Should Your Teenage Daughter Wear Makeup? | Ashley + Amirah Chea | Couch Conversations for Two

Should Your Teenage Daughter Wear Makeup? | Ashley + Amirah Chea | Couch Conversations for Two
In this episode, we dive into some thought-provoking topics, including:
- Should teenage daughters wear makeup? 💄
- What would you do if you switched places? 🔄
- What happens when your daughter becomes their own person?
Join us for a candid and fun conversation where we share our perspectives and experiences. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more Couch Conversations!
#CouchConversations #AshleyChea #Amirah #MotherDaughterTalks #MakeupDebate #SwitchPlaces
00:00 Intro
00:25 Switching Roles
00:57 Love Most About Mom
01:27 How Did You Feel Becoming A Mom?
02:22 Do You Feel Heard?
03:14 Biggest Lesson
04:09 Silliest Rule
05:26 What Inspires You?
07:15 What Annoys You?
11:35 Before I Had You
15:15 Favorite Memory
15:57 Phrase Said Often
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[@okdenise85]

Amirah is the example of someone who is loved and allowed to be honest and herself! Good job, Ashley and Brian!

[@sn3176]

Her daughter is so intelligent and articulate for only 15! They are doing a great job with her.

[@ksgnation]

Wow Ashley is so emotionally intelligent. I love the way they communicate. I really want to have this type of relationship with my kids in the future

[@tcking86]

Her daughter is so beautiful and the mom’s justification in not letting her wear make is very good. It’s important to recognize you beautiful and have full confidence before introducing makeup into the mix.

[@EvolvingMama_]

Omg she’s grown up so much 🥹 when she said she feels seen and understood + safe !! Definitely my goal as a mom of daughters 💓

[@hearthappyvibes391]

I thought they were friends at first. She has an amazing mother and she has an amazing daughter. Beautiful ❤

[@marnita522]

Wow! This is so good! Especially the part where Mom talks about how she wants Amirah to be the sister and not disciplinarian. ❤️❤️🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@breannev749]

Whew that sister convo! Ashley is truly such a great mom!! That's such a smart way to parent multiples with an age gap.

[@sademaples9217]

This is beautiful. Love how safe she feels to express herself.

[@makedaloves]

I was never allowed to wear makeup as a teen and really wanted to but I am glad my parents didn't allow me as I love my face. I wear light makeup now and literally only for special occasions. I had friends who couldn't leave the house at all without a full face and feel like now they look much older because of it.

[@shanae_alexis]

I don’t want you mothering your siblings…that hit me like a ton of bricks. You’re doing an awesome job mama

[@mynamemeanssweet]

She is a very wise and great mom.

[@Thatgirl_Esma]

I literally taught they were the same age group. Woow the mum really got some good genes.

[@decembergross2653]

I’ve teared up this entire 17 minutes … she is so stunning but the internal beauty really shines through and that’s both of them ☺️ Ashley, you are incredible and you really see it in your babies !

[@dkalii98]

Omg me too! It was so hard to hold back the tears but at the same time, smiling from ear to ear. Love this for them!

[@luckyboozworld]

AC2 is hilarious. I love their relationship. I love that they are open and close.

[@Tysean.nicolas]

This video both healed something in me and gave me a road map on how to raise my future kids ❤ thank you both

[@Rebecca-vn8vn]

I absolutely love this! This is the best couch conversation. I feel like your admiration for one another is so evident and genuine. So beautiful to see. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@becomingnursechyna]

My mama didn’t let me wear makeup until I graduated high school and it really did help my self esteem so much

[@withgratitudexo]

We watch Amirah grow up on IG. I am not surprised at how intelligent, kind spoken and thoughtful she is. Good job Ashley!

[@withgratitudexo]

Add dad!

[@karlissaann]

It's CRAZY that she's this old already.

[@drf695]

They must be so proud of her. How lovely.

[@MysTaria87]

I agree with the mom to a certain degree when it comes to her daughter wearing makeup at 15. I only disagree with wearing it for the male gaze. A lot of girls wear makeup for self expression and wearing makeup doesn’t always mean you find fault within yourself either. This is a great conversation..

