Should you do no contact if you were the dumper?

In this video I talk about when it is acceptable for a dumper to do no contact to increase the chances of their ex coming back, and when it is not appropriate for the dumper to do no contact.
Coach Kim is a relationship coach certified in Thais Gibson's Integrated Attachment Theory and DISC Flow. She specialises in helping people get their ex back in a securely attached way by using no contact for self-development and raising emotional intelligence for successful future relationships.

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Definitely the second example and no chance I would break what I now know to be no-contact, which I instinctively entered into. Interestingly, after I ended the relationship giving very clear reasons why, two days later she 'ended the relationship' in a way that shifted the blame onto me. So rather than look to taking any kind of responsibility or ask for clarification, she reacted in a way that clearly made her feel better about the rejection and abandonment she was feeling. Not that it bothered me but it kind of reinforced my reason for ending it, that she was not emotionally available to a satidfactory degree. I am interested to see if this no-contact thing actually works, seeing as there are about a million videos online about it. I don't think it will, there is way too much pride and stubbornness there, which is all a part of the reason it had to end. I wouldn't take her back anyway, these ones don't tend to face up to themselves and don't tend to 'do the work'. Thank you for the video. Do more of them, I like your down to earth Aussie style !! All the best.