WHY You Have TOO MANY CLOTHES: 5 Mind-Blowing Reasons!

[@cm-nj]

I think you went to a neutral capsule recently but I'm so happy to see you back in your beautiful, bright colors. Hot pink on you is perfection!

[@spgard29]

May I add another reason for sudden, got-to-have-it shopping? Finding clothes that fit you if you have a non-standard body type. I'm very tall (6' 1½"), and online shopping has enabled me to find several sources of smart, not-too-expensive pieces cut just for me. When they announce a sale -- or just a new seasonal launch -- I am there! I have more clothes in my closet now than I have ever had in my life, but at the moment I have no desire to cull them. I'm just so happy that they all fit!

[@kannakanina6552]

I feel you on this…. I’m also quite tall, but my hourglass is so extreme that my waist is two to four sizes smaller than my bust and hips. And being an H cup…. I never found things that fit in physical stores. But internet shopping appeared and now I have a lot of clothing. I’m proud of myself, though.. I say no to most things now. My latest weakness is tights and when new colors come out I look at what I already have and only get new pairs to make my spring and summer clothing work for winter (ex tights and a sweater with a dress or skirt). I try to focus on things like tights and underwear if I want to treat myself. They don’t take up much room and I have plenty of everything else!

[@priscillajacko7577]

I have been clearing out clothes especially past several years since I retired. I knew I had too much that I wasn’t wearing enough. I’m still trying to find my retirement style . I love to get dressed up but that’s not the way I live now. I had a big problem with having fantasy clothes I wanted to have occasions to wear 😂 Charity Shops have benefited greatly!!

[@katehepburn9544]

I too, had fantasy clothes. They are beautiful.

[@deanacincotta2236]

I have a illness that makes my weight fluctuate. I had lost a lot of weight so i waited until i was sure my weight had stabilized before decluttering any of my clothes. I waited 2 years to ensure my weight had not shifted and finally did a huge wardrobe declutter. It felt amazing to have a streamlined closet that was perfect for me. Wellll...Within 3 months of that declutter my weight shifted again and so most of my well curated closet now didn't fit me. It's been 2 years since that happened and I've spent that time reestablishing a new wardrobe to accomodate my weight gain, which is fine, but I really want to declutter again because I feel like I just have too much... but i'm also very 'gun shy" now because of my past situation. It's really quite frustrating to desperately WANT to do something but feeling like I'm going to put myself in a difficult situation again.

[@sandramaki7819]

I am still decluttering my clothes on my way to retirement but I think I have found some good tricks to reduce. I was always saying, I love that, I can’t get rid of it. So whenever I found myself thinking that, I actually wore the clothes. Sometimes I found that there was something off with item, weird fit, uncomfortable and then I remembered why I wasn’t wearing it. So my tip is to wear those sentimental pieces ! It made realize that I didn’t love them as much as I thought… Great video Nancy and I too love seeing you in pink! 🩷🩷🩷

[@dawnsfields]

Yes! I’m often suckered by the feel of the material or the color. Those are usually the items I declutter later that will still have tags on them.

[@debraschwicht9741]

Great idea!! I’m going to try it on lots of items!!

[@conniemurphyover70stillgla47]

I elevate and restyle my CLOSET clothes :)

[@andreaf.6572]

I’m doing something similar and wearing clothes that I have never worn or haven’t worn in a long time! Then I decide if I want to keep it. I have lost some weight and some items are just too big (good problem to have!!).

[@mslovelifetoday]

GREAT TIP!! I’ve done this also!! 😘🥰

[@GoogleGoogle-fy3cj]

I went to a capsule wardrobe based on black, brown and neutral and jewel tone tops. I love it. I find getting dressed so easy and have seperates that I can mix and match.

[@kitchensink1803]

I live in a northern city that has very distinct seasons. I'm a professional, I exercise, I travel, I garden and when I'm not busy, I lounge around the house. I need clothes for all these things for all seasons - it's so hard to have fewer clothes - but am so willing to get there!

