Should MUSLIM WOMEN go to College? | HEATED DEBATE

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FaiyadFit

FaiyadFit

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@FaiyadFit
@FaiyadFit 2 ай бұрын
Go watch 1:18:49 and read the live chat 😂
@DontOpenThisChannel
@DontOpenThisChannel 2 ай бұрын
If that was his real voice then we should be making fun of him
@fareehan1
@fareehan1 2 ай бұрын
Women don't always get education for a career.That is just to be knowledgeable and be ready for the real world. To be educated is their basic right and will effect our future generations if we keep potential mothers ignorant.
@Ziko2687s8
@Ziko2687s8 2 ай бұрын
So let's encourage them to get a secular dunya education to be ready for the real world, but neglect knowledge of the hereafter? If we really want educated and good mothers for our children, they should be seeking knowledge of the Deen. How can an educated woman be a good housewife?
@Fireplaceandrain
@Fireplaceandrain 2 ай бұрын
​So men should have the secular knowledge because you don't need the deen knowledge ??Let me tell u sm most girls now take careers serious because they've seen what their mother went through the helplessness in her eyes we never wanna feel that but who exactly wouldn't love to just stay home learn the deen from online raise kids it's like a dream walhii but when the male figure shows his power and how ur nothing and makes u feel stupid cuz u basically can't provide for urself or ur kids ur nothing without him men abuse that.Nothing wrong with us getting education for backup
@AUDIBLETINGZ
@AUDIBLETINGZ 2 ай бұрын
Faiyad made a good point about fathers not taking full responsibility in the event that their daughters get divorced.. They make them go to school so that they can provide for themselves in the event of divorce.
@DontOpenThisChannel
@DontOpenThisChannel 2 ай бұрын
@@fareehan1 seems like Sahabia didn't get their basic right of secular education and were also ignorant? Come on man think before you speak
@fareehan1
@fareehan1 2 ай бұрын
@DontOpenThisChannel bro I don't know what you mean by secular education?but our ability to read and write and communicate effectively is part of God given right to everyone. There is nothing wrong to learn how to navigate in this world. Getting knowledge of this world along with the deen will secure our hereafter too.
@lejlahardolli2210
@lejlahardolli2210 2 ай бұрын
This person has tiktok and he whants to stop and save his wife from digital phones ,that is the most narcissistic thing I have heard. When tiktok is a app that has a lot of temptations like music, Fitna and its normalized, a man needs to set examples but when he is talking on tiktok you are no man.
@haadiyasandhu6615
@haadiyasandhu6615 2 ай бұрын
I agree. I don’t show myself on the internet. Naturally I wouldn’t want my husband to be on the internet either. Fitna of social media is severe for both genders. You have girls flocking after these ‘dawah Bros’ and these brothers garnering attention through controversial views. Social media is all very calculated. I don’t like to talk about intentions. But I wouldn’t be surprised if he did this, so that he could get attention and grow his online platform.
@tanvirkabir4960
@tanvirkabir4960 2 ай бұрын
Hypocrisy has many faces, sometimes behind beards too.
@sugoi9680
@sugoi9680 2 ай бұрын
Nah I'm with you on this one not going to lie
@rahmatoullahbah5230
@rahmatoullahbah5230 2 ай бұрын
im 50/50 on this topic everyone is different and every marriage is different 🤷🏽‍♀️ as long as we are practicing our deen to the best of our abilities
@Abdullah_muslim1
@Abdullah_muslim1 2 ай бұрын
Practising our deen means to do things like preventing sisters from going to educational institutions in the west. People like to make it out to be complicated when it isn't. Women today are different but theh shouldn't be. They should only be different within the frameworks of what's necessary, judged by Allah's Sharia
@Fireplaceandrain
@Fireplaceandrain 2 ай бұрын
​@Abdullah_muslim1 so if its not in the west its fine
@AUDIBLETINGZ
@AUDIBLETINGZ 2 ай бұрын
Exceptions don’t make the rule.
