She Wants a High Value Man, But HATES Being Accountable - Can You Ever Please a Woman?

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[@ogarzabello]

No man says: I'm going to the USA, Canada, or the UK to find a good wife. They say: I'm going to Latin America, Asia or Eastern Europe to find a good wife.

[@acornsucks2111]

To make an attempt.

[@Mike-cq6wr]

Nows day that modern women culture is almost everywhere but less than US, Canada and Europe.

[@Hurkuhntreeks]

Sorry, social media has ruined them too. I’ve been to all of those countries. They’re even worse in some ways. I’ve done it all and now I will see a prostitute who is high end and clean once in awhile. Gets me by. But I went from being in debt with a GF to having dozens of cars and properties staying single for the last decade❤

[@CarlosLemans]

Latinamerica and a good wife? Looks like you never visited LATAM, LATAM and eastern countries are more and less the same, low quality people is everywhere in each gender.

[@Champwsox05]

I'm going to Colombia.

[@Timothy_Trottier]

When we speak these boundaries, they tend to call us toxic

[@charlesmerchant4762]

To all Witches, masculine men with backbone are indeed Toxic to them. She can yield no power if you are in the room. Her only chance left is to seduce you.

[@alansantos6142]

If you get called toxic or insecure for it, that tells you all you need to know. There is definetly going on with her and needs the guidance and your wisdom for it. With time, she doesn't understand and continues "messing up", she's done. You have every right to leave that situation. It's on your grounds or nothing.

[@coldlogic800]

At least the toxic females will call themselves out by doing so.😅

[@SGTSLACKASS]

They call us controlling and abusive.

[@katemiller7874]

No. A marriage is when you compromise. Not your way or the highway that’s a dictatorship

[@cdrmt3229]

It is unbelievable how skillful they are in blaming someone else and/or explaining away their bad decisions and poor behaviors. Never able to take accountability and responsibility. Never.

[@niallfitzpatrick6568]

Feminism has taught them from their teens.

[@TheWayoftheWolf]

Skills they have developed over a lifetime of avoiding accountability

[@Exxeron-ob3tv]

Generations of research, development, and field testing passed down from parent to offspring. The male side has been basically dismantled through the single mother pandemic leaving an imbalance.

[@booty4801]

@@cdrmt3229 Narcissism

[@AncientYouth64]

Accountability= Kryptonite to women

[@jestubbs69]

Ooooh my now ex wife of 17 years squirmed, squealed and wailed when being held accountable! 😂

[@AncientYouth64]

I had to visit a female friend in hospital the other day, she nearly died but it looks like she will pull through......the doctors were amazed they'd never seen a woman survive taking accountability before

[@rvh1999]

​@@AncientYouth64 LOL 😂

[@ElearningDigest]

Children avoid adult accountability. Make of this what you will.

[@starguy2718]

​@@AncientYouth64😄😄😄

[@TheShospitali]

A high-value man is emotionally mature, he communicates honestly and openly with you and expects the same from you. He does not lie, cheat, or betray you. There is no space for ghosting or mixed signals, he is consistent and reliable. He tells you what he wants and needs and respects what you want and need.

[@dugnice]

Define "high value man". If a woman only wants a man because of what he has, is HE high value or what he has? Plenty of women have married richen and killed them to inherit their wealth.

[@mohithart3824]

I don't know much but I can tell, men who are successful in relationships are the ones who know how to play the game.

[@GSK4EVER]

Even average men should demand accountability. Don’t tolerate anything less men.

[@sakilahmed6788]

Exactly, why label man's values with materialism. If you're healthy, no big diseases, working and trying to fix life. Basically struggling men also have value till they are trying in life. This elite class people shouldn't label society.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

I concur. You teach people how to treat you. Put another way, we get what we tolerate. I have been with the same woman for decades. I am willing to forgive mistakes, and the OCCASIONAL bad day. But I have no patience left for disrespect.