[@amysmiles9751]

I try to box up winter clothes and summer clothes. I try to leave to just one big Rubbermaid box. But I am always cold except for 3 months out of the year. I have lots of jacket. I don't want to get rid of them! I promise I love them all!😂

[@elmamorales7527]

I separate my fall/winter clothes from spring/summer clothes. I put away the clothes that is out of season. I love to wear linen clothes during the summer - which of course it’s not in season in the winter, I wear slacks and jeans in the fall/ winter. Much easier to keep up and helps with clutter

[@trilliand]

My weight is fluctuating a lot. So I don’t want to get rid of clothes that don’t fit me at the moment, since I would have to buy everything all over again.

[@allisonscott4192]

We often need multiple wardrobes to meet different needs. Years ago I had a pregnancy wardrobe I would pull out when needed. Now I have a winter wardrobe and a summer wardrobe. It helps me to pack away what I'm not wearing at the time and bring it out again when needed. It doesn't have to all live in my closet all the time.

[@adoptedscot]

Totally agree with that - in addition I hate shopping anyway so the thought of having to go out and buy more to fit into just fills me with terror.

[@globalfamily8172]

@@adoptedscot And the newer clothes are just awful (cheap, ill fitting)

[@millies.8810]

Thank you for helping us to rationalize emotionally. I am 64 years old and remember there were clothes for school or work as well as shoes; weekend clothing like church, chores, beach, etc. Shoes were seasonal. White going out, sandals, black patent shoes, etc., the thing is what you chose you had to like as that’s what you would have to wear. All this social media, advertising has created F.O.M.O. and unnecessary debt. I plan for each season. Sometimes something is on the list, don’t buy it and then don’t miss it either. I watch your videos, but have stopped watching some others as I do not want to be incited into buying more.

[@MaryCunningham-u5j]

Yes, I have too many clothes! Some never worn - one reason is I think I'll need more for a season than I do but then I wear the same favorite things over and over - some things just are right and they get worn; the rest just hangs but I hold onto stuff "just in case." Right now I'm not even going into stores or looking at clothes online. I really don't need that much for my retired lifestyle and only get dressed up for church and the occasional night out or holiday - turns out we really don't need as much as we have...

[@CoftheIsland370]

I’m an avid thrifter with most of my clothes (except shoes, swim, under garments, coats) coming to me secondhand. When I do need to buy new, I only get classic pieces from a few retailers and I mostly shop online. I also have my colors and prints and buy nothing but those. I’m very good at stopping myself. I only splurge at the thrift stores.

[@conniemurphyover70stillgla47]

love that. now restyle and elevate them. I do it all the time.

[@sheelaghhalstead4549]

Here's another buying tip related to shopping for something you've decided you need in your wardrobe. Sometimes you go to all the shops and cant find that item that's just right. Do not buy something that doesn't tick the essential boxes. If the fabric doesnt feel right (I hate too much polyester or acrylic) or the colour is just a bit off or the fit isn't great then it will probably just hang in your wardrobe making you feel guilty anout wasting that money. Just hold on until you do find the right item - maybe revise your budget or try thrift stores. Dont settle for "it's OK, it'll do".

[@conniemurphyover70stillgla47]

I SHOP MY CLOSET. I restyle, elevate and still fit in my 80's clothes. they came back into style and I saved LOTS of $$ stop by sometime and see hug connie

[@BB-cn6ow]

Good tips! Does anyone try on tons of clothes at a store, and you feel so much better when you put your own clothes back on??😅

[@annmariecarmedy6588]

I like going to second hand/charity/vintage shops. You can buy one offs or a designer make

[@j.e.7028]

This has spurred me on to get this wardrobe sorted out...I have some real quality items, that I thought id wear, but haven't, they will go on eBay..I never thought I was emotionally attached to clothes, but now know I was emtionally attached to the the idea of owning expensive stuff. Hermes shoes, Chanel make up, handbags I never used...Quality basics are still high on my list,being honest with myself, I'm a jeans person, ad love walking in the woods in muddy boots and gardening this is where I've had my change...your soooooo right...this is a brilliant vid..as always..Thank you for giving me clarity x

[@dawnsfields]

I’m in the process of building my dream home. While designing the closet I was asked how much clothing I thought I had. Think, how much space do I need for shoes, how much space for dresses, how many drawers vs hanging space etc… it was a real eye opener because I underestimated on everything! In the last year I’ve down sized by more than half. I’m much more aware of what I have, what I need (and don’t!) and it also finally helped me see the patterns of colors, styles and materials I like (and don’t). I wouldn’t call it a capsule wardrobe but I don’t have any oddball pieces, things I don’t feel great in or random one hit wonders anymore.

