⏱Timestamps! 0:00 Intro 2:46 Feeling/Felt Ready to Lose It 5:35 Imagine Being God Cucked 7:07 Dubious Consent 10:48 Cringe From The God Chick 15:50 Consent is Easy! JUST ASK 19:26 Being in Clubs 21:32 “C0nsent Means Marriage” 24:59 As3xual 29:22 Vaush’s Typical Friday Night 32:53 Soul F***ing 34:23 “Meaningful” S3x 42:43 Fetishizing The V Card 49:44 The Cycle of Victim Blaming 55:19 Wrapping Up
@williamcozart81583 жыл бұрын
you forgot the "can pre-cum knock someone up" segment, at 37:18
@KaleidoscopicVideos4203 жыл бұрын
Can any discord mods help me? I was unjustly banned for saying "whats up family"
@testoftempest3 жыл бұрын
@@KaleidoscopicVideos420 I don't run the discord.
@fluorescentalien52043 жыл бұрын
"the left wants you to sign consent sheets" Okay but. I literally was forced to sign an abstinence contract in my highschool freshman health class. it was so gross and invasive, and even at the time I knew it was wrong, but I needed the points.
@chembabe82643 жыл бұрын
Right. It's all about control. Gotta be abstinent so they can rape your virgin body. Sorry for the vulgarity. I hate these people. Because asking someone before and during sex that they want it, is insane...
@mycenaeangal93123 жыл бұрын
Awww I’m sorry. I never signed one, but being coerced for any reason feels so gross. You have my deep sympathies. Did they do that fucking oreo metaphor with you all too?
@joeleek99763 жыл бұрын
That is really fucked up. Sorry you had to deal with that bs.
@gibsonn20183 жыл бұрын
@@mycenaeangal9312 There’s an Oreo metaphor? 😢
@fluorescentalien52043 жыл бұрын
@@mycenaeangal9312 no, whats the oreo metaphor?
@alahos3 жыл бұрын
I'm saving myself from marriage
@pebbles36093 жыл бұрын
Ok
@Alexandervaldes0173 жыл бұрын
👏💯💯
@strongbone94713 жыл бұрын
Sigma mindset.
@SA-mo3hq3 жыл бұрын
B-but how else will you justify spending a year's wage on a Congolese blood diamond?
@gwelwynn3 жыл бұрын
@Ooki Cooki the problem is not the dissolution of the family structure, it's the dissolution and destruction of community
@gibsonn20183 жыл бұрын
She really said “Everything happens for a reason.” In response to a girls sexual coercion story wtf I can’t even
@FelisImpurrator3 жыл бұрын
She's obviously internalized a literal abusive brainwashing line as a defense mechanism because it was psychologically beaten into her head. Never forget - the ones responsible for this are people like conservative priests and Republicans. People with power who will aggressively push this kind of grift to keep people in a perpetual state of easily controllable existential dread. This is exactly that one scenario where abused prisoners often just sit there and don't leave even if the door is unlocked.
@madeline54933 жыл бұрын
And then later, when that same girl was talking about how hard it was when her mom victim blamed her, Muslim girl was like “AWWW BBY! Come here and give me a hug 🤗✨💞” After you basically told me God got me raped to improve my character arc? Bitch.
@gibsonn20183 жыл бұрын
@@madeline5493 lmao i would impolitely decline
@Liberater45893 жыл бұрын
even if youre someone who believes that when someone tells you something like that just keep it to yourself
@phanatic2153 жыл бұрын
@@FelisImpurrator I hope she finds a good dude to marry, because she is ripe for being a victim of an abusive spouse. Even though I don't agree with most of what she said, I don't want her abused or taken advantage of by someone.
@amyheath63243 жыл бұрын
The Muslim girl explaining how she learned that marital rape exists was so depressing
@prehistoricorchid34553 жыл бұрын
lowkey tho, i hope she researches consent more before she finds a husband and just blindly follows what he says.
@amyheath63243 жыл бұрын
@@prehistoricorchid3455 I think she seems to understand it, it’s just sad she learned so late
@eyangamedud32933 жыл бұрын
The funny thing about this is that Norse Pagans had anti-rape laws back in their heyday from what I've heard, probably even marital rape was illegal.
@lurkingposter3 жыл бұрын
@@eyangamedud3293 What does the first point have to do with anything? I imagine almost all cultures had anti rape laws.
@baspersson953 жыл бұрын
@@eyangamedud3293 Dude, the vikings had sex slaves, by today's standard I would not consider that as being anti-rape.
@sukie76893 жыл бұрын
“Everything happens for a reason” girl destroyed my faith in humanity
@ghostedits13653 жыл бұрын
Literally, like I believe that everything happens for a reason, but you don't say that out loud like that, there's a time and a place. It's just the fact that, that was her first reaction. It felt dismissive of the girls story
@puffinatheart55653 жыл бұрын
"lmao bro obviously your bad experiences don't matter because everything happens for a reason smh stop complaining, it's annoying"
@GameCubits3 жыл бұрын
If it wasn't reality it would've been an IASIP or Ricky Gervais bit. God. Damn.
@mycenaeangal93123 жыл бұрын
Did you see that fucking face she made when the girl tried to push back on that a little? What a disgusting person.
@bibsp35563 жыл бұрын
@@ghostedits1365 There is no reason a child should be born with incurable cancer or some shit, come on. Its a nice sentiment but thats about it. People are usually better off just facing the truth that life is harsh.
@SA-mo3hq3 жыл бұрын
What's a virginity? They don't teach us what a virginity is on Coconut Island.
@natethegreatest10003 жыл бұрын
You don’t need to worry about your virginity on coconut island if you want the coconuts 😏
@gudboah46883 жыл бұрын
Does committing oral sex count as loosing virginity though? 🤔
@js2806083 жыл бұрын
@@gudboah4688 yes. Allah forbids it
@ChillAssTurtle3 жыл бұрын
@@gudboah4688 no.
@ghastlyghandi43013 жыл бұрын
Virginity is what happens before you get your first coconuts.
@Wokenstein3 жыл бұрын
Virgin Chad vs Chad Virgin
@aneraxxmusic23433 жыл бұрын
Lnao
@themightymcb73103 жыл бұрын
God, conservative religion ruining overwise supportive and outgoing people makes me so sad. You could tell the girl in yellow truly wants to live her life in the best possible way. It's just a shame that she was lied to about how to do it.
@gasc0ny3 жыл бұрын
Everytime she smiles it looks like she’s about to burst into tears
@sunfeatherX33 жыл бұрын
I don’t see how to have sympathy for this person. If someone that close to me physically said I was raped for a reason, her head would be off for a reason. For someone who preaches the personal choice of not having sex, it’s disgusting how easily she steamrolled right over that for someone else. She can wake up any day. Instead of making the other girl gaslight herself in real time.
@FelisImpurrator3 жыл бұрын
I've been saying for ages that like, hardcore conservatism is just fundamentally abusive. I mean... If there's a venn diagram with "psychological violence" and "conservative social prescriptions" and "progressive social prescriptions"... Fuck, man. The progressive part has some in the first circle for sure, but the conservative one basically just has this tiny crescent of outer edge that doesn't overlap, because they base almost everything on fear and punishment. It's like a horrible Overton window of trauma.