[@ronmexico5908]

I bet a lot of the women looking for a HVM think it’s going to fix their low self esteem. Somehow they will absorb the efforts of his work and feel whole. You can’t fix what’s broken on the inside until you address it. Parasiting off a guy is a temporary emotional fix for lazy women

[@scotttracy9333]

I doubt they think a HVM will make them whole. They just want the financial benefit of having one, so they don't have to work and take it easy

[@tamasgyorffy1]

lazy = broken . Agree with this observation very much. They expect the self-development effort to be done by someone else. Cool, but that will develop only the person who went the distance, not the parasite.

[@alansantos6142]

This is the mistake I did. Just jumping to the relationship because I wanted her to be mine,, but I didn't consider to call out first her guy friends, attitude towards thing, goals, etc... As a person, I needed to set those boundaries and I didn't. I know I'm not that high value (I just go to gym) but there's still a standard you know? My guy, you are my saviour.

[@AnthonyArgyros]

You learned. That is a W

[@RocknJazzer]

@ludakris6688 ok bro, my dude, my man

[@alansantos6142]

@ludakris6688 I'm not changing my entire vocabulary and personality to please anyone. Saying "thanks" is too bland for me and I rather be this way than be what you call high value. Tried playing the nonchalant and it's just not me.

[@alansantos6142]

@ludakris6688 You say there's a problem over my generation over my choice of vocabulary? You don't know me at all. And yeah this generation sucks, so many things wrong🤣 Its not the best or any reason good but that's just an odd thing to say over that.

[@alansantos6142]

@ludakris6688 There's a reason we are both in this page, we are both connected in some way at least. We know what's happening...

[@ArmyWolves]

Kevin Samuels said it too... attracting, getting and keeping a high value man is a full time, stressful job... Has lots of benefits but its still work.

[@farmersjt]

"I m sorry. I was wrong, and you were right. From now on I'm going to listen to you intently because i reapect you as my man." Words that have never passed a woman's lips since the beginning of time.

[@ayeinbc9327]

that is sad. but i'm getting the impression that many women and men are starting to learn via more compassionate YT channels that saying those beautiful words ( you wrote) to each other (because Irespect you as my man/ cherish you as my woman) are gold in a healthy relationship

[@jamesbickle4912]

The first time I told my girlfriend/wife, "I was wrong. And you were right, she was shocked beyond belief. She didn't know what to say. She'd never heard it before.

[@ayeinbc9327]

@@jamesbickle4912 wow thanks for sharing. the first time probably was not easy to do, takes courage and humility. you led by example and I guess she followed your lead.

[@jamesbickle4912]

@@ayeinbc9327 Thanks for the nice comment. Once you start saying it, it gets easier and easier. The older I get, the more I have learned having an ego doesn't do much of anything for you. Let other people get credit. Give credit to others freely and often. If you are high value, you will get credit back in many ways.

[@ayeinbc9327]

@@jamesbickle4912 may i suggest you should start a yt channel to teach your own experiences, especially useful for younger men:)

[@Late60sMusicFan]

Excellent video about boundaries and standards. You don't have to be high value to have your own set of standards. All men should.

[@Brian_Boru]

I don't know who edits these videos and does the gif inserts but there's a great sense of humor at work there.

[@tam8479]

I am a 60 old woman with somewhat old fashioned values. I agree with many things you discussed on your channel. Anyway, many women, including the one in the video, see "accountability" as a form of control.

[@Inflator82]

You can tell straight up she's troubles.

[@CeeT-wg3hz]

Good! No sympathy for these modern women at all!

[@bigscores7237]

Was it the uptalking histrionics, the thousand-rooster stare or the road-worn face?

[@tamasgyorffy1]

Absolutely :) :)

[@bigscores7237]

Women who get with the high value man who suddenly can't adjust to what were basic and unquestioned norms for thousands of years are no different from a feral dog that's run wild and can no longer be domesticated.

