy men for sure - and I don’t blame them 👍

[@i-am-your-conscience]

Yes. A lot of us were completely different in the earlier days. I risk appearing weak saying this, but I now realize that I have downright dating and relationship trauma. I know there is now a movement in the west where women learn what problems certain ideologies brought them and want to go back to being traditional - but this will take maybe another decade or so. Sorry, thats to late for me. Thank god for Filipinas! :)

[@paulfisher9527]

Good video Pea! Yes i was burned in the West over the years, and 2 years ago i found my wonderful fiancée….in Luzon ❤… Appreciative, supportive, ambitious, acts like a woman! Lets me be the leader, the man

[@barryj3266]

I was widowed in my late 50s, and started dating a few years later. Oh my. Every date felt like a job interview that i was underqualified for. I am a retired professor, so i do have some redeeming qualities. So after 10 or 15 of these experiences i said no thanks. Then i met my Filipina fiancee. She is by no means perfect, but then neither am i, but i am her first choice. She loves with genuineness. I have never in my life felt so connected to another person. I watch the videos here about women criticizing the Passport Bros phenomenon, and i feel sorry for all the people struggling here. Good luck to everyone. But my future is in Philippines.

[@CarsonBoyd]

I'm happy for you. Congratulations!

[@barryj3266]

@@CarsonBoyd thanks

[@BUTGOD-j1x]

You nailed it when explaining why western women are not happy. Western women today in the post war Era. They are bored with success. They NEED drama.

[@michaelfreiwald5236]

good point

[@keyonbounds4340]

Hi Ms. Pea. I find this video very true and helpful.

[@johnedgar7956]

Thank you for sticking up for us much-abused American men. 🙂Every word of this video is true. I love your videos! Also, "Police Officer Pea" is NOT someone I would want to cross, ha ha!

[@thomasrobson6370]

Married to a western woman for 35 years. I'll give you an example of the way they treat us. Wife wanted me to buy her vegetable beef soup because she wants to have the broth she never eats the beef and chucks or the vegetables in the soup. So I bought her exactly what she wanted but I also bought her a can of beef broth soup. As soon as she took it out of the bag install it she flew off the handle and started being verbally abusive saying she did not want that and she opened it up and put it down the sink. I know she likes certain candy bars so occasionally I would buy her those and she would throw a fit at times not all the time just out of the blue say no I don't want these. And then there's time she sends me to get something that I can't find and I literally go to 10 freaking stores to find it and I can't find it everyone is out and when I get back to the house she throws a fit that I didn't get it even though it wasn't my fault because no store had it at that time. I bent over backwards for 35 years trying to make her happy happy wife happy life is bullshit. I honestly can't believe I stayed with her that long.

[@DMSProduktions]

At least you got RID of it!

[@thomasrobson6370]

@@Kiss2000man this last June I finally left her

[@thomasrobson6370]

@@DMSProduktions took me long enough but I finally did

[@cryptotrader2779]

Same man, exactly the same freakin' sh*t. Eventually I stopped caring. It's the only way.

[@thomasrobson6370]

@@cryptotrader2779 yeah one night she said too much stuff that she shouldn't have said so the next morning when I went to work I left a note for her the keys to the house and my cell phone I left for work and I never came back

[@jrtaylor8903]

When I was in my 20s, I asked a girl (around the same age as me) out but she turned me down because she had this very particular type guy that she was looking for and holding out for. Fast forward 15 to 20 years later, she's still single, childless, desperate for marriage, and miserable. Looking back, I'm very glad she turned me down. I'm single, childless, not looking for marriage, and happy 😃 My my my how the tables have turned 😂 it's great

[@Crt1982]

Yep, same here. Best friend, studied 2gether, was looking for a ltr with her, but was “ like a cousin”… she got with drug addicts and beaters, chasing the dragon trying to look down a ny based artist with plenty of fish in his pool. Got thrown in the bin aged 35, went on a tinder revenge journey until even tinder started to dry up. Recconected with me, after hearing i ve been smashing a 23 y old hottie she immediately recognised my illness and the fact i needed professional help. Wouldn t talk to me because of my belief that a girl over 18 is an adult capable of her own thinking….now 41, overweight and broken she passes time with her 44 y old sisterthat ran twice from engagement in search of greener pastures at the tender age of 36… yes it is pure madness.