@FelisImpurrator3 жыл бұрын
@@sunfeatherX3 *That's how indoctrination works.* She almost certainly literally doesn't know any better. It's easy for you to judge because you're not in that position, but like... Come on, dude. Vaush is at least as autistic as me (and he'll say so himself any day) and he and I can both tell she's obviously not like, doing the intentionally malicious bad faith Conservative thing. She's a victim of internalized conservative abuse and that line of reasoning is her defense mechanism. I mean, I guess this anger is probably yours, but it's no less irrational in this specific scenario. Now, if this were some deliberately abusive "you're all going to hell" type, sure, fuck 'em. But this isn't.
@ashwilliams17253 жыл бұрын
@@sunfeatherX3 The sympathy there is for the brain washing it takes to get there.
@ta9ta9373 жыл бұрын
As a Muslim myself, many Muslims believe tampons can break your virginity, but it was far fetched for me so I decided to try it. Around a year or so ago, I tried on a tampon for the first time but it didn’t go in. Long story short I had to get surgery because my hymen was so thick and my period blood was coming out of a literal dot and it wasn’t normal. Instead of getting the simple surgery and moving on in peace, I was traumatized by my dad’s insistence that I should wait till I get married to get the surgery despite the risks I might face for waiting a few more years. He argued with doctors telling them it was not necessary and told me that no man would want to stay with me because it would “feel” like I’ve had sex before. He seemed more afraid of “tarnishing the family name” over my own health and autonomy. I was 19 then so I was able to get the surgery without needing his consent, and I’ve been doing fine since then. Moral of the story I guess is that virginity is and always has been a tool for men to control women, so of course, it’s gonna end up creating a toxic culture around it. Just let people do whatever they want, and don’t control what others want to do.
@mackenziegoodwin4593 жыл бұрын
I am so incredibly sorry that happened to you. Such an example of how much virginity culture is based on misogyny and the idea that women only exist to be controlled objects for men's pleasure. Good for you for taking agency, but you should never have had to go through all that.
@thesnowmaam30973 жыл бұрын
I'm Muslim and tampons aren't haram and don't make you lose your "virginity". I also find that the problem with ultra strict and delusional Muslims, especially those who grew up in Muslim majority countries, is that it's less about God and more about what the family next door would say if they found out. The downfall to our tight knit community (ummah) is that we can be so judgmental towards each other if we aren't perfect. It's so sad, inshallah we can move past that in the future.
@binkiebrew2 жыл бұрын
What the fuck. I've never heard about the tampon thing before as muslim. I'm so sorry
@chegg76603 жыл бұрын
Glad we had almost all bases covered for the virgins: The ace, The muslim, and The Gigachad
@ronsonsmusings33673 жыл бұрын
Only thing left is the gamer
@pokepenguin1443 жыл бұрын
@@ronsonsmusings3367 vowsh
@awesomethegreatamazing26512 жыл бұрын
The incel
@andreymontag2 жыл бұрын
@@awesomethegreatamazing2651 they've got some episodes for themselves
@andrewjones1622 жыл бұрын
I forgot Ace was for asexual
@jacobjohnston39833 жыл бұрын
It’s genuinely so baffling to me that some people think being asexual is weird or wrong. Like, a straight man doesn’t feel sexual attraction to other men, why is it so hard to imagine a person who feels that way about everyone? Idk maybe it’s because my best friend is ace but it’s always felt pretty straightforward and reasonable to me.
@nienkehuijbens3013 жыл бұрын
I’ve identified as ace for a few months now and i’m still coming to terms with the idea that there’s nothing wrong or weird about it. I haven’t dared tell anyone outside of a very select few people. Not because they’ll reject me or anything, but just because i’m vaguely scared they’ll laugh at me? I hate this narrative and i wish people would speak about it more. I don’t want to feel like my sexuality is a disability.
@aldenscoconut87853 жыл бұрын
@@nienkehuijbens301 I'm proud of you, buddy!
@WackadoodleMalarkey3 жыл бұрын
You set out to figure out what goes wrong and if you persist you'll become astonished that anything goes right. _It's very gestalt._
@whiterunguard1434 Жыл бұрын
Its because the idea of sexual attraction as so ingrained in our society as a cornerstone or pillar for someones life. Plus most people won't meet an asexual person out in the wild.
@yan_dj3 жыл бұрын
"Everything happens for a re"- *flips table over*
@prehistoricorchid34553 жыл бұрын
that personally killed me a bit inside
@mycenaeangal93123 жыл бұрын
God I’m so angry
@Moszan3 жыл бұрын
Every time my mom says that, I'm just angrily cursing up a storm inside.
@eman220173 жыл бұрын
I’m saving myself for Alden
@Water_Worker3 жыл бұрын
Hello.
@eman220173 жыл бұрын
@@Water_Worker RODRICK????
@oliviacole74273 жыл бұрын
does anyone has aldens number
@trashrabbit693 жыл бұрын
Alden's number is actually their body count
@WyanoPenna3 жыл бұрын
Alden's body count
@beansnrice3213 жыл бұрын
"I have plenty of political content to release, let me have fun." XD
@sistercorvus1173 жыл бұрын
Quality response lol
@Sethnotasithsr3 жыл бұрын
I read your comment... AS HE SAID THAT SHIT 😂😂 Perfect
@PicassoSensei3 жыл бұрын
I read this as he was saying it lmaoo
@joshecker69073 жыл бұрын
@@Sethnotasithsr I did the same thing lmao
@alistairecase34053 жыл бұрын
I had a friend from back in uni/college that had been raped multiple times by an ex-partner and they still considered themself a virgin so it was quite refreshing to hear Vaush's argument in the same respect.
@herefortheshrimp14693 жыл бұрын
I am so incredibly into the idea that rape =/= sex
@lauraanderson878510 ай бұрын
I know that this comment is two years old, but I just wanted to say that I wholeheartedly think that if all your previous sexual encounters have been non-consensual, you are still a virgin if you want to call yourself that/if you believe in virginity. My sister was raped at the age of 7 and I find it so cruel that anyone would say that a 7 year old isn't a virgin anymore because a horrible crime was committed against them. Only consensual sex counts in my eyes.
@hellopeople61385 ай бұрын
@@lauraanderson8785 exactly. I still consider myself a virgin even after bad stuff
@SpecialBlanket2 ай бұрын
I think this is becoming a more prevalent idea. I mean imagine if someone was a CSA victim, no reasonable person would say THAT was losing your virginity.
@ultimadum77853 жыл бұрын
I saw someone in chat say "Plants Vs. Virgins" and it almost killed me because I was laughing so hard lmaooooo
@rache83233 жыл бұрын
Vaush knowing how hard color is to maintain was a breath of fresh air.
@fardistribution3 жыл бұрын
my mom did kind of the same thing with me when i was assaulted, i came home crying and she was like "its not that bad" "why did you go to hang out with him" etc. i have no idea why parents do that its prolly something to do with how they are raised obvi
@fardistribution3 жыл бұрын
vaush describes it perfectly
@noceboaffect31873 жыл бұрын
That’s awful I am so sorry
@SpecialBlanket2 ай бұрын
Same w me.
@bascal1333 жыл бұрын
Ugh the Muslim girl was so self righteous, she like ran to the table every time to lecture everyone. I guarantee you this is a defining characteristic for her and she brings it up when no one else is talking about it.
@madeline54933 жыл бұрын
The worst thing too is that she’s probably going to see all the criticism in the comments and brush it off by saying “I’m getting hate just because I’m Muslim.” Well, yes and no. It’s because you’re a bitch about it.
@humblesentiments15533 жыл бұрын
Funny thing is, under shariah, she would be stoned or beaten to death just for dressing "provocatively".
