Treat All Men Like Providers

[@divinegoddess7579]

I must admit she extremely generous with her time and wisdom the amount of information she gives freely is immense

[@pinkpilatesprincess_]

I always say she is like all our fairy godmother

[@silverkitty2503]

yup

[@ehill8926]

She's amazing. I got a free lunch date today. He gave me his ph# & I'll make him wait.

[@iyalana]

@@ehill8926 Hey girlie! Never take a man’s phone number. I always say,” I’m more of a traditional woman, you can ask for mine hun” any man that gives you his number is placing you into the role of the initiator.

[@tamishaifill1138]

It be the same thing repeatedly but it helps it to stick

[@cire155]

As a man I have no problem with this message. Its straightforward and transparent.

[@cire155]

​@KermdoubleO7 I'm far from being a soft man. She is saying what most women won't say because it makes them look like prostitutes. She is keeping real. Side chick vibes

[@jangleerora]

R u single sir 🤣

[@sashafrank5562]

@@jangleerora😂

[@cire155]

@@jangleerora I'm not. I have a beautiful woman at home

[@theycallmemrskelly3575]

"Don't be the maid; be the paid." ~Shera 🙌🏿

[@mariekladis2564]

She's the perfect example of a woman building up other women. Enough treasure & spirituality for everyone. When I start doubting, I just find Shera for the sprinkle✨️ sprinkle✨️ & I am on my path again. Loving her from🌏 Australia 🩷

[@blue75313]

Drizzle drizzle

[@felicitydarville6607]

And Bahamas ❤

[@blue75313]

Lol just watch what you end up with after following her advice 😭🤣😭

[@mirandamiranda4663]

@@blue75313a provider? A man who doesn’t want his woman to be struggling financially?

[@mariekladis2564]

@@blue75313 you can only WATCH 🙃.....

[@vishwajoshi3807]

Ladies she is 💯 right , you are never respected when you start to cook and clean for him and contributing half, you will be always replaced with some who doesn't have to do anything. Because at the end they always like mean girls. Be mean and get the bag and get respected along with that. 😊

[@RubyRoseAzalee]

Yep. They don't like doormats.

[@blue75313]

Drizzle drizzle

[@RubyRoseAzalee]

@@blue75313 you need some money?

[@RubyRoseAzalee]

​@@blue75313you need some money??

[@damoncarlisle644]

This is stupid beyond words. Both the video and your comment.

[@LindaLou-x8f]

I only date finance guys/entrepreneurs/lawyers but this live made me think about expanding to the blue collar men. Let me go take a look😆

[@OziomaAnnieIwuoha]

When you tell your girls your man bought you this and that, I bet you, they're gonna get attracted to him. Because, women are attracted to such kind of things.

[@TravelAlwaysOfficial]

You are NOT telling other women that. You are telling him that you told your girls that. 🤣

[@Emiliah1996]

@@TravelAlwaysOfficialthis. Can’t trust any woman, they will try to get him once they finds out he provides 🤡

[@Heyjennydee]

27:17 she said “drizzle drizzle? Sounds like someone couldn’t pay the water bill” lmaoo 😂😂😂 Shera I truly aspire to be as quick with the comebacks as you one day! 💖👏👑✨

[@freddyfingers2328]

Drizzle Drizzle sad sack

[@Ag11..]

This needs more recognition 😂 she shut down the whole movement with that saying

[@Heyjennydee]

@@Ag11.. agreed! 😂👍💖

[@winninginlife]

drizzle dust...cuz that's all their doing is spreading drizzling dust

[@Dollface2186]

You spoiling us with these back to back videos 😘

[@imabillionairelottowinner]

Shes not spoiling you, she has too much time on her hands.

[@blue75313]

Y'all fools for listening to this female.

[@Dollface2186]

@JESUSWONTHEWAR clearly you have too much time on your hands to be in the comments trolling

[@renatagreer7971]

She has a lot of disposable time

[@blue75313]

@@renatagreer7971 she gone have the BF single forever 😭🤣😭 yea keep listening to her if you want to be a baby mama & not a wife 🤣😭 say hey to pookie for me...

