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[@simonesimmons]

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[@alezy7645]

Is there a difference in the memberships ? Btw 29$ and 7$ a month ? What does patreon only mean ?

[@dearxdiary]

Whenever I see "men" in the title of a video of simone I literally click so fast because she can literally end andrew tate in like 2 seconds and I think the fact that she has male friends just to collect data is so iconic 😭

[@monilasa28]

women like her >>>> Andrew Tate's entire existence

[@xen5917]

Tate who🤨 (it's a joke)😊

[@dearxdiary]

@@monilasa28 honestly I wouldn't even compare anyone to that bald head

[@Whatthewhat927]

She can also end those boys vs girls memes and man vs woman edits and shorts too

[@liz8986]

Tater tots could never

[@user-no9zg3hc8c]

i had this one friend of mine, and she would never ever speak about man, she was always doing something in her life and she would never care about the boyfriend and she was so happy. Everytime when i was with her and on my way home i would literally forget that my crush exists because she gives me this busy, happy and rich energy, she really seems like she doesnt have time to think about man at all

[@xitzbit926]

I have a friend who is exactly the same ❤

[@daniqtpy647]

Thank you for your video

[@BlackFairy-zk7wl]

Manifesting ❤

[@catcat9582]

What are her hobbies / career? I'm so uninspired atm

[@feyrerhys8794]

She is so damn right!! I never crave a relationship 90% of the time when I am busy, having fun, with my friends, talking to my parents or getting that academic validation but when I am sad damn that’s the only time it hits me.

[@h8h215]

talk to your friends?

[@LogarAcc]

That's 100% correct, I've noticed the same. That's why having ambitions and a healthy social circle is important. Also, since girlies have needs too, please be kind to your body and have that clit orgasm. It releases some of the "mating" stress. Also helps with not settling for mediocre men.

[@salsipuedes8425]

I know this has nothing to do with the video but please read me if you can i think im on an abusive relationship i dont have friends or family to talk to i need advice 💔 I am on a 4 years relationship since i meet my boyfriend i made him clear that i will only date to marry because my dream is to have a family & happy marriage, he told me he was looking for the same thing after 6 months in our relationship his father died and he lost his job due depression his mom kick him out of her house because he was not working i support him & never leave him alone i told him he could stay at my apartment i try to help him to overcome his depression and i took care of him and everything i was very tired because it was hard for me to take care of him & to take care of myself and the apartment at the same time but i knew he needs time to heal after one year in our relationship i finally see progress in him overcoming his depression and i encourage him to get a job i didnt want to pressure him for everything that happen to him and finally he got a job he seemed more happy and finally doing great he start helping me with the bills now we where doing 50/50 and i feel relieved because i dont have to work extra hours anymore then at two years in our relationship he started to change with me and i didnt understand why and i ask him what did i do wrong in order to you to change with me? he started to calling me bad names, making fun of me i am very sensitive so when he made fun of me i cry and he made fun at me for crying i start feeling really sad and i told him that if he doesnt love me anymore please told me and i understand but please stop hurting me i dont want to suffer anymore he ask me for forgivness and he promise to change and to be again that man i feel in love with he changed for a while and then he start telling me that he likes white girls as a form of “joke” but i feel bad because i am not white i’m mexican just like him and he start making comments in front of me with his friends telling them that he like blonde girls with blue eyes and i start having low self teem so i told him if you dont like me why are you with me? if you dont like me just told me the truth i dont want to be hurt anymore and he says of course i like you if i didnt like you i wouldnt be with you and i was okay maybe im overthinking so i trust him again after 3 in our relationship he started to become agressive everytime he got mad he yelled at me and call me bad names at that time i was so sad about the whole situation and i talk to him about breaking up because i feel like he is not really happy with me and i dont want to feel sad or hurt anymore again he ask me for forgivness and he said he was sorry and that he would change and he did i was happy again but now at 4 years in our relationship he start becoming agressive again to the point he put his hands on me he was playing LOL and i left the room i go to the other room because when he plays he curse and screams a lot and i got anxious i was in the other room and he enter very mad screaming at me what are you doing?? And i say nothing im just watching videos while you end your game and he was like my game is going slow turn on your wifi my game is more important than stupid videos i got really offended i feel disrespected and i ask him please leave me alone and he says i really want to slap you right now and he hit the wall and then left the room i start feeling depressed and alone in our relationship i don’t understand why he changed i did everything i could i try to support him i forgive him i give him everything of me all my love my caring and i feel like he hates me and i don’t understand why, then the thing that ended up breaking my heart was when where with his friends and one of his friends ask him infront of me “hey if you could marry a russian girl would you” and he answer “sure why not” that made me heart broken and when we where alone i told him i know you like blonde girls with blue eyes and i am not like that so if you dont like me why you are with me? And he got mad at me and called me drama queen he started making fun of me again and i ask him to please stop making fun of me or my feelings i told him that i was tired of him calling me bad names and making fun of me and i told him everything i ever do was support you and give you all my love and he says “i never asked you to do that” now i am heart broken we just had an argument again and he start insulting me and calling me bad names again i got really mad and i start screaming at him back because i was very frustated and when i screamed at him stop insulting me im tired of this i cant do this anymore i never expected it he slap me in the face i was spechless and i say did you really slap me? And he says dont be dramatic i didnt hit you with the close hand i want to leave him but i am scared he slap me or hit me again if i do i am so sad i don’t understand why he hates me after i support him and i do everything i could for him 💔😢