[@Lanceloot91]

bro the story would only be a happy end if you would have found a wife and had have kids, being 40 single childless is not the live you should try to achieve..-

[@jrtaylor8903]

40, single, and childless is great for me. Maybe it's a bit selfish on my part but it's not as bad or sad as it sounds bro. I never felt comfortable with the thought of being married or having kids to start with, the only reason I "wanted" to get married was because of media and society brainwashing me into thinking that I needed to get married to become a man. Becoming a man and getting married are irrelevant to each other. Getting married is an option, not a necessity

[@JamGoller]

You only asked one girl out ever??

[@jrtaylor8903]

@@JamGoller no 😄 I've asked multiple girls out. Some turned me down and others accepted me. I was just using her as an example. Me and her are both older, single, and childless, but the difference is that she is miserable and I am happy 😁

[@TheDarkHorseRides]

Thanks!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for the tip, Keith! ❤❤❤

[@psyolent.]

Yes Pea, you are spot on here but you have missed one thing. Many guys are starting to opt out completely as we can’t find a mate and or have been damaged so much we are scared to even look again, due to both the emotional and financial losses we incur. In the future there’s going to be a lot of single males and females here in AU, from a guys POV we’ll be fine financially. Oh well.

[@craigmillington1258]

Nope!they opt out because of your bullshit behavior that is so toxic.

[@Maxxumus]

Stealing resources you women didn't earn and expecting me to still pay rent I can't afford..is a death sentence.

[@Guildofarcanelore]

So glad you included the clip from “Happy wife school”. I subscribe to her as well. I learned a long time ago the only person who I am responsible for their happiness is me. I’m old, and have been married a long time. I have known since the 80’s that women would ultimately be disappointed by feminism. They are like children who have opened all the gifts on Christmas morning and look around saying “thats it?” Yep, thats it, but they still expect more. I lived in China for several years, and if my marriage ended tomorrow I would be looking to the east

[@randomyoutuber308]

I like that xmas gift analogy...describes perfectly the women who waste their prime years "having fun" while they sleep around and accumulate debt and baggage just to end up miserable in their 30s when they are single, childless, and know they've got another 40-50 years to go with their best days well in the rear view mirror.

[@Guildofarcanelore]

@@randomyoutuber308 they simply refuse to believe that is it. That and they believe men have it “better” and “easier” than they do, and then turn around and “earn” in a day the amount of money I warn in a month posting pics of their feet on OF. How much easier do you need things?

[@randomyoutuber308]

Lol...yeah...I'm in my late 30s and set up pretty nice financially now and I've chatted with people around my age who say things to me like "you are lucky" or "you've got it easy." They just want to completely ignore things like they partied on borrowed money through college while I was working full time and commuting, or that I saved up a down payment for a condo and bought it at 22 but skipped but sold vacation time to my work and didn't do any traveling in my early 20s to be able to do that. Its just hard for people, a lot of men included, to look at their own life choices and be self critical, when quite often when things turn out bad for you its because of bad choices, not just random bad luck, and in my experiences, making enough good choices over time can even overcome a bit of bad luck.@@Guildofarcanelore

[@Downsdddgh]

​@@randomyoutuber308lol!

[@andrewwatkins1561]

This is funny. I found “The Happy Wife School” woman on KZbin yesterday. I didn’t search for her, it was just an option and I clicked on the video. I have never heard a woman describe women with such honesty! She was spilling all the dirty secrets about women they don’t want men to know 😮

[@robertkappler1779]

Yeah really interesting that Pea mentioned her. I have been watching "The happy wife school" for some weeks now and really appreciate that eye opening perspective and honesty.

[@lorenzmenke3121]

Yes watch the full set from "The Happy Wife School"

[@waltgreen8759]

yeah she runs a great channel too!!!

[@dbuck1964]

Some interesting material, which I didn’t all agree with. She also physically and emotionally represents most of the unhappy Western women I have seen. Kind of a buyer beware video! 😂😂

[@jonathanleach1050]

Pea, you continue to amaze me with your clear, insightful videos. Sometimes I think you must have a staff of dozens of people working for you to put these presentations together! Thanks as always. I pray you'll soon find that soulmate who has your back.