[@Julie-gz2lx]

Thank you for the supportive advice delivered by your calming voice. ❤️

[@ruthmalcolm3028]

I have decluttered my wardrobe, based on a colour palette which has changed as I’ve aged. I love the coastal colours. And it stops me buying new stuff that doesn’t go with lots of other pieces.

[@elizabethharris371]

Hello! Thank you for this one, I really understand this phenomenon in my own life. Just retired @ 62, sold the house and am now living on the road in a small camper. I have barely any space and am realizing my clothing needs are very minimal and more casual. I am consistently striving to remove whatever feels uncomfortable, and doesn't make me feel good. Any other hints you may have for this lifestyle? Thank you~

[@laurie3753]

Awesome video Nancy! Looking for the deals and filling your closet with deals, never wearing a lot of it, doesn’t save you money, it costs you money. Any bargain hunter who thinks otherwise is kidding themselves. Buy the best quality you can afford, if it’s on sale, great! You will save money in the long run instead of wasting it and then bemoaning the fact that you are donating unused clothing that you spent your hard earned money on.

[@anncarr6510]

Goodwill in & Goodwill out! I have given so much to charities too! Feels so much better - retired no more heels, suits, dresses, so freeing!

[@shoppingonchampagne]

That's great to hear! 🤩

[@sandrastratton6964]

sheesh, I got all my stuff from Goodwill in the first place

[@michelemarotta2874]

I have 3 closets, 2 racks and am still spilling out everywhere 😮. Time to get to work.

[@conniemurphyover70stillgla47]

stop ! see how you can restyle and elevate your Closet wardrobe ok?

[@JJ-kc2zh]

❤ I have too much clothes but had been doing a lot of decluttering recently and feel great after that. Life is so much easier when not to think of what to wear each day 😀

[@marthasanders7344]

Great video, Nancy! When I have a piece that I love but haven’t worn in a while, I put it on probation. If I don’t find a way to wear it within a week, I let it go, knowing that I gave it a fair chance.

[@ruthmalcolm3028]

Me too! It helps me deal with guilt!!

[@momdad5368]

I like the idea of mindful shopping. However, the weather is so unpredictable in Texas that only wearing clothes once a year doesn't work. We might have a mild winter and then the next year a very cold winter.

[@dawnsfields]

✋🏼Yes! Texas, 86 one day, 42 the next!

[@andreaf.6572]

Alabama has similar weather. We usually get 1-2 snow or ice storms a year. I may not need winter boots etc very often - but I’m not getting rid of them.

[@faeriesmak]

I have too many clothes but I am in a major period of transition and general change of style. I will probably declutter some after I figure myself out!

[@princessdaaahlingamor5798]

Making a Wish List has helped me with frivolous mindless spending. I put pieces I really want on my list. Often they’re actually more expensive and better quality. That way I have really cut down on fast fashion and I now have a closet that better reflects my style.

[@kimberlyberlin4999]

Nancy, you look great here. I love your outfit and think I'll copy it tomorrow :) I don't have a hot pink sweater, yet, so I'll use navy. Your hair looks beautiful too.

[@annrichardson7169]

❤❤❤ I must say you look lovely with your hair this length and style. It looks soft, and feminine, it makes you glow! I just came across your channel, love it😊😊ANN IN TEXAS

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Hi Ann, I'm so glad you discovered me! Thank you so much for your kind words. I cut my hair shorter at the beginning of the year when my dad was ill to simplify my life. But now I'm ready to grow it back out to that length again-almost there! PS. I was in Texas last month-a lovely state! 😍

[@alexandrasmith7682]

I kept three capsule wardrobes successfully for twenty years ...... Formal Work, Casual Smart Home, and Evening Wear. I really enjoyed the ease of choosing my weekly attire. However, I am coming to the end of my work life and I have started to really enjoy expanding my clothing collection. I still stick with my colours, and I buy more smart casual now. After twenty years of being so restricted, I am tired of it .....

