What We Think We Hate About Eachother - After Eight Years Together

[@jenna1655]

I'm obsessed with you two! But girl, I get it with the hair. I find my hair everywhere and I just ignore it 😂

[@gamergirlbri5490]

Can you explain why I found my hair in my pants...

[@AhhhSukeSuke]

@@gamergirlbri5490 my hair's everywhere, incl fresh laundry. Prolly your deal too lol

[@itsyagrlsamantha]

My friends and family are CONSTANTLY finding my hair on them lol

[@dj5180]

Gamer Girl Bri or in my butt crack 🥴😂

[@jbazile6873]

When I take a shower I usually forget about the strands of hair I leave on the shower wall (oops lol)

[@nLTwiGGy]

5:15 as a waiter, this is so frustrating because I can't do ANYTHING about it. If my cooks mess up, if my bartender messes up, if there's something wrong with the menu and the food doesn't come out the way you expect, it's ALWAYS the servers fault. So if someone doesn't tip, that comes out of MY paycheck - not the cooks, not the bartenders, ESPECIALLY not the managers or the owners - MINE. And yes it's a problem with the system! Tips need to be eliminated and we need to get an established wage. But tipping less will never change that. 90% of the time, the server is just the messenger of bad news, and they are the ones punished for any mistakes in the restaurant :/ If the server gives bad service though I DEFINITELY understand giving a bad tip or no tip! That's fair- if someone doesn't do their job correctly then that's on them!

[@SignDuoChannel]

nLTwiGGy hi! Thanks for watching our video. I totally understand. It can be a difficult place to be in.

[@SignDuoChannel]

neither nope, they get paid hourly and that is not deducted at all. Servers tend to look at tips as part of payable wage when it is not. Unfortunately how it works is that servers are paid lower wages hourly and expect to make it up in tips. The cooks work extremely hard and are not tipped and are paid the same regardless of if it is busy or not. It’s a dilemma here at least in Cali.

[@jaydencparker4968]

@@zen42208 No, what they're saying is that if (for example) the chef messes something up and this upsets a customer so they decide not to tip or to tip very poorly, this only affects the server in most cases (even if its the chef who messed up or something beyond the servers control). Servers and bartenders are often paid really crappy hourly wage, I'm talking like $6 an hour. Sometimes meals are deducted from that as well and of course taxes. So tips are where servers earn their income. The base hourly is a joke. I feel like most of the workers in the industry do want the way this system works to change, chefs and servers alike. The thing is that it has to come from the top down. The business owners need to initiate change and it's going to be tough. Restaurants are low margin businesses and getting restaurant/food service owners to pay more is very difficult if they don't legally have to.

[@thinnmarmoody]

I am confused. Does this mean the restaurants don't pay servers enough or minimal wage?

[@jaydencparker4968]

​@@thinnmarmoody It means that as a server, the bulk of the money made comes from tips in the US, which is why it's very frustrating when customers say they're trying to "change the system" by not tipping. The only ones it hurts is the servers (if they were very rude I can understand not tipping though). The base pay is very very low and minimum wage (in the US) doesn't apply to service positions like waitress/waiter and bartender. For whatever reason, things are set up that way. Waitresses/waiters pretty much entirely depend on tips for their income. So my friend who is a bartender, for example, is often thrown on bad shifts during the day time and recently she went home after 5 hours of working the bar and only made $40 that day because few people come in during the day -thus no tips really.

[@luluminh3588]

OMG!!! The hair is so relatable! My boyfriend nags me about it all the time! Like what am I supposed to do?? Walk around with a vacuum cleaner?? 😂

[@juliettehamelle1747]

My brother used to because we shared a bathroom growing up and now he has long hair too (man bun), so he can relate. He's worse than me because I occasionally clean up haha, but yeah they just need to experience it :)

[@ygardner214]

Hahaha! I can sympathize with you Ellen my hair falls out everywhere. I try my best to sweep it up after I brush my hair but more falls while I’m sweeping. 🙈😂

[@SignDuoChannel]

Yvonne Gardner hahaha the struggle right! 😅

[@jbazile6873]

Her quietly: Pat my shoulder :D Him: *I N T E N S E S M A C K S* I don't know why that made me laugh so hard

[@gabriellahafner3823]

Y’all need to get married!! You’re so cute together

[@jamieg2427]

Either way. They've been together for so long and in my opinion that's just as legitimate as marriage. Ceremonies are nice, but they aren't for everyone.