[@redpillsatori3020]

And she often replies to, or at least reads, most comments. Takes a lot of time.

[@blackenpowerment0140]

Wait!!! What??!!!!!! She's not married?!! Unbelievable!!!🤯

[@jonathanleach1050]

Amazing, no? 😊

[@jamesmartie2683]

I found the woman I want in the Philippines back in 2010, I started doing the work to bring her to the U.S. as soon as I got back home and six months later she was here we married 2 weeks after she got here. Best decision I ever made

[@paulstan9828]

Hi Pea!!! 🥰 To answer your question no I’m not surprised.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

(I’m not either) 🤣

[@chrisamick6350]

Excellent video.

[@robertlalor8090]

Thanks for another brilliant vlog, Pea. Isn't it surprising that with 4 billion men and 4 billion women (approx.), that it's so hard to find 1 person with whom to build a partnership? Surely something ain't adding up! Thankfully, my Filipina makes my life worth living, as I pray I make hers.

[@DMSProduktions]

The problem IS, in some of the most populous parts of the world, POLYGAMY rules! And THAT takes away even more women from the pool, leaving a lot of single men as there are LESS single women around. This is very prominent in Africa, where a lot of militant groups are made up of INCEL men, usually in the Islamic regions as all the wealthy men have all the wives, & the poor go totally without, leading to wars, & mass kidnappings!

[@blackenpowerment0140]

​@@DMSProduktions Damn! That's f'd up. 😢

[@DMSProduktions]

@@blackenpowerment0140 TELL me about it!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m sure you do, Robert 👍❤️

[@garyzies3486]

@@DMSProduktions polygamy, hypergamy and feministas. 80% of the women go sleep with 20% of men. 80% of men fighting and competing for the 20% leftovers......figure that!

So, I found this channel because my girlfriend happens to be from the Philippines, rather than the other way around... but having heard about how crazy dating apparently is right now, and seeing how some of my friends wives/girlfriends treat my friends (including trying to sleep with me because "open relationships")... I'm feeling pretty good about her heritage, because we're doing great! :-D

[@williammckinney567]

Well I wonder how Filipino men feel about all the men flooding their country because y’all can’t get along with your own women?

[@StevenIvy-j5o]

Pea, you hit on the very thing that myself and so many of my western brothers have in common. I am 5'7" and even though I am fit and have a 6-figure income, I am considered average by western standards due to my height. That all changed when I stepped off the airplane in Cebu where suddenly I was tall and handsome, noticed by local women for the first time in my life. Mary, my longtime friend that I had flown there from Texas to meet, introduced me to the pros and the cons of a relationship with a Pinay. She made me feel attractive, admired and desired in a way that I had never experienced before in my life. All she asks is that I be a loyal and devoted man...........and somehow learn how to deal with that incredible Pinay jealousy......wow! It is nice to feel like I am more to a woman than a resource to be used up and then tossed aside when she finds someone, she thinks is better.

[@DavidBrockes]

Pinay jealousy 😆😆😆 I gave my gf a number of warnings, but she didn't heed them, so out she went. I don't accept that sort of BS drama in my life. And believe me, I know how much BS drama a jealous Pinay can drum up. So when I hear those comments I just laugh and think 'Baliw', LOL.. There are Pinay women out there that don't get jealous.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m so happy to hear that you’ve discovered a whole new situation here 👍👍👍

[@DavidBrockes]

@@TheFilipinaPea I'm not so sure about how happy you should be for his situation😆😆If you read his comment.....All she asks is that I be a loyal and devoted man...........and somehow learn how to deal with that incredible Pinay jealousy......

[@rgn87654]

@@DavidBrockes I have to side with this guy. You're getting attention "for the first time" It will cloud your judgement. You need to seriously consider what you are doing. You're little man will sell you out. Be careful.

[@DavidBrockes]

@@rgn87654 ....Don't you mean...'Your little man will always sell you out'....😂😂😂Leave it a year or two and different sort of 'cracks' start appearing....🤣😂😂😂

[@L6FT]

Women given free reign become victims of their own chaotic nature, taking everything and everyone down with them. I've experienced this in my own life. Women need to be lovingly yet firmly contained.