@bascal1333 жыл бұрын
@@humblesentiments1553 I know you are supporting me but to be clear just because she is a stanch Muslim doesn't mean she would be supportive of shariah so that's not a point of hypocrisy necessarily.
@FernandoTorrera2 жыл бұрын
Any religious person who stands up for one law while clearly ignoring other religious rules is a hypocrite. However that’s like all religious people I haven’t met or seen one that actually follows all the rules. Just another reason religion is stupid
@post-scarcitymedia55133 жыл бұрын
Damn I sure hope Vaush is paying his editors enough. They are pumping out videos like crazy lol
@sleepyhead86813 жыл бұрын
I'm sure he is he makes quite A bit. He's economically progressive so probably. Avush is pumping out content like mad I love it. :)
@thesecond47673 жыл бұрын
The editors could go on strike if Vaush doesn’t pay them appropriately but then (Vaush) would just hire some desperate freelance editor.
@kyre41893 жыл бұрын
He's providing them the means of production as payment
@niclaswerther15693 жыл бұрын
Vaush once said as a response to why his channel isn't worker owned that his editors set their own paycheck
@herefortheshrimp14693 жыл бұрын
Also, (I'm a professional video editor) Imma be honest with you guys - his editors aren't having to do much editing for these videos. But I love seeing the concern for them!
@TheToxicDreamland3 жыл бұрын
That consent part really got to me. I taught my daughter at a young age about consent based around hugs and kisses, letting her know that if she gets unwanted attention she can say no, even to family. One time my mother-in-law tried to get a hug without asking and my daughter laid down the law and I've never been prouder. I feel like instilling that early on will lead to a life where she addresses intimacy on her own terms and I won't have to worry about her, because I was a boy once and boys are fucking stupid.
@gggggg68173 жыл бұрын
are you a trans mom?
@TheToxicDreamland3 жыл бұрын
@@gggggg6817 no, I grew to be a slightly less stupid man.
@gggggg68173 жыл бұрын
@@TheToxicDreamland still based. im sure she's proud to have you as a father.
@TheToxicDreamland3 жыл бұрын
@@gggggg6817 I appreciate that.
@4swordsluver3 жыл бұрын
I was m*lested by my step brother what Vaush said about the boxing vs street fights really resonated with me
@cortanathelawless18483 жыл бұрын
Same. It helps so much with inner peace. Especially when it happens at a really wrong time.
@jlp68643 жыл бұрын
that was a good analogy stay strong
@4swordsluver3 жыл бұрын
@@cortanathelawless1848 yes, I was 5 or 6 when it happened and my parents thought I would not remember, but it has stuck with me. Luckily I told my parents what happened because I knew it was wrong. I thought it was a dream until I asked my mom and she told me it was real
@4swordsluver3 жыл бұрын
@@jlp6864 Thank you hon, I will 💕
@user-lr6eq5fj8v3 жыл бұрын
Time stamp?
@souper.scooter3 жыл бұрын
I read it as saving yourself FROM marriage for a second and I was like jubilee based?
@FelisImpurrator3 жыл бұрын
True. Although marriage does grant some really fucking useful legal benefits, to be fair.
@justalostlocal3 жыл бұрын
They grant advantages because the governments assume you'll be making babies thus the next generations to work themselves to dust. Then again marriage was always about finding a partner to mainly financially support eachother. I always view marriage and it's benefits very cynically because it feels like coercing people into marriages when nowadays it's hard to even find time to date.
@someonesomeone253 жыл бұрын
Marriage is bad. Human relationships are inferior to the alternatives.
@christophergreen65953 жыл бұрын
Not that it will come up at this point in my life, but I can't imagine not sleeping with whoever I was planning to marry. Dated a girl for a few weeks in HS who was against orgasms for herself, (saving them for marriage too lol) but happy to get me off. Nope. Creepy and nope.
@someonesomeone253 жыл бұрын
@@christophergreen6595 Human sex isn't as good as tulpa and doll sex. I imagine sexbots will be even better.
@theultimateflashgamer30563 жыл бұрын
"I got raped" WELL EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON!
@thrandompug22543 жыл бұрын
I have an asexual friend who said they would have sex with their boyfriend despite having no real sex drive because they knew he loved it and they didn't hate it. Edit:27:37 yeah this is exactly what I was describing
@lilpaz40603 жыл бұрын
Yeah of course then why be in a relationship?
@alistairecase34053 жыл бұрын
@@lilpaz4060 cause you can be asexual while not also being aromantic. Not so say it doesn't seem weird in my own head either but hey, some people are like that so it is what it is.
@lilpaz40603 жыл бұрын
@@alistairecase3405 Nah just be bi gay or hetro and stop being different.
@addisonshinedown3 жыл бұрын
My asexual ex was like this. Like her body would respond and everything (though she herself didn’t draw any actual pleasure from it outside of the pleasure of bringing me pleasure)... other shit went wrong and she turned out to be incredibly emotionally abusive, but I’m positive that’s because she is an asshole, and nothing to do with her being ace
@Scalesti3 жыл бұрын
@@lilpaz4060 stop being different? What’s wrong with being different?
@ChantalRussell3 жыл бұрын
When I reported a sexual assault, the cop asked me to tell the complete, very long story, twice over, several weeks apart to check for consistency. In between my two retellings, I learned new information by someone who had witnessed part of the assault. In the first telling, I mentioned that I ran past some acquaintances of mine, but in the second telling, one of these acquaintances had told me that when I went into the public bathroom, they didn’t see me leave, so when my pursuer showed up, they told him where I went, and he followed me into the girl’s bathroom. Thank god I’d already left the bathroom when no one was watching, or the whole thing could have become a full-blown rape. Problem is, all the cop heard was an inconsistency. I was a teenager, and when I realized he didn’t believe me anymore, I dropped the issue, because I felt embarrassed. My feelings at the time were, “well, he thinks I lied. This is over now.” I wish he had just asked me why my story had changed. I could have told him that I’d since spoken to someone who was present while I was being chased.
@Stevies_Precog_Gym_n_Spa4203 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry. Pigs shouldn't be left alone with assault victims
@ChantalRussell3 жыл бұрын
@@Stevies_Precog_Gym_n_Spa420 Thanks. I worry from time to time that because I didn’t finish pursuing it, and the guy got away with it, he may have done it again to someone else. I feel responsible for that. I did speak to the cop once again afterwards, and his attitude was, “the guy’s parents got him a lawyer, it’s your word against his, so it’s over now. Drop it.” Imagine if he was on trial one day for a sexual assault and I tried to come forward with my own experience (like with the Brett Kavanaugh hearings). People would come for me hard, asking why I didn’t do something about it sooner.
@devlin47953 жыл бұрын
Cops don't understand that as a psychological response to trauma people block out details and hyperfix on other details. The current systems are rigged against victims and it's sick
@noceboaffect31873 жыл бұрын
That’s not even right in the first place. Because even if your story was hypothetically inconsistent, that’s normal after a traumatic experience. Witness testimony can be very unreliable. Even when you can prove that a group of people were at a traumatic event, say a school shooting or attack, they can give contradictory testimony due to being panicked. On top of that people’s memory of an event after two weeks normally gets fuzzy and your brain fills in gaps. What they’re doing is literally just punishing and blaming victims for having normal psychology.
@GibbyGibson873 жыл бұрын
This generally reminds me of how we had a youth pastor teach our sex Ed class in public schools. Because he couldn’t say not to have sex until marriage because of Jesus, he used really outdated studies to tell us that if we had sex it was pretty much guaranteed we were either gonna have a kid or get an sti. Then almost everyone in my grad year who had access to birth control and condoms never had an issue with casual sex their entire time in high school.