@rahmatoullahbah5230
@rahmatoullahbah5230 2 ай бұрын
🤷🏽‍♀️
@muhammadmafaz8530
@muhammadmafaz8530 16 күн бұрын
Topic is not for everyone
@razkia
@razkia 2 ай бұрын
So many problems in this video… - Hiwa mentions the issue of fitnah and sihr when a woman publicizes herself to the internet… men are not excluded from this either. By this logic, Hiwa himself should not be subjecting himself and his relationship to potential sihr. If he has “so much gheerah,” he would understand that there is more benefit in remaining humble and hidden than becoming a controversial internet figure, especially considering how many people dislike his misogynistic takes. This attempt to grasp at straws to prevent women from existing in public spaces is insane, because there’s so many double standards you are not addressing. It’s even more so problematic considering Allah created hijab for us to be able to exist in public spaces in a safe way. What is the purpose of hijab if it was not to provide women and men with a means of safely existing in their communities? - I was gonna go through point by point and address how many mistakes you are making and how careless you are being in discussing women, despite how marginalized and oppressed they are, but this entire video is just an echo chamber. You primarily reaffirmed his beliefs, rather than spending a good portion of the video holding him accountable for the way he delivers his messages. Inshallah you reflect on this for future podcasts.
@absolutelynobody3837
@absolutelynobody3837 Ай бұрын
Men and women have different awrah requirements and rulings on posting pictures on the internet.
@lostinwind23
@lostinwind23 Ай бұрын
I am so tired to read all this silly comments that are against hiwa without any proofs from Quran and sunnah basically telling their subjective opinion brainwashed by western media when hiwa back ups what he is saying with Qur'an an sunnah.
@nilox2823
@nilox2823 19 күн бұрын
@@absolutelynobody3837 Whatever helps you sleep at night.
@muhammadmafaz8530
@muhammadmafaz8530 16 күн бұрын
Hijab is not only dress it's basically keeping you away from display.
@aseelalshawa5271
@aseelalshawa5271 2 ай бұрын
Ofcourse women should go to college. The title in itself is deranged. God help us all.
@Amol-w2v
@Amol-w2v Ай бұрын
Literally bro
@muhammadmafaz8530
@muhammadmafaz8530 16 күн бұрын
According to your secular religion
@aseelalshawa5271
@aseelalshawa5271 16 күн бұрын
@@muhammadmafaz8530 you mean islam?
@aseelalshawa5271
@aseelalshawa5271 16 күн бұрын
@@muhammadmafaz8530 you mean islam?
@muhammadmafaz8530
@muhammadmafaz8530 15 күн бұрын
@@aseelalshawa5271 for sure Islam is not secular
@abdullahiabdi2660
@abdullahiabdi2660 2 ай бұрын
Anyone giving up, don’t. The spouse you imagine for, be a great person yourself first, and you’ll get a great person. Hold on, as practicing Islam is like holding hot coal! You hear a party across the street full of naked women and drunk men, but the Isha Athan goes off on a Friday night. You can give in temporary pleasure, or add on to eternal success and abide therin Jannah. Make the right choices and istighfar is the way !
@BruvahSulaiman
@BruvahSulaiman 2 ай бұрын
I think the disconnect is often the fact that the women who are hearing you say these things are women who already have smartphones and are already pursuing higher education. They receive what you say in the context of them being told to get rid of their phones and drop out of school. Your position should not be that you want to marry a woman who has a smartphone and make her give it up. It should be that you are only interested in marrying a woman who never had one. Honestly, you may as well say you want to marry a pious, poor woman. It'd be harder for women to take offense to that. But the reality is, if you're looking for someone who never owned a smartphone and isn't pursuing higher education in 2024, you're looking for a woman raised in poverty. If you go out of your way to marry a woman and all of her friends have smartphones and all of her friends and her siblings are pursuing higher education, you'll just be subjecting her to an unnecessary hardship trying to get her to go without these things or give them up for you. The other thing that bothers them is the promotion of your standards. If your videos go viral and more guys adopt your standard, it impacts their odds of finding a spouse who will be okay with them having a smartphone and pursuing higher education.
@tala67833
@tala67833 2 ай бұрын
I think this was a really great comment and very well written!!!!
@FaiyadFit
@FaiyadFit 2 ай бұрын
Amazing bri
@nuhamohamed3105
@nuhamohamed3105 2 ай бұрын
Allahumabarik this is so well written! Mashallah
@amranaeem679
@amranaeem679 2 ай бұрын
This is such a great point Barakullah feeki! Being one of those woman myself I definitely felt that way when this was mentioned because I myself wish to pursue higher education. And there is nothing wrong with that and neither has anyone ever said it was an issue. Our religion allows us to educate ourselves as long as no boundaries that Allah has bestowed upon us are crossed. If a man does not wish to marry us for this reason thats his choice but that doesn't mean we should all suddenly discontinue our education and throw out our cell phones. This is also something that should be discussed premarriage so that certain issues such as this don't cause problems during the marriage.