[@scottbucklin819]

Great comment about women and their hardware being the same but their software being different! Pure genius, Pea! BTW, my amazing wife is a Filipina. She is a dream come true and I am so thankful for her... her kindness, gentle approach, her sincerity and genuineness. I am so blessed and so fortunate that I was the lucky one to marry the sweetest woman I have ever met. True.

[@Thephilipcartmelexperience]

Love this one, Pea. You knocked it out of the park.❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Excellent, Philip 👍👍❤️

[@ronaldmccampbell5175]

The Happy wife school is great I’m amazed what comes out of this woman’s mouth I absolutely love her, she brings tears to my eyes, I’ve been married twice, I doubt I’ll ever ever do it again, this woman is so right on.

[@Atlas99973]

Wow @TheFilipinaPea I hope you find the happiness you provide all of us viewers 😊😊

[@davidcardin3271]

You are 1,000% correct. I went to the Philippines and married a wonderful Filipina and she is my soulmate and we are doing immigration to bring her back to the US after over 5 years of marriage

[@MegamanXfan21xx]

Careful, bringing her back might result in her getting indoctrinated with toxic boss-babe sludge.

[@seedyjobe2875]

@@MegamanXfan21xx 😂 my thoughts exactly

[@macjenkins4624]

@MegamanXfan21xx Be careful what you wish for....because its known that bringing foreign women to the U.S ...they will eventually become "Americanized"...with the culture and financial system that corrupts every woman's mind set 💯💯💯💯💯💯.....Watch yourself

[@livingoutloud5729]

As an American man I can tell you that you are spot on with your conclusion's about American women. They are becoming more and more repulsive to men here in the west with their insufferable attitudes. I've been in an LDR with a Filipina for almost a year. We can't wait to be together because life is too short to quibble over things that don't matter. Congratulation's on reaching 270K subscribers. You most definitely deserve it Miss Pea!

[@Kenny-Ross]

I was venting yesterday to a buddy of mine, who is in Russia right now, about the sour rotten attitudes and repulsive miserable demeanors I see in so many women on a daily. I saw it in California and now NJ where I’ve been visiting family after my long 9 month South American trip. It was so refreshing not seeing toxic dispositions on a daily. Women here just walk around with attitude for no reason. It’s draining!

[@arcabuz]

After all the carnage that US did in the past in Philippines

[@Mftjan2000]

ALL AMERICAN WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME. JUST AS ALL MEN ARE NOT THE SAME.

[@futureisyours3016]

Your govt loves you and supports you, that's why they want immigrants especially from the middle east to come and settle, coz western society is the jinny that can back in the bottle(buRkha) and men get back their sanity and rights.

[@minime1988]

@@Mftjan2000 You can't say "all" is wrong to disprove something, you are taking something and misinterpreting it to make yourself feel better. Any normal person knows that if someone says/alludes to "all" they're not being literal, there is no way you don't understand this. Look up "exaggerate" on Google, that might help you out a little bit.

[@brianscovern68]

Hi Pea! Most women in the West are miserable because they focus on their career and having lots of things instead of a solid relationship. Everyone single that I talk to says it's rough out there when it comes to dating in the US.

[@Instantbeans]

I have 1 out of 4 sisters who have been married and gotten a divorce. The oldest has only been married once.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Do the single women say that too? 😢

[@brianscovern68]

@TheFilipinaPea The single women say they get ghosted alot. Not sure why thou.

[@DMSProduktions]

@@brianscovern68 LOL, Chad & Tyrone will always do a pump'n'dump!

[@Instantbeans]

@@TheFilipinaPea honestly, the women want the bad boy type,and ignore the nice guys or just use them for money. Then they base all guys off the bad boy type and think they are all that way, they start treating all males like trash.

[@Human_01]

Narcissism and living in lala-land is likely the source of the problem. Today's Ai is not delusional, nor toxic. Solitude is another safer alternative, lol. No mind-fuckery, either. This KZbinr is truly enlightened... What a genuine rarity. Solituuude and Ai 🤤✨

[@eyeamphree3337]

BAM!!!!