@christophergreen65953 жыл бұрын
Awful. I remember when the right took that shit over, during the Bush years. Abstinence-only sex ed and promise rings. I was already graduated, but had friends seeing that crap. Teen pregnancies went up.
@Moh5Itachi12 жыл бұрын
You should've lisent to him. Studies show that the more sexual partners one has before marriage the less happy you'll be in that marriage and divorce will soon follow.
@ivysaurus2672 жыл бұрын
@@Moh5Itachi1 just don't marry then? marriage is lame I'll stick to my girlfriend and girlfriend and girlfriend and girlfriend and boyfriend and fuckbuddy
@tigerbattle2 жыл бұрын
@@Moh5Itachi1 My source is that I made it the fuck up
@angelikaskoroszyn8495 Жыл бұрын
@Moh5Itachi1 From what I've seen the studies showed that lots of underage sex is bad. Duh. Consent matters
@allekatrase37513 жыл бұрын
That Muslim girl explaining how it's just her values... Except it's not her values, it's someone else's values that have been imposed on her and instilled in her to the point she can't separate her identity from them. Religion is so toxic.
@dinodare16053 жыл бұрын
It might help if the term "lose your virginity" didn't tacitly say that you're losing something. There has to be a more neutral language for that. I haven't had sex and don't plan to anytime in the near future because I don't feel ready PERSONALLY. I've never seen anybody who bases it on a moral or religious value do anything other than purity testing and being judgemental. Also, I'm pretty sure in Christianity that type of harsh judgement is a sin. Edit: I'm at the "asexual" portion, and that can give way to one example of what I said before. Conservatives are fine with asexuals from what I've seen because it means that they aren't "sex hungry" and will save themselves presumably until marriage. But I also guarantee that some of those people would turn against them if they didn't want a lot of sex after marriage, especially if they're a woman. I've heard people argue in all sincerity that it's a womans fault if her husband cheats on or breaks up with her if they aren't trying hard enough to be sexy for them. Even if they're having sex, if they aren't also being sexy constantly AROUND THE HOUSE then that's their fault.
@jessweetman46303 жыл бұрын
Regarding the first bit, I saw someone say it should be called “your sexual debut” instead of losing virginity and I much prefer it lol
@Alias_Anybody3 жыл бұрын
I mean you can also loose your shackles, weight off your shoulders or a burden in general.
@dinodare16053 жыл бұрын
@@Alias_Anybody But shackles are negative. Virginity is neutral.
@Josep_Hernandez_Lujan3 жыл бұрын
@@dinodare1605 Shackles can be positive. Very positive
@Romanticoutlaw3 жыл бұрын
I think it's weird to consider a peepis in a hoohah (or any other combination) so significant that it fundamentally changes something about you as a person. At most, to me, it's more like.. using a plate rather than chewing a piece of gum or whatever. You'd have to really do some damage to a plate for it to be altered irreparably.
@prehistoricorchid34553 жыл бұрын
10:19 honestly, I've always considered this for myself and still call myself a virgin, but hearing it from vaush really made me happy ngl. like I hear so many men say "well if monke takes your banana you don't have a banana anymore." but hearing (the apex alpha male) Vaush agree with it and actually provide an example that makes sense and is comparable makes me very very happy :)
@alistairecase34053 жыл бұрын
I had a friend from back in uni/college that also considered themself a virgin as well. I agree with you, it was quite refreshing to hear Vaush's argument to validate this idea.
@prehistoricorchid34553 жыл бұрын
@@Vault-Born oh it truly truly dose. And like it's kinda nice he dosent fully seem to know that cause it just feels so genuine. Like he's not trying to get good boy points he truly ment it and it makes it even more amazing and refreshing tbh
@mikebiggums19213 жыл бұрын
Something about Jubilee being a 2nd channel thing just feels wrong, these are usually the best types of videos
@Ricklyplinth3 жыл бұрын
Well that's how you grow the second channel, gotta put some of the popular shit there. I think its also cause its a far less serious segment. Politically and otherwise.
@bobbobby4753 жыл бұрын
What's their main channel?
@cambriakilgannon123 жыл бұрын
I kinda cringe at jubilee videos and I don't really know why...
@marvelousTUD3 жыл бұрын
@@bobbobby475 OP means that the Jubilee video is being put on Vaush's second channel instead of the main one.
@bobbobby4753 жыл бұрын
@@marvelousTUD Thanks I understand now
@eyangamedud32933 жыл бұрын
As a Norse Pagan, the VERY CONSERVATIVE sounding Muslim woman just makes my blood boil. I cannot stress enough that most semi-religious or many religious people think that marital rape is rape. That take from her just made me get a metaphorical high fever in terms of how bad it was. Also, look up OceanKeltoi because he gives good views on what the vast majority of polytheists believe in terms of progressive ideas or at least share some good views.
@Nyanx43 жыл бұрын
_- Comment was auto-deleted, replacing some words to try and make it stick._ I think she was talking about heavily evangelical, conservative religion. I don't agree with her on anything she said, but I literally live in a city with what essentially amounts to a pro marital assault cult, and the ignorance on those matters has only spread. You'd also be surprised at the amount of _secular_ people who don't think marital assault is assault.
@karlmarx22913 жыл бұрын
Chad Odin DESTROYS allah with FACTS and LOGIC
@ometta73 жыл бұрын
Sweet. A Norse pagan who isn't a Nazi. Keep being awesome, friend!
@dyssonpitcher6123 жыл бұрын
@@karlmarx2291 10/10 comment. Thank you Karl.
@karlmarx22913 жыл бұрын
@@dyssonpitcher612 No, Thank you, Comrade
@Deemo2023 жыл бұрын
"I wanna say I'm sorry that happened to you. But everything happens for a reason-" Me: Bitch what?
@bray_16173 жыл бұрын
holy fuck as soon as the muslim girl said “everything happens for a reason” i lost it
@sunfeatherX33 жыл бұрын
I felt it coming. I hate that it still happened.
@Nyanx43 жыл бұрын
I know idiots think that that's supposed to make people feel better, but it actually makes me want to strangle them. People's ability to prevent themselves from just screeching like a chimpanzee and jumping on them when I've heard that said to me always astounds me, I could barely hold myself back from shouting at some creep who tried to "console" me with that nastiness.
@smeni94952 жыл бұрын
As an ex muslim (from the balkans 🇧🇦) ppl here usually go w the "she deserved it she dressed imodestly bs" christians in this area are the fucking same i dont know why they hate each other
@callumg33303 жыл бұрын
Shane Dawson believed in saving himself until Marriage when he filmed THOSE videos, fun fact
@Kazoo_man643 жыл бұрын
I am fortunate enough to have not a clue what you’re talking about.
@callumg33303 жыл бұрын
@@Kazoo_man64 vaush made a video about it, it’s the most viewed video on his main channel
@herefortheshrimp14693 жыл бұрын
I see you on a lot of other videos I watch and I just want you to know that you're cool and have excellent interests
@notimestwo3 жыл бұрын
I’m ace. Me and my friend were gonna hook up and I started crying. But she was so understanding and she didn’t care at all. I’m so thankful it was with someone I was already comfortable with
@TerribleTrioProductions3 жыл бұрын
I did sign a consent sheet, but that's only because my partner and I engage in a kink that removes the ability to actively consent, so we establish it beforehand. Likewise, since consent is unable to be intelligently and/or actively and clearly revoked, any perceived sign of hesitancy is to be taken as a revocation of consent.
