After our temporary set, we are in our OFFICIAL STUDIO 🎉🎉 and I’m back on the correct side again 😂 My bday is next month, could you help us get to 1,000,000 subscribers by then?? Sharing and subscribing helps 😊
@TheWalkingDavid8 ай бұрын
Happy Early Birthday! My bday is next month on the 7th 🤙🏼
@hibba48558 ай бұрын
wooohooo let’s get to 1M🎉🎉
@Senteri8 ай бұрын
I recently discovered you and binge watched a bit and got used to your 'incorrect' position which I thought was correct. Now this will confuse me :D. Thanks for your continous work!
@RonnyBRL8 ай бұрын
I took out a high interest credit card to pay for your Bday gift.
@Exonfang8 ай бұрын
Congrats on the move and growth. Well deserved!
@LNikon8 ай бұрын
"I want my doctor career to be a fallback when I retire from acting" is one of the funniest, most delusional things I have heard on this channel. Thanks for the laugh Caleb!
@charleneberkey14888 ай бұрын
She must think she is going to be the next Ken Jeong!
@marinasattari-lawing91488 ай бұрын
That’s her BPD coming through.
@jonstechchannel8 ай бұрын
Don’t forget the detective part too!
@tehsimo8 ай бұрын
She's not getting any acting work without another 8k in dental work
@gladcs8 ай бұрын
Did you miss the crystal girl with the whole not wanting to partake in capitalism cuase that one was wildddd
@deem.45278 ай бұрын
She says she has no parental figures, but they’re paying for her whole life and her mom literally drove her there..
@brittnay2798 ай бұрын
No really, I was getting offended for her mom…like girl she’s in the car waiting for you. I can’t wait until she has actual roommates and realizes how unappreciative of a comment that was.
@imMATTure8 ай бұрын
As a minority, i never believed in mental health and illness until i dated a chick who had borderline personality disorder and bipolar disorder. She was exactly like this chick. They really cant control alot of their impulses, cant hold a job, cant focus on studies, harmful to themselves and make everything extremely dramatic, shoplifted all the time…long story short, she cheated on me and i was so happy because it felt like the best way to break up with her. If i or anyone is happy on being cheated on, that should say alot. I hope she learns how to maintain
@deem.45278 ай бұрын
@@imMATTure My best friend has BPD. I understand.
@LuWu-vl2sl8 ай бұрын
@@imMATTurethat bro saved your life in you doing that decision.
@williamyoung3448 ай бұрын
@@imMATTure When you're happy they cheat, you know you dodged a bullet.
@TylerG608 ай бұрын
She's a compulsive liar. You can't help people like her because it's never their fault. No accountability.
@a-t53808 ай бұрын
Maybe she should look into being a politician
@windycitywarrior718 ай бұрын
98% of all guests on this show lol
@ShayraBaby8 ай бұрын
You just described my brother, sister and dad. I’m grateful for these comments because I never knew it could be a mental disorder or that other people know someone like this. I thought I was the only one and it has driven me crazy.
@LibLibertyLibertarian8 ай бұрын
@@windycitywarrior71 98% are not able to hold themselves accountable. They use people, are lazy and selfish. These people deserve to be poor!
@LibLibertyLibertarian8 ай бұрын
@@ShayraBaby being a selfish, narsasist who doesn't hold themselves accountable isn't a mental disorder. It's bad parenting, it's not being taught correctly when you were young.
@bitsnbytes104 ай бұрын
She was homeless for literally 5 seconds and now she is a victim for life.
@NotYomama133 ай бұрын
lol forreal, she thinks getting on a greyhound is being homeless 😂
@DanianEike3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 one night in a hotel
@kibbles123453 ай бұрын
I ran away when I was 12. I’ve faced homelessness. (I came back for dinner I got hungry)
@DanielLara-jm9wj14 күн бұрын
lol that’s something I never tell anybody It’s so embarrassingggg and I don’t even like to think about it so I just pretend it never happened resllyb
@scpWyatt8 ай бұрын
I need a spiritual rinse where Caleb just audits someone who’s doing well and has everything under control as a reset after this.
@chrisbato20938 ай бұрын
I’ve sent him a request. 27 already a multimillionaire and about to inherit another 8 figures and I have no idea what to do and it’s scary. Hopefully they accept because I’d fly out to him
@philipcooksey34228 ай бұрын
Go watch the money guy show. They're much more suited to your situation. @@chrisbato2093
@yomulv8 ай бұрын
@@chrisbato2093 let me hold a mil bro
@codywilson17778 ай бұрын
@@chrisbato2093congrats dude. That’s insane
@AceRanger208 ай бұрын
@@chrisbato2093what do you mean you don’t know what to do? You’ve beaten capitalism, you can just invest in some good dividend stocks and live comfortably off of the disbursements for the rest of your life if you wanted to. The dividend payout could be between 100k and 400k per year on average from $10m investment. Beyond just being overly successful and it wouldn’t get views, I don’t think he could legally help you out anyway. He’s not a qualified financial advisor, so he cannot tell you what to do with your money. He gets away with these since creating budgets is not considered financial advice. Additionally, it would probably come across more like you’re gloating about it rather than actually coming on for help.
@DavidRodriguez-iw1xg8 ай бұрын
Thinking of her as a medical professional genuinely SCARES ME.
@djs21828 ай бұрын
I don’t think you have to worry lol
@chrissy_g8 ай бұрын
Don't worry. Once things get difficult, she's going to bail med school.
@jamesbnorman18 ай бұрын
Let the fact she votes sink in.
@Lowlight918 ай бұрын
She doesn’t understand what she’s going after. She thinks she can be a psychiatrist with a masters. She’s thinking of being a therapist/SW. Psychiatry requires med school (she’s right on that), but doesn’t realize it’s a doctorate, and she’d go thru all the same training as an MD (the icky part she doesn’t want to do). I think she needs a career counselor who can accurately guide her thru the steps for each profession she’s considering so she can make an informed choice.
@daliakm1788 ай бұрын
She won’t make it. Don’t worry.
@josephbrown47688 ай бұрын
If you're having a "freak out" from working in a grocery store you will never make it as a doctor/in healthcare.
@zzzzz45zzzzz798 ай бұрын
She does not live in reality. Severe mental illness
@Roguepandas128 ай бұрын
As someone who just came off a healthcare shift where I got kicked slapped cussed out and spat at. I agree 😂
@1Dogsoldier4life8 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying that. Shes the LAST person to be in Healthcare, she doesn't even need to clean hospital rooms...
@scytheoflife19478 ай бұрын
Im sure she struggles running a bath
@Kanetsugi8 ай бұрын
For real… I just worked in the kitchen and I only lasted 2 years😂
@SEAsiaTraveler7 ай бұрын
She doesn't know the difference between a psychologist and a psychiatrist. And the time it takes to become either one.
@dianedeck6 ай бұрын
And shes supposedly junior year pre med.
@TechBro_Dave5 ай бұрын
I wonder what her MCAT scores are 😆
@YoungTooShabby4 ай бұрын
Well technically she could be a psychologist however it would be a social worker type of position which takes less schooling in her favor. Why so harsh?
@Trentacus4 ай бұрын
@@YoungTooShabbylol because nobody becomes either as a fallback career.
@YoungTooShabby4 ай бұрын
@@Trentacus yeah trying to do both at the same time would be dumb but focusing on one is still doable
@queenbrii22668 ай бұрын
Caleb’s ability to cut thru the bullshit and stay on topic is honestly LEGENDARY
@lane17768 ай бұрын
Dude- Caleb could have gone to jail talking to this nut. I woulda lost it Homer Simpson style
@shawn46928 ай бұрын
Nope he was just a pain on this one
@justvincenturb8 ай бұрын
Yup. It only took about 1/3 of the video to get to the financial stuff.
@BacklTrack8 ай бұрын
Gay dudes can do that to pretty women lol
@hf42298 ай бұрын
@@CentralTexasCarSpotter i mean he has to be careful when people start bringing up claimed trauma and mental illness because if he calls them on their bullshit it could cost him his entire business and cancel him for victim blaming. So even though he knows it complete bullshit, he can't outright call them out on that kind of stuff. I think he pushes as hard as he can on stuff like that.
@sanrihoe7778 ай бұрын
She’s the kind of person that within the first 10 minutes of meeting her, she’d trauma dump her life’s story without anyone asking.
@BigTuna5218 ай бұрын
She literally did exactly that on the episode
@sakurinorth82388 ай бұрын
In half that time you begin to see the shit. Lol after about 4 minutes I was like okay things are not lining up here, something here is shitty.
@slickfox338 ай бұрын
Hit and quit it but please double up on this one.
@TannerisSmol978 ай бұрын
Not even 10 mins in lol 3
@kijinseija84748 ай бұрын
As soon as she mentioned BPD and bipolar at the very start, I knew it was coming.
@BorediththeUSA8 ай бұрын
Mom: pays for her school and phone bill, drives her to this interview, lets her live under her roof This girl: “She basically doesn’t give a shit about me”
@nemaheptinstall28967 ай бұрын
She’s completely full of shit and Caleb gave her money which is all she needed to confirm what she thinks and tgat is that she can “act” and get any guy to give her money or stuff.
@c_marquez7 ай бұрын
Right? She's delusional.