[@fakshen1973]

I told all my single friends a warning: I solved all my ex's problems. The only problem she had left was me.

[@matjazpovalej4146]

I went through a similar experience with my ex wife, with whom I've shared many years. I invested time and patience in her growth so that we could be equals. However, the challenge arose when, after achieving equality, she desired to be on top not same, and my advices was met with arrogance.

[@nunyabidness117]

Women were sold a bill of goods when they were convinced how awful they had it when they stayed home watching their children grow up while their husbands were getting up at 5:30am to go to work to pay for it all.

[@GaryonWheels]

2 years ago I had a spinal cord injury that put me in a wheelchair. I'm 53 now and let me tell you, as hard as it was to date before the accident, afterwards it was impossible. You could literally see the dread in women's eyes that I would talk to them. I'm in Iloilo city now =) the people are wonderful and I am happier for sure .....

[@NYC1E1]

I was married for 18 years, of course I wasn’t perfect (No one Is) but I didn’t cheat, go hangout with my friends, do drugs, was an alcoholic or have a gambling addiction, didn’t physically or verbally abused her… I worked and paid the rent the whole time together… I did house chores like cooking and cleaning… I was there for our son the whole time since his birth and she still left… So I believe it’s true, if a woman is unhappy, there’s nothing you can do and the marriage/relationship will eventually fail…

[@bruh2677]

From my experience, making an American woman happy is quite difficult. My experience was that even when I do or have the things a woman says she wants, she’s not happy and finds something else wrong, and it’s a never ending cycle of her not being happy with something. I then realized that trying to make her happy is more stressful than what it’s worth and I make six figures with no debt, I can afford to travel anywhere on the planet. Six countries later, I realize there are a lot of problems with American culture, including dating. I’ll be in Jakarta, Manila, and Tokyo next year 😎

[@Sydebern]

It's not difficult to make a woman happy. It's impossible. She either derives happiness from herself or she's miserable and makes you miserable too.

[@brianmoore581]

Japanese women are known for cheating on their men. Enjoy your time, but guard your heart. Find a good one!

[@Sigurther]

If you don't fulfill her needs enough, you're useless and she leaves. If you fulfill them too much, you're a spineless wimp and she leaves. See, you have to find that perfect balance between fulfilling her juuuuuuuust enough! Hahahahahahaha, no, that's impossible, so just let her go find her own happiness alone. XD

[@bruh2677]

@bradleybrown8428 I’m studying Japanese now.

[@bruh2677]

@bradleybrown8428 Thanks!

[@itsenergybob8917]

Megan Markle LITERALLY married a LITERAL prince and she's still miserable.

[@michaelchevreaux7780]

Manipulative Feminist, Meghan Markle. Harry Gave Up His Prince Title For Her! Markle Was a D List Actress, Now Giving Her Academy Award Winning Performance As Harry's Wife. Harry Does Occasionally Have Glimpses Of Clarity Though, Missing His Time As a Tough Combat Officer In Afghanistan!

[@mikehardgraves7887]

I moved to the PI in 2013, met a fine woman whom I married, we have 3 lovely children. We moved to the states in 2017, she became a citizen and is about to start nursing school. We have been together for almost 10 years and are very happy. I think living there for 4 years helped me to understand what living in a foreign country is like so when we came here I could understand what my wife was going through.

[@samnangthim6949]

The exception proves the rule

[@michaellarusch4317]

Thanks Pea! I think a lot of men would love to have a normal family with a woman who was respectful, loving, and nurturing. One with kids and a simple life. The fact that society has warped and now mocks that and has convinced women that it's the worst thing possible for them (many compare it to slavery...) has destroyed women and families. The very building blocks of society. Men will press on in life because they have no choice, it's what we do. But, I would bet that many wouldn't mind having a traditional woman to share it with..

[@garyzies3486]

marriages declining, divorces skyrocketing, birth rates dropping, alternative lifestyles being promoted.....Sharp population decline in Europe, Japan, S. Korea, China....Soon we won't have to worry about "manmade climate change" anymore.