[@gloriaverdugo1956]

Very nicely and wisely presented and do one. Thank you!🙏

[@rosemarym2012]

So happy to see it isn't just me on this journey. I have cut back my shopping dramatically to the benefit of my bank balance and am now dealing with decluttering. I assign clothes to 3 decluttering categories - sell, recycle, and if I lose a little weight I'd want to wear that again. The recycling has to be mindful and I have found real joy giving good items to young relatives or friends who love vintage clothing and either keep it, share it or sell it. I tend to sell items from sought after brands although lately this has been a very slow way of moving items out. I store items in vaccum bags that I still want to wear but need just a little weightloss to fit properly and review them after weightloss and then apply my method again. I also recycle with companies that source items for thrift stores or shred unuseable clothing and household materials (towels, sheets) for use in other industries e.g upholstery.

[@lindajames4922]

I love seeing your videos pop up on Saturday! You provide such great advice! Thank you Nancy!❤️

[@ivettemolinaserpa3995]

Thank you very much for this video. Having our closet full is really a problem many of us have Also I think one of the issues wh have is when we watch youtubers with new clothing trends and we want to loom like them. That impulse you to buy new clothes that many times don't fit you. You dont look like the person you see in social media. And is because you need to wear what fits you. You need to find what is right for you

[@T.T.M.60]

This is the video I really needed to watch. You make so many good points. Thank you!

[@summera3926]

I can relate to many things you say. I have resorted to biting the bullet and just getting rid of clothes I'm saving 'for some day'.... lose weight, trends or the money and time I spent purchasing them etc. Many of my clothes were of very good quality, and yes, I hated they did not fit anymore. And the 'career' part you mentioned, I was there, many suits I 'let go' just didn't fit me, besides I am not working in a career where I need them anymore. All are 'gently worn' the only thing is I wish I knew someone who could use them... sweaters and pants too... I still have a ways to go, but I keep plugging away at it. Quite frankly it is a relief to be rid of that clutter, that mental clutter.

[@Florida_Mollie]

I have way too many clothes. It seems that when I declutter and get rid of things I look for that exact item after I’ve gotten rid of it. I actually have anxiety about getting rid of it.

[@meman6964]

Cull, then put the items to go, in an opaque garment bag or suitcase. Put the date on container for 1year forward. That's saved me only twice, but I don't kick myself for donating something I need a few months later. Lots of donations gone, only 2 items rescued from the "Hold' area in garment bag in guest room closet. Relieved my concern about wanting what was just donated.

[@kirbyd0g]

I have definatly bought some lovely things after seeing you wear them! I still love and wear them often.

[@amysmiles9751]

I moved 5 almost 6 years ago. My lifestyle and climate is different in this new area but is it so hard for me to get rid of my old clothes. I feel almost good memories of my old life when I was more happy❤😢. Thank you for your advice. I am trying to declutter my whoke house🎉

[@martha4136]

How many years should you keep clothes you do wear? I know many of mine are old but I am still wearing them. Thanks.

[@ruthmalcolm3028]

I keep mine for as long as they look good and fresh. Years in most cases.

[@kimberlyberlin4999]

As long as they still fit, are in good shape, and don't look out of date I would keep them forever. This is why buying classic pieces is a win win.

[@CaroleJackson-rw7xh]

I keep and wear mine regularly for many (many!) years. This is especially true for the items I've made myself. They are unique, they fit and always get compliments. Don't throw precious things out.

[@meman6964]

As long as you get compliments, fabric is not pilled or shredded at the seams. Fit!!! Most importantly

[@trishagoodwin4069]

Only a couple of years, because having a very limited wardrobe, I wear them to death while fashionable and still looking good. Only have about 30 items in the wardroble so all get worn consistently, by which time the look has changed anyway. I started shopping and dressing this way in my twenties and now 70, could not bear the idea of too many things to choose from, or too many possessions, must be a natural old hippy!

[@Indie_Jayyy]

I've been drowning in clothes ever since leaving college 10 years ago. Sometimes I feel like it's because I have a small closet but then I know what is have is still way too much.

[@Joyce-ug2bs]

Most people have a few outfits they wear over and over. Not me. I wear something different everyday or styled differently everyday

[@janetserier4473]

I know I have way too many clothes. I have over 200 tops,sweaters,etc. and way too many long pants . I think I need an intervention 😂. I love you videos.