@MS32942
@MS32942 2 ай бұрын
What if your higher education involves interest based student loans? Is that pleasing Allah swt?
@naimatkhani5228
@naimatkhani5228 2 ай бұрын
You can't take an idea from the ideal Islamic society and lifestyle and try to put that in a society that does the exact opposite. Both of them have no idea the repercussion of the weight of their words. Allah will judge every word and every person who they have influenced. I wonder if they understand the weight of being a "Muslim influencer." May Allah guide us all. As for this topic specifically, I had a discussion with the men in my family about this, and this is my father's take. "Dont take islam and islamic teachings from random people. These men don't have a full understanding of islam and how to apply it to the current society that they live in." Basically, it's nonsense. If it was doable that a single income can support a family, sure, but that isn't the case. Plus, islam encourages muslims men and women to pursue knowledge and not be ignorant. A mother can't raise her kids if she is ignorant. College isnt needed for everything but if a woman isn’t married and she graduated high school, it's better that she pursues an education but to also increase her religious knowledge and make good use of her time. And Allah knows best.
@AmnaNavarroAhmed
@AmnaNavarroAhmed 2 ай бұрын
Well said ✅
@dwnetka
@dwnetka 2 ай бұрын
It really disgusts me to hear such statements when men say, "Oh, women should do this and that," while men do whatever they feel like. Even if I wear a hijab and walk, men still look at you AS IF... And I do not know why I have never heard imams tell men that they should lower their gaze, while I have heard enough statements that women should do this and that. Double standards? Of course NOT, it's natural. This brother with arrogant face declares that they should protect women, well, my father and brother PROTECTED me, but I never felt love from them? Well done, brother, keep teaching men to protect with an arrogant expression on your face, and they will understand that they are protectors, that they are superior. Teach them to force women to accept something because they are men and because women should not. You guys are only thinking about yourself, "Oh, what will we answer to Allah SWT," while how many women suffer abuse from their fathers and husbands? Of course most of them will abuse and force their women if you say something with arrogant face and say women should not. Why don't you teach men what they should not first? edit: "There's no compulsion in religion" of course there's not until it concerns women. They SHOULD wear hijab(btw I'm wearing hijab by choice) if not they should be punished for that. Why don't you guys try to punish people for not reading Salah or for other fard that everyone should? Seeing men beating randomly women for not wearing hijab, taking by grabbing her? I was shocked. If you think you can force anyone for anything and think that you are following our prophet Muhammad pbuh then I have no words to say.
@MNOPXY
@MNOPXY Ай бұрын
Absolutely correct.And still they argue. Allahuakbar. We will inshaallah see on the judgement day because Allah swt is the best judge ever
@haadiyasandhu6615
@haadiyasandhu6615 Ай бұрын
Protection doesn’t matter, if there is no warmth and love involved. Somehow these men think that they will ‘protect’ women by demanding them to do things.
@muhammadmafaz8530
@muhammadmafaz8530 16 күн бұрын
Lowering gaze for both genders but most of the time it was advised as it's for men only.
@Sara-dz6mi
@Sara-dz6mi 2 ай бұрын
Disclaimer: Hiwa supports no strings nikkah and MahdiMethod, so now everything that comes out of his mouth is highly questionable. Every single woman MUST be educated no matter what, she doesn’t have to work but she MUST know and understand the world around her. Her mahr can be any price, you-Hiwa, don’t know her situation, maybe she’s asked for very high mahr because she’s a revert with no supportive family. The fact that Hiwa compares a woman’s high mahr with that of a prostitute is foul and utterly shameful. This is not Islam to make such judgements and comparisons. Astagfirullah have some shame.
@mohsintpp
@mohsintpp 2 ай бұрын
liberal detected opinion rejected
@Sara-dz6mi
@Sara-dz6mi 2 ай бұрын
@@mohsintppI’m literally a covered Muslim woman 💀. Ignorant sexiest detected, opinion invalid.
@Fireplaceandrain
@Fireplaceandrain 2 ай бұрын
Well said ❤❤
@Fireplaceandrain
@Fireplaceandrain 2 ай бұрын
​@@mohsintppwhat did she even say wrong why can't a women be educated how does it change anything and th emaher is literally her choice if you can't afford it you just look for someone else it's not that hard or ask her to take the price down it isn't that deep
@BruvahSulaiman
@BruvahSulaiman 2 ай бұрын
If you're not going to the world around you, you don't need to know about all of it. Plenty of ppl in general with knowledge of the world who pay little attention to their children and only find out that their child was being abused by a nanny or uncle 20 years after the fact. You don't need higher education no matter what. You don't actually need a basic standardized education either. Some ppl will be better off just knowing how to nurture children. Plenty of great ppl were raised by uneducated parents. It's not even a debatable topic. You are grossly exaggerating the importance of secular education.