[@dunementat2191]

Hi Pea; beautiful background, lovely dress, and a woman to live for! This reminds me of the story about the multi-level “Husband Store.” As women went up, the quality of men increased with every floor and they kept climbing until finding themselves on an empty roof with no ways to go back in. As the saying goes; curiosity killed the cat.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣👍

[@stommx]

And the rest of that story is men went to the store for the same thing and didn't make it past the ground floor as it said these women give bj's and cook food.

[@petergorm]

It's the same thing with trying to fix other peoples problems. No matter how hard you try, it is impossible! Forget it! So don't spend a second on making a woman happy. She is either happy within, or unhappy within(nothing you can do about it).

[@MiddleAgedBrit]

Brillant ! The hardware and the software running on it, perfect 🤣. I'm an IT Systems engineer, so that tickled me. 😆👍

[@Vitriol-Divergent]

In my early 40's now, I've put myself through enough crap trying to entertain our narcissistic female population in America. I feel like I've truly, finally found myself by making my priorities in life about me. The only hoops I jump through anymore are the ones I put in front of myself. Meaning they're the only ones WORTH jumping through.

[@oncall21]

Another A Grade video Ms Pea! 🙏 I think when we look even deeper human beings (male or female or other) are under the delusion that happiness is something external and it’s something to be obtained externally. This is the fundamental flaw we all seem to make in life. If my happiness is dependent on the perfect partner, relationship, home, job, bank balance, etc then we will always be unhappy because often much if this is not within our control. We need to take greater responsibility and realize that happiness is something we share. Happy people attract people. It’s not something to be obtained (which is transient) but it is something to be shared. That’s what I love about the Philippines. 🇵🇭 Neatly everybody seems to be happy (well at least compared to people in the West and it’s Western culture). My Filipina allows me to feel happy just by sharing our time together. I don’t want to ‘own her’ to be happy. The happiness I feel is a byproduct of us being together. When will women (and men) in the West learn? Thanks for sharing! 🥇🙏

[@johnsheakley8836]

Thank you for your good research and your frequent comparisons of Western women and Filipinas. I often share your videos of this topic with my relatives and friends here in the USA. I appreciate the moral laws in the Philippines and the morals of Catholics and Christians in the Philippines. I cry in prayer and with prayer groups for unborn children. Our church supports agencies that care for pregnant women (faith-based crisis pregnancy centers) and women traumatized with regrets of an abortion. Crisis pregnancy centers have existed in some form since the late 1960s, when Catholic activists first sought to counter the growing legalization of abortion in the United States. The movement expanded to include evangelical Christians, e.g., Obria Medical Clinics (in Oakland, Redwood City, Union City and San José), 40 Days for Life, Heartbeat International, etc.

[@geoffsutton78]

Since the 70's women's liberation has grown more and more pervasive. The liberation was freedom from the "confines" of marriage and family. Sadly this really means turning women into men. As a man I know that when I try to use a pair of pliers instead of a wrench I damage what I am working on, and usually remove skin from my knuckles. Women are emotionally and intellectually geared to nurture and care and maintain a home. They are able to multitask and keep multiple things in mind at once. Men, on the other hand, tend towards more single mindedness. This enables us to focus on our jobs and earning and providing for the woman in our life. By design the man does poorly without the support of a wife, and the woman does poorly without the support of a man. A "genuine" marriage (man & woman) on the other hand is entirely complementary where the two working together are far more effective than either one doubling their efforts. If, that is, they stick to the roles they are most suited for. The western world, especially entertainment and media, preaches otherwise. Hence men and women are discontent.

[@Crazykid949]