@asparrow98767 ай бұрын
@@c_marquez Gen Zooted
@amandahakes22267 ай бұрын
And that is the exact hallmark of Bpd.
@CSpottsGaming7 ай бұрын
@@asparrow9876Not even. She openly admits she has a mental illness where this kind of problem is a hallmark symptom.
@nick-uh7cd7 ай бұрын
Trust me, spend enough time around people like this and you stop going "wow so many bad things have happened to you, i feel so bad for you" and you start saying "okay, wtf are you doing that is constantly putting you in shitty situations, this isnt normal"
@jadedkorean7 ай бұрын
real
@Cj0321886 ай бұрын
Yup, you realize that they are usually the problem and not the victim.
@wait_in_gold_ON_SPOTIFY5 ай бұрын
I can still fix her though…
@Kamisora5 ай бұрын
As a health professional, this is a common theme for my clients with borderline personality disorder.
@peterpan40384 ай бұрын
Yeah, we can't decide how our brain is wired by default. But we can very much influence our decisions in life. It may be harder, but most of us KNOW when shit is a bad idea, and at that point it's up to us to make the right decision. Some folks are seemingly allergic to making the right life decisions, and those deserve no pity. I would much rather spend my goodwill on people that actually TRY to improve themself/ their life.
@benpavlovich8 ай бұрын
I dont know about you guys but I think she makes a lot of sense. Personally, my dream is to be a food vlogger but my backup is to be an award-winning theoretical physicist
@asparrow98767 ай бұрын
You need to dream even bigger. See me, I want to become God, but if that doesn't pan out I wouldn't mind being a space pirate, or even astronaut at the very least.
@Slack3r4Lif37 ай бұрын
I was thinking of opening my own McDonald’s, well that or competing in the Olympics. But if neither of those work I’ll just get a PhD in either physics or computer science
@Flying_condor6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@ZorkuAravar6 ай бұрын
Right? I've always wanted to be a live touring musician with several super successful albums under my belt, but my backup is to be a nuclear physicist.
@papayaman1236 ай бұрын
my dream is to be a homeless guy but if that doesn't work my fallback is being an NBA player
@TheWalkingDavid8 ай бұрын
She wants to be a: -doctor (if school isn’t hard or stressful) -psychiatrist as a backup plan because it requires less time to earn that degree (in her mind) -a detective (she would later learn the word forensics from Caleb) -an actress (I’m an actor and that made me do a spit take) -grocery store employee again (if they take her back after abandoning the job she was fired/quit/abandoned/got bad vibes from)
@turtleanton65398 ай бұрын
Ouch
@Irisbluered8 ай бұрын
A psychiatrist is a doctor. If she can’t be that, she wants to be a therapist. A lot of therapists are phds that can take longer than med school.
@usagi322118 ай бұрын
Don't forget streamer.
@benlittleton39908 ай бұрын
You must be a very successful actor.
@TheWalkingDavid8 ай бұрын
@@Irisbluered you’re right. Instead of going back and editing the post, I’ll correct myself in this comment. I meant to say doctor, then counselor not psychiatrist.
@megaroo19838 ай бұрын
As much as I enjoy watching these kind of audits, I want to see people who truly want to get their shit together
@Danji_Coppersmoke8 ай бұрын
Most of those people probably knew what they need to do anyway...
@OfficialNice8 ай бұрын
He’s got a knack at finding the worst of the worst. He used to also but I think he believes it got boring.
@johnparker44848 ай бұрын
Nah I’m here for the mess to feel better about myself 😂
@FirstNameLastName-wt5to8 ай бұрын
People who truly want to get their shit together have their shit together and don’t need this show.
@hubhikarilives8 ай бұрын
The crazy ones make me feel better lolol
@Hablenator7 ай бұрын
I really wish her mom would have been a part of this, a second perspective on all of the life circumstances at play in the episode would have probably been really eye opening and revealing
@elanorapowell68112 ай бұрын
BPD is caused by abuse in childhood. I don’t think her moms the victim everyone is trying to paint her as
@Tideman118 ай бұрын
Some episodes are a bigger portrayal of mental illness than financial mismanagement. This is one of them.
@xtruhsauce7 ай бұрын
A good amount of them they should require therapy or a mental evaluation before hand or something
@Draggonny7 ай бұрын
@@xtruhsauceI'm predicting that Caleb is going to be hiring a therapist to screen his guests in the not too distant future. His current team have been underperforming in the quality control.
@jesuspacheco83017 ай бұрын
@@Draggonnyit gives him content and views. People stick around for episodes like this because it’s a little more entertaining, even though you’re so tempted to skip.
@Dreamonology6 ай бұрын
or people that blame all their problems on mental illness, I take everything with a grain of salt, people lie its the internet. People on this show never take responsibility for their actions.
@alb.886 ай бұрын
@@jesuspacheco8301that's not really the purpose of the show though. Yes it gives his page more recognition but if I remember correctly, Caleb gets genuinely angry when people use his platform for clout
@calebalexander4248 ай бұрын
“once i retire from acting I’m gonna fall back on being a doctor” SENT ME FLYING OUT OF MY CHAIR
@dmate98898 ай бұрын
Especially frustrating to hear her say that psychiatry is easier to get into. Step #1 is getting into med school, which is a struggle requiring 3.8+ GPA, 1000’s of hours of volunteering and leadership, shadowing doctors, interviews etc. and THEN you apply for residency. The ‘easy’ way into psych is becoming a psychologist after 8 years of school. Not excel so well you not only get into med school, but get residency in a specialty.
@SandraFlores-mh5wp8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@deirdrekiely61878 ай бұрын
Same!!!!!
@dc25572 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@brainybananaproduction8 ай бұрын
She sounds like a 6 year old discussing what she wants to be when she gets old: “I want to be a doctor, a police officer or an actress!”.
@laurab58498 ай бұрын
That’s what I was thinking. I wanted to he a detective when I was 10.
@MagnusvonYoshi6 ай бұрын
A football playing king in space!
@jogugaga71216 ай бұрын
real talk
@doggpound93196 ай бұрын
@@MagnusvonYoshiSpongebob reference, nice.
@420wieners6 ай бұрын
she definitely has BPD lmao
@osiris0317 ай бұрын
I felt so bad for Caleb I actually didn't skip the commercials on this one
@MikeHightower16 ай бұрын
Good thing I pay for premium lol
@025MikeMiller8 ай бұрын
I almost broke out in tears from laughter after Caleb asked if he is being pranked. This is too much.
@SashimiTheYorkie8 ай бұрын
When she said she wanted to go to med school as a backup plan my jaw dropped. My wife is currently in medical school and let me tell you that kind of profession is NOT a backup plan.
@Christian-gb8zf8 ай бұрын
After acting falls through 👀
@robbytherobot18 ай бұрын
Maybe unless you want to be an astronaut 😁
@sherriebreese35248 ай бұрын
Medical degree as a fall back is not unheard of. Dr. Randy Gregg played for Edmonton Oilers. After his professional hockey career he pursued medicine. I will admit it is a very rare exception.
@TheDJMeyer858 ай бұрын
I’d imagine she’s lying
@KS01028 ай бұрын
You can have several careers instead of sticking with one. I knew a professional engineer who went to nursing school.
@Yerp_To_Da_Skerp8 ай бұрын
The fact that she kept saying "my parents dont care about me at all" all while they are letting her live rent free, paying her phone bill, giving her 200$ when she needs it, paying for college for her. It infuristes me, like im sure they might be emotional distant or something but they obviously care. It comes across super entitled and ignorant. Shes got an excuse for everything, takes no responsibility for anything and just expects things to happen for her.
@psyche1008 ай бұрын
I get the impression that her parents are exhausted by her bullshit and she interprets anything but wild support as neglect.
@Podzhagitel8 ай бұрын
called a BPDemon for a reason
@heidiortiz93528 ай бұрын
I would think that’s a characteristic of her illness (though I’m no expert)
@Turtlegawd478 ай бұрын
She got a victim mentality
@sopiabobia36998 ай бұрын
All my (adult) friends whose parents completely enable and financially support them are very resentful of their parents. Many not speaking to their parents while they pay their bills and rent. I don’t think it’s a coincidence.
@playworkproductions41937 ай бұрын
"I dont really have any parental figures, like my parents dont really give a shit about me." I stay with my parents for free, they pay for my school because they want me to have an education, they pay for my phone so i can save money, they drive me to this interview so i can get my life on track financially. Yeah, they really dont care, do they?
@just.bricky7259Ай бұрын
It’s a kid mentality, if you don’t support them in what they think then you don’t love them at all. I can guarantee if we met her parents it wouldn’t be the pictures she’s painting. I know this is very late lol
@halfmnn8 ай бұрын
Only about 10 mins in and she's insufferable. Super cool to see Caleb calling out her lies and straight up not having her weird manipulative framing of everything.
@riverdaletales84578 ай бұрын
This 304 gets ran through by dudes in hotels and gets bailed out by parents or the same guys that hit that and pay her like a common tramp.
@sakurauchiha038 ай бұрын
Does scream borderline
@lollerich8 ай бұрын
I don't think she is manipulative. I think she is just genuinely stupid.