@random_13-e6u
@random_13-e6u 2 ай бұрын
What's wrong with studying and marrying? As long as you commit to both 50/50, and fulfill your rights to your husband and children, wear proper abaya, avoid free mixing, touching other men, Allah will be pleased with you. I want to do both inshallah one day. I want to get married when I am studying and not to work, to start a home business where I won't free mix and won't have to worry about not attending to my husband or kids. For the Mehr thing, I'm only requesting a cat.
@englishblade
@englishblade 2 ай бұрын
commit 50/50 in what?
@pak2339
@pak2339 2 ай бұрын
In marriage she meant​@@englishblade
@pak2339
@pak2339 2 ай бұрын
If they both married and going to same uni that is the second best option
@revivalist355
@revivalist355 Ай бұрын
Should, should, should Why put yourself in such risky situation to begin with
@muhammadmafaz8530
@muhammadmafaz8530 16 күн бұрын
What women say is different from reality
@geemup557
@geemup557 2 ай бұрын
I cant believe this is even a thing, Wallahi we have no such problems in our family, Not our Mothers, not our Wives, not our Sisters, not our Cousins, not our Nieces. I was thinking to myself, how is it that this is even up for debate and it was something Fayad said early on. "Muslim Tik Tock" Wahyet Allah I dont know what you mean by that, Is it an app called Muslim Tic tock or is it a section within tic tok for Muslims. I have no clue neither do any of our Women. That is a big part of why we dont have such problems, In my humble opinion. (Dont get me wrong all couples have problems but not like this) As for our wives they know full well what they are getting from the beginning. None of the Men in my family try to appease the woman in the beginning. Our Grandfather made it clear he will not tolerate such behavior. Dont get me wrong our Women live like Queens as long as we are living like Kings.
@DontOpenThisChannel
@DontOpenThisChannel 2 ай бұрын
From this logic every guy should marry two wives if he can do justice as a backup if one left, have some trust in ALLAH and stop this nonsense!
@DontOpenThisChannel
@DontOpenThisChannel 2 ай бұрын
Maybe one secret wife IF it is allowed because ohh I feel I could be divorced or my wife will leave me P.s we are not allowed to have secret wife because of announcement etc therefore man should marry openly two woman as backup plan 😭😭😭 otherwise imagine how many men are suffering
@illyGalSloth
@illyGalSloth 2 ай бұрын
That's not the same. If his marriage fails, he can just marry someone else. Many women have no issues marrying divorced men. If a marriage of an uneducated woman fails, it will be very difficult to get a job afterwards or even get remarried. A 30 or 40 year old divorcee with no education and with no income will not be able to afford a university degree, which is often a requirement for decent-paying jobs, and her parents are very likely to be elderly and retired by that point and would not be able to afford sending her to college/university, and if she moves back in with them then money would likely be tight, assuming they're still alive. She would have very few options other than taking a minimum-wage job to make ends meet and avoid being a financial burden on her elderly parents. Education is a right for all Muslims, so why are you against it? A woman going through college/ university can still get married while she's studying or soon after completing her studies, so what's the issue? I see very little drawbacks for the men if they're wives are educated, but a huge risk for the ladies if they become middle aged divorcees with no education. Several of my friends have married during university or just after, all of whom are in their early twenties (between 21-23 years old) so it's not like they've delayed marriage because of it. So once again, what's the issue?
@DontOpenThisChannel
@DontOpenThisChannel 2 ай бұрын
@@illyGalSloth I didn't said anything against it or in favor of it (education), I'm just exposing the lack of tawakul in Allah. Man can also have problems you know what if she just left childrens, man already are having hard times getting first wife so imagine being divorced with children 😭 so if it's allowed please let us have secret wife.