[@beccah8671]

but there are legitimate legal reasons though for marriage. maybe not a ceremony but just in city hall

[@Lolodasimpson]

Jamie G but what if one of them gets hurts and can’t decide for themselves at the Time if they are legally married then the wife/husband can make the best decision for each other instead of a cousin or nephew doing it

[@duhdug821]

Jamie G there is also a law called common law, that means after a certain number of years you are legally married, not sure what states do it besides Texas and I think the number of years you have to be dating is also different

[@jenwombatexcelsior]

Pressuring strangers to marry will erase the odds of it ever happening. A good idea has to be felt like it originates from the people involved. And we're not involved. Not dissing you, OP...you're not the only one, you're not the first...but as someone who's had that pressure on them throughout the years...it's not a good idea to hammer it over someone's head what you want them to do with their lives.

[@rolandovillalobos1164]

As a bro with long hair, I understand

[@alyssazagajowski2565]

I’m a nurse and I’m trying to learn some ASL that would be helpful when caring for deaf patients. Could you guys maybe do a video on some medical terminology signs that would be helpful? I love watching your videos!! Some signs to know that would be helpful would be: bathroom, pain, medication, allergies.. etc. also, are there different signs for organs? Or do you just finger spell them? Oh! And what’s the sign for nurse and doctor? Lol

[@daryaheyko47]

Lifeprint (a channel on KZbin) have a bunch of medical terminology videos that you can check out (first one: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaCmaHuvm9NpkKc) or you can go to the dictionary on their website www.lifeprint.com/.

[@brianmcneely5628]

I just started watching you guys videos . I used to hear but now deaf but got a cochlear on one side yea i can hear but on one side but if i have it off can't hear but I'm trying learn sign language. So I'm learning from watching you guys. Thanks

[@gabriellasolis2518]

It blows my mind when y’all talk y’all look at each other in the eyes and still know what each other is saying 🤯 if that makes sense

[@OnyinyeNwokorie]

The working on the car late at night...just dawned on me. I was like why would he be working on a car at night?! It’s because he can’t even hear anything! I really love your channel! I’m learning so much. Huge fan of deaf culture and you both are so fun to watch!

[@allisoncole1616]

I had to pause this video to leave a comment about how freaking gorgeous you are Ellen!!! You’re glowing!!! Ryan- not too bad yourself 😂👍🏻

[@SignDuoChannel]

Allison Cole haha you are the best! 😁🤟💕

[@junebugsjukebox]

honestly! they’d make really cute kids let’s be honest 🥰

[@jaybeebabee]

Yes, she is absolutely beautiful 🤩 And I like her style. I think I‘ll try her look myself. Same hair length as in this video and a very natural make up. I usually never use make up, because I want to look all natural, but I guess it would help to reduce the redness of my face with some cc cream or slight make up coverage, and some mascara. I thought she normally looks like this but then I saw the morning routine video and understand that she does a little bit.

[@OliviaLovesMusic96]

Ellen’s 100% right about the hair thing. If I cleaned up every time my hair was on the bathroom floor I’d be picking it up constantly! It’s never ending! It’s just one of those things you get used to and it doesn’t gross you out since you know it’s your own hair and not gross.

[@dostagirl9551]

You guys are so cute and in-sync with each other. I have to chime in on the hair thing...lol. I find my hair everywhere too. It's not even that I ignore it so much as I don't notice because it's just a constant. Like a smell your nose just gets use to. Plus, it doesn't really become obvious until enough accumulates to be noticeable.

[@lilarose3285]

lol my motto is that you SHOULD tip no matter what because you never kniwow if someone is having a bad day. Unless they're SUPER disrespectful but that's not common

[@premiumsound1002]

There is a cup on the nightstand in the background. Ryan??

