She Said She Loves Being Skinny. The Internet Called Her FATPHOBIC

[@Danny-xi7ug]

Since most people are overweight, wouldnt being skinny make someone in the minority? So fat people are ok with disparaging a minority now? Shamefully hypocritical id say.

[@Osprey850]

As a skinny white male, I embrace my new identity as a minority.

[@thedeekabides]

Minorities only matter when they behave the way a certain group believes they ought to behave. Many such cases. Sad.

[@odindarkll3706]

Maybe in the US, but I don't believe any other parts of the world have overweight people as the majority of their population.

[@Mistmantle88]

@@Osprey850hehe healthy body weight is now a tickable “victim” box! 😁

[@a.walters123]

Absolutely 💯

[@JessicaBlaze89]

How ironic they are so "body positivity" but yet they hate on those with bodies unlike theirs.

[@stillscrimmaging283]

Hating on a young lady just because she likes being fit… smfh those girls are fitphobic

[@Spiritstealer]

Thinphobic

[@RG32107]

Actually fit-phobic too compared to them imagining her being fat-phobic. That's a common practice with Democratic type personalities

[@enki2958]

Just because you are skinny does not make you being fit. She looks like she is near to being anorexic.

[@MamasHotpocket2]

Not the fitphobic 😂😂😂😂

[@Supportfreespeech]

It’s jealousy.

[@thedarkknight1971]

IT'S NOT 'Privilage'... IT'S JUST SELF CONTROL AND EFFORT.... It's a WEIRD (weird) 'Fight' to defend your right to NOT go out (& do AT LEAST a little exercise), and keep eating processed/unhealthy foods 🤨😒 😎🇬🇧

[@paradoxexposer4820]

It’s so ironic and reversed. Up is down to them. Next we will be told we have poor privilege. Cause almost literally what they are doing now as they can afford to eat all day and sit in their asses while the rest of us have to put in real work. They are both slothful and gluttonous. Then to top it off, they envy us poor people who tend to find enjoyment with our lives due to the hard work and effort we put into it while they suffer by their own fat, food filthy hands.

[@elizabethband5684]

As someone who used to be 300 lbs, I'm so proud of my weight loss and becoming "skinny". I've lost 150 lbs. Literally, half my old size. I feel better. I have a better relationship with food. It's not my crutch when I have a bad day. I used to be all about the body "positivity" movement. There are times it just feels like this is about not trying and not bettering yourself. That was part if my problem when I was bigger.

[@drjewlsy]

Totally okay. I also lost 120lbs and no amount of smack could make me upset about feeling great about my accomplishment. Body positivity is a very personal road not a cultural highway.

[@foncywoolsocksiii923]

Same. Lost 130lbs and I dgaf what these types of people think. I feel better, look better, and will live longer. But hey, that's the "problem," right?

[@randompandagirl831]

Good for you girl! That’s amazing on its own

[@C4TC4T]

Heck yeah, that is a lot of weight to lose holy crap! (That’s basically an entire persons worth of weight you lost)🤯

[@Senkoau]

Allow me to give you a clap. I've been trying to shed weight and doing badly. Sticking with a working regime that loses that much is really impressive.

[@tanyastanfield6893]

I love this video. I AM SO GLAD SOMEONE FINALLY SAID IT. I am naturally small / skinny. I have been my whole life and I get verbally attacked for it. My daughter is now 17 and worries if she will gain weight like her friends, "who all the boys look at"! Can't we all just love being ourselves in our skin. And sorry if a person not being healthy makes them feel a bad but you do not have the right to put me down because my clothes fit better or growing up most guys not wanting to sleep with me only. "You stay in a relationship". I am soooo glad she said it because us "skinny girls" are not allowed.

[@stephb9256]

Them: “love your body, no matter what shape or size” “okay…Yay!! I love being skinny!!” Them: “no… that’s not okay to say.. you’re not allowed to talk about how much you love being skinny.. it’s only okay for people who are not skinny to say they love their body size out loud because it’s offensive if you’re skinny.. it’s rude.. that’s not body positivity to us” 🤔 .. what..

[@annipsy2185]

Jealousy jealousyyyy

[@S.D._777_]

Skinny is only ever ok for 'celebrities'. I've been really thin my whole life. High metabolism. Nothing I can do about it but you can bet there's always someone telling me I need to eat a cheeseburger or men like meat on their bones, and so on and so forth.

[@destinyhntr]

Its because they know being fat is unhealthy

[@WhatTheWHAT524]

RIGHT!?!? LIKE......WHAT?!?! 👀🤔🧐🤯🤨🤡🌎 WILD time to be alive!! Best wishes to you and yours!! To EVERYONE!! May God Bless and Protect Us ALL!!!💖🙏💖🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🫶🌎🫶

[@carloszarzoso1724]

I think fat ppl are vile dirty ppl

[@HerMajesty1]

Look back at photos from the 80s, 90s, early 2000s. Rarely was anyone overweight. Wearw a very unhealthy society both physically and mentally.

