i am so exhausted of battling on my own, 17 years together, no marriage not kids, he is avoidant atachment type, has traumas , I always fight for our love and comitment but he avoids all, lukewarm, dosent reciprocate love. Im secure empath. He never have in family love and compassion. Almost three month a storm over our life, its so taugh, now we are celibacy because I knew Lord invite me to that to cleanse. And he wants intercourse, and now is avoiding me, he is so lukewarm, Im being obedient , im also cooking for him but im tired. My partner is not newborn jet, hes lukewarm , I dont hev job so its not easy for me, its sad cause we have all memories we were besties, I know him and loved him at 16 yr age, now im 34,he 9 yrs older. Its so hard, been praying and fasting for guidance.Couple counseling is very expensive in our country, I v been realizing I even dont know what is real masculine man love.🙏
@mee7810Ай бұрын
Dearie. We share same experience
@faithfaith.294510 ай бұрын
Thank you. I’m really blessed
@TheEkimas.9 ай бұрын
We are glad! Thank you for tuning in
@beccanasasira783010 ай бұрын
Daphne sis, the pregnancy glow is real though 🥰🥰🥰
@TheEkimas.9 ай бұрын
Thanks babe 🤩🤩
@cathybt10 ай бұрын
Very good points
@TheEkimas.10 ай бұрын
Thank you 👍🏼
@kyomugishaconnie847710 ай бұрын
Great message about red flags of love
@TheEkimas.10 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching 😊
@NsiimentaMoreen-k8y8 ай бұрын
If i would like to talk to you person to person for some advice is it possible please madam?
@TheEkimas.8 ай бұрын
Dm me on our instagram @the_ekimas
@ayebarecaroline77258 ай бұрын
Thanks so much
@pearlkakwanzi466910 ай бұрын
Oh nice..i love this topic the ekimas...thank you for hinting on it...till i started dating with purpose..considering values and most that you have mentioned i now feel on the right truck towards marriage i learnt i ask the right questions and not just date fwaaa..just to be in a relationship because i was afraid of being alone...😊
@TheEkimas.10 ай бұрын
So happy for you pearl. Being intentional about the relationships you enter is indeed such a game changer.
@ainomugishapraise76710 ай бұрын
Pregnancy looks beautiful on you Daphine.very beautiful mumie. Keep glowing
@TheEkimas.10 ай бұрын
Thank you Praise 😍
@mee7810Ай бұрын
Thank you ma'am Daphine for the last bit of your point three is a great point. Probably am running away too late but God is mine and I am His.
@twesigyeamon133110 ай бұрын
Woow the EKIMAS that's awesome, however I need to understand what happens to those who face all these points but the relationship is actually already marriage?! Are you still advising divorce??😊
@TheEkimas.10 ай бұрын
Good question Amon. For avoidance of doubt, this video and advise is intended for people who are dating and not marrieds. The dynamics and rules of dating differ from those of marriage. If you experience this in a marriage setting, we advise seeking professional counseling or therapy first to help you walk through the exact issue/s you are experiencing either as a couple or individual.
@collinsmusinguzi451710 ай бұрын
Great thanks for the good topic ,the ekimas
@TheEkimas.10 ай бұрын
You are welcome Colins. Thank you for joining us in this episode