[@RubyRoseAzalee]

splitting bills is Roommates. this Modern "Marriage" is not marriage it's roommates. in real marriage women is in charge of Home and man is in charge of Provision.

[@TravelAlwaysOfficial]

💯

[@gealove3007]

I totally agree with you Candy Walker, the huge issue is that most men these days don’t think like that. I’m 30 years old and I live in Italy. I could date up to 45 y/o max. But to get someone with those traditional values and mentality you have to go to like 60 years old and I can’t do that ._. Any advice ?? I’m struggling to find young men with this provider mentality.

[@RubyRoseAzalee]

@@gealove3007 women set the standard, so if women are selling themselves short some men will go for the low hanging fruit. You need to require it. If they want to be with you, they pay. Period. If you're working for bills you're Single.

[@RubyRoseAzalee]

@@gealove3007 if you get pregnant you can't be responsible for earning money

[@hillsideonly]

​@@RubyRoseAzaleeyou can require it all you want. Lotta young men are dead set on not obliging.

[@ttq9965]

Don’t lay down with NOTHING broke. ❤❤❤

[@brittanythegreat7354]

I screamed when she said "dazzle dust"! 😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@TravelAlwaysOfficial]

🤣

[@GoddessAries]

Nice, another video this week! I feel spoiled lol. Thanks so much for continuously sharing your wisdom with us ✨✨❤️

[@imabillionairelottowinner]

Youre not a goddess haha 😆. You're demon possesed!!!

[@blue75313]

Drizzle drizzle

[@VeganLife-mn1jp]

Loving this look! You look feminine, soft, sweet and EXPENSIVE!

[@ttq9965]

Make sure that the strap on the purse keeps coming loose when you are together. I had one with the bronze clip that connected to a bronze circle. Don’t wear your best clothes and limit your jewelry. Shera is telling you all the truth. When I dated my husband, I got purses, a shopping spree, and jewelry within less than two months of knowing him.

[@Knightkolar]

Shera is true , i have ben make from broke man to my provider , i dont want to work anymore and he pays all the bils , when i dont have money sometimes i cry so now when i mention him i dont have money he automaticly give me with no words and i make him so special becus he give me money and he give me allways so i dont need to work 😅

[@QueenCraftsChannel]

CTFU! Yo Shera be having me cryin’ laughin! That part about men hittin the wall at 16:00 was hilarious 😆🤣😂

[@Scorpiomajesty777]

“Men don’t provide for women they don’t want”

[@Sensei.shonuff]

Men also don't provide for women once they see thru their bs nor to women who dont appreciate what's given to them

[@elsagrakin2570]

Exactly! So it's a win-win situation when they provide.

[@Sensei.shonuff]

@@elsagrakin2570 drizzle drizzle

[@elsagrakin2570]

@@Sensei.shonuff Sprinkle Sprinkle. I'm not mad at you.

[@Sensei.shonuff]

@@elsagrakin2570 don't talk to me time is money n you can't afford to speak to me

[@lolaamazonia5218]

I had to recently get rid of a dusty that said that I needed to pay for the second date and give him sex. Pay! No way he didn't even have car. He said he wanted me to work and not be a housewife. He said " I hope you are not expecting meto pay for you Uber home 😂I ditched him fast and now going with a real provider that ask me "Gucci or Prada you want" 😊

[@JoifulFamily]

Shera taught me so well I got a dusty with no car to spend money on me. He got in my car and I drove straight to the shopping plaza. I still got the video of him swiping that card😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@JoifulFamily]

Gotta be quicker and smarter than them at all times

[@monikaselimovic]

You slay the blonde❤❤❤

[@Workof_art]

I’ve definitely succeeded after watching your channel. Thank you! ❤

[@melawieeinapfel8594]

PLEASE SHERA, make the list with the dusty-questions and what to answer😍🙏🏽

[@FudgeTheGoddess]

I still have so many lives to watch but I'm enjoying the journey with all the wisdom Shera drops❤

[@theworldsmineoyster]

