Should Homemakers Be Paid?

[@sadiajavaiddd]

Both of my parents work 9 to 5 jobs. They leave together in the morning and arrive home together in the evening. Their salaries are also almost equal. But the difference is that my mother wakes up at 5, cleans the house, makes breakfast, washes the dishes, does the laundry, sweeps the floors and packs everyone's lunch. And at nine o'clock, my father always fights with her for not being ready on time, not considering that she had to put every single thing in order in our chaotic household before leaving. In the evening as soon as they come home, my father lays down and asks for tea. My mother makes him tea, cooks dinner, cleans the bathrooms, washes the dishes and does the other million things that none pays attention to except her. My father is not a sexist idiot, but he is an oblivious idiot. He has no idea of how much my mother makes his life easier. While he helps my younger brother with his schoolwork and home work, it is nowhere close to how much my mother works, despite being on her feet all day teaching. Their financial contribution is almost equal. My mother cooks everyday, but when once in a blue moon, my father makes something, everyone suddenly goes ga-ga over him. I have only recently started to notice how sexism permeates every aspect of our lives. The worst part is that my mother thinks its her duty to not complain.

[@richamathur99]

People like you can change the world...you are a good human being...it is a good step that you have observed the injustice...I hope someday, you will work against such injustice and spread awareness...God Bless You.🙏

[@jyotsna5276]

And by chance if you have a grandmother, it is possible (just a scenario based on my experience), that she will always find flaws in your mother's work and make her feel guilty of having a career.

[@bhavya5692]

Basically you're dad's trash and you're mom deserves better

[@musicstar1213]

You should be happy that at least your father sometimes makes something here's my father who don't even know how to make tea properly and once when my mom at 3 pm finished her work and was going to bed to have some rest as it was holiday he asked her to make tea at 3 pm I was like are you serious? And when she said why don't you see I'm tired let me rest I'll make after 1 hr or you can make now he got mad at her and ignored her for 2days because it hurts his ego that how the hell his wife can deny him (seriously?) and also when my uncle from neighbors house do household chores my father say he's just joru ka gulam. Although my father is not that toxic or as you said not that stupid but still he is and my parents are the reason why I won't marry ever. Not because they are bad they love us so much try to pass jokes whole day so we don't feel bore but still sometimes his doing gives me a hard time and that's the reason being older child of family I started helping mom at very young age and still I always help her in all household chores not because she force me but I feel bad for her

[@marudhanayagam9756]

And then there your father registered all loans on his name. And you really concern about it why didn't you help her.

[@anupamaMall]

Why can't everyone share the workload both inside (housework, kids, in laws) and outside (money) the home? Inequality will remain as long as men enjoy unpaid labour from women.

[@gampa_10_31]

It's not unpaid labor, in general, men are earning more or completely take the responsibility of earning the bread on their shoulders so women do household chores,but if women too work, then what you said is applicable

[@md.sohailali7961]

As if men are careless beings of society and don't contribute any economic value the family. As if they are mere bread winner only and nothing else. not like they stay away from family alone and go through sorrows alone many times. Should noble Gentlemen also get paid for the values, virtues and care they give for their family. What return should a noble Gentlemen deserve if he doesn't owns any wealth but works 10hrs hard enough to make needs of his family are met on time where in 24 hrs of day he barely stay 4 hrs with family ?

[@WR-NC-ASPL]

Inequality will exist if All economic expenses of the family are not shared equally.. Everywhere women always select the easier work and make men do the difficult work... 1 ... Men are ready to do all 100% of the household work and look after the children, if the wife goes outside the house, earns money herself, and provides him and her Children food and shelter, wife pays house rent or buys house using her own money and looks after all the household expenses and expenses of children, EMI , pays all loans etc. Men are very happy to make women the providers and make her do the tougher work of earning money. And men are happy do the easier household work and looking after children.... 2 ... If wife wants husband to share the household work, then both husband and wife should share 50% each of all household expenses like house rent, EMI, all household bills, grocery all loans etc. If they are buying a new house worth 1 crore rupees, then husband and wife should put in 50 lakhs share each because both of them are living in that house. If the wife does half share of all the above things, then the husband will do half share of the household work... C

[@ritankarmitra9085]

Men and women cant be EQUAL. Its a bloody myth. They only can be EQUIVALENT. Nature doesn't allow the Equality. Go outside,see the animals. You will see the beautiful differences b/w Masculinity and femininity. We should embrace the difference

[@jyotipol4128]

Those who are golrifying how men provide us money and home, so please ask them why they restrict their wife to work? to get job? It's not women deny to do job most of the time, but double burden, taunt from society, unequal work paid compel us to do so. I saw most men having gf who thinks freely have job and ambition, but when it's time to get settle, suddenly, they want homely sankari girl to carry household work and take care their parents. Lol but sad truth

[@ruchirakarmakar6157]

If homemakers are paid, many people would start using this as en excuse to stop women from working outside their homes. Why do women 'need' to go outside their homes if they are already getting paid for 'sitting at home and doing nothing'? That's what they would say. It would not lead to the recognition of household tasks as 'work'. Paying a woman for taking care of her house and family propagates the idea of gender division of labour, and therefore once again, limits her choices. Also, as we can see in West Bengal with project 'Laxmir Bhandar', it would become a weapon for political parties fighting over women votes. And in a country like India, where most women start living with her in-laws after marriage, a payment for her household work would limit her rights in her in-laws house. Rather, we should try to distribute the pressure of household work equally within the people living in the house, regardless of their gender. When everyone has to take turn for grocery shopping, cooking, feeding, cleaning, dusting, and washing, people will realise how much labour it takes to make a home function smoothly and the exhaustion it causes. It will also allow women the time to study and work outside her home, as she would not be burdened with household work.

[@ashutoshverma6973]

Exactly.....👍 And one thing I would add Women will get a chance to work outside as they will get free time if everyone in the family starts sharing her work. This will improve her status of being financially independent .

[@csoul8711]

True... Paying for household work seems impractical rather it should be divided between partners and home where parents have equal respect is the happiest place to live.. I am saying from my personal experience

[@RMatt2016]

Firstly, getting homemaker wages should be open to open if they so take up the role. Secondly, the wages should be low enough to incentivize working outside the home

[@samay5840]

In same way all financial expenses should also be borne by women.

[@avoidantabuse]

Nonsense. Men will never do their share. If they could they would have by now. Rather, women should be paid as per industry wages from pre tax salary contributions by her husband. This way if she wants to work outside she can while paying a domestic help her wages from husband's salary. That would be practical solution fair for all.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Not a day goes by when I realise the sheer pressure we put on someone and I’m guilty of being complicit in the system. Also, we need more equality of the sexes (and across the spectrum) in the construction of products and the home because most of the time, they are designed by men. It’s not accessible for anyone.

[@kartikeypandey8957]

But home and most products are designed for women's needs and also targeted to them. Most of the money spent in purchases are controlled by women. Moreover houses are literally designed to cater women need to efficiently do house work , from the height of kitchen slab to the placing of store area near kitchen. While I do think that we do need equal opportunity regardless of gender across spectrum but the logic you gave was far from real and stereotypical (everything being done for men). However I don't think you had any bad Intentions and hence I just wanted to add perspective and not targeting you of ill. Have a nice day , peace✌

[@ravenclaw_beater]

I personally feel that both should work outside as well as inside the home. That's true equality ✌🏻

[@probutnoob3397]

Men and women are different

[@csoul8711]

@@probutnoob3397 hnn bhai different he but equal bhi

[@csoul8711]

@@probutnoob3397 and women can also work outside home and men can also work for home

[@gampa_10_31]

Yessssssssssss

[@gampa_10_31]

@Tina 😂😂😂go and cry somewhere,

[@afd7na1]

I personly feel homemakers should not be given salary, as people will oppress her saying,"ghar ke kaam ke to paise milte hai na..to bahar kaam karne ki kya jarurat hai?"