[@dannylin5980]

This should be in the Bible

[@globalnomad1221]

fact is most are not to be taken seriously

[@glicmathan1771]

A HVM lives his life as such regardless of how he may or may not be viewed by other women. There will always be men better looking with more money, for instance. But that is irrelevant to YOU and your standards and boundaries. You don’t need to spin plates (aka chase multiple women and waste excessive time on them) to be your own successful version of yourself. Ignoring women with confidence is the easiest way to be attractive to many of them. Be your own best version of yourself and opportunities with women will find you eventually, even if you happen to live in a desert with few prospects. A red pilled man isn’t fixated on women and dating. He may have seasons with lots of dating or none at all, but he’s resolute and strong within himself, and that’s what he naturally projects outwardly to other men and women.

[@loseerich493]

They want to have their cake & eat it too. Eventually almost all of them find out (usually when they hit the wall) that dog doesn't hunt.

[@zinknot]

I will never be with a woman that is doing those things in the first place. Why would you waste the energy when you can find a woman already in line with what you want?

[@UpInYourGrills]

Desperation, simping, etc.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

Simple. Because coming across women of quality is not so easy. Better still to stay on your grind, and they will find you (and many low quality women as well).

[@Daniboy370]

You sir are one of the valuable channels on KZbin nowadays

[@RealGaryGibson]

When I stepped off the plane in Manila, I became a high value man living on my social security check.

[@mensaswede4028]

Why any so-called high-value man would bother putting in this kind of effort to have a woman in his life is beyond me.

[@web3wizard381]

its because he was raised by a narcissistic mother and is still trying to "fix" his mother thru the girls hes dating

[@RobertoSanchez-rz4qv]

A woman starts World War 3 - “It’s your fault because you work away and don’t give me enough attention!”

[@lagoonlane]

The woman in the video isn't complaining. She's making other women aware that high value men require women to up their game. That's all. Watch the whole video.

[@peterharvey4151]

Good talk Rick..Basically guys, Live your life Levelled Up, hold your Frame, when it comes to women..sometimes the juice just isin't worth the squeeze..peace brothers

[@stevec3526]

On top of that, she clearly has hit the wall.

[@acornsucks2111]

She is scary.

[@storytimedavidcollins2897]

Thanks again Rich for helping us to make ourselves happy and better for the excellent knowledge that you shared.

[@thomasauslander3757]

High Value Man should ask: Where is the most favorable divorce courts..

[@menguardingtheirownwallets6791]

A 'wise' high-value man never, ever gets married, he only lives together with the vvoman in a place that does not have commonlaw-marriage laws. If he's a high value man and he gets married then he's an idiot that will soon lose a large chunk of his net worth.

[@FrancisFCopp]

Been single and doing the dating thing for 4 years after a 17 year marriage. Have had women that I could tell were really into me end things suddenly for no apparent reason. Recognise now that at least a couple of them were selecting themselves out because they knew they couldn’t live up to the basic accountability standards I would expect of them. Or because they knew I’d get bored with them after a few months (one actually said this). At the time I tried to reassure her (what else could one do) but looking back I can see she was probably right. I think some women are big fish in small ponds and are not aware that the top of one social ladder is the bottom of the next one….until they find themselves it and panic. Blow to the ego i think.

[@obstinatejack]

sup bro, it's been a while since i last binge watched your stuff, it's good to catch up with you again. i've learned how to take my own stand, but it's still good to see how you negotiate what you want so articulately. i would of botched the negotiation if i were in that kind of situation.

[@charlesmerchant4762]

Why is she looking for a HVM? She is inherently a robber. This is why she has many men on speed-dial. She uses his value to rule over him thru a Wife Cosplay.....until her claws dig deep into him. Then she strikes...

[@kevingillard5474]

Whoa Bro! You are absolute zero cold truth dropping!!!

[@Arejen03]

Accountability is like explaining a color red to a blind from birth person to them.

[@Exxeron-ob3tv]

It is not a lack of understanding. It is that they feel it is of no use to them. That changes the instant they actually want an man and realize homie don't play that.