[@candyc.3163]

I’ve been fat and I’ve been skinny. Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels! Everything is easier.

[@wingatebarraclough3553]

Absolutely

[@Hello22254]

Fellow Ana??

[@nomadichomebody4230]

i'm always happiest when i''m thin

[@JaJa_Pose]

Same. Climbing stairs, mobility and doing simple tasks is always easier when I weigh lighter than overweight.

[@iamreborn3463]

:(

[@jkflorida1313]

Just like you can tell a skinny girl to eat a cheeseburger but you can't tell a bigger girl to eat a salad🤷‍♀️ And I just have to add I've been very skinny and I've been bigger and I only got rude comments from people about my body when I was skinny.

[@BReeAhNee]

I am so tired of people trying to turn a you-problem into an “everybody-problem” 🙄

[@frankieblea5614]

Nailed it!

[@sherryedwards9571]

For real!!

[@wendythomas9361]

Right! And then they find a way to blame their problem on conservatives. It’s absurd.

[@heatherrae901]

Yes these people need to go to therapy

[@kristen21023]

AMEN

[@localbod]

I am fatphobic. I have a very real fear of being fallen on by an obese person and not being able to move or breathe and that feeds my claustrophobia.

[@donovandyarbough]

People are really living a whole life on the internet. Get outside, take a hike, throw a frisbee, explore the neighborhood, put the phone down and the offense at everything with it.

[@youaintsayianshytt1214]

I'd rather not have to see whites. Eww

[@odindarkll3706]

Unfortunately, most of these people either weigh too much into the state of becoming immovable or the health complications disrupts other parts of their bodies, such as their minds.

[@DEX-SAMA]

never thought id live to witness fitphobia

[@reedr7142]

Soooo, if someone embraces being obese, are they thin-phobic, health-phobic, etc.?

[@haozhu_shizehua]

no because they are hypocrites

[@DCB938]

@@haozhu_shizehua yes they are hypocrites, but they are also phobic of anybody that’s different than them, that looks healthier and prettier. I think deep down inside fat people that talk about how beautiful they are actually hating their body. They just don’t want to admit it so they’re going to say we’re beautiful and you’re just fat phobic. It’s all just a front.

[@thedeekabides]

Vegetable-phobic 😂

[@politicsisstupidandannoyin269]

People should be celebrating - philics rather than scorning with - phobics.

[@CanalTremocos]

Short-lived.

[@rhydian_draws]

This is a great example of do as I say not as I do. Body positive creators always seem to scream out that they love themselves and want everyone to know, but the second someone else does the same with the opposite body, they meltdown. Such a double standard.

[@kiikachu]

Lmao, so people are allowed to say ‘I love being large’ but god forbid someone say ‘I love being skinny’??? The hypocrisy.

[@robertgaudet7407]

They’re both dumb things to say.

[@dzizzle8545]

Agree! For the ladies, "over-weight" is the visible measure of how much more you consume vs you're level of out-put. Different for guys tho: defensive linemen are never "skinny" 😂 Skinny queens are our favorite, there's no denying. Save being heavy for grandmother-hood

[@paradoxexposer4820]

Not just that, the irony. Privilege refers to an advantage that is given to you. Keyword, GIVEN. As in you wasn’t born that way, you didn’t earn it. Somebody else gave you that advantage. If you worked hard for your millions, your kids would be privileged as they would most likely have access to all that wealth that they didn’t earn which gives them an advantage over poor kids. Allowing them access to better schooled and such. When it comes to weight, the privilege is being able to eat 3 times as much and do less physical labor as everybody else. Working hard to be fit is not a privilege, that’s something we earned. To be told that we are privileged is to have a rich guy tell a poor person “you’re privileged”.

[@marcaristide9769]

Exactly

[@DeffoZappo]

Same thing as it's ok to be proud of your race as long as you're not white

[@shaelovesJesus]

These folks are getting on my nerves.

[@Jloudee82]

Being skinny isn’t a privilege because it can literally be obtained by anyone. I was 360 lbs once and I’m literally 180 lbs now… that wasn’t a privilege. It was work. Bigger people are (most likely) lazy with bad eating habits. It is what it is. And that’s from experience.

[@KathySheets-d4o]

Understand! My story is almost the same. Took me 5 years to lose.

[@flowermeerkat6827]

Well done you! It is hard losing weight and you've done it.

[@corrinfoss4822]

Over-eating is a privilege. Being skinny is not. Totally agree.

[@C4TC4T]

@@corrinfoss4822say it louder for the people in the back

[@Slypooch]

Yup im 240 and im lazy as hell with bad habits. Trying to fix it but like i said im lazy

[@dzizzle8545]

Guy here. I loved this video! Amala, you took us thru this topic fabulously!