[@KrishtiBhattacharjee]

The 3R concept should be adopted everywhere and i think boys should be taught from a young age to help with chores around the house. I know too many young men who have absolutely zero household skills simply because growing up they only ever saw their mothers doing these chores and were probably taught that their wives would do the same once they got married. Its high time boys are taught at home and at school these basic life skills like cooking, cleaning, doing laundry etc.

[@mrtriyja7800]

In good prosperous homes men actually do REGISTRIES OF PROPERTY over the name of wife. Why do my wife needs a separate SALARY ... ? She is by default owner of everything I have. What's mine is hers, and hers is mine.

[@gunnuprincess6340]

yes i agree , this type of education is in japan i hope india soon adopt this home and cleaning type of extra basic knowledge in the education system too

[@harrytenn4867]

Guess where all that Gold from the shops go 🤔

[@himj7156]

And women will be teach to buy things from shops in every weather being a driver for extent family do things which required hard labour , buying of house(this is not easy ) and other big things stay at hospital at night or do countless trips from hospital to home and also continue to work for money Women do nothing but she wants equal share If you have problem you need to earn your own money and not marry no one is forcing you Why you demanding things from men?

[@Home-o2v4h]

You are a bengali .You know well enough why some men are not like that. Its the mother who always try to micro-manage when their sons are trying to do things. They believe their way is the only correct way.

[@globalcitizenn]

Money is freedom. No money, no freedom. I think everyone should have a universal basic income, from the age of 16 itself. Not just women, but children too are sometimes trapped with abusive parents.

[@RimaDesu00]

Well 15 yr is the minimum age to get a job.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

The ‘3R’ Approach seems awesome! It’s the first time I’ve heard of it.

[@cia1223]

Because it is unpaid labour, it is looked down upon by the benefitted members of the household. If my husband would even pick a glass of water by himself, my mil(who btw, kept complaining how her husband never contributed anything towards the household chores), would make fun of my husband so much that he turned into a copy of his father. Can’t ever let go of the taunts “ you are turning into a woman”, directed towards my husband. These are the values that some mothers give their sons. As if being a woman is a lowly thing or doing your own chores is something only a woman can and should and must do. 🤬🤬🤬

[@Vizorfam]

Definitely true there should be a separate category called for such women and men

[@sree1680]

Because what if your husband actually helps you and makes your life better?😱 What if he supports you and stand up for you?😱 Then how will she take out her frustration 😱She was waiting for someone to come and endure the same misery she went through. It brings her a lot of relief watching you suffer just like her. She didn't endure all this in silence for nothing. She just wanna have some relief knowing you didn't escape and facing the same torture as her 🤡

[@cia1223]

@@sree1680 I agree.. that’s what stumped me totally.. after hearing about her difficult life and the way she talked about her youth and the discrimination, I always thought she would be the first person to support her next gen of women. But alas, some women do not break the cycle of abuse and violence but propagate it. I feel sorry for her and also for her son. Such unhappy and toxic people. 🙄

[@swatisaini6447]

@@cia1223" I was bullied so it's ok to bully others"

[@shwetamittal5888]

Kick them and come out

[@shahbazmansahia9253]

I really have no clue what you could possibly improve on this channel; It already feels A-1 content that is VERY MUCH NEEDED!!! A great video again guys! Thank you.

[@kiramn5892]

Being a male who stays at home and do household work,and wife having job I feel it is disrespectful to my spouse to demand for pay, because she is so hardworking and take all stress in life.

[@jagritikumari4012]

It's nothing to feel disrespectful brother

[@kiramn5892]

@@jagritikumari4012 I meant disrespect to her

[@jagritikumari4012]

@@kiramn5892 no , brother if she loves you then nothing matters 🙂

[@kiramn5892]

@@jagritikumari4012 Thanks

[@Home-o2v4h]

Yes. Ask for money. If they can then you can too.

[@mandarp9472]

No. They are working in their own homes. She gets housing, food, insurance and all the benefits.

[@mandarp9472]

Today's women get all the help with kithchen equipments like Mixer, Wahing machine, freeze, dish washers and now cleaning robots have come. Every house has domestic help and services like Urban company are also available. So no salary should be given.

[@fai3379]

👍👍🎂

[@sharwaridange134]

Can you please make a video on how being a mother is really a big problem for working women. Mothers have to work like they have no children and be a mother like they have no job. And how can boost of daycare and parental leave will be helpful.

[@swatisaini6447]

Great idea

[@ZarathustraSpeaking]

Nope they can't make any video which includes solution. Feminist only know how to create problem. Don't believe me? Scroll down all videos and see for yourself how many videos have solution(applicable too) in them.

[@gampa_10_31]

Adapting the Scandinavian countries models is the best and only choice ! Know about their country models

[@WR-NC-ASPL]

There is a very easy solution to this problem faced by strong independent career women.. All employed career Women who want to work after marriage, stay in her father's house after marriage, and look after her parents, do not want to take leave from her job to look after her kids etc can marry a poor, unemployed homeless, handsome, young man... He will be happy to live in his career wife's house because he is homeless. So, the wife can always look after her parents . He will never stop his career wife from working after her marriage because he is unemployed . Because he is unemployed and always sitting inside his wife Father's house, he will look after her small kids. So, she need not take leave from work to look after her kids. She can continue her career and present life style in her Father's house... But, a rich well employed man who owns his own house, is not going to come and live in his father in law's house. Most rich well employed men don't want to marry employed women. Rich well employed men already have enough money, and so he does not need the salary of his wife. So, most rich well employed men want to have an unemployed housewife and have a Peaceful married life. There are many poor unemployed girls who don't have anything to eat in her own house or living in rented house, because her parents are poor. These poor unemployed girls are waiting for some man to come and marry her and take her to the husband's house and give her free food and shelter for the rest of her life. So, the rich well employed men can marry such poor unemployed women and lead a happy life in his own house . While the career girls who do not want to go to her husband's house, want to work after marriage etc can marry a poor, unemployed, homeless, handsome young man and take her husband to her father's house or to her rented house and lead a happy life ... So, everyone is happy.. b

[@mrtriyja7800]

They should focus on carrer and don't marry or pregnent. It's for traditional women and not for urban modern working bots.

[@Livingalonediaries23]

I was a complete supporter of salary for homemakers and because their help obviously enhance the productivity of people around them and these people who work in formal sector improves The India's economy. Infact the way KZbin has given them a platform where just recording their work and so many people are watching how they do it. Gives thems lots of money and this is so good.

[@ryuray1677]

Suggestion: I would also love focus on LGBTQ+ content. This video is a great example of how the predefined role of women has impact even in same sex relationships, I believe you folks would do so well with this content that is much needed in this time and day especially in the context of India. A lot of the understanding and in depth exposure for queer content from my personal experience comes from foreign voice and its high time we have a care and understanding platform for our desi queers too for there are none at the moment. As always love swaddle for its amazing content :)

[@lollaprabhath4467]

Money != value. Value women for their work and can any feminist let women choose to be home makers and aspire to be dexterous in such a complex role? Let’s get paid for care, sex, love, feed everything.. nothing valuable if no money was in the equation? .. stupid economies and stupid societies.

[@rd2970]

This is going to be disastrous if Housewives are paid for household chores. Its not going to empower women instead more and more women are going to be stuck in a patrilineal trap.Our main goal should be to make women independent. Paying salaries to housework would just discourage young women from actually going to college and seeking a real paying job outside.Let's be honest if it is an abusive marriage and they are seeking divorce what's going to happen. The woman is going back to her parent's house if she has no job and she is not going to get paid for house work there. Instead of labelling it homemaking and glorifying it and paying salaries we should encourage women to join the workforce and become independent and try to close the gender pay gap which is a hundred percent a result of maternity. by making paternity leave a thing, well guess what more and more fathers would be okay with staying home and taking care of new born kids with a paid leave.