@chloed17498 ай бұрын
@@sakurauchiha03I was gonna say lmfaoooooo sounds like stereotypical bpd
@juwairiyahummabdullah8 ай бұрын
Im in 3 mins and nothing she said so far makes sense. Sounds like pathological lies I’m hearing but I’m no mental health professional
@tylercarroll27998 ай бұрын
This channel is quickly going from financial audit to psychological breakdown.
@ProseConsYT8 ай бұрын
And I hate it!!!!
@skyleralexa8 ай бұрын
@@ProseConsYTsame!! I used to watch episodes multiple times because they were interesting to listen to and now they’re getting hard to get through even once
@endlesslove44808 ай бұрын
It's the state of humanity in this world...
@Kaygeedagee8 ай бұрын
Personal finance is VERY closely related to the persons state of mind. It greatly affects their money habits
@madisonharkes2268 ай бұрын
@@Kaygeedagee that’s a really good perspective to give!
@portagemiguy8 ай бұрын
Her: "My parents don't care about me" Also Her: "My parents pay my school, phone, give me random $, drive me places, and give me a free place to live" Ungrateful child
@heresyisecstasy8 ай бұрын
less "ungrateful child" and more "cluster b personality disorder". She is not in touch with reality.
@PrinceGupta-df7gm8 ай бұрын
Lmao the math is not mathing
@jwelda18 ай бұрын
I mean I’d be upset too if my parents raised me to be this ignorant of basic things. Both sides are at fault but now she’s an adult so it’s all on her going forward
@A936408 ай бұрын
@@jwelda1sounds like they’re trying their best. I don’t even see how her parents are at fault here. Sounds like they let her out when she wanted out, she failed multiple times, and they bailed her out multiple times because they don’t want to see their daughter homeless. She makes piss poor decisions. I do not remotely see how you can put this on her parents.
@Theaterkid4L97338 ай бұрын
@biggmac2149 more like not holding her accountable and babying her. Like if they were authoritative when raising her and talking about finances and how to manage them, she might not be this ignorant.
@paigeautumn81794 ай бұрын
“Does that make sense?” No girl. No it doesn’t.
@juststradwife2 ай бұрын
I came searching specifically for this comment because I had the SAME reaction!!
@screamingtrees961922 күн бұрын
😂😂
@colindragan93528 ай бұрын
The whole grocery store thing is unbelievable. First she got fired because she called out harassement. Then she got fired because she was a bad worker. Then she didn't even know if she got fired. Then she "might have" actually quit because she hated the job anyways . Give me a break lol
@dobia44868 ай бұрын
Fr
@somethingawesome14628 ай бұрын
But she still went back to get her final check too
@magicdragon96218 ай бұрын
I've worked a lot of service jobs and they have always been really good about harassment, especially sexual. They don't fuck around and got rid of those people. This was in the dirty south too.
@milkymilk538 ай бұрын
It sounds to me like she was in trouble "come with me to the manager" then she got written up or something"I might have been a bad worker" and had a little tantrum and stormed out, to which her manager or whomever probably took as an abandonment of employment "i dont know if they fired me, i walked out"
@alvaroquintero6208 ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly
@Enguano8 ай бұрын
What the frick are you doing on that side Caleb
@CalebHammer8 ай бұрын
Hahah
@upnorthsociety61468 ай бұрын
It’s driving me crazy lol
@jackleshem40108 ай бұрын
The OG side is back 👌
@CalebHammer8 ай бұрын
@@ResourcefulNomadyeah 😊 it’s the classic side, we just couldn’t do it in my house while we were looking for a permanent studio
@kentclam57548 ай бұрын
Left side is back let’s gooooo
@zoobiezoob8 ай бұрын
As someone with Borderline but who manages it .... this is CLASSIC exhibiting. What she says/does and the manipulation, this is my first instinct often and I have to monitor it by constantly policing myself. Oh my god this is so hard to watch.
@southerngraceglamour8 ай бұрын
Love that you are proactive about it!
@allialbright61358 ай бұрын
You being able to identify that in her because you experience it for yourself just shows how much work you've put into your own growth and mental health! Proud of you!
@luxursunsets8 ай бұрын
can you explain what exhibit means here?
@M_SC8 ай бұрын
I hope this makes you feel better not worse: most mature adults constantly edit themselves so as to manage relationships. You only get to be your true self with maximum 3 people. Even for people without the impulse to manipulate/lie. In fact i usually have to resist the impulse to tell the truth. Because it’s not kind, not useful.
@urmomsfriend49098 ай бұрын
@@luxursunsetslike the rapper fooL
@speedyloc87467 ай бұрын
Her attitude changed as soon as he said he would give her money if he knew she wouldn't stupidly spend it, she tried to sound responsible with money hoping he would give her some LMAO
@cubanthunder695 ай бұрын
She is a full blown sociopath
@hoerle21278 ай бұрын
I feel terrible for her parents. I have a sibling with the exact same behavior. It's so hard to see someone you care about destroy their life. Always lying. Always the victim. It truly is an illness, not a failure by her parents.
@fark698 ай бұрын
I really disliked how badly she talks about them but clearly they are extremely supportive of her both financially and emotionally
@ozone25208 ай бұрын
You know absolutely nothing
@josephlowery44528 ай бұрын
It’s crazy….my parents pay for school, medical insurance, rent, utilities, and she even got a ride there by her mom! But my parents are not supportive, that’s a crazy mindset.
@mrspoido8 ай бұрын
My sister is exactly like this. She's undiagnosed. We just buried my grandma last weekend and my sister made the entire thing about herself. I am so glad I won't have to see her again until the next funeral. She's decided to take my brother under her wing and is currently ruining his life.
@ShayraBaby8 ай бұрын
My brother, sister and dad are all also exactly like this and I feel so seen and understood in your comment. They are always the victim, they do the most to destroy their lives and they’re always LYING! And don’t you dare call them out on it because they get aggressive and violent that you don’t believe their blatant lies. Gaslighting like a MFFF. It’s exhausting and I never knew there were more people out there like that. I don’t feel alone in this anymore thanks to these comments. This episode did serve a purpose for me!
@Raidr8 ай бұрын
Being around a habitual liar, she deludes herself so much to make herself the victim, that reality and what actual happens surprises her. She is a career liar. This is 1000% a learned behavior. She got fired from work for poor job performance and acting out when being escorted to the managers office. But to her, she was "fondled", no "groped", no "hand put on her shoulder", no escorted to the managers office. She is an immature child who's been given no responsibility with accountability in her life. Its everyone else's fault. She can't work because mental disabilities, her job won't schedule her because she acted out and threw a temper tantrum.
@rebeccashields96268 ай бұрын
Bpd is very closely associated with sexual abuse as a child (various studies show 40-70%) I would bet she was molested as a kid and now completely overreacts to normal incidental touching. So this was probably nothing but to her it felt like more because of her history.
@rickbalderas40338 ай бұрын
Spot on
@Chasecka8 ай бұрын
This is what bad parents do and then society, the media, etc justifies these actions for them. Everyone is programmed to have victim mentality now a days.
@urmomsfriend49098 ай бұрын
Exactly
@Oliviaandtrina7 ай бұрын
Could tell within the first 60 seconds that most of what she was says is a lie. I've met people like her who just every other word is a lie. I used to believe that people like her who lie all the time do so because they had a hard life in some way, but later realized it's usually because they actually haven't been through anything really difficult and just completely make things up for pity. She's one of those people, I almost guarantee she hasn't faced any real adversity other than what she puts herself through.
@Averwinge8 ай бұрын
Caleb, please don't let children like this on the show. She has never once spent a single minute thinking about finances before coming on this show.
@piepiepie578 ай бұрын
I thought it was very entertaining. I don't think it's bad to post episodes like this from time to time. It helps keep the show interesting.
@ShayWilliam3418 ай бұрын
She’s grown 22 is not considered a child
@taylorscott-fr8hs8 ай бұрын
@@Dog_in_tree thats still not a child....its like making an excuse for that behavior. thats a grown woman who has no excuse.
@SeamoosesFTW8 ай бұрын
@@Dog_in_treeshe’s not a child by defintion lol. This episode at the very least was entertaining
@3xinarow9908 ай бұрын
It's important to have kids like her on the show so they dont turn into 50 yr olds w/ no retirement and mountains of debt. But I will say I wish Caleb was better about making sure she knew how dire things were and what she would need to have in a future.
@mollygrace30687 ай бұрын
I hate how she keeps saying “putting their hands on me,” knowing damn well what that means colloquially.
@harrisonagnor45476 ай бұрын
Straight up offensive
@awsambdaman3 ай бұрын
I hateeeee shit like that. When people misuse terms. You know she knew what she was doing too
@revallmccalla34633 ай бұрын
Yeah…She was referring to touch-aversion but framed it as ab’se. Shameful victim mentality
@elanorapowell68112 ай бұрын
I have been assaulted since childhood and I tell people not to put their hands on me. If she was trying to say they were SAing her she would have said that. Cry somewhere else. At least she’s medicated and doing therapy. You’re throwing a tantrum in the comments😂
@mrdavman132 ай бұрын
@@elanorapowell6811shut up. This little compulsive liar was homeless for 1 night and suddenly she has PTSD so bad people can’t… touch her arm? Brush up against her? “Putting their hands on me” means being in a fight for 85% of people. And the other 15% may take it as innuendo for SA. But she means, minor touches on the arm or shoulders. She is intentionally misusing heavier terms in order to garner sympathy. That ruins it for people who DO actually go thru things and ARE actually physically assaulted or SAd. She didn’t go thru squat diddly
@fourthmoon43108 ай бұрын
To ARACELY: Please do not be a doctor Please do not have kids Please say sorry to Caleb! Kind regards, Everyone
@nubbyfresh56238 ай бұрын
Man reading through the comments on this one I can tell this is going to be a rough one to get through lol
@wubbied45758 ай бұрын
To fourthmoon4310 you have no right telling another person to not have children.