[@Jennifer-uh8th]

What do you mean?

[@premiumsound1002]

@@Jennifer-uh8th Ryan said he leaves coffee cups everywhere and Ellen can't stand it. Ironic that they're talking about the cups and there's one in the background.

[@EveLiftsStuff]

😅😂

[@e.v.mahouho2956]

That's Ellen's cup, it's on her side of the bed...

[@GuilhermeSilva-ts9qz]

These videos are awesome because it shows me once more that a long relationship has their differences, and for a good living it is necessary to be transparent, honest with one each other and good communication... this works for all kind of couple: hearing and deaf, gays, lesbians, hetero etc. Keep posting! ❤

[@janek7618]

I like ya'll's sense of humor and how you get along! I'm a night owl too. ^^ And I also think about not bothering the neighbors more than my husband does. My hair gets in the sink and clogs it up more so than falling on the floor (my hair's not that long). Love your videos. :)

[@cheryllovestoread]

Hang in there! After being married 38 years, I still have to throw trash away for my husband. He leaves behind empty cups, napkins, crumpled receipts, things like that sometimes two feet away from the trash can! Just reach over and drop it in!!! But I have learned over the years that if something is important to me, but not to him, then it’s my responsibility to make my space the way I want it. I’ll almost always mention it, but nagging and whining about it (like early in our marriage) never works. And it just builds up as resentment in ME. I learned to let it go and simply manage my living space the way I want it to be.

[@teedoug5433]

Oh I wish someone told me this earlier on in my marriage

[@rlynngore8784]

I think it’s absolutely amazing how open the two of you are. Not only are you open with each other (can we say, “major relationship goals”?), but you’re willing to share that with the world. Thank you.

[@michellealexandrajap1151]

I love how Ellen is so respectful. When Ryan stalks talking, she'd immediately stop talking and attentively listen to him until the end, and always lets Ryan finish his sentence. She's very careful when mentioning her pet peeves about him (even defending him, eg. "he does tip"), always try to make him look good. You guys are my new most favorite KZbin couple!

[@jaidynfuller5995]

I LOVE WHEN HE Signs SIGNS “sign duo OUT” it’s like the cutes thing ever❤️❤️❤️

[@sof7298]

When I saw you guys posted a video I got so excited. I had a tough day today, and this video cheered me up. Thanks

[@SignDuoChannel]

Sofia Rose ☺️🤟💕

[@aetimani]

I cant stress enough how great it is seeing yalls videos and being able to see the differebce in your signing and be able to follow slowly what youre saying. Ive been practicing my signing with my nephew who's 6 and it makes it easier to follow conversations and picking up facial expressions and the difference between your signing so I can keep learning with him. Thank you so much for making these videos!

[@jenniferruth4899]

I love you guys! I’m learning ASL for work and I’m learning vocabulary but you guys help so much with my conversation skills and receptive skills. You are also very entertaining.

[@legallypink177]

I can see how both of you really learn from each other and take interest whenever one of you is speaking/signing. Its really nice to see how your relationships works:)

[@PeaceLoveAndRico]

i love the way you and your man signs! its easy for me to understand you guys, most asl users get me so lost. you guys sign as smooth as butter!!! i notice im not using captions as much, i love it! you think its a regional thing, or something else? thanks you beautiful people!

[@SignDuoChannel]

it probably is! i noticed that people from southern california tend to sign more slower and with more english structures.

[@nash0089]

I used to be a server, and completely agree with Ryan on that tipping stance. Luckily I don't run into bad service very often!

[@MMiel-mv2pt]

I don't pick up every hair that falls out either! I sweep and vacuum regularly, that's good enough for me!

[@mstie3252]

I like that you also shared how you have worked out solutions.

[@loganswclark]

In the dorm room I would hang out in with my friends, who were girls, I would be vacuuming and there would be SO much hair stuck in my vacuum after one go. I feel your pain, Ryan.