[@avinashtiwari4025]

I think we should be paid for even taking breath in this world because household work is burden but clocking 10-12 hours for peanut salary is empowerment.

[@modernmonkhere]

Hi The Swaddle team, I'm genuinely impressed that you included the clip from Ki and Ka to acknowledge the male figures being a homemaker too, in our real-world. I understand that you transitioned to focus on women as the majority of the (unpaid) homemakers and was constantly putting a spotlight on that. But I don't know if I am overthinking or I am right here but - you concluded the video with basically interpreting that this is all because what women do, after suggesting the "RRR Approach for homemakers". I mean, you started off good by showing a male homemaker and then ended the video with a message being one-sided, benefitting only female homemakers and not male homemakers? I didn't get it. I'd have appreciated it more if you concluded the video by being a little open to the definition of homemakers since you started the video with that tone and have the word in the title. Not demeaning your efforts for the video but it feels a little off, TBH.

[@jyotipol4128]

I have apprehension that giving salary to household put women more in that role and not have freedom to choose another career. Like when women have fo choose job, family members start to advise you to take nursing , teacher or banker job only, in future they may also start to demand make your career in household 😛

[@mrtriyja7800]

Why do such women want to marry. ? Choose ur freedom... Why boring marriage? Live ur life girls , why do you need a husband? And Let men choose traditional girls over urban wrands , atleast that brings much peace in there life . Muslim girls r also better .

[@vatsalasaxena8430]

@@mrtriyja7800 nobody 'needs' a husband If you fall in love and want to live out your life with some with the appropriate legal and social recognition And if your partner is okay with helping you out with your household chores As it's getting more and more expensive to live and even afford a house, it's important for both partners to work inside and outside the house If both partners are willing, what is your problem? You are still stuck in the mud like an old wheel

[@lindamary1647]

Both the genders should contribute equally in the household works

[@WR-NC-ASPL]

Only if both genders contribute equally to all economic expenses of the family .. but, Everywhere women always select the easier work and make men do the difficult work... 1 ... Men are ready to do all 100% of the household work and look after the children, if the wife goes outside the house, earns money herself, and provides him and her Children food and shelter, wife pays house rent or buys house using her own money and looks after all the household expenses and expenses of children, EMI , pays all loans etc. Men are very happy to make women the providers and make her do the tougher work of earning money. And men are happy do the easier household work and looking after children.... 2 ... If wife wants husband to share the household work, then both husband and wife should share 50% each of all household expenses like house rent, EMI, all household bills, grocery all loans etc. If they are buying a new house worth 1 crore rupees, then husband and wife should put in 50 lakhs share each because both of them are living in that house. If the wife does half share of all the above things, then the husband will do half share of the household work... D

[@omowhanre]

How much does it cost to be pregnant and breastfeed and raise a child? Adding children is of economic and social value to the family. How much does a high risk pregnancy cost? Or abuse from in-laws?

[@Divinefrequencies555]

@@WR-NC-ASPL then men should also become pregnant...btw women do contribute financially with her job and also dahej.

[@surabhishiwangi9883]

@@WR-NC-ASPL even when women fulfill all the conditions which you are putting here... men never participate in household activities... rather women either get the double burden of workplace and home or is forced to leave her job for the family... this is the reality

[@WR-NC-ASPL]

@@surabhishiwangi9883 .... There are many poor unemployed homeless handsome young men who are ready to marry an employed woman or rich woman and become her househusband.. So, There is a very easy solution to this problem faced by strong independent career women.. All employed career Women who want to work after marriage, stay in her father's house after marriage, and look after her parents, do not want to take leave from her job to look after her kids etc can marry a poor, unemployed homeless, handsome, young man... He will be happy to live in his career wife's house because he is homeless. So, the wife can always look after her parents . He will never stop his career wife from working after her marriage because he is unemployed . Because he is unemployed and always sitting inside his wife Father's house, he will look after her small kids. So, she need not take leave from work to look after her kids. She can continue her career and present life style in her Father's house... But, a rich well employed man who owns his own house, is not going to come and live in his father in law's house. Most rich well employed men don't want to marry employed women. Rich well employed men already have enough money, and so he does not need the salary of his wife. So, most rich well employed men want to have an unemployed housewife and have a Peaceful married life. There are many poor unemployed girls who don't have anything to eat in her own house or living in rented house, because her parents are poor. These poor unemployed girls are waiting for some man to come and marry her and take her to the husband's house and give her free food and shelter for the rest of her life. So, the rich well employed men can marry such poor unemployed women and lead a happy life in his own house . While the career girls who do not want to go to her husband's house, want to work after marriage etc can marry a poor, unemployed, homeless, handsome young man and take her husband to her father's house or to her rented house and lead a happy life ... So, everyone is happy.. But, 99% employed women will voluntarily choose to marry a rich well employed man after telling him that she will stop working after marriage because she wants to stay in her rich well employed husband's bigger house. The employed woman refuses to marry a poor unemployed handsome homeless man who wants his wife to work after marriage and he is also ready to stay in her father's house.. And then she tries to blame society for not allowing her to work after marriage, look after her parents etc when it is clear that she herself had the choice to work after marriage, if she had married the poor unemployed homeless handsome young man.... Why cannot employed women marry a poor unemployed homeless handsome young man who actually wants his wife to work after marriage.... Instead of trying to marry a rich well employed man who actually wants to marry an unemployed woman... That is the hypocrisy of women.. b

[@gautamkumar-li7ey]

And who gonna pay them??? Children? Husband? Or government? Instead asking for salary... teach your family members to share work load.

[@simadutta6851]

Which is difficult to achieve in our country that's why paying housewives is a easy approach.

[@gautamkumar-li7ey]

@@simadutta6851 as if women don't have access to husband income... salary idea can't be applied in lower middle class (bcoz large chunk spend on children and healthcare) and high society women already have access to bank account... I don't know why swaddle is crying.🤣

[@csoul8711]

@@simadutta6851 no it would lead to division of labour and women would be expected to live in house only and house work though it's important but it is not economic in nature.. So practical solution is to divide ot between partners Many women have proven their talent outside so it just we have aware people about jt

[@gautamkumar-li7ey]

@@csoul8711 just hire a servant if you have enough money... and if not then nobody can do anything.

[@simadutta6851]

@@csoul8711 yeah I agree but these gender roles are very much rooted in our society that's why I said giving housewives money for their work will somehow financially help them.

[@abhinayrangari9693]

In my home my father gave all his salary to my mom.Because they know and believe that my mom is managing my home so she know better how to manage the money. It is totally logical.

[@gampa_10_31]

If a woman gives all her salary to his unemployed husband, society will say , see how misogynistic he is, isn't it, don't lie

[@ZarathustraSpeaking]

@@gampa_10_31 that's why never listen to feminist because they're absolutely crazies

[@abhinayrangari9693]

@@gampa_10_31 women don't do this.It will damage their respect in society.But If a man do this then it consider as ideal man.Equality is myth(non achievable),but inequality is a reality and we should respect the difference between man and women.Gender Equality is illogical,that's why I follow Gender justice.My father(employed) gave his salary to my mom(homemaker) is a example of gender justice. Equality never happen between two sex but justice happen.

[@Divinefrequencies555]

@@gampa_10_31 aur rajat soreng tum dono har jagah jake spam karna bandh karo..

[@Divinefrequencies555]

@@gampa_10_31 also because he is mysogyn8stic bruh

[@anuthepro]

Such an important topic. I really like how snippets from pop culture media has been included in the video. This shows how housework is projected in mainstream media

[@bumblebee4550]

Seeing my mother doing all the houseworks and her complanes about my dad not helping her,made me thunking that marriage is hell for women.Being a homemaker is shit load of responsiblity only a few do it sincerely.