@illyGalSloth
@illyGalSloth 2 ай бұрын
@@DontOpenThisChannel You say you're not against it, and yet you view educated women as a bad thing. It's clear from the way you speak about it. Also, having a backup plan isn't a lack of tawakul. Divorce is unfortunately quite common these days, and so we're simply ensuring we'll be fine if it happens. We do our part, and leave the rest to Allah (SWT). Secret marriage is haram, as it may cause fitnah if people suspect that the man is being unfaithful when he's seen with another woman, when in reality he simply has a second wife. It would also cause issues for the second wife since she'll have to hide her marriage, and would struggle when she becomes visibly pregnant. Additionally, the Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) has ordered for marriage to be announced: Abdullah ibn al-Zubayr (Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him and give him peace) said, “Announce the marriage.” [Ibn Hibban]. As such, there is a general consensus amongst the scholars that one of the conditions of a valid Islamic marriage is ishhar (announcement).
@Fireplaceandrain
@Fireplaceandrain 2 ай бұрын
What does her having education or still learning change .A more educated women is actually better she will have better reasoning and should women be aware of the world .If a women is still helping with the house works part time or is still learning but is fulfilling all the house duties and your rights what are you lacking .
@FaFa2221
@FaFa2221 2 ай бұрын
Look, the only thing that matters is halal/haram. Everything else is people's preference. It's VERY simple. If the following shar'i conditions are followed, then that's all that matters. 1. Segregated..sisters should study in female colleges in islamic countries or study courses/programmes online. 2. Hijab 3. The contents doesn't contradict islam 4. Permission from father(since most sister start education when they're still living at home.) 5. Permission from husband (before nikkah she has to tell him if she wants to continue it and he has to agree) There might be more. Allahu A'lam. Sheikh Assim Hakeem has 13 educated daughters who are all married. Some have bachelors, some masters and one has a PhD. This is halal. So instead of trying to stop worldly education for sisters,promote halal ways sisters should seek it. More people will be willing to listen because it is speaking about Islam and not your personal views/preferences. People can have their preferences, I personally want educated daughters in both deen(priority) and worldly(will be in halal environment), you won't convince me otherwise, nor will you convince the hundreds of imams and scholars whose daughters attend segregated colleges learning sciences and other things. I will not be putting a limit on knowledge. each to their own.
@baseerhussain
@baseerhussain 2 ай бұрын
Me personally would want a well educated pious spous with whom I could connect well.
@Abdullah_muslim1
@Abdullah_muslim1 2 ай бұрын
You want her to go to a uni where she is free-mixing with guys who flirted with her and she adopts feminist tendencies? Don't be surprised when she ruins your marriage. She can be educated, in the DEEN only
@Soldier-Of-Mahdi
@Soldier-Of-Mahdi 2 ай бұрын
"Well educated" means she might have to study in mixed environment with full of fithnah around her. And after getting "well eduacted" she might want to persue her career in mixed environment to earn 6 figures.
@Soldier-Of-Mahdi
@Soldier-Of-Mahdi 2 ай бұрын
And i want my wife with just basic education. And knowledge of deen. And abides by this hadith so that she can enter Paradise with any gate she wants, so thatvi can "connect" with her in JANNAH inshallah Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes.” Source: S‌ah‌i‌h‌ Ibn H‌ibba‌n 4163
@Soldier-Of-Mahdi
@Soldier-Of-Mahdi 2 ай бұрын
May Allah guide us All
@Samsumah
@Samsumah 2 ай бұрын
Akhi isn't that's what you today's men are looking for you well educated woman with carrier yes you have preferences you can have a well educated woman but narrow minded who is stucked into that world an intelligent woman isn't measured by her college degree she's measured by how she handle situations in life even if she's not a graduate, how she react during difficulties how she treat people, I'm sorry to say staying calm during war isn't something that is taught at college ask Allah for a good wife Akhi a pious woman isn't just a pray 5 times woman this literally literally has a deeper meaning to it I'm not tryna be rude but that carrier woman could be the reason for your down fall rather ask Allah for someone you get along with someone who gives you that peace and tranquility you search for
@FirdausBlossoms
@FirdausBlossoms 2 ай бұрын
We need alternatives, Islamic schools and colleges only for women where a female muslim can receive specialized education that aligns with her roles and responsibilities - defined by Islam- in the society.
@englishblade
@englishblade 2 ай бұрын
and her rights
@mrohman1054
@mrohman1054 2 ай бұрын
@@englishbladeyeah, but the problem isn’t that people aren’t talking about women’s right, it’s that there is a lack of discussion of women’s responsibilities
@englishblade
@englishblade 2 ай бұрын
@@mrohman1054 thats a complete lie
@mrohman1054
@mrohman1054 2 ай бұрын
@@englishblade no it isn’t
@asaadalshahin6519
@asaadalshahin6519 2 ай бұрын
agreed on muslimas not needing western education, but my iraqi brother saying he causes problems on purpose before getting married is very strange and should’ve been called out by Faiyad. Very disappointing. We need to make marriage easy and not fall into these childish games.