[@CyclingM1867]

I'm an overweight woman who is NOT a supporter of the Body Positive Movement. It's not healthy to be overweight and it's not beautiful. I am slowly losing weight and trying to get healthy again, but it's not easy. If I had my way, I'd never have gotten the health issues that helped me to gain this weight (yes, part of my weight gain is due to lifestyle, but my health issues didn't help the matter, either). Weight has always been a struggle for me, and I'm always thrilled for those who lose weight and keep it off. They and those who are naturally thin and who work hard to be healthy should be applauded for it - not made to feel as if they can't shout it from the rooftops. Good on Slim Kim for saying that she loves being skinny. She's happy that way and she doesn't have excess weight holding her back. It's such a shame that so-called Body Positive people have caused people who are healthy and thin and trying to lose weight to feel ashamed of that, or to feel as if they can't say it. People should feel free and unashamed to express their love of their bodies at any size - not just overweight. When did being overweight become considered actually healthy and beautiful and the norm? I understand not bullying or being mean to people because they're large or trying to shame them for this, but now things have turned completely upside down, and people who are healthy and thin are the ones now being shamed. That's so bizarre and weird and just shouldn't be.

[@solitivity]

Honestly, the "body positivity movement" is the exact opposite of what it claims to be. You could compare it to walking down the street and seeing someone with their zipper down and a snotty nose and deciding not to say something to them because you don't want to hurt their feelings or for them to feel embarrassed by you bringing it up. It's like well damn, if you don't tell them, the outcome is going to be WAY more embarrassing and worse for them. 😂

[@CyclingM1867]

@@solitivity very well said! You got it exactly right.

[@Ichthyodactyl]

@@solitivity I feel like the whole body-positivity thing, like so much else, started with good intentions and was a good thing for a very short period of time where the focus was just on 'don't be a jackhole to someone just because they're overweight'. All successful social movements must inevitably spiral beyond scope and control as bad actors keep trying to push them 'forward' though. I'm not sure there's a fix, it just seems to always happen eventually.

[@pennyadrian7774]

Good for you! I'm an older person, and before I lost 50 pounds I was incontinent and could barely climb the stairs. Today, the incontinence is gone and I can run up the stairs. I don't look better (a skinny old lady doesn't look any better than a fat old lady) but I feel so much better. It truly has improved my health and quality of life.

[@CyclingM1867]

@@pennyadrian7774 very well done! That's excellent and encouraging.

[@loriace9841]

I used to be skinny. It’s in my genetics. Then I got married and had 3 kids. I still fit in my clothes. I slowly added some weight in my 50’s and just turned 60 a few weeks ago. I’m now a size 14-16 at 5’8” tall. I could use to lose 30 lbs. but I just don’t care anymore. I never really gave my weight much thought. Now? I don’t think about it at all. BTW, I did diet to lose the baby weight because it’s not healthy to be overweight, let alone morbidly obese!

[@suzannehegarty350]

As long as she is not Anorexic ! What bothers me is that is all she thinks about …

[@DutchIsraeli]

I was just thinking the same. That does not sound healthy.

[@flowermeerkat6827]

Yeah it's a weird tightrope to walk. I'm fat now and need to lose weight but I loved it when I was fit. I'm doing my best to get back into fitness

[@conniekungfu206]

@@suzannehegarty350 Absolutely! Because that has become another sick outcome of the unhealthy food America now eats.

[@paritybit7830]

I don't know, but I think she is. That head looking too big for the neck *could* just be her body type, but it's a common look on anorexics, and around her shoulders is a little ... odd. She's not skeletal (yet), but I''d bet that in a swimsuit you could count her ribs from 50 feet away. "Slim" is great and all, low fat is healthy, but the human body is not meant to be *entirely* fat free.

[@modestmama7275]

Agree…. Thinking about it constantly is concerning

[@Notyourmamas]

I am a mum of two. About to be three.. I am currently twenty pounds heavier then I was before my first. I was skinny before. And there’s nothing I want more than to be that weight again. I was terrified to gain weight this pregnancy which obviously is ridiculous. I’ve been on both sides of the spectrum and I have always enjoyed being skinny and healthy over overweight and unhealthy.. clothes fit better. Self esteem is higher. My energy levels are higher. I don’t see what’s the problem with wanting to be skinny.

[@karenc2192]

People need to get a LIFE!! She has a RIGHT to think that way, her business!!!

[@johndelconte9915]

Idk who you’re referring to, but When you post the way you think on the internet, you have to take whatever goes with it and you give away your right to tell people to mind their own business.

[@karenc2192]

@ no, everyone has a right to bitch and complain.

[@politicsisstupidandannoyin269]

They are jealous, they don't even have the motivation to lift a dumbell.

[@ЕвгенийПершин-е1ь]

She doesn't have immunity to criticism, only obese people do

[@jasoncroxford]

@5:35 now she is on this side making excuses not to improve her health and justifying being lazy with her fitness/nutrition.

