How to be PURSUED by Your Specific Person 🔥

[@ShellyBullard]

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[@thegeneralrock86547]

I am honestly DONE with pursuing (vibrationally) anyone, lol. It's time for everyone, including my SP to pursue me. 😅 There is no-one like me on Earth and damn I have so much to give too! 👍🏼

[@ShellyBullard]

yes!

[@thegeneralrock86547]

Also edit: I am a guy, and my SP is a guy too. It works same with us all, it's all energy. 💜

[@arvj123]

@@thegeneralrock86547 we're the same

[@ShellyBullard]

@@thegeneralrock86547 yep. nothing to do with gender.

[@raescream5144]

You got this 💪 your amazing and good enough and deserve everything you intend and desire 💖

[@shiheim]

You give out some of the best information and it’s simple. You don’t make it complicated. It seems so natural when you explain it. Just following your channel I’ve leaned that I’ve been on the right track. It was just knowing how to apply the information. Love your work!

[@ShellyBullard]

thank you so much

[@rhirhi4726]

I took a week off to slow, stop, 're evaluate and give self love to me which is incredibly difficult after countless years of putting everyone else first. However, as I stumbled over your videos Shelly, you are making it so enjoyable and easy to resonate with your words, much appreciated...thank you 💖

[@ShellyBullard]

You’re welcome 💙

[@linda.ll.7744]

Yep. Thanks again. Perfect timing. Stopped myself from anxious contact, opened your channel, and wow! this video popped up like magic.✨

[@ShellyBullard]

✨

[@mirikaufman1132]

Shelly, I feel like I at last had a realization and started to feel entirely different. Bless you!

[@ShellyBullard]

Amazing!

[@angelatricker6630]

I loved this video. Its amazing how you articulated what i couldn't. I literally couldnt work out why my twin was so sexually charged by me sometimes and repelled others. When i whinged and missed him it made me think back to a date i went on with this guy and he chased and it was horrible 😂 thanks 🌹🌸 and yes it works the opposite when my twin hunts me down because he expects me to be available i am horrible and cant get away from him fast enough even though i love him soo much. I just cant handle that energy. That was a light bulb moment ✨️

[@arvj123]

This is like a taste of one of your courses, the cherished and adored one. Love it.

[@ShellyBullard]

Yes. That course teaches how to be claimed/pursued, which is why I love it so much. ;)

[@Princess_dio_33333]

@@ShellyBullard I’m really curious about your opinion dear Shelly :-) How do I know that my SP wants to be dominant like I want him to be? Bc I really feel within i am the feminine woman , but when our relationship first started, I think the effort was matual on both sides. So I’m a bit confused, I think he can be that type of man , so can I manifest him to be that way ?:-) or ? ✨💕🌞 thank you ! I love your persona and all your work. 🧡

[@AnthonyArgyros]

Don’t chase. Attract them and pursue.

[@kazia9875]

“Assertive” is the word that comes to mind when you talk about what the behavior of being pursued with confidence looks like. I love your videos 😍 Thank you for sharing 🤩

[@rubypaul100]

I feel so good when a man pursue me & come & say smthing or do with confidence

[@ShellyBullard]

💙

[@dr.m6152]

This is so true!! I affirmed a few times that they chase me and it felt weird. I love how you always place the focus on reciprocity in your videos because that's what love truly is-it's mutual. I LOVE the concept of pursuing and now I just feel 100% sure and it feels great to trust that he is pursuing me! 🥰

[@loveisreaal]

🔥 we all deserve this ❤️ thank you Shelly!! This is the most beautiful feeling in the entire world.... Can’t wait 💖💖💖

[@ShellyBullard]

yes, we do.

[@amberrgee]

So true. I’ve always felt weird thinking of chasing. Sounds kind of desperate lol

[@ShellyBullard]

exactly

[@luminitalucaofficial]

Deep sense = wow This is speaking to me from the deep I hear this Chasing it feels fearful in fact you feel their fear and then you seek liberty from that prison Pursued I get it now , it means a stable strong rock , a knowing in the deep or we both met in the deep , know we are one . I feel like the man could also be replaced for the universe or clients 😊 The moment I seek I already separate myself from myself which is enough and worthy to receive It took me 7 years to hear what you have been teaching Shelly

[@Z5Z5Z5]

I resonated with that Pursuing vs chasing explanation its wild but its true

[@ShellyBullard]

🙏

[@kaathylou]

It really shows in you that you are a person full of positivity. That’s why i really like watching your videos because i can see that you practice what you preach and it shows because your face is blooming and you have that positive aura. I’m practicing LOA and manifesting. Because my bf recently broke up with me.