[@traceylyle5703]

I am deaf Lady , always watch of both , every night my what I think you should marry her, both get beautiful to relationship . That pretty

[@Joelplfd]

Congrats on 8 years together! I also have a bad habit of leaving coffee cups EVERYWHERE! The car, bathroom, kitchen, living room, dining room, on the floor, the porch ... you name it lol

[@pattyc4192]

I never noticed my hair on the floor until I started dating my boyfriend (now 6 yrs) he pointed it out and then I couldn't unsee it. Now, since I always brush my hair upside down anyway, I brush it over the bathtub and then quickly swipe all of it up with my hand and throw it away. It's sooo much easier than dealing with it on the floor.

[@jonahadi9092]

These videos leave me smiling. And an honest smile, not just a “that was funny” smile. So thank you guys for your heartwarming content!

[@jamieg2427]

Thanks, guys. I just finished my first few weeks of ASL class. I started using your videos to practice ASL grammar---though I watch on 0.25 speed and copy Ryan mostly (as he's the native speaker). All the different conversations are great, not only for learning but they're also fun to watch!

[@SignDuoChannel]

James G thanks James!! I just want to let you know that I’m more a PSE signer. I do not sign ASL often. I grew up with a strict English structure, and asl influence from my peers in high school gave me a style of PSE. Hope that makes sense!

[@jamieg2427]

@@SignDuoChannel Thanks a lot for letting me know. I have a lot of trouble with ASL grammar as my class is unfortunately mostly vocab, so it's hard for me to realize when I'm seeing PSE. I still enjoy watching your videos though. (:

[@sgtsnafubohica15]

My hair is to my butt and it falls out a lot. It's been thru laundry, gets wrapped up on the floor by pets running, we compared how much hair I loose compare to our dogs, I loose more by 50% men have short hair usually so they don't notice it but scientifically we loose 100 strands of hair or more a day. That's everyone.

[@Brently220]

My wife's hair is everywhere, I understand you Ryan 🤣

[@cindyscrazybookaddiction]

That’s the most I’ve ever seen Ryan participating in a conversation! Usually he kinda stays back. I loved seeing him more involved!!

[@cathy2142]

i'm glad you all made a channel. New sub here and I just watched the one where you said people take your money ryan but give her the receipt. I worked retail for years but this would have never been allowed at my jobs. I remember several deaf people that wanted to buy something but didn't read lips. My go to was I would get paper and pen and ask them to write to me anything. I would write back and then we knew for sure what needed to happen. years later I am a house wife to a special needs child who for the first several years was SO delayed even though not deaf we were told she would always be mute. (not true with biomedical intervention and b12 shots we got speech!) I learned some sign language at my local deaf and blind schools. I took 3 sessions and learned enough to work with. I have SO much respect for this language now and I really think it should be taught in ALL the schools so we can all communicate more easily in public.

[@idunno966]

The hair struggle is real. Also the car thing, my bf is a car guy too. He does maintenance on my car too so that's nice, luckily I'm a very heavy sleeper. A couple weeks ago I did wake up to the sound of him taking off my wheels if he had working on his own car I might've been annoyed at being woken up but since he was changing my brake pads for me I was like, aww he's so sweet 😊

[@katherinelacy6502]

It’s so true! I literally just leave my hair on her floor because it happens so often!!

[@casuallymelissa5668]

Ugh I love you guys 😍😍😍 And I can deffiantly relate. I live with My Man and it is so normal that we are going to do stuff that the other person does not like but as long as we/you guys work through it and to NOT let the problem get in the way or define the relationship !!!! A good tip that I like to go by and anytime you guys may have an argument or get in a fight you both should always remember that " It is you guys AGAINST the problem NOT you guys against each other ❗❗❗ "

[@azatorres5078]

I've been loving your recent videos! Something about them. Lots of sit-down talks and I love the little clips at the end lol!

[@killianlarkin1879]

I agree. They are more mature. Relatable. Evolving. Interesting. A family, not college co-eds anymore.