[@unitysprings3631]

Oh the jealousy!

[@sg5720]

It is a lot.

[@robertgaudet7407]

I’m not jealous of the anorexic. Although it would beat being 400 lb, sure. I don’t ever think about my weight unless I’m thinking about how I’m the same size as Derek Chauvin. I eat when I’m hungry and I stay active otherwise. That’s healthy.

[@OratorOfDivinity]

Body Fascism is a wild term 😂💀

[@mirandymunn6336]

I have been obese and I was diagnosed with cancer and lost 100 lbs. I have lived both sides of this argument and I don't know why it's even an argument! Be happy in the body you're in and if you're not, change your ways! It isn't rocket science!

[@aaadamt964]

I just commented basically this.i got "shamed" on fb asking about gaining weight. I'm typically 180-185 and athletic this time of year. I'm under 150. Turns out, stomach cancer and radiation destroy your appetite and make you vomit several times a day. All the comments on my post were basically " must be nice". Yeah... it's real nice being weak, skinny, sick and have no energy when you're used to being active, riding bikes, hiking...

[@roskana]

Hope you are healthy and living your best life 🤍

[@jz3712]

I also love to be skinny and strong, makes doing things a lot easier, and fun, I can still play tag with my kids ya know? I can still hike and hunt….why would I not like it? I got a lil overweight when I had twins, took me over a year to get fit again, my body hurt a lot with all the extra weight, doing everything was hard and I was fairly miserable. Felt depressed. Getting in shape was the best thing for me I ever did! I feel better, work is easier, walking the dogs is easier, everything is better, my energy is better, sex is better too. Literally every part of my life is better. That’s what I think is wrong with a lot of these FA, they are just down cause they feel so icky carrying around all the extra weight. So I’m with ya skinny girl, I love it too! I hope everyone feels good in their own body, it’s the only one you get! God bless ya, hope y’all have a great day!

[@deejayf69]

How tf are you "not allowed" to state that you like being skinny/having a fit body? She didn't insult anyone. She didn't become overly preachy about losing weight. She said it's her preference to be like this. Times are crazy.

[@Ben-CatGray-Stultz]

Skinny is different than fit though

[@ЕвгенийПершин-е1ь]

It reminds me that quote from WW2 "We invented body positivity and obese people wouldn't forgive us for that" What's going to happen if you give one person all the power? Now roll that dice 1 mil times... You'll get a dictator that smites you with hypocrisy

[@deejayf69]

@@Ben-CatGray-Stultz fair enough, but in this case both would be "fatphobic" if you said you'd prefer to be that way.

[@kevinhall4528]

When do We Start ignoring the stupid and praying for the Disadvantaged again…

[@perpelflameandcompany]

as someone who lost 1/2 my body weight and struggled with obeisity my WHOLE life - I LOVE BEING SKINNNNNNNNY! - Everyone needs to chill out.... hahahahaha

[@georged.5595]

Happy for you, that's an amazing change! Enjoy your life. And yes, ppl really need to chill...

[@perpelflameandcompany]

@@georged.5595 Cheers - I just wish for people to have the same experience i've had in terms of losing the weight, changing my mental and emotional thought patterns and moving forward - I wish EVERYONE who is struggling with their weight the confidence and support to make changes appropriately for them - and lastly, it speaks on the individual's mental health (commentary such as "Fatphobia") in terms of self-hatred; Anyways - Big thanks to Amala for raising this! COME TO AUSTRALIA AMALA!!!! WE NEED A VOICE LIKE YOU HERE! Cheers y'all

[@SuhaifahSulliman]

You go gal being skinny is hardwork and something to be proud of so ignore everyone and love yourself

[@necrolisatha5283]

Body fascism? Seriously?!

[@JaJa_Pose]

You forget conservatism.😂

[@ЕвгенийПершин-е1ь]

It's a pendulum, actually quite interesting that nobody foreseen that... Especially in bastion of democracy People have allergic reaction when a political leader is protected from criticism, but same people would protect their minorities (even if they already a majority) from criticism

[@robertgaudet7407]

Bony fascism more like ;)

[@hotatl1102]

This has always been a thang, I’ve been under 135 except prego @ 157 but even doctors have treated me like I shouldn’t complain even if I wanted to gain weight. Some of us eat what we want and still don’t gain. JS💪🏾

[@christopherwellman2364]

I watched The View today, and the first thing Whoopi said is, "I have nothing to say about this." And then she talked for two minutes.

[@King--jerry--251]

Plz don't torture yourself by watching the view

[@ItsJae_37]

why do you watch the view lol

[@christopherwellman2364]

@@ItsJae_37 Who says I watch it? And don't you pay attention to the world or do you walk through life wearing rose-colored glasses?