@FelisImpurrator3 жыл бұрын
Based
@RolaiEckolo3 жыл бұрын
Yo you guys are too wild for my vanilla ass
@CPSPD3 жыл бұрын
You could have a morse code safe word that you can groan out. It’d sound like Pyro from team fortress 2
@x999uuu13 жыл бұрын
How do you define "a period of hesitancy"?
@prehistoricorchid34553 жыл бұрын
@@CPSPD XD Alot of people use the stop light system (green means your good. Yellow is slow down, switch things up, or your reaching a limit. And red is 100% stop, aftercare instantly and possible medical attention) Safe words and having *multiple* are so so important!! especially non verbal or ones you can give while restrained.
@olivermarijuanajones50413 жыл бұрын
Yeah, marrying someone and finding out yr not compatible sexually would be the worst Buyer's Remorse, ever
@YouWontGuesslt3 жыл бұрын
I definitely understand having that fear. But I’m sure that it can be avoided if the couple in question has open, honest, and direct communication about things beforehand. Whether they’re waiting until marriage, or just waiting for the right time, communication is key.
@LukeMcGuireoides3 жыл бұрын
It takes a lot of experience to realize how good sex can be based on the partner. It takes experience to realize how bad it can be too. Tying sex to ideas of purity is just wrong on every level.
@_doofiis74203 жыл бұрын
That's why you never pre-order at gamestop
@ronik25263 жыл бұрын
Virgins v Virgins is every political debate
@masterplusmargarita3 жыл бұрын
"Well, everything happens for a reason" Fuck, I hate religion. Just brainrots good people into thinking and saying the most heinous shit. That single phrase put me back in 2012, when I was obsessed with TJ Kirk and reading The God Delusion.
@katethegoat75073 жыл бұрын
I have the feeling that religious people are so indoctrinated into accepting whatever happens to them (using "whatever, it happened for a reason" as a coping mechanism) that when they use their in-group methods for dealing with negativity they don't even realize it may sound condescending to others
@phanatic2153 жыл бұрын
Vaush brought up a good point. She's so devout but she doesn't cover her hair. This isn't on her, it's on the indoctrination she had implanted in her.
@wehavebiscuits3 жыл бұрын
@@phanatic215 nah, her personality outside religion is terrible too. You can see the smug condescending attitude and her just being there to push her own views, not interested in hearing the views of others. I don't understand how anyone can watch this video and think that she has any kind of good intent.
@phanatic2153 жыл бұрын
@@wehavebiscuits word. I watched it on their KZbin, and she does look down her nose at those people that lost their virginity, especially the girl that went through coerced sex and a sexual assault. It seems that these type of religious people only have fire and brimstone to rely on for their beliefs. My neighbor is a pastor but he's not like this woman in the video. He lives a virtuous life and doesn't look down on people that may be sinners(which he definitely could do with me, because I like my drinking, drugs, sex)
@weebwarrior97273 жыл бұрын
I was spoiled on the “everything happens for a reason” thing by reading comments and it still hit like a fucking train. Taking me back to my reddit atheist teenager days, boutta start talking about religion being the worst thing humans ever invented
@fotnite_3 жыл бұрын
I think you mean second worst, because the worst thing invented would be scat porn
@weebwarrior97273 жыл бұрын
@@fotnite_ true, but teenager me did not know about scat porn until after the worst of my reddit atheist days
@katyungodly3 жыл бұрын
I mean religion has caused the most deaths. Probably more than scat porn lmao.
@LukeMcGuireoides3 жыл бұрын
Religion is still at the top of my list
@weebwarrior97273 жыл бұрын
@Scott Covert first off, you’re right we all still talk about scat porn all the time. Also, you used a double negative my guy
@markmajor63063 жыл бұрын
“Kinda consensual” is a dangerous game these ladies play.
@sasandbernard78622 жыл бұрын
As an ace, “STOP TRYING TO FUCK ME AND GIVE ME MY LUNCH BOX” is incredibly iconic
@jumbospicybigdad3 жыл бұрын
Lots of ace people are in polyamarous relationships. They realize "hey i can't fill this need, so my partner needs someone else to fill that need and be happy". Polyamory prooves its basedness yet again.
@Romanticoutlaw3 жыл бұрын
👏 there's this unhealthy expectation in western culture that your romantic partner should be able to meet all needs for you, from being your best friend to your therapist to the perfect match in bed, when no one can be all of that for anyone. Polyamory is pog
@aperson42873 жыл бұрын
Polyamory is awesome. I'm not personally into it but if it's your thing that's awesome.
@jackieAZ3 жыл бұрын
I’m not a fan of it, but I’m happy for people who practice it
@dcmarvelcomicfans94583 жыл бұрын
Polygamy is disgusting
@Romanticoutlaw3 жыл бұрын
@@dcmarvelcomicfans9458 why?
@bensanford9693 жыл бұрын
So glad i subscribed to the vaush pit
@foaarmedforces41752 жыл бұрын
Sued it will the post of an an article AmericansAmerican and company the the company in to a a complete and make the company and
@mycenaeangal93123 жыл бұрын
On consent.. get flirty with it. Tease them. If they’re shy make them say exactly what they wanna do with you. Like... If you think it can’t be hot you lack imagination.
@bibsp35563 жыл бұрын
I know, right? takes practise and learning tho to get the confidence I spose.
@x999uuu13 жыл бұрын
I really dont get how its not hot just to say yes tho
@exspensivehousescom3 жыл бұрын
Yes tease Them how vaush teased poppy.
@THRAKORZOD3 жыл бұрын
You get flirty and then they say that you sexually harassed them
@Fantallana3 жыл бұрын
@@THRAKORZOD you sound like a sexual harasser who’s mad about the Me Too movement. :-) don’t sexually harass people.
@BehindTheMustche3 жыл бұрын
What about a game show where there’s like 9 male non virgins and 1 virgin and they have to all figure out who the virgin is but PLOT TWIST they’re all virgins
@pogo80503 жыл бұрын
You should email them cause this is genius
@santiagovarela41093 жыл бұрын
It would ens istantly, they would all say they got the virgin out in the first round because they think that if they end it they win
@AH-vm8yo3 жыл бұрын
Wasn't there a gameshow like that but they were told all the other guys were gay and they were the secret straight guy even though they were all straight.
@TheSlipperyNUwUdle3 жыл бұрын
@@AH-vm8yo I think that was a post floating around tumblr. Lol I unironically want to see that though.
@TheSlipperyNUwUdle3 жыл бұрын
@@AH-vm8yo wait, now that I think about it, I think there was a show about figuring out who the gay guy was but it’s lost media now. 🤔
@msbeccafae3 жыл бұрын
TW: SA When I filed my police report for my assault I had no idea what I was getting into. I was crying in the ER at like 3 AM and there were three male police officers around me basically interrogating me about what happened when it was hours before. It was honestly horrible and really traumatic. Fortunately, the detective who actually worked on my case was really great and he supported me a lot throughout the process. I was really worried because I'm a trans woman and that never came up or was an issue with the police. However, it required a lot of work on my end. Multiple meetings, having a wire-tapped phone call (where the perpetrator basically admitted that it happened), and more. Then my case got thrown out for "lack of evidence..." Our system is so fucked with these cases.