[@twohorsesinamancostume7606]

Where did that roof over her head come from? Who paid for the food? Water? Electricity? If your family could afford to have a car where did that come from? Her clothes? Literally everything that she had? Yet you make it sound like your dad did nothing.

[@ananyatripathi111]

कृपा करके ऐसे विषयों पर हिन्दी में भी बात बताएं ताकि साधारण घर में रहनेवाली औरतें भी सुन कर समझ सकें। 🙏❤️

[@mandarp9472]

Indian central govt and state govt have a combined outstanding debt of Rs 240 lakh crores. Men have Home loan EMI to pay, Insurance premiums, household expenses and children school fees and expenses. If still left with some amount man has to invest the same for retirement. If husbands start paying salary to wifes, nothing will be left to save.

[@chinnaramgariakash0029]

Are you male or female?

[@aakankshajanghela3954]

Since childhood I have always wanted this issue get highlighted. Thank you so much swaddle for doing this ❤️. I really want this to happen.

[@kumargourav2136]

Yeah that's true! Issues are only highlighted but, no one really take stands to bring some sort of solution to it 😪

[@mrtriyja7800]

In good prosperous homes men actually do REGISTRIES OF PROPERTY over the name of wife. Why do my wife needs a separate SALARY ... ? She is by default owner of everything I have. What's mine is hers, and hers is mine.

[@palakraj6024]

This is not at all an important issue. Women choose being homemaker because they are too lazy to study and have no talent.

[@105madhumithabalamurugan6]

@@palakraj6024 Even foregoing what a gross generalization that is, homemakers are lazy and have no talent? What world do you live in? You think raising children and maintaining a household is a cake walk? Spoken like someone who's probably never had to caretake kids or perform household tasks a day in his life...

[@105madhumithabalamurugan6]

@@palakraj6024 Even foregoing what a gross generalization that is, homemakers are lazy and have no talent? What world do you live in? You think raising children and maintaining a household is a cake walk? Spoken like someone who's probably never had to caretake kids or perform household tasks a day in his life...

[@pranavratra]

It's so important to talk about the amount of unpaid housework that is done by women in a heterosexual marriage. Almost all couples I know of from my parents' generation, including them. The unawarness of how the housework has contributed to the prosperity is simply apalling.

[@globalcitizenn]

I think running a home is one of the most important jobs, around which all other jobs revolve. It is the primary & most essential job.

[@marco-vz5kv]

Yaar .... I believe every woman should be financially independent and should be feminist,... But this video is filled with wokism, which I certainly hate

[@WR-NC-ASPL]

Not enough jobs.. There are more than 60 crore women in India. But, only 8 crore jobs for both men and women

[@crayon7369]

Marry an independent feminist then but you cant expect other women to behave the way you want. Some are feminist while some are FEMININE

[@marco-vz5kv]

@@crayon7369 women who are non left "feminine" feminist are mostly employed with salary. Usually women who claim to be "intersectional" feminist are unemployed. AThe biggest example is people who work at swaddle. Well this is just my observation from various social media accounts of "intersectional" feminist on twitter. Marrying is not what i am talking about. Iam talking about "wokism" which is destroying the brains of people these days. A woke person is never logical and always talks irrelevant shit. This wokism is seen in both men and women.

[@crayon7369]

@@marco-vz5kv there is nothing like feminine feminist lol..like I said marry an alpha feminist who can take a man's role because you are ready to take woman's role. Equality as you and few other betas want. please don't insult feminity by associating it with feminism. Feminist men like you don't deserve feminine traits of a woman which is being a nurturer because you can't be the provider to her.

[@marco-vz5kv]

@@crayon7369 maaf kardi jiye hame 🙏

[@prernasharma1307]

Awesome video Maybe you can start a series on working moms and their struggles

[@mrtriyja7800]

In good prosperous homes men actually do REGISTRIES OF PROPERTY over the name of wife. Why do my wife needs a separate SALARY ... ? She is by default owner of everything I have. What's mine is hers, and hers is mine.

[@loulicious5882]

@@mrtriyja7800 they do registries in name of wife to reduce taxes lol. If not for woman working at home man would need to hire everyone for wjat woman does food cleaning and evrything homemakers practically save his money.

[@mrtriyja7800]

@@loulicious5882 Some woman can't trust any man in their life. Due to their phucked up past. Good men should save themselves from such folks.

[@mrtriyja7800]

@@loulicious5882 Do u know men can hire maid which takes 2-3k . Can eat food in mess at nominal cost. So u see here it's not that much to create a fuss. It's better peace loving men should marry a traditional women.... And avoid extra sharp extra educated extra extra womens on their own to navigate further their path. Muslim girls are also good.

[@thisoverpcworld]

Short answer No

[@periperi-q1b]

Salary word should be replaced by Pocket money which will be obviously given by husband normally.

[@train_xc]

I’m single, living alone. I pay for every household work cleaning, cooking, washing clothes etc. in blore it is like ₹6000 - 7000 per month.

[@mtps9949]

A normal houshold operates by UNDERSTANDING basic roles and responsability.. but when relationships fall apart, then the women is left with nothing in hand. there is no solution fr it except asking women to takeup a paying job and distribute d responsability. this would make her over worked up but, money driven socity cant be made accountable to the emotional and mentle work needed to run the household.

[@mrocean2305]

Ever heard about alimony & child support?

[@kavyasingh5852]

Please continue this series....it was soo meaningful...!!

[@cauliflowerhead2735]

Well, we live in a capatalist society where everything is measured against how much you earn. So if you spend your time doing things that are unpaid, that is another word for things outside of wealth creation, your time, human value and efforts are considered out of sight out of mind. So I understand why latent progressives were having this discussion, it was also a good political gimmick to bring attention to the invisible members of society. Also I absolutely agree with the ending of the video, if housemakers are salaried it'll lock up men and women is traditional roles that'll only intensify to an impractical degree while progressivism in all forms are meant to ease people out of mindless traditions.

[@chess44k64]

Just a curious question, so if i teach my sister science, should i be paid for it? If i help my mom cleaning the house then should i ask for money for my effort and time spent? If drive my family member to school or college then do i charge them for the ride?

[@jagritikumari4012]

See cooking , cleaning and other house chores aren't a "woman'' thing everybody should know that regardless of it's gender and it's not only a " women's " duty to take care of house it's of both so both should help and also it's not only a " man's '' duty to earn it's both home both should work and pay .......

[@chess44k64]

@@jagritikumari4012 i agree with that that women and men both should have the same freedom and responsibilities but since the article was should women be paid for their house work then should men also be paid when they do something for the family like driving their kids to school etc? And if the wife has to be paid salary for the work she does for the house, then can the husband charge rent from the wife for staying in his house (ie. If the house is on his name)?

[@jagritikumari4012]

@@chess44k64 I think You're point is valid but this article was written to make people feel that house chores aren't any easy thing and women should be respected for their house work also as people respect men ...... and I too believe that they both must have equal responsibilities if both genders want equal rights but psudeo feminists really create alot problems .......

[@chess44k64]

@@jagritikumari4012 every kind of work should be respected equally...what are pseudo feminists?

[@jagritikumari4012]

@@chess44k64 I am a feminist and I can clear you that pseudo feminists exists like barkha datt ........

[@sharathvasudev]

men can just pay for a housemaid instead. also pay a prostitute and avoid all that drama

[@harrytenn4867]

We are so heading towards that, just like the west.

[@fai3379]

Exactly a servant for house hold work and hire prostitude for that thing.

[@Amusiastudio]

they are paid. Their husband pays for everything so they can stay home. That is the payment.

[@parvathi8046]

Swaddle shouldn't promote such regressive ideas. Without demolishing the gender roles in the the household, drawing a salary for household chores further chains the woman to that particular gender role. It would have the opposite effect. This effect is what happened in religious, cast reservation system. Rather than making sure the democratic equality among different religious cast communities the system focused on keeping the cast system alive by implementing them. I'm afraid this would be the case if homemakers were provided the salary. They can draw the salary but they would be stuck in the assigned gender roles. Moreover, men would still depend on woman for household duty. What we need is a society where a man and woman sharing household work by recognizing it as a shared responsibility.