[@kimknezovich7927]

Back in the thin was normal. But we were a generation that was raised outside. we biked, walked, and played outside. There were few overweight kids in school. Now, 40 yrs later, people are huge. Major health problems are caused by being overweight. Then again, there are the anorexic that are harming their health. It's not easy to be either. I was poor growing up and thin. I struggle to stay in shape because I don't want diabetes that runs in my family. From one slim Kim to another you're beautiful, ignore the haters. I miss the days when it was easy to stay thin.

[@brucefleming1178]

How in the Eff does body shape have anything to do with skin color. They are WAAAAYYYY over thinking the most inane BS. everyone is allowed their own opinion. LOVE EVERYONE PERIOD.

[@vismayavijoy4818]

As someone who was fat & then fought a war to lose it all,skinny is better!! You're full of energy,you look good in every dress, you look younger etc etc. There's nothing to glorify about being obese.

[@necromancer6405]

Slim Kim sounds like a rapper name xD.

[@d4darwin458]

A good one too😂😂😂

[@Jimmy-xo3ld]

Not a snacker🙃

[@sjm9876]

Haha it totally does

[@HipHopananamiss]

lol how hard is it to realize that everyone has their strengths, weaknesses, privileges, and failures. We all get our unique deck and have to play

[@warpnweft2192]

Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels

[@Thecougarmill17]

Haha! There is nothing new under the sun, is there?

[@brandywood1054]

As someone that was morbidly obese and now going into skinny ,skinny is better.

[@Thecougarmill17]

@@brandywood1054 Congrats, love. Enjoy your new life to the fullest 💖

[@Jessica-ob3zy]

You can love and value yourself while still acknowledging being overweight is not healthy.

[@aliendroid666]

Having lost 80lbs myself, I can personally say yes I've been called fatphobic for wanting a healthier body. It's insane the double standard.

[@flowermeerkat6827]

Well done don't let people shame you for taking care of yourself.

[@paradoxexposer4820]

Not even a double standard. It’s pure projection. They live a privileged life and they are very insecure that laws of physics, gravity, and health aren’t on their side. So they try to make everybody as miserable as them. Only anorexics are fatphobic. Nobody else is. These people are just insecure bullies. We want bodies that can keep up with our minds and they envy that. They feel guilty for their privilege so they try to project and say it’s us poor hardworking people who are privileged.

[@piadurcissangwa8354]

I almost feel bad that nobody has ever called me names for my beliefs because God knows I would put them in their place and they can cry about it with their parents later

[@CometSassi]

its so funny because ive delt with eating disorders and such and im 90lbs right now as an 18y/o girl and i understand that is underweight but i used to be 70lbs so. The point is I have never once felt offended when a bigger woman screams from the rooftops about being big or loving it, however, i have a problem when they act like its my fault theyre big because im skinny. I dont like being made into a villian just becuase of something i cant change. That also goes with being white since that one girl compared this situation to race. I am a person who ultimatly wants everyone to be happy with themselves and everything else and i HATE hatred, ironic i know, and evil mean things like that and im just really sick of being made a villian

[@maplehalcyon]

At 0:43 you can see in Kim's bio that she wrote that she's "resuscitating satire". Honestly, I think she did a good job considering how many people fell for it.

[@Ben-CatGray-Stultz]

Get this to the top

[@nicolebonetti8467]

Body fascism? 😮😂😂😂😂 I don't give AF what the beauty standard is lol I have been slim, big, in-between, who cares? No one has to besides me! Slim Kim specified is personal... PERSONAL 😂😂😂😂

[@ebonie_._]

I love being skinny too !

[@williamrice71]

Setting standards nobody else can achieve is a form of bullying....

[@mwgfnn]

Shes not setting standards. And also.. MANY people could be skinny if they wanted to be. There are so many people trying to get on the right track with their health and i am so happy for those people. Shes not bullying, y’all are just sensitive.

[@laineyguthrie1974]

Amala is our voice of reason 🙌❤️

[@cubeincubes]

“Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels”. Is a classic quote

[@avocado__13]

If people in the body positivity community can go online and say they love being fat, skinny people can say they love being skinny There is NOTHING wrong with that

[@aaadamt964]

It's okay for certain races to be proud of their race and unwilling to mix races or be unattracted to other races. It's racist for ONE race to feel the same way. IMO all races should be proud of their race.

[@rodiusmaximus]

@@aaadamt964 nah it's weird for everyone. People should be proud of their own personal achievements, or those of others. Being proud of your race is like being a couch potato who says, "my team won" when they watch football and don't play it.

[@gymdilettante8407]

Just another example of the politicization of envy... people used to keep their envy to themselves and use it to drive them. Now it's acceptable to just be openly envious and do nothing to fix your own life while blaming others and expecting the gov to intervene to fix the things you're envious about

[@joshua3113]

I'm so put off when people start talking about oppression anymore, it's clear most of them just want to oppress someone. It's quite sickening to me.