[@TheAleksandros]

may I ask how old are you?

[@HowToBeAlone]

Turn that sadness into greed. When I’m sad I just go to work

[@rukiv3701]

So true... Every time I start imagining a partner I realize I'm actually just bored and I'm looking to fill a void. When you lead a busy and fulfilling life you will forget that you need anyone in the first place.

[@dianalove539]

What if I just want intimacy?

[@TheDionysianFields]

Is this a recipe to end the human race?

[@Diana72910]

@@dianalove539vibrator

[@samuelbrown7831]

I'm a dude and I vibe with this.

[@samuelbrown7831]

​@@dianalove539friendships.

[@vwe1I]

SIMONE'S TIMING IS NEVER WRONG

[@dmvmeu7140]

Frrr I've been going crazy the last week cuz of this topic i need a big break 😭😭

[@vwe1I]

@@dmvmeu7140 same here lmao :')

[@firebird3639]

The key is to be ok to die alone.

[@fairy.yi_xing]

reminds me of the movie, "The Intern". The line that you just said.

[@deba6468]

Everyone dies alone. We are afraid of living alone

[@galileagallardo4913]

I’ve been single for 6 years now, ever since my terrible last relationship I decided I wasn’t going to date until someone good came in. I used that time to focus on me, to love my own company and try new things and it’s way easier being single now. It really does help just being happy with you life and doing the things you enjoy

[@jendertoosi]

🙌

[@cYc1e]

I'm a guy in my freshman year of college & although (like simone said) this vid is mostly targeted towards women, I feel like most of it still pertains to me. I've had many failed relationships in the past and the importance of self-value and not being dependent on others is really, really important. thanks so much for this vid

[@PriyadarshiniChowdhury]

As a woman, you'll be fine, my friend. Just focus on achieving your dreams and inner peace and you'll find someone who loves and supports you and get a chance to love and support them.

[@marystein8335]

Thank you! I needed this. I’m 24 and never been in a romantic relationship before because I won’t date people who are not high quality. Been feeling pretty down about being single but this is the push I need to get more involved with my community and make more friends!

[@thereality3398]

Your looks are the reason bro

[@marystein8335]

@@thereality3398 “Your beauty should not come from outward adornments, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight.” Peter 3:3-4 🙂

[@Itsa_chaa]

@@thereality3398are you okay!?

[@hafsa9232]

​@@thereality3398how bro felt after writing this 💅💅🤓🤓🤓

[@roselychee9644]

​@@thereality3398Some people are single because they have the freedom to be picky and rejection is in their hands - though I doubt anyone making a bitter comment about looks would understand that

[@pilly3815]

Simone, I just want to take a moment to appreciate you for using your platform to empower women, furthermore making an exclusive community so that we could connect with like-minded people and potentially help us flourish. You empower me and make me feel confident.

[@simonesimmons]

Wow, thank you! join for more in sss, its next level

[@user-dk3nq9ht6o]

At first I felt triggered by this but then I realised DAAAMMNNN SHE'S RIGHT!!!! Growing up in an Asian household the dramas, the weddings it puts a subconscious effect on your brain. Love Simone!