[@Nicawe]

Your work is gold! Also so easily accessible, down to the point. Powerful! Thank you!

[@ShellyBullard]

So glad it resonates for you!

[@lrodriguez481]

Thank you for clarifying chasing v pursuing. My impression was it is better to be chased as this means they want you. Knowing the difference sheds new light, allows me to love expansively and embrace my feelings. Thank you Shelly!

[@ShellyBullard]

You’re welcome!

[@angelmusiclover1]

All of your videos have truly helped me change my life for the better. I am super grateful for you Shelly! Sending love your way💞

[@ShellyBullard]

Here's the ebook @angelmusiclover1 love.shellybullard.com/gift

[@JanineBelle1]

Ugh I just realized that I'm the chaser... 😭

[@Z5Z5Z5]

Its okay. It happens, sometimes we don't know and its okay especially if we are a beginner. But now you know. Best of luck

[@lizzieball3795]

Me too. Lol!

[@katherinemccubrey852]

So excited to see if this works with my sp!! Already after a week of watching you I can feel that the men at work want to be near me ☺️😝

[@jessicagonzalez3669]

Chased = yucky Pursued= HOTT 🔥🔥🔥

[@TrangLe-dp8jf]

A very helpful advice! Rather than from many so-called relationship experts just teach people about dating games. Just follow feelings.

[@ShellyBullard]

Yess✨

[@BozolemalgH]

Oh damn ! That's make sense, thx for explaining the difference between chasing and pursuing . I always though it's mean it's always the SP that's should initiate anythin haha

[@marialaganson3091]

U deserve a million views!! 😘 super loved this !

[@ShellyBullard]

Glad you liked it💙✨

[@Lynny1651]

Thank you Shelly , I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your videos, I believe there is a change in me ever since I found your Chanel, defying Chasing and Pursuing has given me such clarity, thank you Shelly

[@rgeorge1536]

For me this is living in the end.... I know he is mine, I know this with deep conviction and that he and I are meant to be. I have yet to shift into we are married state of being. I'll get there

[@TrishaAyshe]

Unrelated but your hair always looks so perfect!

[@ShellyBullard]

haha thanks. I barely do anything to it (including barely brushing it) ;)

[@TrishaAyshe]

Wow lucky you! I have naturally curly hair so I can't get away with that!

[@kimberkattstarz1410]

I love how the idea is to Tell the story as it is!! I like how you explain the feeling of lack and chasing!! I am literally in the vibe of excitement and ownership!! Thank you!! Right here right now it clicked

[@lorib3896]

Love this. Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤

[@valentinanocross8677]

So much more satisfying than doing personal development work. It's the opposite of living in the end. I prefer feeling rather than thinking.

[@ShellyBullard]

I'm a feeler too... I think that's obvious haha! ;)

[@butterflyempress777]

Shelly I feel so fond of your porch videos 🥰 and now that my SP has shown up in my life (after I released my Narcissistic ex husband) It is so incredible 😍 but brought up some fears so I am rewatching these and loving it! Thank you for your beautiful work! 🤗🙏💞✨🦋

[@ShawnFX]

Hahaha oh my gosh I was just thinking of searching a video of Shelly talking about SP and literally 1 second later when I scrolled down this video was on my feed!!!

[@ShellyBullard]

love it!!!

[@ChristineSetTheScene]

The confidence really makes all the difference and it's actually very sexy to feel confident about yourself..... I used to chase a lot but now thanks to you I finally got the hang of it and act more from a place of trust and confidence and its a whole different relationship 😍 thank you shelly

[@djamb117]

Hello Shelly Thank you for the difference between chasing and persueing Really interesting

[@Jewelsessences]

The PROBLEM IS YOU CAN’T JUST “decide” that anyone is “yours” and that they will “like” you or “choose” you. That’s being controlling imposing on their free will. Nobody is yours ppl are not possessions or things you win or lose. Confidence is great but you cannot decide for others. Meeting others & Dating is about exploring not about acting as if you are right for anyone you fancy

[@Harmoniouslevels]

Thank you for this information. I feel more aware about my emotions and how it is combined with various other feelings eventually leading to either being pursued or pursuing

[@ShellyBullard]

you're welcome

[@michelledehaen8997]

Ok I understand the difference now and will practice it ;) Greetings from Belgium, Europe.