[@drf695]

The production quality on this channel is brilliant - the backgrounds, colours, sound quality, the thumbnails. Even the cut aways and split screens in this video alone. Bravo to your team 🎉

[@BlackLove]

THANK YOU! 💕💕💕 - Black Love Crew

[@drf695]

@@BlackLove You're welcome - to stand out in this crowded YT space is hard to do. This is documentary and film-making level and you can see the intention, leadership, teamwork and effort. You must be brimming with ideas - look forward to what's next.

[@DJOHLA]

I really love their relationship and the dynamic! 😍 They’re both so Amazing! Happy to call Ashley one of my close friends 🤗

[@cherylgalloway4511]

I teared up at the beginning, but this was so beautiful to watch.

[@Mindof_mia]

Idk if God will ever bless me with a daughter one day but I hope so lol. I loved this. It would allow me to be the mom I felt like I needed. I love my mom she did the best she could, I just wish that we were closer when I was coming up.

[@shirleyvelez5136]

This was so beautiful 😍 I pray and will work towards having a beautiful union and relationship with my daughter like Ashely does, p.s Ashely is my favorite 🤩😘😘😘😘 thank you both for doing this and allowing insight into mother- daughter relationships 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@stephaniejones309]

I love this!! I have a 13 year old and this was something I needed to see! We journal every summer as a way to connect so I will be starting off with questions like this as prompts for her this year. Please share more about raising older kids. My son just graduated elementary. More content on older kids is much needed. Thanks for sharing. This was beautiful

[@shaunalewis-acevedo905]

I love that you journal with your daughter to connect and stay connected. I would love to do that with my daughter. How do you journal together? Do you take turns with one journal? Do you leave questions ?

[@GoddessReese_Heals]

This was perfect ❤ my oldest girl is turning 12 and I see we have some of the similar conversations. So beautiful to see this, more please!

[@SOI-wl2lo]

Mom kinda seemed like the teen in the thumbnail! 😅

[@dawnie2302]

Please provide the link to these conversation cards. These will be a blessing to other mothers & daughters. Thank you

[@shawniet2352]

Now how is she the mother? 🤔 They look like they could be sisters… We really don’t crack…❤

[@brandibroughton4722]

So sweet. Ashley you have a beautiful relationship with your daughter. Keep up the good work she will appreciate this into adulthood ❤

[@o.f.m8265]

I started wearing make up (mascara,/eye liner) when I was like 14/15, got my eyebrows threaded when I was 14. I loved the little bit of make up I did wear and I believe I was comfortable in my own skin. I wouldn't object to my daughter wearing a little bit of make up when she's young, defo not a full beat or foundation or anything like that. I don't think there's anything wrong with teenagers wearing make up, just as long as its not excessive. But I also don't think there's anything wrong with Ashleys approach to this. Loved this chat.

[@brejayelle]

This was beautiful! Idk how they got through it dry cause my eyes were tearing the whole time!

[@akeden813]

Wow!! Beautiful duo & amazingly well spoken ❤❤

[@valeriastevenson7190]

Loved this ...love the relationship with you and your daughter

[@cheyennejohnson5436]

Encouraging session. Beautiful capture!

[@intherapture]

Love this thoughtful conversation!

[@natzg]

This was beautiful to watch. Great job, mom!

[@gwene.9912]

Wow this was awesome to watch. ❤

[@briannadominique]

Watching this is warming my heart and making me tear up as I rub my pregnant belly 🩷💕 I loveeee this mama & daughter interaction!!

[@seriahsworld]

This was so sweet! 🥰

[@edil824]

This was so sweet!!

[@Godslight1970s]

I love how your daughter is receptive to what you're saying by her gently toned "okay" responses.

[@mrsawitherspoon]

This was really good!

[@c.j.promiseland6456]

Love this conversation.

[@monicasharper46]

What a GREAT MOTHER !

[@loveed1110]

I absolutely love this! I have two girls and I pray for a bond that resembles y’all’s 🥰

[@Kamiajalise]

Aw, I loved watching this.

[@dawn6348]

9:12 i think here the mother Was not listening Well. If the little ones are not tought boundaries the Siblings are going to have Problems in the future .

[@dprince2773]

Awsome conservation ❤

[@misunderstoodkj]

I love this!