[@tehreemfatima-bn2lr]

In this day and age where women are constantly thrown under the bus for everything they say or everything they do that makes them happy. Constant hate and abuse from men, whether the online sphere or offline is just so overwhelming sometimes. Iam glad a video like this exists

[@hellothereinternet]

ladies i just wanna say that, it’s okay to be in the process of building your financial stability, like say if you’re studying but you’re not yet in the career you want to be in - prioritise that, but also dont beat yourself up if you’re not there just yet, you’re on your way!!

[@elizabethc5149]

I was crying out to be saved. Three years later still single my debt is almost all paid off and im on track to finaly get work in my field after ten years of trying lol

[@gailainsley6939]

Every woman needs to experience living alone/ having her own space at least once in her life and preferably before getting married or having kids. It’s a peace and contentment that is unimaginable 🥰🙏🏽💖

[@edensunsunsusnusn]

When im lonely I definitely feel this but when I go out to treat myself like shopping or going to cafes I cant feel that longing for a partner at all. As they say your partner will just appear right in front of you without expecting it. It always comes back to a lifestyle. A genuine partner will like you for a lifestyle you live in and they find that attractive. And the sweetest thing is they've noticed you for months which you dont know about til they get that courage to approach you for real lmao When this time comes i want to make sure im definitely healed. Thank you, Simone for this video.

[@akansha_ot7]

I am 20 and haven't dated a single guy, first my friends were in sh*ty relationship, so i maintained distance, now my besti is in such a healthy relationship, Literally those people are standard, Thankyou mother for this I ain't settling for sh*t

[@xxutauh0shinaxx]

i feel like i should watch this everyday, night and morning. this is so golden. thank you simone ❤

[@tcrijwanachoudhury]

That cher quote though lol Also spot on about having an interesting life. Having a hobby is very important, especially if its not casual but a passion. I think ive never had this issue because ive always had such high ambitions

[@Mellllaaaaaaaaa]

Brooooo!!!!! Is it reality?!??! I legit manifested a video abt "to be happy single " Like?!?!? Damnnnn!!! Thank you girl ❤

[@A-_-A.]

Ur timing is IMMACULATE I NEEDED THIS like I totally needed a kick up the ass before entering another obsession that I don’t even think whether I like them or not

[@riavi]

Thank you. I was feeling a bit sad after leaving a toxic relationship and your video is a good reminder to keep focusing on myself, my school and my skills. I used to be very happy before I dated because I was consumed by my hobbies and an insatiable drive to improve. I need time to be single to find that drive again.

[@selima7297]

Simoneeee this was really eye-opening!!! i always felt like i had this desperate energy when trying to build a relationship (or wishing to have one). I don't date much but whenever there's a guy on the horizon I build my expectations way too high and attach strongly quickly. Now I realize I need to improve the quality of my life and enjoy my own company in order to boost my confidence and just let myself be. thank you so much

[@absolutelychampagne]

Love how inclusive you are, Simone! I just assusemed at this point that since you are a mentor to young women specifically you'd just be centring videos for your female audience but the fact that you but a disclaimer at the start of this video to explain that this video is for anyone when you didn't need to do that is just amazing. Love you so much 😙😙

[@monilasa28]

The way she is consistent and manages her channels is undeniably attractive. ˙˚ʚ(´◡`)ɞ˚˙

[@n0426]

I love how short and to the point this is. It should be taught in schools. So many social issues would have been avoided. 😔

[@OMG-xr5js]

GIRLY HOW ARE YOUR TIMINGS SO AMAZING I NEEDED THIS TY😭💖

[@izabelasoja9417]

It's perfectly normal to want to have a partner even if you're happy with your own life. People crave love and it's a natural instinct to have.

[@_itsholly]

And you cannn have a healthy happy relationship just that it's got to change your perspective on it I really do believe that I haven't yet got it but I believe it's possible it's OK to not want to be single but it's also OK to be happy alone in the mean time and this video kinda implies partners are toxic

[@izabelasoja9417]

@@_itsholly yeah I'm just tired of this narrative that "you don't need anyone to be happy" like obviously you shouldn't be desperate but at the same time doing life alone all the time is not fun

[@_itsholly]

​​@@izabelasoja9417yeah im guilty of being desperate over the guy I crushed on but im really really trying to heal and things so my next will actually be healthy and long lasting its not easy but I'll get there

[@simonesimmons]

I didn't not say that

[@hellokaumea8315]

​@@izabelasoja9417love is everywhere, love is not necessarily in a "partner"

[@meenaxi1910]

Gosh thank you so so much for this video! It's so important to make yourself the centre. When you put yourself first, even the people around align to that energy and you are able to give more to everything.