[@Wewhosee-im3ii]

Lol this is so fun to watch! My husband and i have been married for 12 years and at the beginning he would complain about my hair on the floor all the time and i have long asian hair so its very obvious on the bathroom floor lol i try to pick up sometimes but most of the time i just leave them be. He doesn’t complain anymore after so many years together he just helps me clean it now. Lol

[@moniquecastelli8058]

I absolutely love this channel! I am going to start college to become an ASL interpreter next fall. I am very passionate about reaching and helping people who can't hear. And also I can just sit and watch your videos on the couch and not have the closed captions on or the sound up, and that's actually really nice 😂

[@kimberlysullivan2187]

My husband and I have been married 28 years. No one agrees all the time and these little things are real. I love that you show normal relationships and how you deal with regular thinks like this.

[@jacquimg2469]

So much cuteness and honesty!

[@ch-gn9db]

Congrats on 8 years, guysss!! Luv u

[@SignDuoChannel]

Cecília Videira thank you so much! 😁🤟💕

[@kousetsuhana]

If he picks up a new project in the future, you could get a decibel counter maybe, so he knows what number is loud and can check that he's not going above that at night.

[@OurSignedWorld]

Hahahaha I love the part when Ellen goes into the garage but then Ryan really shows what she does. Hahaha Courtney does that with me too! Hahahahaha

[@stinaboden]

If I were to pick up all the hair that fall out of of my head, I would have a back problem. That’s why we don’t pick it up. Instead, we just clean it up once we’re actually cleaning.

[@Glamorrous]

The meat thing is so true! Im pregnant so I asked for my meat to be cooked well done and they brought me medium rare! I couldn’t eat it

[@graceleeks]

I just discovered your channel a week ago and have binged watch everything. You guys are such couple goals and are so real. Also your videos have inspired me to pick up abit of ASL, Loveit! Sending love from Singapore!

[@SignDuoChannel]

Grace Lee hi Grace! Wow! All the way from Singapore! Thanks for watching our videos! I’m happy you’re picking up a bit of sign language ! 🤟

[@luluminh3588]

You should always tip! In many restaurants the server has to tip out to the house/their employers a certain percentage. If they don't make enough to cover that they end up actually paying to serve you. Basically losing money. Everyone has bad days so even if the service is bad you should still tip albeit a small percentage.

[@chris_h_7749]

Dude, relax. Nearly all those issues are OCD, wanting things a certain way. You’ve got it pretty darn good my friend

[@awakeningrecordscuracao5369]

You 2 are relationship goals seriously!

[@andrewkellar5676]

I just discover this channel a couple of days ago now and I been scrolling through some of y’alls videos. Because I am in some curiosity to learn different languages because I am bilingual for Spanish and English and since I learned both of these languages at very young age I became very fluent and so currently I am not in the U.S. so I’m getting in touch with the local language being that it is where I am at is Arabic. I got in tune with it being here for a little over a month just simple conversations saying hello, where are you from, what is your name, and etc just simple question and answer in a different language and expanding in the language and I see y’alls it sparks my interest to even learn sign language as well. Each video I watch from y’all, I watch it three times in my method of learning the culture and the mechanics of the motions of hand signs I watch yalls video in closed caption first, then to understand what Ryan is saying being that he can’t verbally say the hand signs as he communicate with Ellen it helps me with closed caption then I turn it off and watch the video the second time and see his hand signs to see the motion of his hand signs. It’s pretty awesome!! Then the third time when I watch each video is like watching it to hopefully understand it pausing the video going back to certain hand motion for a sign of putting sentences together and certain words. I spend about 2-1/2 hours on a video a day being avidly learning to sign and all day I am completely exposed to Arabic so it really exercise me a lot in the language. I subscribed and I hope I would be able to sign to anyone that may come into my life that is deaf and/or mute to help or could surprise them that I could communicate with them. I know I would need a lot of help and practice to be expose to this in a hard setting to only do sign language is there anywhere online I can look for someone I can video chat and practice sign language with? Thank you

[@SignDuoChannel]

I suggest Bill Vicars on youtube, and his website www.lifeprint.com Good luck on learning, I know you can do it!