[@karendobbs8153]

I can relate.

[@donalddelano3948]

As usual, thank you Nancy! Kath D.

[@PamelaCardinale]

I accumulate a surplus of clothes as I enjoy purchasing fabrics and crafting my own garments. Despite my weight fluctuations, I engage in periodic decluttering, either sharing items with others or stashing them away in a trunk.

[@eileencarroll6418]

Best video so far. I have been buying too much. Because of foot surgeries and arthritis, I have had a fear of not being able to find wide shoes that are cushioned enough to prevent pain and sores on my feet. Since I can find almost any size on line, I own a nice variety of shoes but I still feel the emotional compulsion to buy more shoes. It is an irrational emotion that feels like FOMO, but the fear makes my feel like I I will have to go barefoot if i don't buy the next pair of shoes. Of course that won't ever happen. I have plenty of clothes and I put together outfits with accessories on a seasonal capsule rack as soon as my laundry is done. My problem is making sure I have enough events, errands, activities and hangouts to wear all the fun outfits to. I am ready for a range of weather and activity on any given day. I have had to get rid of old "housework clothes" in order to have enough days to wear the cute, fun outfits. I am getting a lot of milage out of some fun new colors and unlimited combinations... BUT, I also have the growing sense that having more clothes is making the cost per wear go up because I am wearing each garment fewer times within the gixed 365-day year. Not counting Sadie Hawkins day tomorrow. I love your insights, style, creativity and sense of fun. WELL DONE.

[@trishagoodwin4069]

I know what you mean about footwear. I have flat feet, narrow feet and bunions, so finding shoes is difficult, I generally go for Ecco or Merrell and wear a few to death, only have about 4 pairs, two for winter, two for summer, then two pairs of fancy shoes, not great for the feet, but fit them, so only wear for sitting down on evenings out. Any more and I would feel totally swamped, as a minimalist anyway, but even so, the worry about replacing them is constantly there!

[@1234sunflower]

Excellent video!! Also, you look great 😊.

[@stephanievanwaas7020]

Yes I have too many clothes I have been sorting at the same time I’ve had a big weight gain so needed to pull out to store all those that are too tight and buy some new bigger basics.

[@lose999]

Ha ha! I sometimes wander up and down the grocery stores aisles to het ideas of what I want to eat/buy.

[@amandarussell6298]

I definitely have way too many clothes, shoes, purses etc - time to do something about it!

[@conniemurphyover70stillgla47]

restyle them into new outfits. :)

[@katehepburn9544]

I have too many clothes AND many of them still have the tags on. It is killing me. I want to get rid of them but I think of the money spent and want something in return. Is that wrong? I have clothes that I can part with but there are some that are too hard to just get rid of. What is even worse are the aspirational clothing sizes that I never got to wear and now even if I could wear it tomorrow, I'm too old for it! It's so upsetting. I bought clothes for the "maybe" and then the maybe never happened. It's a form of lying to yourself. I really had no idea how far I'd gone. I really do like the basic clothes and colors. They end up looking the best and they have longevity. I had weight fluctuation and so I have sizes on that end of the spectrum as well. It's sad. It was all some weird coping mechanism that I was blind to.

[@SuperMellow21]

You are never too old to wear what makes you happy :) Give it a go x

[@glw5166]

Brilliant analysis!

[@debraschwicht9741]

I only donate to Goodwill, etc., when I don’t have time to go to one of the women’s shelters. Because I also shop Goodwill occasionally, I know their prices would be tough for really financially-challenged folks! I’d rather give them to someone who really, really needs them.

[@trishagoodwin4069]

Is a Goodwill shop, the same as a charity shop in UK, anyone know?!

[@tplayspiano]

I’m chuckling about making a list because every time I do that, I can never find anything on it!😂

[@sharonhuether2474]

I do have too many clothes. Thanks for your incite.

[@sharmiladsouza9520]

Do you have a video on travel wardrobe

[@sarahkennedy1481]

Where do you buy the beautiful clothes from ie pinks please?

[@mytws]

Lilly Pulitzer.