[@samay5840]

That will not happen untill women leave looking for rich or govt job or 6 digit salary groom.

[@parvathi8046]

@@samay5840 Please get updated. Stereotypical genderoles has to be left out. Until these genderroles are thrown out of the window, money doesn't change a thing.

[@samay5840]

@@parvathi8046 Untill you leave searching for rich or govt job grooms, gender roles will be there.

[@parvathi8046]

@@samay5840 You are again stereotyping women. Why do you think that women leave searching for govt job grooms?

[@samay5840]

@@parvathi8046 Because searching for govt job groom or rich men is greedy nature. It's equal to asking for dowry.

[@shivanidubey2691]

I would like to a separate video on "Egg freezing".

[@therealgrimreaper68]

they did make one already kzbin.info/www/bejne/a3KamoR7ftt1rbc

[@RohitChauhan-hr2vy]

If both spouses have job then domestic works should divided. But if one spouse has a job and one don't have any job then jobless spouse is bound to do domestic works. How it is possible that a person should do both domestic as well as his/her job.

[@A.T1996]

The idea of paying homemakers is economically unfeasible. Who should pay the homemaker??? The husband, the child(ren) or the State??? The cost of fooding, lodging, clothing, healthcare and other miscellaneous expenses already come from the husband's income, the children don't have the economic capabilities to remunerate and the State has no skin in the game. People should recognize and appreciate the work and effort put in by homemakers and even should reduce their burden, however, paying homemakers tantamounts to committing social and economic hara-kiri.

[@Vizorfam]

Why can't men pay them? When they eat free food and their children are raised by a woman?

[@A.T1996]

@@Vizorfam And who do you think pays for the food, clothing, shelter and other expenses which the woman enjoy as well??? The money doesn't drop from heaven every morning at the doorstep.

[@Vizorfam]

@@A.T1996 yeah and as if it is something so big you sit comfortably at your office enjoying air conditioning working only half the time and gossiping for other half comparing to what a woman has to go through at home is so stressful

[@gautamkumar-li7ey]

@@Vizorfam who tf says that people can't have AC at home... and BTW office is not fun ground... just like security Jobs.

[@Vizorfam]

@@gautamkumar-li7ey did you forget that majority of this country is poor and they can't afford one at home also don't even get me started on including rural households

[@suparnajana931]

Atleast paid with respect

[@TheWatupmr]

Love how the vid goes over the different nuances provided by different femenists over time. 🔥🔥

[@lindamary1647]

My brother will keep his room neat and clean

[@ruchirasarma9293]

Thank you for this video!

[@jyotsna5276]

Somehow I find the term "homemaker" quite offensive. "Homemaking" is an all member job. The term glorifies domestic slavery and ties the women in a golden cage. The " homemaker" never tries to do something in life and thinks of herself as a self sacrificing goddess. Whereas a working woman pushes her limits and is still made to feel guilty for not doing it the "right" way! Son's of the so called "homemakers" grow up with unreasonable expectations towards women and are often unappreciative, snobbish and cruel towards their working wives. They don't help out at home because the "homemaker" mom does not teach her son that homemaking is his responsibility too. And what is the opposite of "homemaker", " home- breaker" ???. No wonder the working women are so misunderstood and demonised by their own families. Tell your "homemaker" that she does have an alternative, a choice to think beyond the home. She can step down from the goddess thrown and explore her options. Domestic chores are everyone's responsibly. It's not a one member job.

[@kiramn5892]

Homemaker are not exclusively she

[@bittertruth4847]

Yes paid but as per current market rates for every activity. Hell even include the costs for sorrogation to ensure that the one who is paying for it gets the sole and only legal right over the kids. Now thats true equality a proper fair transaction. If a maid can do all the work for 5000₹ then house wife should be paid same for the same work and should manage to cover 50% of the expenses on her 'earned income' to meet the equity mark. The sheer assumption that house work is equal to outside work is utter nonsense.

[@dankaxon4230]

It is actually quite easy to tell how much money the women is bringing in the household by working, and that is equivalent to the amount of money that will be lost by the man( due to lower productivity) if the women left the household.

[@joeysmom2917]

Most homemakers who don't have job are provided a shelter and money by there husands, so isn't that kinda like payment? In an indirect way? For example, if my mom is cooking the food for the family then my dad is the one buying the vegetables and other food items for her to make? If she wants to go shopping, she can use my dads money. So that kinda balances everything out no? Tho i can never understand how some ppl can expect working women to do house chores whilist they also do a job. That's not fair at all. This comment is just personal experience. I hope i didnt offend anyone

[@Vizorfam]

The job of a homemaker is much more difficult than that of a husband working at office (where we all know honestly for how much time they actually work) the woman has to take care of so many things and in majority of households her work is never appreciated also she does not have the duty to provide meals or things like to the child or husband she did not get married to do some work at her husband's house the husband should hire a maid

[@joeysmom2917]

@@Vizorfam your very right abt the lack of appreciation and bad timings. Homemakers literally work day and night. We indians really need to work on these things. We need to set these boundaries before marriage. And if the wife didn't marry the husband to do the house work then the husband didn't marry the wife to provide her financial support either. She needs to get a job and pay for herself. There ain't no thing as a free lunch. I suggest married couple's to get a maid and the women to start working so they can pay half and half of the maids salary.

[@Vizorfam]

@@joeysmom2917 on the second note i think even this maid business should need to be stopped , maid are also women who work at rich people's house and they are doing it because of need but cleaning the dirty dishes of someone's home is so disgusting a job for a fellow human being the household work should be done by the husband and these poor maids should instead be woking in factories rather than cleaning junk of other people's home

[@joeysmom2917]

@@Vizorfam a job is a job. You do it they pay you, its as simple as that. Nothing to do with gender.

[@nitishaupadhye9491]

@@wingardiumleviosa89 I'm sure we have women in armies. In a few years, we will sizable number of women in defence and everything. Also, this isn't a relevant example here.

[@amarsachan7887]

I don't want to be a care giver . If my husband ( future ) want I will appreciate. Should I add a demand like I want a husband who is literate but don't want to have job and be a home maker ?? Would this condition sound good.

[@gampa_10_31]

If my future partner is like this, I will appreciate

[@ZarathustraSpeaking]

@@gampa_10_31 before marriage ask if your partner is feminist or not otherwise 🥴🥴 Your life would be a living hell 😂😂

[@gampa_10_31]

@@ZarathustraSpeaking do feminists do marriage also?😜

[@mrtriyja7800]

In good prosperous homes men actually do REGISTRIES OF PROPERTY over the name of wife. Why do my wife needs a separate SALARY ... ? She is by default owner of everything I have. What's mine is hers, and hers is mine.

[@mrocean2305]

@@gampa_10_31 yes ,that because they're not dumb unlike pseudo feminist. Just take some example :- Sonam kapoor, Susmita Sen, swddle founder everyone is married 🥴

[@suhanibassan2698]

Love this video!!

[@therealgrimreaper68]

It would be better if Household work should be distributed according to time spent at work and income, so if wife works longer hours and makes more money then husband will do more household work than her, but if husband works longer hours then wife should do more housework. It dosen't always have to be 50-50 This can also be done by same-sex couples as well

[@codeserra]

No, it will limits the aspiration of partner earning less and make them burdered. Instead focus should be on equal division of labor at home and enabling each others career. One should never demand sacrifice based on someones current situation because current situation is temporary but rather encourage and help each other thrive.