@baseball7418 ай бұрын
If you could go back in time, would you tell Klara Hitler to not have children?
@jdbsoccer1008 ай бұрын
Don’t think you need to tell her. She can’t become a doctor lol
@zzzzz45zzzzz798 ай бұрын
@@wubbied4575nah I don’t want to exist in a world with more her
@FryGuyWhy8 ай бұрын
25 minutes in, no financial audit of any kind... these people need to be vetted more, this is not a financial audit, she needs proper professional help
@synaesthesia8888 ай бұрын
PLEASE READ THIS COMMENT CALEB
@kiki119748 ай бұрын
Agreed! She’s all over the place
@ShaunaEleven8 ай бұрын
Agreed, it seems like she was a backup/ last resort as he said several other people cancelled due to the holiday (at least I hope that's what happened here)
@bdan199218 ай бұрын
I think he's purposely choosing people that he thinks will be more entertaining
@Sincewayback19978 ай бұрын
He said many people canceled due to holidays
@stephanieswensrude7168 ай бұрын
I actually DIED when she suddenly said she was going to be a detective
@JasonSpasoff7 ай бұрын
Her as a therapist is a TERRIFYING thought.
@gat2asp9194 ай бұрын
Don't worry that will never happen
@lememe97813 ай бұрын
@@gat2asp919 True
@GRAYgauss3 ай бұрын
Her, understands the brain? lmfao.
@elanorapowell68112 ай бұрын
Most therapists have mental health issues which are what make them want to go into the field
@danlutz98612 ай бұрын
You'd be suprised how many there are just like her. Men and women therapists
@RodneyKingg8 ай бұрын
I have a feeling she’s living a very nice life at home and she doesn’t realize what real life is like or how expensive and stressful med school is
@zodglubby8 ай бұрын
Not a clue, she's pretty. Nuff said
@shadowpoetrk8 ай бұрын
@@zodglubby Being pretty doesn't make the difference. Plenty of pretty people are collected and have it together.
@ltltornado33378 ай бұрын
Caleb looking around to see if he was being pranked when she said, "I want to be a doctor to fall back on once I'm done with acting" is how all of us felt 🤣
@joycef84438 ай бұрын
I know, uti could hit “ pause” and go into the kitchen for a bit. He’s stuck there!
@ManorexicPanda8 ай бұрын
Bro then she fuckin says, but with my Bachelor I can be a Detective lmaooo. Caleb says what the fuck, what are you lol . So insane
@fark698 ай бұрын
I genuinely think she was having a psychotic episode during the shiw
@jdbsoccer1008 ай бұрын
@@fark69that’s making an excuse for her. She is just uneducated and ignorant lol
@AspenBurning8 ай бұрын
she sounds like a little girl "im gonna be an astronaut firefighter princess pop singer!" type shit
@sydney58878 ай бұрын
She DID NOT just tell Caleb to give her money... 💀💀 Holy shit she's delusional
@ses-ei7oc8 ай бұрын
That was wild.
@joelh54458 ай бұрын
She admitted to being BPD
@techyin3268 ай бұрын
@@joelh5445is that people do?
@animetalk81328 ай бұрын
She said a detective
@Voyajer.8 ай бұрын
I figured they got some amount for coming on the show.
@amandahakes22267 ай бұрын
“Well I can’t drive” then how are you planning on getting to auditions, rehearsal, shoots or anything that has to do with acting or modeling
@hammadali545Ай бұрын
Didn't even think about that . Good point.
@SAnderson548 ай бұрын
She is honestly my biggest fear with having kids. I know she’s young, but the lack of accountability is insane!!!
@hermitabby8 ай бұрын
Seriously though. I have a cousin that is insane and mooches off her family. She is always the victim. I am bipolar but thankfully I had help with my family and am doing ok and am independent. But it does make me nervous if my baby will be bipolar too and wont be able to handle it.
@Scarface_4458 ай бұрын
@@hermitabbymental illness is never an excuse, these people use it as a crutch. I have diagnosed ADHD, anxiety and OCD. Ain’t never see me being resentful towards my parents or even ask for a dollar. It’s like going to the gym. You either do it or you don’t.
@skrubnagrom80618 ай бұрын
Her Parents may be supporting her, but they failed miserably. I wish you better luck.
@mandarue51048 ай бұрын
Yeah, but lack of accountability stems from parents never saying "no" to their kids and not setting healthy boundaries.
@RyanBerich-u1w8 ай бұрын
Most kids don’t turn out this clueless. Make raising your kids your primary role and be ready to adapt to the situation as it develops. If you take this approach, there is a high probability you will raise successful children to become successful adults. Ignore them or give in to every request and this is what you get.
@harlequinade27098 ай бұрын
Dude when she said "I passed my classes with As and Bs," I wanted Caleb to demand her report card. She's lied too much to be trusted with that at this point 😂
@lememe97813 ай бұрын
She definitely not even C type student
@DanielLara-jm9wj14 күн бұрын
Hell no she didn’t have a single grade that was an A😂 Her mental illnesses make it so she can’t study either
@angrybabushka8 ай бұрын
They need to use this as a sample of what untreated BPD is like in college psychology classes
@mollyb81368 ай бұрын
Yeah, it's quite sad. Her poor insight is just oozing off of her. I feel for her family.
@SilientShadow6 ай бұрын
"They just abandoned me at a hotel" Can't imagine why.
@adjcsee44762 ай бұрын
Being expected to do things because she is homeless, no job, “going to school.” And complaining she is the victim. I think that guy was the victim.
@elanorapowell68112 ай бұрын
@@adjcsee4476Yes such a victim abandoning a woman because she won’t spread her legs…
@mrdavman132 ай бұрын
@@adjcsee4476that guy realized he was gonna be exploited for money and housing and food and wasn’t gonna get shit for it except living with a compulsive liar who can’t hold down a job, severely in debt, terrible family relationship (drama may be brought to your door) and goes on to frame you as the bad guy and as a creep. He probably thought he was moving along in a relationship with someone he had known for awhile and was friendly with, but then realized that wasn’t actually gonna happen, and nope out.
@icet-oj5yc2 ай бұрын
And all it cost him was a cheap hotel room to learn his mistake 😂
@elanorapowell68112 ай бұрын
@@icet-oj5yc He bought her designer boots. She said that in the video.
@Pannington8 ай бұрын
Financial Audits always make work easier to bear 😂
@CalebHammer8 ай бұрын
Thanks for being here, I’ll continue to be here every MWF!
@andrewdowell26638 ай бұрын
Agreed, it's my go to on lunch breaks
@taylorscott-fr8hs8 ай бұрын
i play these episodes on my drive to and from work and while i am working as background noise.
@r8motorsports1138 ай бұрын
I literally play this driving all day at work, so when I see the numbers on the screen I be lost. But I’m like 16k on credit debt and 35k car debt at 25 I be i still judging though 😂
@chelseysmithmillaaaaar8 ай бұрын
I watch them while crunching numbers at work! The best 😊
@mch89288 ай бұрын
This was so hard to get through. I had to come back 5 times just to finish the video. This was not a financial audit, this was a therapy session.
@lane17768 ай бұрын
True! Why even do a budget when she has no freaking job! OMG WTF
@mch89288 ай бұрын
@@lane1776 yes. I didn’t understand that. Plus she didn’t really have many bills/ expenses. Im questioning why she came on financial audit 🤔
@millenialinvestor53008 ай бұрын
@@mch8928 exposure... there is literally no other reason :/
@anrhmn8 ай бұрын
@@mch8928for attention
@shannonweatherill52908 ай бұрын
I made it 20 minutes and turned it off. May try to finish but having dealt with it in real life, it gives me a headache.
@msjake8 ай бұрын
I’m gonna bet that it’s not that her parents don’t “believe” in mental illness, but that they are sick of taking no responsibility for her life and blaming the mental illness.
@leahmcdermott41898 ай бұрын
I believe her. Not to generalise but ethnic minorities sometimes don’t believe in mental health problems, they think it’s just a myth/excuse. My parents have a hard time understanding it and believe God can just fix everything and that I don’t pray enough. They are so different from my white friends parents 😭😩
@MrMythTV8 ай бұрын
It's Borderline though...
@Dr.ZoidbergPhD8 ай бұрын
I'm MX/AM, both parents born in MX. My mom is extremely mentally unwell and neither parents have suggested her to go to therapy. My sister told my mom she needs therapy bc they had issues together and she would stop tlaking to her if she didn't go. They no longer talk. My mom had a doctor tell her, literally tell her she needs therapy, and my mom took it as the doctor calling her crazy.
@jahqwelin8 ай бұрын
It’s a very hit or miss. Im first gen and it took my parents a lot of adult conversations to fully understand how serious it can get. Finally got my mom to think about going to therapy but ever since then she’s been a lot more kind.