Pea: I can totally understand the studies and statistics that you present in this video, I see it everyday all over the place in my area. Back in the 70's and early 80's (in my area), single women were the most desirable ones to lease apartments to because they were much more reserved, had much more respect for their neighbors, and kept the property much cleaner and neater than their male counterparts. Since the late 90's the reverse is true. A vast majority of women have become so self absorbed that they don't care how much they bother their neighbors, yet complain like it's the end of the world if a man makes any little noise what so ever. The manager in my building told me recently it takes less time for the eviction process for a single man than a single woman for the exact same reason. Women have countless more rights and freedoms them men do and they still want more. Nothing will ever satisfy these types of PEOPLE. When it comes to dating, back in the 70's and 80's most single women were happy to be asked on a date with a man, even to a fast food restaurant with the possibilities of a movie afterwards. In the late 90's if you mentioned a fast food restaurant for a date, she would act like a spoiled little brat until you either changed your mind about the venue or decide to not take her out at all. NOW, you almost need to sign a bank note to take a woman out on a first date, and the second date had better be soon afterwards and blow the roof off the first. How are men supposed to pay for all these demands most of these modern women? The modern women's movements have gotten our governments to make laws to "equalize" the workforce in such an unequal way that some of the people filling the higher paying jobs are only qualified by their cultural, gender. religious, and orientation "discriminatory factors". Claiming they are being discriminated against by some means, yet in the process discriminating against a person who is more qualified in the field of work to perform the job. It's no wonder why so many men are trying to find a way to make global income and check themselves out of their original countries to find a more suitable place to live where they will be treated with the respect, dignity, and appreciation for what they are able to do. Personally I am working on creating global income for myself so I can one day also say "CHECK PLEASE!" and fly away from this madness.

[@winpowell1024]

Profound content once again, Sweet Pea. At my age, there are so many more single women than men, that I could be Quasimodo and still attract feminine attention, but none that I know are as caring, devoted, and feminine as my Filipina. When I visited her for the first time a few months ago, her shyness evaporated quickly and we were compatible in every way...I don't know any Western women like that. Thank you, Sweet Pea, for the creativity, imagination, intelligence, thoroughness, humor, and plain hard work that goes into each of your presentations. 😘

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Win, and I’m so glad you’re happy now 👍👍👍❤️

[@robervine7721]

Finally, a woman who understands why men often give up on their partners! And why I think men nowadays seem reluctant to the challenge of marriage

[@andrewtaylor2525]

Marriage isn't what it once was although I'm sure there are a small majority of people who marry for the right reasons I think the remaining majority only see Marriage as a status symbol which is quite sad. 😕

[@kranzonguam]

So well said, Pea! And it isn't only "western women," but anyone who buys into that western narrative about women. Japan springs to mind. Take good care! Really looking forward to your Christmas video!

[@tracysherman875]

How so with Japan?

[@saltykitty9215]

@@tracysherman875 Most Japanese men over 30 are still virgins, and those who aren't are very promiscuous. They can go to brothels all the time while their wives/gfs are ok with it. Theeen let's not forget the ones who are screwing robots and anime body pillows... Wouldn't say that it's the same in the US, but Japan sure has relationship problems too.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Kranz! I think you’ll like it ❤️

[@Goodman849]

I think your onto something there. As if its a virus

[@kranzonguam]

@@tracysherman875 Not all Japanese women, of course, but the percentages are growing. As each generation rejects "old & outdated" ways of life, who to model the "new and modern" way becomes important. Japan, in the post-war period, generally chooses the US (heavy media exposure, etc.) High cost of living is forcing more women into the workforce, changing the traditional gender dynamics. Shrinking population also plays a role in Japanese women's (again, not all) overestimation of what they bring to a relationship, and an unwillingness to "settle for" a less than perfect partner. This hasn't reached the levels seen Stateside, but the trend is pretty clear...😢

[@billbillson3129]

Once you realize that happiness(like all emotion) is a river that flows from within it is a real game changer. Pea will make someone a lovely wife and partner! Thank you for making and sharing your videos Pea!! Good luck out there!!

[@smferreiro2610]

What a warm and kind video! It resonated in my most positive vibes. I totally loved it. Yes, that's what I want! And you make it sound so simple... Thanks, Pea! Santiago

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It’s pretty simple, as long as you never rush a relationship 👍👍

[@blackenpowerment0140]

🏃🏿‍♂️💨🛂🛫✈️👑♥️😁

[@ooleelfive0894]

I would agree with this video 100% as I am married to a Filipina we have been married for 15 years and I met her in person as I traveled overseas our relationship has been 100% this whole time and never had any downturn. we have a beautiful daughter And a rich life together, both spiritually mentally physically and I wouldn’t trade it for anything ever all I do is pray to continue my life providing for my family very good video and very true Filipinas out of all of my time spent here on earth has discovered that they seem to be a very loving caring And dedicated to their husbands and family.