@tahajuddlover9427
@tahajuddlover9427 2 ай бұрын
This is so ridiculous and also where did you meet your wife? Is she educated? Ladies good men are not on social media like these guys. I’m so glad that Allah put me in the position I am in with amazing brothers who are providers and not oppressive. These dudes wives have degrees but lecture young girls to not get degrees. Where does it say that women shouldn’t get education in the Hadith and Quran?. Ladies seek knowledge about the deen before you fall for the trap of men like this.
@nuhamohamed3105
@nuhamohamed3105 2 ай бұрын
You clearly didn‘t get that he said western education and I who lives in the west agree 100% be real don‘t do that selective hearing thing because it‘s embarassing
@tahajuddlover9427
@tahajuddlover9427 2 ай бұрын
@@nuhamohamed3105 I too live in the west and no it’s not selective hearing. U guys need to realize for some people education is how they make their income. Nobody wants to do labor work because they listened to some dawah bros. You guys are playing dumb for no freaking reason and if we don’t have a male relative to provide for us what are we supposed to do? It’s not lost on me that these men do marry college educated woman. Ask them if they will marry a non college educated sister from a third world country. Stop it with this useless discussions. It’s not in the Hadith or Quran and I don’t take my religion from men who are not knowledgeable in the deen but have the audacity to lecture sisters. Christians use to argue about if we women have souls and now Muslims are arguing whether women should seek education or not and yes western education included. The prophet (SAW) was right we will follow the people of the book eventually.
@BrnDm
@BrnDm Ай бұрын
As a muslim girl, I agree with you faiyad. Absolutely agree. However, my family consider culture to be of more importance that deen. When a muslim woman gets divorced, the father gets her married asap to any man willing to take her (because she is now of less value). This has happened to a couple of my aunts. One of my aunts is clinging on to her mentally ill husband because she is afraid my grandpa will force her into a marriage with a random dude from our village. so under my circumstances, unfortunately, i feel required seek an education. However not in a western secular college, for my sake and my future childrens sake. Jazak allahu khair.
@tahajuddlover9427
@tahajuddlover9427 2 ай бұрын
What about the girls who seek knowledge so they can get better jobs and provide for their families? What are Muslim men doing to make sure that the sisters are taken care of? Why are elderly women working on warehouses? Why aren’t the men in the mosque helping the community? You are creating more division than unity among the genders
@hilinabanana
@hilinabanana 2 ай бұрын
Exactly this guy is just a muslim red pilled guy. The muslim andrew tate. In the end, trying to go back to misogyny from hundreds of years ago.
@Goodmandilalten-dx4mo
@Goodmandilalten-dx4mo Ай бұрын
Brother/Sister ignore this, its a waste of time, off late it has dawned upon people that there is a market for all types of segments on social media. Indeed there are challenges in a relationship but this is a childish misogynist rant. The premise that all women would do something wrong if they get educated is so full of bs. I can go on on and on ..its a ploy to sensationalize and clickbait. Question is if they hate the west so much then what are they doing here..lol
@razoonii
@razoonii Ай бұрын
you guys complain about women going to uni, having an education, joining the work force ect, and how it’s ruining society, yet you guys complain about mehr prices??
@razoonii
@razoonii Ай бұрын
how are expecting women to be housewives and stay away from the workforce, yet you wanna pay them £100 mehr?? make it make sense bro
@scriptkiddie1614
@scriptkiddie1614 2 ай бұрын
The brother named "Hiwa", I believe he lives in the USA. He should realize that he will never find the kind of woman he wants(especially in the USA, where the vast majority of women are secularists and feminists, unfortunately these ideologies have also spread to young muslim women), these things will hurt for him but it's the truth. If you want those types of women who are far from the world of social media and are obedient to their husbands, you have to go to poor muslim countries, more specific to the countryside outside the city.
@ne_sa1
@ne_sa1 2 ай бұрын
Just say you want a slave not a wife
@missahmed7107
@missahmed7107 7 күн бұрын
If you still think that's the truth you've a lot to learn. I am from the West but I kept myself chaste, covered myself from head to toe and I don't know half the things my cousins in the East villages know that includes these makeup trends and talking to boys over the phone, you'd never ever guess that from their appearance as they seem so innocent but the reality is different, I've heard some grim grim things and they're not for the faint hearted.