[@MANDING0]

Women complain no matter what

[@HemiMike]

Your last line hit hard after 14 years of marriage.

[@js3602]

Well said, couldn't be more clear. Love the 911 Turbo S!

[@frankielyman8769]

It’s true, a woman don’t want to be held accountable. This one girl slept with 16 men before 25 years old. Not including other sexual experiences. It’s very arduous to not let her past , knowing what type of men she’s been with, not affect me. It makes me absolutely disgusted . Any advice or has anyone gone through this ?

[@LifeIsBrief]

@@frankielyman8769 Advice is get away from it. Do not engage with her. You’ll never feel good about what she’s done in her past and you’ll never trust her in the future. And that’s most likely for good reason because women who are like that tend to stay like that.

[@Jasiel.95]

I listened to your book through Speechify, it was good. I will have to return to it for more thorough detail and certain aspects. Thank you for writing it.

[@danieltaylor1494]

If they give you shit about going away their girlfriends and try to give you an ultimatum, tell her to go ahead. Just know this: the door is unlocked on your way out, but it will be locked when you come back. Don't ever tolerate that shit.

[@Jagshemasher]

When getting to know a girl, if she is the type of girl who has done the all girls vacations in Vegas or Cancun or keeps tons of men "friends" then this is probably not the type of girl you really want to get involved with as she already has proclivities for the type of behaviour that means if she wants to be involved with you she will have to give something she likes doing and to "control herself" and that will likely take more control than she has and it will lead to grief.

[@chrisharris6462]

I am far from being a HVM, but i would rather be single & celibate than lower my standards and compromise my self respect for the typical modern womban. Drizzle Drizzle

[@JohnSmith-ij4xe]

I have to repeat myself in order for women to get it so what you say is totally true. When they try to fix themselves to your standards it’s only temporary to trap you. Always believe a woman who they are before you have to set boundaries. If they mostly meet your standards before the boundaries are set that’s who they really are and will and can handle your boundaries.

[@ayeinbc9327]

you are right. some is to trap , but many it's to please the man. she compromises and does what she normally doesn't do hoping to please him so he'll like her/pick her...this is a symptom of low self worth for both men or women. this in the end will result in her having resentment which leads to problems.

[@stevewarren4292]

A man backs out of a parking spot and strikes another parked car. He says, "Oh! Great! Look what I've done!" A woman backs out of a parking spot and strikes another parked car. She says, "Look what that idiot did to my car! Why did they park there!"

[@TheJustinShowAndCo]

She either is accountable from the start to what you deem acceptable, or she isn’t. Hissy-fits only happen when she wasn’t willing to be that level of accountable from the get-go, or when she doesn’t truly view you as a high value man. I think it should also be said that the definition of high value man varies from woman to woman. Rich covers the basics, but there are also many other forms of perceiving high value apart from money/influence etc.

[@michaelhunsinger8351]

Well said Rich. This is a lot of EIC videos condensed into one.

[@BobRooney290]

if she thinks he's high value, then he's already moved on and so should she. it's called chemistry and compatibility for a reason.

[@morgsam900]

Good stuff Rich

[@Vibethelife]

I was with a woman for 2 half years. She just recently broke it off coz she wanted to have a home together in the future and wanted me to visit more. I hate long distance driving so always refused as I knew I couldn't keep it up. She lives 2 hours away and has a daughter. She would come down cook clean She was great. I was video calling once or twice per day after 4 months being together. She broke it off by saying I love you so much but I'm tired about the driving and want more. I just couldn't see a future with her living together giving up my flat as I enjoy my alone time. She was pulling away at the end coz I didn't want it to progress. I'm not sure if it was the video calls that did it as we both loved seeing eachother and it lasted 2 years. Great girl just heartbroken that she demanded more after she stated in the beginning she enjoyed the drive and the cooking. I just enjoyed going abroad making memories together and having space away from eachother. Feel so lost now.