Your husband is funny and sounds like a nice man! Go Shera

[@judithsantillan8858]

I do a lot of photography and I took a really bad picture of him and I put it on my fridge and I said that was my favorite picture of him and I thought he looked amazing and now when he looks at it, he can be happy. I chose him because I’m sure he’s not fond of that picture… there’s a lot of psychology at play

[@TravelAlwaysOfficial]

🤣

[@matalixox]

😂😂😂

[@cdstiojuoo9048]

lmfaooo

[@fbaker1289]

Teach me 😂😂😂😂

[@phillysfitness]

😂😂😂👏🏾

[@judithsantillan8858]

“Get some boxes” my jaw dropped…

[@ravanlp]

I’ve done it, he straightened up

[@elsagrakin2570]

​@@KermdoubleO7Poof Poof.

[@rollinggstonee]

not the steven hawking impersonation 😭 i am on the floorrrr 😭😭😭

[@elperropapo1668]

@sheraseven Blonde is your best look! I'm overwhelmed by the amount of knowledge being poured thu The Chanel in the last 72 hours 💛

[@ThatEmpath]

Now THAT is a perfect blonde! Thank you as always Shera!!

[@estrianatasharossle]

That color blonde ROCKS on our skin. We do it better

[@TravelAlwaysOfficial]

Your jewelry is lovely! Suits you!

[@FDArtistry]

So happy for you Shera😊

[@GodisAyuna]

Start right off so you can miss the dust is a word 😂🎉

[@LindaLou-x8f]

LOL shera chose violence. "i might as well just be with a man" 😭🤣

[@ShelleyChiri-hw9pk]

😂😂😂

[@TheHeartOfStyleOfficial]

50:00 THIS: yes! Exactly-I gave too much. But when I’m getting paid, I don’t care! ✨✨

[@Yogawithadorah]

This wig is so fire ❤❤❤ it’s the year of blonde I’m going to get me one

[@whoisCH3DDAR]

This may be your funniest live.

[@Baghdad22]

Many thanks for your help ❤

[@irishmarie9892]

New subscriber here. The “skin cells” comment made me laugh out loud. 😂

[@dianasunico]

"She Era" the best

[@ShelleyC13]

When I got the boxes, that's when ish got reallllllllll

[@mavshorts1076]

SHERA with the ‘wall and wallet’ comparison is SPOT ON 😂 I’m ☠️

[@cnoor30]

You are gorgeous and thank you for your teachings

[@VeganLife-mn1jp]

Damn you look like a CEO’s wife on the Board of the charity gala!

[@cindyl760]

Okkkayyy let’s not go overboard now…

[@StephSteph5]

Shera is a whole comedian. She said his wallet hasn’t hit the wall 😂😂

[@mirandacoop4131]

Gorgeous 😍 👏🏼👏🏼 Spoke FACTS !

[@elizabethtriggs6380]

SO much game. Thank you ❤

[@rosewatersweettea]

Thank you Shera ✨✨

[@elsagrakin2570]

​@@KermdoubleO7Poof Poof.

[@kiannaspraggans8139]

Dust drizzles😭😭😭😭😭

[@johnnyferguson9052]

Drizzle Drizzle!!😂

[@calimaree30]

New to your channel. Girl… I wish I knew you 20 years ago!! lol better late than never!! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@redleeks6253]

Limp water hoses in tha house

[@nono-tg8dn]

🤣🤣🤣 if I hear drizzle drizzle one more time, this is what I think lmao

[@nono-tg8dn]

@@KermdoubleO7 drizzle drizzle, you just pissed yourself 😂

[@Jesscfkrda]

Looking like a little Cute Angel ❤

[@ji-ah3186]

52:40 my fav part

[@claudiamaria1807]

Just broke up with a man who was perfectly happy smooching me. I should have had this attitude from the get go.

[@VanessaV1111]

🗣️get im while he’s weak😂😂😂

[@ttq9965]

I would be so turned off if saw my guy commenting on this channel.