[@hadnoideahow]

I am in none of these categories. I have a consistent alternative style, don't follow trends, and love my clothes. But I fluctuate in weight and if I do not own _at least_ two different sizes, my clothes don't fit me. I can get away with something slightly bigger, but not too much as I am short, and when I am too big for them, it looks ridiculous because I have a big bust and some belly. I recently had buttons flipping from my blouse and my trousers. Some of us are battling medical issues and weight fluctuation is a part of it. We can't just throw away and buy new just because we are in one part of the cycle or another. Nobody really talks about that.

[@FreidaGLewis]

I’m in the same situation because I often have to take steroids.

[@sabine3769]

I'm emotional shopper and hate the guilt

[@claudiabecker4673]

I love buying second-hand, especially on the Internet. I can look for what I exactly want and save money:)

[@trishagoodwin4069]

As a fashion aware, environmetally aware 70 year old, I mostly buy "new with tags" from Ebay. I tend to go for private sellers who have bought things that do not suit them and too late to return etc. I have usually tried these things on in the shops beforehand, so know they suit me and fit in the size I am looking for. I stick to brands that suit me, like Hobbs (I am in the UK). Anything that I am not happy with when it arrives (usually non refundable) I take to the charity shop in town. They are always pleased with the items, as we have few clothing shops locally and I bring in good brands for their customers. I find clothes quite reasonably priced this way and don't have the pain of returning things to retailers for refunds, which takes weeks where I live. I only have about 30 items in my wardrobe at any time as I wear this to bits when fashionable and then use them as dusters or put in textile recycling bins. I have lived with a small wardrobe for decades, I just find it suits me to live this way and I hate too many things, especially anything that I know I am not happy with or will never wear again- why keep it, let someone else get the use of it while it is still fashionable and has plenty of wear in it !?

[@susanbell8270]

As a young girl my mum made my sister and I the same dress, same fabric. As she grew her dress came to me so I was always wearing the same dress for years time after time. As soon as I was old enough I got a Saturday job so I would save up and buy as much as I could so I had my own identity ; so, yes I had too many clothes and still do although now approaching 70 not quite as many. I buy non descript classic styles now not stand out pieces. In the past if I ever have saw a person wearing the same dress or blouse as me I never ever wore it again, it went straight to be donated. Just a reminder of those childhood years so I understand why I had too many clothes, I wanted to be myself, not a clone.

[@lindascott6968]

Yes I have too much of the wrong items. I like your hints and will get busy decluttering. I especially want a core/capsule wardrobe that suits my retirement lifestyle.

[@nonnieTerri]

You really hit a nerve when you mentioned keeping clothes for sentimental reasons. I have a hard time getting rid of clothes I took to Italy almost 11 years ago. Honestly they’re snug so I bypass them and out of style even if they weren’t!

[@JoanieDougherty-ce8yq]

I know what you mean . I have dresses I wore to my kids wedding that no longer fit but I think of the memories attached to them. Time to clean out the closet. It's so hard!!

[@marthacrowder8499]

I used to get the tightwad gazette in print.

[@RugosaB]

I have too many clothes becauase I love to sew - for me and my kids. My life has changed and my needs have changed - so what does that mean? More sewing!

[@poliver12345]

Interesting but I feed @ big factory farm & need clothes: tops/ jackets & pants & boots/shoes also we have 4 seasons, I am always assessing, I could care less about newest fashion I don't live for people, my spouse & I live for animal care!

[@annmariecarmedy6588]

It's just to have different looks swtes

[@tammygarrett9261]

You love all your cloth when you live with 4 seasons. They go quick & you can experience all 4 seasons in one day, that's Ohio. So we split 2 seasons you're not using to the sides and right now I have Spring & Summer in the middle.

[@Greenwings701]

Hard to watch videos with hands waving - sorry.

[@rschindler9965]

OMG!!! How many ways can you say women buy too many clothes. You’re a quarter of the way thru your presentations and nothing has been said. Find something else to do.

[@nancybreaux9684]

😂😂😂

[@conniemurphyover70stillgla47]

HI ! I shop my closet. I restyle and elevate my wardrobe and I like different styles. I get my inspiration on You Tube

[@marcievega7972]

I totally know I have an “unhealthy emotional attachment” to my clothes. 🫤