[@rosesmith000]

I love this, honestly it resonated with me when I think about training my dogs, basically i've NEVER chased them and they dont run away from me. When they are off leash, they stay be myside until I say 'play' lol ... and as soon as I get down to put their leashes back on they come running back to me, I dont even have to say anything...

[@evelynnfoaeva6148]

This info's pretty wesome, thank you for sharing 😎

[@loredanamunteanu5834]

The most important and necessary video ♥️ I love you ❤️

[@michaelmurray1716]

This video was so spot on what I have been experiencing with my SP..not going to be that way now..thanks to you!!!

[@ShellyBullard]

Amazing!

[@Izna_Fina]

as soon as I started chasing he pushed me away. now we're taking again but I'm coming back from a place of confidence. no nor fear!

[@ShellyBullard]

Yess!

[@NoName-zb1gm]

I was chasing her now I'm pursuing her. I don't know if she changed me or I changed myself but now I talk to her like we're together and I'm confident because I am due to my change and just going for it.

[@cj_369]

You are a very wise one! Welcome to my favorites list!!!

[@ShellyBullard]

Look Out For Larry love it! 🙏🏼

[@egyptianmz]

Thank you for explaining the difference! lovely vid 😁

[@ShellyBullard]

You’re welcome

[@MotivationalDiva]

Thank you I love this dynamic as well. I’m going to implement this

[@ShellyBullard]

Wonderful!

[@arindamdas395]

Thanks for clearing the concept between chase and pursue, I used to thought chased by sp is more kinda interesting from now on i'd think that am pursued by my sp

[@alfarisegail4323]

Hopefully I am working on this aspect this days. Your words are what I want to hear in order to do this perfectly. The fundamental word is confidence. I'm focusing on being pursued rather on pursuing because I noticed that I lack self worth in all my trials of manifestation, I only focused on deeply falling in love with my SP rather than she fell in love with me. Now I want to recorrect the equation. So, do you think that I'm right in my opinion?

[@ShellyBullard]

yes - cultivating confidence will go a long way for you. :)

[@CafeDeDuy]

This makes so much sense with everything I witness and also do on my part. Feeling personally attacked haha But I learned so much!

[@ShellyBullard]

Glad you liked it!

[@rayel8499]

Be cool to see more videos on dealing with the fact that people go through regular bouts of insecurity. I know the answer but would be cool to hear you say you take on that specific fact: ppl regularly feel insecure,

[@jonathan_pphoto8685]

If we’ve made the mistake of going from confident pursuing to falling into insecurity/chasing, is it done or can we switch modes and draw the pursuit back?

[@tristanrossiter6994]

Well that’s where I’ve been going wrong!! So needy.

[@angeg100]

Really enjoyed this.. makes sense. Thank you

[@ShellyBullard]

Glad you liked it✨

[@TheFutureisNOW111]

This is beautiful ♥️

[@annarispo250]

Loved this Shelly thanks so much 💞 have a great day

[@ShellyBullard]

So glad!

[@Pondwelling]

No body explains it like you do!

[@ShellyBullard]

Thank you so much!

[@makaylaracines6836]

Thank you so much!!

[@medzzzzz]

im tired manifesting him. he doesnt change.😅 i will start manifesting new person.

[@ashiruahmad3036]

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together

[@ashiruahmad3036]

±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's work I can't believe

[@ashiruahmad3036]

Wh@tspp him

[@hotband83]

we are a mix of feminine and masculine energy as human beings...but when it's men vibeing with each other, and both have masculine energy/ mainly persuers, it makes the whole dynamic that more interesting, yet it plays out exactly the same,...Men persue men too, esp when we know the vibe is there

[@christinesoto3283]

There's Nothing to chase

[@oliwiajachimowska4090]

Thank you for the video, it makes a lot of things clear for me. 🙏❤❤

[@ShellyBullard]

I'm so happy to hear that.

[@AudreyLuerding]

Yes! I love it toooo👍🏼👍🏼❤️❤️❤️

[@HeyMaryMitchell]

Great ideas! Thank you!