@annemarie38118 ай бұрын
@@leahmcdermott4189 Except that her parents “forced” her to the hospital for care. She’s just a liar.
@aidancristoforo55306 ай бұрын
"my parents dont support me and are against me taking meds and going to therapy and dont believe in mental health" "my parents physically and monetarily support me and make sure i get to my doctors appointments and all my meds." WHAT
@Sterlingmcm8 ай бұрын
Caleb have you ever thought of doing a few financial audits of people who have a higher Caleb Hammer Financial score? I think it may not be as “entertaining” but could also be beneficial to your viewers. Keep up the great work!
@Rudolf2158 ай бұрын
I would also thinking the same the other day 😅
@zacknelson89188 ай бұрын
I could be one, but it would be a short episode, and no caleb yelling, I have really no debt, and good savings, and retirement, so I don't think I would make a good show
@darkforcesjedi8 ай бұрын
He commented on that before. Basically he has limited bandwidth to do episodes and these are what more people are interested in... :/
@taylorscott-fr8hs8 ай бұрын
he has said: " yes" he dosent calculate scores ahead of time s its possible but he would not do anyone (as of now) with a perfect score or really high score because it would not be helpful to the average person. if you look at older episodes you can find scores that are higher than a 1 or 2.
@Mama2CDHsurvivor8 ай бұрын
He has done them. They have the least views and help the least number of viewers.
@cesarordaz1398 ай бұрын
These people need to be screened. Caleb isn’t a therapist it’s not his responsibility to provide therapy. Probably one of the worst episodes.
@laurab58498 ай бұрын
Yeah she had no money to manage!
@Akyt9368 ай бұрын
I think they screen ppl tho 💀 this is so bad
@y2ksurvivor8 ай бұрын
This is how to get clicks. She was screened. You gotta remember this is for entertainment.
@penguinqueen14628 ай бұрын
I have to agree though I came to the comments for the summary because at 8 minutes I had to stop watching. This lady is insufferable idk why she came here. I know it’s entertainment but I don’t feel like this is the audience.
@nubbyfresh56238 ай бұрын
I know they do screen people but the screening seems to be getting a little LAX lately and he did say at the start of the episode with the cancellations over the holiday they just said fuck it let's just go with this when I guess lol
@xxjcipes8 ай бұрын
Caleb thinking he’s getting pranked has me so dead ☠️ The only other thing she could’ve thrown in was that she survives on taquitos 😂😂😂
@lesmess.8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@MrAsaphelps8 ай бұрын
It would be a pretty funny episode if he was actually pranked. Like they get someone on like this or worse but then after a while it turns out the person actually is very good with finances and basically doing everything right.
@bradenjohnson63257 ай бұрын
This woman said cough condritis. I am almost certain she meant costrocondritis… which happens when you vape and cough a lot. It’s inflammation of the ribs and the connective tissue.. Wait watched more. Albuterol is a bronchodilator, so does she have bronchitis ?? Whic… I can’t keep up with this story 😂😂
@geministargazer98304 ай бұрын
possibily both, if she has bronchitis as well that would cause the coughing that would cause the inflammation
@mithicash14443 ай бұрын
The worst part is that if she had one of them or both, she KEEPS VAPING!
@daisybaby7222 ай бұрын
I might get flamed for this but quitting is not hard. I have addictive personality, anxiety, etc. and addiction and mental health issues runs in my family. I quit vaping once I actually decided to do it. She doesn’t want to get better, she doesn’t want to be healthy, she doesn’t want to quit. It’s not hard once you decided you’re worth it. She decides every time she buys a vape that she is NOT worth it and that is a sad place to be in life but I don’t feel sad for her. Only she can decide to value herself more and she isn’t.
@mrdavman132 ай бұрын
@@daisybaby722yep. If you can hold off for 1 day of anxiety, some headaches, minor mood swings, the worst is over. And that is for the heaviest of nicotine addictions. I was on heroin for 4 years in my early 20s. That is 7-14 days of being unable to move off the bed, shitting your brains out, sweating buckets, shivering hard enough to feel like an earthquake, feeling so sore you could think you got run over. You can’t work while you’re detoxing. THAT is hard to quit but even then, if you have some self control, and just DO NOT BUY IT NO MATTER WHAT. Then quitting is easy. It’s behavioral. If you really want to quit, even quitting heroin is easy. But the problem is most people truly do not want to stop their addictions. The small dopamine hits are more worth it to them. People get complacent about their situation and just accept it.
@Wuznoturbiznis2 ай бұрын
@@daisybaby722same. Took a low point to finally quit cigarettes. You have to want to change and internalize the problem for it to work. Glad you were able to quit
@papermind40108 ай бұрын
Caleb is going to experience the “Kitchen Nightmares effect” where basically his content goes from trying to help people to basically showcasing the human condition because he realizes that people don’t change
@BrittneyLlee8 ай бұрын
Yes thats why I wish he would have people who actually do good on.. show what they do how they do it etc..
@animetalk81328 ай бұрын
War never changes just get high tech
@TonyCox13518 ай бұрын
I’m here for it
@spenc43038 ай бұрын
The only reason I’m here
@VicvicW8 ай бұрын
This is dishonest. Ramsey did not change his format because of some revelation about the human condition. He did it because it made people watch and it made him and the production company a lot of money. If you watch the original UK run of kitchen nightmares, its a lot of people who just needed guidance from a mentor. Caleb, unfortunately, is doing the same. Increasingly his guests feature the mentally ill and those who are going to provoke a reaction of incredulity among his fans. It is becoming hard to watch, ans frankly feels exploitative. Like Jeremy Kyle.
@travisr.36678 ай бұрын
'Does that make sense?' over and over... NO, no it doesn't! 'I just need to get a Masters degree' okay she is totally delusional.
@teachercaron8 ай бұрын
I think she was confusing psychiatry with a psychology degree.
@sylvia48818 ай бұрын
She’s like the little sister of the other person that was on financial audit, who called herself DeLulu
@calonkat8 ай бұрын
A favorite moment was when she added that she didn't want to get a bachelor's degree.
@Drewinthejungle8 ай бұрын
@@teachercaronthat was my reaction, I thought it was masters to be a psychologist but all the way through med school for psychiatrist. This episode definitely felt crazy
@ryanlemmers53008 ай бұрын
A master’s degree to be a detective no less. Like she would completely skip being a beat cop for several years 😂
@coreyklima89298 ай бұрын
As a middle manager at a grocery store for about 15 years I can tell you I have dealt with tons of kids that act very similar to this girl. They have one bad day or problem then disappear and never come back or call. Pretty standard stuff more than likely they probably considered her walking off what's called job abandonment and then terminated her a week later. Don't know why it's so difficult to call and quit i guess it's just a maturity thing.
@jessica333138 ай бұрын
I’ve done that plenty of times with shitty retail positions. I don’t do that with “careers.”
@alwaysemilia8 ай бұрын
Yeah in states where I managed hourly employees, if you don’t show up or contact for 3 days, it’s job abandonment. See ya 👋 lol this girl is just 🤯
@coreyklima89298 ай бұрын
@@Jake38nine I don't deny that I get frustrated too and I'm pretty tolerant towards employees that have complaints or blowups within reason of course. The real issue lies in not calling or showing for work. That's one instance where I can't really have much wiggle room to keep employees on.
@coreyklima89298 ай бұрын
@@jessica33313 I've heard people tell me this before. The issue I see with that is these work habits of not showing or calling the shitty jobs sometimes carries over to the career jobs. I'm sure for some it doesn't but in my experience once someone becomes accustomed to doing something it's hard to stop and break their habits just my opinion of course.
@alwaysemilia8 ай бұрын
@@coreyklima8929I think this would be especially true for someone with her diagnosis. If you look into the type of therapy she mentioned needing, it’s entirely based around mindfulness and handling big emotions. If she doesn’t manage that at a place that’s “just a job”, it’s going to be more and more difficult, even with a career. That’s probably less true for someone without her same diagnosis, but it’s still good practice to have difficult conversations calmly and professionally when the stakes are lower.
@llamainyamama30887 ай бұрын
She just assumes that a therapist and a psychiatrist are on the same education track.
@mhaddow36606 ай бұрын
She's clueless.
@Emma569672 ай бұрын
she definitely thinks it’s the same thing too
@vikingboyt8 ай бұрын
This is like a tutorial in spotting red flags. Trouble at home, no straight answers, stories changing depending on context, trying to gain sympathy, taking no responsibility for actions, etc. Guys, if you ever see this shit, literally run.
@darkaquatus6 ай бұрын
Yeah well, I know this might sound mean, but her boyfriend killed himself. I'd kinda call that a red flag 🤣🤣
@MadisonWestfield6 ай бұрын
Run, like that dude did when he took off from the hotel. Lol
@tubbytoad5 ай бұрын
Borderline and BPD are basically medically diagnosed red flag.
@TheSergio10215 ай бұрын
Dont forget trying to survive off the thirst of men. She tried to string along the "friend" and her twitch streamer follower sent her money/food...
@lotroholic4 ай бұрын
BPD/Bipolar explains a lot.
@thatitguy19808 ай бұрын
Strange that her parents don't believe in mental health issues or medical treatments for them but are paying for her to be educated to do that.