[@HelenFu85]

TBH I understand both of you guys’ argument lol. I feel like the cups vs hair argument are kind of the same, being a girl myself, hair just fall out all the time, when you brush it, when you tied it up, during shower, while you sleep, etc. I understand why people think that hair on the ground are gross, but if you think about it, if leaving hair on the ground is gross, leaving out used cups are as gross lol. Plus, same as the argument that Ryan made, “I will clean the cups EVENTUALLY”, I am pretty sure Ellen thinks the same for her hair. She will clean up all her hair EVENTUALLY, after gathering all the hair together and clean it up all at once instead of doing it everyday. And about the tipping argument, I can relate to Ryan. I have had multiple bad service experiences at restaurants, and I don’t understand/ I can’t find a reason to why I should tip the server. Because to my understanding, tips should be sort of a reward to the server who did an excellent job while serving to the customers. With that being said, bad service should not be rewarded. And I understand that here in California, servers live off of tips because they don’t pay well enough, but just like teaching your pet or children or anyone really, if you reinforce those bad behaviors, they will never learn the right way to do it because they knew that they are going to get the reward regardless. I do think that not receiving tips for bad service will give the sever a lesson and motivate them to do better the next time. I mean everyone out there work for someone, and we don’t do our jobs for tips (except for servers), and we DO GET DEDUCTION from our paycheck if we done something wrong. And that’s just my point of view from a non-server. *I recently found out about this channel, I love you guys’ videos! You guys’ videos also make me think and be more considerate of others around me :)*

[@rsh4831]

What an adorable couple!

[@Nterprter]

From a person of marriage for 43 years we are still “learning “ (growing) too. That’s what a relationship is all about. Growing together. I’m still doing thing that upsets my husband but he never say a word. Until he’s really ready for me to know. Ie if I pour myself a drink I (was) may leave the empty container on the counter top. One day he ummm used sign language as in slowing and deliberately going through the motions of throwing the container in the trash! Lol. I got the message! I said I’m proud of you communicating with me in sign gestures. I’ve been a certified ASL Interpreter for over 15 yrs. Ha. Keep making your videos because this ole lady is loosing it because I don’t use it! I’m 62

[@beckyteall8509]

❤ the channel it really shows that a deaf and hearing relationship can work 😊

[@AngSu]

We can relate with the hair thing girl. It just falls out without us noticing so we unintentionally left it just like that on the floor. But we do broom the floor like twice a day so yeah

[@Felorina]

His face while he’s holding her hair at then end!!! 😂

[@abigailr0se103]

This sounds weird but ryans personality kind of reminds me of my dad .... All of his pet peeves and even his habits that Ellen doesn't like I was like... That's my dad. The hair on the floor, the meat, the tips, the COFFEE CUPS and power tools at night😂 I love it though, I wonder if that's wlone reason I enjoy watching you guys so much

[@itsNinaLeeyo]

Yes girl! I'm so used to my hair falling out that I've never cleaned it up unless it's cleaning day. Also, very good points! Yes! A restaurant should cook your meat at the right temp, that you asked for. And about tipping, I agree. In Japan, servers make enough and their service is of the best.

[@plmfb]

Bahahhahaaa!! Men and meat being cooked "properly" is a thing! And yes...hair falling out is a nightmare! I hope there is an engagement in future - you both are precious. And truthfully, knowing each other as well as you do is a wonderful foundation. Communication is crucial and...it equals much happiness.

[@Nayomiag]

You are the most amazing couple I have ever seen! Greetings from Mexico. 🇲🇽

[@xJAMESVICIOUSx]

I work at an all girls school... Ryan I feel your pain. It is INSANE how much hair is everywhere lol. We have to scrape it out of sidewalk cracks and carpets. Pretty gross lol even though I realize it’s not really their fault. 😂

[@10OF9OFBORG]

Congratulations to both of you that know each other very well. One note, my wife and I always left the bathroom door open but only closed when someone going to human waste. Have fun guys! Take care! 🤟🏻

[@dinh5532]

The lighting in here is so good.

[@satinrandle53]

Man i have been binge watching you guys videos and im glad i found your channel ❤

[@kash1023]

I can relate to the bathroom door! Actually, I just hate it when doors are open, especially when I remind others to close the doors after coming in or going out. Very annoying because mosquitos can enter, aircon will go out and be wasted (not to mention the room will get hotter) and just so many problems when the doors are open (The biggest one is others can hear you and mosquitos or flies). I mean, it doesn't take that much muscle or strength to push or pull to close the door xD I absolutely love this video, ya'll are so cute!!