[@dianezhi]

God, thanks for calling out all this bull….

[@Ajsobrainsalot]

What happened to body acceptance?! so we don’t accept skinny bodies now XD

[@RIPTurhaAKACryptidHunter]

You MUST be what they want you to be! Fat and hate life, just like them 😂

[@SD-hs2pk]

The irony of her saying “engage in critical thought “ when she did exactly the opposite!!!

[@Kayessee]

I love being a healthy weight. I'm not afraid of stairs or sloped ground because of it.

[@Huntyvr9]

As an overweight woman in her early 40’s, it’s much harder to be overweight! It’s very easy to gain, very hard to lose.

[@theclumsyprepper]

Preach sister. I'm 43 and am struggling to lose the spare tyre from my waist.

[@WendyDobson-u1h]

Not estrogen. For me

[@WendyDobson-u1h]

So sorry. I was trying to say I have a very hard time gaining weight when my phone took over.

[@dj.j5099]

right! same here, easy to gain but harder to lose 😭

[@JUACee]

Alcohol increases calories..

[@thedarkknight1971]

And THE SAD FACT IS.... She is MOST LIKELY to be A LOT healthier/fitter than a lot of those that will moan and hate her online (those of, er, 'Rounder' persuasion' 😏) but... They REFUSE to see/accept it! 🤨😒 😎🇬🇧

[@paulahillier1390]

I have lost 120lbs. It is not fun to be obese.

[@kativ9368]

What was the key for your weight loss?

[@paulahillier1390]

​@@kativ9368Gastric bypass

[@edenreynolds6190]

Congrats!! That's really hard to do!

[@sjm9876]

Congrats!

[@paradoxexposer4820]

That right there. They all know it too. They try to claim it’s a privilege that we get to have fun when it couldn’t be any further from the truth. We earned our fun by putting in the effort. Won’t be long before the rich cries “poor privilege”. They kind of already are but they’re using euphemisms, or the results of their wealth as masks.

[@karenm0418]

I don't know how many times I have stood up for my thin friends. Leave them alone. They don't need to eat a sandwich. They don't need to fatten up. Let them be the wonderful people they are.

[@teddypeony185]

They need to touch grass since not everything aimed at them 😮‍💨.

[@IndignantCynic]

No no, you see, they can't help but feel targeted by everything. They're such a large target they don't even need to be aimed at.

[@foncywoolsocksiii923]

But, is the fridge where the grass is?

[@teddypeony185]

@@IndignantCynic Sadly true.

[@chrislandry5797]

I think it relates to the "main character syndrome"

[@Su-aKang]

@@IndignantCyniceven a blade of grass intends to offend them

[@andrebaxter4023]

Being in shape is awesome. It’s fun, you look better, etc. Haters gonna hate. Good on her for doing her thing.

[@NOAHandmycreations]

0:15 so they are calling her phobic for having a opinion?

[@Lissa0921]

I agree, just because you don't agree with something does not make your a phobic.

[@NOAHandmycreations]

Thx lissa

[@lalawarmitup]

My sister is skinny and I am on the thicker side. People are always saying inappropriate things to her (such as "omg you're so skinny, you need to eat) yet if she was to say that person needs to stop eating, she'd be wrong. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE should everyone be comfy in their skin or naw lmaooo

[@BillieJolene1]

how is that woman underprivileged? like seriously, she has the privilege to over eat.

[@sjm9876]

Such a good point. Some people are starving and yet some obese people see themselves as oppressed despite the fact that they have the privilege of abundance of food

[@terrainegrace17]

It’s just crazy how fat people say skinny people are privileged when most fat people have food stamps or no worries about starving. You always see them eat more than they should, even getting paid to do so. So who’s the more privileged one??

[@paradoxexposer4820]

THANK YOU!!! The fact NOBODY is making videos explaining this is so annoying. The concept of privilege is having an advantage that was given to you. You weren’t born with it, nor did you earn it. Most people have to do so much physical labor for so little food. That’s why the symbol of privilege in many areas is of a fat person. Being slothful is a privilege. Being gluttonous is a privilege. Nobody else can afford such a lifestyle. That’s like having a rich guy tell a poor person that they are “privileged”.

[@SueP-D]

Right? So is she indicating that she’s a perpetual victim and has accepted that label? Okay then - now what?

[@metamorphicme9378]

Gluttony is a privilege???? America is nuts by the day!😂😂😂😂

[@Cheesyenchilady]

6:37 she was saying “I pity that person” meaning “the person I used to be.”

[@mwgfnn]

Or people who are like the person she used to be

[@kisdasenglothnam]

Some people are just miserable.

[@mdkinzie]

My bigger fear is being fat. Idc what anyone says to me about it. The only people who are made are the ones who are obese.

[@sakura-kisaragi]

Being skinny and healthy is self-love. Being overweight and doing nothing about it is self-hatred. It’s as simple as that.