@addisachannel169
@addisachannel169 2 ай бұрын
it's funny to women don't stop your study
@Shaiyino.thebraveone
@Shaiyino.thebraveone Ай бұрын
The same men who don’t want their wife to go to college are the same men who want their women not to want fancy things and to provide the bare minimum and say she should be happy with that alone .. if you know your wife wants “luxury things “ and she’s willing to work for it and study to get what she wants it sounds like you don’t care about her happiness
@aneesamo1
@aneesamo1 Ай бұрын
lol y’all crack me up. You are not your wife’s mother. We see you on social media and think that suhur only attacks your wife? Smh
@mathketeer606
@mathketeer606 2 ай бұрын
15:40 This is the summary of the whole argument, you decide yourself who's right
@nuhamohamed3105
@nuhamohamed3105 2 ай бұрын
5:12 I agree 100% these days teachers and the government want to raise the children and it‘s actually hard to think about having a child in this day and age as a teenager and alhamdulillah I have good parents
@pak2339
@pak2339 2 ай бұрын
Yea bro like in my school my islamic teacher in school was like yea np its ok times are changhing and men and women can be friends like just friends no releationship involved then no problem like cmmon bro
@nuhamohamed3105
@nuhamohamed3105 2 ай бұрын
@@pak2339yeah they be saying all kinds of stupid things and to be honest if you ho to school in the west you don‘t gain knowledge it‘s a waste of time
@pak2339
@pak2339 2 ай бұрын
@@nuhamohamed3105 ikr and i live in a muslimmcountry where this happend
@nuhamohamed3105
@nuhamohamed3105 2 ай бұрын
@@pak2339allahumabarik you‘re lucky to live in a muslim country tho I live in europe and it‘s crazy what happens at school like haram is so easy for them but I certainly know that muslim countries are indeed getting westernized
@pak2339
@pak2339 2 ай бұрын
@@nuhamohamed3105 yea Alhumdulilah even though things are really getting messed up here still a lot better than europe like atleast doing haram is very hard but still over time the situatioun is getting worse , you live in Uk bro ?
@douaamoujtahid-l4o
@douaamoujtahid-l4o 2 ай бұрын
السلام عليكم thank 4 bringing up a lot of these topics it was so beneficial, but bro do not call a women that wants a high maher a prostitute if u can't afford her it's fine but she's not bad cuz u can't afford, if we thaught with the same logic as u so evry moher is considered prostitution
@mkz5532
@mkz5532 2 ай бұрын
In your video, you talked about learning how to be housewives ETC you didn’t say anything about gender mixed environments
@sondertime6920
@sondertime6920 2 ай бұрын
All of this is a waste of time
@vivi_3878
@vivi_3878 Ай бұрын
This podcast was freaking great!! Thank you both of you brothers for sharing this with us.
@englishblade
@englishblade 2 ай бұрын
1:12:48 This is so true we gossip so much as girls its hard to not find group who dont subhanallah and its barely conscious I only realise after, May Allah forgive us
@Hijabiwarrior
@Hijabiwarrior 2 ай бұрын
Lol i loved this live great vid make more of these its so funny😂😂
@Sam82397
@Sam82397 2 ай бұрын
Assim al Hakeem's daughters have PHDs and masters
@nxronite9994
@nxronite9994 2 ай бұрын
He lives in Saudi which is completely different than western unis 😂
@FaFa2221
@FaFa2221 2 ай бұрын
​@@nxronite9994 so Muslim brothers should speak about the conditions of sisters seeking education under shar'i conditions, not say 'women don't need an education or don't need higher education'. At least then, noone can dispute the shar'i conditions because it's aligned with islam. The message needs to be clearer.
@mspacey6230
@mspacey6230 2 ай бұрын
​@@FaFa2221 He has clearly said "Western Education I am against"
@FaiyadFit
@FaiyadFit 2 ай бұрын
I play sh Assim’s video 1:25:30
@nxronite9994
@nxronite9994 Ай бұрын
@@FaFa2221This whole education topic is about secular education, which many of the kuffar themselves say is a scam and brainwashing 😂. They say various times and Sheikh Assim has also said that as long as there is no mixing and fitna and deviancy being taught then it is halal.