[@MareDubss]

The tip conversation is so relatable. Usually just tip 5% - 10% lower than usual for poor service so that the waiter still gets something. I feel like that is at least making a point. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@nancyp9687]

Hi. I'm new to your channel. I love how you sign while I can hear your voice.. I am trying really hard to learn sign. Im teaching myself. Thank you . you guys are great..

[@madisonvanburen6048]

The end clip had me dying!! 😂

[@SignDuoChannel]

Madison Van Buren lol I’m happy it made you laugh!

[@Princesaelenaa]

So glad I found this channel! I’ll be watching all the time now:) you guys are the cutest!!

[@SignDuoChannel]

elena thank you and thanks for watching!

[@tiffiepink13]

You two are so comical and amazing!!! ❤️

[@jeb7446]

love you two! but with the meat thing, its not the servers fault if the food isnt the right temp bc there’s no way we can figure out its temperature and it also depends on how the kitchen is releasing your food

[@megvanadero]

i just saw your routine from recommended video and i cant stop binge watching!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ this is like the 10th video HAHAHA

[@bir0725]

I don’t know if you two are still making videos, but I just recently have started watching and I love them! My comment on this one topic is pay the wait staff a living wage!!! Don’t expect them to rely on the kindness of others.

[@ASL-vd3by]

Great video! ❤️ Suggestion for hair dilemma- keep a roll of paper towels in restroom and each time you go into the restroom, dampen one and quickly wipe the counters and then the floor. You’d be amazed how this keeps the hair and stuff under control. 😁

[@caseyberry5308]

Thank you for sharing your personal pet peeves! We alllllll have them! I really like that I can relate to you idiosyncracies, and appreciate your transparancy to just be real with your audience... I get it with the bathroom door, I don't like to look at it either, especially because it's right off our kitchen, and my husband leaves the lid up, not the seat, but I don't want to look at that when I'm cooking! And he has long hair which I find everywhere...and in the brush that I have to clean out before I use it, gross! Also, my husband leaves his huge shoes wherever he walks out of them...like they'll walk themselves into the closet when he steps out of them?! I, on the other hand, do everything right and he has NO complaints about me...LOL ;D Truth, I'm a terrible housekeeper, I keep it tidy, but hate the dusting, vacuuming, bathroom gross! Peace to you all out there! Stay safe, wear masks, be kind...rewind!

[@peakaboo3175]

I absolutely agree with you on the sink having water on it, I don't like it when the water gets on my arm.😊 lol I know im Late

[@LifeOfKash.]

At 3:00 is my favorite

[@glittercrow9338]

This couple is the cutest

[@rachrbonez1335]

That’s how I am with the hair! I live with another girl, and we have a cat and a long haired German Shepard. All four of us have hair everywhere and even when we try to keep up with it, it’s hard! Like sweeping up hair with a broom is impossible! It kind of all just slides around and gets stuck together and sticks to the broom and is gross hahaha

[@amybergeron9637]

Hahaha oh my goodness oui I leave hair eeeeverywhere! My partner is pretty tolerant now though, so long as I remember to clean the bathroom drain. And yes I can relate to working in the dynamic of one of you want things tidied up more often than the other and the compromised that goes into that!

[@millibassett4880]

30 years together and my husband still complains about my hair and I still complain about things left out of place. We all have pet peeves and years down the road you will continue to have them. Living together takes a lot of understanding and patience, don't sweat the small stuff.

[@emalinel]

Haha Ryan that hair problem us women have is not gonna fix itself unless we vacuum all day everyday 😂 (which is something we don't wanna do)

[@DitaKruger]

a) Ryan’s mouth noises are so satisfying, it’s like ASMR b) While there is a larger conversation to be had about minimum wage and livability, in California, waiters must be paid at least minimum wage. Their base pay for their shift won’t change if you don’t tip. So that’s something at least.