@fark698 ай бұрын
I think she's having a psychotic episode during this show, thats why everything she says seems to not match up with the facts we have
@mjbankhead90638 ай бұрын
It can also be a cultural thing. There’s some cultures that believe that talking about mental health issues is taboo. They’ll say things like “it’ll get better” and my favorite, “just pray”.
@dingledongle4558 ай бұрын
Physical ailments are real to these kinds of parents, depression and other mental health issues are fake.
@joshuaburch49088 ай бұрын
Let's be honest, it was probably a lie. Consistently she brought up her parents doing positive things for her. In 34 years my mom has never given me $300 "just because."
@Immigrantlovesamerica8 ай бұрын
@@mjbankhead9063 Im Hispanic just like her. It’s likely not true and def not a cultural thing. Her parents are prob just tired of her constant fallback to mental health as an excuse.
@kikomefoxy59667 ай бұрын
"Well.. WElCoMe tO fINAnCiAl AuDiT 😜" If she was in therapy then I feel like they'd help her out with her compulsive lying.
@WinterM-hr3xv5 ай бұрын
She has bpd there compulsive liars it takes yearsss to fix that but clearly she doesn’t accept help
@goesbyAustin3 ай бұрын
Honestly that line cracked me up 😂 say what you want about this girl but that joke landed
@jneydog28 ай бұрын
“School is not as long as you think” to “I don’t know how long school is”, “I want to be a doctor as a fall back” to “My mom is making me go to school”… man this girl is just a walking contradiction
@kainenable8 ай бұрын
She later then said, i think it takes about 10 years. She is just saying things so she gets what she wants, or will paint her in the best light. She is either to stupid or just doesnt care about keeping her lies straight.
@girlgaara94488 ай бұрын
But you also have to think about how she already has mental issues with borderline AND bipolar, her family “doesn’t believe in metal health problems” (Maybe Hispanic bc I have experienced it I could be wrong) and she’s 22 years old which makes her a Gen Z which is makes sense with the live streaming. All her thoughts are very scattered. It’s like she trickles in truths. Maybe to be a people pleaser? Or maybe she doesn’t realize what she is doing is bad? She said she was a bad worker. And she didn’t realize walking out = quitting??? Yeah… no… I don’t think she’s grounded well…
@itsNabez8 ай бұрын
It's just a masters
@noradurst53178 ай бұрын
1000%
@ICanLiftACarUp37908 ай бұрын
She's making a lot of stuff up. Less than 1/4 of this interview is true.
@groggdog158 ай бұрын
Cancellations happen and I’m glad he got someone to fill the spot, but my god this has to be the most useless audit to date. Still watched it all mainly to see Caleb’s reaction to this lunacy, gotta give Mr. Hammer that watch time 👌
@aGirlPossessed8 ай бұрын
This poor girl is legitimately insane. I hope she gets the help and support she needs
@MrCaw778 ай бұрын
She is not insane, she just seems very misguided and ignorant. She may mean well, but has no idea how the adult world works
@lauraweiss78758 ай бұрын
Insanity is a legal disposition. What she has is mental illness.
@pinkisforpimps8 ай бұрын
Her life is fucked forever
@pinkisforpimps8 ай бұрын
And she's not even pretty so she doesn't have that going for her either
@lindajohnson.8 ай бұрын
She really needs help! 😢
@hulkslayer6263 ай бұрын
If you can't emotionally and mentally can't handle a situation where someone puts their hand on your shoulder to gently guide you in a direction, you aren't going to make it as a psychiatrist.
@Zenniverse8 ай бұрын
She reminds me of my ex with BPD who couldn't hold down a job. Helping people with this mindset is like trying to save someone frantically drowning and they pull you under with them.
@Joseph871018 ай бұрын
It’s an impossible situation for anyone involved with these types of people. Glad to hear you got out.
@lane17768 ай бұрын
You have to get away from people like this. I'd have her leave. I'm 13 min in and there is no job, no debt, no nothing but drama. She doesn't need to be anywhere anyone else. Padded room level of crazy. For OUR own good. Wow. At 14 min I'm freaking out like Caleb
@Whatevadantewante8 ай бұрын
Woof absolutely
@vitaminme42038 ай бұрын
I was about to comment this. Ex was very similar to this girl, and you think you want to help so much, but after being burned over and over, you give up and let them fail hard.
@RagingBadger688 ай бұрын
@@vitaminme4203for some people they have to feel the consequences before they’re ready to make a change. BPD can be treated and often resolves to remission with treatment, but like all psychological disorders the patient needs disciplined and concentrated efforts from both themselves and a therapist. A more accurate description of the above is “trying to save someone drowning who thinks they can swim”
@hoops1357924688 ай бұрын
As an American citizen I would not feel safe if this girl is my doctor, therapist, police officer, detective, etc. I hope she gets help and can grow into a person I would feel safe serving in these roles.
@mohurst90638 ай бұрын
Not that deep, she was in a mental health crisis during the episode. I doubt that she can become s doctor unfortunately. She maybe unemployed for the rest of her life. Poor girl.
@henrypollock79878 ай бұрын
To get through just a normal days work without going home early after causing a scene is a big achievement for people with bpd there unemployable
@danna.mvp.8 ай бұрын
what does being an American citizen have to do with anything in this situation
@mohurst90638 ай бұрын
@danna.mvp. I think it was a light hearted joke tbh. I sat with this comment snf the first half is a joke and the second half is a showing of concern
@hoops1357924688 ай бұрын
@@mohurst9063 Finally someone got it 😂
@momo1234567solo8 ай бұрын
I want to be an actor, and a doctor, and an astronaut, and a detective, and a firefighter, and a policeman, and a cowboy, and a superhero.
@NotJessH8 ай бұрын
And a ballerina, and the bane of Caleb’s existence.
@Cashhhhew8 ай бұрын
Being the president is my fallback plan
@amilllion17 ай бұрын
U forgot pilot 👩✈️
@kittenwu85277 ай бұрын
I'm 5☺️☺️ when I grow up...
@D2attemp7 ай бұрын
Isn’t there a guy on the internet that is all of these?
@casper27687 ай бұрын
I think Caleb empathized with her too much.. You could tell she loves being the victim. She has an excuse for everything its insane!!!! I would have walked away a long time ago instead of sitting there and listening to BS.😂 I'M STRESSED!!!
@jolinevdk8 ай бұрын
Yeah she didn't come for a financial audit, she came to be on camera.
@tylerdurden36188 ай бұрын
Duhhhhhhh
@Mokuujin8 ай бұрын
She's used Caleb as a therapist 😂
@savagebeastking87038 ай бұрын
@@Mokuujin good old talk therapy. Most people just call it chatting about life with friends. I’ve been in the Caleb side in so many of these conversations.
@DotKsmGlmrMovrBtc8 ай бұрын
She came for a handout. She asked Caleb for money...
@barboracorneliasedlackova54398 ай бұрын
What stood up to me was the contrast between how many times she mentioned "my parents handle this and that for me" vs. "I have no parental figure." It seems like she is really ungrateful and entitled. I guess she will need to learn to be independent the hard way.
@ramblingmillennial15607 ай бұрын
I think the problem is the lack of emotional support and understanding from her parents. Her mother is at least controlling in terms of forcing her to study or be homeless fresh outta high school.
@gringoboy7017 ай бұрын
@@ramblingmillennial1560 Maybe they've been understanding for years and eventually came to the conclusion know their daughter is a entitled pos.
@elizavetabelova65257 ай бұрын
Honestly I don’t think she understands the concept of a parental figure. This whole conversation just felt like she answers the question by a standard phrase she heard somewhere, like a reflex rather than an actual discussion. Poor girl.
@roimel75247 ай бұрын
Parents can behave like parents but that doesn't mean that they are not toxic
@jborrego24067 ай бұрын
@@roimel7524everything this girl said was I'm a victim. How do u emotionally support someone that lies blames u an others all time an dont take therapy serious
@Mr_NB6288 ай бұрын
I love how she’s wants to go to med school for psychiatry, but doesn’t realize that you have to go through med school, which involves learning about the entire body not just the brain. Psychiatrists are medical doctors because they can diagnose and give drugs.
@antiantipoda8 ай бұрын
And because the drugs "for the brain" interact with all systems in the body, with each other and with medications you are taking for other things. I have had many physical reactions to drugs "for the brain", side effects, interactions between drugs and more. Such a joy! (Not). These days I am weaning from a drug that got my cholesterol and triglycerides through the roof.
@gibbsjd8 ай бұрын
i think maybe alot of people dont know that though LOL
@lukienman7 ай бұрын
I wouldn't be suprised if she didnt know that there is a fundamental difference between a therapist and a psychiatrist.
@The_Real_Grand_Nagus6 ай бұрын
Yeah I'm a grocery store manager now, but I'm also a board certified surgeon as my fallback
@Loneadmin5 ай бұрын
So you're just ignoring your acting carrer?
@Brittalbarron3 ай бұрын
That’s so smart!!!