[@ethanfleisher1910]

In a way, I see your point, but I've seen people who don't hate themselves, they just love food waaaay too much We need to start admitting to the fatties that they have a FOOD ADDICTION, an addiction that kills more people every year than nicotine and fentanyl addiction put together

[@odindarkll3706]

​@@ethanfleisher1910recognizing that you're eating too much and forming adjustments around it comes with self-love, methinks.

[@VinnieMF]

There's a difference between being overweight and obese though. Being a bit overweight won't diminish your quality of life, being obese absolutely will.

[@tropistan7735]

I've seen skinny people with that attitude turn into whales at every age and it the older they are when it happens, the harder it is for them. None of them know to "just regulate" because they weren't doing it consciously when they were younger. Take care your condescension doesnt come to bite you in the a s s like it did them.

[@ChristinaOlsen-j8s]

I have been skinny all my life and people mostly women have come up to me and they make a big deal about how skinny I am and most of them are fat and it's not okay for me to make a big deal about how fat they are but it's okay to make a big deal about how skinny I am

[@Eyeofthestorm812]

So silly. I am so glad that I grew up pre "the living out loud" generation.

[@Collendune]

Seems like Fatphobic is a good thing. People should be afraid to become fat. It can be life threatening

[@samyoutubez]

11:18 the “privilege” to be skinny? babe?? the majority of human beings have the CHOICE to be skinny, but they’re lazy or just don’t car enough?? we all have the privilege to be skinny some people jsut don’t take it

[@mk2396937]

I think it all depends on how you perceive privilege. For me personally, I’m overweight and I don’t mind it. Mostly because when I was thin, I got hit on by a bunch of men and I’m gay AF and engaged soooo that’s not really the vibe I’m going for. I like being left alone. I’ve also mastered my RBF when I’m out in public so I’m sure that helps too 😂 but either way, if you’re happy, you’re happy. If you’re not, change it. Period. Maybe the “big is beautiful” people who keep talking about it need to really dig deep and see if they are truly happy or if they are trying to bring others down to make them feel better. If someone is skinny and they are happy with it, she has every right to share that. No need to tear her down to make yourself feel better. Like come on now.

[@marcpadilla1094]

I dont like being obese. Its depressing and sympathy or empathy will not make me feel better. Skinny is beautiful.

[@VinnieMF]

Muscled = Toned > Skinny > Underweight = Overweight > Emaciated = Obese

[@CurlyVibesOnly]

Hey, my dad and I used to be a little overweight as well, but we both joined this professional weight loss program called “Be the Younger You”. It has really helped me, my dad, and many other people successfully lose weight and get healthier. If you’re interested in weight loss, I totally recommend you check out this program.

[@karenc2192]

What does being happy with your skinny body have to do with FASCISM?? People are just a little too foolish!! You live your life, Slim Kim lives hers!

[@sherrimoliverthompson8388]

I gotta say, I would love the opportunity to have a discussion with you. I totally miss having people capable of debate and discussion surrounding me

[@poohoff]

Men are attracted to small women, just as women are attracted to big men.

[@RIPTurhaAKACryptidHunter]

No, please NO! Stop making sense! You must love fat, you must be fat! Everything fat! Just FAT! 😂 AND DON'T SAY FAT!

[@theresabecerra6773]

But not fat??😂😂

[@rodiusmaximus]

I've never understood that. When a 6'5" beefcake has a 4' tall gf, I'm thinking 'is he into children or something?'

[@kidalovelace]

@@rodiusmaximushe means skinny women, not incredibly short women

[@AndrewFishman]

"I wanna be obese" said noone, ever. They might pretend they did, but, even they know better....

[@sassythesasquatch8036]

Body fascism is a fucking wild term

[@whosme8221]

I myself am disabled not by choice mind you. I am only 130 lbs. and considered very thin. Even though I am thin I still feel trapped in my own body as I can't move as freely as others do as I am bedbound & wheelchair bound on good days. So for me knowing someone has made the choice to eat themselves into not being able to move freely boggles my mind, as I didn't choose not to be able to be mobile. So for me sitting from this perspective of a disabled person I would see that someone whom has an eating disorder be it not eating enough or eating too much both are mental issues that need to be addressed.

[@mariedatsopoulos4142]

Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels 🙌🏽 haha favourite saying 25 years ago haha

[@TyTalks2020]

Is it better to be fit or fat? Fit Is it better to be strong or weak? Strong. Great. So why are we celebrating being fat and weak? Why are you celebrating being WORSE? Don't ever listen to people that thinks it's a good thing to be worse.

[@paradoxexposer4820]

And shaming the rest. They are claiming hard work is a privilege while sloth isn’t. They are claiming food budgeting is a privilege while gluttony isn’t. They got everything backwards. To them a privilege is anything they don’t get to enjoy. They can’t fully enjoy their slothful, gluttonous lifestyle because most don’t find that attractive and they suffer health problems as a result of their choices. It’s the rich calling the poor people “privileged”.