@AD-cc7bj Жыл бұрын
What country are you in
@sethdrake75513 жыл бұрын
this girl is literally a living example of just how incredibly wrong Pascal's Wager is
@mattsullins38183 жыл бұрын
That was one of the main issues with Pascal’s wager I learned about in a philosophy class. Accepting a religion like that makes you devalue humans because everyone “deserves to be tortured” because of original sin. Accepting something like that could also cause you to miss out on life
@SindriMjolnir3 жыл бұрын
@@mattsullins3818 not to mention the bias within the wager, as it already kind of assumes you’ve got the right deity in mind and just ignores the fact that there are thousands of gods within human mythology and that quite a few of them are rather jealous.
@katyungodly3 жыл бұрын
Shortly after becoming an atheist, I was still afraid of being wrong and going to hell. When I learned about Pascal's Wager, I instantly lost my fear of hell. It's such a lame argument. 1) there are tons of gods and hells to be wrong about. It presents a false dichotomy of "my God, or no God". In reality it is "one of these infinite number of gods or no god. Good luck picking the right one!" They can't all be right, but they can all be wrong. 2) it assumes that God would accept you pretending to believe in it just to hedge your bets and avoid hell.
@sianash23 жыл бұрын
As someone who was abused as a child, the whole “it happened for reason” logic truly irks me, I’m not for it and I think it’s pretty gross
@LightGlyphRasengan3 жыл бұрын
I've realized in the past I've pressured someone into intimacy, and knowing what I know now I'm pretty disgusted with myself. Its never good to be that person, but its good to learn from it if you ever were
@shan81303 жыл бұрын
I was on the receiving end of that kind of dynamic, and about 4 years later I reached out to him and he profusely apologized without me even saying anything. He really showed me that he understood what he did wrong and actively changed. I cannot tell you how much that meant to me. It was wrong what he did, but I also recognize that sometimes you do shit because you actually genuinely don’t realize that what you’re doing is wrong and the grey area of coercion makes the dynamic dicey. So what I want to you say to you is: thank you for owning what you did and not beating around the bush. Even more so, thank you for changing your behavior. It takes a really stand up person to own their shit and change into a better person.
@LightGlyphRasengan3 жыл бұрын
@@shan8130 thanks for that, really thanks. I hope you meet someone nice whom treats you with all the respect 😁
@jalengayfield3915 Жыл бұрын
I have a lot of the same types shame just from being ignorant I try not to cringe but I chill
@LightGlyphRasengan Жыл бұрын
@@jalengayfield3915 yeah! Be chill 💖
@fari94223 жыл бұрын
IVE GONE TO SCHOOL WITH THE GIRL IN THE YELLOW SUIT FOR FIVE YEARS SHE ACTS LIKE THIS IRL
@chewychibi032 жыл бұрын
Please explain more lol
@sacrilegioussasquatch Жыл бұрын
TELL US MORE PLEASE
@Gingersnaps_the_pumpkin_kitty3 жыл бұрын
The Muslim girl seems awful braggy about it, like either it's not just for her religion and its for ego or she's lying about being a virgin and this is her way of making up for that insecurity. Those are the two types of religious people I've seen act like this about sex.
@jonkick92213 жыл бұрын
Religion isn't complicated, it's just dumb 🤷♀️
@cryingcrane81733 жыл бұрын
I mean, the mythology and stories can be really complicated, meaningful, thematic and cool! But the moral systems they try to construct are just poopoo.
@gulfgiggleanimations44723 жыл бұрын
Saving yourself for marriage? Nah, I’m on that saving myself FROM marriage, haha wife bad, click book.
@Occam313 жыл бұрын
Imagine thinking a god cares whether you have sex prior to marriage. It’s so silly.
@alliandrablack77513 жыл бұрын
For most Abrahamic religions, god is both a mortally incomprehensible being beyond time and existence itself, but also a tempermental, insecure baby that will rescind its limitless love and affection if you eat the wrong kind of food or wear a skirt that's too short.
@alhasanmohammed41263 жыл бұрын
That's the point of religion people believe that Quran, bible and others are the word of God so they are obligated to follow it Religion is not just spiritual it's a life style
@colt98363 жыл бұрын
@@alliandrablack7751 Ikr lmao. God is both an omnipotent and omniscient being, the Creator of All and the Bringer of the End. BUUUUUT His plans are ruined when boys kiss, when people have sex before marriage, and when women have abortions.
@noone87853 жыл бұрын
"sex is like boxing" float like a butterfly, stings when I pee
@solexxx85883 жыл бұрын
The Muslim girl is not having sex because she wants to prevent her family from disowning her or worse. Sad.
@macaron31415926533 жыл бұрын
to be fair, she never said her family would do that, it was more so pressure from her community, but honestly, In America, you could have sex and no one needs to find out.
@justsomeguy28253 жыл бұрын
Maybe I'm biased as a demisexual person, but I've always seen value in establishing relationships before getting into sexual relationships, because knowing what each other likes overall makes sex better, as do repeated sessions, compared to one night stands with different people. Also reduces spread of disease. That isn't a mean to say that people can't have casual sex if they want to, it should be a free world. But overall, marriage is still an arbitrary concept, so where's the value in saving yourself till then?
@chembabe82643 жыл бұрын
Right saving herself for some dude that will cheat on her because they aren't sexually compatible and her religion forcing her to stay with him and live through martial rape while he is drunk.... yeah i think people should do as these people, but yikes. Being forced one way seems ridiculous.
@kyre41893 жыл бұрын
Jesus
@dcmarvelcomicfans94583 жыл бұрын
It's basically to build an emotional, mental, and psychological connection with someone
@gaybatgosqueak2 жыл бұрын
I'm Demi too, but it's good to have sex with a partner before marrying them, irregardless. If you've never had sex you probably don't know what you like with a partner. What if your partner has a really high sex drive and you don't. Then you're married and one partner wants to have sex and you don't, and then your relationship may suffer because of your sexual incompatibility.
@bobbirdsong68252 жыл бұрын
well think about it this way. if you play a game with someone you know well, especially one that's cooperative, it'll probably be better than playing with a rando, but that doesn't mean it can't be fun or valuable with the rando. you might even make a new friend that way :)
@TheProphessionalGeek3 жыл бұрын
The people fetishizing taking somebody’s virginity are like the people that comment “FIRST”
@mothman46723 жыл бұрын
“Do you want the cookie”
@iankellymorris3 жыл бұрын
As a card-carrying member of the Virgin Lips Club, I can attest to the fact that more conservative language always exists to facilitate purity testing.
@roobard27003 жыл бұрын
22:26 I mean... I have blue hair and I grew up in a tiny conservative town. So you're not really wrong.
@kristinajones10663 жыл бұрын
Brethren!!! I've had blue hair for over 2 years now, which, to be honest lines up almost too well with leaving my hometown and coming out
@Robin-gq3cj3 жыл бұрын
i had blue hair up until like two days ago and I was just about to say I came from a big city, but my hair's green now lmao
@TheSlipperyNUwUdle3 жыл бұрын
I grew up in a smallish conservative town and I usually have either purple or pink pixie cut hair. Lol I get a lot of compliments though. So I guess we’re not THAT conservative. If anyone doesn’t approve they don’t say it to my face. 🤷♀️
@sayrahjohans35593 жыл бұрын
I had so many of my moms bad ideas about sex that when i had sex i had to spend a significant amount of time thinking on how it went down to realize that i did want to have sex and wasn't just doing it "for the positive attention" from the guy.
@gabriellegoodwin44223 жыл бұрын
I hate talking to religious people because of how incapable they are of saying "that's awful, that shouldn't have happened to you, but you're get through it because you're strong" they'll just tell me about how it happens for a reason, god will help me through it, and was it really that bad? we need to be more compassionate to people yes even your abusers no I'm not joking. I'm so tired.