[@ShellyBullard]

You're welcome

[@raescream5144]

Thank you for all your amazing advice . I will be looking into coaching 💓 I have a questions My block I have with. My SP Is they told me I was just a rebound but I know I was much more than that . This just a circumstance ? Any advice to get past this? 💕Much love take care And thank u This

[@ShellyBullard]

Rae Scream if you know you’re not a rebound, you’re not.

[@raescream5144]

@@ShellyBullard thank you you make my day very special just by learning from you . You are amazing ❣️ 💕💕💕💕💕 💕💕💕💕💕 I know I am the love of their life 💓 And sexy as F 😊😊😊

[@meowmeow1stgen668]

This is so good

[@bobmorgan5636]

Self love and confidence above all

[@Lisa_M_V]

Be the lighthouse where the ships move to the light. Attract ❤

[@HelloListenGoodbye]

Shelly I’ve been working on being in a relationship with my sp for a little while now and yesterday I realized a lot of little details I had scripted (going on picnic dates, staying up really late talking on the phone, expressing his love and feelings, showering me in attention and communication, deep intriguing conversations) has all manifested but with another person. What does this mean? I love love your content ❤️

[@ShellyBullard]

It means you're manifesting being treated that particular way... you might have blocks to receiving that from your sp. or it might just be a bridge. keep doing what you're doing.

[@HelloListenGoodbye]

Shelly Bullard Thank you for responding I’m going to continue to shower In self love and I know my manifestation is inevitable ❤️

[@HelloListenGoodbye]

S R I second that haha

[@milenamurray7642]

I’m having trouble with scripting. May I ask how you do it? Is there a certain way? It’s the only technique that hasn’t “worked” for me.

[@HelloListenGoodbye]

Milena Murray The basic premise is to simply write down whatever it is that you desire. They say to write it as if it already has happened. So past tense. You can go into as much detail as you’d like, write your lil heart out. Another practice is to write out all of your resistance on another paper, any limiting beliefs related to your manifestation. That’s pretty much it and keep the belief that it is in fact possible :)

[@kristennicole6602]

Life changing💖

[@035debitadutta3]

U look so beautiful!!

[@ShellyBullard]

Thank you 🥰

[@bg5827]

I was going to ask for more videos about being in receptive mode but after reading some of the comments about women pursuing men as being desperate, doesn’t seem too welcoming and judgmental. I never understood the need for women to tear others down.

[@tinkerbell7435]

Neville told to stay away from people who "charge" you for teaching law. If they were expert they wouldn't be charging you. Because law can get you money out of thin air. What you got to say on this miss Bullard?

[@kindertoob]

interesting lesson there. thanks.

[@VinodKumar-ub8nd]

I am the receiver 🙏❤️🌸🤗

[@999-k3v]

Love from india 🇮🇳♥️✨

[@ShellyBullard]

💙🙏

[@999-k3v]

Ma'am the one I'm pursued girl she said she love someone else Im literally down 😞

[@vivianmontgomery9082]

Shelly, My ex and I are in contact. He made contact with me first back in January. Now he started a little business and I've been supportive of it. He is greatful. Our conversations have been getting better and more open. But he does have an online site and I comment on his stuff. Would it be better for me to step back a bit until he comes to me in the way I desire? Because I certainly don't mean to just establish a friendship with him.

[@nadamohd1029]

I love you Shelly

[@SONARCHIX]

Hi Shelly. You explained it very clearly. Thank you. What if we have self doubts or if we find it hard to trust or to allow other ppl in our life.. how to get over that

[@ShellyBullard]

Self love ;)

[@SONARCHIX]

@@ShellyBullard hahaha well said.. key solution to everything 😃... thank you... I'm learning more every minute and from every experience and it all ready does go down to self love... ❤

[@_SJ]

Namaste 🙏🏻

[@lizarcher1]

My SP said he just wants to be friends but I said no trying to be high value. Now we aren’t together and not friends 🤷‍♀️

[@KandyKoatedKrafts]

His loss!!

[@lizarcher1]

@felicia oost3131 update is we are together now 😂 he came back wanting more then friends

[@bethmc6229]

Shelley, if your man “knows you are his“, why would he continue to pursue you? I’m having trouble understanding this. Once he “has you“, he doesn’t need to “pursue“ anymore? Because he already has you?I have found that when I “give” myself to a man, they lose interest and move on. Why is this?