[@dertechniker8867]

I have made the same experience. But we lived only 1h from each other. She wanted a future with us together but to be honest, deep in my heart I'm a loner and I didn't wanted to give up my space, liberty, apartment. We loved each other so much but we separated. I needed some month but finally it was the right decision. Go on with your life buddy ✌🏻

[@splashmoby]

She pulled away once she saw you were weak for her. Move on, there's no shortage of supply out there.

[@markt2398]

Funny, met a younger girl last night at a party-she's 25, moderately attractive. She's a perpetual student, currently in law school because her grandma wanted her to but doesn't want to practice, nannies for money right now. She kept going on about how she just wants to find a rich husband, assumedly to pay off any student debt as well. Of course he can't be too old, never mind most wealthy men are older. It was painful to listen to her talk-nothing of interest there. I feel for these younger guys now and glad I had my fun-I'm 46 now and it was easier back then, no dating apps, ettc. It always brings to mind a line from the first Alien movie from Ash when it comes to young dudes trying to date. "I can't lie to you about your chances...but you have my sympathies".

[@splashmoby]

Don't bother with such girls, leave them be and move on to others.

[@jbh5294]

all women slag off their ex boyfriends and blame them for the break up

[@ayeinbc9327]

and a high value woman (which means she has integrity, intelligence, empathy/kindness, modest ways ...not just hot looks) will also set high standards for men because she sets high standards for herself. she will also have boundaries. sometimes boundaries may clash and a high value man and a high value woman would work as a team to figure out and see if there is a middle ground. a high value woman understands that if she and the man are very misaligned in relational needs and wants and in lifestyle, it is better for the both of them not to be in the relationship.

[@BrianWaller-qe7gr]

I kind of disagree. As a guy that doesn’t have a lot of dating options, I still won’t put up with shit. I told a church girl playing mind games to kick rocks. This hurt but it had to be done. I just ghosted a chick who tried to play mind games. I’m at the age where I’m content on being alone. I’ll dismiss you at even the slightest hints of impropriety

[@Andrew66632]

🎵 All I want to do in the middle of the evening is hold you tight, Rosanna, Rosanna. I never thought that a girl like you could every care for me 🎵 -Toto Love classic rock and oldies. But man, oh man. The lyrics really were fallacy based. Fairytale. Women aren’t sugar and spice.

[@iammaxwellcole]

💯💯💯 well said. High value men have different standards. Raise your standards men.

[@dwocelot6913]

I want your success. I want your money. I want your opportunities. I want your social circle. But I want my guy friends, my bestie exes, my girls' trips, my girls' nights out, etc., etc. You can't make this shit up. They're entitled children.

[@nightguy5967]

Women always looking for the easy way. There's no such, it's called being an adult... Every choice has a downside

[@tiakennedy1681]

Date respectable high quality women if you want those who will be holding themselves accountable.

[@sakilahmed6788]

There's no high quality women. Its a myth. If we're able to dig down past, every girl is same.

[@Victhemighty]

Respect is earned not given and every woman thinks she is a hvw so how is he supposed to know? I swear women never have anything of value to say

[@davidkazakov6232]

Russia used to have traditional family values but its quickly catching US. And that considering that number of women is significantly higher than men, russian women overall are beautiful and caring etc. The main problem is social media stereotypes, and because of that crazy high requirements to men. They think that they deserve is 6' ft, athletic, charismatic, caring, supporting, listening, no baggage, generous, financially well off man, with own house etc. etc. man, and somehow woman deserves all that just being an average woman. And age discrimination for women is kind of brutal in Russia, after 32-35 its pretty tough for women to find anyone for long-term relationship

[@rambultruesdell3412]

She wants the status, the privileges, and the bragging rights to her BFFs 😅.

[@kevingillard5474]

But won't put skin in the game let alone accountability

[@JoeDough-s5g]

Accountability??? no no no my girl has none

[@randys967]

Half of America believes that the S&P 500 value is down for the year. This is possible because that half of America has no pressing need to be accountable to reality. This problem is not confined to just women. Focus on bettering yourself, only let people who hold themselves accountable to themselves in your life, and you’ll keep the wrong women out as well as the wrong men. Let people who live in self-delusion have their own problems.