@bellahash-mt6cq
@bellahash-mt6cq 2 ай бұрын
Brother your videos were great because you were objective and not personal now your allowing people on your live to speak like this and AGREEING uff calyk “He’s been trained to cater to womens bad behaviour becuase of his single mother “ subhanallah I seen brother Kareem’s video and you guys need to both rewatch it he ended up agree with your points instead you making falseclaims about him and insult him may Allah give brother Kareem Justice on yaml qiyam for those insults he did not insult either of you
@hiba17704
@hiba17704 2 ай бұрын
married young ofc +knowledge
@mkz5532
@mkz5532 2 ай бұрын
That’s quite mean saying he’s been trained to cater to the bad behaviour of women… wth
@vibexfc5596
@vibexfc5596 Ай бұрын
45:08 for the sake of Allah please stop moaning in the mic like that 😭 honestly annoying
@Fortheshows
@Fortheshows Ай бұрын
45:28 I hope Muslims in the future can take knowledge from knowledgeable people, this is not how Muslim to speak about other Muslims. Especially since some people in this world it is not written for them to get married whether they die young like the kids in 🍉 or try to look for marriage.
@Fortheshows
@Fortheshows Ай бұрын
Also what they said about the Muslim brother I watched his video and he actually ended up agreeing with him. He did not deserve that insults, He did not insult them.
@missahmed7107
@missahmed7107 7 күн бұрын
Your wife not owning a phone sounds lovely in a fairytale land but once you do get married move away from your mother, father and siblings and start a family of your own you need that very device to keep you in touch with those people, to keep ties of kinship. I have a family of my own and we homeschool, if I didn't have this device I wouldn't see my parents face for weeks or months at a time, I wouldn't be able to help them with the several things they do need help with as everything is online nowadays. My children wouldn't be able to share their small happiness' with their grandparents and aunts, I wouldn't be able to find out the activities going on in our locality for homeschoolers and so much more. It's not the phone that is an issue, if someone wants to commit haram they will do it phone or no phone - choose the right spouse and you won't have to take these things away and keep a close eye on them for anything.
@servantofAllah108
@servantofAllah108 2 ай бұрын
To bad I have to get an education (I have no one to take care of me and I'm from a non-Islamic family lol)
@dwnetka
@dwnetka Ай бұрын
It is better not to listen to them. They are not giving a solution, but rather creating a confusion.
@LittleBarbiex0
@LittleBarbiex0 2 ай бұрын
Doesn’t “virgin” in Islam mean unmarried, not necessarily someone who avoided Zina. I see the word isn’t being used correctly.
@SaniAbdula
@SaniAbdula 2 ай бұрын
No a virgin is a women who never was intimate with a man.
@User_47536
@User_47536 Ай бұрын
Common meaning but preferences may change
@anelia.rsnv1
@anelia.rsnv1 Ай бұрын
Why not just normalize that woman dont have to work but if they want to they can, especially in fields like education and health. Look at whats happening in gaza, dont you think those female doctors or other female workers in other fields are helping. Education has such an importance for a nation to produce and develop for the better yet we as muslims are still here discussing about whether woman should get educated or go to work. Let me tell you something there are woman who want to be stay at home moms and others who want to get educated and work. And we as muslims should not shame either of them for their choices. Most of muslim nations' current situation is so bad they cant even protect themselves from israel or other enemies. We should focus as an ummah to improve rather than being stuck on woman working or not. Also, if you guys are such manly man why not create space and opportunities for those woman who want to work or get educated or such things.
@MaxVolumeTeam
@MaxVolumeTeam 2 ай бұрын
1 band is maximum and that’s pushing it for a mahr
@kamicheikrame4010
@kamicheikrame4010 Ай бұрын
What a woman should and should not do. Wait, men, for someone to ask for your opinion.
@theredomar
@theredomar 2 ай бұрын
45:28 my guy 😂
@Samsumah
@Samsumah 2 ай бұрын
سبحان الله this video is so engaging if pleasing Allah was the only goal for us all our dunya would've looked beautiful bt im afraid to say each one of us have our own intentions , opinions and goals its so hard these days to get a spouse who is trying hard to purify their intentions for Allah so much expectations from this world could ruin our relationship with الله
@abdullamomak3470
@abdullamomak3470 2 ай бұрын
20:15
@Beautiful_Muslimah-n6j
@Beautiful_Muslimah-n6j 2 ай бұрын
🥴
@Lion_Tawheed
@Lion_Tawheed 2 ай бұрын
How can you send selfies around ? Don't you know how these operating systems are programmed ? When you are told don't do it then don't do it If they want to they can get access and what will you do then ? Cry?
@soofiya_.6147
@soofiya_.6147 2 ай бұрын
Go fucking fie
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