@heisocean3448 ай бұрын
I would love it if Caleb were able to incentivize the ppl that live with their parents to bring their parents with them onto the episode to call them out every time they fabricate information and excuses on the fly
@henrypollock79878 ай бұрын
Kinda depressing the state of things that we need 20 year olds to bring there parents in with them like it’s school report night
@iaintdonknow8 ай бұрын
@@henrypollock7987 The land of the free
@veronicamarrs8 ай бұрын
Thanks Biden puppet masters
@maximinus51518 ай бұрын
@@iaintdonknowit was the land of the free, now it's the land of the economic migrants who are making everyone in the country a low earning wage slave
@T03L3G8 ай бұрын
@@iaintdonknowit is kinda brave I guess 😂
@thefaultywaffle78418 ай бұрын
I would love to see a more successful person who does well with their money. I’m getting miserable watching these episodes where people are just ABSOLUTELY clueless.
@PhilipBarrett18 ай бұрын
I was about to type that word for word….. but you put it well. Watching a train wreck once or twice is a freak show, but all the time is depressing. I would love the opportunity to learn from people who are successful
@ralph74638 ай бұрын
Unfortunately it doesn’t drive views. In reality no one cares about people who have their stuff together. Could be seen as borderline bragging depending on the person. People would rather see train wrecks. Makes for better content.
@scottshapiro27958 ай бұрын
@ralph. I think it would drive views. People can see "Oh John does X, Y, and Z and is doing well in life. Maybe I can try to emulate some of their habits." While I don't think it should be someone making 300k/year, but having someone on who makes 40-70k/year and seeing how they manage their finances well would be interesting and a good contrast with the other videos. Granted, I don't think it would drive as many views, but I think the views would still be a decent number.
@Mama2CDHsurvivor8 ай бұрын
He’s interviewed those, they are in his list of videos. They have the least views. There are lots of other money KZbinrs that interview successful people. Try Ramit Seti (sp?) the I Will Teach You To Be Rich guy
@johnparker44848 ай бұрын
Nah I’m here for the mess to be feel better about myself 😂
@Reegs018 ай бұрын
As a psychotherapist, this is a wonderful example of people struggling with BPD and bipolar. Everything is always someone else’s fault; bus driver, bus company, parents, “friends”, manipulating Caleb, bosses at work, workplaces in general, her psychiatrists, landlords … I hope she does stay on meds and get intensive therapy treatment so she can function as an adult in society and take accountability for her life. ❤❤ *edit; she needs intensive HELP before working as a therapist herself. Psychiatrists go to school for 10 years so they can interpret diagnosis based on the DSM. It’s not a tool people should be using lightly. If she’s reading this, i hope you spend as much time as you need getting a grasp on your on mental health before attempting to help others. ❤
@Lazirus9518 ай бұрын
I have a friend like this. "The unreliable narrator" we call him. He often omits the part where he was drunk.
@MichaelVash78868 ай бұрын
When she said borderline as a diagnosis I was like, well the thumbnail makes total sense now. Like you said, hopefully she can get the help she needs
@court7648 ай бұрын
unreliable narrator is a great way to describe folks with personality disorders@@Lazirus951
@TaeminnieLee8 ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly... as a psychotherapist myself, I believe there's so much hope if she sticks to therapy and continues to examine what her role in all of these situations is. It will take her some time, but I'm sure she can function as an adult in society if she puts in the hard work. I have faith that she'll do well, especially given that she wants to find something that helps her, and wants to help others as well.
@PANIC_aka_PinD8 ай бұрын
That's not a disease, its a mindset. I find it amazing as a gen Xer that NO ONE I knew when I was young had any such thing as "Bipolar" ... many people from when I was young still hang out and we were all reasonably successful. Sounds like a manufactured excuse for an entire generation. None of us needed meds or therapy to cope with life.
@jogugaga71216 ай бұрын
When she says "Welcome to financial audit" it actually makes sense in a way.
@wait_in_gold_ON_SPOTIFY5 ай бұрын
It was perfect. I thought it was scripted
@GeraldoF08 ай бұрын
Caleb! Big fan here, and I am sure you heard, but your guest here was just booked into Dallas County Jail today for assault on a family member. Not saying take it down, but something to be mindful of. Appreciate you and your videos.
@lenadai57558 ай бұрын
Is this real? Source?
@Amanda.DelRae8 ай бұрын
@@lenadai5755yes it’s real. You can find her arrest record online
@maria_11998 ай бұрын
Source?!?!
@Zyzy89178 ай бұрын
You can Google it. Unfortunately I found it, very sad and I hope she gets the help she needs
@maria_11998 ай бұрын
@@Zyzy8917 I was able to find it. Omg.
@jessicaa36238 ай бұрын
As a manager I've had a handful of employees like this over 20 years and they are all memorable. Do you see the little smile on her face that pops out? I know there is mental illness here, but there is a real joy in causing drama and screwing with people that is the most destructive part of having them in the workplace. Scary that you can have a kid and end up here.
@amp21938 ай бұрын
It's called "Dupers Delight" From Google: Duper's delight” is often used to refer to involuntary microexpressions, or split second facial expressions that can't be controlled and are thought to “leak” the true feelings of the liar. "Dupers Delight: What Is the Duper's Delight? The duper's delight is an emotional boost, or thrill, that some people get when they successfully cheat or deceive another person or organization. The rush they enjoy can lead them to repeat their dishonesty, even when there's no reward other than the high itself."
@A936408 ай бұрын
Definitely, some people absolutely love the drama and chaos. Even though they may say they don’t, but it’s all they cause
@MimiRAM0NE8 ай бұрын
Exactly. She seems to have a very selfish, malicious streak.
@pinkisforpimps8 ай бұрын
She's fucked in the head.
@cooperaiken81488 ай бұрын
She’s not mentally ill. She is just a narcissist
@maxcohn32288 ай бұрын
I wouldn't want this person to be in charge of my medical care in the future based on the start of this audit...
@patchopossum94148 ай бұрын
Wait till you get to the ice baths
@dreamlaughwishful8 ай бұрын
Premed basically means chemistry and biology and nothing significant ahhaha
@NurseKaty8 ай бұрын
Dont worry, unless she makes some serious change to her attitude, she wont make it through med school.
@tully66488 ай бұрын
Reminds me of the fella that wanted to go into politics a while back. I was like “And you went on a public space to talk about how you can’t get your own finances in order?” Some folks.
@Jocelynex8 ай бұрын
@@dreamlaughwishfulshe said around 14 min in that she’s doing premed for psychiatry 😬
@NotYomama133 ай бұрын
12 years ago, I was attending community college to get an Associates of Science. I wanted to be a dentist. I had a friend who was going to be a doctor. He told me I wasn't motivated or dedicated enough to become a dentist. It was a reality check I needed; I actually stopped going to college after completing my Associates. Some people just need to hear their delusions out loud. But some of them stay delusional forever.
@Enroutetwentyseven8 ай бұрын
She’s going to add this audit and the reception of it to her list of traumas for years to come
@dylangalvan66198 ай бұрын
Caleb, you should start a series with getting different guest on the show with different degrees, different jobs in different fields, and learning their salaries, day in the life, and overall how they got there. I think that would be cool and could tie in to finance as well
@omarmontoya27748 ай бұрын
Yeah, career advice and explaining the path it takes to get to certain salaries would be very helpful in the grand scheme of financial education
@raechel01168 ай бұрын
Agreed that would be an awesome thing to show. Definitely ties in and ways to give people hope and show you the steps to follow to achieve those types of jobs.
@ThatRedEvo8 ай бұрын
I tried getting on the show, went through multiple emails and a survey but unfortunately didn’t make the cut, I’m 30, made 310k this passed year from my job and real estate, am in a decent place in life but not where I should be given what I make and I have a spending problem with no real budget, no emergency fund or anything like that, could really use the budgeting advice and outside look into my situation to take advantage of it, coming from nothing I had no one to really teach me good money ethics and got myself in the hole a few times, would love for him to see this and re-consider me!
@LuisAdventures8 ай бұрын
Yeah cause these audits of insane people are getting old…
@Sofia-ge5wu8 ай бұрын
@@ThatRedEvosounds like some professional advice could really help you and possibly save you money by being tax efficient etc.
@buzbeebee8 ай бұрын
I know someone with BPD and bipolar, who refuses to work on themselves or take accountability, and this episode was exactly what it’s like to try and have a conversation with them.
@MatPandaZ6 ай бұрын
I've never met anyone with BPD who isn't a sociopath and has any remorse over what they do. They need serious help but I don't want anyone in my life on that path.
@caylinmar39836 ай бұрын
@@MatPandaZ lots of us work very very very hard to manage our triggers & heal our wounds. I am a loving person who makes mistakes, just like everyone else. Bpd is a disorder that stems from horrific childhood trauma & it makes me sad to see how stigmatized & misunderstood it is, & how often people avoid getting help or don’t have proper access to support. I’m very sorry to hear that your experience with people who suffer from this has been so unfortunate.
@stephengalindo63406 ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly
@revallmccalla34633 ай бұрын
I am willing to bet Caleb was not ready to rationalize with someone with BPD. As a psych RN I speak with them everyday and it is taxing. Without understanding and a therapeutic mindset, you can easily get sucked into the trauma and adopt a caretaker role which only harms you both. The negative is that she is very pretty which will validate and reinforce her victim mentality and prevent her from changing. I feel for her and I hope that Caleb was able to decompress appropriately after this episode.
@Fabmels8 ай бұрын
Caleb, I know it isn’t your fault that she made no sense and had no intention to learn about her finances, but please, add something to the vetting process where you can at least get an estimate of consistent income. This episode and last episode, people didn’t know how much money was coming in and that is just no way to start a financial audit. To me, this girl just came for a plug in.