[@WR-NC-ASPL]

But, Everywhere women always select the easier work and make men do the difficult work... 1 ... Men are ready to do all 100% of the household work and look after the children, if the wife goes outside the house, earns money herself, and provides him and her Children food and shelter, wife pays house rent or buys house using her own money and looks after all the household expenses and expenses of children, EMI , pays all loans etc. Men are very happy to make women the providers and make her do the tougher work of earning money. And men are happy do the easier household work and looking after children.... 2 ... If wife wants husband to share the household work, then both husband and wife should share 50% each of all household expenses like house rent, EMI, all household bills, grocery all loans etc. If they are buying a new house worth 1 crore rupees, then husband and wife should put in 50 lakhs share each because both of them are living in that house. If the wife does half share of all the above things, then the husband will do half share of the household work... J

[@therealgrimreaper68]

@@codeserra If one partner is working the whole day, they will obviously be very tired after coming home, they might not have the energy to do half the house work. While the other partner works less hours and more time off work, they should do more work. If the income and work hours are at par, then they can distribute 50-50

[@WR-NC-ASPL]

@Elleon Mor .. unmarried men and women should also get the same number of leaves. Because otherwise it will become discrimination because why should unmarried people work more than married people... In all countries with feminism, marriage rates have fallen and birth rates have decreased and family system has collapsed. In feminist countries men refuse to marry women due to marital property laws etc. Example.. in USA 50% women never get married. Yet all of these unmarried women get pregnant and 40% children born in USA are born to unmarried women.. In Sweden and Denmark local Men are refusing to marry the local feminist women and have started marrying feminine women from other countries.. Example.. 1.. why should Scandinavian women complain when Scandinavian men started refusing to marry Scandinavian women and started marrying Asian women. How does it matter to Scandinavian women if Scandinavian men are marrying Asian women. Many Scandinavian men are refusing to marry Scandinavian fe"inists and have started going to Asian countries like Thailand and Philippines and marrying Asian women from those countries .. They are not interested in marrying Scandinavian women. ... Now, there are very few men in Denmark and Sweden who are ready to marry the local fe"inist women, and so these fe"inist are asking their government to make laws that to stop the local men from going to Asian countries like Thailand and Philippines and marrying fe"inine Asian women. Similar thing have happened in all countries with fe"inism, all the rich men simply start avoiding and ignoring the local fe"inists and marry fe"inine women from other Asian countries.. In Scandinavian countries men are refusing to marry local women. The situation is so serious in Scandinavian countries, that the government of Denmark is requesting the local men to marry these local women. But, even the male migrants from Africa don't want to marry these Scandinavian fe"inists. The birth rate of Scandinavian women have fallen to all time low, and the governments are worried..

[@WR-NC-ASPL]

@Elleon Mor .. In all countries with feminism marriage rates and birth rates have fallen.. South Korean presidential frontrunner Yoon Seok-youl suggested Monday that feminism was interfering in “healthy relationships” between men and women, according to local press reports.. he suggested the movement is responsible for low birth rates... Some say feminism is too politically exploited [to the point] it prevents healthy relationships between men and women," Yoon said. "From a social standpoint, the conditions are ill-suited for having and raising children. This is not a problem that can be solved by giving out government subsidies.".. Fewer South Korean women believe they need to marry, with the number falling to 44 percent in 2018 from 62 percent in 2008, government figures showed, while the number of people living alone rose sharply, accounting for about one-third of households... Feminism is also gathering pace in other areas. A growing band of young women have given up makeup and cut their hair short to rebel against long-held ideals of beauty in a country with one of the highest rates of plastic surgery per capita... Yet, in direct opposition to this theory, fertility rates in countries that are generally regarded as more egalitarian are typically those with lower and dropping fertility rates. For example, since 2006, South Korea has spent at least $130 billion on changing this trend, through “tax incentives, expanded child care, housing benefits, special holidays for baby-making for some government workers, support for in vitro fertilization, generous parental leave from work, [and] subsidised play dates.” However, none of these measures have yielded the desired outcome, with the fertility rate still well below the replacement rate. Even Nordic countries like Norway, Finland, and Iceland, which have some of the most generous parental leave and childcare policies and are ranked as the most equal societies, are reporting a declining fertility rate despite their government’s best efforts... This suggests that the J-curve theory may be invalid, and that women with greater financial independence who are freed of the shackles of societal expectations and gender norms become less inclined to have children. Simultaneously, it also showcases that policymakers’ outward commitment to feminism is grounded in deeply patriarchal and paternalistic concepts, wherein the end goal is still to ensure that women’s role in society is to produce children...Countries that have not been corrupted by feminism have high marriage rates and birth rates.. Niger, for instance, has the world’s highest fertility rate, with 7.6 children per woman, ranks last on the United Nations’ development rankings of 189 countries, and ranks 157th on the gender inequality index.. There is a clear trend of falling fertility rates in countries that are closer to achieving gender equality. As policymakers continue and fail to entice women to bear more children, it is becoming increasingly clear that their version of feminism is in fact an aggressive and highly conservative form of natalism. In essence, women’s bodies are seen as tools for economic growth and gender equality is being used as a pretext to achieve that goal. As we look to the future and approach what seems to be a more egalitarian society, we must stop to consider the thought that we are simply recycling age-old forms of gendered discrimination to fit a new era, all supposedly in the name of the economy... Originated from South Korea, members of the 6B4T movement renounce sex, child-rearing, dating and marriage with men. The Chinese 6B4T feminist groups were banned on Chinese social media and labelled by the web censor as “extreme” and “radical”. At the same time, nationalists were mobilized to attack feminists who criticized hyper-masculine culture on social media. In recent years, online nationalist trolls have stigmatized feminists who advocate for women’s reproductive rights and sexual rights against patriarchy as “female fists” (女拳) who picked fights with men and upset harmonious gender relations in China and blame them for the country’s low fertility rate. Some even accuse outspoken feminists of conspiring with “foreign forces” because they are critical of some of the state policies.. A widely circulated article published, “How extreme female fists incite young people from getting married and giving birth?” (极端女拳如何带节奏煽动年轻人不婚不育？), published in June 2021, largely sums up nationalist views on Chinese feminists:... female fists]… encourage girls to belittle and despise males. They make use of gender perspectives to create conflicts within the society. Even though their impact is limited, the brainwashed ones have given up the will to give birth and joined the “female fists” to help them spread their ideas. On the other side of the same coin, they also agitate males into hating females as women are becoming less adorable, too demanding and looking down on males…

[@Vizorfam]

Definitely they should be paid while men enjoy outside both work and extra benefits of jobs it's women who suffer in homes and work so much and if the parents of Boy also lives with them then what else to say

[@gautamkumar-li7ey]

women already have access to husband income... and high class women have shares in income... A poor farmer/worker can't do it. Now for whom these idiots are crying?

[@md.sohailali7961]

It like you want your son kick you out of his home as soon as she gets married.

[@WR-NC-ASPL]

But,, All economic expenses of the family should also be shared equally.. Everywhere women always select the easier work and make men do the difficult work... 1 ... Men are ready to do all 100% of the household work and look after the children, if the wife goes outside the house, earns money herself, and provides him and her Children food and shelter, wife pays house rent or buys house using her own money and looks after all the household expenses and expenses of children, EMI , pays all loans etc. Men are very happy to make women the providers and make her do the tougher work of earning money. And men are happy do the easier household work and looking after children.... 2 ... If wife wants husband to share the household work, then both husband and wife should share 50% each of all household expenses like house rent, EMI, all household bills, grocery all loans etc. If they are buying a new house worth 1 crore rupees, then husband and wife should put in 50 lakhs share each because both of them are living in that house. If the wife does half share of all the above things, then the husband will do half share of the household work... K

[@md.sohailali7961]

Well if you think being in home is suffering then sometime consider going to a hot metal melting unit where people get drenched in heat like through hell. And most men work at place where they have extra added benifit of loosing their life in most scariest and painful way that no one can imagine. Being in home might be little though with that but we can all agree that you don't stay working 14 hours unstoppable.