[@chrispy7469]

It’s important to be happy alone, I’m glad you’re inspiring women. As a guy, I think it’s important to know that we need each other though, be happy alone but don’t neglect the other gender, there are good people around who want the best for you

[@chrispy7469]

@Allah_Loves_Forgives_and_Saves that’s okay to have your opinion, humans need each other though, idk why it’s so hard to say we need each other because we do. Maybe you’ve been hurt by people before etc but the internets a hard place to gauge opinions because everyone has such unique experiences, either way I wish you well

[@niharikasaxena6926]

Its not a need, it could be a want. Needs are basic needs like clothing shelter and food for survival. Wanting a dude is a free choice and definitely not required for breathing. If they “NEED” others is when you know you’re dealing with an energy vampire because self content people want doesn’t need

[@sincerelysandi]

@@niharikasaxena6926this is a great comment!

[@chrispy7469]

@@niharikasaxena6926 That's fair, the context I was on about was regarding human relationships in general not just intimate ones, I think humans need each other; i should've explained that more, men and women need each other in general; we're social creatures. I wouldn't be desperate for someone to come into my life, but human connection is an absolute essential.

[@niharikasaxena6926]

@@chrispy7469 well I wouldn’t oppose the fact that human connection is important because we all know it is. However it doesn’t have to be romantic at all.

[@loveskz_music]

I have been following you for so long, and you gladly helped me a lot, and I am in your waiting list, THANK YOU SIMONE

[@simonesimmons]

yay!!!

[@patriciaa4260]

2:33 girl oml you called me out real quick

[@cherryblossom719]

This video is literally what i need right now after my 5 year relationship ending miserably and even the new guy i gave chance to ghosted me and i was left wondering about how am i supposed to single having a guy to rely on is what i knew for so long and now i just don't know how to be by myself

[@Jenniewilde8]

"hope you find peace for yourself,new boyfriend ain't gon fill the void." Steve Lacy-static

[@IceChampakaWolf888]

Thank You for this. You've really uplifted my spirit with your advice. Much love from Kenya

[@tastelessratatou1lle]

7:10 i totally agree...ive known people like that and such people constantly want your company (as a distraction from their mind) and bc they cant stand being w themselves theyll be surprised and somewhat threatened that you value you time and spending time alone. i remember telling a girl i was friends with that i like thinking and discovering more ab myself etc and she was like ur insane ur psychotic etc...then i realised that her mind is so pollouted that she think its the case for everyone else. these people will also create problems and arguments bc they want u available 24/7 and theyll always jump from one person to another to fill that void and so that they dont actually have to face themselves, no matter how bad or toxic the other person is and in fact they crave that toxicity and theyre gonna make u the bad guy later on when they dont see you acting toxic like they assumed, and u being a healthy person will be a threat to them and they might gaslight u n shit. if someone can't stand being alone or only know themself on a surface level (and have a very false image of themself in their head) then youre gonna discover that youre not gonna enjoy time w them either and that theyll drain you. if theyre people pleasers theyre also gonna expect u to alwas agree with them and please them.

[@RhSinha5]

I honestly feel that all these videos talking about how to be happy single are making me more depressed than actually being single. I never really considered it an issue until I started seeing so many videos about it making it almost seem like I'm supposed to be sad.

[@n0426]

Life is a mindset. It’s the “half empty-half full”glass phenomenon. Don’t be too full of yourself. And don’t ever drain yourself for anyone. Know your limits and have self esteem worth and respect.

[@Ivib123]

People need to learn to be happy by themselves first and then consider dating because otherwise you’ll just have a lot of insecurities

[@tanisichunder]

please how did she know i needed this rn

[@YemmieInc]

Im not wealthy or successful tbh. But im generally happy with myself. im doing more to be jappy in my life. Being happy with who i am made me very lonely...because so many people out here just arent good people and dont care. Its much healthier to not deal with people just for the sake of having a partner. Its just not worth it

[@h8h215]

I understand why both sides are giving up to be honest.