[@epsensei]

Keep doing what you are doing, Pea! We all love you and support you in your quest!😊

[@paulsmaglik5063]

Awesome advice, I am older man and I have a wonderful woman in my life. We cherish each other and we love each other for who we are. I am feel so bad for the younger men in the states and what kind of B.S they have to deal with. These young women here in states have no clue on what a real loving and supportive relationships mean anymore. I got to say that I am a man and I think women in your country are hot and want the simplest things in life which are the most important things to live for. - Paul

[@chrismarden4609]

MERRY CHRISTMAS. MY friend of 35 years is going to the Philippines on the 28 to find love and happiness because of your videos. This video hit it out of the park! Love your sociological videos, 🎉❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I wish your best the best of luck 👍👍

[@rickmaberry8761]

Wow. Supper heavenly wisdom. God bless you

[@jeffreyes1568]

It's simple Most guys want a woman who is his place of peace and respects him. I found that in a 4ft 11 , 98 lb Felipina. As a guy , It's not about finding "love", This isn't Walt Disney It's about respect.

[@Cons2911]

That peace is so important, if it’s just toxicity and stress, it’s like going to work you don’t like..imagine going home to that.

[@alfasiger4178]

Why do you have to have a woman to get respect?

[@jeffreyes1568]

@alfasiger4178 respect from a woman in a relationship man . If she respects you that relationship will last a lifetime

[@mikaelp1957]

You nailed it in this very well presented set of facts about the differences between western culture vs filipina culture when it comes to women's software programming. Thanks for sharing!

[@NewAdventuresAhead]

Pea, you’re doing the world a service. GREAT video. Can’t wait to get over there. The Filipinas I’ve met online already have been a different breed than I’m used to. So thankful y’all exist! 😅 The “nothing makes them happy“ is what I have been saying for a long time now… I bring most everything a good woman would want to the table, but some people are just hardwired to not be happy and if you mix that with a culture of lies, bad things happen. Please put a smile on your pretty face if there isn’t one already.. that’s what you do for your viewers! 😉

[@sim1mal2]

My girl Pea this is by far my most favorite video you have put out yet!!! You are adorable, smart, articulate and funny af. Great work and the ending is clever 😂

[@johnlobley]

Hello Pea ...and always let the ads play

[@TheFilipinaPea]

If there even are any ads - they demonetized my last video for a whole day until I complained 🥺

[@steven.dennison1115]

❤Pea.... You are absolutely correct! I have seen plenty of examples of all that you are saying, and it is really sad to watch as more and more of this situation grows. I think guys, overall, are so tired of the "fight", and I've seen a lot of them giving up on dating and relationships, because of what is happening in our world now. It is hard to take the "fear" out of them to get their feet wet again, so to speak. And while many men would like to try dating a foreign woman, they also are afraid to do that as well, because of the stigma of it, or afraid that they will have the same thing happen again. Maybe, you could do a new video that could be dedicated to men of today's world, and show how dating a foreign woman might be easier than they think?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Sure, I can do that 👍😊

[@blackknifearmyboy4011]

As to the stigma of what people might think, I say give it a few more years and most guys will think like me, who cares what others say it’s not there life, you do what makes you happy. If dating and marrying a beautiful Filipina that is 15 years younger than you makes you happy then do it. You have one life, find what makes you happy and ignore the nay sayers. Believe me my ex-wife throws shade at me all the time because I’m leaving. But my parents bought me my suitcase, so you might be surprised.

[@randomyoutuber308]

Personally for me, its just about the logistics of it at the moment. I'm in my 30s and making really good money I don't want to walk away from until I have enough to retire abroad in a few more years, I don't have the option to work remote, and I'm not really interested in a long distance internet girlfriend. I could care less if some women here I'm not interested in dating anyhow want to judge me for my life choices and preferences. Honestly most of the worst women I've met in that respect have been liberal women and it just goes to show what nasty hypocrites they are when they want to support all the LGBTQ stuff and then turn around and judge someone like me who will end up with a foreign woman ~15 years younger instead of wasting my time, energy, and resources on someone like them.