[@GBU61]

The beauty of being high value is he never has to choose. If he has the balls to select a woman in the West, he gets to set the terms and if she doesn’t like it, she can go find another man.

[@Steven-nd1pz]

The problem with setting boundaries is that many women will comply, but their hearts aren't in it. Their old habits are still there, and will resurface long term. The 'you teach people how to treat you' advice is overly simplistic.

[@Thechosen77]

going thru a break up and I am a little upset, but I do consider myself high value and I have high standards, I don't have many cars or millions of dollars, but I know skilled trades and im also an architect.. i generate good money, I also have properties here and in Mexico that are worth a lot, so if a woman disrespects me, she will get a taste of her own medicine...

[@theapocalypsechronicles3]

Rich with a white board explaining how to be accountable ....😂😂😂😂😂

[@Hrod78]

Also you have to get good at saying "NO".

[@EmmanuelAgyapong-jn6ue]

Good question, can a woman have guys friends that are your friends too? Like, your friends being introduced to her and become friends especially if we are all engaged? Thanks!

[@AlekseiR]

I think some people might say it differently but I think most would say: No way in hell. If a woman really loves you and wants you, she should really not need any other man's attention. Period. And don't think that just because you know the other guy, you are safe. Even though he might not betray you, the mere fact that she has eyes for another dude, should tell you all you need to know.

[@AlekseiR]

I mean don't get me wrong. Its normal that all of you get along and like each other în your group but solo time, chatting on apps or any of the sort should have no place between men and women who are in a relationship with someone else

[@sod172]

HVM: Supply vs. demand. If demand exceeds supply, the supplier will get capricious. Accountability: You hold women accountable by your reactive actions. Talk leads to nothing.

[@suttonfarms2343]

6:30 min mark.....yes. I've made the mistake of reasoning and explaining to partners until I was exhausted and explained it repeatedly. It just never works. Rich is totally right - draw your line in the sand, state your case and then step back. If the woman leaves or crosses the line, so be it. Move on.

[@FrancisFCopp]

Some women are big fish in small ponds and are not aware that the top of one social ladder is the bottom of the next one….until they are exposed to it. It’s like yeah, you’re not in the minor leagues anymore darls, the rules are different. Some will step up, most won’t.

[@tamasgyorffy1]

Either you choose a woman who learned and applied adequate standards from familiy , father, etc, and its integrated. No chance otherwise to obtain what you can accept.

[@dannylin5980]

1:50. Keeping male friends around hit home, less risk the better. I love girls with no guy friends, hard to find, but u knw what? It’ll be worth it in the long run. If the girl I date has male friends or keeping them around. Ur inviting trouble for the unforeseen future.

[@gibau1000]

What's the best way for a man that will never be a HVM to conduct himself?

[@your_royal_highness]

The word “accountability” cannot be translated into Womanese. Sorry.

[@malimalimali210]

Man here but i must say it: That makes life happy and interesting , Women , there is and will be enough space for everyone. otherwise people would be like robots.

[@katemiller7874]

She’s saying high value men aren’t loving? My husband is very loving and treats me wonderful. She’s with the wrong high value man.

[@MarinaM-o6p]

A “ high value man ALWAYS comes with TONS OF BAGAGE “ ….ITS A NO . 🤷🏻‍♀️😁

[@juliangrandpiano]

She needs to see more "value" in a man, than merely SMV. There's a world of intrinsic value beneath the iceberg tip of "perceived value". Perception is limited, knowing from discovery is limitless. Her only "hard-wiring short-sightedness", if she doesn't go digging deeper, is ""her attraction purely to the extrinsic qualities"". If she can't/won't go digging, it won't last, and will be solely based on fantasy, not reality - hence split.