[@smileyyy755]

simone i have to tell you about this. I have known you for about 5 or 6 years now i think. and until now i have had this unlikeness around you. i became so mad whenever i watched any of your videos. so i unsubscribed you everywhere. it wasn't until i became more self aware that i realized that all of that was happening because i was getting triggered!! because you were making me realize that I was toxic in some ways, it made me feel suffocated. it hurt my ego and i feel so resentful and rageful. as soon as i realized this, i went to subscribe to you. even though i still get triggered sometimes, i now act differently. i take notes and willingly am working to improve those aspects of my life. thank you so much simone. i really love you and admire what you do. thank you, because if it wasn't for the way i got triggered, I wouldn't have been able to even know what was wrong. you inspire me

[@marccolomayt82094]

Enjoying this being happy and single vlog!!! ❤❤

[@CoffeeAndDaydreaming]

"I am a rich man" love itttt yessssss!! This is the attitude going in today with :)

[@lvrgrl356]

THIS VIDEO- you talk so articulately, it's insane how well i can resonate with you 😭❤️

[@keziafernandes8119]

love the “think about it pookie” 😭❤️

[@Therock151214]

This applies to both men and woman, when i first saw the title I thought it would be just be about hating men…. But it was actually really helpful to me as a man because some men suffer from similar problems.

[@gailainsley6939]

8:35 One of the reasons I disliked being in a relationship. I refuse to allow my emotions and happiness be based on whether someone else is okay or not. 😂😴

[@chimsthicc181]

OMG THE TIMING!!❤❤

[@BlackFairy-zk7wl]

We're really not missing much tbh.

[@ashy7230]

lol moid

[@ashley_brown6106]

I'm at a place in life (after 10 failed, abusive, manipulative, controlling and toxic relationships) where I SINCERELY do not want to be in a relationship ever again. I love men, I think they're great, but my experience has taught me that any time I let a man into my life, hell breaks loose. EVERY SINGLE man I've ever dated seriously, has become extremely controlling after a few weeks. Maybe that's because I'm very attractive and they're scared I'll leave them or cheat, or they feel insecure about the extreme amount of male attention I get. Anyway, men ruin my peace of mind and my sanity. So from now on, I'm only dating casually, without too much attachment and 0 commitment. You have to draw the line and make it abundantly clear that you don't belong to them before they even get a chance to start acting territorial.

[@sunnysunflowers328]

You attracted those type of men. Everyone you meet is a version of you pushed out. So if you think negatively of yourself, you will only ever date men who think negatively of you as well because you guys maintain the same mindset. Women who meet good men think highly of themselves and understand that their thoughts manifestthe relationships around them

[@gailainsley6939]

@@sunnysunflowers328. Stop. This is the experience of the majority of women. Most men just aren’t great. Stop trying to put the blame on women. You can see it all the time. A woman thrives single and as soon as she gets into a relationship everything falls apart. We see this all the time. There’s something about getting with guys that brings destruction into a woman’s life. And women who think highly of themselves are rarely even married. They tend to be single women. Thats just facts 😴

[@Diana72910]

@@sunnysunflowers328disgusting comment.

[@jia7969]

YESSS OH MY GODD, Simone has finally said it! like all these youtubers preaching too hard about their men being "rich" makes me so sick to my stomach because you don't want that partner, you just want their money cause why's that the main thing you look for? You said it so well Simone! Girly girls being millionaires is the right mindset, we get our own bags >

[@eve_sy3180]

Hello, first time watching your channel and I love your vibes here. 100% truth that most woman will either ignore or be triggered by. Right now, the criteria for finding a partner to me is "is he adding value to my life?"

[@uci1111]

my best friend had like 500 boyfriends and always choosed men over me so lately i try to cut her off 😢 wish me luck

[@Arlene_witha_y]

This is also how I feel. I honestly don’t really want a relationship. Only when I feel like I need help! lol But for the most part, i love my space, my peace, my freedom! I can’t eat out solo, travel solo, spend a lot of time solo and be so happy!

[@osjosipajurjastrossmayera2010]

One of your best advices. Thank you so much

[@VilmaBaebi]

I loved every bit of it! Thank you

[@NiaUnbecoming]

Anything Simone posts, I watch. I know it’s gonna be gold. 😌

[@urrockstargf111]

i comment this on every video of yours but simone your timing is insane help- EXACTLY what i needed was losing braincells over a guy and i am absolutely stopping that i have had ENOUGH tysm

[@smilewithme1234]

Wake up, QUEEN posted❤

[@TellyTingz1000]

This makes so much sense I never freaking thought of this❤ I have to let my life be exciting

[@monimon-ee3zc]

thank you so much for the video simone...sending lots of love and support your way

[@SanjidaJahanNabila]

I really like the way you talk

[@kuromithegoat]

your videos always come at the right time 💗

[@mimi-iy7jv]

i just want to be rich. my mom chases men and i followed tht behavior growing up but now i just want to be rich.. lisksns😊

[@AT-gm6db]

Thankuuuu Simone!!!! Love u sis❤️

[@mansoor3159]

Can't wait for 200K Subscribers Simone and I wish you have a wonderful Saturday 🤗💫💓

[@simonesimmons]

Thank you! You too!