[@Madison-i3h]

The evil laugh 😂😂😂❤️

[@siennabluerose]

We need a book!🎉

[@georgette.nicole5683]

Is this a joke.. she has SEVERAL books available.. her latest book is linked in the description.

[@siennabluerose]

@@georgette.nicole5683 girl how you know I’m not new to her

[@siennabluerose]

@@georgette.nicole5683 or asking for one specifically speaking on this topic

[@augustbaby8254]

This shhhh is freaking hilarious 😂😂😂

[@catyathiest2015]

you da best Shera

[@makalayoung580]

Another wonderful video❤

[@Jbellz28]

Be a mute 😂😂😂.. is his name Kanye west? 🤣

[@Houseoftherisingsun254]

Dismiss the dust..😅😂😅😂

[@ldub4563]

We ❤ U Dismiss the Dust❣️🤣

[@chel6730]

28:00 ❤ 32:00 43:00 50:30 1:16:07 1:21:20

[@r19888]

My bf doesn’t provide keeps saying to wait and he will be more stable in future . He helps here and there when I need it. But spends on himself aswell

[@MissPurple_333]

On to the next hun💁🏽‍♀️ Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨🥂💜

[@flexgotmops4700]

Leave him

[@xoxo_lilbitt555]

It’s best for them to already have it . People become their real selves after obtaining more. So you don’t know if he’s just settling for you really..

[@herbeautyandthings1009]

Yall need to get in where you fit in, don’t lose a man just cause he can’t spend $ on you. If he not rich or got money then u need to worry about making the money yourself.

[@TshegofatsoRams]

Girl leave him , or start looking for a new one who will help you truly.

[@mandim9410]

If it don’t work out, sue 😂 28:53

[@Gravlykta]

What wig is that one that you’re wearing???

[@JoySpirit888]

God's blessings and healing to all Amen 🍀🤗😇🍀🤗💜💚

[@superpoodlehead]

📦📦📦 The Boxes 😅😅😅 Not saying anything 😅😅😅 if he’s acting stupid, start packing his stuff 😅😅😅

[@asadimma8093]

I agree with speaker

[@trulyb9872]

Barbie gets what barbie wants😂 Ken who!!!!!!😮

[@kelyadibe]

I ask for my teachers number and he say no and that I was too intense 💔

[@MiriamBalladelli]

When does she talk about drizzle drizzle ?

[@Blissedx]

Aint nobody worried about no drizzle drAzzle 😂😂😂😂 But im sure she’ll address when she sees a reason to.

[@user-po5po6pn8o]

They're calling you fools for thinking you can manipulate men and not realizing they are on to it and are exiting the serious relationship market. Feminism destroyed dating and the family unit. The west is in decline and this is at the heart of it.

[@jenniferaniekwu8737]

What I the kind of things I need and need not to post online if I want to attract a provider man? Also is it okay to post memes?

[@angelslove13]

- why would dust approach high-maintenance women? - to get some, girl...to get some...

[@j-tenn226]

Question if I’m trying to level up, is it okay to wear a cute shirt and jeans to run errands? And how do you feel about tennis shoes, like Nike - is that a no for going out? Or should I only do wedges?

[@Usernotavailablexo]

She spoke on this in previous videos. No jeans but ESPECIALLY no tennis shoes. Preferably sandals, heels & wedges.

[@r19888]

@@Usernotavailablexo what about in the winter or rainy days?

[@Usernotavailablexo]

@@r19888 knee high boots, ankle boots, Doc Martin’s, high heel boots, rain boots

[@Usernotavailablexo]

@@r19888 have your own style but in essence you don’t want to share the same sentiment with a man when it comes to fashion UNLESS you’re a fashion girly and your making an appearance. You always want to be his counter opposite. Making the contrast extremely obvious which in return makes him seem more masculine and you more feminine.