[@CarlosLemans]

With the engine turned off the audio will be way better...

[@jurgschupbach3059]

Image and Lifestyle u know........

[@karaoke888]

They want to have their cake and eat it too!

[@KevinLi_]

Hi Richard where can I purchase the full version of Alan Roger Curries full video material? Thanks!

[@bulletinvid]

Correct

[@DanaDane559]

Personal opinion- if you are a man or a woman who does not want to be held accountable, do it honestly & stay single. Have friends & have dates, but belong to no one.

[@FrancisFCopp]

Did I miss the bit where she said she hates being accountable?

[@tomrybarski]

Finally some word of reason

[@stevenwelp7165]

I've watched a few of your man-to-man commentaries and while I respect your upfront spreadsheet bottom-line opinions, imho, the "high value" you've totally ignored, thus you're part of the problem and not the solution, is that the highest quality man is actually the man who has sacrificed all the bullet-points you've championed, i.e., net worth, home ownership, career, a McClaren, etc., and rather taken "the road less traveled" to "do the right thing", to "speak Truth to power", to be a change-agent, to "be the change you wish to see", and take the high road of what you may consider "tilting at windmills", to pursue the so-called intangibles, the invisible moral, ethical, spiritual values that have enabled and empowered you to be a free man and to prosper. You're standing on the invisible shoulders of spiritual giants you avoid championing. As a pastor once said to me, a woman should be happy to live with you in a 55 gallon drum if she truly loves you. "It's" about L-O-V-E, not money. So, imho, Change Your Paradigm.

[@PatrickFoley-vf3lr]

Way too much emphasis on how many 'FIGURES' a man makes here. I know many high quality men and almost no one is a millionaire.

[@bigdisme5622]

I don't think Rich ever talks about the real problem even if we do the work and get to the high-value man status the women nowadays at that level aren't even worth getting they're more promiscuous they're more argumentative they're just not worth it anymore I just don't see the point to do the work anymore other than do it for yourself because the women that you get even at that level are just not worth it

[@naveedrehman2987]

Forget about pleasing women. I don’t think you please anyone anymore I’m 2024 except yourself. Too many selfish “people.”

[@JayLuke1234]

Very much on point.

[@costafilh0]

true

[@malihachape]

These are weird times. Women now have many more options than they used to not so long ago, they can make enough money so they can support themselves, perhaps they need some guy to stick around for couple years when she has children, but this guy doesn't necessary need to be classical Beta male. Many men subscribe to this Alpha male stuff, and it is definitely better than Beta male, but in my opinion it is not the solution either. We men need to realize and accept that women in general no longer need us for long term relationships. Especially not good looking women. You can be high value man, alpha man or whatever man, but the reality is that after a while you will just become boring man for any decent looking female that has many other options. So I don't agree with this accountability stuff. Expecting accountability is like expecting women to like you just because you make cool videos while driving cool car. It works for some time, but then the coolness fades off, and there are simply bunch of other cool guys who do other cool things. The smartest thing men can do is to work on becoming high value man, but at the same time give up desires for monogamy, long term relationships, or some accountability. If she wants to go, let her go. I also don't agree with the High Value man definition. Many times it is about perceived value, not about high value per se. You can even be poor, have small social circle, you don't have to have top job, and you can still be perceived as high value man.

[@macioluko9484]

Basically the entirety of Kevin Samuels’ show.

[@sarge27271]

Bud, use LUTEINE 20 Mg a day. Should help your eyesight. 62, still no glasses. Cheers

[@jomorrow1]

I think most women want a man that is at a slightly higher level than themselves. To them that is a HVM and they will try to make him happy up to the point that they aren’t that slightly higher level. Then they monkey branch to the nett man she sees as a HVM

[@clarkkent6927]

I like these car video

[@steelstreet79]

Is this why they settle dowh with beta men and end up being the leader?

[@gregorylatta8159]

I'm not going to put up with BS.

[@ruthlessreid9172]

High value men marry high value women.