@wedgearyxsaber8 ай бұрын
These are types of episodes are entertaining to me because drama but at the same time, it's unethical to invite guests like this on because it promotes and maintains the idea you can use this show for nefarious purposes, and because of that, I have to stand by and say it muddles the point Caleb tries to make on this show by diluting the guest percentage of serious versus those looking for attention/handouts/sugardaddies
@timberthus25628 ай бұрын
He said in the beginning that usually he wouldn’t have had her on the show since she didn’t send any financials to him. But everyone else cancelled because of the holidays.
@estebansanchez58018 ай бұрын
Agree. Seems like the guest are getting progressively worse and Caleb is just bringing in people for merely clicks and not to help
@wedgearyxsaber8 ай бұрын
@@estebansanchez5801 I think the MWF release schedule is pressuring him to find enough interviews, else he fails that, even though I'd prefer him to do 2 or even 1 weekly if it meant he got meaningful guests who are struggling and not disrespectful to Caleb's show and to himself.
@KaylaMarie_8 ай бұрын
@@wedgearyxsaberi agree. I wouldnt mind less audits if it means better guests
@denisserocha79538 ай бұрын
The audacity for her to say “give me more money” when Caleb asked how he can help her.
@Slack3r4Lif37 ай бұрын
I audibly gasped a little when she said it a second time
@AlcianBlue88 ай бұрын
This is textbook BPD. Chaotic personal and professional relationships, impulsivity, extreme sensitivity to perceived rejection, splitting/black and white thinking and exaggeration, inability to process nuance, and severely disordered identity. There is no purpose in doing an audit until she gets the help and tools she needs. Recovery is possible and is the only way forward.
@nick11nick328 ай бұрын
BPD is barely a real thing. Most people just need discipline and the drugs they’re given just fuck them up more
@jordanaultman84238 ай бұрын
I am like her and not sure what to do because BPD can’t really be medicated.
@AlcianBlue88 ай бұрын
@@jordanaultman8423 Long-term therapy is the most important, especially Dialectical behavioral therapy. Medication can be helpful for many of the common comorbidities. Also, research suggests BPD commonly improves dramatically with age, especially between 30-40.
@twixieshores5 ай бұрын
@jordanaultman8423 therapy. *years* of therapy. I started in 2014, and in 2023, i finally no longer meet the criteria for BPD.
@kiyavi7 ай бұрын
My mom had Bipolar 1. I’m only halfway through, but she reminds me so much of my mom before she was correctly medicated (both her life experiences and her thought processes). I genuinely hope that she gets the right medications for her figured out soon (unlike my mom, who only got the right prescriptions after 20 years of manic and depressive swings).
@cosmopolitan40435 ай бұрын
Same with the my mom. 30 years. Cycles every 3 weeks on the dot. Prayers for your mom. It’s awful to watch.
@kainenable8 ай бұрын
She straight up said "give me money", in what universe would that ever work on Caleb? Getting her to be honest is like trying to squeeze blood from a rock.
@lisa-marielechthaler34158 ай бұрын
he was just about to do it. he was almost gonna buy her the ticket
@lisa-marielechthaler34158 ай бұрын
@@Jake38nine thats why i was so shocked when caleb said he was gonna buy it. luckily he didnt
@IrcnStark8 ай бұрын
I thought I had misheard her because I'm sleep deprived. Girl straight just came on this show for a handout, yikes.
@austinjacobsen76898 ай бұрын
Finally got to that point. Holy, did she straight out ask for Caleb to financially support her??!! Yikes!
@wtfschmuck8 ай бұрын
BPD is rough for both the person with it and their loved ones... But yeah, if you're not used to being around someone with it, it can feel like they're pranking you 😂
@jaredarmstrong3857 ай бұрын
I genuinely thought she was trolling
@sarahko10147 ай бұрын
Stop i felt that in my soul. This video needs a trigger warning💀💀💀
@mostpassiveuser89045 ай бұрын
Her BF ended himself. I'm sure she played a role.
@wtfschmuck5 ай бұрын
@@mostpassiveuser8904 hi! That's a very fucked up thing to say about people you don't know. Regardless of her mental health and her actions, she is not responsible for the actions and feelings of other people. That's just incredibly uncompassionate to people who have died by suicide, survived attempted suicide, and their loved ones.
@nybrotherman7 ай бұрын
Imagine your daughter admitting to being a sugar baby... a bad sugar baby that gets abandoned at hotels and displaying how mentally ill she is on a finance show...
@RhysDaRyda8 ай бұрын
" i like, know about the brain..." im 14 minutes in. and I promise you, of all guests, this one knows the least about the brain. The fact that her backup plan is to be a psychiatrist is WILD , as long as she "knows enough, like, to dispense medicine" after being an actor. This could become dangerous for vulnerable people, if she does somehow become licensed
@cheerbeerification8 ай бұрын
Her personality will likely result in her not being able to complete med school, much less get an undergrad degree. She can't even hold down a grocery store clerk position. I'm not worried about her ever getting licensed. If she does, it'll likely be because of intensive therapy and personal work and then problem solved.
@YouMissedBro8 ай бұрын
Psychology is the sick treating the sick. There have been studies done that something like 70% of therapist and psychiatrists have a mental disorder. She will fit in perfectly.
@wedgearyxsaber8 ай бұрын
You need to be either extremely smart or dedicated to join the medical field and she is neither, so need not worry.
@wuki93358 ай бұрын
I don't think she could even come close to passing a pre-requisite science class for medicine. She is an early teen in an adult body.
@taylorschleusner8 ай бұрын
Hi, just finishing up med school myself. Don’t worry she will never be a licensed MD/DO. She would never be accepted, let alone finish med school.
@GPatch8 ай бұрын
I’m about 15 minutes into the episode and I can’t stop laughing Caleb this is almost as if it is a prank this person is so all over the place you haven’t even actually gotten to anything financial yet
@Missy28588 ай бұрын
I thought I was the only one this is a mess
@DJx79x8 ай бұрын
I’m just going to be Idris Elba but I’ll go to law school as a fall back.
@timberthus25628 ай бұрын
Like he said in the beginning, everyone else cancelled. This girl was literally plan Z lmao
@cbyt87598 ай бұрын
I was laughing my ass off and made a comment at the same time stamp lol
@Judep42378 ай бұрын
It’s chaos
@ImOriginallyGreen8 ай бұрын
This is textbook B P D. It explains nearly everything that’s “happened” to her and why she frames it for us the way she did. It explains the grocery store fiasco, the weird non-bf she mentioned at the beginning (I bet there’s way more to the story she’s not telling us), the parents “not supporting” her yet paying for everything, the bf suicide
@kimberly81858 ай бұрын
Yes!!
@lunasdawghaus63398 ай бұрын
I knew someone just like her who told almost the same exact lies
@turtleanton65398 ай бұрын
Yes
@MrSlowestD168 ай бұрын
I don't think there's anymore to that non-bf story, she called asking to stay with him when she lost her stuff, he figured it was a quid-pro-quo and got them a motel room, when he found out she wasn't putting out, he left. Gotta remember she's been sugar daddy hopping around for who knows how long, so a lot of these potential boyfriends or male friends are just looking for a lay. But yeah, it does sound like the symptoms of BPD for sure. How does the bf suicide thing factor into it though? Just the trauma from that, or do you think she was lying?
@ImOriginallyGreen8 ай бұрын
@@MrSlowestD16 I think youre right on the weird bf. Though she’s not taking any responsibility for her role in that incident because like you said she’s been sugar daddy hopping. With the bf suicide, it’s just another example of an unstable relationship in her life. Dude must have been dealing with mental health issues as well.
@jairochavez52633 ай бұрын
I had an ex girlfriend, who would read something online and she would believe it just because it was the first thing she read instead of doing more research. She would also get corrected at work she wouldn’t like it and walk off, later she would claim she got fired. She would self diagnose her symptoms. I later found out she was all messed up from the drugs she was doing. This girl reminds me so much of her. She also claimed to be homeless but she was kicked out of her dads because she would have parties where her dad was getting kicked out so she was forced to moved with her mom, but she was “homeless”. All just lies to claim the victim.
@brittneyscriven61068 ай бұрын
The moment she said "I have borderline and bi-polar." I knew this was going to be difficult. Magical thinking is one of the things that happens with bi-polar.
@SharidanSings8 ай бұрын
Unfortunately yes, and she was lying alot and trying to manipulate. I have Borderline personality disorder and I use to be alot like that (except I was an undiagnosed teen when I was like that) she seriously needs more help when it comes to the mental health aspect of her life. Hopefully she'll find a medication and help that works for her.
@bowtiesandfood6 ай бұрын
And borderline is incredibly difficult /:
@stephengalindo63406 ай бұрын
And the manipulation coming from BPD.
@ducciwucci5 ай бұрын
you don't even know how to spell bipolar brittney.
@mikoajkosowski17505 ай бұрын
Bipolar disorder is severly overdiagnosed these days, especially in people with personality disorders. I've seen a lot of patients with double diagnosis over my 4 years of psychiatry residency and to be honest I highly doubt any of them were actually bipolar. I'm not saying it's not possible to have both but majority are just having personality disorder and they cling to the idea of being bipolar to avoid taking responsibility for their actions.