[@ShellyBullard]

Good question. In our deeper relationship dynamic, my man chooses to continue to earn me... It's in alignment with me (my energy) inspiring him to show up as the best man he can be... which makes him continue to pursue me/ lead me/ date me over and over again. We don't get lazy in our relationship (most people do)... the pursuing doesn't stop even though we're together. This dynamic keeps our polarity (attraction for each other) very strong. The way I'm writing about it, it may sound like a lot of work. But it happens very naturally between him and I... and it's something we both value and consciously choose to create together.

[@bethmc6229]

Shelly Bullard thank you!

[@kali697]

The ENERGY shifts. You GIVE yourself. YOUR rejection fears manifest. Don’t give away your power.

[@rgeorge1536]

@@kali697 could you please elaborate on this

[@rgeorge1536]

@@ShellyBullard love this.

[@haunt_bed]

Hi Shelley, how do you manifest someone to pursue you/have a divine masculine dynamic towards you and keep putting out that vibration when it comes to an ex you've been with a long time - someone who went from divine masculine with you to opposite of that, someone you already have a bit so positive story about because of how the separation went down? Can you do a video on thst please 🙏🏼💖

[@ShellyBullard]

you see/feel/experience them as the Divine Masculine in your imagination

[@newerachannel9418]

I like your presentation

[@SrtaBGoode]

Thanks x

[@myoung6712]

Very good❤

[@ShellyBullard]

Glad you like it!

[@peenumahana4882]

Can I know what do you think ...when you wanna feel like he is pursuing you ?

[@MotivationalDiva]

Peenu Mahana I was thinking the same thing she gave affirmations if you want pursue but not if you wanna be pursued. I was thinking if we changed some the wording she gave for affirmations for being the pursuer to being pursued it might work. Just a thought.

[@peenumahana4882]

@@MotivationalDiva thank you I was thinking that believing and feeling him pursuing me and enjoying the feel would do

[@VAStephie]

How long does it take for your manifestations to come to fruition?

[@Lisa_M_V]

As Neville says it has its ‘appointed hour’

[@sweetsue4204]

Seems I’ve been doing a lot of this right all along, so my foundation is solid. That’s good to know. Thanks for the clarifications on pursuing vs chasing. I’ve done way too much chasing up to now. 😄 How I distinguish chasing from pursuing: Chasing is the anxious feeling of, “I have to do something or he’ll forget I’m out here.” Pursuing is from the knowing feeling of, “I want you. You want me. Wanna play?” 😄

[@ashiruahmad3036]

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together

[@ashiruahmad3036]

±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's work I can't believe

[@ashiruahmad3036]

Wh@tspp him

[@seedo201]

Girls. You have to help your man sometimes

[@Jazzabellable]

I'm 100% the chaser 😭

[@charlierobles316]

Handsome woman

[@samhitaparab]

Hie Shelly, I realized it's more the other way round, I am more calm and confident that he's mine but my sp has an anxious undertone in his actions. How do I change him to pursue me ?

[@ShellyBullard]

Feel and believe in the confident version of him. Love that you're in your confidence. So good.

[@samhitaparab]

@@ShellyBullard oh thank you 💖I am already imagining " his confident self" loving me back!

[@tammyd7278]

Hi Shelly. How do you let a man know you’re his, but also remain a challenge to him?

[@bertagco9154]

Mmmmmmm this has completely eased me ...

[@mgw4205]

Ive been chased, pursued, pushed away, dumped, Divorced and cheated on. Been through It all. All these concepts are pretty much in my opinion female driven terminologies. A little hint to the ladies after a while it gets really old to always have to take the lead or pursue. Sometimes the man needs a break. Its a give and go.

[@anamariamarinayuso5142]

Shelly I need your help, please, I feel confus8, 2 men are on my radar and I trying to manifest one of them super strongly but now I feel confused, I feel like I love both of them. The one I believe is the best for me is 40 and I'm 59 and that's where the whole thing becomes fuzzy, help. The other one has blocked me so wow

[@thornodell8680]

How would I go about it if she blocked me on all social media and then I said I’m letting her go but never actually wanted to let her go?

[@MrTheomighty1]

Can you do this if you want a woman to pursue you, my beautiful little lady and I had a 7 month relationship then the coronavirus hit causing her to walk away and now we are talking again, I would love it if we went from the talking stage to having us back together, any help from you ladies I would really appreciate your points of view, only and hour ago she told me she’d love to meet up with me and this is a lady who said she only gives one chance !!!!!