@SemiIocon3 жыл бұрын
I wasn't ready for the amount of rape culture in that one. Oof.
@thierrydubuc94903 жыл бұрын
If you partner gets raped, would you accuse them of cheating? Makes no sense.
@Birthnote3 жыл бұрын
16:13 Sadly a lot of people think asking during intimate moments are absolute turnoffs. That's horrendous, nothing wrong with asking.
@justalostlocal3 жыл бұрын
Because they and the media lack the imagination to make it hot. Asking for consent could be at first embarrassing, but through joking or teasing in a flirty way asking can be hot af and establish a good mood too. Or you know just get good at dirty talks and stuff, although for that it's better to know the person well beforehand.
@Stevies_Precog_Gym_n_Spa4203 жыл бұрын
@@justalostlocal it doesn't need to be hot. Hotness is secondary in importance to consent. Consent is vital, even if it ruins the potential for sex. That's what we should be drilling into people's heads. When you integrate things into "play" people take it or leave it. "Play" includes experimenting with boundaries and comfort, joking or teasing, etc, but it also implies creating a space where the amount of permissiveness to someone else's actions are kind of amorphous and in the process of being determined, so it's best to get consent WAY before anything starts. When getting consent is part of the conditions for even beginning play then all is good. Hotness is the afterthought. Eros doesn't trump nomos no matter the circumstances.
@justalostlocal3 жыл бұрын
I kinda assumed it's common sense to talk about consent and what you and the other party likes before sex, so my previous comment is exactly about how to communicate clear consent before the play/sex begins. But yeah I agree that consent should be put above anything else. If a person is so easily turned off by the other being considerate even if in an awkward manner, in my opinion that person isn't even worth having such intimate experience with.
@devlin47953 жыл бұрын
Right?? But communication and understanding makes everything better
@Romanticoutlaw3 жыл бұрын
to me that just smacks of "if I don't give them an opening to say no, I get to assume it's a yes and get what I want". Makes my skin crawl.
@WyanoPenna3 жыл бұрын
I believe in freedom, so if people want to, like me, that's great. If people don't, that's fine too.
@ThePsychoRenegade3 жыл бұрын
I think too much power is given to the act of losing it. The concept of virginity just doesn't matter, or shouldn't matter.
@deechonada3 жыл бұрын
@@ThePsychoRenegade i think you can say that from your perspective but from a religious person's perspective it definitely could matter
@draconariusking83283 жыл бұрын
“Save yourself for marriage!” I don’t think my hand got the memo! 😂
@ryanphoenix24603 жыл бұрын
0:10 "Is the idea of virginity outdated?" Me: Always has been.
@Kino_the_Crusty3 жыл бұрын
tbh i've always taken asexual to be like homo or hetero, a focus on **who** you are attracted to. when i was 21 and still wondering "when do people realize they are straight/gay?" was a p big sign. many either fall into heteroormative roles or like me, was assumed gay until proven straight. everyone assumed i was just hardcore in the closet since i never "admitted" to being gay
@renaigh3 жыл бұрын
did Mary save herself for God? then there's your answer.
@renaigh3 жыл бұрын
Watch out for God's unwanted advances.
@mothh76003 жыл бұрын
Did God wait till marriage? 🤔
@renaigh3 жыл бұрын
@@mothh7600 no
@bolshevikY2K3 жыл бұрын
Don't do conservatism, kids.
@DukeDukeGo3 жыл бұрын
I read recently that the biological purpose of the hymen is to protect against infections from fecal matter, especially as babies. At that point it's harder and becomes more elastic with age and with puberty when the inner organs grow infection becomes less likely.
@mackenziegoodwin4593 жыл бұрын
Interesting! I had never thought about a biological purpose for the hymen, but that makes sense. The concept of "virginity" being dependent on it is incredibly arbitrary, too-- it can break at any time just by doing ordinary things. I knew girls who wouldn't use tampons because they were afraid it would break their hymens and that would mean they weren't virgins anymore! So wild.
@zotaninoron35483 жыл бұрын
Why is the religious prescriptivist Muslim tempting me with her hair?
@seanhayes19963 жыл бұрын
I read the title as "Should You Save Yourself FROM Marriage?" ... Then I laughed because I read it wrong... then I cried because my mis-read hits closer to home than the video's actual title. Point is, the ONLY things marriage is good for are prenuptials, alimony, split assets, divorce lawyers, court cases, split visitation rights and unending amounts of misery.
@medtle13 жыл бұрын
*Nico being worried his parents will see the video is just another example of an Asian child fearing what their Asian parents will say. *Rahan's socially conservative upbringing is likely a combination of growing up Muslim, female, and Asian (South Asian in her case). [Also, very likely she has only been judged for being a virgin by people that are neither Asian, SWANA, nor Muslims and praised for being a virgin by Asians and Muslims.] *It is very telling that the female panelists have a lot more to say about how toxic the concept or virginity and over-valuing virginity are than the male panelists. It just further shows how gendered the concept of virginity is and how much more toxic it is toward women and girls than toward men and boys. This wasn't the worst Jubilee Middle Ground panel, but it wasn't the best either. At least that panel didn't have a bunch of trolls trying to constantly overpower and sealion the reasonable people.
@meganvincent53813 жыл бұрын
Blue haired girl is based. No suprise
@TW0RAND0MW0RDS3 жыл бұрын
I've been saving myself for this jubilee segment, ay yo!
@jo0rd733 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately in Ireland we actually do also have a word for someone who hasn’t kissed before: “a fridget”
@kristinajones10663 жыл бұрын
Vaush calling me out with the comment about blue haired girls in tiny conservative towns (22:30) I mean.. not wrong though
@gordbert3 жыл бұрын
Jubilee is wet garbage but it makes good reactbait
@ThePsychoRenegade3 жыл бұрын
I think they try to get varying views but the people who sign up for these videos aren't the most knowledgeable, well spoken people.
@Stevies_Precog_Gym_n_Spa4203 жыл бұрын
@@ThePsychoRenegade and thereby they make the concepts they're discussing useless as a topic for a video, because if you get someone who says "war bad" and someone else says "war good tho" and then it arrives at "we agree to disagree!" have you actually moved the discourse at all or have you just generated clicks.
@wehavebiscuits3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I can't believe there wasn't more pushback against the conservative girl. Also, people who attend Jubilee are usually pretty stuck up and overly politically correct
@ThePsychoRenegade3 жыл бұрын
@@Stevies_Precog_Gym_n_Spa420 I really think it's more about presenting the various viewpoints then it is about discourse, and it still only sort of accomplishes that.
@glenagarrett47043 жыл бұрын
Agree. Every Jubilee panel I've seen has seemed suspiciously semi-scripted, like someone has to hit this point, this point, this point. No confidence here that their panels are genuine.
@blackmage12763 жыл бұрын
In Canada you're taught about consent in sex ed at grade 9 and ITS MANDATORY! US, ITS NOT THAT HARD! Its very simple, it takes 15 minutes to explain! Its so important
@moryrie3 жыл бұрын
ace enby totally feeling the ace person's mood here. :| esp the judged bit
@CHClNOfullmelt3 жыл бұрын
I don't have sex because I work 11-12 hours a day, 6 (and a half) days a week and I'm tired of life, how do you call that?
