She Texted Me and I Wasn't Ready

[@synnoGTA]

Nah fuck that man, she should've asked that when you guys were still together. She's not your problem anymore...

[@inboxfriday3010]

She could’ve, but she didn’t and I don’t fault her for that. I wasn’t as open as I could’ve been. Both of us tried to make relationship work, but at the end of the day, it didn’t. Being able to get an apology was really nice too.

[@peytontdt33]

Props to you for being conscious of your initial emotional response and controlling yourself from responding in a way you may regret. The ability for you both to have a respectful conversation is a sign that you were both mature and both deserving of being happy and clear-headed going separate ways, even if admittedly there were things that understandably would make you feel a bit upset looking back at it. You got every right to be frustrated, there will always be more you want to say and more you want to hear, more will always come with time. I think the idea of "closure" doesn't fully exist in the sense that you'll suddenly just be "over it," so don't get stuck in the spiral of missing what you had while knowing it doesn't exist anymore. Also, love the windmill, props to you, dude.

[@inboxfriday3010]

Thank you so much. This is a wonderful comment, I really appreciate it. I’m happy you like the windmill too! You make a great point on closure and the potential spiral I could put myself in. I’ll do my best to make sure that doesn’t happen. Thank you again, be safe my man

[@AudNarrations]

It can be difficult to move on from stuff, take your time and if you keep working you'll re-find yourself. Talking about it even to a camera is a good way of vocalising and processing the aftershocks. Hope you're doing well lad x

[@inboxfriday3010]

Thank you so much. I really appreciate the advice. I’m trying to take my time and as slow as possible. Talking to a camera definitely does help lol. Hope you’re doing well too

[@DJScoli]

Hey man, idk I probably wouldn't say much to that ( 1:50 ) i agree with you, but she left and wants to grow alone or at least without you, she kinda has to figure that out for herself and become an adult also. ( 10:45 ), I'm sorry man that's a little hard to agree with but respect being that big. ( 13:18 ), yep... , but in a way you are already a "big" guy, just try and let the anger add the, ger, to the right word. keep your head up.

[@inboxfriday3010]

Thank you bro. I understand your points. It’s hard to know exactly what to do, but I don’t regret anything. Keep your head up too my man!

[@Yesytsucks]

"I never said what hurt me, i always bit my tongue" Thats very unhealthy and causes a lot of problems because its much easier to deal with a problem if you say something immediately instead of pretending that everything is fine. Im not saying you're the one to blame that you were hurt, obviously not, but since she was your partner it was kinda your job to open up about being hurt. Being vulnerable with each other is really important. I hope this helps you.

[@inboxfriday3010]

It does help and I do recognize all of that now. I was trying my best to make it work and downplaying the way I felt about certain things. That was my fault for never speaking up. Thank you for the comment.

[@Yesytsucks]

@@inboxfriday3010 you're welcome, i hope everything's gonna be good for you