[@SignDuoChannel]

Dita Does a) lol I love that. b) yes, and the cost of living is California is very high that minimum wage at one job isn’t enough.

[@DitaKruger]

​@@jessicaspeckman2908 In California, tip money is not allowed to be counted towards an employees minimum wage. In other words, if you were a waiter in SF, your employer would always pay you $15/hour, and tip money would just be that, a tip.

[@DitaKruger]

@@SignDuoChannel That doesn't mean we should feel responsible for shouldering the cost of others paychecks. I'm a minimum wage worker, and it's tough. But I don't think I should be to blame if my server can't make ends meet, the company who doesn't pay them enough should. Especially when it comes to large corporations whose leaders are bringing home excessively large paychecks.

[@mattbruce6773]

I am a new subscriber and I just wanna say I love your guys' videos! Learning ASL myself and I've been picking up a few words from Ryan talking.

[@Nadzglam]

I'm on Ryan's side for the tipping thing. I do not tip if I don't get a good service. But, when I do receive an good/excellent service tend to tip around 25-35% depending on the service provided. Good service = good money. On another note, Ryan, you're gonna have to deal with the hair on the floor. I loose my hair like crazy and it always ends up on the floor. My bf have been complainning about it since we moved together 4 years ago but I can't spend my time vacuuming every 5 minutes 😂😂😂 keep up the good work!

[@aliyahlucy6127]

1:45 omg I was laughing because I brush my hair and obviously it just falls out and my brother would get so mad but I never knew it was a problem

[@SignDuoChannel]

😂 too funny!

[@beitel7]

You guys are adorable! I really appreciate your videos. I’m trying to learn ASL on my own using lifeprint.com and watching you gives me more exposure. Thanks!

[@michelledaly9926]

Girl I'm your side about the hair mine fall out all the time lol . Love you guys!

[@rubigomez7332]

I literally just found you guys today around noon and now I can’t stop watching all your videos ! You guys are such a good looking couple and I wish you two the best ❤️ I’m now subscribed to you guys and look forward to more videos (:

[@miafireheart7]

Heyyy!! I think the coffee mugs being everywhere would be a pet peeve for me as well haha. And I can relate about having the most motivation/energy at night. If i want to do something at night, I have to make sure that i am being quiet because everyone else is sleeping.

[@SignDuoChannel]

Mia Fireheart hey Mia! I was wondering if you did that too since you love coffee as well. ☺️🤟

[@miafireheart7]

@@SignDuoChannel Haha I do love coffee! I'm actually currently drinking an iced coffee at the moment and plan to make hot coffee soon. Do you get a headache Ryan if you don't drink coffee?

[@SignDuoChannel]

Mia Fireheart not headaches, but he gets a little grumpy.

[@elenasullivan5693]

As a server I understand the system is flawed. However when people have the point of view that they shouldn’t have to tip because of this, it’s upsetting. Getting no tip after working really hard to please a table is one of the most discouraging feelings. It can honestly ruin your entire day. Imagine working really hard and not being paid for that work. It shouldn’t be the customers responsibility but sadly when a customer doesn’t tip I always take that as the customer is being hurtful towards me. However, I don’t think you should have to leave a good tip if someone is blatantly rude or not trying. I personally always tip because I wonder if that person is having a rough day but that’s just me.

[@stevegonzales4411]

Ryan, if the service is great, tip 20%, if they are not doing a great job tip 15%. The system sucks, but you can't deprive the worker of their pay. If they are so bad, they will end up getting fired.

[@Clove814]

I feel you on the hair issue, Ellen!

[@ceuti]

I love that he KNEW a 'discussion' about the tipping was coming on and you guys fast forwarded through it 😂 Also it's hard to pick up hair that you don't even notice has fallen out of your head when you're walking around lol Also us women pray for the day that boys pick up after themselves lol. We all had that phase but I find that girls leave that in their teen years and boys almost never grow out of it. It feels so much better to clean up after yourself immediately rather than letting it sit around or pile up. Coffee is one of the worsts to leave around because the smell of it when it starts to go bad (with the milk/cream in it) is so rank 🤮