[@mrocean2305]

Who hurt you bro 🥴?

[@endisnear306]

Yes they should be paid.. Imagine not having money to buy dhania last minute lol.. Has happened many times with my mum when guests come unannounced

[@endisnear306]

@sHaLiNi babe

[@mandarp9472]

Per capita income in India is Rs 18,000 per month.

[@yadavmayu7]

Well it's very true that deciding a salary is very difficult for homemakers both from evaluation point of view and policy point of view. This issue is really complicated. How much ever I think the variables just keep getting added. Can't reach to any conclusion. It's best not to put a value I guess.

[@manishavarma3911]

Great video! I would also like you to talk about why women are compelled to wax their body hair. thanks.

[@anushka6559]

Yes...the pressure is always on the women.

[@WR-NC-ASPL]

Why are men compelled to shave his beard and moustache...

[@aditisk99]

@@WR-NC-ASPL Bruh

[@mrtriyja7800]

Lazy girl

[@supriyoghosh9061]

@@anushka6559 no you take the pressure on yourself. It's upto you whether you want to do it or not.

[@Divinefrequencies555]

next video should be on normalising house husbands because the patriarchal society shames a woman and her man for her man not earning as much as others, so another v8deo on that slapping patriarchy and meninists on both theor faces( because hypocrisy)

[@shanaya5855]

why they chose to become a house wife at the first place.why not train urself and get a job.

[@mrtriyja7800]

Yes, they should not marry. Men will also be happy, Let them choose traditional girls over urban town bicycle.

[@nanyo4583]

Swaddle team I love your videos a lot…also i have been overthinking about beauty with brains being used as a complement but is it really i hope to see lot mote content like this 🤞

[@Sahilisonline]

How much do you think should be paid to a home maker? More than the maid? If yes why not retire the home maker and keep the maid only :/ Makes more financial sense. Cooking and cleaning take up most of a home makers time and they are not exactly high paying jobs for a maid. The other stuff that you're talking about is irrelevant to a financial decision. We need to give home makers respect, and authority to run the household. There are multiple solutions to this but I'm not sure one size fits all approach will work here. Most women don't wanna ask their husband for money to buy them a lipstick. It's a bit more complicated than what you've assumed.

[@crayon7369]

You are an idiot if you think a homemakers and maids job are equal

[@akshaythakkar9127]

Who will pay the homemaker 😂😂. The title is so funny 😂😂. Here the employer is the employee 😂😂😂.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

All the best on all the new uploads! 👏🏽

[@bunny9903]

When will this series resume?

[@sapna319]

Amazing video!! Love how you guys research and articulate such important subjects! Also which is the movie of Sakshi Tanwar that's shown here ?

[@lindamary1647]

During the first semester and second semester I did some of the household works

[@user-gq1ij]

If you are a man and reading this comment and not married Try to leave your work and what ever you do for a job and then search for a working lady to be your wife I don't think any woman is going to find you intresting if you don't earn money So you have to earn money to live a happy married life, so you do a job But someone needs to look after at home, your kid, food etc That only is the distribution of work Not a single girl here would like a man who will say that you go to work and I will stay at home and do house keeping 😂😂 Isn't that hypocrisy

[@vatsalasaxena8430]

Not true My father's sister earned when her husband was unemployed for years Even I have supported my partner for a long time when he was not earning You have such a narrow thought, Sir

[@samay5840]

@@vatsalasaxena8430 Exceptional case like you is not for majority. Almost all unemployed men are unmarried. Only small portion unemployed men are married.

[@vatsalasaxena8430]

@@samay5840 also the OP said not a single girl That is such narrow thought Even if something is the norm today, think about the hundreds and hundreds of years of discrimination against girls and women Girls were killed in the womb in earlier times (still happens in some parts of India)! The more you can change in the upcoming decade, the more prosperity and happiness you will see But you are stuck in narrow thought

[@user-gq1ij]

@@vatsalasaxena8430 My thought is not a narrow thought, it is a practical thought, even I don't want to work and look after home and cooking 😂😂 But it will never be possible

[@samay5840]

@@vatsalasaxena8430 Because he hasn't seen a single girl who's ready to marry unemployed man. Girls are killed in womb only in recent times as there was no technology in older times.

[@anandhichajjed]

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[@Lifeangel2908]

I actually proposed this idea, that whatever I used to earn, I used to transfer 50% of my earnings to her account, and I thought to continue this but I lost my job. It’s been more than 3 decades for her to continuously do this unpaid work, without a single day off, and yet nobody thinks she deserves her own income.

[@therealgrimreaper68]

Paid? by whom? It's literally her own house. They anyways use their husband's money.

[@gautamkumar-li7ey]

Feminists don't use brain.🤣

[@akk2515]

Wow you know the situation of every woman is it

[@gautamkumar-li7ey]

@@akk2515 do you know situation of every men???... don't generalize thing

[@akk2515]

@@gautamkumar-li7ey I ain't generalizing either . Learn to comprehend

[@yashagar4443]

Keep up the good work

[@kiramn5892]

Since I stay at home and do household chores which is trivial and wife earns for the family by hardwork,it is not nice to demand for pay.All stress of work she does and takes cares of our home and my safety. It's disrespectful to demand for pay for mild work at home

[@lilyarios1026]

It is not just mild work at home.

[@kiramn5892]

@@lilyarios1026 No ma'am ,the stress and hardwork of job earner is very much higher than those at home

[@akk2515]

@@kiramn5892 not at all

[@akk2515]

There is a set time for people doing paid jobs they get holidays but house hold work never stops

[@kiramn5892]

@@akk2515 I am also doing house hold chores. With home appliances,it is comparatively easy.The spouse with job has more mental and physical stress irrespective of holidays.Even on holiday they think abt job

[@bittertruth4847]

Why the duck taxpayers should bear the cost of a person to sit at home and work for 4-5 hours max while other's bust their ass for 12-16 hours and then pay taxes to support the minimum working and almost zero economically beneficial activity.

[@crayon7369]

Why dont you do that 5 hr work and find a working alpha woman for you?

[@bittertruth4847]

@@crayon7369 alpha women 🤣🤣🤣. Do u even know the ratio of women actively working day and night to climb the corporate ladder? I study 16-18 hours a day, and not a single female in my class matches that and my class of t.y.b.b.a have more females than male. Also i can work for 16 hours and keep a maid. So can a "alpha women" i have absolutely no problem with that. Infact i support women in work but i want them to work like men, pulling consecutive day then night shifts and contributing equally to economic production. U are assuming that i don't want women to work, i want them to be exactly like male labour so that price for labour can come even more down thus helping reduce prices. If a female chooses to stay at home she shouldn't be rewarded more than what a maid gets for equal amount of work.

[@bittertruth4847]

@@crayon7369 btw just a statistics i found few days back, in india a survey was conducted with sample size of 440 (higher than necessary sample size) apprently unmarried women have 88% dipression compared to to house wifes. Imagine 9/10 are depressed in their 40s. If that is the outcome u want then go for it 🤷🏻‍♂️, cheaper goods and labour for me . Also for uer argument that why not marry a alpha women, apprently the divorce rate sky rocket the moment difference between earnings between male and female narrows down and then female crosses the earnings of the male, like the divorce rate initiated by females rises exponentially. I am not even lying. Ask uerself will u choose a begger as uer husband or a person within same or higher socio-economic circle ?

[@crayon7369]

@@bittertruth4847 you are talking like an idiot now if you think maids and homemakers are same. Do one thing get a maid instead of a wife and live alone without children. Or else adopt children and ask your so called maid to take care of them.