@chembabe82643 жыл бұрын
😂😂 my bf works at least that. He sometimes comes home to a joint and me naked and that usually works 😂 sorry i feel because this is my life and i adore how hard he works
@gwelwynn3 жыл бұрын
Prolcel
@CHClNOfullmelt3 жыл бұрын
@@chembabe8264 yeah that will do it for sure, keep it up! I get home to a joint and the homeless man living in the ally in front of my house who's sometimes naked. Don't feel bad for your bf anyway, it's not your fault
@Nyanx43 жыл бұрын
Exhausted.
@marvelousTUD3 жыл бұрын
The industrial revolution and its consequences.
@Dilettante153 жыл бұрын
Damn, blue hair girl is cool as hell, so many good takes.
@internetdrifter38563 жыл бұрын
This is one of the reasons I like polytheistic religions, their attitude towards things like sex and relationships Are basically “eh, when ever you’re ready” which is a message i think should be taught more often :)
@colt98363 жыл бұрын
Most polytheistic religions have a literal deity of love and romance. So all love, unless it's rape, is blessed under their name. There's a reason why Lady Aphrodite was born an adult.
@cactuscurator2 жыл бұрын
@@colt9836 Greek mythology is not the best at healthy sex though, most gods were rapists.
@blaireofhylia15723 жыл бұрын
I was raised to save myself and believed I'd go to hell if I didn't. I also believed I'd go to hell if I hung out with other teenagers doing horrible things like skateboarding and listening to music. I'm now 31, single, and unable to say hi to people. Yay for being pure? Kill me. (Granted I didn't go to church, my relationship with god was in my head exclusively, I'm sure if I cared enough to go to church I would have been a popular cult member with marriageable candidates, but church just sounded sooooo boring.)
@PascalbigT3 жыл бұрын
Asexuals are valid, please stop excluding and dismissing their range of wants, proclivities, & relationships
@nienkehuijbens3013 жыл бұрын
Based
@soryaaza73623 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it's awful to unravel the mindset behind purity culture. I grew up in a pretty catholic conservative household, I didn't learn about consent up until I was almost turning 18 (I am 18 currently), and I realized so many of the experiences in which I dissociated to forget about my awful experience were sexual assault. I've heard people say that if you were assaulted more than once it's kind of your fault, but I think that's true up until the point that you aren't really taught about consent, so you don't really know what to do when you feel uncomfortable
@Stevies_Precog_Gym_n_Spa4203 жыл бұрын
It's never your fault and those people are dead wrong.
@Alex-cw3rz3 жыл бұрын
These are the kind of people who say Hubba Bubba unironically
@Lack_Of_Interest3 жыл бұрын
And, we know that chads say Hooba Booba.
@buddingdufus3 жыл бұрын
I wasn’t aware any one had ever said that ever.
@Stevies_Precog_Gym_n_Spa4203 жыл бұрын
Hubba bubba was bubble gum in Australia in the 90s and 00s. That's a lot of people saying those words.
@jadetortellini61503 жыл бұрын
Ive been assaulted, and it is really hard to like fight people on it. Can't speak for everyone but it for sure is a common thing to like self blame, or to feel like maybe you could have prevented it from happening. So on some level, you already feel like "it happened for a reason," no matter how stupid that sounds to you, or whether you know already that thats not the case. So when people say it out loud, its like you just kinda shrug and say I guess 🤷🏼♀️
@Ostnizdasht2063 жыл бұрын
Marrying someone you've never slept with is one of the dumbest things you can do.
@CHClNOfullmelt3 жыл бұрын
For real man, how is it even possible? There has to be some kind of human contact unless you marry someone on the third date
@wilhelmkreis65783 жыл бұрын
@@CHClNOfullmelt I mean that's p much what a bunch of these people do
@alicedeligny92403 жыл бұрын
If you're ace it's different I guess.
@PhantasmXYZ3 жыл бұрын
@@CHClNOfullmelt there's arranged marriages of course, but that's it's own can of worms in a whole different culture
@wilhelmkreis65783 жыл бұрын
@@alicedeligny9240 eh, depends on the ace. Regardless, someone lacking interest in sex and openly communicating that to their partner is quite different from two 19 year old Christians getting married after four months so they can fuck Edit: I reread the original comment and realized that the second part of my comment isn't relevant to what you said. Sorry bout that
@beanieguitarguy40703 жыл бұрын
Shoutout to the person in chat that said “he’s so hot” when Chad McLunchbox was on screen for a bit.
@chembabe82643 жыл бұрын
I agree on the Vaush take of save it until marriage. Sexual compatibility is important to me. And that shit is some disgusting patriarchy bs 🤮
@LiveLoveSour3 жыл бұрын
This comment is confusing
@rishabhanand49733 жыл бұрын
yeah, i saw a post on reddit about some dude whose friend was a real lazy lover. Like no foreplay or anything, he'd just lube his wife up, stick it in until he climaxes, and then go to sleep, without a care in the world about whether or not she orgasmed. Unsurprisingly, the woman was unsatisfied with her sex life. You definitely don't want to end up married to someone like that.
@chembabe82643 жыл бұрын
@@_DeathDreams_ sorry i meant on vaush's opinion
@_DeathDreams_3 жыл бұрын
@@chembabe8264 Oh okay sorry for the confusion
@jeffc59743 жыл бұрын
My daughter thought she was asexual until she realized she was gay. She was the last in the family to figure it out.
@entertain7us1483 жыл бұрын
i really do feel bad for people who buy into the 'no sex til marriage' idea. not only does it inevitably lead to objectifying ideas about virginity as this thing that you 'give up' and in doing so, lose a part of yourself, but i have to imagine it would cause a lot of emotional damage. being married doesn't suddenly make you ready for sex, anymore than being unmarried does, and by building up sex as this thing that only belongs in the institution of marriage, you kind of have to view your first time (which is naturally going to be awkward and uncomfortable and probably quite painful) as this thing that you're not allowed to have regrets or doubts over. You're really denying yourself sexual agency or the right to find enjoyment in your sex life if you lock yourself into this scenario where only your husband can provide you sex and it is by definition the only good sex you will ever get because he is your husband.
@jalengayfield3915 Жыл бұрын
Ayyye
@anzaia2164Ай бұрын
I don't understand this notion that the first time is guaranteed to be awful. That's such stupid, self fulfilling prophecy type shit. We should teach people to be attentive and empathetic with each other (especially their partners), good communication and how to voice your needs and boundaries. Yes, it will be awkward, it's a new level of intimacy and vulnerability; but awkward can still be fun. No, it won't be good sex, but it can be a good experience. Maybe it's just another blessing of lesbianism, maybe I'm just built different, but my first sexual experiences were all great. It saddens me that the opposite is so normalized, that we _expect_ it to be bad, we tell young people it is _certain_ to be bad, even when it's a fully enthusiastically consensual thing on all sides.
@entertain7us148Ай бұрын
@@anzaia2164 it can certainly be great, but for girls, your first experience of hetero sex is more likely than not going to be a little painful, and I think it’s important to prepare people for that reality rather than leave them thinking there’s something wrong with them if their first time isn’t amazing.
@anzaia2164Ай бұрын
@@entertain7us148 Y'know there is something between amazing and awful. I'm not saying there's something wrong if it hurts. I'm saying there's something wrong if it's awful. People shouldn't expect it to be _awful._
@entertain7us148Ай бұрын
@@anzaia2164 sure… but I don’t think I ever used that word. I said it might be quite painful, which is just physiologically true.
@rubykr3 жыл бұрын
jubilee really missed an opportunity to call the "non-virgins" sex havers.
@_unrulyhair3 жыл бұрын
FYI: Benzodiazepines can cause amnesia- that dude who was so high that he didn’t remember could have been barred out.