[@Sarahwilliams567]

Thank youuuu soo much simoneee

[@ThakaneBereng]

This is the type of accountability and honesty all women need. We always have excuses and blame others. Like sis stand up

[@luc1743]

You have appeared out of nowhere on my youtube page and i am grateful for that, I really need it this, thanks :)

[@simonesimmons]

Happy to help!

[@user-nt9gf1zw3q]

Thanks Simone, I fell for him and I was literally a streetdog for him but after this video, that changed

[@Nancy-ej4cu]

Such good advice! Didn't realize how unhappy i was with my life. I got some work to do!

[@starfishoncoke]

girl telll me are u really not spying on me ??? how come you know what i need. GOD ure so amazing simone man i love you , thank you so muchhhhhhhhhhhh gashhhh

[@simonesimmons]

You are so welcome

[@jrr4475]

@simonesimmo Can you please expand on the concept you mentioned at the end of the video of the barely/not even-divorced woman who entered into another relationship? I would love to see another video about this type of scenario and the psychology behind it.

[@falguniroy3075]

Mother is mothering some sense into our skull

[@suresuresuresure]

I needed this.. Thank u Simone ❤

[@stanley9424]

HOW DID YK I NEEDED THIS

[@lesyah.2775]

This girl is spewing truths

[@ishamalik1274]

You are just amazing my all Why i am like this am i weird goes away as soon as i watch your videos :) thank you so much

[@ohmygod4410]

This is what I literally needed rn🛐

[@victoriasvetlana18]

fuego as always 🔥

[@HowToBeAlone]

“It’s just me myself and I. Solo ride until I die, cus I got me for life.”

[@claricedepetriz]

you're so intelligent

[@Sofiya-bu9jo]

i have the privilage to be one of the mother's first comments, never had a bigger honor in my life

[@nylaknight5162]

you’re glowing

[@simonesimmons]

im pregnant

[@simonesimmons]

jks im not just felt like saying that, thank u

[@ajmpbangtanminyoongi]

Your timing is so right for me ❤

[@fairy.yi_xing]

the second channel is revived, can u please make a video on how to effectively communicate your needs while dating, these dating coaches sometimes seem over the top

[@GomezOrGoHome]

I stopped caring along time ago. I'm perfectly fine being single lol.

[@catherinemahoney4989]

To be fair, while Shera teaches how to extract money from men, she also adamantly teaches to NEVER be financially dependent on a single man. She says either to have multiple SDs, or to use the money he’s giving you to start a business, go to school, etc. Her message is very clear- never trust or be dependent on a man 😂

[@mattiaslp9645]

can men say the same thing about women? to never trust or depend on a woman? or are we incels and losers when we say that?

[@user-qz2fm3pv6i]

How to decenter men: Learn the hard way, and get hurt by them too many times that when you look at them you feel nothing anymore. Obviously I'm being a little sarcastic, but that's the story of my life and that's how I stopped caring about men. Got burned one too many times. Wish I was smarter and less desperate for love when I was younger. You have great and healthy advice. Please women, don't waste your potential on men, it ain't worth it.

[@audreyaudss]

I am a highschooler my friends and the people I know already have boyfriends while I was wondering why I’m single which I vent about it to my friend and she said that don’t look for love and love yourself first which she’s right i realized that I shouldn’t be looking for love and improve myself first because I know that it will come at the right time

[@emmabernt3239]

Really enjoying your videos. I'm just getting out of a 10 year relationship(I am 26 btw) so have like 0 dating experience except from when I was 16 lol. I went and had a fling while on a work trip and am extremely emotionally attached now. I know it all just happened and I need time but I cannot stop thinking about the guy. He treated me how I want to be treated and we got along instantly and it was just great but distance is not in our favor so I know I need to move on 🙃

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Thank you so much I needed that .