[@trmp9923]

@@Usernotavailablexo in Finland it's actually freezing.. similar to Alaska

[@Mack-O]

Whole comment section broke 🤣🤣🤣

[@Dunno-h8r]

🙋🏾‍♂️no, these are strong independent queens… Obviously Drizzle drizzle

[@hgh495]

& we’re supposed to believe you’re wealthy with a mindset like yours? 😂😂😂😂😂 you could free yourself from the shackles of poverty if you’d get outta the comment section & go out & get some money. MEN are the ones who are supposed to provide. & have the wealth. sprinkle sprinkle ✨ @mack-O take off that skirt, you’re confused about roles 💖

[@Orb-w3aver]

💎yessss

[@Personalitynumber1]

Hey guys! Does anyone know what wishlist app she uses ?

[@erikagoodwin-lg6rx]

Please tell me yall have heard of the busses drizzle drizzle movement (they or soooooòoooò,fem in a bad way like bruh really)

[@natashadickson4819]

Those guys are for Pickmeisha.

[@gymboy2119]

Drizzle Drizzle 💁🏽‍♂️

[@natashadickson4819]

@@gymboy2119 Thanks for the comment, it helps Shera's algorithm here on KZbin. ❤️

[@gymboy2119]

@@natashadickson4819 drizzle drizzle 😘

[@rollinggstonee]

these guys are saying they’re in their soft boy era 🤮🤮🤮 i cannotttt if the trash ain’t taking itself out…haha

[@constancenunn]

True..

[@rajaerajy162]

Are those payments loyal ?😂

[@stephaniebrown2818]

Hi shera, how can you tell if a man who wants to marry you is truly wealthy? Is there a way to have solid proof or what can I ask/say to have solid proof?

[@isagoldenjewels]

Google him

[@TravelAlwaysOfficial]

If you have questions about the authenticity of his wealth you are probably on to something. I wouldn't marry him without knowing him longer.

[@opalnone7525]

Ask for the tax returns and bank statements. They do it in other cultures when leading into marriage. He will happily provide if wealthy.

[@sanyam8840]

47:50 🎉

[@MarinaM-o6p]

NOT ALL MEN ARE PROVIDERS SO TREAT THEM AS SUCH .

[@ItsTj4showw]

Yes! DRIZZLE DRIZZLE

[@opikapo393]

Drizzle trolls in the building 🎉🎉🎉

[@IVvOOvVI]

Hey, this guy I haven’t been on a date yet, but he match with me on a dating event he wanted to meet me at a coffee place to chat because at the event it was too loud. He suggested a Starbucks in between where I live and where he live how should I respond to him? I actually don’t drink coffee but I’m sure they have like teas and stuff there. He suggested the day after to meet and I told him that I was busy that day so we can meet sometime next weekend but so far I don’t know if I did the right thing or not no dates or place has been set yet

[@isagoldenjewels]

No coffee dates girl

[@nono-tg8dn]

Tell him you already got your coffee for the day 😂. Let him know if he's interested in taking you out for a date, dinner or lunch is an option. He's prob a cheapskate/dusty anyways

[@IVvOOvVI]

he actually owns his own biz

[@isagoldenjewels]

@@IVvOOvVI coffee business 😅

[@isagoldenjewels]

My go-to phrase when they suggest coffee ‘take me out properly or not at all’ dusty fall off when providers remain 😊

[@ColdWarVet80]

Drizzle Drizzle....!!!!

[@rubyhines-wq7lr]

It's just that simple 😂

[@theheartdetoxheartflow4602]

❤u !

[@Aquemini888]

I am screaminggg at the boxes!!

[@phillysfitness]

2:52:23 😂😂😂😂

[@marinel.9216]

12:17 13:05

[@phillysfitness]

57:01 👏🏾👏🏾

[@phillysfitness]

1:26:12 😂😂

[@assemblyr456]

35:20

[@whimsicallady9759]

U look very beautiful as usual as u age in reverse purty lady!

[@camillenicole427]

Damn, I have the same bed 😂

[@WakeUpLing]

✨✨✨

[@blue75313]

Drizzle drizzle

[@user-po5po6pn8o]

That video brought me here...these women are crazy if they think men are putting up with this in 2024.

[@blue75313]

@@user-po5po6pn8o this is were they get there stupidity from this female channel. I've heard her say some of the dumbest stuff I've ever heard