[@TyTalks2020]

@@paradoxexposer4820 Exactly. It's the opposite. That's how Slave Morality works. Good things are now bad and bad things are now good.

[@JGburneraccount]

With the obesity rates in black women in the US this topic needs to be openly discussed more. My mother who is black is not "overweight" but its hard to have a conversation with her about getting healthier without it upsetting her. My white father tried this morning...that didnt go very well i think she wants to get healthier and i think she knows the reason im always asking if she wants to come to the gym with me comes from a place of love but i think the reason its upsetting is because she knows theres a problem. I love my mum and I want her to be on this world forever and i want to do everything in ny power to keep her healthy.

[@margaretkremer8546]

I loved being skinny.😊. My entire life I was skinny until the past 5 or so years. Now I’m old and pudgy. Haha

[@theclumsyprepper]

I love being slim, but not skinny - it's not a good look on me. I'm getting chunky now, but trying to lose it because my favourite clothes do not fit me anymore.

[@theresabecerra6773]

I love being skinny and fit. I am proud that I can take care of myself to be healthy and I always think people who are skinny look better in their clothing than someone who is overweight or thick they attend to look more sloppy is always has been that way, even with models.

[@tamaragibson5659]

Me too.

[@ang3432]

@@theresabecerra6773 disagree. I've seen many women who would be considered overweight look nicely dressed and put together. But I will say for myself and my body, I do look more frumpy the more weight I gain.

[@Avi_EU]

I'm new to this channel but you've earned a subscriber its hard to get people with rational takes on the internet these days!

[@Ketto_o0]

It's like they always find something to complain about. Why can't a person come on the internet and say that they love the way they are?!

[@Dunny-Digital]

Amala is one of my favorite intellectuals maybe ever. Randomly popped on my feed a month or so ago. Love the content, appreciate the mind, props to your convictions/values.

[@NotTimothyW]

2:44 "Body fascism"? Sis bought that line off Temu

[@slartibartfast2452]

Im really just tired of my tax dollars paying for someone else's poor food choices.

[@MrMichaelBCurtis]

I am fatphobic, and proud of it.

[@stellamariss3335]

I’m so sorry you have this fear it must be really scary when you see the my 2000lbs life on the internet 😓

[@manlybaker3098]

Especially when I'm assigned the middle seat!! 😉😉😂😂😂😂

[@MrMichaelBCurtis]

@@stellamariss3335 heck yes, hard to look at as well.

[@jjj4n4]

It's natural and rational to fear being fat. Not being fat phobic is against our survival instincts.

[@MrMichaelBCurtis]

@@jjj4n4 reality sucks. But it is real.

[@dannycarrington1601]

Fat activists don't understand what "privilege" means. Being able to eat significantly more food than your body needs for nourishment - on a daily basis - is a privilege. Living a sedentary lifestyle where you don't have to perform strenuous physical labor is also a privilege.

[@nobody-ly9ef]

Of course someone had to make it about a political party......sad

[@mafiawaffle]

Please, ANYONE, explain to me how having so much food you can kill yourself with overeating, is "body fascism"

[@DaVozvi20]

This is typical of society nowadays. I have something bothering me/ making me feel bad so rather than doing all I can to change it (if possible) or working on myself to accept it and love myself (if changing it is not possible), I will instead demand that the entire world change their view, perception and knowledge to cather to me. It is selfish and delusional.

[@shaelovesJesus]

It is okay to love your body and still want to change it. You don't want to change it? Cool!!!

[@FailleSchmitz_Art]

I’ve always been on the chunky side. Years ago I made some changes and lost a good amount of weight. Then I had a major lifestyle change and gained that weight back. The combination of having had that weight off and now being older made me realize how much harder life physically is with the weight. Even 20 extra pounds. And I’m nowhere near morbid obesity - can’t imagine how that feels. I try to keep this in mind when I want to overeat. It’s hard when food is a coping mechanism, but I try to remind myself that it’s worth it. The girl has every right to express happiness to be uninhibited by extra weight. If I ever reach my ideal weight, I’ll certainly be pleased to be feeling and looking better!

[@Maieveryday2]

I feel the same. Weight means more when you are small or short. I had only a few extra pounds and i was depressed and hurt from the pain from scoliosis. Everyone said I wasn't fat. Then I lost a few and life transforms.

[@VinnieMF]

I don't understand how people stay obese. I let myself go for the past 2 years, gained 20kg, reached obesity levels and now I'm quickly losing weight because it's very uncomfortable and unhealthy - and I'm 21. I have no idea how so many people don't feel compelled to lose that weight, some even after decades. You don't even have to go down to skinny, slightly overweight or a bit chunky is a world of difference from obese.