[@muskanasudani2529]

@swaddle how do you think of these things ? Like when I read the title I was like ki salary should be given but then I didn’t actually think it through (which is like ik the channel is called overthinking it)I wanted to ask like how do you research about it all

[@richat8808]

While it is easy to propose the idea of distributing household work equally and respecting housework and people doing housework, its an extremely subjective solution and does not ensure that women would be able to venture out for these outside jobs. Nor is it encouraging men to take any interest in participating in equal household work distribution. We are leaning too much on a wishful concept of a eutopian society, where people understand gender equality, equal pay, dissolution of traditional gender roles and taboo attached to women working outdoors and men wanting to be homemakers. In the real world, the 3R's come across as wishful thinking to me, people are not going to be so progressive in a 100 years. Maybe by then we will have robots to do some of these jobs and we would be in next century🤪

[@lindamary1647]

Even though there many good charactered women's are remaining unmarried from 2006to2022

[@Divinefrequencies555]

even though there are many good and also characterless men some of them marry some dont, while most of them have extra marital affairs...

[@Gaurav99528]

Cleaning n cooking 👨‍🍳🍲 is not a gender role.

[@waiwai5233]

Not surprising that women lack empathy and only see things from their perspective. If the husband has to pay his wife for house work then should the women pay for her cost of living in the house hold? Selfishness knows no bounds. Just stay single.

[@kumarmanjeet6704]

I think yes.. Men should work outside and women in home.. That's all i have to say

[@ayuship2022]

Any how this does not justify😂they are educated they should work their is no reason for educated women to sit at home and cook for family .I understand for some particular time they have to take break due to motherhood

[@nilimaahmedsultana6255]

If this is job for a women she and get pair she should live in her own home or rent , food, groceries. If the man fire or divorce she should not go to the court for almonie and Mantainance allowance

[@AshishRajpaliiscool]

Isn't having Everything In your life automatically paid for a compensation? I feel it's better than me having a job cuz I have to care about how much I spend. But if I had the privilege to ask my Hubby for whatever I want and have everything provided to me just for doing 2-3 hours of Chores. I'd much rather take that deal.

[@suhanisoni735]

ignorance is a great place sir, seems blissful right?

[@harrytenn4867]

Feminists cant handle the truth mam. Also they are jealous of other traditional women, who are able to marry men, rather than being alone.

[@jadagijane2677]

If swaddle will pay then I'm ok with honemaker being paid👍

[@Algodo_Major]

Best~

[@Algodo_Major]

Okay no. Nobody can be paid for what they do in their homes. Try and make a boundary between what really matters to the state and the GDP of a country. What people do in their homes is not the concern of the state unless it's violence or anything illegal. Simply divide the unpaid labor amongst genders. How difficult is that. It's your home, the spouses have to make it work. It's like still pushing women in the household by saying, hey now you're gonna be paid for it leave the engineering to the men. So people think? Wow~ make job opportunities for women and create cerebral equality. The house work is a personal family matter let it be there. Let the husband and wife divide that labour so that they can both mutually benefit from each other's unpaid contribution to their jobs or careers. Lord!

[@smritinotiraniplease7743]

ok

[@csoul8711]

True

[@WR-NC-ASPL]

Equality of opportunity is not same as equality of outcome.. women should try to get job based on her merit and not based on reservation. She has to study and get more marks and perform better than men in the examination to get job.

[@Algodo_Major]

@@WR-NC-ASPL see i think i agree. However women don't have to particularly perform better than men. Because most jobs already have some essentials. So those with those essential and qualifications should get the job. Also depends on the no. Of seats though. Talking about reservation, this thing exists because of certain reasons and we are all well aware of that. Reservation is a way for empowerment and in order to encourage the participation reservation policies do have cut offs that may be lower than what is expected from the norm population. This is a different discussion though not reall related to what I wrote but otey~

[@WR-NC-ASPL]

@@Algodo_Major .. but, Even if all 100% women study till post graduation, only very few 6% of these women will get jobs according to her qualification.. Because. There are 68 crore women in India. Women want to do only white collar salaried jobs. There are only 8 crore salaried jobs in India. (Including all Central Government, military, railway, all state government jobs and all private jobs in all states) .. So, even if 50% of all salaried jobs are reserved for women, only 4 crore of 68 crore women will get the jobs. The remaining 64 crore women will remain unemployed, starving and homeless without any money to buy her own food. It is the Men who are doing blue collar jobs and giving free food and shelter to the 64 crore unemployed women.. These 64 crore unemployed women are not willing to do blue collar jobs. So, if men stop marrying women, all these 64 crore unemployed women will end up homeless and starving, because she does not have a husband to give her free food and shelter.. Even if we include women doing manual work like construction workers, only 21% of Indian women are working and earning any money. The remaining 79% of Indian women need to find a husband to give her free food and shelter. .. Only 21% of Indian women are even employed and fewer of these women are financially stable.. 1.. At 21% India has one of the lowest female participation rates in the world. In other words, 79% of Indian women do not even seek work... Updated: April 3, 2021.... 2... New Delhi: Female labour participation rate in India fell to 16.1% during the July-September 2020 quarter, the lowest among the major economies, a government report said, reflecting the impact of pandemic and a widening job crisis.03-Aug-2021 ... 3... In 2019, about 20.7 percent of women were in the labor force across India, down from approximately 30 percent in 1990... So, all unemployed women who constitute 79% of all women are desperate to get married to a man Because, all unmarried unemployed women will end up homeless and starving. Because she does not have any husband to give her free food and shelter. 79% Indian women are unemployed without any money. So, how will all the unmarried unemployed women survive. Who will give them free food and shelter.. d

[@nabiyaansari3538]

No but they should be treated with utmost respect and all their needs and desires should be fulfilled and they should get sundays and holidays off

[@anubebe3]

Anyone please tell the name of the movies shown in video

[@adityagoloka]

I don't think so any men will be able to pay his wife for household work. Average salary in India is ₹32,840 / Month. And nothing will create any impact in the society if creators like u make videos on the basis of articles only. Please relate the issue with the practical issues of the country. One of my relative living in Dwarka and his office is in Noida. The company is providing cab but the time cap between pick up and drop is only 7 hrs. Everyone is not able to pay for cook and domestic workers. And everywhere Women's don't earn equal money according to the mint the average hourly wage for female is ₹196.4 only and for men is ₹242/- In this case if his wife will work she will not able to earn equal money and over pressure from companies will also create trouble in their personal life. Who will take care of their daughter? Who will teach the kid ? Who will listen the kids problem? If her husband choose to shit in home then income will reduce. I don't think so womens' want salary for household works. They are doing because she love the family. And according to observation "YES" womens like to support her partner. But in our country being a housewife is also a taboo. In western countries many Women don't work they like to be housewife. Many vlogs is available on KZbin and nobody judging those western housewives.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

I have this dream one day that I will manage my home and get the interior decoration just right.

[@subhranilrudra3773]

Here also comes the idea of matrimonial property.

[@WR-NC-ASPL]

Matrimonial property law in not present in India.. it is present only in Goa

[@subhranilrudra3773]

@@WR-NC-ASPL yes

[@WR-NC-ASPL]

@@subhranilrudra3773 .. but, men living in Goa, can escape common marital property law by registering his marriage in any other state, and not registering his marriage in Goa

[@ravikgpiit]

My wife is a homemaker by choice. I know the value of household works/chores, thats why I pay her 20k as a token of appreciation every month (which includes monthly household expenses, and also this gives her a freedom to choose whatever she want to buy too) :-)

[@dikshachoudhry]

Just love ur content I use these ideas in my answer n essay along with in my life for better understanding of work n decision making Thanks a lot

[@mrtriyja7800]

In good prosperous homes men actually do REGISTRIES OF PROPERTY over the name of wife. Why do my wife needs a separate SALARY ... ? She is by default owner of everything I have. What's mine is hers, and hers is mine.

[@bhaveshtontiya7152]

Home makers should be paid so they remain housewife forever...

[@lindamary1647]

In all the village areas

[@payalsavla6956]

I wud like to make a video on The Modern Girl do not know to cook stereotype