[@chayes7945]

Love all of their exchange… but the very end has me lol 😆

[@BriG818]

This is amazing I wish I had this when I was away from my people raising a daughter with no village y’all are very very gorgeous amazing podcast.❤

[@therealsockesh1872]

I love this

[@sacorsha]

This is extremely beautiful genuine rich and so great to watch and experience

[@decembergross2653]

My heart 🥺🥰

[@gabriellewhitley-harrison3496]

Can I get a copy of these conversation cards? Please and thank you!🙏🏾

[@anonnona6433]

Well done Mom 😊❤

[@jamesmarks6390]

This is what I’ve always said about my daughter. I don’t like them wearing fake hair, fake nails or anything until they get a certain age because they have to learn how to take care of themselves and love themselves and be comfortable with themselves foremost.

[@paolajean1163]

I love this,Ashley is definitely AC1😅❤

[@sheepyleepy..2806]

1:40 i waited for her to say before marriage

[@ronee8942]

They look like sisters vs Mom and daughter.

[@theblackkendra]

A fellow iPhone screen time parent 🤝🏾 I felt like I was literally the only parent who knew about screen time 😂

[@devineliterature]

Kkk lol i thought it was her friend, then some comment said theyre with the baby so i thought she was stepmom.. as a bio mom shes AC1 😋

[@ashleynichole867]

I never saw makeup as a serious thing like my parents generation. I wear it because I like it not because It changes my appearance. I don’t wear heavy makeup either. I let ky daughter wear makeup from time to time because I teach her to love herself without it but just like a little liner and shadow. Real modest

[@gwillonthebass]

Interested about the makeup comment but she has braces so…. Just playing devils advocate. This is a great interview

[@EJayMD-11]

Only thing is, the mom is absolutely wrong about not letting her correct her younger siblings. Other than that awesome relationship.

[@HarperPolo]

Her reason sounds good to me. The sister relationship is important. The mom corrects them. The daughter is their peer.

[@EJayMD-11]

@@HarperPolo correcting them when they do something wrong doesn't alter the release. They're supposed to listen and respect their big sister.

[@HarperPolo]

@EJayMD-11 I disagree, the older sister being the punisher, corrector alters the relationship of peer. But I agree the sisters should respect and listen to her as a peer. For example the daughter was speaking on boundaries and the mom said she would work on that with the younger ones.

[@EJayMD-11]

@@HarperPolo I don't care if you disagree, you're still wrong. Have a good day.

[@HarperPolo]

@@EJayMD-11 sheesh

[@Becoming_Limitless]

This was so beautiful to watch.Healthy open relationship between a mother and daughter🥹🫶🏾

[@Bribri-23]

Is that her birth mom?

[@HarperPolo]

Yes

[@OthoWilliamsJr]

Question: Is her Father white ❓️🤔

[@RemiLila]

Yall be saying Black love but have black interracial love. you know damn well thats not what people mean when they Google

[@daveybigtechsno1fangurl518]

The whole ex bf part was very strange? Very uncomfortable.

[@ChaleykiOnline]

One thing I understand but dont agree with is not letting teenage girls wear make up. Heres why. Believe me she is going to get tired of getting up 1 hour earlier every morning to put on make up, it wont last long. Also girls tend to appreciate their natural beauty more when they realize that wearing the makeup doesn't change anything. It happens really quickly. The last things is that if you say no, they will find a way to do it. She will be wearing her friends' mascara. Just teach her what she needs to know and let it take its course.

[@NoName-sp5dp]

Not true. Teens listen and obey most of the time when you don't talk down to them, explain to them, or ignore them.

[@ChaleykiOnline]

@NoName-sp5dp and they will also resent you for saying no. If it's not a safety issue, there's no reason to decline it and trample on their autonomy. Especially as it is something I know they quickly grow out of. I saw it growing up myself and saw it play out with my neices also in being told they can't wear it; they go to school and wear their friend's!

[@San-dr7gd]

My goodness they look like sisters...she doesnt look old enough to be her mom.

[@GordainedG]

Ashley’s advice 👍🏾

[@takornjang7900]

Alicia Keys “Your secrets are safe with me…” 🫶🏽